Looking to escalate

mallardcove · 2017-07-05T16:13:21+00:00

thinks its 'cute/sweet' that Ive never fucked someone

Are you stupid? This is the worst thing you could have done in this situation. When she asks about your sexual history that is a SHIT TEST. It needs to be handled as such. A&A or lie or pressure flip, but for the love of God do not answer honestly, especially if you are a virgin. You just self depreciated.

When a woman asks about your sexual history what she is really asking is "Do other women find you attractive?". It's a pre-selection probe. You failed.

So far the best plan of action I've worked out: get drunk, try and fuck her, blame it on alchohol and peace out if she's just been flirting with me for attention and not actually interested in fucking?

Assuming you haven't already dried her up by telling her you are a virgin, this plan is stupid. Sounds like you are too afraid to escalate, too afraid to let your intentions known, too afraid to make a move so you are looking for plausible deniability. A cowardly half assed approach won't work.

quicklogaccount · 2017-07-05T16:54:59+00:00

Ok. Good news and bad news.

Bad news is you lost some attraction by saying you're a virgin and you certainly lost any alpha appeal, which is the "good" way to get laid. Women want to fuck you.
The good news is, you polarized your interaction with her. Go, talk to her, look into being as aggressive as you can with as little alcohol as you can and try to escalate. She knows what she's getting.
You'll learn soon enough whether she'll fuck you or not.

Title	Looking to escalate
Author	ChyTRP
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	July 5, 2017 3:40 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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