So I was chatting with this girl from tinder. We started sexing, she started sending me pictures, etc.

She got so turned on she wanted to come over and I fucked up and lost frame.

I have a self imposed rule to not let girls come over without meeting them first because I've been disappointed far too many times. So I got a bit anxious and blurted 1- wasn't in the mood for sex 2- told her my place was a mess

She said we "didn't HAVE to have sex if she came over, she just wanted to chill" and that I didn't need to justify myself.

On the following she asked me something misc, I replied and she stopped answering. I decided I wouldn't reply until she did. Two weeks passed and nothing.

One day I got bored and asked her out for a coffee. We couldn't "technically" get together up-close because she'd a covid high risk case and I had been in contact with some class mates. She said we could "just got for that coffee I had mentioned a while back and wait until next week for anything else". I said well yeah, that's what I just said. And she replied she thought coffee was code for sex.

So ok, date for coffee. A bit later she messages me saying she had her period just now and she's gonna be in pain tomorrow so better postpone it. Total bullshit excuse.

She asked for my nintendo friend code to add me on animal crossing, gave it to her and she never did. Then I saw in one of her stories she was playing the damned game at a friend's of hers, period be damned.

And she hasn't messaged me since, and I haven't messaged her since.

Now, I'm pretty sure I could just insist and get laid. But I'm not THAT into her. She has worked enough on herself to max out all her attributes but she isn't quite my type. So before it was like... well, she's so cool I'd fuck her. Now she's acting like a bitch so I'm not even interested.

So I'm not sure if I should pursue or just back off.

Sidenote, she works in an industry that interests me and could be an useful contact to have so I'd prefer to not burn the relationship. It feels that if I never meet her she'll eventually delete my contact so maybe literally just to have coffee and nothing else? Or fuck it all? Need some guidance. At this point I feel I'm more interested in her professionally than anything.