I’ve been losing my frame with a girl I’ve been hooking up with. I put “plate” in the title for simplicity, but she’s been the only girl I’ve been hooking up with. I’ve known her for about a month, and she’s probably the hottest girl I’ve been with (thanks lifting). I’ve been on several dates with other girls, and had a couple one night stands, but nothing has stuck.

Because she’s been the only girl I’ve been sleeping with oneitis has been creeping in. I’m kinda ashamed to admit it but I’ve been lying to her that I’m seeing other girls, because I know she’s seeing another guy and is not interested in a relationship at any point.

The last time we hung out, I got super fucked up and she asked a lot of questions. Like she kept saying “drink more, drink more” to get me to talk and I was in party mode so I got super drunk. My feels came out and I told her how much I liked her and that shit. Later she said that she got the wrong impression of me at first (alpha to beta) and it’s because I was consciously stoic before, but have been acting more like a goofy retard the more I’ve gotten comfortable with her.

Obviously best answer is to get another plate, but shit has been hard to do. I’ve been tempted to cut this one off just for pride, but that would leave me with no sex at all. Any suggestions of how to regain the frame/respect I had with this girl?