Lowest Point for you?

barn3r · 2019-05-11T21:29:48+00:00

My lowest point was right before I found TRP.

It was the night I had my graduation party from college. I got black out drunk, got into a confrontation with my LTR’s best friend (female) at the time. The best friend tried to get physical with me after we were “exchanging words” I slapped her as she tried to hit me. We both connected. She went to the police. Luckily charge was dropped due to self defense. Same night after the best friend left to go to the police station, my LTR tried to fight me as well. Lead to violence as well. Her mom was a cop. It was water under the bridge until I decided to end the LTR a week later. LTR told her mom I hit her, etc. I got arrested for domestic battery a week after the fact. I also had illegal substance in my house that my LTR shared. LTRs mom also had our place raided.

I’m now looking at a DV charge and felony possession charge. Lost my internship that was leading to a high paying job with a great pension. Went to jail. Labeled. I’m not a convicted felon thankfully. I couldn’t go back to the house I paid rent for, because she placed a no contact order against me so she lived rent free for a few weeks in a nice upscale house doing who knows what.

I took this huge pile of shit situation and still moved forward, but more importantly learned from it. I found TRP. I now work a respectable trade. Stopped drinking and doing drugs. Sought help about drinking and violence overall. I no longer seek blue pill dreams from women. I focus on myself, the gym, self improvement and my new career. I’m still improving and working on myself. It’s a never ending journey.

Moral of the story:

Don’t date crazy women.

Don’t date women with relatives in law enforcement.

Keep your hands to yourself no matter what unless your life is literally in danger.

Don’t live with a woman unless she’s your wife.

Don’t abuse illicit substances or alcohol.

Keep frame no matter what and you’ll never end up where I was.

MajesticPitch · 2019-05-11T23:52:12+00:00

Lowest point involving a woman:-

Dreamt that my now ex-gf hated me. And that she was making out with another man. I woke up at 6am breathing heavily. Broke up with her, and had my final day of school yesterday and didn't even say goodbye to her despite her being my good friend for the final year. I feel good about it now, I'm starting to properly move on - my "friends" are now trying to fuck her. And she regularly talks about the random guys that hit on her in my groupchat. But I'm ignoring them.

And in all honesty. I don't hate my ex-gf now. She's taught me a few lessons and has made me realise breakups don't have to be so painful. And she's taught me why I feel some girls are special. So in a bitter-sweet way. She was a redpill to me. She was experience. And she's moved on, so I'm going to too. And erm yeah. That's about it. I made my low point into a lesson and now am happy about going through it :)

TheRedPillRipper · 2019-05-11T21:28:36+00:00

Lowest point was the dissolution of my first marriage. Wasn’t suicidal but did drink myself into a stupor from Friday to Monday for a considerable while. Then sought some alcohol counselling, got to the bottom of it and came back stronger.

Nothing like a good kick in the guts to get some wind back in the sails.

therymancruise · 2019-05-11T23:40:44+00:00

Lowest point was sleeping under a bridge alone, hungry, and scared.

vullnet123 · 2019-05-12T03:42:15+00:00

Dropped out of college, got into a relationship right after. Had anxiety and depression before, become codependant on my ex. Was Suicidal for months and got close to it. Shit job, hated working, relationship started failing, disappointed at myself for everything. Got dumped, stopped letting things bother me like before, and I'm a whole lot better now. Low points were definitely being sucidial and listening to my ex when she'd tell me to open up and cry to her Lmao.

Unlikely_Composer · 2019-05-12T10:19:08+00:00

I got cheated on by my first LTR when I was 19 and then my mother was diagnosed with cancer shortly afterwards. I tried to end my life on my 20th birthday.

Aymane221 · 2019-05-12T16:55:12+00:00

Honestly just being a blue pill orbiter bitch. I finally knew something was up after I took a girl out for dinner didn’t fuck her (fucked next Time we hung out). Then told her how Much I liked her after we had sex. Would double even triple text her. She ghosted me the shit hurt cuz she was hot af and I liked her. Then I knew that’s why nice guys don’t win. Now they’re just a hole for my dick. And they seem to like that better

MisterRoid · 2019-05-12T20:57:47+00:00

Don't want to go into too much detail, but I was in love with a slutty woman who was quite a bit older than me. Basically I was the typical sucker telling her how much I loved her and bought her gifts like flowers and a golden necklace. One evening I realized she had been cheating on me, grabbed her phone and started reading through her texts. When she tried to take it back I wrestled her down to the floor and made her stay there. Eventually she got up again and tried to take it again. I pushed her hard into a table and she was hospitalized for a back injury.

Luckily for me I had dirt on her which I threatened to use if she pressed charges, so I got away without any legal consequences. After that I had a mental breakdown which led me to the path of self-improvement. I got helpful RP-like information of how attraction works from members of another forum I frequent, embraced the truth of it and realized I had myself to blame for what happened.

Title	Lowest Point for you?
Author	Irtotallynotrobot
Upvotes	4
Comments	17
Date	May 11, 2019 9:01 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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