LTR, 5 years, she is not an unicorn, but follows me, cooks, cleans, pretty much RP, was virgin when we met, solid 6, sex is still great.

  1. Of course, I criticize her from time to time. Actually, a lot of things she was able to improve that way. She cares now more about her appearance, got more organized and more happy when we do something together. I was probably a jerk sometimes, but at the end she changed something. However, in the last couple of months, she is pointing out how I only criticize her, that it makes her nervous, how you should never try to change a person etc. Standard bullshit which I stopped by NGAF, but I am just thinking, how to stop her saying such stupid things?
  2. I figured out four things: if I want sex, I carry her to the bed (always) and we have it, if there is something to plan, I plan and we go, if something is important it is to lift as much as possible and if we discuss about something, I talk too much. Practically, every word that I said (and didn't have to, weakens my position). So, how to STFU? I read somewhere here that somebody accidentally recorded himself during the fight (hopefully, we didn't have real fights so far) and realized how stupid he was.
  3. Just want to thank all of the people here, and the RP community for the opportunity to learn more about things that actually work. Modern society managed to destroy a lot of things our grandfathers were used to do, that were natural or just gave results. Sorry for my broken English.