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If you don’t get side effects Fin is really good at keeping what you have. Few decade long studies in support
/r/MensRights31/01/22 11:55 PM
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Unfortunately trp gave me too much of an asshole mindset and I've had to relearn
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:07 PM
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I probably am
/r/askTRP31/03/20 11:09 AM
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Probably because Im unsure how to make a move. Feels different with someone I've had history with and is friends with everyone I know.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:52 AM
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What does that even mean bro
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:55 AM
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I like that, how would you expect that convo to go
/r/askTRP31/03/20 08:44 AM
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Just that simple eh
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:57 PM
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How to get from now to banging her though
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:56 PM
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Yeah that's what I've kinda been doing so far. When's she's friendly and nice I'm taking an interest in her etc. When she acts moody I stay indifferent and let my focus drift to people being more engaging with me.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:24 PM
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That she acts moody so she's closed off to me everytime other girls get mentioned or seen. Hard to graft a girl who's being moody
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:11 PM
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Yeah you're correct. So I just do nothing until she sorts her head out and is nice?
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:09 PM
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What's your moves for closing?
/r/askTRP20/01/20 07:31 PM
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From your experience which parts work bestt
/r/askTRP12/11/19 09:26 PM
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Hahaha you might be right
/r/askTRP04/11/19 07:56 AM
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Theory is just guidelines. "Giving it up" can turn a girl off and usually does if done too early. However when a girls asks you about it it's basically her saying sheis ready. If that makes sense. You take a chicken out the oven early you've ruined. It let's you know it's ready when it goes the perfect colour. Leave it to long and it's ruined aswell. A girl will let you know when she's ready. Honestly I wouldn't push the subject with her. Just be nice, hang out, keeps things light heated and pla…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 07:13 AM
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Feel people like you are a reason this subreddit should check people actually fuck with girls. She's a plate, her feelings are involved. Maybe no girls give a shit about you. But she hasn't just forgot, it's an emotional response. Basic shit bro.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:41 AM
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Yeah tough one because that means she needs to treated with more care and attentiveness, but at some point you lose your dignity. One of my friends had LE, the guy she fell for and slept with was the one who always text her, even if she blanked him shed enjoy him double texting her because it soothed her insecuritys. Go figure huh.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:38 AM
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Dude get your head out your ass. She asked "what are we" she wanted more and you blew her off. No shit she's acting stressed out and moody. She's confused by you partly acting like you want a gf and then acting like you don't. If you want a LTR with this girl it's you who is blowing the chance right now not her. It's not her behaviour which needs "punishment" because it's your incongruous behaviour which is causing it. Honestly you need to improve your communication skills and open her up. When …
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:33 AM
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Is this just a case of her low self esteem causing issues? had another plate in the past literally find girls eyelashes on the floor next to my bed. She was taken aback but chill because we wernt exclusive, but then this plate is acting up over something small
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:12 AM
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You haven't treated her like a gf. The whole reason she's acting up is because she wants more than fwb but you're still treating her like a fwb. If you just want to stay fwb then it's run its course. If you want a gf she is literally asking to be yours
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:04 AM
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Jesus christ this place has gone to shit
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:01 AM
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Damn bro 80% of what you said hit home
/r/askTRP16/03/19 03:54 AM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP15/03/19 07:46 PM
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Why do you want a broken plate. Ew.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 04:58 PM
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And I wonder why I stopped bothering with this sub
/r/askTRP27/09/18 04:49 PM
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Why do you guys find these articles?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 01:53 PM
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Don't know why you where downvoted, the point you made about his conviction in his words is very valid. Watch any interview where he's with another competent psychologist and his words get pulled apart and scrutinised because he puts his own spin on things but presents them as facts.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 08:18 AM
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I rate 4. That was a good one.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 07:28 AM
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Been there done all these. Being direct and not giving a fuck always works best for me. 1: Nope 2: (with this being a cold approach it's actually better to neutralise her by being honest and easy, making a "clever response" can work against u.) just say ur name with a strong friendly eye contact. 3: Yeah 10 4: (she's a plate she can do what she wants like I do) sounds fun, -change subject- 5: (depends why she says it tbh. She may be being serious or she might just be saying it to make me jelouse…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 07:26 AM
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He had enough of redpill being full of armchair theorists
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 07:16 AM
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You know the answer. Start asking girls out and learn to deal with rejection
/r/askTRP03/09/18 01:30 PM
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If she told you that she was looking for somthing serious and thats why she didn't want to continue tbis then it means you where too cold and distant with her. Texting her nicer would of actually helped because it would of juxtaposed how you where in person. This would of confused her, sparked different emotions and make her more interested.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 01:24 PM
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Just have an honest conversation with a girl a out height. She will sit there and laugh at small men
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 10:17 AM
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Isn't just calling out the blue wierd for most people?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 10:14 AM
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Texting is fine, don't be needy,keep it light hearted.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 10:12 AM
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Way to much dread bro
/r/askTRP03/09/18 06:39 AM
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Plain,stable.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 08:48 PM
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Girls go for guys who make the feel emotions. Boring guys with boring lives don't make them feel anything.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 05:16 PM
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Sweating her abit? Take it you mean putting too much pressure on the whole thing
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:28 PM
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Must be a redpiller
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:25 PM
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She likes you. NEXT! S/
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:19 PM
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I agree. Can't ghost fully because she's part of a same social circle so obviously see her again. But I will just carry on as normal. Week before I ended up with a different girl and this one kicked off heavily about because apparently I'd been flirting with her and then disappeared with some other girl. Which I did because again I felt she wasn't showing enough interest to warrant my attention back.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:14 PM
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Yeah I agree. Wasn't enough passion. I think it's because she's attracted to my behaviour rather than me. So it's got to this point because I've aced every shit test she's thrown and been heavily preselected infront of her by her friends and randoms when we are out. But she hasn't reached the point of needing to fuck me yet.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 03:57 PM
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Girls buy me drinks. And they always bring it up down the line how I'm the only guy they've ever bought a drink for and like it. Go figure
/r/askTRP18/08/18 08:53 AM
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Makes it look like she's the one trying hard to get you, while your the one with the power and less investment.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 06:30 PM
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To overt and try hard. Should insinuate it rather than explicitly say
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:33 AM
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It's over bro
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:21 PM
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Dude. Some girls like fucking other girls. Obviously there is going to be girls who prefer a guy who displays greater "beta" tendencies such as affection and attention. Stop over complicating it
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:12 PM
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But he didn't kill anyone else....
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 01:28 PM
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She aint a hb8 if a hormonal 17 yr old can't keep it in the pants. Hell I'm 25 and I can't even cook a meal with a genuine hb8 without needing to fuck her on the counter at some point.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 03:51 PM
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What logic is that 😂
/r/askTRP11/08/18 08:52 PM
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Fuck an forget
/r/askTRP11/08/18 06:07 PM
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You handled it okay. Plates sometimes just fizzle out. You stopped being an exciting prospect for her
/r/askTRP11/08/18 06:06 PM
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Wouldn't suck his dick?? What a slut
/r/askTRP11/08/18 10:52 AM
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Exactly that. My night vision became worse. One time I was out with friends in the middle of nowhere, no light but moon. They could roughly see where to go, but I could bearly see the person in front. I had to be guided.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 07:34 AM
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I personally have a strong dislike towards monk mode. The best way to learn is in the field. Obviously you don't dive in the deep end straight away. Dip your toes in, get acclimatised, have a paddle in the safety of the shallow end, and then venture out. Monk mode limits you.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 09:29 PM
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Cured me. Only odd spot here and there now, normally my skins fine. Heart and liver was fine. Skin dried the fuck out. Peeled horrifically some days. Couldn't see in the dark .Joints became tired and achy all the time. Random nosebleeds. Depression If I could chose between doing acutane or keeping the ance till it sorted itself out, I would chose acutane again
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 09:19 PM
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She doesn't care about you
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:19 PM
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Drink and study are unusual together. Just go for either one.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:02 AM
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"Redpill for years" but doesn't know that you can take a girl out for a drink, fuck her and plate her. K den
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:35 PM
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Never once needed to do any of that. Just had fun with the convo, sparked her emotions.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:18 PM
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Ask her out. Escalate
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:21 PM
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Not but it makes it a shit ton easier. Remember your SMV is essentially your survivability score. A man by himself has a low survivability unless he's maxed on other stats like body,looks,power.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:20 PM
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Not just sex homie, they add some flavour.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:16 PM
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You do realise hit girls have arragements with more than one Chad right. They have plates like we do. Just be one of the other Chads in her life.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:44 AM
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Are you dense or just a Virgin. It's a part of the long term play you halfwit. How many chromosomes are you missing to not realise that just saying hello isn't the entire plan of how to pull her back.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:42 AM
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I've got experience it will. Think about it. Ignoring her is too butthurt, it will solidfy in her head that she was correct to ignore his advancements. Being friendly with her is too try hard. Instead just be pleasant. You won't seem butthurt but she knows you arnt bothered. Plus you missed off the second part om how to get her back through jealousy. Ignore Chads arrangement? The fuck you on about you weirdo, girls talk to loads of guys if they like them.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:59 AM
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Hows it a humblebrag? I'm asking how I can turn up and not look like a wierdo
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:53 AM
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Yeah, couple of years and you'll be banging girls that are great. You'll look back at a picture of this onietis and realise you wouldn't even bother going for a girl like that anymore because you've literally done better repeatably. Takes time. Don't sweat it.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:24 AM
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Think he ment let the tour group use the drone
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:20 AM
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How?
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:19 AM
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Play social politics bro
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:18 AM
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Maxi pad is good
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:17 AM
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I used to use agree and amplify but that would only placate them for abit. Best two ways I've always found is.. 1) Throw the question back at them. Not maliciously but almost humorously because inside you know she won't want to tell the truth. She probably won't say, if she does just say liar with a friendly cheeky look. Shows her your not playing the game will also demonstrates value because you clearly are confident enough to have fun with it. Either way you end up with a mutual understanding …
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:15 AM
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Imagine this is a mental workout for you. Just like a physical workout, when your body goes through a strain it hurts. The first time you workout it hurts the most, then less and less as your body adapts and strengthens. Some days are harder then others but your body keeps improving. Same with you mind. Take in the pain, accept it knowing that it will pass. Over time, and countless other girls your mentality will adapt to became strong. It's good you are 16, means you will have your whole adult …
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:06 AM
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Upper echelon for what girls like. May be too big for some but that will be far outweighed by the girls who do like it and chase because it's do rare.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:57 AM
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Impressed with how it sounds like you handled it
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:53 AM
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Go the gym and get a good body.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:01 AM
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Mate its all the same. Some women like clean, some like beards, some like stubble. Do whatever you feel best in.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:37 AM
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A greyhound spends all its energy doggedly pursuing the hare, what does it do when it catches it? Kills it and becomes bored and wanders off. Don't be caught. Keep her chasing.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:55 AM
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Might of missed striking while the ion was hot. If you want her back, give her a acknowledgement when you see her. A friendly but curt one. Carry on making friends, talk to another gym girl while she's in the same room. Shell come back
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:52 AM
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Aslong as she gives consent go for it. You might enjoy it.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:31 PM
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Seeing each other is exclusive but not official, gray area on if you can do stuff with other people. Dating is you go out for dates, sex usual happens but isn't a prerequisite. Not exclusive. FWB is you are fucking but enjoy each others company so may hangout afterwards. But fucking takes priority.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:57 PM
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Personally I'd be scared. But still go.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:31 PM
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Huh duh some girl added me on social media I have to talk to her because my life is too empty to possibly forget about it until I see her in real life and can game properly.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:40 PM
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Just go. Whatever happens it's a learning experience Go meet another girl tomorrow
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:38 PM
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Too eager fella. Showed desperation.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:37 PM
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Eat less. Duh
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:27 PM
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Just say somthing nice. Don't over complicate. And get the fucking terminology right before you ask a question
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:26 PM
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Get a tan
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:14 PM
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Library at my Uni always had the best.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:58 PM
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Under
/r/askTRP07/08/18 11:58 AM
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The huge amount of divorce rates
/r/askTRP07/08/18 11:55 AM
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Oh my days. Escape.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 09:55 AM
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Student. Who gives a fuck.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 09:07 AM
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Probably better not texting her at all tbh. Just be aloof with her. Saves you from being beta till you've sorted your head out
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:09 AM
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Dude you're 5ft9 you could look big with very little actual weight. 180lbs and you'll be noticeably bigger than most cunts
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:35 AM
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Your scrawny guy statement is spot on. Former skinny af guy here. Still got with quality girls due to a nice face. Perfect height and a very confident personalilty. Once the body came I suddenly didn't have to try as hard
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:32 AM
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Inb4 "I'm working out but I dont want to get too big" 🙄🙄
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:20 PM
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Reading comprehension is off the charts with this one
/r/askTRP06/08/18 04:25 PM
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Bingo. An Alpha male is in control and conducts himself the way that is necessary
/r/askTRP05/08/18 05:11 PM
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That's a great example. I know in my past I've been too quick to fuck off a girl when it would of been fine in actuality.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 04:32 PM
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Honestly Redpill offers a one size fits all rule of thumb but obviously that means sometimes it isn't the case. I had one girl I fucked go cold on me, Redpill would of told me to not speak to her. Or to reach out and if she wasn't enthusiastic then ghost. But from my own experience I knew different. I knew I should ask her out even tho I expect her to say no because she needs to see that I'm interested in her and interested enough to risk being rejected. She said no like I thought she would, so …
/r/askTRP05/08/18 04:16 PM
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Can't be afriad of comfort. Some girls need it. An your "alright maybe some other time" It's to wishy washy
/r/askTRP05/08/18 03:53 PM
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Dude you sound like you fancy your sister. Handle it like you would any women. Amused mastery.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 02:27 PM
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Tbh it sounds as tho she needed to text you alot so she could feel as tho you two have a connection and she hasn't just chocked on some random cock like a slag. Seems like you left it for a few days and tried to set up logistics. When she needed a lil bit of comfort. She didn't reply because your reply was half assed. If a girl replied the same way you did would you reply? I wouldn't. Just hit her up with a non needy opener. And go from there
/r/askTRP05/08/18 02:24 PM
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Accept it and get over it. Just forget about the girl until she replies. And then it's a nice surprise when she does. Some girls don't want to text loads, they're happy being a plate. Others do it because you do it aswell. Some do it because they aren't that bothered. It doesn't matter, if you don't care it works out fine.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:10 PM
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What does living in others frame actually mean? If I helped someone because I thought it would help social standings, I'd that my frame or their frame because I care what others think - even though it's important to play the social game
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 07:44 AM
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What the fuck makes you think a women sunddenly becomes different after 28?? Shes the same,just better at the game.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 10:01 PM
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No DMs do not count.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 07:48 AM
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To one... There is your issue bro. Doesn't matter what you look like I'd you arnt approaching women. Go out and talk to alot of girls. Expect rejection. Be forgiving with yourself because you're trying atleast. In a couple of weeks you'll have smashed and then it snowballs from there
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:47 AM
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Do you actually talk to any girls?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:42 AM
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Beta bux is a guy who provides alot of resources. Not just money. You can be a beta bux through giving away loads of your attention and validation. Personally I would find it demeaning and wouldn't do it
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:34 AM
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What type of comfort? I always struggle with comfort because I often push to much
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:49 PM
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Fair enough, how do you think you turn her annoyance into desire
/r/askTRP31/07/18 08:13 AM
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But she's angry. If I set up the date she will obviously say no
/r/askTRP31/07/18 07:41 AM
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How?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 05:34 AM
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How? Done one of them but not the other
/r/askTRP31/07/18 05:33 AM
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Shallow definition
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:07 PM
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Yeah maybe she did expect me to just orbit. Thanks
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:29 PM
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Yeah that's what I mean. I agree Sarah wasn't attracted to me in the first place. So why has she got mad over not getting the attention,enough the stop a new friendship. I know Redpillers might start shouting faggot at me for careing about being friends with a girl. But at this stage of my life I have enough girls in it to be perfectly okay with just being friends with a girl if it leads to new social circles.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:28 PM
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Sigh. If you read the post you'd realise why it's not a post on how to get a girl back, it's a post asking to understand why they acted the way they did.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:10 PM
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Learn from failure. You have a safety net here stopping you from doing somthing stupid like killing yourself because some hoe cheated. Best way to cue onities is to meet a girl who you think is the most amazing. Break up. Meet another girl who you think Is the most amazing. Break up. After a few time you realise their is no most amazing one and another will come along anyway. No more onitis
/r/askTRP27/07/18 12:54 PM
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What type of herpes? Because some strains it's almost a garuntee that you already have, it's that prevalent. It's it the one which shows on specifically on your genitals then it should be fine as long as she doesn't have an out brake. She's been upfront to be fair
/r/askTRP27/07/18 12:51 PM
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She's a muppet. Forget about her.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 04:37 AM
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If she's already said no then don't do it again numbnuts
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:20 PM
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Tell her you appreciate what she's done and that it hasn't gone unnoticed and has meant alot to you. And then go down on her like there's no tomorrow. Shell keep doing the good shit because she knows you'll notice and it's been positively reinforced
/r/askTRP26/07/18 04:31 PM
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Couple of texts a day until your free is the best option you have
/r/askTRP26/07/18 04:27 PM
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Don't plate your ex. Get some self respect instead
/r/askTRP26/07/18 01:46 PM
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Good response
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:42 AM
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Because writing somthing online is proof that it's happened🙄 Tbf if your not fucking her but still giving her attention you kinda are her orbiter. Just gotta be confident in your skills to not go to deep as an orbiter and secure the fuck instead
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:07 AM
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The thing is when a girl can't be fucked for a while your mentality has to change. If you have to wait a month + to fuck then essentially you should not even think about her. It's pretty unlikely that you will end up fucking so there is no point investing time thinking about her and what to message. If you forget then you don't care if she doesn't message you and if she does its a nice surprise. Tbh I've never bothered to talk to a girl for a while if we don't have chance to go out as normally I…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 05:30 AM
1

In can happen over as much time as it takes. They wouldn't be a plate tho. I've had one recent. Texted for over month before we went out due to both taking ages and life being in the way. Still went out. She's away now. Probably go out again when she's back. In the mean time I find new girls.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:19 PM
1

I mean no more than 3 is an ion Rule. Personally I go for it first date. Get it most cases. If I don't and I feel that it's because the girl isn't the type and it wasn't because of lack of sparks then I'll go on a 2nd date. 2nd date is always invite round to cook. If we don't fuck I probably wouldn't bother spending anymore time on her.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:29 PM
3

An orbiter is a guy who gives a girl any attention without fucking. !spoiler! That's you
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:48 PM
1

Oh my days. You are a case study for the devolution of the human mind. 1) You logic is borderline offensive. You think a girl who does not want to go out with you still likes you because she replies. If she liked you shed go out with you. Hence why you ask her out. 2)becauee it's free validation for her. That's why girls have orbiters. She's doing this to alot of guys. 3)ive just told you how you get a plate. You ask out.you go out. You escalate to sex. If you half decent she's now a plate. 4)yo…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:46 PM
3

Damn you wernt lying. Now I feel bad for the dude
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:42 PM
1

Ask them put again. If they give another excuse without suggesting a different time they're free then stop messaging them. She doesn't like you
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:47 PM
2

Act as if I haven't even noticed
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:45 PM
8

Sounds like you writing this is a knee jerk reaction. The common mantra here is she probably choked on 25 different cocks whike away. Honestly tho? She's just in a mood because you neglected her over the weekend. She'll come around soon. Don't sweat it
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:37 AM
7

Dude it's been a month. Chill.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 10:35 AM
2

Read the fucking sidebar
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:32 AM
1

Yes massively
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:07 AM
1

Just fucking ask them out. Go out. Escalate and you'll find out.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 07:32 AM
27

This shit don't add up. A) since when is kissing a random dudes hand a challenge that has ever been given. B) why would kissing someone's hand bring on such a feeling of guilt that she has to come clean to OP. Let's face it. Her friends dared her to kiss a dude and she did. She felt guilty but couldn't tell you because you'd break up, probably, so instead told you she kissed his hand to relieve herself of some of the guilt. Tbh if I was OP I'd be more pissed off that she thinks so little of me t…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:59 AM
7

Can he even have kids. Guys been heavy abusing gear for most his life
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:45 AM
2

She would of said
/r/askTRP24/07/18 09:15 PM
42

Opened the fatty.... You chose her bro
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:39 PM
9

6ft 180lb should be a very nice muscularness. Wouldn't worry about your nipples you chest will over shadow them. Alot of guys have a little gyno. Happens during puberty. If you care that much, surgery,
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:36 PM
1

Plus it creates an air of intrigue and she'll normally, naturally, start wondering what's made it a day and In investing in you through finding out. You text good stygian_rose
/r/askTRP19/07/18 12:26 PM
0

Outside
/r/askTRP18/07/18 06:00 PM
3

Gear is never somthing you can advise someone to do. Do research Then some more research Then some more After a year+ of research you can now make your own informed decision without having to ask other people on a sub reddit
/r/askTRP18/07/18 05:59 PM
1

I'll use this comment in my application to become endorsed. J/
/r/askTRP18/07/18 05:55 PM
3

People can have genuine marriages. Just not famous or super attractive people. Too many options to not indulge over the decades
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:38 PM
1

PM us how it goes. I'm interested
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:10 PM
7

You're getting confused with a girl. If it's just you and a girl there is only one over arching frame that you can be in. Either yours or hers. When she half insults you she is presenting her frame. You A&A disregards it and restablishes you frame within the overarching dynamic. However in the group dynamic there is not a singular overarching frame as it's too fluid between all the people, sometimes there's one that changes to three as the group dissolves smaller cross conversations etc. That's …
/r/askTRP18/07/18 10:24 AM
51

Seeing as he's in your group of friends it's Time to play social politics. Identify the leaders in your groups. Be brutally honest, it's the only way to help. Keep this knowledge for later. Then be nice with everyone in the group especially nice to low ranking members of the group, they will lap this up and make up the consensus for having you around later. You can be nice without being a pushover. Just listen to a few things they say attentively, share a common interests. Talk about somthing wi…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:08 AM
3

Set up the date for a few days after you ask when she is free. Continue to text sporadically until the date. Thus builds comfort, right now she needs that to trust that you are not a wierdo. Alot of previous blue pull guys have an abject fear of comfort because of how badly treated they where when they where nice. But it is useful. Don't worry about if she thinks you are nice before she's met you. It makes her more likely to turn up as she feels safer and more comfortable with the idea of meetin…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:45 PM
2

Because he's lying
/r/askTRP16/07/18 05:58 PM
2

Yeah it's just an incredibly low effort response on the girls part. Imagine you're standing in a que and someone starts talking to you and you can't be arsed with them, how do you respond? With a non committal smile and half chuckle. Maybe a ha yeah while raising your eyebrows etc. All low effort token responses. A girl smiling and rolling her eyes is a low effort token response.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:09 PM
2

Smiling and rolling eyes isn't the greatest reaction of a girl tbh
/r/askTRP15/07/18 04:55 PM
6

I see why she put a fake number in
/r/askTRP15/07/18 04:25 AM
18

Never paid for a women's shit. They've still put our regardless
/r/askTRP15/07/18 04:19 AM
3

Doesn't matter what you reply, you've already fucked up
/r/askTRP14/07/18 07:17 PM
3

It's one night....
/r/askTRP14/07/18 03:57 PM
1

Be cooler than her ex
/r/askTRP14/07/18 03:53 PM
2

Of course you can. Every girl under the age of 25 expects texting. Just don't over invest in it. Understand is doesn't build feelings and excitement, just comfort so don't rely on it heavily.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:24 PM
1

Unfortunately your life hasn't bought you a secure personality🤷‍♂️
/r/askTRP11/07/18 02:51 PM
1

If you where just a lucky recipient of the good life then fair enough. I just always imagine successful men being more actualized. Although being made in the shade would explain your lack of
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:22 AM
5

Just interesting that someone so successful spent most of their years playing video games
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:16 AM
50

Nope. For me it's like talking to a little child. If a young girl is sat there chatting shite you are not shocked, of course she lives in a bubble. Instead it's enjoyable to entertain this and be playful with the young girl. She has a great time, you're in control, you're enjoying it for what it is. You don't hold her to any expectations of having a deep conversation, or even being self aware of her ignorance because she's just doing what a child would do. Instead you enjoy watching her mind go,…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:10 AM
11

This is the exact comment I would expect a man with a 10 million dollar apartment to make s/
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:01 AM
1

It's true. If people don't know anything about the subject the stories are on, any information gleamed is considered new and important.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 12:23 PM
1

Tease vs insult One keeps it playful /fun / stimulating / displays frame and confidence. The other makes you look like a twat
/r/askTRP10/07/18 10:43 AM
59

Don't forget the authors background is in classical literature and not psychology. One of the reasons a lot of people come away from the books feeling as tho it hasn't quite delivered on instructing a person on what to do is because the Author is a good qualitative storyteller rather than a quantative based manual writer. The books are still a fantastic read and have lots of insights which you can think about.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 10:35 AM
2

If that's true then fair enough
/r/askTRP06/07/18 10:03 PM
2

Only works if you've fucked them. And no, I dont know what it is to be honest with you.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 09:54 PM
9

That was gay as fuck
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:34 PM
1

Every girls different shape an size
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:27 PM
6

Dude might be Chad in their social circle. Social proof is good
/r/askTRP01/07/18 09:22 AM
18

This. She's fucking approached you, you don't need to act cool and display value. She already sees you as high value. Make it happen pronto
/r/askTRP01/07/18 02:57 AM
1

Words can have two meanings you know. Here: http://grammar.yourdictionary.com/for-students-and-parents/words-with-multiple-meanings.html
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 11:43 PM
7

There are guys who don't realise they moment a girl goes on a break she's getting cocked
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 11:36 PM
14

Yeah but it makes you give less of a fuck about hearing stuff like that. Telling people off for being rude and naughty because it offends sensitive souls is pathetic. If you don't like somthing just downvoted and move on. Unnecessary over exuberant insults I understand. But simply writing grow a pair isn't emasculating at all and actually is a simple way of teaching you to stop being so sensitive and give less of a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 11:24 PM
9

It's okay she's sexually inexperienced even though she's 32🤔
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:13 PM
2

Seems like you're still not quite done with the journey to acceptance yet. You can enjoy hanging out with women. If your high SMV women are nothing but nice and sweet to you. Aslong as internally you have realistic expectations of what they can actually offer you can enjoy their company.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 01:02 PM
2

Fucking try and find out
/r/askTRP28/06/18 08:10 AM
14

Go fuck aload of girls. Actually talk to some without rose tinted lens and find out for yourself. Might take months or years but you'll come back telling us we where right
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:35 AM
12

Like the inverse of when a girl says we're not going to have sex without any promting from you. Show it's already on her mind
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:38 PM
6

It's a shame you're being downvoted because originally the Red Pill was just focused on optimising sexually strategy without any gimmicks so you are correct. However over time we learnt the importance of keeping fit, having hobbies, good life etc for attracting women and naturally the sub became focused on that.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 12:52 PM
10

Shouting into the wind for blowing Better to buy a windboard and surf that shit for fun
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 11:18 AM
20

Ironically if i was to post a comment bashing how all women where stupid sluts or some shit I would be downvoted and told to fuck off back to incel land by the very Redpillers who are ment to be angry women haters
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 11:14 AM
1

And you're a stoner loser
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:58 PM
21

You know what fucks me off? The fact that if you go on cunts like that 16 year olds account you can see them replying to other Redpillers and giving out advice. Bitch you haven't got advice to give.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 05:35 PM
6

Woah lower your sensitivity. You're fucking 35, don't react like a bitch
/r/askTRP26/06/18 09:47 AM
8

This post reveals the one thing I fucking hate abiut Redpill. People have commented that they've had 0 girls or only 1-2 and then if you check their comment history they're commenting of people's redpill posts giving out advice. Why the fuck are you giving out advice when your a virgin. No one wonder aspies are clueless when the advice they come for can be from sources who haven't even got laid. Fucks me off
/r/askTRP26/06/18 09:15 AM
9

Yeah drugs effect you, who knew s/
/r/askTRP26/06/18 09:11 AM
3

You're close but nit quite correct. Girls want a pseudo meaning to sex. Just like they want a pseudo reason for sex to give then plausible diniabilt my that they haven't planned out fucking a guy for some sausage and that it just happened and they're not a slut They like sex to have pseudo meaning so they can keep the facade that they haven't just fucked a guy for some dick but the it meant somthing.l and they're not a slut.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 07:54 AM
7

Yeah because fucking a 9 feels amazing. Just like a nice crisp cold beer with some friends after a hard working day in the heat. Doesn't make beer bad and me an alcoholic just like it doesn't make pussy bad and me needy for it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 06:07 PM
7

Fucking A right I love pussy. Feels good bro
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 05:58 PM
1

Depends how good the girl is. If I want to see how again you normally can within a few days. And after the second meet you can fully plate her
/r/askTRP25/06/18 06:43 AM
1

Make out Yeah. Wouldn't count a peck on the lips. And if a girl hasn't atleast made out with me on a first date she's never going to hear from me again
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:30 PM
1

Kissed 100's tbh. This might seem odd for someone like you who is just imagining how many girls they can fuck but I don't always go for the fuck. When you're out there's a million reasons for why not fucking. Sometimes it's too early and I don't feel like going home. Sometimes I just want to kiss a few girls that night and end up fucking off a good thing for somthing better that never materialises Sometimes the girls is nice enough for a kiss but not fuck worthy Sometimes her friends drag her aw…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 08:59 PM
3

Red the sidebar. Go outside and talk to people
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:59 PM
0

Whats your question?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:56 PM
4

Just reminded me I haven't replied to girl on bumble for a few days, let's see how this goes
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:03 PM
2

Some girls can only take so much
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:53 PM
2

Soccer match eh? Pretty guy heavy sport...
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:51 PM
4

That final response from you was shit poor. Literally set the frame that somthing bad happened that she shouldn't of seen. Youve validated her being unhappy with you
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:28 PM
4

Match her investment and then lower it slightly. + Dread
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:21 PM
1

That I'd didnt know before I went in? Around 20 Few gave me eyes on the dance floor so I just cavemaned it, kissed, isolated, logistics home. Others I just spoke to. No stoicism or trying this or that. But I'll let you on a secret opener.... "Hey" Just fucking say Hey and have a convo. After that I'd ask a question about Uni as an easy way in that I can branch off from because I've done it with so many other girls. Tease her response. have a laugh, kino high - hand touching lower back now and ag…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:09 PM
20

Dunno why you feel bad, it's only a text. What I do is I allocate time for text convo so for the next half hour I'll text back instant and have the convo they need then I'll fuck off and ignore them for the rest of day because I can't be arsed texting. Do this when I feel like it. Once of twice a day Keeps them and me happy.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:00 PM
6

Biologically/evolutionary it's because having a partner no matter how shity provides a better chance of survival than by themselves. Therfore if someone truly has no awareness that they are not alone in this world they will feel heavily compelled to return back to their ex as a deep rooted survival mechanism
/r/askTRP24/06/18 05:51 PM
1

Clearly you're as insightful about people as you are good with girls. Which is shit.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 05:25 PM
16

Go to enjoy yoga, let the women osmosis into your life. Going yoga to try and meet women will be as repulsive as you smelling to them.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 05:18 PM
7

1 partner before this ho. He has 0 abundance. Don't know how I can convey how much you need to get rid of this girl
/r/askTRP24/06/18 05:14 PM
3

Social proof is great for useful it is. However it's a paradox. In order to build social proof you have to become a popular, well liked person who women want to hang around with. To do that you need to understand Red Pill. You need to become good with people to gain social proof and use it. But once you end up in a position where you have all the social proof you need. You don't need it anymore because you have to social skills to forgo it. It is good though. For me personally it just allows me …
/r/askTRP24/06/18 05:12 PM
7

Think we should make a new subreddit aimed specifically at Autistic Redpillers like OP.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:56 PM
23

Summertime redpill, what a fucking spectacle
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:48 PM
2

If you ended because of her bad behaviour then no reply. It's been 6 months your life should of progressed enough to not care about her
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:41 AM
1

Can confirm, my life is pretty fucking easy
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 09:08 AM
11

Must be doing other stuff right if they're asking you in the first place
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 08:55 AM
3

"Unlucky for you" with a smirk
/r/askTRP23/06/18 07:46 PM
13

Swear off women while at uni hahaha a Fuck you gonna do? Be celibate apart from postgraduate women? Fuck every girl you can at Uni.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 02:40 PM
2

Why are you trying to make this so black and white. Don't be a fat cunt. How lean you want to be is up to you. Some prefer abit of fat others prefer vains each to their own.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 02:39 PM
1

Serious? Just eat slightly less
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 02:23 PM
1

If it gets to the stage when you need to or want to start doing daytime stuff with a plate always do it after sex.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 10:58 AM
1

The fuck is Epicurean
/r/askTRP23/06/18 10:55 AM
3

Dunno how old you are but you are too late to the party. Snapchat is too over saturated and the app is shitty and boring now, number texting is coming back strong
/r/askTRP23/06/18 10:54 AM
14

No man who's fucking models and making bank could be arsed to post here
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 09:06 AM
3

I know i was joking about it being a shit place for a tattoo on general
/r/askTRP23/06/18 05:47 AM
2

No, he is correct
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:35 PM
2

Always reward investment from a girl. After two weeks she reached out to you. That's a large investment on her part. How did you reward her? By over challenging her. She's already put herself out there messaging you, there's only so much she can extend. You should of made it easier for her to say Yeah
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:33 PM
2

If you can't win her over on the phone you wouldn't in person anyway
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:26 PM
1

What's wrong with you dude. Just text her: Ok let's (do/grab/go) Y at Z for A The continue as normal
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:24 PM
4

Ermm maybe spare that part too
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:19 PM
4

God damn you went all in on a first date tinder date. What is you thinking my man hahaha
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:18 PM
6

Nah 5'9 ain't shit
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:08 AM
5

Chief Manlet bro
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:11 AM
2

Better now than after marriage with a kid
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:02 AM
8

Only young once
/r/askTRP21/06/18 06:49 PM
10

Cringe
/r/askTRP21/06/18 12:18 PM
15

So how do we use this knowledge to our advantage. Down voted for asking for advice on how to use this? Okay
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 08:06 AM
5

Standard shit. Flirt, read her body language. Escalate appropriately.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:50 PM
1

Cool bro
/r/askTRP20/06/18 02:31 PM
1

Maybe she just wanted the guy round and he was too stupid to realise so invited you out of politeness and fucked up a chance with this girl. Quit the victim mentality it's gay
/r/askTRP20/06/18 08:57 AM
1

Previous exes can be useful for dread game
/r/askTRP20/06/18 08:44 AM
5

Demote to plate and hard next are contradictory.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 08:43 AM
1

It honestly depends on so many different factors.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 06:36 PM
1

How much you wanking dude
/r/askTRP19/06/18 02:17 PM
2

Never said it was weird.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 06:11 PM
7

Out of interest where did you career take you after being a waiter? Or did you do that up until now
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 11:53 AM
8

Have a little bit to drink. Fuck me man try to work some stuff out yourself. Drink to much = too drunk to behave properly Drunk nothing = can't get loose. So drink inbetweem. You're young you need to learn your limit
/r/askTRP18/06/18 11:41 AM
71

I think I'll take being rejected three times over death
/r/askTRP18/06/18 11:40 AM
25

Maybe it because you're fucking women who come and go quickly that you haven't had chance to experience this for yourself. Even hot as fuck girls become mundane after a while of fucking. It's sad but they just do. Could take years but eventually they're just normalised that you don't give a shit about fucking them because you'd rather fuck somthing new and exciting
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 07:45 AM
65

If I was a millionaire who was cheating on my wife with hotter girls when I pleased, then no I wouldn't give a fuck about her fucking some waiter nobody. Hell it almost seems fair.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 07:39 AM
47

The fact that they don't even care about waiter boy is pretty amusing. Considering waiter boy OP has wrote a very in depth post about how well he's doing in comparison to these CEOS etc
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 02:02 AM
0

Should of text her sooner before she forgot about you and you just become a random number that pops up on her phone that she doesn't care about anymore
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:04 PM
1

Mate she is laughing at you. You trying to argue her into doing what you want that is gay.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:15 PM
7

This is the only way to salvage it and your dignity. Say: "you free any this week?" If she says no- don't reply unless she messages you again and it's a good message. If she doesn't message you again then never speak to her again. If she says yes- sort a date and time. If she doesn't show up or cancels- never speak to her again. If she turns up then great. There you go. Also re- read your texts and try and see how her frame is stronger then yours and it's obvious you're trying like a faggot. Als…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 07:57 PM
1

Do more pull when you're with them after sex
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:06 PM
18

I think you talking about just one girl and all the others are made up so we don't shout onietis at you. If you went on this date with 20+ girls atleast one would text the next day or see you again after fucking. Part of this story simply isn't true. Can't help you unless you're honest
/r/askTRP16/06/18 12:36 PM
11

Honestly sounds like he is going to murder her
/r/askTRP16/06/18 08:32 AM
2

Clearly it's special enough for you to type a paragraph on asktrp about...
/r/askTRP14/06/18 04:47 PM
1

When you don't need to ask a question like this
/r/askTRP14/06/18 01:14 PM
3

She won't be an 8/10 dude
/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:51 PM
3

Yenno what is the most important but overlooked part in this whole perfect reply.. "5 years later" People ask about chnaged after 3/6 months as if loads will have happened. This is a journey that takes years. But at some point you realise where you are and how far you've came, and you become excited for where the future is going to take you.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 11:53 AM
1

Yeah you should do. It becomes more normal the more you do it until it's feel weird not to.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 08:50 AM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:47 PM
1

Emotionally? Strong projection there my nigga Thread had been answered properly by others...
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:33 PM
1

Your angry paragraph kinda suggests you're insecure about not knowing what you're on about
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:11 PM
1

Nah you don't know
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:02 PM
1

You're correct in person however this is over text. It's my fault for leaving that out the post.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:42 PM
1

Note that I'm making sweeping generalisation here so keep that in mind. In America (the ones I've experienced) the culture is more overt and obvious in its displays of attractive characteristics. Whereas in some EU countries like mine (but not all) being overt is not the best and being nuanced and subtle is better. Example. In the American culture I experienced if a guy wanted to be seem as the top guy, the main guy, for girls to like then he needed to display confidence in more obvious ways. Ie…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:41 PM
1

I understand what you are saying but it's in the middle of setting up a date. Derailing the flow onto a different tangent just to make a point isn't the best right now
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:29 PM
0

You have experience backing this? Asking because my experience is learnt over the past few years of travelling between the two. So right now I'm more inclined to believe my own experience. However that's not to say I can't and won't recognise when someone else has greater knowledge or experience
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:26 PM
2

No actually I didn't even recognise the analogy it was because of how the implied underlying meaning of the message, ie. I have options and the am the prize, was so obvious. It's not a criticism I love a lot about American culture and many of the people I met where wonderful. It's no surprise where I'm from is more nuanced when we are essentially brought up on sarcasm as normal conversation
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:24 PM
3

I'm gonna go out on a limb and say your American? From travelling between Europe and America, game is different. In this country somthing like that is too obvious in its attempt to frame it as her impressing me. Although the first sentence is subtle enough to display abundance whole keeping it fun...
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:50 PM
3

Set up in predrinks so she's thinking of you. Don't sweat it until your in the club. Make sure you are part the group she's in as you go in. Go the bar and get a drink with her. Use its as isolation. Go for kiss. If can't kiss carry in as normal with the group Flirt with her again, go for kiss. Go back to yours or hers. Done. Anything off this path Is either her leading you on or her needing more time I.e get a number do your thing with other people and message her the next day and set up a meet…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 03:07 PM
1

Why did you message her that there's no chemistry and shit. It's such a beta thing to do. It's like a kid turning round after there parent has taken a toy away and screaming "I don't even want to play with that toy anyway" You went on two dates. They wernt that great. Your game wasn't right for her. She got bored and moved on. That's life, as soon as she stopped seeing you for dates and giving you one word answers you should of just ghosted
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:35 AM
10

As much as I hate the constant go lift without any extra supplication shitposts...this one was quite an enjoyable read
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 02:15 PM
1

That text screams "I'm a faggot" it shows you desperately trying to claim control of a situation which you have no power in. You know what would actually be cool? If you didn't give a fuck and never messaged her at all. If she messages you great. If not, screw her.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 11:50 AM
2

You're a little bit over your head. She's a walking red flag
/r/askTRP11/06/18 07:46 AM
2

You are allowing a girl to dictate the worth of your life. Let that sink in A girl. Is making you feel as though you would rather be dead than alive.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 07:36 AM
27

Push pull nigga
/r/askTRP10/06/18 09:45 PM
1

Yeah unfortunately she's a wierdo. Like the comments above you, girls who keep score are just annoying. Better to move on or at least find other girls so you don't care anymore
/r/askTRP10/06/18 05:39 PM
1

Typical new gimp who thinks they're the special someone whose exempt to the rules
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:45 PM
5

Mate, fuck off
/r/askTRP09/06/18 05:19 PM
2

The fact your so effected is where you've gone wrong. If you didn't give a fuck you would come out the situation perfect naturally. No need to fight some losers. First girl was probably trying to make the angry guy jelouse by talking to you, hence the approach and him coming over. Just a wierd situation, shrug it off. Second guy is just jelouse because he wanted to talk to her but you did and got her number. Who gives a fuck about a lesser male. You're too sensitive. For me In these situations: …
/r/askTRP09/06/18 05:17 PM
1

Sounds like he has became arrogantly self assured in his abilities and these guys are trying to nock his head back into place
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:30 AM
6

Ignorance is bliss. Still I'd rather be aware of all this. Makes for a better life in the long run
/r/askTRP07/06/18 11:34 AM
5

Tbh it's better that they ghost because it leaves the door open for a return. If they formally end it it's harder because you can never message them again and it's harder for them to back track. I much prefer being ghosted and hit up several months later than being givin a this is over message from a girl I was only fucking and didn't even have somthing to be over in the first place.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:02 PM
2

Honestly just learn how to amuse yourself in convos and stop careing at all what the girl is thinking. If you have fun she will.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:26 PM
2

Tbh whatever makes you happy
/r/askTRP06/06/18 12:39 PM
2

Yeah I kinda lost interest after the words solid 6. That ain't good
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:46 AM
2

Yeah the interactions need to based on letting your personality shine through. Keep game principles losely in mind. But honestly being super comfortable with what you feel like saying is best. The thing is this takes time. Because a) you have to get comfortable doing it and b) you need experience of people responding well to make you even more comfortable. Also it becomes paramount that you are a well centerd masculine man. So how you react to situations naturally, and what you instinctively say…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:14 AM
1

I've never had an issue but then I've done it all my life so maybe it's congruent enough that people don't notice. Only ever worked well for me
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:08 AM
3

It fully is. Plus you can rely on yourself. If the convo lulls for a minute I can ask a "boring" question and I know whatever answer she gives I can bounce of and have fun. Learn to be fearless in what you say. Not as saying stuff which you would have to be fearless to say. But in saying what is on your mind without fear of judgement. Being able to do that displays true confidence and a idaf attitude. This stuff does take time. Learn how to deal with shit test with amused mastery first, once tha…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:49 PM
3

Tbh I've reached a point of my life with girls where I simply don't think about anything. I just speak whatever is on my mind, I dont even recognise shit tests because for me they simple an opportunity to turn the conversation into an amusing tangent. The only check I do now is disagree or challenge her now and again and play nice if I broke report too much. Otherwise I just have fun
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:40 PM
4

Convo skills in general. This is in a scenario of a new social group. Remember that hierarchies are a fact of life. Where you placed in that hierarchie is very important. Just like how women are able to perceive your "value/worth" as a sexually object, people are able to perceive where your "value" in respect to where you rank on the hierarchie. This value is a product of how you conduct yourself with your peers. Just like how being to over bearing or needy with a women lowers your value for obv…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:32 PM
3

Aslong as it's in moderation, no it can be good
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:20 PM
8

Your response in that convo seems abit forced. If it was me you where talking to I'd feel as tho you where trying to hard and therefore kinda look down on you abit. Keeping it less formal with a: "what you think? I liked thanos" keeps it going without you coming across like your sucking up
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:19 PM
3

Yes you are selfish and childish
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:32 PM
4

Push and pull dude. Can't just push
/r/askTRP05/06/18 03:30 PM
8

Agreed your the shit friend. Youve had your chance and you fucked it. She DOES NOT belong exclusively to you
/r/askTRP05/06/18 11:59 AM
20

How many fingers used tho
/r/askTRP04/06/18 05:59 PM
8

Just calm down. Push and pull. Youve pulled too hard so time for push. Back off abit, don't talk for a few says then invite her over. If she comes great, if not who cares
/r/askTRP04/06/18 05:58 PM
2

Why you plating 5's
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 04:26 PM
2

One of the best looking guys I've ever met has tried to bring me down on the past because whereas I can be center of attention and comfortably and confidently play off girls he just doesn't have that spark. The fact he still gets girls sometimes better then me doesn't seem to quench that insecurity tho
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 09:51 AM
4

Bluntly put yes. Nearly all the dates I go on now I enjoy my time and am attracted to the girl but fundamentally I'm bored. Going through the convo to back to mine to LMR to fucking. If it doesn't happen I forget and move on if it does great. Exciting tho? No, just routine. Which sometimes seems a little bit sad to me. 🤷‍♂️
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:45 AM
10

Aslong as it doesn't negatively effect your life then it's fine.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:34 PM
4

Have you fucked her?
/r/askTRP03/06/18 01:20 PM
0

How's being bumped into counted as approached. A guy will have loads of girls bump into him in a night out to get his attention he still has to open
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:54 PM
28

This comment made my eyes roll so hard I began to fear they'd never return. He did fine, you don't need to shoot down every little detail to empower yourself. Sometimes convos are long sometimes there short, if you get the result you want it's fine.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 07:54 PM
30

If I was her I would of slapped you for wasting your time and money in a strip club.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 06:25 PM
7

I've experienced girls who we've probably messaged back and forth about 10 messages but over the course of a week or two and ended up going out/smashing. What's your take on that? Why would they still be interested over a week when they get so many matches, they where all attractive with one being very attractive
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 08:52 AM
6

I get my drink and when the bartender says "anything else?" I say nah. I've never have a girl call me out on it. One or two give a questioning reaction to which I always reply. "It's 2018 equality, I'm a feminist yenno" with a smirk that suggests otherwise. Normally they laugh and enter my frame if they don't then I'm quickly finishing my drink and making my goodbyes because they've already failed my screening.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:59 PM
1

Stop giving a shit. A recent very attractive girl I fucked messaged me sometimes the next day. I'd have forgotten about so it didn't matter. We still ended up hooking up.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:44 PM
9

When the cope of a shite unfulfilled life is too strong
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 10:46 AM
8

Obviously not that one. If you actually went out and pulled girls you'd realise some say no and that's perfectly okay, not everyone girl is going to be a yes. I'm sure in your made up fantasy land you shove her back and she is so turned on by your alpha masculinity that you fuck right there in the toilets. It's easy to see people like you who just spout silly edgy rhetoric online but don't have any real world experience to help shape their own opinions and experience
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 07:07 PM
4

No I actually sleep with women which is why my views are grounded in reality. You can say what you want in response, but I know for a fact and so do you that you get no girls. I can tell instantly that you are not sleeping with any high quality girls.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 06:36 PM
9

Fuck me autismo you are delusional
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:28 PM
10

Obviously not push her back you weirdo. Pushing her back screams huge insecurity and sensitivity, I.e not power, confidence and control
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:07 PM
7

Some therapy is pretty useless other types have been shown to be effective at dealing with a range of issues.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 11:03 PM
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Wait until you meet again and let it happen naturally the same way it did previously. She's a tease, if you message her shell know what's up and loose interest. Play her.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:05 PM
2

You need to experience life. What you want can be broken down into three things: 1) attainable things but later down the line 2) Stuff that is possible 3) Stuff that is unrealistic and born of the fantasy of what you think life can be like because you don't actually know yet. It's not you fault, it's too be expected tbh. The best way is simply experience women/social circles. You seem smart and attuned to what's gong on so you will learn rapidly. But you have to be in the environment to learn. C…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:09 PM
1

Want constitutes to being a fucking playboy at 21 for you
/r/askTRP13/05/18 06:52 PM
1

There where people discussing this shit before Redpill on reddit, people will be discussion this shit after Redpill on reddit
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:45 PM
45

You came off insecure as fuck. This means you failed the shit test. Look down at you chest, smirk at her and say "ha it's a good thing young women prefer that nowadays" And saunter off. You come across confident enough that you didn't react badly. Plus You got to put some old bitch in her place for being so blatantly disrespectful
/r/askTRP13/05/18 04:43 PM
1

Stop sweating being a Virginif you're only 18 it'll happen. And of that 90%, see are already snagging. Don't view yourself as better than everyone else when you're not. Find value in yourself not through the forced feeling of superiority over others (who might actually be better than you anyway)
/r/askTRP13/05/18 04:32 PM
1

Fuck monk mode, just makes you socially inept
/r/askTRP13/05/18 04:25 AM
2

Yeah 170 on a 5'9 will be looking very nice and built. One of my friends is the same weight as me at 180ish he's 5'9/10 and looks huge, me on the other hand not so much
/r/askTRP12/05/18 07:57 PM
2

Improving for four years but still no luck? Ouch. Sounds like you need to improve your social circle. Easiest way to get a girl is when you have friends. It's becomes natural
/r/askTRP12/05/18 07:55 PM
2

Height are you out of interest?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:51 PM
5

Take a chance with a ton of other girls.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 08:23 AM
2

It looks like you reacted bad to people calling you out for arguably a silly question and replied aggressively/stupidly 🤷‍♂️
/r/askTRP11/05/18 07:09 PM
9

Waiting for the juicy resolution
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 11:28 AM
1

So your success level with women isn't zero..
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:19 AM
1

Yeah I could tell it was low but felt calling you out for being a Virgin would have seemed personal and unnecessary
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:04 PM
3

Fucking hell. After the 'do women even enjoy sex?' Post I thought it couldn't get any worse. But fixing a Wimp skull takes the fucking biscuit. Well played Autismo
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:34 PM
2

you're points are rooted in real issues but then you've let them get abit fantasticle. I doubt you've had long time "success" in ons and casual sex. Point 1) you don't become obsessed with plates. You become so normalise to them coming and going that you don't care. Are you obsessed about brushing your teeth because you do twice everyday? Not really, you don't care its just a part of life. 2) casualize sex to the point that the girl is just a sex toy. Casual sex for a ONS does end up just being …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:15 PM
1

Of course, just like every physiological process between men and women.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:57 PM
36

Jesus Christ posts like this display the dangers of how an aspie can run away with ideas
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:37 PM
28

They did in his last post. He chose to ignore. Ya can't teach stupid
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:54 PM
5

Big nose is masculine Unless it's enormous
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:04 AM
17

Yeah I always suspect quality when I read these. I remember seeing a pua book or article and the author was going on about how he gets women in his middle age. Even had some pictures of nights out with women enjoying his company. The women where fucking abysmal. Wouldn't even give a second look in a club
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:42 AM
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A cat really wants a laser pointer when it's shone around a room. If the cat ever caught the dot of light it would immediately get bored. Yes she really wants you to open up, but opening up ends the game.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:26 AM
7

Yeah I remember once I'd kinda of lost interest in a girl so stopped thinking about my actions and let my mouth run on a issue about girls/relationship in general. Still she liked me enough and I'd had perfect frame or whatever prior that things carried on as normal until the next meeting when I did a similar thing and that's was it. The entire thing was over on her terms. Ironically two weeks before I withdrew affection and she was the one messaging me to be free. Ah well, mistakes are a gift b…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:24 AM
1

Well yeah, being in the top 20% would be considered above average looking.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 05:38 PM
1

Did she suggest a new time when she's free. I follow a rule: If she cancels and suggests a new time or the excuse was good and she is genuinely sorry and trying to rectify it then I give another chance. If she cancels and just asks when I'm next free I judge the situation. If I feel the excuse is flimsy I say no and ghost. Of the excuse is good I give another chance. If she cancels and gives no attempt to reschedule then I ghost that bitch to the grave. Oh and you additional question. First enco…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:05 PM
1

"Well then stop doing stuff I dont like " with a little smile and ignore any attempts from her to drag you into a discussion
/r/askTRP05/05/18 09:18 PM
2

The art of seduction is a classical literature book on the differing romantic dynamics at play between men and women. Its not a manual of one liners
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:34 PM
1

The fuck is phenibut
/r/askTRP03/05/18 09:12 PM
4

Your very hateful towards them. Not really worth getting angry at, just stand to one side. They're having fun and you're stood there being grumpy.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:19 PM
2

Calling it manipulation is almost unfair to women as they don't do most of this purposely it's mainly instinctual. Manipulation is a thought out process. I.e if I tell them I love them then X will happen and I can do Y. A girl wouldn't say I love you for a thought out goal like that. She would say I love you because in the moment it FEELS like the thing she should be saying. That's part of why guys get angry at first with all this because they struggle with the idea that girls don't follow a lin…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:08 PM
1

Not to her in that moment
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:56 AM
1

Fuck him he doesn't actually talk to many girls. You are right you do need a few messages back and forth to build some sort of rapport so she knows your not a weirdo and feels comfortable meeting you. And the bar is exactly what you do. Go for drinks escalate and seal the deal. One of the biggest dangers of asktrp is the fact that guys who have no business answering do so based off no real life experience. Instead their advice comes from their own interpretation of other redpill advice. Often tw…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:53 PM
1

Be normal and ask when she's free, just say free this week. Then take lead. If you just state when and where without asking she will probably be busy and have to reject it. Just an unnecessary thing.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:47 PM
10

If he's your friend Yeah. If he's not no. Best introduction I had to girls was hanging out with a group 2/3 years my senior with a couple of Chad guys I could just osmosis. How they where and what they told me is borderline useless now but it set me in the right direction and for that invaluable. If you are friendly don't try and "alpha" him. be the guy he loves to teach and feels almost proud seeing you talk to girls off his teachings.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:42 PM
9

The fuck do you want us to do? Tell you what to write word for word for every girl you meet? You need to learn by trying yourself. There's plenty of girls. Just make it easy for the girl to talk to you and set up a date. If it doesn't go well it's fine, should be talking to other girls anyway.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:33 PM
7

It's natural for most. Meet more women and screen the ones who arnt
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 05:09 PM
2

This issue for onietis is just a symptom of having a shit life. Read sidebar. And learn self respect and not giving a fuck by never messageing your ex again. Even if you want to
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:20 AM
1

Did you actually read the post?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 12:42 PM
5

Bigarexia man. One of my friends is 6ft2 200lbs. Guys the biggest in the room 9 times out of 10
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 08:25 PM
2

I think someone low key enjoys the validation and attention she giving you.... You know the answer just tell her your not interested. I had one that took me standing their looking unimpressed repeatable tell an ex plate that nothing is happening for an embarrassingly long time for her to finally go. Sent a me a message later on and I simply blocked and forgot about her
/r/askTRP29/04/18 04:44 PM
1

Omlala ladder theory
/r/askTRP29/04/18 04:41 PM
1

Did you kiss/fuck/exchange pleasantries on the first date?
/r/askTRP29/04/18 04:38 PM
5

Why you already defending yourself for getting a number to us? It's sweet man yiu got her number gg. Text her the next day sometime late afternoon. Somthing that refers back to somthing humorous you two did or spoke about. Find when free this week Set up date Forget about date until the day. Don't sweat it if she doesn't go. If she does, go and see what happens with the intention of enjoying it wherever it leads. Apply game and escalate.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 04:33 PM
6

So glad that I've been seeing more and more of the general consensus saying that asshole game can be detrimental compared to time ago
/r/askTRP24/04/18 09:35 PM
4

Google scholar bro
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:39 PM
6

Tbh she'll feel these emotions anyway. No need to cause more issues for yourself purposely. Just don't fear them when she is feeling mad or sad. Act accordingly instead.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:50 PM
2

It's more just to mess with her head abit and send it spinning to try and work you out
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:25 AM
1

Unless you come across like a Virgin (and I mean a awful nice guy nerd beta) no girl will say really?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 10:07 PM
0

Because a fuck up like you who still gets angry over the past women who barely wanted to have sex to the point they just starred fished, waiting for it to be over, knows best. And to answer Very well. I don't think you understand the dynamic at play when I say it.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 10:05 PM
1

Sorry if I don't take the opinion of a 30 year who needs escorts because he's shit with women.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 10:04 PM
0

Hahahaahahaha you think Weinstein personifies an ideal redpill alpha male, fuck outta here
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:57 PM
1

Being fat represents the fact that he is too undisciplined to even look after himself. If he had so little respect for his own body and health then he's the same tier as a beta to me Obviously if the guy is a self made billionaire or some shit it balances the scales. But if it's just some fat twat with 'solid frame' then he's shit
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:27 PM
3

He's fucking fat
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:05 PM
2

You'll see her again relax and be chill. You thinking about her too much and that'll be the what's scareing her off. Forget about her until you next see her. Ignore all her texts do she thinks your annoyed at her. Then when you see her next, which you know you will, expect her to be slightly cold as you've ignored her for the week. But then be nice and playful with her as if you've been haveing a great week together. Shell go from one emotional viewing of you to a sudden unexpected one. Which is…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 06:26 PM
11

That doubleteam fantasy would of killed me if I'd been In your position, how did you keep a straight face
/r/askTRP22/04/18 06:16 PM
4

I always tell them, watching there eyes squint and a mischievous smile appear as they shake their heads and say I'm definitely not always makes me laugh on the inside. Edit for the ones shit at game: I'm not actually a Virgin, saying you are instead shows a complete confidence that you don't need to impress them. Instead of trying to show off how many women you slept with or pretending to be coy. Telling them a Virgin adds intrigue because they can tell you arnt through your body language and ho…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 06:06 PM
56

Rip in peace her husband lol
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 05:53 PM
5

Cipher?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:41 PM
1

Yeah I know
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:38 AM
1

The fuck you asking this here for? Go the dentist
/r/askTRP21/04/18 10:08 PM
5

This post reeks of butthurt feelings over your onietis, who your not even LTR with, liking some dudes stupid twitter status.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 10:00 PM
3

That's just fuel for the charade she's invented
/r/askTRP21/04/18 02:24 PM
2

Have you managed to go from talking to anyone and getting their number to sex? Serious Q. Also be conscious of what you can get away with. If they're involved in the drinking seen then you can talk and then straight to sex the same night. You can make a habit out of one night stands with practice
/r/askTRP20/04/18 05:52 PM
1

My condolences. Here in the UK it's a known thing for a guy to have his boys. The amount he sees them depends on how much his wife nags him ahah I think that stems for our love of football which is almost untouchable atm by women.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 12:25 PM
2

Where you based? In my home country guys being together is very much a known thing. Maybe less during middle age
/r/askTRP20/04/18 11:41 AM
1

Understands women don't want to made to feel like an ugly undesirable peice of shit during sex, must be a genius. /s
/r/askTRP20/04/18 11:40 AM
3

No, it's not.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 11:38 AM
1

One of the biggest turn on for women is feeling desired by a high value male. She already sees you as HV so you desiring her will turn her in and excite her and all you did was enlarge an insecurity. Why will she want sex now when it brings up feelings of inadequacy and insecurity when it should be passionate.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 11:38 AM
24

Couldnt be arsed with your wall of text. Answer to the title. Yes.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 11:31 AM
4

You don't have to BE an asshole to get girls. You have to be focused on yourself so girls CALL you an asshole for not giving them attention, or trying to brown nose. There's nothing wrong with being friendly and liked. If anything it's beneficial. Being cocky and arrogant is meant to display a lack of fucks given. But when your too cocky and arrogant it does the opposite and makes you look insecure to the pint of covering up with a blatant "too cool" facade. Fake confidence is not appreciated by…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 11:29 AM
8

Wear a condom. If she wants you to finish in her and she's not on anything then it's abit of a giveaway. Use your head and don't be blinded by the chance to fuck. Think. I had a girl who cheated on her boyfriend with me. Desperate for me to finish in her even tho she wasn't on anything. I point blank refuse and stop fucking and calmly explain with a little smile that there's no way I'm finishing in her because if I got a text in a month saying I'm the dad then I'd have to move to Italy and I can…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 11:22 AM
5

Depends on the girl. Depends on the culture of your country. Depends on the dynamic of how it was said. It depends. Usually it's not good. Sometimes it's a shit test. Be calibrated to the way it's said to you and respond as necessary. No big deal
/r/askTRP20/04/18 11:20 AM
6

Considering OPS generation has popularised the bromance we might see older man growing old together. With isn't a bad thing.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 08:23 AM
4

To expand on his answer about the 9s and 10s. Do you actually go for them? Or do you still see them as out your league. Took me an embarrassingly long time to realise I was pedalising 9s. Even though I could pull well, slept with a lot of girls and even pulled a few 9s I still saw them as slightly too good for me. Even though they really wernt.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 08:20 AM
3

"I've been working hard for some months" Yeah so no shit you're not as good as people who have done it for years. Tbh I stopped reading at this point. Red pill is a journey. I've been on it for 3/4 years. At this point I know "everything" yet because of that I realise that I know nothing. Don't sweat it, just keep swimming.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 08:14 AM
3

Plates are there to enrich your life. Personally doong stuff with a hot girl who's playful and sweet with me because she likes me is enjoyable. Might aswell enjoy your turn for all its worth
/r/askTRP19/04/18 10:58 AM
7

Let's be honest, you're one of the people who post on redpill after reading the sidebar and feel empowered in your new found "alpha knowledge about stupid females" Yet haven't actually experienced the real world with girls. Sure you can have a girl who is just a booty call. These don't last long. A plate which you spin for several months, you do stuff with. You have clear boundaries on what you are, sex comes first. But you can also enjoy the time spent with that person. If you just want booty c…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 10:55 AM
11

Not only may she be looking for an LTR. But you may also lose her because she will become fucking bored with you and find someone who will do these activities with her. Come up with activities you want to do and do them. It's perfectly fine to do stuff with a plate. Doesn't have to be just sex and nothing else. I enjoy the friendship my plates offer me in conjuction with the sex. It's enjoyable doing stuff with a girl who's attracted to you. Just make sure the boundaries of what you want and exp…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 10:16 AM
16

You know what I was going to laugh at you for this joke of a post but then I just felt bad. Your life with girls has been so shitty that if someone in a professional setting takes 0.001% of interest in your life it has profoundly effected you. Go the gym, talk to girls.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:34 AM
7

Fuck off autismo. Just because you break eye contact doesn't mean you've submitted like we're dogs. Go outside and see the actual world. If some guy is staring you down and you looked away while pulling a slight 'whys this wierd kid staring at me' people don't suddenly think your a beta male. Makes the other person look like a weirdo
/r/askTRP18/04/18 09:29 AM
1

Is this a troll? We really are the lost generation
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:04 PM
2

Stoic =/= emotionless
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:42 AM
1

Skinny fat us honestly one of the most disgusting forms and male body can take.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:02 PM
5

18% is pretty high for fitness guy.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:01 PM
1

Over agreeing and amplifies betrays the very foundation of why you use it in the first place. To show you don't care. Sometimes not careing is the best way to show you don't actually care. Just a thought...
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 06:57 PM
1

True or joking?
/r/askTRP15/04/18 05:20 PM
1

Didn't he mention a few weeks back he thought a doxing was Coming? I may be mistaken
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 05:01 PM
3

Sometimes be nice sometimes give them shit. It's kinda part of being normal. No one likes a suck up. No one likes an asshole. Someone who commands respect for not being a bitch but we'll give them the time of day and lend a hand. Now thats an ally and a friend
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:59 PM
51

Single mother 🚩
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:54 PM
38

It's because he's more genuine. Whereas you're trying. He says something and doesn't care what the reaction. You say somthing and you judge the girls reaction.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 11:30 AM
4

It's been 5 months since you stopped fucking her. Don't be so needy and find other people
/r/askTRP14/04/18 09:42 AM
1

Found the millionaire /s
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:07 AM
1

Yeah but just getting attention and then acting superior to his friends "who are just orbiter is stupid
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 12:49 PM
1

Attenrion or access to pussy. There's a difference
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 03:07 PM
5

It's the same with looks. Masculine looking high schoolers get shit on by pretty boys. Then suddenly the pretty boys (unless their exceedingly pretty) just become nice looking and the masculine boys become hot
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:09 AM
0

Does it help? Did you mean to reply to me. I love my life and my social circles.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 02:26 PM
10

Is it an integral part of YOUR life tho. If it's for work and networking etc. Then tough shit that's life suck it up. If it's meant to be for the fun,and you don't enjoy it, then why do it. Stick to what you enjoy. Small intimate meetings
/r/askTRP07/04/18 12:39 PM
6

You don't just shove it in the ass. You have to finesse that shit. Bring up the topic. Use lots of lube, slide it in. You're un-calibrated as fuck right now,that's why it's wierd. But don't sweat it life goes on. Barely remember this stage in a few years. Keep learning
/r/askTRP07/04/18 12:22 PM
0

Sigh
/r/askTRP06/04/18 06:34 PM
0

Yes
/r/askTRP06/04/18 05:49 PM
1

Could just be changing into your mature hairline
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:39 PM
2

So Alpha bro
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:31 PM
1

Might aswell jump on the steroids and look sick as fuck if your hair is always going. s/
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:44 PM
16

The parts of your head which had hair, no longer have hair.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:44 PM
3

Just be you. I have a resting bitch face and my natural state of being is quiet and reflective. Yet I'm a welcomed member on large groups and arnt ignored or forgotten in the background Why? Because I don't care what they think so I'm perfectly relaxed and at ease. Other people pick up on that and feel my confidence. Plus I'm quiet because I'm thoughtful not because I'm scared, so I interject with whatever I feel like when I feel like, boldly. People look to me for my one liners. And to offset m…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:30 PM
1

Personally I don't think that's the case. I think it was just run of the mill LMR and the fact 'getting' the sex is a main dealer to you seeped through and scared her off. Comments such as "not even head, damn" make it seem to important to you
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:20 PM
6

Him saying Yeah that's pretty funny does not add social proof what's so ever. Its a fine response because it shows OP isn't jelouse or worried. Anything that would bring her co-worker down would make OP look like a bitch. Agreed that he needs to couple it with either Dread game or just better game in general.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:14 AM
1

Should of been more ambiguous. She knows where your so has stopped thinking about you. Just putting Yeah to her first message would have left her wondering if you agree with her or are annoyed etc. The main fact being she's thinking about you
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:39 AM
2

Lolwut
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:32 AM
14

Sorry bro. She's out till 1 am with her Boss. That shit is fucking outrageous. He takes her out for dinner. I'm actually in pain for you Find some other girls
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:20 AM
4

No wonder why he has a high sex drive whens he hasn't had sex in two years
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:44 AM
4

So essentially it's just: 1) Having high confidence/ self esteem about yourself 2) Having Frame 3) Social Intelligence allowing you to achieve and maintain status Jesus Dark Triad has been overblown. Guess it makes people feel cool when they've had a life of feeling unimportant.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:34 AM
1

I don't trust psychologist, how can they treat insecurities and depression? Yet random people on the Red Pill can? Fuck off
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:53 AM
1

Tbh I wouldn't want to date her
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:52 AM
2

Really?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:42 AM
23

One if the few times I've read a comment and thought "yep this guy has actually used it on girls"
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:36 AM
1

You can't even tell people your name? You need therapy dude you have a disorder
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:04 PM
3

No. Everyone does this in differing ways. You ain't special
/r/askTRP03/04/18 07:28 PM
1

You've got onietis already.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 12:45 PM
2

Yeah I'm actually really good in the moment, with people and girls. Always the initiation that I have doubts about. I thought the best way would be after the time I do see them and then from that it's more comfortable inviting them out on the weekend etc
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:28 PM
2

The only sticking point I have is that for the majority of my friends in my clubs and hobbies. I don't talk to outside of them. Feels like I don't have a reason to hit them up even tho we are closer enough friends to do so
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 08:21 AM
1

It's true. The ones whi actually go out and fuck have a largely arbitrary understanding of all this. The ones who sit in their home and over think it don't.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 07:39 PM
1

Good job. Now look for improvements
/r/askTRP02/04/18 03:32 PM
2

Weight are you?
/r/askTRP02/04/18 03:30 PM
11

Dude you just broke up with the women you thought you where going to spend the rest of your life with. Plus you've just discovered the Red Pill, fuck that guy. You had the strength to do it. Power to you.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 08:35 PM
1

Find a new girl
/r/askTRP01/04/18 11:52 AM
2

R/AngryAutists maybe?
/r/askTRP31/03/18 08:44 PM
1

If your body is fucked you go the doctors to get better. If your mental health is fucked you go the doctors to get better. Grow up
/r/askTRP23/03/18 11:12 PM
2

Therapy bro
/r/askTRP23/03/18 09:51 PM
4

Atleast you've learnt. Worst relationship I ever had at 19 taught me more about myself and how I should think about things more than any reading would do.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:42 PM
7

You're gotta get rid. She waited for you to be away to pull a shitty stunt like that. Spend more time vetting next time!
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:13 PM
1

You a proponent for Mark Masons Models? His "vulnerable" ideas are pretty applicable to when I've ever had the best experience with girls. Sound similar to what you where saying
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:05 AM
1

That's fine
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:23 AM
3

Genuinely intrigued about your story behind exploring religion and the impacts
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:55 AM
0

Chill
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:53 AM
7

Soz big alpha boy
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:51 AM
1

Np
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:59 PM
1

Use your brain and read what I fucking said. You don't learn it all at once you learn bits and pieces until you have the whole picture. Developed over a year or two
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:39 PM
2

Just read Redpill shit. Go out onto the world observers, interact and most importantly learn what works and what doesn't!
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:01 AM
1

Texting was on point
/r/askTRP20/03/18 09:34 AM
2

Double confirmation is too much. But otherwise yeah
/r/askTRP20/03/18 09:30 AM
10

You can't really soft next a girlfriend in principle because unless you break up you both know you'll see each other again so it amounts to nothing more than giving her the cold shoulder. It only works in conjuction with dread, because then when your distance she starts thinking it's because you're with another girl. That dynamic you can use to your advantage. Unfortunately for your case your girlfriend doesn't actually care about you. She has given you the green light to fuck other people when …
/r/askTRP20/03/18 09:23 AM
6

No I cannot be arsed going point in point with someone like you. Apologies if it sounds harsh but you've apparently been RP for 6 months yet need everything explained on excruciating detail. Immediately after someone explains it i garuntee you'll ask for clarification on half their stuff. Look at the people who fuck at the parties and what not and observe everything about them. Not just surface level stuff but everything and you'll see red pill teachings in all the dynamics to differing degrees.…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 09:08 AM
19

You're not observing any RP truths because you're not involved in life. You have a tiny little world, even just one friend would allow you to observe different truths. Oh and you girl is gonna branch swing you so hard you'll be forced to choke on these truths.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:08 AM
1

/r/subredditsimulator
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:31 AM
2

Be nice. I always give off abit off an approachable superior vibe so I work extra hard to be nice when I talk to new people initially to offset this.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:30 AM
2

Thank you
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:32 PM
1

k
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:32 PM
1

SMartin to get checked. At this point in my life I've raw dogged a lot of girls. You know which is the only girl to give me an STD? The first. And that's after she was so concerned about me having been checked or not before we slept together. Although on reflection maybe that's cos she knew she gave me somthing and wanted to know if she could blame someone else if I mentioned it. Huh.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:44 PM
1

Swear come winter time when immune systems are low every kid has coldsores
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:43 PM
3

Psychologically speaking the whole introvert/extrovert has been messed up by popular media. She is just a reflective person who has good social skills.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:41 PM
2

Just wait until you next see her, it'll be easier. If you actually are talking to other girls then leaving this one to bake should be no issue
/r/askTRP19/03/18 09:04 AM
9

Yeah I know what her squirting is. It was him saying he used 'the squirt technique' which baffled me
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:18 PM
1

Honestly I stopped reading after I read that you guys go on breaks. Never ever go on a break and get back together. If a girl wants a break then it's over and it's time for her to go. This relationship is shit. Find a new girl who is actually good for you.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:06 PM
4

Talk to other girls. By the time you see her again you'll have forgotten about her and be in a better place for it.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:02 PM
6

The fuck would you want her for. The Scarcity is strong in this one.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:00 PM
14

The fuck is the squirt technique
/r/askTRP18/03/18 08:54 PM
2

Are you meeting up with her? If so leave saying somthing like that till you see her in person, it will be more natural.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 08:51 PM
3

That's life. Focus on being the best you can be.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 07:49 PM
5

Make a joke about feeling sorry for her boyfriend having to put up [insert relevant thing to tease her about]. If she likes you she'll say she doesn't have a boyfriend.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 07:45 PM
4

Yep
/r/askTRP18/03/18 02:55 PM
1

k
/r/askTRP18/03/18 12:17 PM
5

It's bamboozling that's for sure. Why you're a late Virgin isn't a head scratcher however. Spoiler: it's cos you're a bitch
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:21 AM
3

I do know somthing about you. You're a 29 year old "semi-virgin". If you could actually flirt with girls and have them flirt back you wouldn't be in this situation. It's would actually be healthier for you to admit maybe you can't flirt with women. The only reason I can't help is because if I highlight the fact you my be delusional abiut your ability to flirt with women, you then get whiny. Also I dunno what a late Virgin is but I'm guessing it's basically what you are and that calling all of us…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:51 AM
4

Sorry but considering you've never been able to fuck a single women in 29 years, your observations and points are useless.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:02 AM
13

It'll be hard, but worth it.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 10:11 PM
1

Probably not the best then no
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:48 PM
6

Back in 2015 I took part in a College thing. Was thrown into a situation with almost 50 other people. People and hierarchies quickly get established. I'm near the top. Everyone knows me and likes me. Another main guy makes up a malicious story about me that paints me in an awful light. Couldn't deal with it how I normally would, as it was a brand new group so I would of looked too aggressive or unhinged so instead I deal with it in an innocent way. People rally to my side and all seems well. Out…
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:39 PM
11

I dont know what I'm more annoyed about. The fact that this shit tier of post is on The Red Pill or the fact that I just wasted 3 minutes of my life scanning it and posting a comment.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 06:54 PM
5

She 100% ended up kissing him that night. Maybe more
/r/askTRP17/03/18 06:45 PM
8

"I am good at flirting, believe me or not. But it ends there. I've failed to progress beyond there and been dropped or humiliated or failed every single time" Hmmmmmm doesn't quite line up does it. I'm good at flirting >>> I've failed to progress You're not good at flirting
/r/askTRP17/03/18 05:52 PM
16

To save her some milk. Like what level of autism for you suffer? Someone you live with asks for you to leave some milk and you're so insecure in your masculinity that you have to ignore them and show how alpha you are by using it all up. Wtf. Like if she says it in a tone you don't like then just tease her. Playfully ask if you heard the word please and get her to ask politely in a playful way. Then spank her bum for being so cheeky in the first place and leave her some milk.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 05:02 PM
1

Too late. Once you fire the nuke there's no coming back
/r/askTRP16/03/18 05:00 PM
5

It's shit like this which demonstrates why people's perception of red pill is so wrong. A dude has came in asking if he can play with Legos as an adult. And everyone here has said he should do whatever makes him happy and go for it! Which is great and the right attitude! To someone on the outside of TRP they'd expect everyone here to be mean and bully OP being a "beta faggot". Probably why when someone does come to explore they stick around because the horror stories arnt true.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 09:27 AM
14

Ermmm you might wanna think this through more
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 07:16 PM
5

I'd feel nothing, I'd ignore the shit ones because it isn't worth my time
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:40 PM
9

Your attitude sucks
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:25 PM
3

You do have something to lose. Your dignity.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:25 PM
4

You don't actually fuck girls do you
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:08 PM
-1

Cos you're a faggot. Keep putting yourself out your comfort zone and experience will help you gain confidence
/r/askTRP02/03/18 02:15 PM
1

You're over thinking
/r/askTRP25/02/18 02:19 PM
1

Red the fucking sidebar
/r/askTRP24/02/18 10:20 PM
5

You're ready to move on yet are asking if you should unfollow to make yourself more attractive and a bigger prize? Cut the shit. It's over. She's moved on. Unfollow her for your own self respect.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 09:44 PM
4

Thanks for the reply I'll return the favour. The people already are friends which means there is already an established hirearchy. Everyone is somewhat aware of where they rank and are by and large content with thier place. If a new comer comes in too loud and forcefully they disrupt the hirearchy. People at the bottom may feel more deranked. People at the top might feel threatened etc. Humans limbic systems is explicitly connected to this. So they will react. Some will shun you others my begrud…
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:10 PM
2

How you find or join somthing like that
/r/askTRP22/02/18 12:27 PM
3

Conflict and pain forges a Masculine mindset
/r/askTRP20/02/18 06:31 PM
1

Exactly
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:27 PM
3

Explain to her how you suffer from crippling autism
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:44 PM
22

You don't. Just be there for the crash and burn
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:34 PM
1

You got this one, you can get another.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 12:55 PM
12

Have you actually read any Red Pill material? If valentines day went by and you didn't have sex then she's not in a relationship with you. She's getting dick some place else
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:10 AM
1

Expected yeah I agree. Positive reinforcement does dividends tho. If you feel like you're being told what to do then just do somthing different than what she said. Just a token thing will go far without effort
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:23 AM
12

Nothing wrong with some reward for good behaviour. She won't look after you again if she doesn't get any benefit. She's your LTR who's spent a week careing for you. C'mon man you can reward her just don't be over the top
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:37 AM
3

She needs to belive he's actually able to attract other women for her to start feeling dread. 3 days of no speaking and she ain't even budged. This girl has major confidence he ain't going anywhere
/r/askTRP19/02/18 05:36 PM
2

Ermmm no you get a free house to do what you want. Escape seeing her boring ass friends and spending mental energy trying to be social. Sounds like a win Plus..No ultimatum. You only want to do it because you feel like it will put an end to it. Ergo you'd be the one submitting under a weak pseudo frame
/r/askTRP19/02/18 05:35 PM
1

Be dominant as fuck in bed and get her to say submissive shit during. Then when ever she says this bullshit you can look at her thinking about all the stuff you've done with her and she'll read that off your face.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 05:21 PM
-1

This one OP
/r/askTRP19/02/18 05:17 PM
2

Let's be real it's about a guy who's binned you off. Imma guess he cheated
/r/askTRP19/02/18 04:30 PM
8

You're just hoping your divorced hubby isn't gonna do better once you're gone
/r/askTRP19/02/18 04:22 PM
1

Join a sports team. Even a shitty easy one is good
/r/askTRP19/02/18 08:03 AM
1

It's not a 180 tho because again then your committed to being cheeful and she will again understand you. It's about not giving her anything to understand so she has to fill in the blanks with her imagination, leading her to think the worst(but best for you) So you keep doing distant aloof you but randomly now and again be nice and cheeful for 5 minutes then go back to being distance. These little things will stop her from being able to understand you as it doesn't make sense to her.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:23 AM
4

Tbh you've dodged a bullet. You're unhappy in life. If you got with this girl you would of relied and used her to feel good and happy in life. This would be doomed to fail painfully. Take some time to work out yourself. I was in a similar position too. But you must learn to relie on yourself to make you happy, then you can have a happy relationship with a girl. It'll happen. Good luck
/r/askTRP18/02/18 10:57 PM
5

When you do have interactions with her be as cheerful and pleasant as you normally are but just keep it succinct. This will fuck with her head so much. If your short and moody she knows what your doing and will rationalise the whole thing as being your fault for being in a mood. But, if you arnt in a mood she will try to work out another reason for the distant treatment and that's when she will start to become worried.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 08:14 PM
1

Ngl it seems abit shit. But if it genuinely works for you then fair play.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 03:33 PM
2

Yeah but the average dude is shit at everything which is why red pill is here to teach them the right way. So why when it comes to texting do people not bother to discuss it the same way they would game etc
/r/askTRP18/02/18 03:29 PM
1

How'd you get her number? Did giving a normal conversation not help reduce what you think she is to just another normal girl.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 03:22 PM
1

Mimick their level. I've been doing it for years. Went to a rough college. Wouldn't of had friends if I couldn't act stupid. If you're clever, you can work it out.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 10:10 AM
1

Stop careing about her. She can chase you
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:48 PM
2

Dread her. But subtlety, she'll pick up on it without realising your doing it. If you over do it you'll look a gimp. Only need a slight amount,if she likes you it'll work
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:46 PM
8

Kids 6ft 1 at 14 he'll be fine you melon
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:07 PM
4

Perfect answer
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:56 PM
1

Up your amused asshole game. It will always get a response. You will end up becoming to much of an asshole but by the time your in college you'll have learnt to refine it perfectly
/r/askTRP15/02/18 09:14 PM
3

Nah I was asking because from the sounds of it me and you are very similar with how we treat girls I was just never cognizant that it counted as disqualifieing her. Yeah it's a balancing act. On the one hand it's more fun to act like it, plus the positive reactions girls give are unbelievable but on the other hand yiu have to know when to dial it back and do a quick but of pull / rapport build.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 02:33 PM
2

What do you mean by disqualification? You talking about rapport breaking or just discounting everything she comes out with
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 01:21 PM
5

Just shows how successful guys in business can be fucking idiots with women
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:55 AM
1

How's 25 too late you muppet
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:42 AM
1

K
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:15 PM
1

Maybe your lack of wit comes from your lack of intelligence. Clearly I was saying I don't give a fuck about how smart your silly little "if I want a comeback I'd ask you to spit" statements or whatever. Heres somthing constructive, stop being a whiny insecure bitch. Girls don't like that
/r/askTRP11/02/18 08:26 AM
2

Why you trying so hard to type these "witty" responses. You don't need to prove to us that you can come up with a good retort. I dont give a fuck. Save it for whatever wierd high school convos you're having with men at the bar
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:41 PM
1

Hook up. But dating ap is used for plausible denialbility
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:06 PM
1

Honestly if your good In person you don't need to make sure fucking is explicit in the tinder convo. She knows why she's going on the date. Tinder is for focusing on getting the date. On the date your game should be tight enough to escalate of you want
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:41 PM
1

Okay. Everytime you say "take care" or "have a nice time" or whatever else you're texting her you are not coming across as uncaring and aloof like you think you are. Whag would on uncaring person really do? Not care. If you don't care would you carry on texting her? No. The damage is done. She'll never see you as anything more than a weak man. Too shit. Let this be the last women that this happens with. Most of all don't text her and don't give her closure
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:38 PM
1

Stop texting her forever. That is all.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:35 PM
5

Tell her that's disrespectful to you. But not in a whiny way just in a I'm too good for this way. Let her make it up to yiu. If she doesn't put enough effort in the make up just go cold. Imagine if it's role reversed. She wouldn't take this shit. Niether should you.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:34 PM
6

Stay in it while you find new plates. It'll sort itself out
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:31 PM
1

Meh, some people enjoying teaching because the whole premise of being able to teach is based on you knowing more than then the leaner. This can be a source of feeling superior as you are the one who already knows everythjng and giving advice is a chance to display this.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:25 PM
2

All about screening. Im the type of guy who'd love a paired relationship, instead I've been through 15 or so girls in the past year, including a couple of close plates but haven't met anyone who could get past screening. It gets easier, you learn to feel a strange sort of self pride in not sacrificing what you want/need and sticking with your values. And learn to appreciate any "interaction" for what it is.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:19 PM
1

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:11 PM
2

By careing about yourself more than slags
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:11 PM
1

Great so now she thinks you took the break up so heavy your drowning yourself in alcohol to cope. Fucking amateur. Way to inflate her ego
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:09 PM
1

It happens but why text your ex that
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:02 AM
1

Ngl I'm on her side here. What the fuck are you doing?
/r/askTRP08/02/18 09:38 PM
4

Don't respond. She left you. It's not a shit test. You're in the wrong here, you're being a weirdo
/r/askTRP08/02/18 09:38 PM
2

Tbh with you I can understand with him more tho. Being with just the same girl can make you abit cabin sick. For a while I had a plate whos body to this day Is still one of the best I've had and think fondly of when thinking about past girls. But, even towards the end of that casual relationship I ended up thinking of other girls in order to finish when fucking.Bizarre
/r/askTRP08/02/18 07:13 PM
3

Same, used to be quantity for me but after the last year of pulling some Stella girls I'd rather quality Ended up back in bed with a girl from social circle the other day who wasn't great and I turned the sex down. Decision I that thanked myself for the next day.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 05:56 PM
1

It's because snapchat gives you some power. You can't see the snap unless you open it so no waiting round. You have an easy way to display high value through story. Inspire dread when you need to. Plus shell notice of you watch her story or not. And when you don't it low key drives them insane. For the whole 24 hrs her pic is up shes checking who's seen it. Each time mentally checking for you. Texting for logistics is preached here for the new ones who'll fuck up. Snapchat allows you to keep thi…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 08:40 AM
1

No he's not right. Snapchat is not remotely like giving a Facebook like.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 08:36 AM
5

Found the middle aged man
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:56 AM
2

"A few months" It'll take years but it will happen
/r/askTRP06/02/18 12:37 PM
1

How long did you know her before you LTR her.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 08:05 PM
1

Yeah aha I made that mistake once aswell
/r/askTRP05/02/18 07:57 PM
3

I think your trainer was trying to have a joke...
/r/askTRP05/02/18 07:39 PM
1

It's snapchat she probably hits everyone up. If she girl kept hitting me up with two word convos I'd either send one or two words back. Or just ignore them. And never watch her story
/r/askTRP05/02/18 07:13 PM
3

Before the eye rolling incident it was fine. You're a guy, there is nothing wrong with abit of cheekyness to a girl you speak too. However once she replied with an eye roll emoji yiu should of read and blanked her. Eye roll is a bad one to get anyway because shows she's boring. But the main thing is the fact she couldn't be arsed to send a text. All you deserved was one emoji. Does this girl deserve a text back after that? Hell no. Blank it. I messaged a girl the other day her second reply just …
/r/askTRP05/02/18 03:09 PM
2

Nah cos only bitches get Cucked by low smv Arabians
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:47 PM
2

Seem bitter. Suppose you would be if you're getting Cucked by three middle easterners. Pffffftt
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:42 PM
5

Aight, I tried, I'm done being nice to the retard. Lad your getting Cucked by Indians ahahahahahahahaahahahah How many posts do we see of Indian kids crying cos of their shity genetics yet three girls chose to get fucked by their Asian ass dicks instead of going out with you ahahahahahah. Cucked by not one, but three Indians! 😭😭
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:38 PM
3

It's redpill ya cuck
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:35 PM
3

You'll never get in trouble for somthing she does. I've been there. Always tell her you're gonna go to the authorities.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:27 PM
3

That's not how girls work bro. They want the highest value they feel they can get. Think of a cat and a feather. The cat us girl the feather is a boy. (Dance is metaphorical in this) If the feather dances Infront of the cat. It's has the cats attention. But if is stays in front of the cat within easy grabbing distance. The cat doesn't care. It's not challenge. It's not a valuable prize. If the feather dances infront the cat and then out of reach the cat is more interested. The feather darts with…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:22 PM
5

When I was 19 I was cunt. I would swagger about as king Dickhead. Girls would love it. They would flirt and giggle and I thought I was fantastic. Just like you. But there was an issue. I wasn't actually fucking them. Just like you're telling your self they're in an "annoying phase of pretending not to like alpha..." I too rationalised it away as being their fault. Over time I reflected and was honest with myself. Girls don't pretend shit. If they wanted to fuck me they would. Clearly I was my ow…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:07 PM
3

Sigh Makes a post crying about how girls reject him yet says they love his behaviour. Resorts to accusing me of being blue pill without any knowledge of my life. Irregardless of the fact I've practiced game/ redpill for 6/7 years Imma be real with you, from every comment and the post you wrote you seem kinda pathetic. You're a cuck to all these middle eastern guys you're crying about. Not realising it's because you're unattractively obtuse.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 08:09 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/askTRP04/02/18 08:02 PM
2

If this question is less about this one girl and more about you needing to improve your game then.. For tinder couple of messages back and forth. Just interesting fun ones. Then set up the meet. No texting until the meet unless she texts you. Set up multi meets on the same day and/or other activities instead of the date. If the girl texts you that day to confirm you're still going then great, go the date. If she doesn't then fuck the date off and do something else. If she messages you asking why…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 05:15 PM
2

If you had abundance you wouldn't care about some girls flaking. C'mon man abit of honest self reflection would not go amiss.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 05:11 PM
1

Where'd you learn to dance. I'm dubious that people are giving you space because they're so amazed at you abilities and more because you're a whirl of annoying arms and legs.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 05:07 PM
9

You sound like a shitty person. Girls pick up on that stuff
/r/askTRP04/02/18 04:38 PM
1

Seriously?
/r/askTRP04/02/18 04:29 PM
1

How often do you think a girl would view a guy as out her league. I always forget that angle because I don't empathise with it.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 04:28 PM
4

I think they would mean in response to the child calling you "mean". No response denies the chikd of attention, they value this attention and would learn to get it through more positive actions.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 06:11 PM
2

Do you have examples of this happening? Genuinely curious, all my experiences have been the opposite. Asoon as I antagonize they don't try and befriend me but play into the dynamic and flirt
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 12:47 PM
1

Agreed. All about how you deliver it and who you actually are
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 07:23 PM
2

Thing is you could literally tell a girl your not gonna sleep with her. But if you say it with confidence and a smirk which suggests that you both know she's getting the fucking off her life later it can work.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 07:18 PM
4

20lbs is a big difference. Especially for a little guy
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 07:48 PM
1

Depends on your interpretation of manipulation.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 07:29 PM
3

Count it as done and move on. Plenty more slags in the sea
/r/askTRP26/01/18 01:55 PM
11

Gonna be tough for you when you find out your plates have been sharing themselves anyway
/r/askTRP26/01/18 01:44 PM
7

The fact you thought it was a good idea to ask for commitment irregardless of the reasoning shows you have a lack of understanding about male to female dynamics. To then go on to claim that you have a perfect understanding of them apart from the commitment thing is silly. What results have to you seen? A kiss and useless answer after literally hours of your life being with this girl and thinking about it. I'm not saying it to be mean, I'm saying it so you can understand you're fucking up in othe…
/r/askTRP21/01/18 05:56 PM
4

If you're failing with that basic concepts then I'd wager the majority of your actions, whether they be conscious verbal ones or unconscious body language, are fucking you aswell.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 05:05 PM
9

Change one of your mates names in your phone to dad or uncle. Make sure he calls you. You pick up. Act like your parents are demanding you home. An off you pop
/r/askTRP20/01/18 03:34 PM
1

Conversation you don't need a book. For women just use game. Men just learn to have banter and don't be an emotional complainer
/r/askTRP19/01/18 07:08 PM
-2

In other science related matters they have recently discovered that water is wet
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 08:11 PM
3

Honestly it's down to fixing your core. Years ago I was like you, trying to work out the best thing to say. Now I just chat shit without a care in the world and it works perfectly. Why? Because when i have fun so she does too. I don't have to think how can I break rapport or do this and that, instead it happens naturally. I tease when it's fun and build rapport when I'm interested in somthing she says. Two things you need to do is 1) learn social skills. How to convo and body language. 2) improv…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 08:00 PM
4

You ever thought about improving your smv and social skills. Just like you'd improve your computer skills for an IT job
/r/askTRP13/01/18 10:43 PM
2

Think about the captain - first mate. If the captain fucked up in such away that he needed a to apologise to the first mate as the best way of dealing with it then fine, but would he beg the first nate for forgiveness? No he'd day sorry and that would be enough. If the first mate started acting up and playing games, would the captain chance after trying to solve the issue? No. He gave them an apology, there the ones being fucking weird. Dont give in anymore, stay aloof and she'll come back. Pers…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 05:34 PM
0

Why do you need men to retake society en mass? If more man where these strong alpha then you have more competition. If you're an alpha in your own right then who cares about betas not getting any. Not your problem
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 11:54 AM
2

Didn't somthing similar happen to Babalon
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 11:52 AM
0

But they do. Ahahah what a moronic reply
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 10:19 PM
1

It really doesn't tho🌚. The time taken to write a comment pumping up your own superiority could of been spent writing a quick list. Ya prick. Edit: jesus fucking wept, just went through your post history and I've gotta search through shitty constant uploads of porn and fake approach videos. Fucking moron
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 03:55 PM
0

What game writers do you have in mind?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 08:29 PM
4

Do it back to her. Have morning sex with one plate and see this one later in the day.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:31 PM
9

Speaking on your point 1. One of my favourite things to do after an animal fuck, where's she's left wondering if you even care, is just after that stage when your both catching your breath and just before I pull out Is too kiss her tenderly on the forehead. Insane how such a simple gesture works wonders
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 03:24 PM
22

Swallowed at 20? And youre in your late 20s now? So youve had around 7 entire years of red pill and you have only just came to these conclusions?? Interesting
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 08:52 AM
7

It works because you being an asshole shows that you don't care if you offend them and if they decide to leave. If you did care about them leaving you'd be nice hoping they stay. This is turns displays abundance from you and also displays value. Also an asshole challenges girls. It's more fun for them. More interesting spending time with an asshole then a normal guy. They way to work it is to not be a malicious asshole. Be an uncaring self amused asshole. Also understand that after you've built …
/r/askTRP27/12/17 01:41 PM
4

Just cos the guys on red pill doesn't mean he's actually a red pill guy. Furthermore I have a therapy background which includes domestic abuse, including conducting be multiple interpretative phenomenological analysis of abuse testimonials. Your relationship is heading down the path of domestic abuse. Red pill guys promote teasing, amused mastery, dealing with shit tests. Etc What they don't promite is being a bitch, getting angry and lashing out. The latter is a faggot of a man.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:12 PM
1

Yeah right now she is just meeting a guy for the validation. If girls slept with every guy that they see as easy as you make out seduction and pua and so suave etc would not exist cos men could get all the sex the want. They guys probably a bitch which would explain him messages some girl he knew years ago so she's not gonna sleep with him. Should you cares she's using him for validation? Nah I do the same from other girls. It's life.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 08:14 PM
1

Ah well. That's life
/r/askTRP16/12/17 04:56 PM
1

Should of gone with, and sat there lent back looking smug at this little bitches weasley attempt to finesse your girl
/r/askTRP16/12/17 03:55 PM
1

Some people are shit at conversation. Maybe they're the ones giving a poor response. Don't always blame yourself
/r/askTRP15/12/17 01:33 PM
5

Focus on feelings and emotions. Someone says they went to Italy by themselves instead of asking a mechanical question such as "what did you do there?" Ask an emotional leading one"how did you feel travelling by yourself?"..."Was it more exciting.. blah blah" etc. Oh and don't bully people with banter stemming from your own insecurities
/r/askTRP14/12/17 02:19 PM
1

I meant good reactions. And yeah just stems from lack of control. Eventually you can choose when to be nice and not based on the situation
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:31 PM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:15 AM
0

I use to be like that. It stemmed from a fear of being a bitch. The quicker I realised it's not only okay but sometimes useful to be nice the better things became. It was hard as e everytime I started being nicer I'd feel like a pussy. The reactions you get when your an asshole are insane and seeing those reactions disappear due to nicer behaviour was the hardest part. Eventually I realised which asshole stuff was actually holding me back and restricting me and how being nicer socially opened up…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:11 AM
40

If you're unhappy leave
/r/askTRP13/12/17 03:26 AM
7

It's high school you'll be giving him a early life lesson. Go for it
/r/askTRP12/12/17 03:43 PM
14

She clearly does not care about you. Why care about her enough to even think of a response. Just ignore her
/r/askTRP12/12/17 03:33 PM
0

Yeah my phone has a weird tendacy to auto correct 'youre' to your instead of you're. At this point I simply do not care
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 09:38 AM
5

Plus that would show that the two of you simply arnt that compatible if she's need a break away from you. There's 3 billion women there's one who love every day with you. Next the unsure bitch to find the right one, if relationship is what you want.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 11:03 PM
1

No, don't close this account so you can make a new one and post the same shit. Just leave your house and get a life. It's a long road but ya gotta do it
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:52 PM
35

Because a break is a chance for her to have guilt free cock and then return to you when she's finished being a slut. Even if a girl asks you it shows she is already planning ways to get other cock. So even if you didn't let the break happen shell just be more stealth about it. Either way she's displayed that she doesn't value your cock and is wanting others therefore it's time to cut your loses and hard next
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 06:49 PM
1

Read it again then. I've seen so many of your posts. you're enthusiastic, great, but this mental masturbation that you keep writing about is just a way for you to feel slighty better about your shitty past with girls. Start actually talking to girls and have a life and you suddenly won't be posting stuff like this shite cos you'll be too busy enjoying your life
/r/askTRP06/12/17 04:07 PM
50

Never ever take a girl back after a break unless it's as a plate which she knows about. If your in a relationship with a girl and she wants a break it's done.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 03:31 PM
62

You never been friends with a girl? If you arnt looking to fuck her and are happy being a mate girls will tell you all sorts if they know your not the judgey type
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 03:30 PM
59

Just fuck off with these silly little titles
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 03:29 PM
9

From your reply I feel as tho you do more theory than actual experience. Also we're talking about a girl he's already been with not a brand new one. Think of it this way. You can eat and enjoy a meal. It tastes good, it feels good inside you but eventually it comes to an end and you shit it out. You don't look at the toilet and stick the shit back in your mouth to enjoy munching on it again. It's a hoe that he's already fucked multiple times. He has no reason to go back. If he wants to have sex …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 01:47 PM
24

You do. Lose your dignity for crawling back to a hoe.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 10:11 AM
3

I've always looked to the future naturally. Once I've finished with a girl my mind simple continues focusesing on my future. She's no longer part of that so she's no longer part of my thought process. Obviously immediately after things have ended I think about her instead of the future however the future being my normal way of thinking means no girl stays in my head longer than a couple of weeks before I utterly forget about them.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 09:26 PM
1

No problem
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:06 PM
6

It was. I can spell it out for the slow ones tho. Asking why the fuck are you with her after mentioning deadbedroom and girlfriend implies that there is no point being with her. The constructive implication? Leave her for a girl who actually appreciates your cock in her.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:47 PM
29

Girlfriend.....deadbedroom. Why the fuck are you with her
/r/askTRP24/11/17 03:40 PM
8

Smh
/r/askTRP19/11/17 04:19 PM
3

How you gaming thru Dms without looking like a bitch?
/r/askTRP18/11/17 10:26 PM
2

That'd be weird
/r/askTRP12/11/17 10:19 AM
1

It's normal to how your feeling. Scarcity just amplifys the feeling whereas abundance let's you shrug it off. I just had one of my favourite plates drop of. The next day I was out enjoying myself and fucking a different plate. Doesn't mean I don't care about someone who I've shared many hours of life with but does mean I can move on easily and appreciating the time I did spend instead of wishing it back.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 02:22 PM
2

Having sex fast? Maybe as you've grown you more attractive so women are more game for sex with you. I say this because all the girls I've been with (together) if we couldn't go from sitting on the sofa to sex within a few minutes I probably would of looked elsewhere for more excitement. But I'm young so maybe that's it
/r/askTRP08/11/17 12:39 PM
1

You cannot reason people out of positions they didn't reason themselves into type thing then?
/r/askTRP07/11/17 01:50 PM
1

That maybe is not getting changed. Just go the event. But go the event to enjoy it not for her. Might even meet a better girl there
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:35 PM
2

Of course you don't have to pass with perfect streak. There's man out their who are too much of a bitch to decide where to eat and end up arguing with there girl about where to go because the guy can't lead. He'll still be having sex with her. Obviously we strive away from the above "man" but the point is that you don't have to be this perfect alpha. Ironically once you stop careing about this you become closer to it. Shit test are generally the same because they're lighthearted. A girl might th…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:29 PM
1

The answer to this lies in the reason why you gave a shit answer in the first place. If giving a shit answer was a rarity and not congruent to who you are then it won't matter because the rest of your actions / non verbal communication / micro communications will display your high status. If you answered badly because you are still trying to play the part of a high status guy then all those actions etc will already being displaying that. Therefore if the girl didn't like you it wouldnt be becaus…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:24 PM
3

Honestly now It comes down to me not careing anymore. When you have experience behind you it leads you to know without a shadow of a doubt that women will come onto your life if another one goes. Good women too. How did you know? Because it's happened before.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:12 PM
2

Amen brother
/r/askTRP05/11/17 01:36 PM
1

Yeah I'll remember to keep more vague. This plate seemed so content being a plate that I always assumed it would end over going bored. Surprised me she quickly went committed with someone else. Would not to commit to her personally, far too much of a party girl.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 09:16 AM
2

Keeping with this shitty analogue. If some of those vegetables ran out cos they went moldy you learn you should buy less or different type or get some tupperwear. Then you buy accordingly and your life is incrementally better because you don't have moldy veg anymore.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 09:12 AM
5

So do men if there SMV is higher enough. Raise your SMV
/r/askTRP30/10/17 10:18 AM
1

Basically everything we feel: anger, hate, love, sadness, attachment, lose etc. Is caused by chemical stimulations on are neuron receptors. In the case of the example when a women engages in sex (especially if she reaches organ) her brain will release the chemical/ hormone -Oxytocin - this chemical causes the feels of attachment that will make people feel as tho they belong together and don't want to separate.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:41 PM
1

Hmm I understand. What about when a plate puts in less effort towards having sex but doesn't demand more attention. At that point would I be right in saying that the plate has hit her sell by date
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:26 PM
1

So how did we use this to our advantage? Common sense would to be withdrawn attention for misdemeanours, however is she's spinning plates herself she won't care as she can get attention else were.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:02 PM
1

Most girls I know love sex to the point the actively look for it. Interesting how you say they don't get attached to guys they fuck when biologically a woman's brain releases a chemical specifically design to make her feel attached to her sexual partner
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:49 PM
1

Depends on the girl and how you connect. As long as the emotional connection doesn't undermine the strong masculine traits she's attracted too then it's fine. For example crying about your stress is emotional, however that undermines you masculinity by showing that you can't handle shit and your a bitch. However connecting over desires, ambitions etc is emotional but they still display "Alpha" traits. Further example because you seem niave Cuddling her because you live the feeling and wanting to…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 02:43 PM
3

Just don't give a fuck. A Lil amused sound plus a whatever shrug and your fine. It's happened to me so often now I honestly don't even care in the situation. Because I don't care normally within a hour or two in hard. Also I've found it more lighthearted referring to your dick in third person in this situation. Instead of saying "I can't get hard" just saying "looks like he's tired" in reference to your dick with an indifferent almost bemused expression. Whenever I've done this the girl has alwa…
/r/askTRP20/10/17 09:25 PM
3

Aslong as you are getting everything you want then it's good. If connecting emotionally with a plate class her to not give you the sex you desire then that would be bad, for example. But if you can do the 'nice' things with a plate and still be fulfilled then great. Oh and of fucking course you can cuddle after sex.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 09:01 PM
2

What do you mean have no future plans to see her? Does going home and then not speaking until a week later to set a meet count?
/r/askTRP20/10/17 08:52 PM
3

That's why trp originated! To help guys optimise their sexual strategy to "snatch more pussy". This sub isn't for guys who are too much of a faggot to talk to women to rationalise it away through telling themselves to just self improve and forget sex. This sub is for those faggots who want to improve so they can have sex with amazing women
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 09:36 AM
8

I'm sure the guy who made this sub even said himself to fuck off with the whole "this is a self improvement sub for men". It's a sexual strategy sub. If you need to self improve as part of your strategy then great. But if your claiming you don't want to chase girls and just self improve your in the wrong sub
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 09:32 AM
44

Any insight into how you went about your initial meeting of then. Also interested in how you built attraction even tho you view yourself as a 6/7
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 07:04 PM
3

Sounds like you didn't lead strong enough on setting up the second date. Just forget her and move onto another aspect of life. If she messages you great, she's in your frame. If she doesn't, who cares you're focused on somthing else and she's forgotten
/r/askTRP12/10/17 10:39 PM
6

Game is brilliant in its true form. Unfortunately like you said has been ruined by these gurus chatting shit. Game isn't about what to say, it's how you communicate. Communication is a big way in how humans display their value.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 07:54 PM
6

You're wrong. Of course people do. I for one do, I genuinely enjoy the time I spend with my plates. We're friends at the end of the day. Just friends who fuck. Why would he care about this girls feelings? Only met on tinder. "Threatening her into having sex" my faggot sensors are tingling. He's not threatening her he's just being high value.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 07:49 PM
1

It's insane nowadays how many guys struggle with it. A good friend of mine is successful with girls but Cummings during sex or keeping a hard on through out Is simple not a possibility for him
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 12:10 PM
22

The irony of situations like this is almost painful. If you care about the situation and it hurts you then those feelings will manifest through you, this will push her away. Because you care this will upset you. If you didn't care a out the situation you wouldn't give a fuck and that would manifest through you. This would most likely make her stick with you. But you don't care either way so you take no pleasure from it. It's also interesting that Redpill doctrine always says keep texting to a mi…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 10:43 AM
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Your not having sex with any other girls atm are you Just ignore her. Use it as social proof
/r/askTRP08/10/17 10:35 AM
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Hmmm, a previous comment of yous said you replied with a different comment, which she replied with how come you don't ask you girlfriend? dunno if you used this one afterwards. If you did then yeah it probably would go wierd because it's kinda been forced into the conversation. If she gave a straight no with nothing else my dignity wouldn't let me reply to that, move in and find others. The whole point is you don't want to waste time on girls who arnt that interested when there are girls who are…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 08:09 AM
1

Okay just wait a couple of hours then reply with somthing light hearted or joking. "you said you where gonna make up for it so I'm sure you can be forgiven 😉" and get the date sorted
/r/askTRP07/10/17 06:28 PM
1

Fucking hell man give me her number and I'll finesse her myself, smh. I don't know what you guys talk about. Just use call back humour about somthing cute she's done or somthing silly. Just make it personal.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 05:24 PM
1

It's aight man. Best advice I can give you is don't learn what to do. But learn how to put yourself in the women's mind so you know what to do. That shit takes time
/r/askTRP07/10/17 04:25 PM
1

It builds emotion. Imagine a roller coaster. The roller coaster is her emotions and the track is designed by you. If you nice and boring the track is flat. That's boring. A fun roller coaster goes up (good feelings) but also has to go down(bad feelings). If you go too extreme one way then the person riding the coaster won't like it and will want to get off. That's why you have to learn how to calibrate yourself to her and give her the ride she will get the most rush from. In your situation right…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:57 PM
1

Perfect right now she's worried. When you message her somthing nicer her emotions get completely flipped on there head. That is what gets girls hooked.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:29 PM
1

Yeah if it's just her then it never will
/r/askTRP07/10/17 02:16 PM
2

Stop wanking for a week and you'll want sex.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 09:46 AM
2

Seems abit fucking weird to me that she left with that excuse. Sounds like your where being to evasive. I mean let's be honest, you dealing with her in a way you read from a book. Your not dealing with her because that's who you are or how you been with past women. She'll have picked up in the lack of congruence between you being "mysterious" and your actual personality which makes that evasioness to answer seem like it has an alternative motive to it, it's not just who you are. Which is true. T…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 09:45 AM
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Don't fucking tell her Jack shit about feeling Hopeless at work. Jesus christ she's gonna ruminate on that till the day she leaves you. If you need to talk about feelings talk to men. If you need to communicate more with your girl to keep her happy then that is fine but follow the golden rule of communication with your girl Always have a positive spin on it, with the impression that your are in control of the situation and have it handled. Think about a little girl asking you what's going in in …
/r/askTRP07/10/17 09:37 AM
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Try schooling him about girls, if he realised you know alot and are talking sense he may respect you alot more and start deferring to you. If you don't deliver with enough conviction and he doubles down. Just apologise to her to keep him sweet. You actions are justified tho, she was a bitch. Fuck her the boring twat
/r/askTRP07/10/17 09:29 AM
1

Too serious man. "I liked living in a bad neighbourhood." be fun and tease her "why?, you in a little gang eh running stealing gummy bears from the shop" she's gonna laugh "Ahaha noo I was good/ didn't do stuff like that." you carry on the fun. "whatever. innocent act aint working on me. Got my eye on you I reckon your trouble" From a shitty convo you've segwayed into a super easy flirting situation which you can lead into sexual stuff so easy.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 09:26 AM
1

Just day nah if you don't have it. Then tease her about it if needs be "ah no bet your one of those who puts a picture of their captain crunch and avocado up like it's art"
/r/askTRP07/10/17 09:18 AM
2

Christ, a plate who's well behaved a loyal for 6 months. And people ask why I'm against LTRs at this stage of my life.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 09:13 AM
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It's a colossal shit test, just ignore and carry on. Don't use logic to talk to her about this AT ALL. This enters her shitty frame. Treat it like one big joke and tease her about it. "I'm on your mind all day? Doesn't surprise me I'm pretty fucking amazing like arnt I 😏" / "yeah that idea sounds great I'm saving myself from marriage for that special one anyway so don't be thinking you have your way with me" Whatever, the whole point is by responding through just chatting shit your reducing this…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 09:12 AM
2

Making out to sex. Just follow your instincts and desires. Follow, NOT blinded by them. Stay astute to her. As your progressing with you hands don't rush through it, push forward with increasingly sexual contact but bring back now and again to so let her relax and feel comfortable with you and the situation. Don't be so giddy you're kissing her that you're blind to her. Feel her thoughts. If she tightens up her body when you put your hand down the back of her pants you know it is in her mind so …
/r/askTRP07/10/17 09:04 AM
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The normal mantra here is suck it up bitch Psychologically take a day or two, no more. During these days embrace your feelings fully. Let them out, explore them fully. After two days your not allowed too anymore, it's back to being a man. Mentally you'll have cathargized and can now head in a useful direction
/r/askTRP07/10/17 08:58 AM
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Your fear for her actions shows your already in her frame. Your too afraid to soft dread her. If you chatted briefly to another girl and then you gf became a terrorist for the rest of the night trying to punish you for bad behaviour I would go silent on her, no response, no reaction. Why? Because then she'll start wondering if she's having an affect, why you don't care. Throw in some glances at the girl you chatted in and she'll pick up on the fact that her being a cunt to you is making you thin…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 08:05 AM
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Yeah it is. That's why she doesn't deserve your full attention. Don't need to be mean to her, that is too heavy handed but her importance to you should be reduced until she earned it back with good positive texts and a willingness to set up the next date etc. Found it interesting that she took the same amount of time to reply to you as you did to her. Might be coincidence or probably displays her playing games. You can use that to your advantage tho as you understand her mindset and can empathis…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 12:03 AM
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Depends on the wait. Waiting for sex with a girl who isnt mentally there yet is pretty shit. Waiting for a girl because the logistics just arnt in your favour for weeks or whatever and then finally finessing that smash can be incredibly satisfying
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:56 PM
1

How did it end up going? Cos that reply you sent was gay as fuck
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:52 PM
1

I'd fully wallow in the enjoyment of her paying bills. Sounds fuck fantastic, if your emasculated by her paying bills then you've got some underlying insecuritues about your manhood
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:48 PM
2

Fuck knows mate. Hell she might think you special or on the spectrum and she's trying to friendly. At the end of the day do two things, one pressure flip it. Respond to her with a 'how you doing friend/pal/lad/man/guy" if she shit tests with a "guy? I'm not a guy" etc just smirk and look away and talk to someone else. This negates the power of her calling you a friend and shows you don't care. Two build attraction. Stick to basics. Build and brake rapport, push pull. Ask and tease. All will get …
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:44 PM
2

Think long and hard about why the girl would fancy you. Honestly why the fuck would a girl fancy a guy so needy that he can't move on. You had her day one and then you threw it in the bin by being a bitch. She picked up on it. Maybe she was on her period it happens. So she sucks your cock instead not cuddly her. And then you berated and insulted her for not wanting to go a date with a guy that has so little self respect and confidence that he would pine after her even when she's treated him like…
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:40 PM
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Just be chill, if she pushes for a relationship before sex just tell her that sex is an incredibly intimate act between two people and you feel as tho you couldn't give yourself exclusively to someone you have not felt that intimate connection with yet. Why say that? Because it let's her know she needs to put out if she's gonna get you without demanding it off her. And also it suggests that you have a warm and positive view on sex. An attitude which is very important to her with it being her fir…
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:32 PM
1

Just fucking talk to girls and stay fit. You will pull eventually and mentally you will be miles above the version of yourself that is fucking paying for sex
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:28 PM
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Don't reply for a couple of days, this let's her worry that she's lost you. Hopefully she'll text you first either way her emotional state has dipped. You then text her somthing, her emotions raise because she's finally heard back (keeping her in that sweet emotional roller-coaster) . Keep the texts sporadic sometimes quick reply but normality several hours apart because she doesn't deserve it. Within no more than a couple of days of this plan next date. I had a girl cancel a first date claiming…
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:24 PM
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Simple stuff, if your at a bar of cafe etc. Leave her at the table and go order, while you order strike up a convo with a cute girl. Your girl will notice, you act completely ignorant of it when you come back to the table.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:20 PM
3

If you sent your opener and quickly set a date how did you end up with her snapchat? Seems kinda redundant or did you get it while fleshing out the date plan
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 11:14 PM
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Ignore the old bastards who don't know what it's like being young in this day and age, snapchat is great. First of all don't copy everyone else, they post to much with unoriginal captions. Post sparingly with funny caption. For dread game just take a picture of somthing that indicates your out / with people and let the girls mind do the worm. Remember to let her over think it. A picture of you and a girl in a restaurant is try hard but a picture of your meal that subtle has a girls hand or maybe…
/r/askTRP05/10/17 01:45 PM
2

"nah don't get your hopes up"
/r/askTRP02/10/17 07:27 AM
1

Mate, after I read the evidence you yourself provided it confirmed exactly what I said. They just chose to use each micro break between pelvic convulsions to break up the continuous organs into isolated ones. For the woman in the study she'll have felt am orgasm lasting non stop almost, just coming and going in intensity.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 05:05 PM
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After a point orgasms don't become distinguishable from one another, they just become a rolling wave of pleasure. That's why you dumbass comment of 50 orgasm is getting downvoted
/r/askTRP29/09/17 04:00 PM
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Humans are social creatures. The hierarchy of status is established in circles very quickly and people don't like it being changed as that could result in them being a tier lower now if you went above. Everytime you start exhibiting asshole behaviour you are showing signs that you should be of higher status within the group. People already having established you as low will instinctively react by pushing you back down to where they belive you belong. Everytime you revert back to your old behavio…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 11:07 AM
2

Do you find you have to play a nice more friendly game style because you size and strength intimidates them?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 12:20 PM
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No shit when you 210lbs. Clearly the man was aiming at skinny dudes
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 10:33 AM
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Coming from a guy who was 6'2 140lbs once - yeah height plays a big part, girls love it. What they don't love is the body of a boy
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 09:32 AM
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My bad for wording it shite. Was trying to ask how would describe yourself psychically, skinny/built/slightly muscular and was asking if girls pick up on your body
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 07:57 PM
1

How would describe yourself at 6'2 nearly 180, girls pick up on you being athletic?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 07:42 PM
1

Fill out a medium shirt well
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 02:22 PM
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Couple of inches height make a surprising difference in weight needed to look big. When I was 6f2 160 I looked like a bean pole. My 5ft10 gym buddy at a similar weight looked big asf
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 02:22 PM
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Really? I knew a guy at 6ft3 200lbs and he looked enormous, rarely see anyone bigger in day to day life . And yeah I'm 6'2 and I want to hit 180 just a as realistic goal for the year but that's still skinny in my head, so I don't know how OP feels being 6'2 170
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 12:21 PM
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6ft2 170lbs is pretty skinny right?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 10:44 AM
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Two reasons it could be Once out the bright loud lights of the arcade and on a calm walk back her emotional state changed. Leading her to not want to have sex. If she's walking back over thinking how not to have sex she probably panicked herself into doing something stupid. reanalyze the convo you had walking back, clearly you did not calibrate to how she was feeling in the walk and adjust how you spoke in person Final point, I know it's hard and it came as a surprise but you should have called …
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:34 AM
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Shit yeah, that's a good point. I figured her ego had been hurt, what do you think is the best way to rectify it? I've found showing and letting her feel desired works but open to suggestions
/r/askTRP14/09/17 06:33 AM
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Yeah that's interesting view. I thought she was doing it as a way of ego soothing.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 07:28 PM
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Seems to be that way. I'm intrigued to see if she comes back if I just carry on as I always have, I think she will.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 05:54 PM
1

Why not plates? Stops them from getting bored with you and keeps your value high so they keep up good behaviour I've always found.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 05:19 PM
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Not always, remember a woman is hardwired to survive. If a man is too dangerous or violent etc. She will be turned off as to be attracted to him would put her life and offspring at risk. It's a grey area
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 03:53 PM
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Do you not realise what you are saying in your entire comment? You repeatedly say the higher your value the more you can "get away with bullying" a girl. By your own admission bullying someonr a lot is not good because you have to have the value to "get away" with it. Sure it's a good indication of your value: how much you can get away. However, I was talking about behaviour which makes the girls most likely to have sex with you. That behaviour is bullying mixed with niceness. I suggest you eith…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 01:20 PM
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Being an dickhead works but you have to mix it with being nice aswell. You can't bully a girl into having sex with you, some girls you can but not mentally healthy ones. I am a dickhead. Literally lads and girls will identify me as a dickhead because I do and say what I want. However that doesn't mean I don't have tact. With guys I'm not ruining friendships because I'm loyal and sound. And with girls I'm not a dickhead because I am making themselves feel bad, I'm a dickhead because I'm laughing …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 03:12 PM
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Switch up who you focus on. When I'm in a group convo and one person keeps trying to talk to me it starts to annoy me and I avoid them
/r/askTRP02/09/17 03:14 PM
2

Yeah that first good shoe screams lack of personality and honestly unsexy vibe. I'm young and hang around with young people, a good pair or stylish sneakers and you're winning.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 03:10 PM
2

He means why have one. You're in a place when you can get access to sex with tight hot girls easily. Why waste those years being loyal to a girl who you won't even be with in 5 years time. You have a choice: be single for a few years, enjoy kissing and fucking a plethora of girls, then when it's out your system (been there done that) you can settle into a relationship, happy that you've enjoyed your time and content that you ready for a companionship with a girl. Or be with a girl for a couple o…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 03:06 PM
1

What's 1 and 3?
/r/askTRP02/09/17 03:00 PM
1

Maybe, I don't know about you but the idea of someone raping a women I cared about makes me feel awful. Not sure why, could be a feeling of failing to protect her as a man, sadness that she's been ruined, empathy for someone I care about being hurt. And yeah I agree I wish the sub could stay focused on the Sexual strategy and less on the injustices of life
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 03:23 PM
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Push - pull. The bedrock of good game
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 02:41 PM
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It's about teaching sexual strategy, however this strategy has displayed the true nature of feminism and such. Being a man of the red pill means your aware of the SJW narrative being forced upon other men, this awareness leads to a reaction. Your right in suggesting this post is entirely an ideological discussion, however it's hard to ignore when your attune to these issues and you hear about how a man and his wife can't even go to a European country without her being raped by a gang of degenera…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 02:36 PM
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Not really, it's just an arbitrary discussion point.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:42 AM
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Hows any more information relevant
/r/askTRP29/08/17 08:46 PM
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Fuck off mate
/r/askTRP29/08/17 07:23 PM
1

That's good way to think about it
/r/askTRP29/08/17 07:22 PM
1

Yeah I have been for a year now just a long way to go still, I was curious to see how much it was holding me back because I do very well for myself because I've consciously applying game since I was 16 and have a nice face. But I'm always just wondering what a difference I'll experience when I hit my goals and I don't look like a stick man
/r/askTRP29/08/17 06:56 PM
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Already have been for the past year its a long progress when you start with so little, being >6ft and <150 leaves alot to build. Added about 15lbs lean by the end of the year but still a skinny fuck.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 06:53 PM
3

One thing this book advocates it to limit eye contact with a girl because it makes you look feminine. This advice flies in the face of conventional seductioj
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 06:58 PM
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General rule, only share positively spun stories never negative ones
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 06:43 PM
2

Good luck, kudos for all the approaches.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 09:50 PM
2

You're right there are gonna be some bad days, but guess who doesn't give a shit about that. Girls. Of course I experience bad days but I never let that change how I interact with a women. I understand you're making a point that this is just a write up about a bad day, but my point is all those angry, miserable negative thoughts towards women and your situation are internally swirling around while you deal with women. I'm gonna guess that at day 30 or even day 50 of your journey when you except …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 06:54 PM
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You're too miserable. Being an asshole or dick doesn't mean being a cunt towards the world. The type of asshole/dick you want to be is a lighthearted funny one, who is a dick because he isn't afraid to tease or say no to her in a lighthearted way so she responds with laughter and attraction, rather than getting defensive and annoyed. and why the fuck where you trying to explain to that girl about the hardships of online dating? She doesnt give a fuck, shes just going to be turned off by what an …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 02:46 PM
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Some people are just fucked in the head. Kinda like how some guys are fucked in the head and act like a lost boy
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 08:33 AM
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Don't understand why people always point it out. I was a 6ft2 145lb bean pole,but never had people make skinny comments to me. Just the odd observation once a few months at most.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 08:32 AM
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Yeah HPV is sorted out by your body after a couple of years
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 08:18 AM
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She isn't lowering attraction to you because of your lost fight. She's lowering attraction because of your response to it. Clearly you feel emasculated by the lose which is evidenced by your insecurity about how your women views you atm. It's this insecurity and lack of confidence which she is picking up on. If you held your head high knowing you defended yourself and didn't give a fuck what she thought, she'd still respect and be attracted to you.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 09:03 AM
1

Yeah giving someone massive grin and staring at their eyes till they begin to giggle sounds like grade A cringe
/r/askTRP10/04/17 08:55 AM
1

Yes and no. Few people will really allow themselves to be in the position of being mugged off. For alot of girls if they truly think you don't care then they'll forget about you and move on as a defence against being mugged off. A middle ground where they spend their time wondering if you do or don't care is best
/r/askTRP07/04/17 06:52 PM
1

I will do, nice one
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:16 PM
1

You're right
/r/askTRP07/04/17 04:58 PM
2

Yeah a lot do come around after along period of time ghosting them. I'm intrigued about how my most recent plate will play out
/r/askTRP07/04/17 04:13 PM
2

In past experience I've found that messaging a girl, after getting to know and fucking her, days and days later has led to them believing I don't care, and not wanting to be waiting around for a guy have found other vices to full fill her. So our meeting up again isnt too important for her. (bearing in mind all the girls in my life being a student are 18-22 party/club sluts) Keep connected just means keep a line of communication between us so she is still investing in it.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:54 PM
1

No the opposite, my in-person game is tight af. I wouldn't say I rely on text but I use it to keep connected with the girls
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:29 PM
1

Normally about the same as you, or aim too anyway. My above example I saw alot in one week. More than I should of done. But I felt like it gave my more control as she was heavily invested in me and liking me
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:34 PM
1

How much experience?
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:33 PM
2

Yeah I'm expecting to hear that alot. But it seems like a lot of girls in my demographic take it personally that they've essentially been forgotten about for so long before you do text them.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:50 AM
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Blame your girlfriend. Oh and fuck that Paul out your life. Fucking bitch probably fancies your bird
/r/askTRP06/04/17 11:29 AM
1

Sometime pretend I can't juggle but manage to self teach myself in a few minutes
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 10:12 AM
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Gonna be hard to hear I'm afraid. It this situation it's because she simply doesn't care about you at all. She put the story up without even thinking about the fact you've messaged her. She doesn't care
/r/askTRP04/04/17 10:52 AM
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Nah fuck that girl. She knew exactly what she was doing putting up a story while blanking you. Or she simple does not care about you at all. Forget her a move on, there will be others
/r/askTRP04/04/17 10:18 AM
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Yeah I've always believed that once a girl starts acting like a child she is fully into me. It's a whole fun dynamic to be a part of. For example just before we cooked a meal and when I'm sat eating she's giggling away poking and prodding like a little terrorising child after attention, eventually I turn her over and spank her for misbehaving, letting her know this and keeping it fun. Before your know it, she's now rolling around on the floor giddy, like a child on fine grade sugar.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 09:53 AM
2

Guess what. Girls like to be railed by a guy just as much as a men like to bang women. They don't have to always like you, sometimes they just want to have sex.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 09:40 AM
1

Serious? Just look at media, it's abundantly clear people acknowledge they like sex.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 09:38 AM
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No where I'm from. I do really well among other students and compared to the general average. But those 9 out of tens my age are simple not available in my life. The clubs the go to are too expensive. They exclusively go for older guys with expensive gear/cars. Not some poor ass student who's only thing to offer is a nice body and a nice face. Alot of guys have that who also have the status and power of money and career. It's okay for me. I do well, have nailed some very attractive girls and I k…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 09:31 AM
3

Obviously haven't got the full story of your situation. But, why don't you let her take a big project, wait for her orbiter to be doing the work. Then have a normal chat with a boss of your choice about work in general and ask how come they decided they needed two me members of staff to so that specific work. When they ask what you mean, acted confused and be like well you asked(the women) and I assumed you asked (orbiter) as well because he was doing a lot of the work. And sit back and see what…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 09:24 AM
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Step by step will never actually work in the real world. I started out like you and now I get a hell of alot more girls in my life but have not a clue what the step by step needs to be. I just have the few important basics and it works perfect. You'll understand what I mean one day. However a good place to start for you would be mystery method
/r/askTRP26/03/17 06:06 PM
1

It's not paranoia about someone disagreeing with my "world view". I welcome disagreement, having someone else put forward a point of view I haven't thought about is always good. I'm just tired of seeing over the years more and more people on TRP upset about having different opinions instead of just discussing them. In response to you tho... To say a women can't love a man is inherently stupid, that is true. However I do believe that the basis of the love is different. Men and women feel the same…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:31 PM
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Not quite, the difference in roles, of men and women, betrays the difference in love for one another. A males love will always come from a source of desire to protect. A love for her endearing qualities. However a women won't love a man for the primary reason of desire to protect him. She will love him for the feeling of security and protection she gets from him. Ergo their love is different. It's also why alot of people say a women loves her children the way a man loves his women. Edit: Downvot…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 11:31 AM
1

Nice face /= 9. A 9 = an unreal face
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 09:54 AM
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Whoever here claims that enjoying art and wine makes you a Beta is a tosser and not to be taken seriously. It's good to follow your passions
/r/askTRP19/03/17 11:05 PM
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Two months of hard work. 8-12 is still at least 8-12 nights out, on top of being flawless every night. Mixed in with your career /social life/hobbies etc,a night out every week plus the next day being a write off due to the hangover, isn't always accessible. Although I do agree with your point. 8-12 for hooking up in your life is far too low.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 11:00 AM
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Yeah the question OP asked is an interesting one, however any meaningful answer will be lost on him because I highly doubt, from his description, that he's an "Alpha" fucking them.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 07:56 PM
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That is the issue tho. For a high value "red pill guy" there won't be any kind of women to wait for. That fact he won't wait and instead pursues want he wants in life is part of what makes him attractive. When a guy gives up his instinctual masculine drive to procreate just so he can spend time with girl out of millions, he has show cased unattractive low value traits. If the idea of a guy giving up sex, because you're that special he'll wait, validates you in some way then your gonna struggle b…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 10:01 AM
1

A women's love is adoration and admiration built from respect of the masculinity of her man.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 01:39 AM
1

Because snapchat is the number one way for young people to talk. It's more fun than texting, can be more flirty, can be more sexual. Also very useful to game girls through the use of the story. You should get it
/r/askTRP10/03/17 09:37 PM
6

Is that actually you? Good cheekbones, to women who notice and like that you're more than a 6
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 09:34 PM
3

Because of the setting. It's Uni where everyone is enjoying being young. If the 30+guy is the lecturer than alot of the girls will fancy him. But a 30+ guy who is on the same level course is seen as lower.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 07:54 PM
4

Jesus fucking Christ, you can feel your insecurity vividly through your response. He makes some good points and your Ego is so fucking delicate that you have to post a paragraph on why you're so great. Fuck outta here man and come back when you can be humble
/r/askTRP10/03/17 07:52 PM
3

Nah, icy tone would suggest you're affected (effected?) by it. You want a bored tone
/r/askTRP10/03/17 07:48 PM
16

Always ironic to me how people spend so much time getting their Sims character to learn, workout, talk to people. Yet they have less respect for their real selves and spend there day playing a video game
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 10:37 AM
1

No The post wasnt made to save people from their feelings. It was made to stop new ones from referring to every girl in their life as plate. When they clearly are not a plate. Admittedly my title could be better
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:19 PM
1

I don't understand what point you're making. The post was about guys calling a girl that they have feelings for, and are getting upset over, a plate when she's obviously not a plate to them. It wasn't aimed at the why or what's of the guys getting upset. Purely the referencing of the girl as plate
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:02 PM
1

And a sign that she isn't a plate to you
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:50 PM
4

Think you caught vandaalen at a bad time. Alpha males don't need to be extroverted. There are different forms of alpha male, which correlate with different situations
/r/askTRP07/03/17 03:46 PM
1

You can be skinny and not fat you know, js.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 03:24 PM
1

Not a man in site for HR where I work, boy is it a strange a silly work environment
/r/askTRP03/03/17 11:41 AM
1

If you read the rest of his past comments you can find the answer to your question in abundance. Odly childish naivety.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 10:01 AM
1

Whatever works for you. Just remember that girl should feel good after texting you. That's what keeps her hooked and trying to text you. So be fun
/r/askTRP20/02/17 12:19 PM
1

Frowned upon? No. If you good looking enough and your game is tight then alot of girls will be very happy to talk to you. Some guys, jelouse of your balls, might hope to see you fail. But that's betas for you. Judge how big your Uni is tho. You don't want to start being recognised as that guy. Organic social meetings are number 1. If you do cold approach do it in a off the cuff just a friendly person kinda of way. Just so if people do recognise you, you'll just be a friendly guy to them. As for …
/r/askTRP18/02/17 01:03 PM
1

The best thing about freshers is the mentality everyone has. For the next couple of weeks you will never meet that many people, being that easy to he friends with. During freshers everyone is in the exact same boat. They all came to a uni and need friends. This feeling of a common issue underlays the whole social dynamics. If you went up to someone random during November and tried talking to them, you would seem wierd. Why? Because the person your talking to has got established friends. There is…
/r/askTRP18/02/17 12:37 PM
1

Good. Relevant to me then. First off, even if your course starts in October, arrive in spetember before freshers. That period of time everyone is trying to make friends. Desperately seeking out a circle of friends, the same way you are. When you get to your flat be brave. Knock on all the doors anf lead the way for everyone to know each other. Then knock on the front door of all the flats around you. Get to know your neighbours and you'll end up drinking at one of them that night. Personality wi…
/r/askTRP18/02/17 01:27 AM
1

USA or UK? Or elsewhere?
/r/askTRP18/02/17 01:00 AM
1

Maybe she has a boyfriend...
/r/askTRP18/02/17 12:59 AM
8

Not sure if your joking or actually don't get it? A women doesn't see a nice guy as a sexual object. I don't see that zoo exhibition of a woman as sexual object
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 06:05 PM
34

Shit son, I'm doing great. No seriously tho,shes not rateable. See her the same way a girl sees a nice guy
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 11:32 AM
37

I don't belive that statistic. Any source?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 11:30 AM
1

Yeah true
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:49 PM
1

Not sure if that is actually as useful as people think Tbh
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:21 PM
10

Good post. Seems like a lot of what you do is day game. Salsa dancing does seem to be a good one to join
/r/askTRP30/01/17 08:05 PM
1

Not unless I want stabbing
/r/askTRP30/01/17 08:03 PM
2

Is making a joke about weather/busy considered flirting?
/r/askTRP30/01/17 08:02 PM
3

Sounds a silly question but, how could you flirt with a cashier?
/r/askTRP30/01/17 07:21 PM
4

I've found the more girls I'm sleeping with the more in heat i feel towards other girls I see. Also lift harder. I haven't kissed a girl in nearly two years. I have no problem attracting women nor any issue talking to and escalating with them when. The opportunity arises I don't think you are good, are you. when it comes time to fuck, I tell them I don't t feel like it You've managed to attract and escalate to the point of fucking in the last two years, but never kissed a girl? k
/r/askTRP30/01/17 07:06 PM
2

Bit of a gimp move to leave it vague in order to entice people to your blog. I'd rather see your full potential, decide if I think your good, and then keep up to date with your blog because I respect you. Rather than visit you blog because you where too afraid that you work wouldnt be good enough for people's attention span to last so instead left it vague.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 10:34 AM
2

Glad to see someone else who shares the same sentiment as me. Find it interesting we're both young.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 10:17 AM
2

Hasn't affected night life where I'm at. I've routinely gone home with a girl and we've only spoke for the first time and discussed names outside hers/mine Even in the scenarios where I am talking to the girl, normally we've made out before I've even opened my mouth. This represents a cross sample of girls, never bad looking, some decent, some great. Normally I'm out on student nights, however the same can be found weekend. Sometimes the weekend can be easier. Had girls in the past approach me a…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 10:09 AM
1

so what? She also just has to go out the door and will be showered with attention, compliments and separation from other men. Yeah I know that mate. My point was reaffirming that ethos that you don't won't to be like them and therefore don't act like them. If I'm right In taking your point to mean that you should be confident in who you are, that you shine through the masses of low value men, then yeah that's a good point. I suppose having reservations about not speaking at all, and then going s…
/r/askTRP21/01/17 03:42 PM
1

I'm the same, moments of gold followed by a headblock
/r/askTRP21/01/17 02:22 PM
4

Tbh you could legit just say "haven't asked her" makes the girl feel a hint of special which she'll lap up(assuming your normally cocky) while also subtle leaving the idea that if A says no you'll just ask B and do it with her instead
/r/askTRP21/01/17 02:12 PM
2

This is more similar to my philosophy. Know any links you useful text game resources? My text game is pretty tight but I'm tired of burning out girls when I'm experimenting good and bad shit.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 01:59 PM
1

I understand that fella. But if it was left for several dates and then you text a date etc. The whole dynamic between the two of you feels cold and dead. Why wouldn't she just not go out with you, when she has plenty of other guys to fill your slot
/r/askTRP21/01/17 01:57 PM
2

You have to ask yourself: Am I like everybody else and do I want to be? Yeah I do. Lieing in bed next to an attractive girl is all the reminder you need when she goes on her phone next to you and there are pages and pages of snaps/text/messenger/what's app It's the reason why I blank them so much just because I don't want to be a grouped in with the rest of the notifications on her phone everyday. The reasons I'm quizzical about the logistics is because the girl in return(an this happens to ever…
/r/askTRP21/01/17 01:56 PM
1

Yeah I had a bird who couldn't believe it when I told her I'd deleted her off snapchat. Spent the rest of the night flirting about how no-one ever done that. Go figure
/r/askTRP21/01/17 01:50 PM
3

Sigh. So a gimp is a creep, and the red pill gets labelled as teaching him how to be a creep. Even tho TRP would explain to him exactly what he's doing is wrong and fucked
/r/askTRP15/01/17 07:14 PM
1

I'm gonna enjoy looking into him later when I have time. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 12:55 PM
2

Christ, why have I never came across this guy
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 11:50 AM
8

So where's the texting 101 for experienced TRP readers. Text game can be v. Powerful if done well.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 08:30 AM
2

This, Red pillers often scoff at being nice to a girl now and again. Mainly because being mean to them is empowing to a guy who's been reproached by them, especially empowing when being mean works better than their previous tact of being too nice. Guess what works best... Being mean and nice, calibrated to the girl
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 11:53 PM
6

There is a difference between sharing vulnerability from a place of confidence, as Mason tells, and being vulnerable from a place of insecurity, as you where with your girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 11:50 PM
1

Save It till you've finished the book.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 11:47 PM
5

Basically i kept a jokey frame and asked her if she was good or bad? and said it would be bad to leave her friend for an adventure with me, etc i made sure the frame was a amused one where coming with me was risky,bad, fun, exciting option. and then i judge her reaction to it. if she enjoyed the comments i was making but her hands where tied with her friends you can read that in her reaction very easily.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 09:15 PM
13

Exactly! its your role as the guy to lead and make it happen
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 09:14 PM
12

What was the point of this post?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 09:46 AM
3

No. Think about the qualities of a man, which a women is attracted to. if you dont know what they are, dont worry, just ask. if you do know what they are then ask yourself this. Is a man who "goes slow" aka is a man who is- scared of rejection, scared to follow his masculine desires, scared to lose the girl- displaying those sexy qualities which a women loves? No. Its basically male version of red flags for a girl to pick up on and realise this "man" is sub-par
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 04:30 PM
4

The main thing to remember is dont be afraid to lose her friendship.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 02:52 PM
4

This was a reply posted on this site years ago, which outlined the differentiation between how "alphas" are treated compared to "betas" that eyeroll comment made me think of it. With "Alpha" men, we're going to try to impress him and mirror his interests to try and find common ground. We're going to act a little dumber, a lot cuter, and we're going to show off a little bit more. As a woman, when we pull the whole "omg you're such an asshole!" while laughing, it's kind of like the female equivale…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 02:51 PM
6

go lift, so one day when you look in the mirror you'll find pleasure at what you see.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 02:48 PM
2

yeah but maybe not say focus on work, works boring and brings an image of someone slaving away in a grey world. Pick something fun, or personally i would be intentionally vague. Mainly because you dont owe her an explanation and B just to hopefully get her to a least spend 2 minutes wondering about what your up to.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 02:46 PM
2

Personally i wouldnt have taken what she said about friendzoning literally. Envision what a "bad guy" would respond with if she tried that shit with him. Would he take it literally? No, he'd probably laugh at her and put her in her place, but i digress. if dread game isn't working then she completely views you as an asexual being. You have to ask yourself "is it healthy for me to spend time with her" , just in case you rationalize it away, it isnt. I know you enjoy time with her, but if you cant…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 02:28 PM
2

Can you elaborate on the "it's my job", I'm want to understand the dynamic of that interaction.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 01:06 PM
3

Cold, but surprisingly helpful. If a girl saying it's your fault they never kissed doesn't give you a kick up the arse, I don't know what will.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 01:05 PM
9

Careful friend, she might be a ticking bomb. Keep your eye out for red flags. Things like her severe anxiety can be completely weaponised to make you feel sorry for her and lose frame. Just a heads up, nothing more mate.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 12:49 PM
1

You will friend, good luck.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 01:28 AM
1

No, just listen to the other replies and read the red pill sidebar. Please never talk to that girl from the story again.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 01:26 AM
1

Personally I use the term to refer to someone as a weak, cowardly person. But good attempt on the psycho analysis and diagnosis of me having latent repressed tendencies. I guess it must be true The very way you went about this displays the exact reasons why you have the issues with girls you do
/r/askTRP19/12/16 11:46 PM
2

Ah but it isn't. I didn't call you it for my own satisfaction, I did it to provoke you, to make you react and learn something about yourself. Did you get hurt by it? Did you not care? Did you think defensively, introspectively coming up with reasons that your not a faggot? Whatever it is, you've learnt a little more about yourself. Compare how you did react/feel to how the man you aspire to be like would react/feel
/r/askTRP18/12/16 10:29 PM
1

You're a fucking faggot. If that seemed harsh and right now you're feeling defensive then we know we have an issue. Massive red flags. She's cheating on you. You've over invested emotion into her. You've opened up to her too much. Best of all, it's happened before but you've let it happen again. Stop being a faggot and cut her out your life. Literally 3 billion women on earth.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 07:27 PM
5

Steroid is an umbrella term: most are bad granted, some can be beneficial.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 07:20 PM
2

A woman will still try it, it's in her nature. It just won't be effective on a man with options..
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 01:48 AM
3

The bar at the side of the page...
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 11:37 PM
2

Do you not have many male mates. Around the guy culture, where I'm at, it's a pretty normal thing to joke about struggling to get it up. It happens sometimes, nothing to be ashamed of.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 08:08 PM
2

Holding eye contact isn't the end all. If someone breaks eye contact by looking in an upwards trajectory, it suggest they see you as below them, and unimportant in there thoughts
/r/askTRP04/10/16 08:49 PM
1

No, it's very easy not to like somone who knows your name. If Im aware of someone I dont want to be friends with, and they kept saying Hi and my name Like they where my friend it would annoy me.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 08:42 PM
1

Any more story...
/r/askTRP04/09/16 10:59 PM
19

Agreed surprised so many have belived this post is true. And the response too. "My female part of my brain is telling me to leave". No women who found redpill would start saying shit like that.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 11:15 AM
3

You know the real average size is 4.5-5.5 so 5. All those studies suggesting 6 and such, where done by researches measuring their own dick. Leading to them adding on some size. I thought you meant like 2 inch dick. 5 is fine ofc is not big but it ain't small. Its perfectly average for normal guy. And an extra inch isn't gonna make a difference because you will still have a crippling insecure ego.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 09:21 AM
3

Don't worry about it. If he's chatting shit to everyone about everyone people won't like him. It may seem like he has their support when there with him, but he doesn't, their just a bitch, an intimidated by him. One thing you could do is identify important people within the workplace and or people who support him and give him power.Be part of a group conversation with him, without the people you identified and then, at a later point, have a quiet word with them along the lines of: "Hey ---- I wa…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 09:14 AM
3

Don't believe you. Maybe you kissed her , but people lie on here a lot.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 11:48 PM
2

Text you "are you excited to carry my luggage". Sweet Jesus Mary mother of Christ. I understand the best frame of mind is to accept women for how they are, can't blame a lil cute puppy for doing stupid puppy stuff. But you need to identify this girl for what she is: a parasite
/r/askTRP26/08/16 11:13 PM
4

Too long didn't read? Ooof you missed a doozy of an example of prime, raw, disgusting beta behaviour haha
/r/askTRP26/08/16 11:09 PM
2

Why wernt you full mast? In your head to much?
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:14 PM
4

This
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:12 PM
2

You made her feel like a cheap slag. Some Red pillars might argue that spending some time after sex is beta and shit. But Fuck em. If you with a half decent girl who has an ounce of self respect, kicking her out while your still inside is like spitting in her face. At least talk /flirt after sex for a bit then make excuses. That wasn't what killed this though, what killed it is how you became so weak and beta. You didn't come accross as having high value or even coming across as careing (which i…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:08 PM
1

50/50 like the other commenter said. Minor point tho, don't think of it as "winning her" that puts you in a position below her, instead you need to have a internal frame that you are the shit and either she'll realize that, or she won't but someone else will.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:23 PM
1

Did you bother to read the guys post? It's not a guide for normal people like us it's a guide for a guy who thinks holding hands is premature. Of course that "weak" stuff us needed for him to get use to some sexual tension with a girl. Oh and its not weak girls literally melt for it. If you make it weird then no shit. Obviously what you described is how a kiss should be, but ,again, the reply was for someone who is scared of kissing
/r/askTRP21/08/16 07:05 AM
1

You haven't said the frame that the women are coming from.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 11:59 PM
1

Depends on how they're asking you. If they ask "are you a gansta?"with an incredulous what-a-freak look on their face then change your style, you roadman wannabe. If they ask it with a playful smile as a form of flirting then answer it the same way you would any other shit test. Agree and amplify. Etc. Fucking basics man
/r/askTRP20/08/16 11:58 PM
3

You're 16 it's okay to act like a 16 year old.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 11:54 PM
1

Aye, unless she's an uggo who doesn't have any other suitors then she's gonna see him as the biggest pussy ever for the total lack of masculine sexual energy. And because he is a pussy.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 11:50 PM
1

Jesus wept. Holding hands seemed too premature? Your issue is you need to get comfortable with human contact. People touch each other all the time. I'll address your questions below but first you need to get comfy having human contact with a girl. Obviously you won't be able to do much because it will come accross as un-congruent because it is for you. So start simple. When you make a girl laugh (any girl or guy) momentarily touch her arm/shoulder you'll quickly realise it's not weird and its fi…
/r/askTRP20/08/16 11:48 PM
2

I don't always agree with the over the top mock shock because I seen this so many times in groups, and it always comes accross to try hard. Not saying it doesn't work it will for some won't for others. Obviously depends on the situation. Sometimes a perfect response is just to look at another important person in the group and give them a slight expression of "well this guy is a bit socially retarded"(you guys know the look I mean) and then smile a nice yeah Okay to the nope person. And then stra…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 11:56 AM
3

I understand where you are coming from, but how would you respond if he responded with a simple "nope" and a amused smirk at you. At that point he's made a tangible yet subtle confrontation with you, yet is clearly displaying his confidence and 'at ease-ness' with having that friction. No-one in the group will think bad at him but will certainly pick up on this play and watch how you respond
/r/askTRP16/08/16 11:12 PM
2

Nope
/r/askTRP13/08/16 12:54 PM
1

Keep it fun and flirty. But don't always reply. My latest plate hates the fact I blank her for so long. She has a multitude of guys texting her constantly yet I'm the one plowing her on call because I'm the one who she's waiting on.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 07:25 PM
2

Small point. When you do break eye contact look up or to the side, this communicates superiority and or disinterested whereas looking down signals submissive behaviour. It's why women normally look down and then back up with a smile. They're displaying there submission to you.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 11:55 AM
5

You seem to be looking for a huge life changing idea to pop into your head that will revolutionize the market and will turn you into a millionaire over night. Does this happen to some people? Yeah and some people win the lottery just a case of the right person at the right time. Majority of wealthy people provide businesses or services which generated a small income at first. Once you have a good foundation laid its about scaling it up. At the end of the day some people have the mind set but for…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 11:28 AM
1

Mindset my friend. You need to develop the right mind set to see these opportunities. Unless you live in your bedroom you whole life you're experiencing everyday life and with that opportunities are flowing past you. An easy couple of exercises which you can do is when you look at something you want to buy but it's too expensive. Don't think "that's too expensive I wish a had xyz amount to spend" that lets your brain off easy. Instead think "how can I afford that?" "How can I generate money for …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 09:25 AM
4

How much does it hinder you? Absolutely fuck all. Being seen as a player/fuckboy whatever comes with two things.. Massive preselection. Makes you more attractive to girls because other girls are fucking you. Also if they whine about it they know you can just shrug and smirk and walk away to shag another girl and not her. Preconceptions about you. A lot of girls within those social circles,wheather that's uni or work, will now have a view on you. Take this within your stride, play the game with t…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 09:47 AM
4

I get what you're saying but allow me to make a counter point.. Your male hamster is working against you. You say youve only had to follow one rule to get laid and I imagine that resulted you in getting laid with moral righteous women. This means you male hamster makes the connection of you getting laid with these women so you now must like this type of women. Someone wrote a really good article about this but I can't remember who and where.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 09:46 AM
187

Your forgetting a lot of white girls seem to think they are from the ghetto haha
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 08:45 AM
3

Good post. Looking forward to your post about how to utilise red pill theory and "be Chad"
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 09:50 PM
1

Quality comment here. Being over Chad is something that resonates with most red pillers. Learning the balance is part of the journey of red pill. Edit: An afterthought, read Models by Mark Manson. This will help you calibrate by labelling "false confidence" while explaining what it is to be a secure attractive masculine man.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 11:32 AM
2

Even just a simple "yeah he sounds cool, go for it" and lead the conversation someplace else while like you said grabbing her hand or whatever. At the end of the day its a girl that OPs kissed. He cares about her to the point that a mere mention of another guy and he breaks frame and screams awalt!. Op,just chill, so far you've licked the red pill. Swallow that bitch, except it. And get some abundance
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 07:45 AM
1

True, except if her orbiters where cold ass fuck with her and "opened the door to leave" she wouldn't be banging to get let back it. Quick whine, there back orbiting extra hard. Or she gains extra validation from other orbiters and the old one trys to claw back in.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 07:05 PM
3

I did write you a detailed response but reddit crashed on me.. Basically for me I was too aloof. And always felt like I needed to be an asshole because on some level just talking to them is what a nice guy would do and she wouldn't be interested. Watch guys like Daniel Blake on YouTube. Very relaxed.self amused. Talks to girls in a normal fun way but gets it sexually charged. Thats the secret. Learn how to talk to girls normally but in a sexually charged manner.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 07:49 PM
2

Based on an anecdote about one guy not being calibrated to his surroundings and coming off as creepy isn't very good to degrade yoga. Admittedly going in just to pull isn't a good reason. But a guy who knows what he is doing will do well. Just being around a lot of attractive women while improving his body and mind will benefit him.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 07:29 PM
2

The reason behind that is because you've already suggested a date which didn't happen because of her. So you then suggested another date. At the moment your pushing the date. Of course as a man you need to take the lead. But there's a difference between leading her and pulling her. Think of it as a test. If she is into you and wants to go on this date I guarantee she will mention it to you in which case follow the above advice. If she's unsure, your lack of being needy by acting like your not ev…
/r/askTRP09/08/15 06:40 PM
1

This. It may seem hard if you like her. But you'll look back and be glad you did. I know I regret not doing this in the past. It also opens your mind to abundance. Realising there's lots of other girls who'll buy you a drink and fuck you makes leaving a lot easier.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 03:28 PM
2

Improve your social skills.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 03:24 PM
1

Keep it flirty with her. But don't focus all your attention on her. She cancelled and you made a new date so she'll expect you to be all over her. Mix the flirtyness with some disinterested to get her hamster going. Lightly flirting with other girls in class is a good idea too. This demonstrates you have an abundance and raises your value. You're a newbie so a word of advice. You have to maintain this flirty frame solid. She may react negatively to your flirting with other girls by going cold, u…
/r/askTRP09/08/15 03:17 PM
10

Who gives a fuck? If she genuinely wants to fuck another guy she will. If not then she's trying the force you to acknowledge a LTR. Either way she's a plate. Treat her like one. You bust your nuts on her. She does what she wants, if your not happy next her and replace her. You have other plates. Not wanting to share her comes from a needy mentality. You don't need her, she's free to go. If she stays with the other guy and neglects you. Who gives a fuck. Radio silence and have fun with other girl…
/r/askTRP09/08/15 02:44 PM
1

Adapting is the first step. But in order to be top or a winner adapting isn't enough. You need to capitalize on it, that's what sets you apart and above those who simple adapt. And yes if the social standard changed. TRP would adapt to it and then use it in there favour in other words capitalizing on it.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:29 AM
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You're right about them being vitally important. Pass them and your value improves. Fail and your value diminishes. Focus on your inner game and you'll breeze past shit tests without even realizing there happening. Self amused frame, plus an understanding of agree and amplify and other methods, will mean after a short space of time you'll pass them without even realizing them because its part of who you are. Of course another benifit is recognizing them as second nature.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 11:02 PM
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Okay I understand you. I think a good point for you to think about is to make the male to female dynamic between you and the girl more obvious. It is better to polarize a girl and cast her off if she's not interested than spend your valuable time and energy on a girl you're unsure about. Instead use your resources wisely on girls who demonstrate thier willingness or desire to want you.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 09:43 PM
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Are you for real? You don't get at least a kiss on the first date? That's a highway to being an orbiter if you can't escalate and build attraction for something as simple as a kiss. Going for it midway in the date is a great idea. And if it doesn't work, carry on completely unfazed and demonstrate your inner "alpha" by the rejection not even being on your radar. Try again a little bit later and if you handled it properly she will go for it.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 09:22 PM
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The post presented "unattainable" and "Alpha" as two seperate categories and then grouped them together at the end. Are they the same type, or is there a difference between an Alpha guy and an unattainable guy?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 10:42 PM
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I always saw TRP as stripping away the bullshit that is forced opon us. The fact that allot of this bullshit revolves around women means that they're a highly talked about subject.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 10:28 PM
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Good response. One thing for the Beta is your right about the girl being friendly and flirty can be confusing for them. Mainly because a girl can think she's just being nice, smiling and laughing when talking to him to avoid any awkwardness which can seem like mild flirting. Because of your viewpoint and your response. How do Alphas stand out among Betas in loser talk. Eg. If you where with another couple of girls and a couple of Beta lads and the lads where chatting about random shit thinking t…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 09:14 AM
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That hate is passion is an good point, any feelings is better than none. I asked day to day because of a recent example happening in my work life which I've viewed through a red pill lens. At work for me I do and say what I want and get told they hate me,I'm too cheeky, I'm just a twat..etc (all with a smile) and then finding red pill I've been analytical in what is actually happening. Recently a HB8 has joined work, I did what I do best. And then watched other lads and the interactions with her…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 09:03 AM
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Okay I understand, thanks for your time in replying.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 08:27 PM
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Apologies. What I'm trying to say is if Chad where to directly ask some of the girls out, even though he's high value and they find him attractive, because of his very cocky attitude they would reject it. And I belive they would reject it because it's easier for the girl to take the instant ego boost of shooting him down than risk being being rejected by him, who she doesn't feel qualified in the first place. To try and simplify. She doesn't feel good enough to win and keep him. So in an everyda…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 07:57 PM
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Thanks for the insight. I'm pretty happy you've answered me, I enjoyed your "RP guide to defeating the enemy" and look forward to part 2. Couple of points about your response. The IOI's you're right I read too deeply into them when I'm trying to notice if she is giving someone else them or just being friendly. On a personal level I don't read them at all, I just always seem to have a feeling that its on and that's enough for me. One thing I'll say for Chad is because of his attitude he has the "…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 07:19 PM
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The higher quality the women the more you can get away. Being told you're too cocky/ arrogant us normally just shit test but if your always being told it then just turn it down a notch, or make it more light hearted.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 08:37 AM
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The easiest way is to calibrate your level of CA to the level of the girls attractiveness. If you treat a 9 the same way as 6 then the 6 will normally reject you if given the chance because it's better for them to revive the ego boost of rejecting you than risk being rejected themselves by you in the long run which they expect to happen because of your perceived value being greater than there own confidence. Whereas a 9 would be more intrigued to it and respond better. I've found the best thing …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:15 AM
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I think one key word missing is funny/self amused. That means your not just a prick. RSD Tyler did a video on how women treat different men. A beta male says something she doesn't like and he'll get shot down and lambasted by her. A guy with strong frame says the same thing and she laughs.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 07:58 AM
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Okay I'll keep that it mind. Thanks for the insight
/r/askTRP15/07/15 10:41 PM
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Oh yeah I get you. That part I'm good at. Only came across red pill recently but I've got a pretty solid foundation in game. Main sticking point is if the logistics don't work first time around for whatever reason than how to maintain them chasing you without giving them to much to become unattractive.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 09:54 PM
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Yeah I follow the abundance mentality for sure. As soon as one leaves a have a replacement within a day or two. I think I just need to calibrate red pill more
/r/askTRP15/07/15 09:30 PM
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I look for casual sex partners.When you say pull the trigger, what are you specifically referring to?
/r/askTRP15/07/15 09:25 PM
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Yeah I'm not a brick wall with them, the attraction is from the start, it's more like they end up with the impression that I'm not too bothered about them and I'm just playing the field. So I'm a little bit conflicted as to showing I do care enough to not have them think they can't have me but not too much that I'm just a beta bitch validating them.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 03:06 PM
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If you want her you need to display higher value. Right now shes brushing you off but you always there to dance with in a friendly way. Display value by valueing yourself over her. Say no because your enjoying being with your buddies and invite her to join if she doesn't freeze her out and focus on your mates. This gives you higher value. The best way would be to reject her dance offers because your busy with a hot girl.
/r/seduction06/07/15 10:19 AM
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I'd suggest walking while holding hands rather than arm thru arm. AtA is more friendly and nice aka unsexual and boring whereas holding hands is one of the simplest things you can do to make a girl feel a lot of attraction to you, they love it. Especially if your leading them somewhere Plus holding hands is great for a compliance test or to pull her in close. Be careful of being a nice guy friend because all that is too nice. Mix it up be nice and gentlemenly and that, but when you cross the roa…
/r/seduction22/06/15 09:54 AM
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Without getting into the ins and outs of whether you should say this to the girl or when you should. The basic rule of thumb is if your gonna compliment a girl say something specific. Generic stuff like you are gorgeous are boring. Say somthing about her style,hair,persona etc. But don't put her on a pedestool.
/r/seduction19/06/15 09:22 PM
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Two options. Have drunken sex which will allow it to be nerves free and if it's shit blame the alcohol. Don't drink too much tho. Meet a good little innoncent girl like yourself and have a secure intiment relationship which means your open to each other and end up on a journey of sexual discovery together. Your choice. Btw your first time won't be perfect, don't sweat it.
/r/seduction19/06/15 09:18 PM
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Talk to her. Opening is always a sticking point for newbies when in reality it accounts for an ever diminishing fraction of the interaction. For speaking to girls the best things to learn at first to get you speaking to girls and learning for yourself imo are: -learning to live as a man -conveying high value male qualities -dealing with shit tests That will get you talking to girls confidently and building attraction which will lead you into game better.
/r/seduction19/06/15 09:14 PM
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Either way what I would say is don't answer it sincerely. To be truly good at game you need to practice, use opportunities like these to practice for future reference. Linking back to your metaphor of it being magic tricks, there's a reason a magician doesn't reveal his secrets. One interesting point to me is you said these girls typically have known you for a while and have seen a drastic improvement. I.e they knew you when you where a chump. So I belive that knowing them for so long always ref…
/r/seduction19/06/15 09:05 PM
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Girl says you "where did you learn to be so good with women/seduce women?" Sounds like a pretty basic shit test to me. No need to go all sensitive and open about it. Answer it like you would any other shit test.
/r/seduction17/06/15 10:33 AM
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Haha yeahh we've all done that. Still do it when we should know better. From saying school I gather your young so dont worry to much about approach and attraction game. School takes care of that for you. I'd look at body language, how to feel more relaxed and grounded. Join in the banter at school. It's full of laughing, messing about, teasing etc. So talking to the girl is pretty easy, you can get away with anything, its mainly about how you speak to her. Speak to her like a bullied ming and yo…
/r/seduction17/06/15 10:31 AM
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Yeah, but from the sounds of you saying keen again it's make me think the first time you spent all your time mentally masturbating over wheather or not she liked you..and probable physically masturbating over her. Go talk to her. Be cool, don't be afraid of "akward" silences.
/r/seduction17/06/15 10:20 AM
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If a girl doesn't reply don't send her another text, leave it. If your getting so many numbers that shouldnt be an issue. I've had girls pop back weeks later, just be cool. Going for a meet up straight away is intimidating for the girl, you need to text to build comfort, stay cocky/funny to keep the attraction but build comfort, make a statement about her "from the cute lil necksarf you had on I'm gonna guess your an art student..." That type of thing and when she replays make a statent about th…
/r/seduction17/06/15 10:11 AM
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If there is any attraction between a lad and girl the friendzone doesn't exist, simple as that. As soon as possible you need to display value. Start attraction building, make things sexual now and again. Touch her. For someone in the friendzone learn to be absent from her. Don't hang out sometimes. Don't reply to her texts for a few days and then pop back. If she's used to you being a bitch she'll probably give you shit. Don't be afraid of upsetting her or making her angry with you, use these to…
/r/seduction17/06/15 09:53 AM
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Yeah this is good advice, although it won't always save the interaction, you probably lost the number earlier on. The advice I would give is don't ask but say it in a cocky/confident way. Such as telling them "put your number in my phone" and holding you phone out. Some girls my ask why, which is a simple shit test to see if it's an act or you are that confident. I play that off with a slightly taken aback look like I've never had a girl ask why and I'm starting to think maybe I don't want her n…
/r/seduction17/06/15 09:43 AM
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For this, its about how express yourself. What you say doesn't really matter its how you say. Assuming you know basic attraction building, ie. Your good looking. Breaking rapport etc., for escalating it sexual you need to do two main things: Become more masculine and sexualised in the moment. This is how you start to turn her on. Start to speak with a more grounded authoritive tone,speak more slowly(not so she's stood there waiting for you to finish but pause before certain things to create a mo…
/r/seduction17/06/15 09:35 AM
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Yeah thats a good point, I'll definitely take that on-board
/r/seduction13/06/15 10:59 PM
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I'm certainly not cocky about my writing haha. Yeah I understand where you're coming from because i do things like that already. Always with a smile. Things like "don't worry, I'm a nice guy"
/r/seduction13/06/15 09:54 AM
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