I've been on Tinder recently trying to set up dates for this weekend and seeing as flaking is quite a common occurrence, what is the best way of dealing with it?

I've had a few girls do it this weekend. The one that has caused me to come and write this post is as follows : I started texting her Thursday and the conversation was almost immediately about how we were going to fuck like rabbits on the weekend. She was telling me she'd make sure I get everything I want, I told her she'd get it hard etc. I left the conversation at that until the next day when I asked for her number. Then I text her some simple logistics of where she lives and when I am free to come round. We set things up for Saturday but I have a few chores to do in the morning so I tell her I'll try wrap things up asap so I get to see her, then I don't text again the rest of Friday. I text her at about 12:30 on Saturday checking she's still game and telling her i hope she shaved her legs. No reply for roughly half hour so I send one question mark. She replies I thought you were coming earlier. I'm like na I did say mid day ish. So she says she will bail on a party shes going to later and come out for me, but she might be a bit drunk. I say that's fine easier to pin you down. She says haha ok. Then I never hear from her the rest of the night. I made other plans straight away anyway so I'm not pissed but how do I handle this situation?

I don't wanna just soft next as I do it too often already and I live in a very small town. I've already run out of girls in my area on Tinder so it's not like I can just next as much as i'd like to. Plus this girl is hot and I had her agreeing to sex this weekend.. What happened?

Do I text her today? Do I completely ignore? I feel like nexting is kind of stupid and I know you guys will hate me for that, but what's the point of completely pushing a pussy out of play. Might as well come across a beta or an over angry faggot, but still have a chance of getting laid, as long as you have no outcome dependence and other plates spinning. I say this because recently I feel like I'm losing loads of lays because at the slightest signs of disrespect I'm nexting. I've been a beta in the past but at least I got my dick wet. I feel like girls have so many options that they are never going to chase a guy, and by not putting effort into playing their game I'm just not getting anything at all.