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[–]thestoicphysicist4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she's an LTR and has been good otherwise, I think throwing in a first text every now and then is a good thing. After the first few times she'll get the message and start initiating again and fall back onto the 2/3 principle.
[–]Surfincloud90 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
An LTR has different texting guidelines from a regular plate. I rarely text my plates and they will always text me saying they are horny, etc, etc. My LTR I always through in a little blue pill texting and comfort her. I am generally a very alpha person and she knows that so a little comforting text here and there really increases the pull between us.
I wouldn't worry too much about the texting as long as you aren't sending paragraphs and she is saying one or two word short phrases.
[–]stephcurryftw0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You have done good, now follow the same pattern but initiate occasionally. I think it's absolutely ok to not have any contact for days. I've gone like 5 days without saying anything.
I personally initiate about 10%, but every time has been because I needed to tell her something important, not just text for the sake of texting type of messages. i.e. "Good morning; good night." I think those are useless.
[–]Trp18 1 points1 points1 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You don't worry during those 5 days as to why she's not initiating?
[–]stephcurryftw0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not in this case because that's been her texting habits. She initiates 90% of our conversations though.
But if the girl constantly texts you, then suddenly stops for several days, now that's something to watch out for.
[–]red-pill-questions1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Text when you feel like it. Dont when you cant or dont want to. Dont overthink shit. Just stay commited to continuing to be the man you want to be.
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