Now, I can tell my LTR of a year is beginning to get bored or better yet, too comfortable. I'm in the early stages of having issues with her. It mainly started when I began being more beta. I had been saying "I love you" back all the time, talking to her more openly and engaging in text threads with her. Has been going for about a month. The result of this is more security/comfort and less respect/tingles. She's challenging me more and becoming bolder too.

Fortunately I only see her once or twice a week.

"Comfort is the death of desire in a woman"

I read that here some time ago and believe this is the problem. Now what kind of things can I do to restore that insecurity and drama that is clearly needed, gotta push her, give a jolt back to reality. I've done too much pulling lately. The tingle train is slowing down because of it.