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| 1 | Why does being beta at the start of meeting girls work?How do I become alpha and actually develop a frame? TRP glamorizes Alpha Fucks, but it seems to rarely workout like that in the real world. For picking up chicks, if you don’t have something they want (e.g., looks, money, status, entertainment), you’re not going to keep them around. Even for networking and making male friends, you have to play into their frame and take an interest into their interests or else the relationship won’t last long. It especially won’t last long is you can’t help them … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Why does being beta at the start of meeting girls work?That sounds about right, but when I act really alpha around girls and don’t play into their frame, they just walk away. This way I atleast get some sex, but they don’t let me do porn star shit you like chad gets. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Why does being beta at the start of meeting girls work?Girls my age 20-26 | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Has wearing a Rolex changed the way people treat you?My boys all have Daytona’s and Submariners. I feel like a lot of girls don’t even pay attention to their watches or even notice them, and they were doing fine before they had them. I could be wrong though. But they’re usually wearing ferragamos and 2k+ suits as well, so they can sniff the money. Do girls actually notice and pay attention to your watch? Do people actually respect you more? I feel that because I’m young that people don’t take me seriously and that’s why I really want to get one. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Some of My Personal Life Lessons For Those Under 30Do you have any advice on confidence? I feel that mine fluctuates a lot and sometimes I can’t control it, especially around attractive girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 11:35 PM |
| 1 | I’m addicted to stirring up dramaJust reading the post it is obvious that you are far from independent enough to be someone able to afford a Rolex or a car with your own money (at least I was hoping this was the case). You are codependent on your parents and these social interactions. Yeah, I'm dependent on my parents for everything. I have never worked a day in my life, and I own up to it. They weren't around much during my childhood, and they made up for it by buying me everything I wanted. At bars and clubs, I usually tell m… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 03:32 AM |
| 1 | I’m addicted to stirring up dramaI think you are sitting on the outside of life waiting for the time you can do real work. What does this mean? Is this parents money? I don't understand how someone like this could have a Rolex. Someone like this? Because this mindset would hold me back? I'm not always like this. I will bend over backwards to help my friends, and will go out of the way to do it. I like giving/helping others. It's just that lately I feel like I'm in a rut, and for some reason seeing others feel depressed makes me… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 03:13 AM |
| 1 | What are good conversation tips?CAn you give me an example? | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | tinder matchesI have more success on tinder than I do in clubs/out. If you filter correctly, most of the girls just want to fuck on tinder. In person, there are so many variables that you don't control that make it near impossible for a 1st night lay. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 02:30 AM |
| 0 | Getting rejected in the most disrespectful wayIDK if its my approach or the nature of ultra feminist women in Seattle but my rejections recently have been fucking ruthless. Like crossing into rude/complete disrespect territory. Good. Tough times breed tough men. I will literally open with the most basic "hi" and these chicks will either be extremely cold or just a complete bitch. You have to have something to talk about, not just go over and sound awkward man... How do I better tune my approach I find that saying shit like "You look lonely,… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 02:28 AM |
| 6 | Girlfriend is "asexual"Grey-asexual. come on man, you need to have some respect. Dump her on the spot. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Shit test "am I the best you've had?"Flip it on her, "Do you want to be the best I've ever had?" | /r/askTRP | 19/02/17 06:21 AM |
| 21 | Best replies after failed kiss?Fucking nailed it. If it happened the way I'm reading it, that instant re-escalation just put you in the top 5% of confidence for her. That is assumed attraction! Didn't think about it like that interesting. I'm going to try this technic next time that happens. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/17 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Can I get some feedback on three mink FR from the past two weeks?How exactly do I do that? Is groping them and not kissing then a good way? | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 05:05 PM |
| 2 | How do I steal someone's wife(Indian) ?No offense, but if you gotta ask, you probably can't pull it off. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 04:32 AM |
| 1 | What is she playing at?Depends, have you smashed? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend way too perfect, I've become more wary after reading TRP, what should I do?Unicorns aren't real. But she may be a horse with a fake unicorn spike. This is so true. She's not perfect, she's just a good actor. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 04:28 AM |
| 1 | What can I do to meet new people? -- New in town. No friends. Not smooth. No sports.First of all, start lifting. Try Meetup.com or something | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Can I pretend to be social and friendly?Start meditating. See yourself as an actor and try to see social interactions as objectively as possible. If someone isn't respecting you, you are better off moving on. Don't push yourself. The number one way of making sure that no one is playing games with you is by caring less than the other person. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Never felt so lonely in my lifeFocus on you're education. You are primarily in school for a good education, and to get a job after graduation. When you feel alone, just embrace it, and work on yourself and push yourself to raise your SMV. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Need some quick text adviceWhy exactly? "If you have plans next weekend, cancel them because i'm much more interesting'' That sounds good. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 04:14 AM |
| 8 | If you want easy pussy do not display any provider traits.I have a friend that is SUPER rich - he lives in a million dollar apartment, Rolex, and wears hella expensive clothe. He says that as soon as he gets girls over to his apartment, the panties come off, and the girls don't pretend to not be sluts. He has a really high success rate. How does he succeed at one night stands? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/16 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Economics or finance major or double?Do Finance and Accounting, and get a bunch of internship experience, you won't regret it! | /r/askTRP | 06/09/16 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Amino Acid and Dopamine, my experimentwhat brand of magnesium do you take? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 10:32 PM |
| 1 | There is one thing all games have in common, and that's rules.But, there is a way to abandon your ego (to an extent.) or really become more aware of its actions and the actions society have aimed at it, and start a quest that is solely self fulfilling. Eckhart Tolle talks about the importance of separating the ego from your identity (which largely relies on how you view yourself and how other view you) to achieve your endeavors. He says that we cannot resist what is happening, instead accept it, and work for change from there. He advocates that we enjoy th… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 03:11 AM |
| 1 | There is one thing all games have in common, and that's rules.If you want measure of freedom you must reject in your heart and in your mind this system of value, you must in some sense become the antithesis of a system which absorbs and harvests men generationally and in majority successfully. Can you explain this is simpler terms? I have the same question as rayyaal, but I'm not sure I understand what you're saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 06:29 PM |
| 3 | If a girl slaps your ass, are you justified in returning to sender?Uh, is this even a question? YES, you could probably smash too! | /r/askTRP | 16/08/16 02:57 AM |
| 0 | Why do girls ignore me after NC for 2-3 weeks?Believe me, I've witnessed that and have noticed its true, but why is that? Do girls just naturally have abundance mentality? Do they not feel attracted to you anymore? Not to suck my own dick, but a lot of these girls have been really into me, and open up a lot and tell me that they like me. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/16 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls ignore me after NC for 2-3 weeks?I don't give any details and leave everything really ambiguous. How do you remove the carrot slowly? Do you text them, then stop texting them less and less? | /r/askTRP | 05/08/16 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls ignore me after NC for 2-3 weeks?I'm not talking about waiting. If a girl I met at a bar hit me up 2 weeks later after we met, I'd go for it. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/16 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls ignore me after NC for 2-3 weeks?Is there a reason for this? I know this is true, but I'm curious why girls think like that. I wouldn't ignore a women if she texted me later than expected. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/16 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: Are the women who respond to TRP outliers in your opinion, or common?So, imo, the question becomes 'are most women attracted to emotionally unstable/low-self esteem men who are trying to behave like they're king shit?' Red Pill Alpha is about being attractive, confident, being fun around women, having fun and speaking your mind (even if it means losing the girls), and being indifferent about women. I don't think I would like to meet the kind of women who isn't attracted to a fun, attractive, confident man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/16 03:29 AM |
| 2 | I actually am a desperate man, how do change that.Lift. Accept yourself as you are right now, or else you will never be able to be happy. Set a mission/goal, and make it your main priority in life. Cultivate a new identity where you see yourself as a winner and have a IDGAF mentality about women. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm giving upDude, your friend is right. You seem bitter, and like you don't fully understand the red pill. Keep lifting, and work on talking to strangers. Talk to them until they reject you or leave. Thats the only way to learn. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/16 09:36 PM |
| 3 | How to avoid false rape accusations in College?Always flush it down the toilet. Why? | /r/askTRP | 31/07/16 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Should I be bothered by comments that compare me to other men?very time we go out she gets swarmed by guys trying to talk to her and get her number. Does she give them her number when youre there? If so, she's scum and not worth your time. I wouldn't even plate her. Honestly, I've dealt with girls like her. She's a slut, and constantly getting dick. Wrap it up man. Whne she says shit like that, just AA, she'll eventually stop once she sees youre not phased. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/16 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Qualifying questions?Ooooooooh! I understand this now. But, don't most girls naturally do that and just try to mirror your values? I've been on dates with Bernie supporters, and I know that they are anti-trump, and when I tell them that I'm voting for him because he's super alpha (or something stupid like that), they'll agree with me and just say stuff like yeah I like his economic policies and the fact that he's not letting companies leave to other countries. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Never confront her -- Betas don't get to set boundariesWhen you're a badass man, random statements from six months ago, like, "I think long hair is pretty" or "Good women don't drink whiskey" will affect choices your woman makes today. Even if you were just saying something random and silly. Is that how bad ass men "set" boundaries? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/16 06:03 PM |
| 1 | On girls giving me there numbers, but not texting backThat's fine and everything, but women have short attention spans. You have to strike while the iron is hot. They can be really into you at the bar, but 24 hours later they will have forgotten about you and moved on. After first dates/hang outs, how many days do you wait to text back to set up another date? I used to send a text like 2-3 hours after the date saying how I had a lot of fun, and make it ambiguous on if they'd see me again, but I've just stopped doing that, and the majority of girls … | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 09:01 PM |
| 1 | On girls giving me there numbers, but not texting backOpen ended questions like "How are you" are pointless, enter her frame, and get her flake hamster going. What is in it for the woman? Why would she want to tell you how she is doing? That's not fun. That's not exciting. Girls just want to have fun. If you aren't exciting them, you are drying them. I thought I had some leeway because they complimented me and seemed into me. Plus, I was gonna ask them out after they responded, but I won't make that mistake again. Should I bother hitting up either … | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 08:25 PM |
| 1 | On girls giving me there numbers, but not texting back"Hey, it's X, How are you?" I'm shocked that they didn't even respond or at least milk me for some validation. The first girl might have thought I was lying to her though. My friends are visiting from Brazil, and he told them that when he approached. The girl asked me if I was also from Brazil, and I was drunk and having fun and said yes, and then said I was only visiting for three months, and then I started talking to her in Spanish (they speak Portuguese - but I didn't think she'd know the dif… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 08:15 PM |
| 1 | The Politics of Life: 25 Rules for Survival in a Brutal and Manipulative WorldRule 6: Only the Flexible Succeed How flexible are we talking about? If someone disrespects you, should you still work with them, even if its on their terms? Rule 9: To Control Others, First Walk in Their Shoes What does this mean? Rule 19: In Dealing with Passive Aggression, Be More Passive and More Aggressive What does this mean? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/16 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Do girls 'spin plates?'Yeah. Most girls in college seem to be alpha widows for one guy that barely gives them any attention, then they fuck a ton of other chads on the side. Orbiters are not "plates" though because they don't have sex with them. They're just their for their resources (validation and money and homework help). | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 01:23 AM |
| 1 | TRP stance on forgiving?There are other women out there. The amount of investment it takes to change a woman's opinion of you as a beta is too I'd actually argue that you can't change a persons opinion about you after things go awry. It's sort of like when you run into a kid you knew in school, but made a name for himself. Part of you respects his new accomplishments, but you still remember that he was a loser in high school and view him slightly lower than you would view him if you hadnt met him in high school. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 09:37 PM |
| 1 | HB sent you an invite to join Messenger. Is that a shit test?If she really wanted to get in touch with you she'd find a way. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Got myself into a relationship, with a girl in a relationship....We cuddled alot though She probably doesn't respect you anymore. But I absolutely fucking hate cheating. You would think that she would respect you and think highly of you because you didn't make her cheat on her boyfriend, but in reality, she probably thinks you're a pussy, and lost respect for you. THat's how women think. Looking back on it, I was emotional cheating anyway, so its the same shit. Sad really. Whats even weirder looking back is that consdering how much I hated cheating, I was wit… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 05:30 PM |
| 1 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoTrue. I've found that if you're top 20% in looks, career success/money, social status, and personality you're basically a unicorn among men. I feel that personality is the least important out of all the attributes you talked about. Most Chads are boring as shit and aren't even interesting or try to be at all. They're just stoic and really don't give two shits about anything. They know better than to try to entertain women. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Got myself into a relationship, with a girl in a relationship....Something bad happens to her, drains her of all energy and makes her slightly depressed What happened? We need to know to give you better advice. Considering sending her a simple message on fb: "You know I sacrificed a lot for you and helped you enormously over the past year right? I never expected any reciprocation, all I wanted is respect. But now that respect is gone from this relationship, I am walking away." Don't tell her that. Don't give her the satisfaction of giving her closure. Says it… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 06:08 AM |
| 2 | How far would you go to defend your pride?I honestly couldn't give two shits if someone disrespects me. However, if they are disrespecting me its a sign that there are bigger problems in the relationship, and I'm better off cutting my losses now and just ghosting them instead of trying to fix things. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Should every relationship start as an open one? If yes, how long should a relationship be open until you declare exclusivity(and how do you do that)?You make it exclusive after she's begging you and she's proved herself worthy of an LTR. It's a catch-22 though because most "worthy" women wouldn't accept the place of a plate. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 10:41 PM |
| 1 | People who knew you growing up and wanted nothing to do with you. Now you made something of yourself and they desperately want to be a part of your life. Best way to reject them?Not responding. I wouldn't be bitter about it. Use them like they're trying to use you. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Why are women the selecters and men the competers, and what would cause a reversal of those roles?That is only true for the bottom 80% of males. The top 20% are selectors. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will Doand personality What constitutes as top 20% of personality? leadership capacity? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend woke up with pants downallow you to infer a rape occurred without her explicitly stating it, eliminating agency on her part. Allowing plausible deniability. "I didn't say THAT". Women do this a lot. She didn't say she was raped, she led you to the conclusion and you drank it. She leveraged your protective instincts. When I read stuff like this I realize how much more manipulative and deceptive the average women naturally is in comparison to the average man. Why do you think women haven't taken over society? They natur… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 11:26 PM |
| 2 | What's the cause behind people "one-upping" you and how do you stop them?I have a friend who incessantly has to one-up people and lies about shit. I used to be a little bit like that, so I think I can tackle this question. People who do that are really insecure and think that doing stuff like that DHV, but it actually does the opposite. A rich man doesn't need to tell the world he's rich, and a man who is confident in his abilities and inherent value does not. The minute you think you have to impress someone, you are already fighting an uphill battle. Lieing about yo… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 09:45 PM |
| 1 | What do I do nowok this girl has been flirting with me for several months First mistake, if you've known her for several months, and never made a move. You're in the friendzone. she sees you as a timid loser. through two boyfriends, and me ignoring her/not responding to her advances/flaking on her/etc Oh, okay, you've been playing your cards right. nvm. considering that I spent quite a bit of time with her platonically. Nevermind, I was wrong. If you have to ask, you're already in the friendzone. Wait for her t… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 09:26 PM |
| 6 | Where to find more "options".So my girlfriend has tons of orbiters That's a pretty red flag. Orbiters are very unattractive. for a good while she has done a good job ignoring them to be with me. How so? I have a lot of plans for my single life to be too scared of breaking up. The moment you become okay with the possibility of being single and having no female prospects whatsoever is the moment when you gain more leverage in the relationship. You have to genuinely be okay without her. THere are 3.5 billion women and they are… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What is her end game here?She found out I been going to a frat house and hanging out. Kept bringing it up claim inning I'm a father and she knows my personality etc etc thst I'll fuck girls You didn't tell her anything and she found out on herself? OHHHHH! This makes sense now, you ran dread game on her — you went dark on her and she found out you were having a lot of fun. She actually kind of fucked me different she was fucking back at my dick, and told me I tore her pussy up. That explains this. Honestly, at this point… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Social status in group setting - from alpha to beta in less than few minutesI've said that before when girls have told me that I look rich just because it comes off as I'm not a try hard trying to impress them. next thing i had in my mind was "i don't spend money on women." No, that doesn't inspire hope. Plus, actions speak louder than words. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 05:45 PM |
| 2 | What is her end game here?Why does she contact me everyday? She sends me hyper emotional texts or emails? Then other days she claims I'm distant while being distant While guys are logical and straight-forward, women are purposely deceitful and manipulative — they crave power. Women do the bare minimum and in this case she is doing the bare minimum to keep you around. I'm willing to bet she probably star fished you when you fucked. This woman is being a bitch, and she is affecting your state of mind. Lawyer up, and just d… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Keeping it simpleI have no social skills whatsoever. I normally am with nerds, so I have a hard time even conversing with other men. This is your first problem: the fact that you believe this. Make an identity where we see yourself as an alpha — jacked, powerful, socially ept, and has a ton of women chasing after himself. If you believe it, you'll become it. Not for the sake of talking to women, but to be able to not come off as a creep or sound weird. That's your second problem, you don't have a IDGAF attitude.… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 05:30 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with loneliness?But I find its getting lonely as fuck. I miss my ex gf, I started watching porn again, and I miss female companionship/energy. I have the exact same problem. I'm scared of being alone, so I am purposely making myself be okay with being alone by doing things by myself and just being off the radar. If you're okay with being alone, you can make it anywhere. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Social status in group setting - from alpha to beta in less than few minutesi said its my parents money, since every male in group was under 18 apart from me and the "alpha" guy who showed up. "I'm not rich" would have been a better response. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 05:13 PM |
| 2 | What is her end game here?We met up in June and she was very hostile wouldn't let me touch her, we hung out a few more times, and I fucked her probably better, harder and more dominant than I had ever. Why did you go back? You had already left. Easy sex isn't worth your self-respect. Thing is when I'm with her something doesn't feel right like in my brain, stomach, soul. Your body knows something your mind doesn't know. Always listen to your gut feeling. I had a meltdown on her last night and literally let out every bad … | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Do hot blondes America (All American girl types for example) hate "foreigners" or any group of guys they see as "ethnic"? Am I on to something here?No. THey like hot guys. Race doesn't matter as much as how hot the guy is and how much respect he commands. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with people who gossip and spread rumors?I LOVE IT! I like to piss people off sometimes just for the sole reason that they give me free publicity. There's no such thing as bad publicity. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Out with ex, she tries to make out with dude in front of me?That wasn't just drama, that was actually really disrespectful. She just proved that she's plate material at best. I'd honestly just next her though. That was very disrespectful. Getting medoicre sex is not worth putting up with a bitch like that. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Old Alpha player spread some redpill truths in a game forum to a frustrated BetaNever assume anything. Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see. This is SO true — never make any assumptions about anyone or anything. 1) Always go right up to any woman you're attracted to and talk to her, not her chest, look her dead in the eyes. No cheesy pick up lines, just small talk, then once you get them talking, tell her you'd 'love to get to know her better, we should get a cup of coffee some time' to get those digits. Opening is half the battle. What I found works for m… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/16 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Are short men automatically placed in the beta provider zone?If a man approached a girl, he is automatically alpha in her eyes. Not a lot of men do that. He comes offs as high status, and he is no longer invisible to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/16 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Trouble escalating: analysis would be appreciated...I used to have the very exact same problem. Reading No More Mr. Nice Guy helped, but one of my mentors was really able to help me with this recently, and I feel I have come a long way. PM if you are interested, I can skype with you, and tell you everything he told me. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Trouble escalating: analysis would be appreciated...My money is on that you came off as a Nice Guy/ people pleaser, which is usually attributed to your inner value and how you see yourself. And I'm going to guess its that because it is manifested in your response: "Thanks a bunch for your input, it means a lot." The subtext is that you are the type of person that is always a bother on people. To fix your inner game you have to come to the conclusion that this is your life and you are going to do everything to maximize your happiness. Your happine… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 02:09 PM |
| 0 | LTR tells me about co-worker being nice to herWords should typically be congruent with actions. Have you read the book of poon? | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 12:32 PM |
| 3 | I walked away.Girl are masters of sensing when a man has moved on, and they almost always push just a little bit to see if they can keep the dude in their orbit. OP made his decision from a place of strength, so let's hope for his own sake that he doesn't go back. We want to believe that the disrespect would end and that it would change everything, but it doesn't. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 12:31 PM |
| 1 | LTR tells me about co-worker being nice to herIt's one of those thing that it's more about how you say it than what you say. However, if a child came up to you and asked you to make him a sandwich, and there was no way in hell you were gonna make him the sandwich, what would you say to him? Go find another adult that does that shit for you? It comes off as guilt trippy. On the other hand , if you say, sure maybe I'll start doing that, but don't actually do it, it seems less bitter and less offended, plus you didn't actually Change your beha… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Are short men automatically placed in the beta provider zone?It's essentially psychology/ ability to command respect from others. It comes down to how much the guy respects himself. He isn't trying to impress her in any shape way or form and is less invested in her than she is in him. Also, if she says something disrespectful, he leaves. In simple terms, it's the fact that a women has little control over a man and a man is just aggressive/bold and does whatever he wants and what he wants is higher in his priorities than what she wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/16 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Great date. Kissed her. Input needed.That's actually a red flag in my opinion. 1. They've been friends for a long time. Unless his SMV is significantly higher than hers, it's unlikely to go anywhere. 2. He's gonna dump her? I think that might actually be an excuse to string OP along. Think about it, if a girl likes you, she'll never keep you in the dark. She'll make sure you know, and will cheat at the first chance she gets with an alpha. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Are short men automatically placed in the beta provider zone?Everyman is alpha until proven beta, however short guys get placed lower on the alpha spectrum so they have to have solid game to re-cooperate for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/16 11:29 AM |
| 1 | I walked away.What she does now is no concern of OP. He hard nexted her. Nothing matters. She doesn't exist to him anymore. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 11:25 AM |
| 1 | I walked away.What she does now is no concern of OP. He hard nexted her. Nothing matters. She doesn't exist to him anymore. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 11:25 AM |
| 1 | I walked away.What she does now is no concern of OP. He hard nexted her. Nothing matters. She doesn't exist to him anymore. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 11:25 AM |
| 1 | I walked away.What she does now is no concern of OP. He hard nexted her. Nothing matters. She doesn't exist to him anymore. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 11:25 AM |
| 0 | ESH's Toolkit: Attitude and BoldnessDon't concern troll on my post. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 11:23 AM |
| 1 | LTR tells me about co-worker being nice to herIf a man does a women a service that she has not earned, his status in here eyes drops. Women want something/someone they have go earn. This guy sounds like an orbiter based on the fact that he's liked by everyone and does favors - especially something like making food for a women he barely knows. You have nothing to worry about. Women put guys in buckets, and this guy just bought himself a ticket to the friendship bucket. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 11:20 AM |
| 6 | LTR tells me about co-worker being nice to herMy LTR tells me about this guy, some low-level worker at her office. Apparently he gives her snacks sometimes, and he made her a sandwich yesterday. She says he's a quiet, hardworking, nice guy who everybody likes. If all this is true, you have nothing to be worried about. I say cool, he sounds nice. She goes on to say "I wish you did stuff like that for me." I jokingly say he seems like a nice guy, and if she wants to be with someone that does stuff like that, then why not be with him. That was… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Trouble escalating: analysis would be appreciated...She offered to pay, which I gladly accepted. Were off to a good start. Congrats man! I asked if she wanted to kiss me, (in hindsight, a little cringe-worthy, but it is what it is) That's not cringeworthy! That is actually a very good response to what she said. You probably should have put your hands on her leg as you said that too. When we got there I went in for the kiss and was told again that she wasn't like that. You messed something up. Don't know what, but you obviously are not giving her … | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Is this a red flag?Is this a red flag for a girl to accept dates at work, at the end of a class? Sounds unprofessional. How is that unprofessional? No, not at all. You're overthinking it. Dates don't mean anything nowaday. Everyone is literally dating/fucking everyone. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 04:17 AM |
| 4 | LTR getting bored, ideas"Comfort is the death of desire in a woman" Time for you to run some dread game. Act more distant and start going out more. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 04:15 AM |
| 1 | When you next a girl, do you delete/block her on whatsapp or just ignore?I wouldn't delete a girl off social media, just because it comes off as bitter, but I think if she's being a bitch and messaging you, it ain't nothing cut that bitch off. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 02:22 AM |
| 1 | When asking a girl to coffee, how to you decide the timeof the date without knowing their schedule?If she cant make it, she'll give you an alternative time. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 02:20 AM |
| 1 | New to TRP. I want to hear your thoughts.Less is more with girls, don't call her or give her any validation. You could text her and say change of plans and push the meeting an hour or 30 minutes, that's what I'd do. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 02:20 AM |
| 1 | What do you value in women? How can I discover what I value in women?"How much value is adding to my life?" If she is just there and just hanging out with you, you next her. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 02:15 AM |
| 22 | I walked away.She caused me pain before. I've learned recently that this unicorn of mine was once a slut, and probably always will be, and I feel like I've finally unplugged myself. She obviously doesn't respect you anymore. It hurst to next girls, but she's only going to bring more sorrow and slowly eat you alive. You made the right call. I felt and still feel strong, calm, happy, empowered almost, and the look on her face of utter shock was priceless. You gained power because YOU walked away. If you have do… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 02:07 AM |
| 2 | FR: Girls don't even understand how they work.All men are assholes" comes from the fact the men they like can't be controlled. Unlike their orbiters "asshole men" are independent and carefree. This is TRP in a can. Its interesting but that's exactly what women want. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 10:28 PM |
| 2 | ESH's Toolkit: Attitude and Boldness"can you PLEASE come here" It shows politeness and niceness, like you're trying to please them, as if they are above you. This is a related antidote. Donald Trump says that the name of his company is worth $3.5B. Calculating the worth of a name like his company is very difficult to do, and a lot of questions arise when you do that, but that's besides the point. If Trump goes around and tells people that his company is worth $3.5B, most people will believe that until someone comes along and quest… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | How did you guys actually begin to not give a fuck?Don't think, just do. I mysteriously always find the right questions to ask and have an interesting conversation. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How did you guys actually begin to not give a fuck?Just grabbed my nuts and forced myself. I felt very uncomfortable, so I know that was good. You have to want to push yourself out of your comfort zone. Approaching without a perfect body is approaching on hard mode (and it's also hamstering, but I won't open that can of worms). If you can bang a hb 8 w/o a perfect body, you'll have the tools to be more successful in the long run. Don't you like challenges? | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Question for redpill: How is anyone supposed to know when they've established that they're more than just plate material, and actually allow something to happen?A have a few friends who have played that buy them watches and clothes and take them out to events, with the hopes of gaining their commitment. I think a girl like that is worth committing too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/16 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Red flag if a woman's best friend is a gay male?Well in todays society, just about every modern day women is a slut, so I wouldn't put too much weight on it. But, those are red flags. Further, there are a few things you can do to get more power in this situation. I would honestly show up late, or push the original meet time up an hour or 30 minutes, it'll make you look less invested. Also, I would maybe even go dark on her a day or two if you guys text everyday. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Question for redpill: How is anyone supposed to know when they've established that they're more than just plate material, and actually allow something to happen?For women, the fuckzone is similar to the friendzone - hard to break out of. Not true. If a women is very respectful and genuinely appreciative of you, that proves that she is deserving more than just being a plate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/16 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Red flag if a woman's best friend is a gay male?Not to sounds like a dick, but I'm saying this for your best interest, it sounds like you are already a bit too invested in this girl. The fact that you described her as a 9 and made this post, speaks that. Remember that women have to work for your commitment, and not the other way around. And more importantly, it is better to be without a woman than with a shitty woman that is ready to jump ship the moment that Chad Thundercock makes her feel special. You don't have to be there or go out with h… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 05:43 PM |
| 6 | Red flag if a woman's best friend is a gay male?I'm friends with a few gay guys, and you will not believe how gay culture is different than regular culture. Guys on grinder don't waste anytime whatsoever. Its just dick pics and meet to fuck. No conversation whatsoever. At gay club, gay guys literally just go up to guys and start hooking up. When my gay friends hang around girls, they encourage that same type of behavior. Her girl friends will at least shame her a bit and make her feel like a slut. Gay guys don't. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to the question "are you mad?""No, just disappointed in you." Not to argue with an Endorse Contributor, but isn't that too guilt trippy? I mean, do you think Chad Thundercock would send that to his girlfriend? Wouldn't the best course of action be to to just go dark until she apologizes or something? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 04:33 PM |
| 4 | How did you guys actually begin to not give a fuck?Experience. I used to be deadly afraid (I'd honestly tremble) of talking to girls I didn't know. I cold approached like at least 100, and I honestly couldn't give two shits about cold approaching a girl anymore. I honestly don't even get nervous anymore. I get more nervous though with closing now, but that's because I'm not as experienced there yet. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 04:29 PM |
| 6 | Red flag if a woman's best friend is a gay male?but I've had some time to watch how that translates and she doesn't show signs of slutty. Trust me, they never do. They're really good at hiding it. The "friend" is a guy, gay, ex chef turned food writer/blogger/whatever the hell. He travels a ton and she travels with him at least every few months. That's a huge red flag. Gay guys are promiscuous as fuck. They usually tell their girlfriends "you go girl" "ride that cowboy", and "your man doesn't have to know" | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 04:27 PM |
| 1 | So I kinda called my dad out on not teaching me anything in life and basically raising me to be a loserIts not his fault. He himself doesn't know how the world works. Focus on yourself and what you can control. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Best response to the shit-test of "I have a boyfriend"I think you played it off well. She probably got hornier during the night, and hooked up with another guy. There probably wasn't much you could do to change her mind. I probably have ignored the whole boyfriend thing though because that's an uphill battle and just responded to w/ "I am really hot, and you deserve a man like me" She wasn't the most attractive bird on the planet so I honestly didn't see the effort in trying to keep her. Lol, are you British? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 04:23 PM |
| 11 | "Why'd you stop looking at my Snapchat stories but you still look at Kelsey's?""They were always dumb worthless shit." I think you want to imply that, but not say that directly. Maybe OP could say: "Kelsey came in first place at the race, isn't that impressive?" That response makes her come to the conclusion that she has to do interesting shit to stay in your life, or else she'll get rejected. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 04:16 PM |
| 5 | The 15 most common mistakes I see day in and day out on AskTRP after having posted there the last couple of years.1 - Thinking TRP is about women and only women At the end of the day, TRP is about power. If you are a powerful person, women will be a side-effect. Not Fucking Lifting If you are lifting, make sure you are on a proven, progressive-overload workout routine, and that you are on a strict diet. IRL I know a ton of people that spend about 6 hours a week at the gym, half the time doing cardio, and the other time doing dumbbell flies, and then they spend their hard earned cash on muscle milk. Suppleme… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/16 04:09 PM |
| 2 | How To Stuff Your White Meat Into Asian GirlsJust curious, if you're black, and act really hood around an Asian (or any other ethnicity) chick to give her the "black experience", would that work? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Dale Carnegie Principles Revisited: TRP EditionArouse in the other person an eager want" What exactly do you say to make it seem like sex is their idea? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Don't communicate; leave -- Communication is validation-seeking behaviorThe misogynistic blue pill answer is, of course, to communicate with her. Tell her how you feel about her shitty behavior and why, and ask her to stop. Use your feelings to try to guilt and manipulate and coerce her into changing what she wants to do for your sake. Never guilt trip anyone, it just makes you look upset and like a loser, as if it actually got to you. However, the answer most shitty Red Pill advocates will give is even stupider. Communicate with her. Tell her that you don’t like he… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 05:34 PM |
| 1 | The Fundamentals of FitnessWhat do you guys think about supplements? Which are necessary? I just started taking creatine and my stalled lifts are increasing | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Defending Yourself Against A Woman's Biggest Weapon.I'm not trolling, I wrote it out to better understand myself and why I do certain things I do. The thing is I'm good about not doing this with people I don't give two shits about; I only do this with girls I'm trying to impress or really like. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Defending Yourself Against A Woman's Biggest Weapon.Thank you so much for typing this. Recently, I was talking about this with friend, and I realized that throughout my life I have been used to my parents buying me everything I ever wanted. When I can't have something want, I get OCD obsessed with it, and very needy, and I can't even sleep at night. I have lost a ton of women in the past because of this; nothing turns a girl off more than the smell of desperation. This desperation has been manifested in other ways too: I have always wanted to be … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/16 10:13 PM |
| 3 | What happened to CisWhiteMaelstrom?He got doxxed on some SJW sites | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 02:57 PM |
| 7 | A Red Pill Interview with Mr. TrumpBig thinkers conquer their doubts. Doubt leads directly to failure. (page 276) This is SO true. Some times the only things that fuck yourself is your own doubts, and when you actually start thinking about them and giving them power over your life. If you're on a date with a girl, you really have to feel out the girl to decide what type of questions to ask and how to escalate, and just listen to your instincts. For instance, one girl once gave me a ride home after a first date, and I didn't kiss … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/16 05:00 AM |
| 1 | I Gained 40 Lbs In The Last Two Years. Sitting At 6' And 225 Lbs The World Became Very Agreeable To Me. Being Big Beats Being Lean.People on here say being jacked makes life easier, but is that really true? No offense, but to me, 170 - 180lb at 8% BF looks more attractive than 200lb. (E.g., Christain Bale in American Psycho is a great body.) Why do you think 200lb+ jacked people get treated better than the jacked 170-180lb dude? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/16 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Just say WTF and do whatever you want"One of the problems when you become successful is that jealousy and envy inevitably follow. There are people -- I categorize them as life’s losers -- who get their sense of accomplishment and achievement from trying to stop others. As far as I’m concerned, if they had any real ability, they wouldn’t be fighting me, they’d be doing something constructive themselves." ("Trump: The Art of the Deal," 1987) | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Just say WTF and do whatever you wantI like to think big, if you're going to think, you might as well think big. I don't see the point in making small plans — like what's the point? Please help me understand your perspective. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 11:24 PM |
| -5 | Just say WTF and do whatever you wantOne day, I'm going to be a very rich and powerful man, my name might even be a common household name. I couldn't give two shits about what someone thinks about me. I'm gonna do whatever the fuck I want. The higher I climb the ladder, the more friends I lose and the more enemies I make, and the more girls that rejected me or wouldn't give me the time of day hit me up. Too bad I don't give two shits, they had they're chance and blew it. That's why I don't care about how shit turns out - it helps w… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/16 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Just say WTF and do whatever you wantTrump is a voracious reader! High performance people research AND trust their gut. That is implied. Know your market. A lot of boys come to TRP because they want to be good with women. That's one of the main appeal. You can't learn how to be good with women by reading a BAJILLION posts on here. Some lessons are better learned on the field, and not reading other people's account. If you're 200LB 8% BF and tall, you probably have to come off a little beta so you don't scare them away. If he played… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/16 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Just say WTF and do whatever you wantThis is happening to me right now and I never looked at it like you did. If they're taking time out of their (meaningless) lives to talk shit about me, I must have did something to stay on their minds and as they say, good or bad attention is better than no attention. No such thing as bad publicity. Hey, sometimes I purposely piss off hot girls in my classes just so that they'll talk shit about me behind my bad and raise my SMV. The fact that some hot girl is talking shit about me (a good lookin… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/16 12:28 AM |
| 0 | Just say WTF and do whatever you wantThis is the exact point I was making, everything in life is situational. I'm just saying be a man and do what you want to do and don't let fear stop you, that's a bitch mentality. Guys that go on askTRP and ask for an opener for a girl that is sitting right in front of him? Guess what, he already lost. Is this dude's girlfriend cheating on him? How the fuck am I supposed to know? If you're building a computer, of course, you should ask someone who has done it before for advice. The point of that… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/16 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Can blue pillers and Red pillers be friends in real life?Do you mean like intimate friends, or do you mean co-operative aquaintances? Intimate friends. I think I would have a hard time trusting a guy who thought I was many of the things RP abscribes to my gender and I refuse to think I'm special. The red pill is not a religion. I feel that a lot of blue pillers see the red pill as a locker room filled with women-hate and a bunch of dudes that lift, but it is much more than that. You need to get the context of the posters. The average poster is a 21 ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Can blue pillers and Red pillers be friends in real life?I used hierarchy to mean that everyone in the group respects me, and if I say we should go to do X, everyone without hesitation agrees with me. People ask me for advice, and I am just really well respected. Maybe you're just an asshole and it's only the dorky STEM friends who are willing to put up with your shit. It's a possibility. Sounds like you might have some sort of personality issue going on. Some of the endorsed contributors on TRP are really high value IRL (e.g., GLO). If he was friends… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/16 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Can blue pillers and Red pillers be friends in real life?They are probably weaker mentally. I feel bad because the last times we hung out, I purposely trolled them. I'm sorry, but they were SO EMOTIONAL, and it was just hilarious to see them contradict themselves. No the best use of my time though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/16 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How to lie without laughing?Any other viable solutions? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/16 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?Society and feminism condition guys into thinking that women have really high standards and that hitting on girls is a VERY bad thing. That and the fact that a lot of guys are already afraid of rejection leads a lot of men to not ask girls out, and not learn by trail and error. The Red Pill is a tool box, not a set of commandment. It tells guys how the world works, and gives them tools that they can use to gain more leverage in situations. And for the army question, if all your friends and paren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/16 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?First, define "looser". Do you mean just somebody who isn't conventionally handsome or somebody who doesn't have a job and still lives with his parents at 35? Not having looks doesn't make you a loser. Its people who don't take actions to improve themselves that I would call losers, SO perhaps your second example is more correct. Nothing, but can you then please stop complaining that women's standarts are way too high, that they are ignoring 80% of all men and are therefore evil, egoistic and sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/16 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?endorses the idea that I should be treated as perpetually childlike contains more then it's fair share of asshats, How does that make us ass hats? When we say treat women like children we mean that if you ask a girl out on a date, you should pick a time and place. During the date, you lead the conversation, and it is your job to entertain her and have an interesting conversation. If your girlfriend is crabby, it is your job to maybe offer her some yogurt or offer to take her out to the mall to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/16 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?Well, you generalize half of the human population to the point that women are just overgrown teenagers who are incabable of love. Wrong. The Red Pill attracts guys that grew up in the western culture believing that women will love you unconditionally, despite how much of a loser you are. The red pill tells you that you really have to work hard and work on your relationship for her not to leave you. That's what it advocates. You accuse women for having too high standarts in todays society yet you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/16 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?I would agree that society teaches men to just be themselves in the beginning. I'm not denying that. At some point though, it becomes an excuse to stay immature and naive about the reality of having to change oneself. At least we can agree on that. It is also important to understand the real nature of relationships and how to handle them in a healthy way. TRP doesn't do this in the right way. I'm kind of done with this topic as I'm sure you're comfortable with the state you're at. Sometime I for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/16 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?RPW actively say they do not want the typical TRPer. They may believe in traditional gender roles, the captain/FM dynamic, and they may be against feminism, but at least those I've talked with absolutely do not want the typical twerp. Hmm, that's actually interesting. That's not what I've heard, and I've talked to prominent female posters there. I don't particularly know what "4th wave" feminism refers to. its a joke! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/16 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?That's very disrespectful. I gave specific points about how TRP actually benefits women more than feminism, and you called me: naive. I don't understand how that's a good argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?doubtful; this is wishful thinking. Not wishful thinking at all. People are getting tired of living in the blue pill world. When Donald Trump first announced his candidacy, he was polling VERY low, but he picked up a lot of momentum because people are getting tired of SJWs and the fucked up PC culture we live in. It is honestly a matter of time before TRP goes mainstream. but if it did cause any change, it would certainly be for the worse. Why do you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?Encouraging men to be interesting, confident, and attractive is only a small portion of TRP. Have you read the sidebar? Any man who doesn't see that being a smarter, stronger, and more attractive person will make them more marketable to women needs a reality check. Not really. In school and through television shows, were told that women should love men for being themselves, and not for "superficial attributes" like looks, intelligence, or status. Adding onto that, if you really look at the posts… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?It's a little silly to say that TRP helps women more than feminism. Remember there's a lot to TRP. Do you think the PUA aspect helps women? Do you think the aspect that touts that the best women should all be super feminine and obedient to their powerful alpha men helps women? Do you think the "push past the LMR" crowd helps women? More than feminism? Really? There's a red pill women forum on here too! It instructs women on how to not get pumped and dumped, or manipulated in relationships. It al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?That's a little silly. If a woman can do a man's job better than the man, we would encourage the anyone in the world to replace the man with the women. Please tell me how that is silly? Do you expect women to like that? I think if you censored us, the forum would lose its appeal too. Plus, there are some feminist out there that write about how all men should be castrated and say men are pigs. For some reason it is more socially acceptable for women to say that in college classes too (one girl sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 10:38 PM |
| 13 | The Sixteen Commandments Of PoonI read all 16 of these to a male feminist friend, and he agreed with all them. When I told where this came from, he started hamstring how this was misogynistic. It was hilarious. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?I actually think that TRPers do more for women than feminist. We are big advocates on that we should judge results and actions, and not intentions or feelings. Yeah, we throw out the word "cunt" and "bitch", but its literally a men's online locker room. What do you expect? Moreover, we never have called women stupid. We just call them "more emotional", which is true and there are a lot of studies to back that fact up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 10:03 PM |
| 0 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?Let's be honest. Why do white knights defend women? It's not because of the goodness of their heart, I'll tell you that. If most men could date victoria secret models without having to work hard on themselves, do you think they'd still work hard on themselves? There exists a biological imperative, and if you deny that it exists, you are an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?In schools, the blue pill agenda is pushed out and has a louder ring, and fictional character like Barney Stinson are epitomized as what's wrong with society, and kids actually believe that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?Can you honestly not see the hatred and resentment that drips from that sub? Can you please help me understand what you mean by that? TRP shows young men the good and bad about women's nature. (E.g., even if you're Elon Musk, you're wife could still lose attraction for you and leave you). Instead of complaining about it like Men's Right Activist and feminist, we try to do the best make sure that that doesn't happen. How? We encourage guys to always dress well, read a lot of books, be interesting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?I bought the art of the deal on audiobook and need to listen to it. Hell I'm a registered Democrat but if I bother to vote it's only going to be for Trump. The man has a vision and he's a proven winner. Plus look at that string of amazingly hot wives he's had. A true alpha male and man to inspire to be. A friend suggested I read it a few months ago, and I thought it was a phenomenal book -- very inspiring and really shows you how Donald Trump literally busted his ass for everything he has, and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?Very good point! Even then I don't think that guys like us hate women. You just experience a lot of hate, and don't know how to project it. TRP is a healthy outlet to project it into. I personally believe that TRP is going to go mainstream pretty soon, and a lot of things about our western culture are going to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 09:15 PM |
| 5 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?That's great, what about the 100,000 angry phasers who are looking for the most efficient way to "get sex?" Their anger is justifiable. Society tells them that in order to have sex with a girl, they must buy her expensive things and treat her like a queen, and never piss her off. You do that, and she likes you as a friend, but won't have sex with you. All this occurs while Chad Thundercock calls her up and says she can come over to his place and suck his dick, and she obliges. When Anger phasers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?We hate feminism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?And she's well aware that I don't hate women. And that all of my red pill experiences really come down to how much I deeply love women. And want to find a truly quality one who believes in my vision. Lol she straight up tried to cheat on her husband with me. I am honestly at the gym at 6am everyday. Why? Because I want to look good for her. I don't hate women at all. I cherish them. I don't think I have every met a TRPer that genuinely hated women. IF he did, he wouldn't be on that site. Honestl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?Red pill is a super toxic environment which brings about truly disgusting people who hate women, are super fucking racist, have absolutely no morals and are willing to manipulate people and abuse them. I've chatted with a lot of ECs and Vanguards, and none of them are racist, or misogynistic. Nobody thinks that racism and misogyny are a good thing — We HATE people who spread those kind of ideas. However, the PC culture we live in is a little bit ridiculous -- almost everything is offensive and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?Trps ECS are old men who use their money to buy sex from young women and then claim they are sexually attractive because ''money raises a man's smv.'' They are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?I'm a pretty high status guy myself (6 feet, rich, moderately jacked, and low BF), and I can't recall the last time I verbally asked for consent in my life. If you ask a girl if she wants to go on a date vs. telling her to come on a date with you theres a sort of confidence that women like and the subtext behind it is that its not a big deal at all, and you're used to going on a lot of dates anyway and you're a hot commodity (which is why you assumed she wanted to go), but if she doesn't want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?Most trp ECs state that status trumps everything. Looks help, but the end all be all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do blue-pillers hate TRP?Bein realistic (I've skyped with a few people here and I've met a few TRPers IRL) most of the guys here aren't low status guys. They're really smart, attractive, and have great personalities. However, for some reason they weren't good with women. Perhaps because they never learned how to talk to women the way women like to be talked to in or just didn't have a good role mode. When those guys who get nervous just thinking about holding a girls hands hear that they'll be able to have threesomes on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/16 07:45 PM |
| -2 | /r/theredpill is SUBREDDIT OF THE DAY!after they get over the shock and horror of our evil misogynistic ways. Every hero needs a villain. I would argue that blue pillers actually like us. If you look at the top posts in our archives, you'll notice that some of the top posts are actually blue pill advice written in a dark tone. Its the tone that people don't like, not the content, however the advice is great, and its not misogynistic in anyway -- we cherish women and accept them despite knowing their true nature. However, the tone we… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 06:30 PM |
| 3 | /r/theredpill is SUBREDDIT OF THE DAY!if TRP actually comes back to its roots I would definitely get involved again. Can you help me understand what you mean by TRP roots? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 06:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Don't ask fish for advice on catching fish, ask a fisherman" is a flawed analogyFrom experiences of girls that I know from high school and my university, most girls seems to fuck down (they are usually plates for guys that in society would be considered scums by Red Pill standards ----aka, no job, dress bad, and aren't that well spoken or smart or interesting, AND just seem like douches [they're the type of guys that are abusive and treat girls like shit]). However, those same girls only "date" and become "Facebook Official" with guys that are the cat's meow. Do you serious… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/16 03:30 PM |
| 10 | [FR] Started the day with a hello, finished by f-closingOP's text game was strong, he defused her shit tests like a boss. I was gonna point that out, "I'm not forcing you to do anything" is a perfect response. Gonna steal that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/16 01:44 PM |
| 0 | My social media game is non-existent... should i care?OOOOHHHHHH NOOOOOO! HOW DO YOU SLIDE INTO GIRL'S DMs? I kid, I kid, You're better off without it. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 05:11 AM |
| 6 | Thinking on your feet and being social?I'm gonna let you in on a secret that I just recently found out, aaanndd I would have paid a lot of money to have learned earlier in life. It really doesn't matter what you say, people are like children. If I child falls off its bike, it'll look at how its parents react. If they overreact, the kid will cry. If the parents laugh and tell him to get up, the kid will do just that. In a similar style, you must be bold and say what you want to say, it could be whatever comes to your mind. As long as … | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 05:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Don't ask fish for advice on catching fish, ask a fisherman" is a flawed analogyOnly if there hypergamy radar tells them that those type of guys are out of their league will they confirm with something less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/16 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out for drinks and she asked to bring a friend, any tips/directions?NOOOO! You want to go on a date and potentially FUCK her, not be some cuck who literally changes her tampon. Be bold and tell her No! She's gonna go with you and have a blast, or not go at all. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 04:39 AM |
| 3 | How important is smiling for men while gaming?Get out there and see what works for you. Don't rely too much on this stuff. I usually have a smile from ear to ear and say bold/ shitlord-esque shit, buuuuttttt I can pull that off, and it work SO well. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 04:37 AM |
| 7 | Are there any loyal women? Are they all sluts?You're thinking about this the wrong way. Its not about if there are loyal women, think about this as: IF I'm high status enough, no women will ever want to leave me. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Thinking on your feet and being social?Be bold, and don't be afraid of saying the right or wrong thing. Anything you do out of audaciousness can easily fixed by more boldness. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How to apply TRP on a sales job?Assume the sale mentality. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Ran into my ex, wanted to know how TRP thinks I handled it.you actually care about how you handled a run in with an ex? Why? You didn't fuck her? | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Stop trying to be someone women need; Be someone they wantWhen I first started TRP, I started working on myself, and trying to become a better conversationalist and better at 'listening' to the other person, but as I quickly found out, women hate that. You really just have to be bold, and literally lead the conversation and just work on having fun. If you try to build an emotional connection she'll view that as rape. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/16 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Can someone like me become alpha?I have high functioning autism, i have a fear of crowds, i have social anxiety, when i go out i walk a certain way that says don't fuck with me which goes completely against my character, at least i think it does. I do this because i am afraid of getting attacked or challenged even though deep down i know i am being paranoid and that most likely wont happen. When i was a kid and a teenager i got beat up a lot by my siblings and kids at school, i also got psychologically bullied by some of my tea… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Stop trying to be someone women need; Be someone they wantThere's no inherent value in "doing it for myself" or "being true to myself". That's loser talk. That's what someone who fails at life says to comfort himself. "I may have sucked at everything, but at least I was always true to myself." I've been thinking a lot about this lately, especially after reading the 38th law of the 48 powers of law. Some of the most alpha people I know and Senior Endorsed Contributors tell me that when you do things for yourself, theres a sort of boldness to you, and yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/16 04:37 AM |
| 14 | CMV: "Don't ask fish for advice on catching fish, ask a fisherman" is a flawed analogyI think it's more that women can't really say what they like because it's make them look like superficial hoes. "Yeah, be tall, tan, jacked and wear an Armani suit, then look at her lustfully, and just dominate her." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/16 04:28 AM |
| 1 | What happened to CisWhiteMaelstorm?Great guy, he's a man I have a lot of respect for. Too bad he's not on here as frequently lately. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 04:24 AM |
| 5 | Q4RPMales: How do you think your wife/gf/fuckbuddy would respond to reading your RP reddit history?They'd drop me in a split second, for the simple fact that I'd be revealed as a fake alpha. Women want the real deal, not dudes that had to learn this stuff on the internet. I don't know about that, if you're SMV is high enough, you can get away with ANYTHING. Someone in one of my english classes when I was a sophomore in college, showed us his Return of Kings post on the projector, and EVERYONE agreed with him, and thought he was "misunderstood". If his SMV would have been lower, everyone would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeI haven't asked her because she probably doesn't even understand what happened to her. All women believe how they feels is an accurate portrayal of reality, and not logic. That's been scientifically proven. And honestly I didn't bother reading all your mumbo jumbo. If you enjoy getting rapped, and are asking someone to rape you, then it's NOT a crime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/16 05:02 PM |
| 2 | New here. I read the "Looks don't matter" sidebar material and I'm not sold at all. CMV, I guess.Go out to any bar or club and see Unattractive guys that have these gorgeous, beautiful women that are very interesting in them. From my experience, unattractive guys tend to usually pull more attractive girls than really attractive guys. I think it's because they're used to getting rejected more and have a more unshakable confidence because they learn to accept themselves | /r/seduction | 14/04/16 05:22 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeIf someone isn't stopping they ain't stopping If there's mutual enjoyment, no need to make it stop! ;) Like in the cock sucking scenario you ignored Only because it made me question my sexuality. But, in all seriousness, I never ignored that question. If you want to suck some guy's sausage or ride the discostick, you put yourself in a situation to suck some guy off, and better yet if you don't have to take responsibility for it. IF I wanted to do that, that's exactly how'd I do it though. Hmm, d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/16 04:07 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeThat is the most futile arguement I have ever heard. Boo Hoo I don't have control of anything because I don't want it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/16 02:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeyou know guys from the opposite sex, and I do not expect them to rape me,or think that they are attracted to me (Ironically I live in what you would call a 3rd world country). IF your friend of the opposite sex made sexual advances on you, and you weren't into him and he was making you unconformable, would you stay there and hope he stops despite it looking like he was going to be persistent and take your presence as a sign of interest? Still if the guy,girl forces you to have sex, then that is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 11:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeSaying no should have sufficed that's the point you don't get. He deserves this rape accusation. How do I know this friend, after being desperate and literally animal enough to not take a simple no as an answer is also not animal enough to become violent over her trying to leave? He's the least rape-y person you have every met. I understand what you're saying but I think the responsibility doesn't fall just on one person. She playfully said no, but he kept pushing---maybe just to see if she chan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 07:34 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeHow much of a scene does she have to create to channel the simple message of a rejection? Walking out would have been suffice. If you're in a dangerous neighborhood, are you going to walk down the alley counting money in one hand, and taking a selfie of your rolex with the other, who do we blame? It honestly just sounds to me like she just got cold feet when she got there because my friend was very direct. Later, she realized she enjoyed it, but didn't want to seem like a slut and wanted to milk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 06:49 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeI honestly think she wanted the D, but when she got there she was a little bit taken a back by his confidence and got cold feet and didn't want to be perceived as a slut. She had a good time. One of her friends told her it was really rape. She called it that to have an excuse to talk to my friend and get his attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 06:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeThat post is more misogynistic than anything I've ever read in the red pill. So let me get this straight, you're telling me women have no accountability or control? If she was that deadset on sex not happening, why didn't she leave? Why did she admit she enjoyed it? Do you really think a man would have sex with a girl like that if deep down he didn't really think she wanted it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 05:43 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeYour friend raped her. Please explain. Ok, imagine you were the chick in the story. Some shit lord calls you over to have some drinks and chill, and insinuates he's gonna try to fuck you. So, you put on your best slutty outfit, and take the train for like 15 minutes then walk another 10 minutes (for a total of 25 minutes for you to realize what you're getting into). What did you expect to happen? Bake cookies? Later, you decided you don't want him to think you're easy, so you accuse him of rape,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeOkay, so do we really need to explain to you how lack of screaming is not consent? The girl knew what she was getting into before she went over to his place. She was wearing her sluttiest outfit, and had like a 25 minute commute to get to his place (which should have been enough for her to realize what she was getting into). However, let's pretend she didn't know. When she got there, if she saw the guy was making passes, why didn't she just leave? My friend never held her down, or said she could… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 04:46 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeOk, imagine you were the chick in the story. Some shit lord calls you over to have some drinks and chill, and insinuates he's gonna try to fuck you. So, you put on your best slutty outfit, and take the train for like 15 minutes then walk another 10 minutes. What did you expect to happen? Bake cookies? Later you admit you enjoyed it. Why would you put yourself in that situation? IF you feel you are being raped, why not scream or call the police? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 04:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeI believe the exact opposite! Most people are their toughest critics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 04:30 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeI'd just be curious to hear an unadulterated telling of her side. You're right, there are two sides to this story, and unless we hear that side, we don't really know what happens. For all we know, she could have provoked him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 04:32 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeDepends, did he invite me to his apartment and tell me there would be drinks, and pretty much insinuate he would try to fuck me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 04:22 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeHave your "friend" explain that to the judge. Don't want to open that can of worms here, but that's actually another problem. How many men have had their whole lives ruined by false rape accusation and beta, effeminate judges? The girl obviously was attracted enough to go to his place and have drinks with him (a guy of the opposite sex)? What did she expect? Recite church hymns? Its not like the guy physically tied her down or was violent, and she didn't scream at any point, I think she was just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 04:17 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeIf Henry Ford would have asked people what they wanted, people would have said a faster horse. Sometimes people don't know what they want. The girl could have thought she was tired or not ready, but then changed her mind. I think deep down she was open for sex happening... What kind of person meets another person of the opposite sex for drinks at their apartment, and not expect anything to happen? Also, its not like she was really against it... Did she scream? Was she violently forced into sex? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 04:08 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Rape isn't always rapeMy thing is that the girl was already at his apartment and they were drinking... What's the implication? Plus, she could have left at any time or started screaming. She knew what was gonna happen, and she admitted she had a good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/16 03:42 AM |
| 6 | Pros and cons of fucking women way below your SMVYou shouldn't necessarily put off hot slut till later because you'd surprise yourself a lot. But, fucking sloots has definetly been the best discovery I've ever had from TRP----it increases your confidence and abundance mentality, and you don't give two shits what they think about you or what happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 04:21 PM |
| 18 | Pros and cons of fucking women way below your SMVIMO, fuck low SMV sloots at first to get practice, then just pursue high SMV sloots. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 03:24 PM |
| 3 | If a scrawny omega became an ultra hulk, what would the reaction be?That's exactly what I thought. Zyzz was Red Pill as fuck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/16 05:59 AM |
| 3 | I feel as if I have NO power in my relationship at all.Sounds to me like your on the brink of divorce. Start looking for a lawyer. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/16 05:56 AM |
| 1 | You’ve Been Raised on Fears and Lies: Here’s What Happens NowDo you have any tips to avoid anxiety or mitigate anxiety during stressful events? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Question for men: What makes a man become a feminist to you?The more you give in to feminists the screechier and more entitled they become. Feminism is the ultimate shit test. It IS a shit test! I think its like natural selection, we should let bloopies be bloopies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/16 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4 RP: What is the difference between a woman's emotionalism and a mans?The difference is that going full muh feels (especially to a woman) is basically self-castration and will lower your chance of getting laid or even a relationship by a lot. Men can't go full emotional like that because they just biologically can't. We can't think like women---were ration, not emotional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/16 01:42 AM |
| 6 | Question for men: What makes a man become a feminist to you?They're self-loathing men that think women will suck their willies if they are feminist. The world doesn't work like that, and women are actually repulsed by that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/16 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Attractive or average looking guys with no standardsTriggernometry? I like you, theres no lying in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/16 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Attractive or average looking guys with no standardsI am friends with a few Chads, the type of guys that can land a threesome without much effort any particular weekend and have a few plates. Most of my Chad friends girls are average looking or slightly below average looking. However, he does have a plates from time to time (because plates always after a certain amount of time) that are solid 9s. There not all 9s though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/16 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Help me find LaidNYC posts.Confirm it works. Any post in particular that anyone would recommend? | /r/askTRP | 10/04/16 10:25 PM |
| 0 | Where can I find a good RedPill therapist?Most CBTs are pretty red pill. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/16 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Plate says I can come over, but no sex. Should I next?2) Show up, but freeze her out. Have dinner, be fun, charming, and interesting. Then get up and leave after eating. No sex for her. The idea here is to take the control of when sex happens out of her hands. She chose no sex the other night. You choose no sex tonight. She does not get to be in charge. Also - you have "plans for later." Deflect if she want you to be specific. She will think you are going to be with another girl where sex IS on offer. Hmm, isn't that only an option after OP's made … | /r/askTRP | 09/04/16 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Plate says I can come over, but no sex. Should I next?She invites me over for a glass of wine, but says "definitely no sex tonight" because it's late and she's got things to do tomorrow. Plausibly deniability, of course, you don't believe that and neither does she. At the time, I felt like if I said, "oh, ok, nevermind then," it would be kind of an asshole move. Surely being perceived as an asshole wouldn't impact your decision. So I went over, chatted, had a glass of wine and went home. In there I didn't see you included anything about you trying … | /r/askTRP | 09/04/16 09:52 PM |
| 2 | What is your favorite example of a leader/alpha/man?You've just inspired me to learn more about him. He's a fucking bad ass | /r/askTRP | 09/04/16 03:45 AM |
| 1 | I'm an albino, here is the most common shit test i getI'm like a 6.5 /10 , I'd be like an 8-9 if not for being really pale because i have very good facial genetics , but i don't dwell on it too much. Tell yourself you're a 10/10 and convince yourself even if it seems dillisusional. No girl fucks down. Usually females are not smart enough to tell the difference, it just matters how you play it off anyway. Often times girls will ask me what color my pubes are , I'll try to make a joke of it saying I'm black from the waist down but a lot of the time t… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/16 03:51 AM |
| 1 | How I went from the biggest loser in school to the most popular kid in school overnight, just like the movies and you can too.People believe what you show them, this is repeated over and over in red pill. You could lift all day, dress better, learn all the cool phrases to make chicks swoon, but if you are the geek, or the loser in your school/town/job you may not get the response you really want, you may just have to change your zip code. That is so true. Act like a king to be treated like a king. People are like children - they react how suggest they should react. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/16 01:31 AM |
| 1 | My problem is I am perceived as uninterested even when I am. Help?Use your hands when you speak, make eye contact, and make sure your tone of voice isn't monotone. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/16 12:14 AM |
| 2 | What is the number one most important character trait that women loves the most?This. Actually Chateau Heartise wrote another good piece that reviewed personality characteristics. Being dominant/ imposing wAs also favorable. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/16 12:08 AM |
| 2 | LTR who is giving me headaches, I don't trust herDude, if you're seeing all these red flags right now, why are you still with her? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/16 12:06 AM |
| 3 | How can I prevent my little brother, 11, of being a bluepill beta boy longer than necessary?Win at life and just be a winner. He'll want to follow in your footsteps. If you're some loser that just posts online all day and doesn't have anything going on, he won't even take advice on how to water grass from you. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/16 12:03 AM |
| 1 | I'm starting monk mode tomorrow. Any tips that will help me stick it out?Talk to everyone, everywhere you go. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How do I tell my human sexuality prof. that using evolutionary psychology to get laid is not immoral?Don't do that. Say as little about yourself as you ever have to. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Is talking politics ALWAYS a big No No when it comes to talking to girls casually?This is 100% true. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Is talking politics ALWAYS a big No No when it comes to talking to girls casually?I used to like talking about trump and how he's I think he should be president. Don't make the same mistake I did. I did that on two dates with girls that were 100% interested in me. Said that, and they had a look of disgust on their face. Combined that with a failed follow up shit test and you're a weirdo. Try to avoid that at first. When you get more talented you can. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Afraid of AttentionThat's actually what it comes down to. But, I really don't know why I'm not confident. I am decently muscular (deadlift 315, squat 260). I go to a great school. I've overcome some tough challenges. I can fake it a few days, but my emotions eventually betray me. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 09:43 PM |
| 1 | List of ioi's or signaling to approach.My abridge guide: don't pussy out, approach! | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 07:59 AM |
| -1 | Ex messaged me out of the blueNot to be a dick, but how is this alpha? I mean, yeah she did break up with him, but if he still thinks she's hot, he should plate her. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 12:09 AM |
| 1 | A Little Mistake That Cost My Best Friend 5 Years of His Life."TRP Maxims that work for me" which you dramatically removed. One of the mods liked parts of it, but he felt that parts of it were hurtful to people who were new to the community. I am a HUGE believers that high status people give a lot of value to those around them and help those around them. (E.g., one of my high status acquaintances pulled some strings to get me an interview at a worldly renowned company that anyone in my field would love to work at. It only cost him a quick phone call, and I… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 06:02 PM |
| 2 | A Little Mistake That Cost My Best Friend 5 Years of His Life.This is one of the most inspirational posts I have ever read. I am so happy for you! Thank you so much for posting this! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to be jacked to have success on Tinder, given that I'm not yet?Just curious, what's more important facial structure or bod? | /r/askTRP | 24/03/16 05:19 AM |
| 5 | Does this girl like me?Are you an idiot? She might as well have had that she liked you on her forehead. Girls dont even acknowledge guys that they are not attracted to -- they literally don't even see them. She actually came up to you and initiated a conversation. I say you get her number asap and ask her out or else she'll think you're too much of a pussy to make a move on her and move on. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/16 05:16 AM |
| 1 | how to become more chill in conversations?Now that you know this, see what you can do...? Being social is a skill. Skills require practice. You don't just learn something. Talking is like playing the guitar. You get good at conversations by having them. So, then practice how to be the guide of conversations. This means to not speak the entire time. Very true. Its not that I'm not smooth and not that I don't know how to pass shit tests, I think that the bigger problem is that I don't actually believe I in myself enough. A few weekends ag… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 06:58 PM |
| 1 | how to become more chill in conversations?Read a book. The charisma myth. This teaches you how to speak. Already read it lol. I have the audiobook, I'm gonna start listening to it again when I workout. Read another book. Deliver the Unexpected. This teaches you how to bring value to people in conversation and life. Gonna see if I can get it at my library or else I'll order it online, thanks! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vn_L4OPU_rg How Kevin Hart has great storytelling skills - good tips. Already saw it, I'm a big fan of that channel… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 06:52 PM |
| 3 | how to become more chill in conversations?Tip: when they say what you think is their last word, just wait for 4 or 5 seconds. You can just look at them or nod or whatever. This allows you to avoid any awkward scenarios where they might want to add another thought. Additionally, you are giving off the impression that you are actively trying to internalize what they said. One of my most alpha friends (who has threesomes like every weekend) does that. He looks at your eyes and waits like 4-5 seconds before saying a word. It weird, but you … | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 05:41 AM |
| 2 | how to become more chill in conversations?Actually, liberal chicks get moist in the panties when a cro-mag destroys their "Because Feminism!" and "Feeeelz da' BERN!" arguments. It makes them FEEELZ da Tingles in some southerly real estate. It depends how you do it. Most of the girls that I am talking about are really shy, and just want to sounds really intelligent. I haven't gone out with any of the loud mouthed ones. The one from the story just had a look on her face that said: "OMG, I really don't want to talk about this right now" an… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 05:32 AM |
| 1 | how to become more chill in conversations?Don't be a pyschopath and exploit people in a cruel way, but at the same time make use of people's inner narcissism for your own purposes. It's a win-win. You get ahead in life, and they get their egos stroked. I feel this mostly works on guys. If you stroke a man's ego's and validate him, he'll do anything for you. If you stroke a women's ego, from my experience, nothing good comes out of it (well in the sense that you won't be getting anything stroked back in return, lol). | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 05:22 AM |
| 1 | how to become more chill in conversations?Progressive chicks are BPD and rape accusations waiting to happen Lol, true dat! I'd prefer to date like minded people, but I won't rule a girl out because of what she believes, as long as she isn't a crazy feminist. The girls I'm talking about are not that bad to be around -- most of those girls are angels on dates and they're really nice, even if they don't agree with you; however, their Facebook is full of a lot of hateful posts. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 05:19 AM |
| 1 | how to become more chill in conversations?Don't wait for your turn to speak - I hate that shit - instead show genuine interest in the person you're speaking to and let the convo flow naturally. I'm gonna force myself to work on this. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 05:14 AM |
| 5 | What do women mean when they say they want someone "intellectual"?It means they want a hawt, muscular stud who will fuck their brains out than dump them. I have a ton of hot chick friends that have given me dating advice and they've told me to have intellectual conversations with the girls and ask them about politics and and feminism and questions you actually have to think about. Don't do that. Oh Lord, take my word for it, don't ever do that. The same girls who gave me that advice fuck guys that don't even both to have interesting conversations with them on … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Approaching girls in the club?If you want to nail a slut from a club, you have to go there with some hot chicks. There's no way around that. Other girls will approach you and start grinding on you and dancing with you. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 01:28 AM |
| 2 | was this a shit-test? or actual breakupDamn, you would have thought that she would have had the decency not to dump you on your birthdate. Wow. Nonetheless, she broke up with you and you handled it 100%. Move on now. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Facebook - should I restart mine, or not?If you want one, go for it. It's really up to you. Just know that Facebook is sort of a resume of girls you've fucked. It can either work for you or against you. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/16 09:56 PM |
| 1 | (vent) I've been dealing with a psychopathic "friend".In my journey rediscovering and improving myself, all my fucking problems begin to emerge to the surface. Don't worry that's normal. My preteenage past (11-14 years) has been marked by an absent father working abroad during my core years: this made me impotent to numerous bullying episodes in practically every school I got into until highschool, without proper mentoring and help from a man side. Listen, don't blame who you are on your past. that's bullshit victimhood mentality, and its not going… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/16 09:52 PM |
| -1 | Trickle Down Media WhoreI don't think there is anything wrong with what I said. What I got out of this post is that you get out of things what you put into them. Yeah, that wasn't OP's main message, but the post touches on that theme. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/16 07:20 PM |
| -8 | Trickle Down Media WhoreThis is a perfect example of what separates a red pill man from a Chad. When red pill men are presented with one opportunity to get what they want, they prepare the fuck out of it and capitalize on it, while Chad just sits around and if he gets lucky it'll go his way. This dedication can be applied to job interviews, negotiations or even laying a tinder slut. Good job GLO! You're the man! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/16 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Plausible Deniability - Let her have her storyIf you're at a board meeting, you have to be persistent and tough, but you also have to be likeable. Steve Jobs was successful because he always had big plans and knew how to inspire people. Although he was an asshole, people thought he was charismatic. It's that kind of personality that wins you deals and get you laid. What I am getting it is that when you argue, don't get red in the face and indignant. Crack a few honest jokes, but be persistent and honest (selectively honest). | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/16 02:57 AM |
| -1 | Plausible Deniability - Let her have her storySome of us love arguments. It's how we know who it is we are going to like. Most people cannot stand arguments. They make them feel so uncomfortable. They back down, always. Softies. That's okay. The world needs more followers than leaders. What are you talking about? I don't understand what you're saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/16 08:18 PM |
| 24 | Plausible Deniability - Let her have her storyA lot of good lessons in this post. Before TRP, I never really had trouble getting dates or getting girls checking me out. They'd go out with me and I'd wonder why they didn't want to go out again. On dates, I would talk about our families, long term goals, hobbies, the 31 questions from the NYT, and serious shit like that. First thing I found out it that girls really don't have hobbies or passions or interests. When I'd ask them that, they'd feel awkward and I could tell I fucked up but I didn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/16 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Women are more likely to manipulate and use an autistic guy than empathize with him.women are more likely to avoid autistic men But of course! do you know what that can do to their SMV? Drops faster than the drop of a hat. It's the 'Nice Guys' that think they have a chance because they're decent guys, but really never stood a chance type of guys that they manipulate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/16 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Getting pleasure in seeing ex-fling dumpedHa, yea its always hilarious to see that. But, why waste time posting this on here? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Do women love being emotionally hurt by alphas?She's just going for the hot guy. Good analogy, but women LOVE the jerks -- it brings so much drama and plus they genuinely believe that they can change Chad. I have a Chad friend that literally has his main plate pay his rent. He treats her like shit and all calls her to pick him up when he gets fucked up. All her friends tell him to dump him, but she would never do that. Lesson learned: women love being treated like dogs. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Plate asks," why did you choose me?" How to respond?dat ass This | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 05:04 AM |
| 4 | Hot second cousin?bruh, don't shit where you eat! | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 05:03 AM |
| 1 | The guys on TRP don't actually do that well in terms of "getting around" and guys who want to sleep around should stay off TRP, here is why I think so.If a dude approached 50 women a day was in shape had nice hair good style good teeth he should be able to fuck 1 of those 50. that's the best advice you can give anyone. IF they want to get good with girls, they literally have to talk to a bunch of girls and go on a ton of dates and see what works. I get what OP means tho. A lot of people just twiddle their thumbs and hope for women to fuck them. It doesn't work like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/16 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Does posting a nude selfie on Instagram liberate or empower a woman?It's not much of a guise, more of a reason to show off her body. She's not really hiding the fact that she posted it in a public place. I personally believe that celebrities do this to stay relevant, and garner attention. I don't think they give a shit about empowerment or liberty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/16 08:25 PM |
| 6 | Many TRP men actually think there are no good women out there.i am a "red pill woman" who has always expressed redpill ideas in the man o sphere and here and have pretty much been met with nothing but respect from "red pill" men It's not so much about what you say, but who says it. I've gone out with a few sorority girls that are TRASHY as fuck. Sometimes they say red pill stuff and stroke my ego, and I get offended because I know who they are and what they want. When they try to mislead me that it what upsets me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/16 08:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Donald Trump is not an Alpha or masculine, the real man is JFKTrump's fuel is our emotions, people are sick of immigrants and scared of Muslims, so he talks about them to get voters fired up. The polls say he is winning those minority groups though. If he's using fear and hostility towards those groups, then why are those groups supporting him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/16 10:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Donald Trump is not an Alpha or masculine, the real man is JFKTrump is a goofball, like most of the high profile Twerps in fact. How so? I think Trump is alpha because he literally says what he's thinking and its not scripted. So many people these days don't say what they really mean because of fear of offending others or because of the fear of being judged and consequences. Not doing something out of fear is a bitch mentality to have. People also claim he's racist and sexist, but he's winning all the minority groups and the women vote, so who are we to sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/16 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I lose my egoNothing wrong with dreaming big and working towards getting there, and there's nothing wrong with thinking you are better than everyone else. I genuinely believe I'm better than most people, as fucked up as it sounds. That said, don't go around comparing yourself to others. Just work towards your goals and on improving yourself every week, even if it's only a small step forward. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/16 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Apologizing?As a general rule of thumb, don't ever appoligize. Don't apologize unless you really fucked up and know you fucked up, and if that happens be sincere. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/16 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Matched with my ex's best friend on Tinder?I had a very similar experience not too long ago. I ran into my ex's best friend at a restaurant, and i was purposely avoiding her, but she walked up to me and pretty much came onto me and wanted to eat with me and the friend I was with. I told her nicely to fuck off, but she wouldn't get the hint, so I decided to make a move on her, and she started acting really weird and wasn't having it. So what I learned: Don't validate her at all, and keep the tinder interaction as short as possible. If you… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/16 05:41 AM |
| 0 | Response to this common shit test? GF"You haven't been giving me good reason lately" | /r/askTRP | 10/03/16 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Verbal fight with higher SMV maleSMV can help in an argument, but at the end of the day its about going on the offense and thinking faster than the other person, and NEVER getting an ounce of defensive. As a matter of fact, I would just attack him and make him defensive. Watch how Donald Trump acts in debates -- he is a master at winning arguments. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/16 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Girl wants me to tutor her after she said too busy for drinksShe's begging for tutoring because you are removing yourself from her orbit, and she wants you back in it. If she wanted to fuck you, she would have by now. Is he really an orbiter though? He made his intentions clear and the drunk dial probably turned her off, but she might be experiencing a remorse for not acting. She's not going to blatantly ask him to fuck her, and this could be her way of coming on to him---she knows that if he tutors her, he's going to make a move and sex will be a possibi… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/16 05:28 AM |
| 7 | Appeal to her body, not her brainphenomenal post! Now that I'm the hot jacked guy, it surprises me the length women will go to keep me around. I tell them I'm indifferent and sometimes I'm even a parasite in their life, and they know that and don't care. Its fucking awesome -- I've never been on this side. I think you're really underplaying the importance of game though. If I go out and don't approach any girls, I won't get laid. However, I was at a frat part last night, and started talking to this one girl and she isolated me … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 10:59 PM |
| 1 | frequently asked questions; Are you a feminist? Why not?"You're a feminist? Idk, I might be a feminist too. Nah." "Only if you are" Don't take it to seriously. Most hardcore feminists are stupid and stubborn, and it's not even worth getting into an argument with them. Just give them joking responses. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/16 07:00 PM |
| 1 | TRP Maxims that work for meWhat I meant by that was that i don't insult others because it reflects bad on me. Of course, I be friendly to the hot sorority chick, and I'll fuck her, but she ain't getting anything else out of me. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/16 10:46 PM |
| 1 | TRP Maxims that work for meCan you give us an example of the high energy you mentioned? I'm naturally a high-energy and extroverted person. Last night, I called up a girl I'm friends with and I'm like:"X, I got the craziest story ever to tell you. This is going to be the craziest story you have ever heard." That alone got her hyped up. Then, I used some truthful hyperboles and just told the story with such enthusiasm that she was attached to every word I said. I do this on dates, and girls LOVE it. I also act like I'm mor… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/16 10:44 PM |
| 1 | TRP Maxims that work for meElon Musk I don't know much about his background, but I've watched a ton of videos of CEOs on YouTube, and I'm surprised by how beta they are. Honestly, hard work alone can make you CEO of company. Of course, being DT helps, but theres no substitute for hard work. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/16 10:39 PM |
| 2 | TRP Maxims that work for meAll the people that responded to your post are spot on. You cannot convince someone to think otherwise. People are emotional creatures, not rational. If you present someone facts, they will hamster it away. Like Marplaneit says: you can ask people questions that will lead them to the conclusion themselves, and you can tell stories about 'your friends'. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/16 10:33 PM |
| 1 | TRP Maxims that work for meThe author of 7 Habbits of Highly Effective people talks about this phenomena too! -- I think its good to talk good about others more so because how you talk about others says more about you. Most successful people I know IRL (they're rich, tall, attractive, and kicking ass in life) always have something good to say about other people. When they talk about others, they speak highly of them. I don't really know why, but its a thing. I think that they just project their awesome life into others. P… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/16 10:30 PM |
| 1 | What does an ex want?It seems like girls wear it as a badge of honor and are overzealous to share it. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/16 05:55 PM |
| 2 | What does an ex want?if it isn't she gets "Well, if we date again my N count doesn't get any higher". Has that ever stopped a women from dating another guy? Serious question. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/16 04:03 PM |
| 6 | Do you guys ever burn out or crash?First of all, you also have to get used to failure. It's part of life and it happens. What you do after failure distinguishes you from other people. Its really humbling and you realize how little some things matter. A month ago I would have pulled an all-nighter to get a 100% instead of a 92% on an exam. Now that i am not feeling too well, I haven't had enough energy to even study for more than 3 hours for an exam. Hopefully I bounce back and my doctor tells me its something not serious like an … | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 04:02 AM |
| 4 | Do you guys ever burn out or crash?I'm going to go get blood works done either tomorrow or Thursday. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever burn out or crash?Thanks man, I needed to hear this. its devastating though. I was lifting heavy, and now I feel like shit. I feel really weak. Going to the gym just drains me now. I benched 185 on Saturday (which isn't a lot), and I felt so weak getting back home. I thought I was gonna pass out. Its very devastating. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever burn out or crash?Thanks I'm going to read this. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Do you guys ever burn out or crash?What kept you motivated or disciplined? I want to be number one in everything I do. I don't settle with "good", I strive for perfect. It's a mindset -- the mindset of a winner. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever burn out or crash?Since when? I've been experiencing this on and off for the past 4 weeks. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 02:43 AM |
| 2 | I just realized that I have no control in my relationship.I wish I knew the answer to this. Usually the best thing you can do if someone doesn't respect you or trust you is move along and find others that do. If for some reason you want to give this person a chance, reach back out to them in 6 months and make sure you're more awesome. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/16 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Do pheromones work?Who cares? Whatever. I mean, yeah you can use pheromones and shit like that, but do you really think that can compensate for not being alpha? No. Do you think brad Pitt uses pheromones? Just focus on becoming awesome. There are no short cuts in life and there are no substitutes for hard work. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/16 04:39 AM |
| 2 | College vs Military?So I put that money and time into buying real estate and starting small businesses. Just saw this, and I am interested in actually starting my own business and investing in real estate (I'm currently in college). I'd like to learn more on how to get this ball rolling on this and some advice and tips. Do you mind if I slide in your DMs? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Im 22, should i move out?What do you expect to change if you move out? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 03:55 AM |
| 2 | I'm a female that learned a valuable life lesson today.I get were you're coming from, and I am just like that -- I know if I can be friends with someone within just 2 minutes of talking to them. If you guys hung out and you liked him, why'd you reject him? Did he not make any moves? You said he didn't come off as desperate in other comment. Help me understand this, I've been on the other end of your situation, and I always thought that it was because I wasn't good enough or I didn't really excite her like 'Chad'. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 03:52 AM |
| 5 | I'm a female that learned a valuable life lesson today.I'm curious, did you guys hang out at any point when he was pursuing you? What tempted you to reach back out to him if you're hot and single? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Both sides: What is an Alpha?This is spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/16 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Both sides: What is an Alpha?Alpha is someone who is outgoing and can lead a conversation. They know how to influence and motivate people. An alpha doesn't necessarily have to be confident, but they usually are and they see themselves as better than everyone else. An alpha isn't a try-hard, you know those people that tries really hard to impress others. It just comes natural to him and he doesn't seek any attention or validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/16 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Is This Man Alpha?No no no no no. He sounds like a sack of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/16 03:56 AM |
| 1 | cmv: most 'true alpha chads who don't give a fuck' don't constantly come for affirmation of their masculinity and attractiveness to the internetRed pillers are not chads, nor do we want to be. We had a past were we weren't good with women for some reason. Started lifting, talking to everyone and being more cocky and suddenly everyone loves you. One thing I don't understand about the red pill is why we call women dumb cunts. Yes I understand that women want to only date up, but I don't really hate women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/16 03:54 AM |
| 1 | The Art of NegotiationWhat's the biggest piece of advice you can give us on the psychology aspect of closing deals? I've heard that you should always manage someone's expectionations and be real with them (I.e., say something along the lines of: "this might not be the news you want to hear, but X is the best I can do because Y. I know this is bad news, and this might push you to my competitors, but I just want to be real with you" and start out with the truth from the start even if it a lower thing then they original… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Is going for uglier girls a good idea to rack up experience?This is good advice, but I say OP goes after ugly girls too just because it builds practice and social skills. If you're out with an ugly chick, you'll speak more confident and be more outcome independent, and build the foundation for social interactions. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend going NCSo you're nexting her? Good job. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Question for TRP: Would you rather date a crazy, fun, hot girl or a stable, nice, but boring average girl?Why do you call it paranoia? Hey, didn't mean to offend you, I know people in real life that live in a constant fear that there girlfriends will cheat on them. One dude told me that he only dates Mexican women cuz he thinks they're more faithful... Wanted to know why people think like that. And why do you assume your LTR won't cheat on you? I'm the shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/16 05:29 AM |
| 1 | What does The Blue Pill think of Mark Manson and his book "Models"?Lots of rich people are really kind and decent and fuck it, lots of poor people are nasty mini-dictators who have this attitude. Most rich people are passionate about what they do, and the money is just an score tracker of their success. Why do you have such a negative view of TRPers? No one there is trying to manipulate or trick women to sleep with them. It's about becoming an awesome person and leaving if things aren't what we thought they'd be. It's actually much harder to keep a red pill man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/16 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Is a man with a high n-count inherently attractive, merely by virtue of him being to get laid (usually) whenever he wants?So help me understand, if some guy has a high n-count in america and moves to Brazil, and has no form of pre-selection there, would he have trouble getting laid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/16 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Question for TRP: Would you rather date a crazy, fun, hot girl or a stable, nice, but boring average girl?Why do people live with this paranoia that their LTR is gonna cheat on them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/16 04:00 AM |
| 1 | What's the best response for when a subordinate crew member whom is older asks, "How old are you?"Whoops, I meant to say "or come off as strict/stern". Good catch. Like you said, you never want to come off like you're overcompensating for something - it's unnatural and people pick up on it right away. And, if he looks young and people keep pushing on his age or they seem to have doubts on his management because of his age, why would it be bad idea to give a quick talk on it and use his inexperience as a strong point? | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Ex Contacted MeI'm not here to talk about morals, so feel free to do whatever you want. It's up to you. Don't do something someone tells on this sub just because they told you to. You have to really ask yourself: "do I want to go?" And follow up with "why?" If you're in a serious relationship with someone else, is it worth cheating on her? That's what you have to ask yourself. In my personal opinion, the relationship didn't work out, but she's still dtf, it's always tempting to go back, but is it worth your ne… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Ex Contacted MeWhy did you guys break up? What do you have to gain from going? It's really up to you. I'd probably say not to go. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 02:53 AM |
| 1 | fixed up a tennis date. the problem is that the girl is a great player and i have played a few years agoJust go with it. It doesn't matter. How you react is much more important that how the game goes. It's not ideal to lose and lying, but whatever. I have a friend that lied to a Hispanic chick about speaking Spanish, and he would text her in Spanish, and when she realized that he only had taken like 2 classes and wasn't fluent like he told her, she didn't really care because of how he played it off and made it seem like it wasn't a big deal. Try not to lie next time. I used do that, but then I rea… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 02:49 AM |
| 1 | How to stop myself falling for someone?There's nothing wrong with that, dude. Being outcome independent is important, but there's nothing wrong with falling for a girl, were only human. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/16 11:37 PM |
| 0 | What's the best response for when a subordinate crew member whom is older asks, "How old are you?"First of all, they won't ask, if you carry yourself with a lot of respect and you come off as a strict/stern person. If they ask answer with 23, there's no need to lie. If for some reason they keep pushing or insinuate that you're too young to be there supervisor say something along the lines of: "yes, I am young, my enthusiasm and the fact that I haven't formed habits in this management field are my strong points" or something like that. It probably won't happen, but just in case it does you ha… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/16 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Going to coffee shop and reading a book (for hours I assume)? Hitting on women in a coffee shop? It that a normal behaviour? Explain to somebody from different culture (just moved to UK).What? Why would you care? It doesn't matter. If you want to do it then do it. As long as you are not percieved as a creep (which is just dependent on your SMV) no woman will think about if it's normal or not. This could probably be the response to about half the questions on asktrp. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/16 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Don't Use The Red Pill To Empower WomenPhenomenal post! One of the best ones I've seen on how to treat TRP! This is definetly side bar worthy. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend going NCDid she say she was going to change? | /r/askTRP | 14/02/16 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever climbed out of the friend zone? What would you say is most effective?If you get an exam back and got an 80% on it, you might think you did average. IF the professor tells you that the class average was a 50%, suddenly that 80% seems great to you. If the professor tells you that the class average was a 100%, the 80% seems bad. Peoples's perspective on so many shit changes. You might turn down a job today because its too far, but 10 weeks later you move closer to that neighborhood and think to yourself: "Damn, I wish I had that job offer, I should get in touch with… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you really just approach?Hey, I'd be more than happy to. I'm free all day tomorrow until the late afternoon/ evening. Private message me your Skype username and we'll chat. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you really just approach?I'm not jacked and am skinny fat, muscular with fat, only a matter of time so I will see different responses Dude, it doesn't matter. The important thing is that you're working towards it that's all you can really do, and by the fact that you are here, you obviously aren't stubborn or hardheaded and know you have a lot to learn. That is very important. It's gonna be a bit harder because you're not jacked, but so what you're game can compensate for it. If you can pick up a chick dressed like a bu… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Where do you get your motivation?You're making progress, that's all that really matters. Small steps add up. My best piece of advice is talk to everyone. You will notice what works, what doesn't work and how people react to certain things. And honestly, being smooth just comes naturally to you after talking to everyone. I still really surprise myself with how smooth I now am. I keep a journal that I write a field report every time I go out, and reflect on how I could have done better. I have a chad friend that literally always … | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Do you really just approach?I approached about 20 girls in one day earlier this weekend, and I used this and "Hey, what's up I'm X". I had good success with both, what you say doesn't matter as long as you get the ball rolling. However, not to suck my own dick, but I'm really attractive - I'm lean and decently jacked, when I said it to one of the most attractive girls I'd ever seen, she asked me to sit down with her and got really excited. None of the girls shot me down. A lot of the girls were in groups and were just chat… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Friends told me I've become an "agressive dickhead"Make sure you're not trying to hard -- I know a TRPer in real life that just tries to hard to be alpha and AMOG people and it makes him look more insecure than confident. Honestly, analyze the situation he was talking about and determine if you were being douchy or if he's just not used to you being more confident. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Do you really just approach?yeah it does sound a bit beta but I suppose it is also how you present yourself that counts If you're an unattractive nerd, it works against you. If you're a hawt, jacked guy it's a power play -- she'll ask you to sit down with her, its funny really. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Do you really just approach?"Hi" "Do you mind if i introduce myself" The second one sounds a bit beta, but it works. It's smooth because you're not really forcing the conversation and if she's not interested, you can move on and not waste your time from the start. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Where do you get your motivation?This is a very good question. You're problem is that you're not thinking big. Your current dreams and ambitions aren't big enough to motivate you. No body wants to bust their ass for a shitty car, average girlfriend and mediocre job. You have to make short term goals for yourself (things you can achieve in 6months) and long term goals (what you want your life to be like in 10 years). I write my goals on my mirror and look at them everyday right after i wake up. These goals motivate me to pull al… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend going NCRe-read what you just wrote ou. I think you have to see this situation objectively. Do you really want to date a girl like this? She's never gonna be submissive to you or anyone. I guess you have to ask yourself what you value in a relationship and if you're okay with dating a girl like that. Some people will just never be submissive to you or anyone (nothing you read on TRP or the YouTube is gonna change that) are you okay with that? The only way she'll change is if she comes to the conclusion … | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 01:09 AM |
| 12 | Girlfriend going NCShe broke up with you already. There's not much you can do at this point, but move on. She obviously doesn't respect you anymore. Even if she texts you back in a week to get back together, it wouldn't last. Delete her number, block her snap chat and facebook. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 12:49 AM |
| 1 | I told a tinder girl to hit me up when shes looking for trouble (2 months ago) She finally hit me back today with a "hey". How should i respond?I've been on tinder for about 4 months now and I have a ton of friends (both guys and girls) on it. I'm gonna manage your expectations. 70% of the time on tinder is a waste of time. Chances are this is not gonna go anywhere. This has worked for me: talk about some to interesting shit or ask her an interesting questions. Get her number and text her and set a date -- give her a time and day. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Theory vs Practice of TRPto me, being alpha means being a little beta. Yes, having boundaries and self-respect are important and you should never do anything that says other wise. However, a lot of DT people I know are full of shit and people catch on and don't trust them after about 3 months of knowing them. Being honest might mean losing easy lays and money, but it's better to be honest and manage people's expectations from the get go than later on in life and losing their trust. Part of being beta means being a bit o… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 11:56 PM |
| -1 | Shit Test Question - "What are you Thinking?""What should I be thinking" | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 11:48 PM |
| 1 | I told a tinder girl to hit me up when shes looking for trouble (2 months ago) She finally hit me back today with a "hey". How should i respond?Have you meet her in person before? | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 11:47 PM |
| 7 | Has anyone here ever climbed out of the friend zone? What would you say is most effective?I don't think it's the "neat new guy syndrome". It's more about the fact that people are emotional and there minds change from week to week. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 11:46 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone here ever climbed out of the friend zone? What would you say is most effective?Yes, people climb out of the friendzone all the time; however, who you are and how you approach them matter more. If you befriend a girl and are in love with her, she secretly knows. The best way to proceed is go dark for a couple of months and try again in about 6 months or so. She's not a dumb cunt. the thing about getting out of the friendzone is more about how you make her feel then your SMV. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 11:44 PM |
| 1 | The Dark Rule: How To Fuck Someone Over In BusinessDo you have a link? I tried googling that, but no luck | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 03:22 PM |
| 1 | why should I go to the gym?You're right. You don't have to lift. I know a ton of guys that Get a lot of girls and they have never seen the inside of a gym. The thing about lifting is that it adds discipline to your life. It increases your testosterone and it makes you significantly more attractive and confident. All those new attributes are carried into other areas of your life as well | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Penis implant and enlargement surgeryyou're thinking about this the wrong way. TRP is about being the best you you can be. If you're 5'9, you're average height and the reason you're not getting chicks is probably your personality and not your height, yet, I've seen so many height posts on here. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 04:44 AM |
| 1 | want to start going to the gymAnd weighted pull ups | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 04:06 AM |
| 3 | why should I go to the gym?You're in the wrong sub then buddy, TRP is a sub about sexual strategy. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 03:29 AM |
| 8 | Penis implant and enlargement surgeryWith a normal 5-6 inch functional penis I'll be happy. With that mentality you will never be happy. Read The Power of Now. Do you know how many people win the lottery and go broke? Do you know how many guys get plastic surgery and have another surgery? Don't go down that road, once you get on it, there's no going back. Learn to accept yourself first. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with flakesNever respond with 'k'. It comes across as passive aggressive. Also, people flaking is more of a reflection of you. I've noticed that as I have become more confident and successful and happy, people rarely flake on me. Moreover, they are the ones reaching out to me to not forget. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 03:07 AM |
| 1 | What gives you happiness?Gratification from completing long term goals. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Why does kissing feel magical/electric sometimes?Very well said. im Thinking about taking a few months off from TRP now that I've internalized the concepts and have had success with women. I think the fear mostly comes from the divorce rape cases posted on the front page. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Laugh a lot, how do I stop it?advise for op: there are bigger things to worry about than laughing. it's a nervous tick I have, and its more of a nervous laugh than a real laugh. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/16 06:06 PM |
| 0 | Why does kissing feel magical/electric sometimes?So I should stop making out with girls? | /r/askTRP | 07/02/16 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Why does kissing feel magical/electric sometimes?haha, nobody really knows the answers to life, and you're right, the only thing we can do is reflect and learn from our mistakes. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/16 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Why does kissing feel magical/electric sometimes?This is so true. A big part of TRP focuses on telling men not to be too emotional around women, and they are right if you are more invested in a girl than she is in you, she's gonna lose attraction. But, there's this one quote that Eckhart toll has in one of his books that I really like: "The fact is whatever you think the world is withholding from you, you are withholding from the world. Deep down you think you are small and that you have nothing to give." | /r/askTRP | 06/02/16 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Why does kissing feel magical/electric sometimes?Would you enjoy the dog's affection? Probably. You appreciate it's affection even though you know the exact reason why: you're the one who's feeding him so he'd be stupid not to show you affection. But you don't think about that. You just enjoy it for what it is. That's a very true analogy. Thank you. BTW, If you know how I can get guidance in life right now, please give me advice. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/16 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Why does kissing feel magical/electric sometimes?Be careful not to de-value things too much. Someone is showing affection towards you! Appreciate it! Not to be a dick, but most of the girls I hook up with are significantly under me. I have put in so many hours at the gym (its my second home), study for hours on end and have pulled countless all-nighters, and work a ton, and am always trying to advance my career. I don't think any girl I have hooked up with is on my level. All they have going on is their looks. Their shitty personalities turn m… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/16 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Why does kissing feel magical/electric sometimes?Damn, this is a huge disillusionment for me right now. I don't even know if its a good thing or bad thing anymore. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/16 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Why does kissing feel magical/electric sometimes?But wanting someone so much is probably oneitis and is gonna end badly Haha, that's the world's best catch-22. If you want the girl really bad, than it is very unlikely that you will be kissing her. But if you are indifferent about her, you can kiss her all you want and won't experience the same results. Is this why some people (maybe blue pill people atleast) say you should wait a few dates before hooking up with someone? Or can it be because most of the girls I'm going out with recently are sl… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/16 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Can you get anything from making out with a girl?That's true. But, I have to eat and drink water to live. I don't need to make out with a girl to survive though. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/16 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Are feminist aware of power talks when you argue with them?condly Agreeing and amplifying with someone trying to put you in a moral corner is playing right into their hand. He started calling me privileged and entitled and I didn't know how to pressure flip that or respond. The only think I could think of responding was: "Yeah, I'm really privileged, I'm probably the most privileged person at this school. Why does that even matter to you?" I admitted that I don't have any morals and what he said didn't affect me and I didn't get defensive. Was that a go… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/16 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Are feminist aware of power talks when you argue with them?Very good point my friend. I do it mostly for the lulz and to become better at arguing though. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/16 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Always Say Less than NecessaryIf you're in a situation were you fucked up and you have to answer to somebody, could your explanation be a funny, not to specific response? I've had success with that, but don't know if it's right. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 12:51 AM |
| 0 | Best answer to "What are your intentions?"This. If you pay attention to the way women talk, they convey emotions and feelings, not facts. For some reason, girls on dates like to tell me stories about how guys check them out, but they don't like the guys or stupid stories about how their manager puts them in charge. They do that to convey a subtextual message. Women don't like to say facts, they like to tell you long boring stories to convey a fact and half the shit they say is about their feels. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Best answer to "What are your intentions?"This would have been a better response than what OP responded. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Best answer to "What are your intentions?"I sent her "idk I like you and would like to get to know you" No no no no no no. NOOOO! One of the best pieces of advice I've ever gotten here is that you should never be boring and never reveal your cards with your intentions. To some extent, this is a shit test. She wants to know how much influence she has on you. The wrong answer: being straight forward. You should have responded what someone else here said: "to touch your butt" | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 03:36 PM |
| 6 | Girl is mad I tried to hook up with her, can this be fixed? (texts)I think I fucked up somewhere in the texting. I found out this girl is LTR material through a friend but I still treated her like a hookup. What should I do? By the way this girl is at least a 9/10 Don't get high hopes dude, those cunts usually never are LTR material. I went through the text message log and you fucked up so bad. She reached out to you with a classic shit test. The fact that she reached out to your first is a good ioi. However, you should have lead the conversation, and changed t… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 06:24 AM |
| 5 | Girl is mad I tried to hook up with her, can this be fixed? (texts)Dont use being drunk as an excuse for your behavior. You didnt do it because the alcohol told you, you did it because you're a man that wants hot pussy. Own it. She would have respected you more if you said this. Guaranteed. Never back down, and always own your bone. You were gonna make a move on her regardless of whether you were drunk or not. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 06:17 AM |
| 3 | I was molestedKeep it to yourself man. Its not something they can help you with, and people will assume you're broken or will turn into an abuser yourself. Most people have no idea what they're talking about and will avoid This. People don't give two shits about your feelings and what you have to say unless it benefits them or you radiate uber high value. If you don't meet the criteria don't talk about it with people. I'd recommend a therapist though. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 06:11 AM |
| 6 | 30 Day Challenge - Small Talk Part 3: Adding women to your lifeFor this challenge, are you supposed to cold approach women? I did Small talk 1, but I couldn't really do the small talk 2 because I just can't push myself to do a cold approach a girl in regular day. I went out with an organization to collect money and I remember most women were happy that I approached them and talked to them and some of them even wanted my number, overall it was a postitive experience and I could tell a lot of girls liked me by the way they looked at me, but I just can't force… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 10:58 PM |
| 1 | RedPillReadingGroup is reading Models for the month of February. Join challenges, ask questions, discuss, and more. Join us as we put theory into practice.Just joined the sub. Would you guys be interested in audio chat discussion? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Ran into Plates husband, he may as well fly the Bluepill flag that says "Cuck me"It's your friendly neighborhood adulterer here with a special edition from my very AMORAL life. Better your neighbor's wife be fucking you on the side, than some douchebag (because if you weren't there, some other guy would). | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Advice to a 15 Year Old Me: Step 1. Stop.Stop worrying about the future. You have today. That's it. That's all you have. Stop thinking about what will happen next week or next month. That will take care of itself when you start thinking about what you can do to improve today. Stop thinking about and worrying about what will happen. You'll need to start thinking about making things happen, but for right now you need to stop worrying about tomorrow and stay in today. I know so many people that make plans for the future and think and pond… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 12:37 AM |
| 2 | How far do you escalate on first dates?You are so right. The main tenet of TRP is being a man, and I've been missing that until you just posted this right now. Being a man means doing whatever the fuck you want, whenever the fuck you want. You can read a ton of field reports on the main sub about guys that got laid on first dates, and then I have Chad friends that usually don't like going for the first date lay -- they say that it usually never works out and makes the girl feel slutty, but they don't even try so how are they supposed… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Trouble with being a dick to people when I have to beBe assertive, pursue your own interests, don't take shit from anybody, and don't apologise for being yourself. If people perceive that as you being a dick, they can go fuck themselves. As a caveat, make sure to think about the distinction between acting with self-respect and being an asshole. Don't do the latter for the sake of being "alpha". Very good point. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Trouble with being a dick to people when I have to beYou come off as disrespectful and full of yourself. These are not admirable traits, they are veils to cover your weak frame Can you help me understand what you mean by this? Part of being of being a dark Traid man is being narcissistic. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Trouble with being a dick to people when I have to beYeah you're probably right, but offending someone else isn't getting defensive. Yeah, it's a dick move, but how else do you enforse boundaries? If someone went up to Donald Trump and called him a fat sack of shit, do you think he'd agree and amplify? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Political Science classrooms are not safe for political discussion, OR I should have kept my mouth shut.If you learned that "you can talk freely and all opinions are respected" was a lie, then you learned a valuable lesson. People rarely want to hear ideas that contradict what they believe. If you present them facts on why they are wrong, that makes them feel stupid, but even then, they won't admit that their point of view is wrong. People don't want to be challenged. They want to be friends with the guy they can get a beer with and who responds funny shit and not logical shit to what they say whe… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Against the Odds: Life as an OutlierI'm a short man. 5'4 to be exact. In my early 20s. I come from a catholic upbringing with Asian descent. Statistically. The odds are against me. And trust me they are. I would most likely be DOOMED if it weren't the only factor that got me up my feet. My symmetrical body and defined, but boyish face. Hey, it's all a mindset. You could spend your time Complaining about how bitches aren't coming up to you and asking to suck you off, and how if you were 6 ft tall, it's all be different, or you can … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Soft next or hard next?I save the hard next for girls who are REAL pests. Some bridges we're meant to never be crossed. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [Tinder] When a girl is chatting to you, you ask her out to coffee/beer, and she suddenly stops responding, is that a sign that she was just using you for validation?It's tinder. It means she wasn't interested in you in the first place but wanted some good old validation, or you fucked it up by acting weird. Don't tinder. Do approaches like a man. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How do I hit up girls on my snapchat and on IG?You already fucked it up because you said you don't want I fuck it up. If you want to bang a dumb broad, you gotta be willing to lose her. That bitch mentality you have is gonna stop you from nailing her. Just do this: Send her a message saying : "hey X! How are you?" Then ask her for her number and then ask her out. If she's interested, she'll give you her number and agree to go out. If she doesn't, she won't. Her mind and opinion are probably already made up. There are no magic words you can s… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to get a girlfriend that is both your girl and friend?No. You can tell your friend that you're afraid or stressed about something, and he'll respect you and give you advice. It surprices me how women lose attraction if you tell them you're scared about something and tell them. They think you're pathetic and less of a man, plus they don't even offer solutions, they make it about them. If you're scared or nervous about something don't tell a women. Lie to her, tell her you'rewinning. Talk to your bros. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Do you stay friends with your exes? Opinions?It really depends on why you broke up. If she still respects you, yet. If not, move on and never look back. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 12:28 AM |
| 14 | Gaming 18-22 year olds as an older (30+) guyDude, if you're hot, it doesn't matter if you use kino or not. I have a ton of female friends that have banged 35+ year old dudes.they just hamster it off as: he's got his shit together and that's to attractive, or he bought me a bottle of wine, no ones ever don't that for me. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Has your extreme self-confidence ever led to people accusing you of being "arrogant" and how do you deflect it?people that don't really know me too well have told me that I come off as pretentious and entitled. Some feminist chick called me entitled last week. I didn't even fight it, I just said, yeah I'm the most entitled sob ever, and I don't even have to work a day in my life, yet is still choose to. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/16 11:01 PM |
| 3 | "I really like you, but ....." Late text from plate"k" If you're gonna respond, send ok instead of 'k' because 'k' seems a little passive aggressive. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/16 04:47 AM |
| 2 | "I really like you, but ....." Late text from plateWhat you respond can't be needy. You have to be objective. Yeah, this is a shit test and yeah she is a stupid cunt trying to get you to commit. This is what probably gonna happen, you'll get a few more fucks in and she'll pressure you again, or you could hold frame and see if she comes to the conclusion that the only way to keep you around is by fucking you and nothing else. Best response: no response. That will really get her hamster spinning, and if she messages you again, you know it will be … | /r/askTRP | 26/01/16 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Female dating advisor shares why women can't find a Good Guy.CisWhiteMaelstrom was pretty clearly wasn't implying that RPWs try to be sluts. Definitely agree with him about wingnut too. She's much more hateful towards men than any feminist and she fucks up the theory twice as bad. Big embarrassment to TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 01:00 AM |
| 1 | UPDATE - My date with the brunette.What do you mean by keeping an eyes on her ego and confidence level? I get what you meant in the first post because you bought her a drink in front of her friends and that probably stroked her ego, but what exactly did you do here? And side note: on my dates from now on, I'm gonna get girls to qualify themselves to me and pureposely ask them questions that make them qualify themselves to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Can you describe to me the life of a "high SMV" guy in his 30s when it comes to women and social life?I get rejected by 7s all the time... mostly because my social life is non-existent. How is that even possible? You're shredded as fuck and making good money. I have Chad friends that are 175 lb, and not making any $$$ or driving fancy car, and they literally get laid everytime I go out with them. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/16 02:53 AM |
| 4 | A few girls in the last few months have mentioned that they plan to end it with their bf to my face.Yeah, unfortunately, if you haven't hung out with them or made moves on them, they're telling you that so you'll be there emotional tampons. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/16 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Am I a gamma male?Why do you hate the social heirchy? I used to hate it and try to reject it, but now that I'm in the top 1%, I love it. You can deny it exists, but it doesn't change anything. Change your mindset. You have to genuinely believe you are the shit and genuine see everything with a win win attitude. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 09:56 PM |
| 2 | People making comments on my egoNo I wasn't there, they've said it to my mate They're talking about you when you're not there? Dude, you're not doing anything wrong. That's awesome in of itself. Second of all, they're saying you're cocky? Would you rather them be saying that you're 'nice' or 'shy and timid'? I'm texting one of the girls he lives with, just to get a feel of what went down, Don't do that. Embrace the cockiness. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 04:23 PM |
| 1 | What do you talk about on first dates?Hell, sometimes I'll let the silence stretch out whilst just looking at her with a half-smile, and when she gets uncomfortable and breaks the silence I'll remark that I was "noticing how cute her [facial feature] is". Just do whatever. I'm gonna steal that from you. A company has to obey OSHA regulations, which includes railings for safety. You're something of an expert in that area, so naturally you'd be happy to show her what a good railing looks like. You mean say that like a double entendre? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 04:17 PM |
| 1 | What do you talk about on first dates?I really wouldn't. Until you can talk to a room of people and make them nod their heads in agreement as you grandstand from a table, you aren't ready to talk about it personally. Most people, even my feminist friends IRL agree with me when I spit out RP knowledge. Its true and everyone knows it. However, its when you mention "The Red Pill" that I think everything will go awry. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 04:08 PM |
| 1 | People making comments on my egoHowever comments are being made about my ego, saying how big it is... Etc. Were you there when they were talking about you? I'd take it as a compliment. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 04:06 PM |
| 1 | People making comments on my egoA confident guy doesn't talk about how great he is. Not true. Most confident and successful guys have huge egos and brag about how amazing they are. The epitome of this is Donald Trump. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 04:05 PM |
| 3 | What do you talk about on first dates?She did that about 9-10 times until I literally ran out of stuff to say, so I just said you know what, this isn't working, I'm taking you home. Did a U-turn in the car, took her home and fucked off. Most of the girls at my university are hot sorority chicks with no personality. If I did that, I would ditch every date. However, on some dates, I'm not even having fun anymore---I'm just there to log in the hours. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 12:59 AM |
| 1 | What do you talk about on first dates?Red pill's not a multiple choice test and there's no good or bad topics. Talk about whatever you'd want, just say it like a man. A very good point you bring up. I'm just gonna talk red pill theory and throw in a lot of teasers. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 12:53 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls like narcissistic jerks so much?Because we narcissistic jerks don't give a shit about them, at all. If she left, no big deal, I'm the shit and can find a girl way hotter than her by walking 5 feet. She can't find someone as awesome as quick though. As a result of not caring about them: we're fun. Who would you rather have a beer with: Donald Trump or Jeb Bush? Donald trump has so much money that he doesn't care what people think of him. If he doesn't become president, so what, he's got $10B dollar, fast cars to drive, and side… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Closing line for online dating?"Give me your number" if they comply, you're in. If she send you a 'I want to get to know you more first' or 'I'm not that type of girl' treat it like a shit test, but don't send more than 3 messages after that. A lot of girls only want validation. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 02:26 PM |
| 3 | How far do I have to lower my standards?This post is basically you telling us that you have a bitch mentality. Change your mindset and work on yourself and stupid cunts will drop their panties around you. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Pride, arrogance, strong frame... all masculine traits, but how do I prevent these traits from getting in the way of truth?I have a LOT of Dark Traid friends. They are delusional as fuck. Some of them apply to jobs they are SO under qualified for and get them because of their personalities and charisma. Some of my Dark Traid friends are not the good looking, yet they're nailing girls way out of their leagues. They tell me that the chicks are stupid cunts and that they're taking time out of their day to do them the service of fucking them. It's a mentality you have to have. Think about it, would you rather be driving… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 02:11 PM |
| 1 | what am i missing here? tinder girls refusing to meet after giving numberYeah, switch up what you're saying. And just an am FYI, not all numbers turn into dates. It's a girl from tinder. Think about it. She doesn't even know you. Not a lot of chicks there would drive 30 minutes to see you. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 02:05 PM |
| 0 | Should I hide my good memory for higher SMV?On the topic of your SMV, if you work to get yours up, the allure of "this important person remembers me! yay!" will benefit you instead. This. A few weeks a ran into a girl I went to high school with. She came up to me and asked me if I remembered her. It was hilarious, I knew exactly who she was, we had multiple classes, but I was just like, "Hmm, you said your name is [purposely say a wrong name that was close sounding to the name she had just told me like two seconds ago]" It was hilarious. … | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 04:38 AM |
| 3 | 24 yo m. what can i do with IOIng 32 yo f ?Is this even a question? This could be one of her last hurrays on the CC because she probably already hit the wall. You literally don't have to do anything. Just flirt with get, and she'll probably invite you over and do all the work. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/16 03:27 PM |
| 1 | "I don't want to take your virginity"Focus on getting to college. Take this girl to fun places and don't obsess over your V-card, because you lose power every time you bring it up with her. This. You have to become independent from the outcome and not make the end goal in your mind sex. If you do, you'll fuck up. If you don't, you'll act in ways that are more attractive and won't be disappointed if you don't get laid. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/16 04:52 AM |
| 7 | Response to when they ask why you don't buy them things.You're a fucking G, im gonna steal this from you. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/16 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Ugly girls are not nice.Live in San Francisco home of the 49ers, meaning the girls who are 4's here think they are 9's. Haha, you're funny man. Ugly girls that think they are hot think hot girls are not nice to guys that are "beneath them". In my experience girls that are very attractive (hb8+) are actually very nice to me when I am direct and compliment them (they reject me nicely). I feel like the ugly/fat girls are all stuck up and cocky and wan't no part of me because they think they are better (they reject me like… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 02:38 AM |
| 2 | How do you identify when to next a girl and how to go about it without animosity?When she does anything that gets you to question if you should next her. As simple as that. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with me? I really don't knowFirst of all: have this mentality: I am better than you and everyone else here, and my mission is more important than everyone else's. You are doing them a favor by acknowledging them. You are better than them. Then, become outcome independent. Talk to people. When you talk to people, don't ever get defensive. If you get defensive you lose. Lead the conversation. Ask good and interesting questions. Don't talk about school and boring shit like that. The tell of red pill men is that they ask very … | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 09:40 PM |
| 7 | How do you answer when asked "what do you do?"Don't over think it's man. The key is to really not give a shit. If you care, you'll fuck it up. Just remeber she's a stupid cunt and you're way above her and everything you do is way above her. You're taking time out of your day to talk to her. Have fun with it. If you're too attached to the outcome, you'll fuck it up. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Is part of being a winner being delusional?That's a very good point. It's about being passionate in what you do. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Go Full PatriarchHey, you're rprobably right, but from my experience Chads win everytime. I got some Chad friends that get rejected by girls, and then end up changing their minds about them almost everytime. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Red pill helped me have sex with zero women.Believe me. It works. I've witnessed a ton of friends use the red pill and start getting laid like rugs. Your mentality shouldn't be: "I'm lifting and talking to every stranger possible to pick up chicks" it should be: "I'm the shit and better than everyone else here, and lifting and talking to stranger is just gonna excenuate my awesomeness" | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Understanding Women's 3 brains: The BasicsSo fake it till you make it and the positivite reinforment you'll get will change you're way of thinking. Gotcha | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Go Full Patriarchut it already started attracting more and more of the wrong crowd, and this will slowly erode the bubbling sentiment beneath from positive frustration to neckbeards who will NEVER lift thinking it's ok now to hate on women and push their failure onto others, similar to how modern feminists (fat, unattractive) do. I know insults of women have their place here, to destabilize women off the pedestal many newbies put them on, but there should be a counterweight so that a wrong message isn't sent wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Never Apologize, Never ExplainEdit: Hahahaha wow, that post history. Seriously, that post on "delusional ," guys drips with jealousy, sounds like someone can't even achieve subpar. Yeah you're probably right. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you ever "feel" like you lead with a creep vibe? How do you overcome this?Simple: if you're on a sub like TRP, congrats you're not a creep. In fact, you're the opposite, probably just a former nice guy. Based on the red pillers I've met in real life, we're all good looking, winners, with a burning fire to suceed. Yeah, some of us were socially inept at one point in our lives but were not anymore. It's a mentality. You have to tattoo this in your brain: I am better than everyone here and my mission is better than everyone else's here. Say it out load in the shower if y… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 02:54 AM |
| 2 | End GameThe fantasy in one’s head is always greater than the actualized reality. This is true in a lot of areas of life. We always think that when we get there we'll have a gran moment and life will pause, but in reality fireworks don't go off and were not 100% happy. We have to learn to love the process and when we get there reflect on our success being a result of hard work and just be satisfied. Every man needs a goal to aspire to to keep him on an ever improving path. That's the key to happiness rig… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 02:40 AM |
| -1 | Never Apologize, Never ExplainNever apologize and never explain. Stick to your guns, stand tall, and, if necessary, go down fighting. At least you will have your dignity and self respect. Always better to stand your ground and not back down than to admit or acknowledge the other side. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Go Full PatriarchNext week I’ll go into different methods I’ve used to manipulate my own limbic system and trick myself into different emotional states. i'm definitely gonna try something like that on my next date. Most first dates are stupid questions and you really don't have anything interesting to work with. But, I doubt I'm gonna get an interesting conversation out of reading a RP post or presenting red pill topics because she'll find a way to make it about herself and miss the big picture (I'm just being h… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Understanding Women's 3 brains: The Basicsi'll PM you it. It might help you with your answer. Thanks! That's truly appreciated. I'm irrationally confident at tackling new things that would intimidate most others and I've never beaten myself up over failures. Shit i fail constantly. I'll see if I can introspectively figure out why i'm like this and try to make a write up on it. I'm like that too! I think most men are. Men like to conquer things and take on new challenges. That not my problem though, my problem is more that I don't think … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 01:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I have been employing TRP's approach to texting. WOW. Results in less than 2 texts. (BASICS)I just realized that abundance mentality is more important than goving a dumb flaky slut another chance. I know a few RP in real life and they're awesome people -- were hot, hardworking, passionate men. If you're on the red pill you're probably already in the top 20% if not higher, and climbing everyday. If I women fails to recognize how awesome we are. It literally is there loss. We can easily find a hotter girl that doesn't have a personality (most women don't have one) within two steps, but s… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Understanding Women's 3 brains: The BasicsSeriously, read "What Every Body Is Saying", it will explain in precise detail how to fake confidence. I'm gonna order it right now. I've read a lot of shit online about body language and seen a ton of videos, so I know what it is and I'm familiar with power poses. As far as mentalities. They come with faking it. You have to believe your the shit, but more importantly, build yourself up till you really are the shit. Telling yourself you are awesome, even when your not, is still effective at cond… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Understanding Women's 3 brains: The BasicsWell, pretty much everything. If you suck at presenting yourself, expressing convection through your words, being charismatic, reading girls level of attractiveness to you, building rapport, having shit body languages, bad posture, high pitch voice. It’s all controlled by your frontal cortex and limbic system, and understanding it will allow you to control or change it. Whats the best way to internalize RP mentalities and confidence? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Go Full Patriarchendzone you because you're a failure as a man, not because they're dumb cunts. That's a very good point. If you're awesome and know how to treat women they won't ever friendzone you. Not at all. In fact the contrary—they won't be able to get enough of you. However, in order to know how to treat women, you gotta understand they're dumb cunts. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Is part of being a winner being delusional?thanks for bringing that up. Be narcissistic and having a delusion of grandeur is important, but for instance, if you're scrawny and want to get jacked, how are you supposed to get jacked if you genuinely believe and can't accept that you're not jacked. How are you supposed to stay motivated and keep hitting the gym if you already think you're good enough. I understand that I have a bitch mentality and I will never be able to start a business or pick up hot chicks off the street with this mental… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Is part of being a winner being delusional?I get what you're saying, but I mean, for instance, my family friend that started his own business, he genuinely believes that he's the best at what he does. In my opinion, if he's the best, why are there others making more money then him and with more clients. I want to internalize that concept of seeing the glass as half full, but it just seems delusional to me. I have a scrawny 150lb friend who thinks he's jacked and wear cut offs in the summer. I mean, yeah he might get there if he keeps lif… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Investing in OneselfInvest in yourself and fortune and success will follow | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Go Full PatriarchDo you think it's conscious (they wanted hot jacked guy but don't want to seem shallow) or subconscious? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 07:36 PM |
| 73 | Go Full PatriarchSo for the love of Patriarchy stop compromising with Feminism. I know you were brainwashed all your life to think men and women are equal. I know you spent thousands of hours watching television shows where men cry to women about their feelings. I know you were a a brave white knight and rescued hundreds of princess in all kinds of different video games. I know how hard this is for many of you and I know why it is so hard. You are victims of behavioral conditioning brought on by the media you co… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 03:29 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I have been employing TRP's approach to texting. WOW. Results in less than 2 texts. (BASICS)But a second follow up message a week later doesn't hurt to try. I get the fact that you lose a bit of frame, but you'll probably comeback from it if you're that awesome. I've had girls be more responsive on the second asking out. Of course, you're probably not a top priority for them, but you will become if you're game is tight. This is just turning a maybe girl to a yes girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 04:32 AM |
| 4 | [FR] I have been employing TRP's approach to texting. WOW. Results in less than 2 texts. (BASICS)I understand the mentality, if some dumb bitch doesn't respond to my test the first time, it's her loss. I really don't have to be talking to her, and it should be low on my priority list cuz I got other shit going on anyways. But, you shouldn't let your ego get in the way. I've had girls reject me or hit me with the 'can't' text then they change their mind when I hit them with a second text a few weeks later. You can give a girl two chances. If she fucks up, it's her loss and not your anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Hack your subconscious mind.Gonna watch this video later | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 03:13 AM |
| -19 | [FR] I have been employing TRP's approach to texting. WOW. Results in less than 2 texts. (BASICS)Gonna play devils advocate here and say send another message for two reasons: 1. It costs nothing. 2. Girls emotions are crazy, she'll prolly be down. 3. If she's not down, no big loss. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 02:58 AM |
| 5 | Dating Site Profiles: What She Says, and What She MeansYou forgot the chicks that put there myer-briggs letters on their profile. They're typically validation seeking cunts. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/16 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Why Pain is Necessary When Taking the Red PillTen years ago I was terrified of the idea of living alone, by myself with no company. Today, I'm exhilarated by the idea. That's how much of an impact TRP can have. Never make a decision out of fear. That's a bitch mentality to have. A lot of people settle and marry shit people because they fear being alone. It's much better to be alone than have bad company. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Why Pain is Necessary When Taking the Red PillPain and anger are crucial to become the best you you can become. Nothing lights a fire in you like reading some of the post in this forum. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Where You Are In Life Is Exactly Where You Want To BeThis is sort of the stuff that Eckart Tolle talks about in the Power of Now. Our ego shouldn't be defined by out past, and we should think that we'll be happy once we reach our goals. The key to happiness is accomplishment though a process oriented mindset. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 03:25 PM |
| 8 | Flashback Post #3: Men are not happy by ArchwingerAlso the fact that the feminization of our culture is attributing less quality male role models. All of my male high school teacher and just about all my professors were feminine as fuck. FUCK feminism and the bitch mentality they have. The good thing about the pill is that people can find it if they are seeking the truth. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 03:21 PM |
| 2 | When you mess up a date?Wait about a week. Pretend like nothing happen. Text her. If she responds you're in, she doesn't, no big loss. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/16 03:10 PM |
| 1 | How to change the dynamic of a LTR?This. She has to beg you for your commitment. Then you just say you're gonna consider it and drag it on for a bit then commit. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/16 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Some opinions on The Red PillThe hotter and younger the better. Ugos detest hot girls. Why would they buy shit from them? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Feelz vs Reelz: don't use a logical argument with an emotional womanSummary: Arguing with a woman is futile, especially when you try to use logic to diffuse an emotional situation. If she is upset, she just wants to vent and she doesn't want a solution. A lot of the times, women just want to be heard, and don't give a shit about the solution. It can be complaining about how their life sucks, how their boss yells at them, how her parents are not gonna pay her rent anymore, and other shit like that. If you tell her to look at the solution instead of the problem, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/16 06:38 PM |
| 2 | College Girls that party with Mother GooseUnless you are full alpha avoid at all costs, girls that hang around mother goose but don't despise Mother Goose, she is actually a good filter. Don't wish things were easier, wish you were better. Obstacles are put in front of us to see how bad we want things. If you nail a chick with a mother goose friend, take that as a high barometer of success. A girl will use all pussy passes from the beginning of time to avoid any responsibility for their actions. Remember Eve was asked why she gave Adam … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/16 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Where to learn RP Game?Read the side bar and the Art of the Deal, and go out and talk to girls and seeing what works and what doesn't work. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/16 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Concrete deal breakersexplain | /r/askTRP | 16/01/16 10:09 PM |
| 3 | "How Did You Find The Red Pill?"Was Googling ways to get my ex-girlfriend back, and I found this. I have been so thankful I found this community. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Why is masculinity demonized by feminists?It's a giant shit test for all men in Western society. That's hilarious and so true! I was arguing with a feminist about this a few weeks ago and she told me that they genuinely believed that hyper-masculinity was bad for males that aren't so masculine and that the feminization aspect of feminism was to make those boys feel bad. However, she started virgin shaming later in her argument, so I concluded it was a shit test. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 01:50 AM |
| 2 | I have a plan to get into exercise does it sound good?Do you take cold showers? If you don't start taking them. Its tough, but that discipline carries on to other areas of your life. Right before I jump into a cold shower, my mind is telling me No, and making excuses and tells me that I should start taking cold showers tomorrow or why do I do this to myself, and I look for more excuses. What do i do? I shut my brain off and just jump in before I turn the hot water on. In a similar style to how you jump into a cold shower, you have to take risks som… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 01:48 AM |
| 3 | I have a plan to get into exercise does it sound good?Don't think do. There will be obstacles along the way, but remember that obstacles are only put in front of us to see how bad we want things. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How do they get over it so quickly?Women re-write history in their head. It surprises me to this day. One of my girl friends had her boyfriend dump her. She talked so much shit about him to me. She told me he was 'garbage' and forced her to have unprotected sex and that he was a piece of shit. Two weeks later, the guy calls her up and they're back together now. I asked her about what she told me and she told me that she likes unprotected sex and that she only said that because she was mad at the dude... | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Raised by a single mother, need to get employed and get the fuck out. Don't know where to begin.I've very recently looked around for advice on the internet but much like advice with dating women, it's very hard to seperate bullshit from reality. lol. maybe start lifting No, you're gonna start lifting! I'm pissed as fuck right now and prepared to do anything. I'm done being a victim and won't end up a fucking statistic. Help a brother out. This is the anger that will drive you to improve yourself. Embrace it. Unfortunately I don't know anything about finding a job in Australia, but I'm in a… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Why Every Man Should Spend A Year In Commissioned Sales/u/JP_Whoregan I recently started my first sales job, but I'm not a great negotiator yet. When do you know when to be imposing (aka, push) and when to remove the pressure on them (aka, pull). With some people, they get cold feet right before the transaction, sometimes I get really assertive and it works, and sometimes I tell them that I understand what they're going through and they should take their times think about it, and it works. Does that matter more on the personality of the person? Shou… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you become a Donald Trump negotiator?😏 | /r/askTRP | 10/01/16 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you become a Donald Trump negotiator?Should I validate them and stroke their egos? | /r/askTRP | 10/01/16 12:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you become a Donald Trump negotiator?Know what you are willing to give and walk when it is time. So is it a numbers game?—you make an offer, they say No, you walk. I don't think Donald Trump became a billionaire by negotiating through the numbers game. There has to be other techniques. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Should I just ignore my shitty former teacher?If she talks to you, just be friendly. Don't go out of your way to say Hi though. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 02:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you become a Donald Trump negotiator?Although that is true, a lot of negotiations is knowing when to be tough and when to stroke their egos. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 11:10 PM |
| 0 | Gaylubeoil's Guide to Avoiding Snap City and Making GainsWhat does the GLO think about lifting 6 days a week vs every other day on a bulk? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 06:32 PM |
| 0 | Sleeping on floor questionIs it really bad? I've read multiple articles about how's it's good and it just takes a while to get used to it and not get sore | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Should I stop talking to her?I met the most interesting woman I've met this year First of all, didn't the year start like 5 days ago? I've only fucked her once which was the second time we met up. We went for food twice and then went to my apartment. She payed separately each time which I was impressed by. Okay, she's obviously a good girl and has never done that before. Recently she complained that I see so many "hoes" and she hinted she also doesn't want to hear about other girls. Which is funny cause she's the one who as… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 04:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I handle an ex approaching me at the gym?My friends have told me that she recently got a membership at my gym so I'm waiting for the day we run into each other. Ok, so you're not really over her and you're hoping on your lucky stars that you see her again. I guess it doesn't matter how I handle it unless I want to spin her as a plate, but I just want a satisfying "victory" to officially close the chapter on her. I thought it was over when she dumped you. I don't care what the outcome is but I would love to leave the impression that I h… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 03:55 AM |
| 1 | 30 Day Challenge - Small Talk Part 2: Women BoogalooLooking for an accountability partner. PM if you're interested. I live in the US. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 01:07 AM |
| 1 | 30 Day Challenge - Small Talk Part 2: Women BoogalooI'm in the US and I am 6 hours behind your timezone, but I'd still be interested in having an accountability partner. PM if you're interested. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 01:06 AM |
| 2 | 30 Day Challenge - Small Talk Part 2: Women BoogalooThis is a phenomenal idea. Why don't we tell the mods to make this a thing? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 01:04 AM |
| 13 | Whats your favorite RP-Truth one-liner?Don't chase women, invest in yourself and women will chase you. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Fatherly Guidance Series: On NetworkingHoly shit dude! You are a fucking G for making this post! I cannot thank you enough! | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 12:10 AM |
| 2 | How can a guy aged 18-22 not be jealous of girls his age?If they were GENUINELY interested in this person's welfare, wouldn't they contact them rather than just write some standard bullshit as a public comment? Do compliments and validation even matter? Most of the times its given for ulterior reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/16 10:36 PM |
| 2 | How do you become a good negotiator/debaterGo piss people off in PPD or FeMRADebates. Thanks, bro. I owe you a ton! Also, read The Art of the Deal. About to order it right now. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/16 10:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you become a good negotiator/debaterYou become good at debating when your ego is not invested in the outcome. This is a very good point. But, I'm never actually invested in my debates. I usually walk alway because I realize that they are better at arguing than I, so why should I even waste my time. I don't like arguing. Especially with people that just toss out 'misogynist' and 'racist' and shit like that without it being warranted. Some of the people I have debate with get red in the face and indignant, and I know I'm not gonna g… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/16 10:20 PM |
| 3 | For '16, I'm going full circleWhy no lawyers? What about professional women? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Is there a double standard in TRP?There is and there isn't. Men and women are different. For instance, if you treat a man well, he'll respect you. If you treat a women well and validate her, she'll treat you like shit. Read pill identifies these differences of the sexes and uses it for its advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/16 02:16 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to: "in love but single shit test"I.e. nuclear option right out of the door, to make it very clear you do not see her as a potential partner. If you can not deliver this line, or understand that this is the best way to go, you did not swallow the pill. I work in sales. I'm no stranger of the push and pull techniques. I see my colleagues close deal with it left and right. I'll try that. If anything no big loss, just some dumb slut. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/16 01:57 AM |
| -1 | Tinder chat help pls?Bro, just cut your loses now and delete tinder and approach jn real life. Online dating is harder than real life and the skills aren't really transferable. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 11:50 PM |
| 1 | How to properly gloat and talk myself up?Don't gloat about your achievements and hobbies and skills. Only loser boy faggots do that. Watch videos on Donald Trump on YouTube. He pretty much sucks his own dick and does really talk about anything specific. He's an expert at that. One of my favorite lines he used is the one about how it's in his genes to be a winner and all his life's been about winning. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 11:40 PM |
| 0 | I got invited to a party tomorrow. My social skills suck. Should I still go?Go and talk to everyone. You might blow it but hey atleast from now on you'll learn what works and what doesn't work, and that rejection isn't as bad as its played out to be. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 11:38 PM |
| 1 | "You're really mean"Dude, it's the biggest compliment a girl can give you! Congratz-you're one lucky SOB. I'd rather have this then a girl say, "you're so nice." | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Plate planned to face time last night then didn't follow through."That's cool" | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 11:34 PM |
| 0 | Currently unemployed. Is it still possible to meet and spin plates? What should I tell them I do?There's a video on YouTube about a homeless man that gets laid every night. Get you're priories in check though mate. Don't be a moron. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Good Idea to Meet Up With Girl On NYE?It's not ideal and will lower your SMV significantly. Only do it if you can smash, guaranteed. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 11:25 PM |
| -1 | Donald Trump dropping hard Red Pill truths in his 2007 book.High-status males displayed their prowess through their kick-ass attitudes. They were not afraid to think for themselves and make their own decisions. A win-win attitude and confidence in your own ability and self-reliance are two key elements to women, and success. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 11:19 PM |
| 1 | As a response to kino escalation, the girl went with this shit test: "So what are you trying to get at here?"Women are weird like that - they throw shit at you until you can handle it, and then it all just stops happening even with women you've never met. Do you have an explanation for this theory? I've seen it play out a ton of times. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 09:48 PM |
| 2 | As a response to kino escalation, the girl went with this shit test: "So what are you trying to get at here?"I love the face they do when I'm direct. They are shocked - later they say how much they liked. This. Used to go out to clubs and be hesitance about my approaches and would never escalate. They get drier than a desert. One of my friends showed me to be imposing as fuck and act right away and not even think. My friend rarely gets rejected. I tried it last night. I realized that its really more effective. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 09:42 PM |
| 0 | How to respond to: "in love but single shit test"Should I even respond to her text? | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 07:21 PM |
| 2 | European GirlsThis and you generally have to escalate right away or else they'll think you're gay | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Blew my frame. Need help!I have slight oneitis with this girl because she is out of my league in the looks department. But with gaming I literally got her to say she feels attached to me. Listen buddy, there's no such thing as a fluke. Rarely do people that haven't put in hard work get great things. Almost never. Women's attraction to men is based on 50% looks and 50% social skills. Don't have that unhealthy mentality that she is too good for you---if you say that again, I'll smack you upside the head. Remember, girls d… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 02:29 AM |
| 1 | IM's Machiavellian Maximsby saying you didn't understand the question or simply by saying it doesn't work like that in a lot of cases That is so true. If someone would have an angry tone and wants to go in a debate I would just stay calm, smile and flip the situation by for example saying: 'you also took an epistemology class online?', now the other person has to explain their behaviour and why the other person thinks he/she feels superior, then simply find the flaws in their logic and crush them. You sly dog, lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Why does she apologize for something barely worth mentioning?If a hb told you that, how would you respond? Dump her right there on the spot? | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Why does she apologize for something barely worth mentioning?She wouldn't risk their LTR and also her social status for some stupid shit-test dude. What do you mean? Girls do that all the time. Best response: "Wow" then change the conversation." - "I will willingly be cucked by you" Help me understand why this is wrong because I genuinely don't understand. In my opinion, if a girl tells you a story like this, she is only telling you the parts she wants you to think. If she fucked a guy, she'll tell her boyfriend that he only spooned her, and she'll only t… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Err on the side of overly sexualMy new motto is: When in doubt, err on the side of overly sexual rather than overly respectful. That's a good motto to live by. Proud of you buddy! | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 02:10 AM |
| 5 | How to advance with a religious girl?I'm sick and tired of seeing all these religious girls and 'good girls' post on here. You advance the same way as you would with any other girl. They're not special. If she's tingling, she won't be adverse to anything. Or could just just resort to anal if she's that hesitant. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Is persistance not attractive?It depends on how you persist. Chateau Heartise has a good article that I can't find right now on my pone about this topic. Basically, when you persist, you make your intentions clear, and don't validate her or hear about her problems. Instead you just banter with her, and try to escalate psychically with her. You sort of just assume the sale. If she rejects you or your advances, you say something along the lines of: "don't act like you don't want me" and smirk. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Is persistance not attractive?That is the Blue Pill narrative right there, and is most likely FALSE. It might be true if these evens unfolded in 40s-60s (assuming USA), but probably not later. DO NOT BUY into this narrative, as it does not work anymore. That's a very good point, but a lot of women today also end up settling for their BB, hence the persistent guy that won't take a hint. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 01:54 AM |
| -1 | Why does she apologize for something barely worth mentioning?Insincere questions must be met with insincere answers, if any answer at all. She was obviously shit testing you, or something else happened. Treat it like a shit test. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 12:08 AM |
| 0 | Why does she apologize for something barely worth mentioning?That has shit test written all over it. I'd normally say give her some positive reinforcement, but if you did, the next time you hear this story, it might go something like: a guy fucked me and I thought I should tell you..." Plus, girls don't genuinely feel bad about small shit like that. Its a class B shit test. Best response: "Wow" then change the conversation. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/15 11:24 PM |
| 4 | [FR] TRP on easy mode Pt. 2As far as I can tell, what happened today was a trade in the SMP. My coin was validation, hers was sex. When she invited me over, what she wanted was the most of my coin for as little of hers as possible, since she perceives me as high value, so my validation is worth a lot. She probably would have been okay talking to me and feeling things that she doesn't usually feel with her boyfriend. But since my currency is worth so much to her, I couldn't just give it away for free. This is why I was on … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 04:44 AM |
| 8 | The David Beckham RuleThis is a very good point. If a women is into you, she will drop everything and anything just for an opportunity to possibly see you. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 12:24 AM |
| 1 | LTR cheats. She doesn't know I know. Is there something wrong with continuing using her for sex, while looking for next?No. There isn't. She cheated on you and betrayed your trust. She only had one shot and she blew it. Text/call her: "hey I don't think this is working. Best of luck." If she keeps pushing say you have a date with another girl. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 09:26 PM |
| 8 | Monk Mode essentials with $100, what's your opinion?You can get that at the library for free. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 09:22 PM |
| 5 | IM's Machiavellian MaximsWear your weaknesses like armour, flaunt them, and you deprive your opponents the use of ammunition that would otherwise discredit you. This is so true. I have some short friends that wear like 3 inch boots, and they get red in the face and indignant when someone talks about their height. On the other hand, I have another friend that's 5'4, and he doesn't wear boots, and whenever someone makes fun of his height, he laughs about and says something along the line of: I can't even have a napoleon c… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/15 07:14 PM |
| 1 | how to best this shit test?That's a good point. One of my friends was telling me that when he met his gf brother he asked him why he thought he was good enough to date his sister. He responded, "She loves me." I thought it'd be good here to, but you're right, she'd respond: "No, I don't" | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 06:34 PM |
| 1 | how to best this shit test?Why do you think it's awful? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with anger from taking the political red pillWhat's there to take in? We only say the truth and identify paradigms and create rules to get the most from those paradigms we identified. If you want to play with these rules, you don't have to. But these rules have the highest ROI. E.g., if you're aggressive to aggressors and walk around confidently, others will back down and yield to you. If you're meek and submissive, others will bend you over and fuck you without lube. There are two options. Which one do you want? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 07:28 PM |
| 6 | Where should you be at 25?Everyone is different and everyone has there own path. By 25 you want to being doing what you like, excelling professionally, being fit, socially savvy, and have great friends. Don't chase girls or success, you'll always be a step behind. Instead invest in yourself and successful, money and bitches will chase you. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 07:22 PM |
| 0 | Women and religionIf she's tingling, there are no morals. Do you know how to create tingles? If you're being imposing and sort of making her feel uncomfortable a bit and a bit defensive and getting her to lose banter, she'll do whatever you want. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 07:18 PM |
| -3 | how to best this shit test?"You love me." | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Not sure how to proceedWhat exactly are you asking us? I'd text both of them and then tell them to send you picture if you don't remember them, then from there. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Hello, I need an advice regarding a female friend"I'm not one of your girlfriends and I can't really help you out with those kinds of problems." | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Some long text conversation with a new plate, feel free to comment, critique, etc.Her: A 5. Fat, nice tits, whatever face, blonde. 27yo. 7yo daughter. Freshly divorced from 7 year marriage or something. That's where I stopped reading. Do you see what I'm getting at? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 04:02 PM |
| 2 | what to do when you are cockblocked?Listen man, if you've known her longer than a month, your chances with her are up and nothing in the world can stop that. If the guy jumped in though, you could have re-established the frame of the conversation by asking him a question and getting him to explain it in detail or asking the girl something. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 03:39 PM |
| 3 | How the fuck do you keep a woman loyal?They're riding the CC right now. There's not much you can do to change that. It's numbers game. The best you can do is filter them better. If you meet a girl at a club, she's probably not the type of girl you want to take home to mom. Perhaps join a book club or running club. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Do city girls have over inflated egos?It's not just city girls. It's all girls. Someone post on the main sub a while ago, screenshots of an okcupid fake girl that was hideous as fuck. Much to our dismay, attractive, jacked guys were begging her for sex and stroking her ego. Girls get hit on a lot. Although some of those guys may be sub 80th percentile and they might not like them, that will inflate your ego. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Should I hire a prostitute?Only if he can follow up with a real lay afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 03:22 PM |
| 1 | "The Zidroc RP Experience" part 2.Damn! That poor hamster! I'm gonna start dropping that from now on. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 01:28 AM |
| 5 | Tinder has fucked my confidenceTinder ok for easy lays. But, youre odds at getting better chicks are better in person when you have you're posture and tone and confidence to seal the deal. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 12:01 AM |
| 3 | How to approach guy for possible friendship?Make small talk at first--ask him if he's studying for finals or something then try to find something to connect with him about something. Something will come up. It always does. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you ever met another RP man in real life?One of my friends was saying a lot of red pill shit and he lives a pretty RP lifestyle with the exception of lifting. I asked him and he said he's read the rational male and the top posts from here. He's killing it and. Succeeding in life. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 10:29 PM |
| 5 | How to approach guy for possible friendship?"Sup bro?" | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 09:39 PM |
| -1 | Where can I buy whey protein from?You don't. Chicken/tilapia and rice are all the supplements you need. Supplements are a waste of $$$. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Should I hire a prostitute?That's a very good point. In life, you don't get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate. I know some straight up losers that are dating hot chicks. If you go to the club, you'd be surprised to see how many hot chicks are there or with loser guys, and some of my girl friends are dating beta guys. Yeah, I get it, those guys don't have much power in the relationship and it's probably a fluke. But, dating, at the end of the day is a numbers game. If OP did 20 approaches, I guarantee he'll get … | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 09:35 PM |
| 10 | Tinder has fucked my confidenceDon't even waste your time on tinder. You're better off doing cold approaches because you have a higher ROI. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How to handle raging feminist ?Dude, I've argued with plenty of feminist in my day. This is their strategy: I: "How do slut walks and tumblr help women get equal rights" purplehairwhale: "OMG ESH, that's the most misogynistic thing I've ever heard, you better apologize" They'll usually insult your person, call you misogynistic and bitch. They're probably more Machiavellian than you too. I say you troll them till you get bored, and learn from their argueing methods and make them your own. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Are most girls not aware of how much they can slay on tinder?How much they can slay? If the guy is a loser, sub-80th percentile, is he even a guy? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 07:24 PM |
| 1 | I want to hate her but I just can'tFirst of all, if she's disrespecting you, walk. Theres a psychological aspect to how that lowers your self worth, so you don't want to be around that. Second, you only feel that way about her because you believe/feel that she's the best you can do. If that's the case, monk mode. If not, find a better option. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Should I hire a prostitute?Women are sluts... He's gonna feel like a piece of shit if he pays for what he can easily get with a little effort. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Should I hire a prostitute?Nah, bro. You deserve the best, high quality bitches for free. Don't pay for that shit, it'll just destroy your ego. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | She's fat, fuck I got catfished"You don't look like your tinder pictures, dafuq [girls name]?!" | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Plate starts denying sexIf she's not doing the only things she's good for, walk. Go dark on her ass. If she doesn't come around, good riddance. She'll probably come around tho. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 08:53 AM |
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