Why does she apologize for something barely worth mentioning?

thatoneguy955 · 2015-12-29T00:00:02+00:00

Something definitely more than spooning happend there.

thatblokefrombelow · 2015-12-29T01:10:43+00:00

Dude I'm sorry to say this but this doesen't sound like a shit test at all.

It's a bright, red-flag called "trickle truth" - from the TRP glossary:

Trickle Truth - A method of coming clean about bad behavior by only disclosing small pieces of truth at a time. "All we did was talk," leads to "Well we just cuddled," leads to "I didn't mean to fuck him, it just happened." It's a hamsters way of saving face when bad behavior is discovered.

She told you this not because she felt guilty but because she wanted to take control of the situation before it got out of hand.

Definitely more than spooning happened, it's a convenient excuse for her she was probably afraid that someone you know might spill the beans.

RED FLAG DUDE, HUGE RED FLAG, and if you told her that she's a "good girl" like a "dad" then you don't understand women at all, you just gave flipped a switch called hypergamy to the max, give them an inch and they'll take a mile.

If she genuinely didn't do anything you wouldn't know about it I mean this sounds funny "I didn't leave but I told him to stop" 4sure cupcake.

wehadtosaydickety · 2015-12-29T01:04:28+00:00

I dint know about you but I've never laid next to a stranger and spooned her. Don't imagine most girls would let you do that. There's more to this story and you're never going to get it. You will, however, have a hell of a time playing beta bitch begging for the truth to be trickled out to you. I'd just walk away, sounds like you're young anyway why bother with an LTR

daddymonsterpoodle · 2015-12-29T09:08:54+00:00

Um...well done. You just told her you are OK with her getting intimate with other men. Just spooning, wtf. Were her legs broken? Was she unconscious or was she comfortable with her ass against another man's cock? If she can do it once.... Whether you end this relationship or not you just killed it by letting her know you are pretty bluepill.

The redpill response...next. Even if you don't really care and you should, ignore the words and look at the actions.

birdbiscuit · 2015-12-29T15:27:45+00:00

I don't recommend you emotionally invest in any woman who would give you reason to doubt their integrity by putting themselves in an intimate situation with another man.

Using the friend as proof is BS. The friend could by lying, her allegiance is to your gf, not to you. Your best interest is not of the highest priority here.

She should feel like a shitty gf. She let this happen and she should feel bad.

[deleted] · 2015-12-29T18:26:31+00:00

Update OP :D

EntitledShitHead · 2015-12-28T23:24:55+00:00

That has shit test written all over it. I'd normally say give her some positive reinforcement, but if you did, the next time you hear this story, it might go something like: a guy fucked me and I thought I should tell you..." Plus, girls don't genuinely feel bad about small shit like that. Its a class B shit test. Best response: "Wow" then change the conversation.

Title	Why does she apologize for something barely worth mentioning?
Author	thatblokefrombelow
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	December 28, 2015 11:20 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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