LTR of almost 1 year is pregnant... Probably between 4-5 weeks pregonate.
She has a college degree and I'm an entrepreneur working on my business. I am no way anywhere close to being ready to raise a child and neither is she.
We found out yesturday. Also to note, she is from another country (Guyana) and is visiting me on her B1 visitor visa, she's been here for about 2 months now (has 4 months before she has to leave or she will be staying in the country unlawfully). We are currently staying at my parents house. Plans were to eventually legally marry with a prenup.
I don't think she would be on board for an abortion (definitely not the surgical operation), but possibly the pill abortion could be an alternative.
I'm only 20 years old and I really fucked up. I don't want to raise a child right now, and I don't even know how to. Never mind the fact that financially it would be a miracle for us to survive. On our own. I understand I can't force her to abort, and I will have to man up and pay CS (i don't even think her country can get CS from the US). But I would probably still be willing to send her money to her country as she could probably live and take care of a child on her own for under $300 US per month.
Pros are that me and her get along real well, she supports my goals, she's a HB8.5 and she has a college degree. Cons are she is a little BPD.
I know I fucked up, i haven't told anyone yet. What do i do?
Also, I know the child is mine. She never wants to go anywhere without me.
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