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She wants to repay YOU. Have her take you out to dinner or something. A SERVICE oriented task would be great too, for example have her cook you your favorite meal
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:33 PM
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I know that stat is true for USA but is that stat true for 3rd world countries?
/r/askTRP13/11/19 03:35 PM
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Go to r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/19 03:32 PM
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I got it from a plate too (except its type 2) and I usually don’t tell girls honestly. It only really matters if you’re having an outbreak. I always wear a condom now though so I don’t transmit it to them. However, be aware that even though you may wear a condom it can still be transmitted to your partner if you’re having an outbreak or about to have one (again, I have type 2 and idk if that makes a difference). Statistically, like you were saying, most people have some form of herpes. I just do…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 05:14 PM
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Stand up comedy
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:21 PM
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I’d just ignore it
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:56 AM
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It’s hard to get pregnant. You’re fine bud
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:46 AM
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Isn’t the blue pill sub private though? I tried looking at it for fun and it said it was invite only
/r/askTRP28/10/19 02:27 PM
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I once started hanging out with a girl and she would try to start kissing me with a wide open “O” shaped mouth and sticking her tongue out. DONT DO THAT. You start with the lips puckered then move on to the tongue. Other than that you’ll figure it out.
/r/seduction28/10/19 12:18 AM
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It works. Thanks, didn’t know I could get it for free
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:12 PM
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I think some of best advice I ever received which helped me with that problem is “sex will always be a little bit awkward”. After realizing that, I never had a problem getting hard again, you just get used to the awkwardness
/r/askTRP22/10/19 08:46 PM
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As much as I agree, I don’t see a question
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:40 AM
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This
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:46 AM
1

Read book of pook and don’t remember this section, which one was it?
/r/askTRP21/10/19 03:53 AM
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I’ll text an hour or two before
/r/askTRP20/10/19 05:08 PM
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I’d go about it by dropping her and finding someone else
/r/seduction19/10/19 03:35 PM
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If she was interested she wouldn’t have ditched you three times. Just ignore her and move on
/r/seduction19/10/19 03:30 PM
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One of the best pieces of advice I found from here was to find a hobby that you enjoy and can do regularly. It’ll help during hard times. For example, I longboard and play banjo. If I’m down in the dumps, I’ll do one of those things to get my mind off shit then keep going
/r/askTRP18/10/19 01:22 AM
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I’m just hoping this was sarcasm
/r/askTRP16/10/19 12:15 AM
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Can you elaborate on the “shallow thing”? Kind of confused by your wording. Do you just repeat that to yourself? Edit: or is it like you go half way in 9 times then one full then 8 half ways and two full etc?
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:02 AM
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Go to MRP (married red pill). You’ll get more help there than you will here. Idk how long you’ve known about trp (didn’t read your whole post) but I’m sure you’ve got a long road ahead of you
/r/askTRP14/10/19 11:44 PM
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Careful about this. Check laws in your area first
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:10 AM
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Thanks for making a decent post.
/r/seduction13/10/19 11:24 PM
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Same. Agreed. I don’t have the time nor feel the need to spend 12 hours tripping. Shrooms on the other hand are great
/r/askTRP13/10/19 08:42 PM
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I already know I’m better. I give women my presence
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:23 AM
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Interesting to say the least
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:47 AM
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Agreed. 1st rule- don’t talk about fight club
/r/askTRP12/10/19 08:26 PM
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1) she’s on her period so chances of her getting pregnant are pretty slim 2) getting pregnant on purpose is still challenging from what I’ve heard. 3) never trust her about the iud. Just assume she’s lying 4) if you’re still worried about it, make her take a pill
/r/askTRP12/10/19 03:47 PM
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Weirdly enough my own mother has read the books and she still swears they work on her. You’re correct. Just because she read them doesn’t mean she’s immune
/r/askTRP12/10/19 02:20 PM
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And hitting on a girl you know has a bf is a scumbag move regardless. We’re not here to moralize.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 09:09 PM
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I masturbate maybe once a week. Just not to porn
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:51 PM
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I think it’s a problem with girls in their 20’s nowadays. I actually had a date with a girl who’d only watched Netflix one time for a specific show and watched it because of the art in the show. She does artsy shit with her free time and I was genuinely shocked that she was an actual person.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:28 PM
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“Not really into riding the town bike” Got damn. That has me speechless.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:21 PM
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Hit the gym. Go hard. I’ve been meaning to masturbate for over a week and just haven’t. Too tired. Hit on and talk to REAL women. Stop fantasizing about made up women with used up pussies. The only way you can stop being an addict is if you want to stop being an addict. Join a community of people with similar issues and talk to them about it. Don’t make a post on here about something that’s been covered 100+ times already.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 05:16 PM
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This. Lol
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:43 AM
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Wtf, no. You need her permission to do that. Just send a text afterwards along the lines of “had a great time tonight “ and leave at that. Wtf, no
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:38 AM
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This.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 09:50 PM
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This is solid
/r/askTRP04/10/19 08:16 PM
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No, definitely not needy. Do it so you don’t get some kind of rape charge. Adds comfort and increases the chances she’ll come back
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:02 PM
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This. Herpes really isn’t that bad. Something around 90% of the elderly, about half of middle aged people have herpes, and around 20-30% of young people have it. Chances are you’ll get it. You can still contract it through a condom too
/r/askTRP04/10/19 11:44 AM
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There’s a communication theory that states you can gain the same level of like-ability over electronic communications however it takes more time. (I’m saying this to agree with the one hour of actual talking= 3weeks of texting). The best thing to do is meet relatively quickly with minimal texting. It keeps the mystery about the man and keeps the woman interested. If a female texts a male, I would expect some level of cordialness and answering nicely, however that doesn’t mean sitting there texti…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 04:59 PM
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LMFAO
/r/askMRP03/10/19 04:45 PM
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I agree with this except the last part. You shouldn’t view rejection as a danger. One shouldn’t have a fear of rejection, rather embrace it as an opportunity to learn. The more you fuck up the better. The job of the seducer is to bear the blunt of that rejection.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 11:42 AM
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I remember reading somewhere that when it comes to older women, you should play a little beta. Obviously not full beta but an older woman will need more comforting than a younger one
/r/askTRP03/10/19 11:35 AM
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Instead of asking about it, set one up
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:29 AM
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I agree with everything except the skin. Skin is important and a lot of people don’t take good care of their skin.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:59 PM
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Exactly what I came to say. Harder to check her social media when you yourself don’t have one
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:00 PM
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Lol The “PP test”
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:30 AM
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Thanks. This is what I was thinking. Do shit that’s free. Stop this spending money bullshit. There’s no need for it.
/r/askMRP26/08/19 11:28 PM
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Good reply. Enjoy the “noooooo........”
/r/askMRP26/08/19 11:21 PM
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Guaranteed fix
/r/askTRP14/08/19 03:35 PM
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It's obviously possible to get it back if played right (look at the success stories in MRP). The question is, it it worth the time, effort, and energy to get it back? To which I would say no.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 03:17 PM
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You can be friends with females but that doesn't mean that the rules of the game don't apply. She'll still shit test, still get emotional, still do basic female shit. Just treat her like any other female that you would want to fuck.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 03:03 PM
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“Ideal woman” There is no ideal woman. Each woman gives you something else. You may thought she was ideal but there’s 3.5 BILLION other women out in the world. There’s plenty other women who fit into her archetype and can give you something similar if not the same (if not better) Idk how old you are but I caught myself pretty early luckily (when I was 17). The older you are the harder it’s going to be to unfuck yourself. The older you are the more work it’s going to be. It takes a year of PRACTI…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:15 AM
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Can you please stop. This is just annoying.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 09:45 PM
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False. That's what the QUESTIONS are about. Not the ADVICE. 99% of the advice on those questions tell the other person NOT to do that.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:32 PM
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1) Makes me passive, or "betafy" me as you put it. Just like you said, I get asocial and just watch things happen around me instead of being a part of the things happening around me 2) I'm naturally really witty. It takes that away and I stand around with a "deer in headlights" look. 3) Makes me second guess myself a lot more. 4) I start getting really paranoid if I smoke too much. I don't like people knowing I'm high (unless I smoked it with them) and after I smoke, I start thinking "they know …
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:30 PM
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“I like your camel toe”
/r/seduction13/08/19 04:22 PM
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In my experience, it takes about a year to start to get the fundamentals down. How long have you been in trp? Writing may help and may speed up the process but I’m not sure.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 04:09 PM
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Talk to people from different cliques. Be friends with the jocks AND the nerds. Be fun and exciting and funny. Go to parties and make sure to be in the action. Doesn’t have to be all the time, but enough of the time to be noticed. And have something to offer people, whether that’s looks, brains, or wit.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 03:56 PM
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I have been holding frame better than ever. Really doesn't seem like it from the rest of what you were saying. We have been exchanging messages via snapchat (frame loss on my part) This in and of itself does not equate to a loss of frame. I message bitches from back at college, but that's not a loss of frame of and in itself. It's more so about how the messaging is done. She has been absolutely insistent that I send her dick pics if she sends me nudes. I'm kind of weirded out as to why she would…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 03:48 PM
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A great guy or a nice guy? Big difference. (I would recommend No More Mr. Nice Guy)
/r/askTRP13/08/19 01:54 PM
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But are they able to look at their emotions from an objective perspective? No. Women live in a sea of emotions. There are some women who are more logical than others, but their lives are waves in the ocean of emotion. Are there women who can look objectively at their inner workings and, from a serene perspective, decide to their advantage independent of what they feel? I would say yes but that is looking for a needle in a haystack. More like a very specific piece of sand on the beach. Even then,…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 01:43 PM
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I'm just impressed you've had three threesomes. That's pretty interesting to say the least
/r/askTRP12/08/19 08:00 PM
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Just go ahead and marry her. No vetting required. A week is definitely long enough to know who she really is deep inside. (PSA: this has been a sarcastic comment)
/r/askTRP12/08/19 07:59 PM
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I'm currently back at my current residence from college. Right before I went off to college, my mother had to move so she could take care of my grandfather who was in poor health. I say this to explain why I have very few friends where I am currently living, and any friends I do have are so BP and up a woman's ass that it is basically like not having friends at all. This summer I decided to date myself. This was some excellent advice I received from TRP forums. I read that before you can effecti…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 07:15 PM
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From her response to this, seems we have another unicorn.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:13 PM
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Then ask your question somewhere else. Like rpwomen, purplepilldebate, or somewhere else
/r/askTRP12/08/19 04:06 PM
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I'm with the other guy. If you really want an answer, then pm me
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:55 PM
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especially since it says "lost pirate BOI", but maybe that's just me. I think she also is just trying to rationalize something away like you said.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:55 PM
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lot of questions in this post that are directed specifically at redpill men. probably because this this is a space for men. There is a rpwomen subreddit. go there instead.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:50 PM
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I see good books on here, especially the list by u/CryptoViceroy I would add The art of Seduction - Robert Greene Way of the Wolf - Jordan Belfort Appearance of Power - Tanner Guzy Some book on Body Language (Joe Navarro has a couple of good ones) I would also learn how to use the search function because this has been discussed here many times.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:46 PM
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(On mobile so format may be weird and may have to edit) Women are vapid. They only care about THEMSELVES. When talking to a woman, what goes on on her mind is “me me me me me me ME. How does this relate to ME?” Nothing of what you say has anything to do with anyone else but herself. Because of this (correct me if I’m wrong anyone) she values CONTEXT over CONTENT. She doesn’t care what the fuck you say, just how you say it. Men on the other hand are opposite (maybe not in the “me” part, as that’s…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 05:18 AM
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That’s EXACTLY what I was thinking. When I heard Ed’s responses, I said to myself “DAMN ED” in a good way
/r/askTRP10/08/19 05:04 AM
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Much like my scale.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 10:42 PM
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I prefer a scale of 0-3 0-wouldn’t touch with a 10 foot pole 1-would fuck drunk 2-would fuck sober 3-she can have my kids (original is “wife her up, but being rp, that doesn’t quite work. Open for suggestions for what 3 should be) (On mobile. Sorry if format is shit)
/r/askTRP09/08/19 10:41 PM
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When all the answers to my questions are yes, I guarantee she’ll wanna fuck.
/r/seduction09/08/19 10:21 PM
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This is an actual question, What do you do that would make her want to fuck you? These are questions that are more rhetorical and should encourage you to travel in the right direction Do you work out? Do you have hobbies (no, video games don't count)? What do you do SOLELY for yourself? Do you do anything without your gf? Would you fuck yourself (if you look in the mirror, do you think you're attractive)? None of these have to be answered in response to me. Just something for you to think about.
/r/seduction09/08/19 09:47 PM
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Can you really blame the people who created the apps though? They see an opening in the market and they live in a BP world. If they can make money they should. In the same logic, if I was a bitch and I knew some guy would give me a free meal in exchange for an hour of pretending to like him, bet your fucking ass I'd take a free meal
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 09:30 PM
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I can tell you fake solutions or I can tell you how it really is. Fake - Just try your best. Maybe do some dishes. Real - She just doesn't wanna fuck you bro. I'll let you decide which one to open
/r/seduction09/08/19 09:28 PM
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Still sounds like you're in the anger phase there bud. This whole post has an angry undertone to it. Don't hate women for what they are biologically designed to be. Don't hate the game, hate the player.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 09:23 PM
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I was the boring introvert who hated social situations and wasnt fun I agree with this. Now I get attention anywhere I go. Have fun everywhere I go. A lot of it comes in the way I dress. I won't go as low as to say I wasn't attractive, I was always smokin'
/r/askTRP09/08/19 08:51 PM
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Long story short. My mom had a bf who had a dog who HATED cats. Mom saw the dog point at a squirrel but there was a cat behind the tree. Dog was pointing at the cat. Mom egged the dog on "go get it boy", dog attacked the cat and broke it's hip or some shit and mom called her bf of the time all hysterical (as women often get). BF told her "don't fucking say anything and get you ass to the house. I'll be home to take care of this." and that's what he did. and she listened to him and STFU and went …
/r/askTRP09/08/19 02:13 PM
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Not the sidebar, search the actual subreddit
/r/askTRP09/08/19 01:56 PM
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You could try searching for something related to that in TRPwomen sub. Don't know if they have it though.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 01:55 PM
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Appearance of power. Great book which teaches the basics of dressing well. Appearance of Power by Tanner Guzy
/r/askTRP09/08/19 01:40 PM
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Thank you for the suggestion on the monk book. That sounds quite interesting. I’ll have to check it out. Also, thank you for your feed back. Everyone else that had a problem with my article just said “hur dur, this is dum” but didn’t offer any actual critique. I appreciate that you took the time to do so
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 12:12 PM
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Someone else mentioned aggressive dogs as well. I think those dogs just need more training. There’s plenty of breeds that get a bad rep for being aggressive. They may have a GENETIC TENDENCY to be aggressive but with proper training can turn out to be wonderful dogs
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 12:09 PM
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And then immediately follow that up by pulling your wallet out LOL
/r/askTRP09/08/19 02:34 AM
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But she watched his Instagram story. That’s GOTTA mean something. (This is me rolling my eyes now)
/r/askTRP09/08/19 02:28 AM
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Can you find a link to that perhaps?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 02:09 AM
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The problem here is that you shouldn't have to buy her dessert for anything. You basically said "if I buy your dessert, I want a blowjob". You should, as an alpha, not buy her dessert AND STILL get a blowjob. Putting conditions on getting a blowjob is playing her game. It screams NICE GUY. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy. That will answer your question here. Edit: Some responses could have been "Is your wallet broke? Buy your own dessert" -Not my first option "I've got some dessert for you" with a shi…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:53 PM
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Thank you for saying this. I'm annoyed when people try to bring morals into this. That's not what TRP is about. For how many times "sexual strategy is amoral" is thrown around here, you think people would get it through their skulls.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 09:21 PM
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I remember this too now that I think about it. It's worth trying to find that book again and reread it.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 08:44 PM
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There's a whole other subreddit for questions specifically. Since this is in MRP and not r/askMRP I assumed it was more an article about the subject and how to not give a fuck when kids are involved. If you want actionable advice, don't ask ME specifically, ask someone else. (this is not meant to be said with attitude but a genuine statement as I do not have children)
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/19 08:37 PM
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Fill your life with variety and you will meet a variety of men. Words of wisdom
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 08:32 PM
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just want to maximize the pussy Again, my point remains. This is a shallow reason for doing anything. When you do something, think "ME/MY/I". For example, "How will this affect ME? Will I like this? What about MYSELF?" Don't think "HER/SHE". "Does SHE like this? What about HER?" By centering your thoughts around women, it shows a lack of frame.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 08:28 PM
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You'd think with my communications background I'd be able to tell what people are talking about/mean. But I'm completely lost on this one. Sorry, but I can't speak idiot.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 08:24 PM
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I think it looks great That's all that matters. but idk if I’m missing out on pussy n shit Don't do it for them. Do it for you.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 08:22 PM
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1) Why are you living with her? Are you married? There's a whole other subreddit for married red pilled men. 2) Why are you looking for validation? You should validate yourself. Stop looking to internet strangers to get the answer you want. 3) If you don't want to pay her back then don't eat the food. She bought it and then you're going to eat most of it and not pay her back? It doesn't matter how much more she makes than you. A man should take care of himself.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 08:04 PM
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Agreed. Let us Read. My curiosity you must feed. u/RedPill-BlackLotus
/r/askTRP08/08/19 07:57 PM
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Only you can create the boundaries in which a relationship will work. If she does drugs and you don't like it, next her or keep her as a plate. Prize mentality my friend.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 07:55 PM
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Side bar. Read it. I'll even do you a favor and tell you EXACTLY where to start. Rational Male series. This question is answered in there.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 07:52 PM
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I agree with this. OP shouldn't live in a state where he's paranoid that tomorrow his wife will file for divorce. If you're really making bank like you say you are, you should be fine in being able to raise your daughter by yourself, or at least with some kind of joint custody. Talk to your lawyers, get everything ready, and when YOU HAVE EVERYTHING SETTLED, tell her you're divorcing. Living in constant fear/anxiety the your wife will divorce you is seriously traumatic for the brain and is an un…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/19 07:46 PM
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I would legitimately say autism. I believe autists have a hard time with abstract thinking and a hard time grasping metaphors.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 07:30 PM
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Damn. Good metaphor though, despite the degradation
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 07:15 PM
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From Cesar, it’s a lot harder to train a dog that’s full of energy. That’s why you take them out and exercise them. It’s a lot easier to lead their mind when their body is exhausted. I guess that’s another lesson that connects to trp. Women prefer a man of action.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 07:00 PM
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Little retarded-soft next until it’s not so retarded Hugely retarded- hard next
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 06:00 PM
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I’m classier than a dumpster fuck I’m more of a recycling fuck man
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:08 PM
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Agree with this. I started with NMMNG and then went to RM. Not saying you should do it in this order, you’ll know the order that is best. But try to pick something that is purple before shoving him into red
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:00 PM
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Don’t fall for that shit. Make her ass leave bro. She broke the rules once, she’ll do it again. She just doesn’t have anyone to branch swing to
/r/askTRP08/08/19 04:57 PM
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There’s a lot missing for me here. You need to stick to what you said though. I don’t think there’d be anything wrong with saying “you have two days” depending on the circumstances. From the way it’s framed here, it’s as if she cheated on you or a major offense, which case you need to kick her ass out. At this point, for you, the way you acted you need to kick her out and start over
/r/askTRP08/08/19 04:51 PM
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I literally almost fell out of my seat reading your comment
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 04:36 PM
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I didn’t know that, thank you! Guess I’ll just consider this as a reminder for newer members. I particularly liked his last line in the article as I’ve said something similar (almost word for word) in the past.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 03:08 PM
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Didn’t know that! That’s actually quite interesting considering that after I found out about TRP I spent a lot of time watching Cesar
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 02:53 PM
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And that’s why I purposefully didn’t compare women to dogs in the article. If you reread it you’ll see that. It’s not MY fault that YOU see that within the article.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 02:49 PM
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But you don't need to "dominate" the dog to have a good dog. You have to lead the dog. Different thing. Fair point and I agree. I think I'm using them as synonyms when in reality they are not.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 02:38 PM
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Thank you. I've been trying to post this since I've been here. Unfortunately though I didn't have enough karma or whatever the stupid internet points are called.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 02:35 PM
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Even though you tried to train the animal, it is a lot harder to "retrain" an animal after years of the animal being in control. Definitely not your fault but the owner's fault. The other day I was at a friend's house and they had a dog (an ugly pug mix looking thing). The dog knew sit but did not know wait. So I trained him to wait. I would say "stay" and slowly lower the food. If the dog moved, I would bring the food back up to chest level and start again. Despite the OWNER of the dog saying "…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 02:28 PM
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Thank you for the well thought out reply. I agree with what you said.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 02:23 PM
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I understand your point, but I think the point of the owner is to dominate the dog and train them. Some dogs are more dominant while others are more submissive, but the dominate dogs just need more training.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 02:20 PM
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It’s not always the case. Life of Pi taught us that animals can be tamed even in the wildest of kind. That's not true. Animals run their lives off of their hind brain. There are countless mentions of animals (particularly exotic animals) that attack their owners. you, yourself, are more of a reflection to yourself than you are to your dog/pet/animal. Agreed but I think that an animal can reflect your frame.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 02:17 PM
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an idea for the reply to "It's not a date" something along the lines of "ssssuuuuuuuurrrrreeeee ;)" and keep the convo going. On the date, continue to escalate and isolate as usual. It was a shit test. Also wants to give herself plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:00 PM
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OP could just name his dick “Flowers”. That’s substantially less time then drawing them on his dick
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:18 PM
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I think another source that may help is The Rational Male: Positive Masculinity. The first section of the book is about raising children to have a red pill lense.
/r/askMRP07/08/19 05:11 PM
2

This is the best advice Emphasis on the "Don't do my drugs"
/r/askTRP07/08/19 03:36 PM
1

USA!! USA!!! USA!!!!
/r/askTRP07/08/19 03:28 PM
1

1) You shouldn't shit where you eat. 2) Learn body language. There are many good books out there about it. It will help you give off the right signals as well as receive his signals 3) Learn DiCarlo's escalation ladder 4) Play footsie at a group project if possible. The parts of the brain which are connected to the feet are close to the parts of the brain that are connected to the genitals. 5) Don't expect him to reciprocate.
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:52 PM
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Come on OP, her mom is legit sick. She obviously wants to go out considering she gave you the next best alternative. If you're that insecure and think it's her trying to get you into her frame, then your frame is is a two legged stool. You've got some work to do
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:40 PM
3

I read this and shook my head, like wtf. Her mom is most likely legitimately sick and OP out here like "Is ThiS a COmplIanCe teST?!"
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:39 PM
5

My general rule of thumb If you have to ask if it was beta or alpha, it was beta.
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:21 PM
2

Comfort tests come from only LTRs I don't quite agree with this. I think women who have been messing around with you for a couple months will try to throw out comfort tests to see if you are bf material. If you fail enough then the plate will break. If you just met a girl, it's definitely a shit test not a comfort test. But any girl that has been messing around with you for a bit will throw out a comfort test.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 01:59 PM
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As a general rule, If she says "you" then it's a shit test If she says "I" then it's a comfort test Edit: MRP has some good stuff on comfort tests too because they focus a lot more on LTR's
/r/askTRP07/08/19 01:56 PM
3

Have you read the sidebar? Rollo Tomassi goes quite in depth with this and his theories on why it is.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 01:54 PM
5

“I’m not addicted to crack. I only smoke it on the weekends. I can quit anytime I want”
/r/askTRP06/08/19 11:32 PM
2

They ARE going to talk and she IS going to find out.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 06:41 PM
1

“She was a HB10, weighed 800 lbs, pig nosed, looked like a gorilla. Solid 10”
/r/askTRP06/08/19 05:32 PM
1

This has worked for my many times in the past. Often during day approach, I will just walk up to her and without saying a word, piss on her. It shows my dominance and gets my message across. 7/10 times she'll just start sucking my dick right there in public
/r/askTRP06/08/19 04:31 PM
1

I would say it is more about mindset (MPoO, Frame, etc). I had this conversation with someone in the BDSM community and the topic came over to this. I was talking about knowing how if you're a switch (goes between dom and sub). Just because you may like to be beaten or have fire play or wax play (or whatever else) done to you does not necessarily mean you are a switch. She told me a story about another person who was a dom but also a masochist so she would occasionally have someone beat her. But…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 06:23 PM
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Think this is the best right here imo
/r/askTRP05/08/19 06:17 PM
2

I’m guessing you’re a kid? Find better things to do. When you text you like her, it puts the relationship in her frame. It doesn’t increase the chance she’ll like you back. By sticking to logistics, it increases the chance she’ll fuck you. Go focus on middle school kiddo. Leave the fucking to us grown ups
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:39 PM
2

Example: smacked a girls ass as she went into her job in front of other people. She said that was off limits and pushed her boundaries, she didn’t like that. Told her I understand and didn’t do it again. Didn’t apologize though.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:53 PM
30

“You’re valuable because you value yourself. That is the foundation of your frame.” Good message and well put.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/19 03:52 AM
9

Yes, just ghost you doofus
/r/askTRP02/08/19 09:54 PM
3

Then why are you asking? Either don’t ask dumb questions or give better context to your dumb questions so the make more sense and can inspire more thoughtful conversation. By only asking what you did, you leave it so vague that no one wants to talk about it and you’ll get the same answers over and over
/r/askTRP02/08/19 07:38 PM
3

If that's your kink buddy, go right on ahead. Don't think you'll find any of us here who are cucks though
/r/askTRP02/08/19 07:33 PM
1

One idea: bring a competitive friend and keep score. Love this. Any other ideas to make it a game? Thinking in a solo sense
/r/askTRP02/08/19 06:38 PM
7

ALL OF THESE responses are great. My advice, Lift, read the sidebar, STFU. Lift: Lifting is awesome. Once you start, it's hard to stop. If you're out, you'll wish you weren't. You'll feel better about yourself and that will help with confidence. Sidebar: You'll get nowhere if you don't read the sidebar. It is the CORNERSTONE of the redpill. Treat the sidebar like a Bible. Read it, learn it, study it. STFU: "If you don't have anything nice to say, say nothing at all." Same principal. If you have …
/r/askTRP02/08/19 06:36 PM
1

You’re just nervous, it’s getting to your head. Don’t watch porn Don’t jerk beforehand
/r/askTRP02/08/19 04:55 PM
3

To your first bullet point- You should have fucked on the first night (easier said than done) but she's just a Tinder hoe. If she's from Tinder, the whole encounter is already framed as ya'll going out to fuck. But at least you see where you fucked up this time and know how to improve, good first step. Second Point- It depends how you pressed for the info. There's a difference between "Why's that?" and "Tell me,Tell me, Tell me, Tell me,", so not necessarily a mistake. You're in the right mindse…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 04:48 PM
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Idk what to say about that bro. I think you’re just over complicating it. Some advice here, if you don’t treat it like a big deal, no one else will. If you fuck up a kiss, don’t worry about it. It’ll be fine
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:24 PM
2

Now i got girls that I know would be down to make out with me and I meet them at bars around town usually. Got all these guys on askTRP worried about getting laid and OP just worried about kissing. So wholesome. Also, agree with u/haughtyhay , don't over think it, otherwise you'll fuck it up. Only other advice I have is don't LEAD with the tongue (stick your tongue out before kissing). Had a girl do that with me (kiss-less virgin) and it was so unattractive.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:08 PM
3

each year of isolatuon is good becauae I become morw numb. "I like isulation becus each ear I becum more dumb" Good luck getting a degree with those English/writing skills there bud
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:16 PM
2

Can't post to TRP without enough Karma
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:43 PM
3

People are too lazy to read all of mine. It was really for OP more than anything. Thanks, I thought your reply was really good as well
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 01:22 AM
1

You need to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 12:37 AM
2

You're brain is just a bunch of neurons linked together. The more you use a certain pathway, the more likely it is you'll continue to use that pathway. It's building a habit like brushing your teeth at night
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:49 PM
3

There's no obsession with "alpha" on TRP. Only point I disagree with. However, I think all of those who obsess over alpha are the new members and those who are young. Those who have been around a while and understand/have internalized the core principals of TRP no longer obsess over alpha. Just take a look over at askTRP.... "Was this alpha?" "How do I handle this in an alpha way?" "Was this beta?" (again, all these coming from those new to the community/principals) Otherwise, great reply
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 06:52 PM
2

Thank you, much appreciated
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 06:41 PM
1

My advice: 1) trim this down a bit. It’s pretty fucking long 2) find another page to post this on. Maybe not red pill women, but consider contacted one of their endorsed contributors or mods and ask them privately. 3) maybe a bdsm page....? (This is an edit)
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:20 PM
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I’ve looked at some of their stuff and they don’t do that from what I’ve seen. A lot of it is “teehee, I looked pretty today”
/r/askTRP01/08/19 04:17 PM
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One thing in my personal journey I’ve realised lately is that this ‘Alpha/Beta’ terminology is useless. Most specifically ‘Alpha’. I don't totally agree, but let's continue. ‘Alpha’, to me, is an animal thing. The thing is, we are animals. We are being run by our hind brain whether you like to think so or not. Some more so than others. Jonathon Haidt (author of The Righteous Mind) compares us to an elephant (emotional/hind/reptile brain) with a rider (rational/frontal cortex brain) on top. We li…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 03:53 PM
1

Have you taken an English class before?
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:02 PM
3

The most formative years are 0-5. I remember a story from high school where my teacher was telling me that this kid was in the Rwandan genocide and both his parents were killed. The kid went to an orphanage (where it was hundreds of kids all stuck in baby seats) and ended up getting adopted. Later the kid was a psychopath, got a car, ran away, and was found 2 months later dead in a lake where he committed suicide by driving into the lake. But "he didn't remember anything. It was all just a story…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:00 PM
1

How about instead of asking, you do your own simple research. There’s plenty of books and I’m sure plenty of websites.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:30 AM
3

Made me laugh out loud literally
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:29 AM
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You need to figure out you, not figure out your relationship. This
/r/askTRP31/07/19 11:27 PM
5

"The criteria for everyone is subjective"
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:39 PM
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1) why does it matter? 2) why do you care? 3) STFU, lift, and sidebar 4) branch swing
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:34 PM
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--Men making the personal sacrifices necessary to honor, respect and love her are commonplace. You’re supposed to do these things... You sacrificed your ambitions and potential to provide her with a better life? You were supposed to. You resisted temptation and didn’t fuck the hot secretary. You were supposed to. Your responsibility to maintain a marriage, home, family, etc. are common - they’re expected. They are only appreciated in their absence or in their lack and/or failing. This is the tot…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 01:40 PM
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Not saying you’re being a dick. I’m just saying you should have been clear that you expected it her to be there. Again, idk exactly what was said but that’s the way your writing made it seem.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:19 AM
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Maybe it’s the way you phrased it but from the way you said “I left it open to her” makes it sound as though you were not definite in your plans with her. You “I’m going to this art exhibit, you’re welcome to come” Her “thanks” You “you coming” Her “no” It sounds as though you never really made it clear you were expecting her to come
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:06 AM
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Yes, it’s ok to grieve. Yes, you’re a pussy. u/BuddhaGorilla said “The manly path is that way ———>” Notice the arrow is pointed forward,not backwards
/r/askMRP31/07/19 02:56 AM
2

Women leave shit in your room all the time without you knowing. they do it "on accident" so other women will find it.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:04 PM
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Listen to u/TyroneTheDriver . Man always gives great advice. I would add to have fun. That's the most important part. High School is not that serious (socially I mean). You're still young so you're finding out who you are and how you want to act, yada yada yada. Experiment, have fun with it. (Mom told me this and it has held true so far, "High School never ends") Go to parties. In reality, you're going to drink or smoke weed or both, but DON'T do the heavy stuff. Shit will fuck you up for life. …
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:02 PM
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Agreed. Instead of the mother saying how she feels about herself (if mommy dressed better, she could have had a better daddy) she projects those feelings on to her daughter. Typical woman trait. They project their feelings on to other people/objects
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:06 PM
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Agreed
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 03:50 PM
1

Excellent technique
/r/askTRP29/07/19 08:41 PM
1

In college, 20, had a girl I fancied say “I only like older men”. Fucked her a month later. So yes,
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:47 PM
2

You: "Is your pussy 'broken' or something?" Fucking dying.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:42 PM
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I’d take a second look at what he u/Redpill-BlackLotus said because it’s all true. When someone calls you out, don’t immediately get defensive. I have friends I don’t talk to for years but when it comes down to it, they’ll still do anything for me. Relationships are formed because two things, the experiences you’ve had together and what you’ve done for each other. Just because women can forget at the drop of the hat what you’ve done for them doesn’t mean men will.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 04:53 PM
3

This is so true.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 01:46 PM
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I think this is a decent example to get some of these kids (literal kids) an idea of the "game" I would have liked to see a little bit more of the women fitting in, for example the challenges they like to see,how they "play the game", or how shit tests/other red pill concepts function within this analogy. For example- shit tests are the women exploring the game. The woman wonders "If I surf on this exact tile of water and land, what will happen?" (MISSINGNO glitch) The woman wants to know if she…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 09:44 PM
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I like this a lot
/r/askTRP26/07/19 03:49 PM
2

Wrong. AWALT. Woman crave validation and attention like we as men crave sex. Validation is as vital to a woman as the air she breathes.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:30 PM
1

Ok. I’ll look it up. I haven’t seen it before.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:21 PM
1

Where does this keeping sex separate from cuddling come from? Is there an article or something I missed on that? Wtf.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 07:07 PM
1

Yes to both. She also got me my internship (should be noted I’m 20 so still in college, this was in my other posts) along with a plethora of other things. But regardless, she shouldn’t be rude. I’d love to help and it’s not a problem but just because she’s done so much for me doesn’t give her a RIGHT (emphasis on that word) to be rude. I also think that she’s been around beta Billy’s most of her life so she thinks it’s ok (and somewhat of a natural response) to talk rudely and then they do what …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 06:52 PM
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The request itself was reasonable. It’s not so much that she asked me to do it, it was the attitude with which it was said. I had no problem helping but I’m not going to if someone is rude about it. The please itself wasn’t necessary but a better attitude was. I thought that was more of a rhetorical question. The answer is 2, I was raised by a single mother. Edit: if I still handled this wrong, I would appreciate an example of how I can handle a similar situation next time Edit again (on mobile …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 05:33 PM
1

I can understand the one with the dog being passive aggressive, but I don’t understand the one where I said a please would be nice was passive aggressive? Could you elaborate further?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 12:06 PM
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That was awesome thanks for the inspiration. Sad to see it wasn’t in Earl Scruggs style. Thanks for your help.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 02:46 AM
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Ok cool. And I don’t think so (but I know her in a different manner) but I’ve heard from other sources she’s got it going on. Lol. That comment literally made me laugh out loud which is pretty rare
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 02:26 AM
1

Did you actually buy voodoo floss or did you buy something else that works similar? I’ve spent about 30 minutes looking at it and it interests me
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 02:24 AM
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It’s a repetitive task. I’ve been asked to do it before, and have done it other times without asking. This time, like I said though, I just wanted the physical and mental space to be by myself without the dog. I WAS NOT explicitly asked to do it this time and legitimately forgot to bring the dog in. I know what passive aggressive is (not saying this with an attitude) and know myself well enough to know this wasn’t passive aggressive behavior. Although, I can understand the confusion from the way…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 01:49 AM
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I appreciate your feed back, but I don’t agree that they were passive aggressive. Which ones were passive aggressive? Also, I’ll take the second part of what you said in mind. That’s a useful way of looking at things.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 09:57 PM
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at 15 your risk is pretty low if she was about your age (14/15/16). The only thing you should be worried about is herpes.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 08:42 PM
1

BTW, I mentioned this in my last OYS but I changed accounts. if you're curious who I am, PM me
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 03:02 PM
1

OYS # 3 Stats : Same as last time. (I've had tennis elbow in my left elbow so I haven't been to the gym. Tried leg day yesterday but still had some trouble so I cut it early as I haven't had much trouble with my elbow lately and don't want to push it and make it worse. I'd rather take the extra time to fully recover than push it and fuck up my elbow for the rest of my life.) Read: Working on Laws of Human Nature. Super interesting but it's going relatively slow due to a new hobby I picked up tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 03:01 PM
3

Once you start it’s never enough
/r/askTRP12/07/19 07:13 PM
6

You just start doing it and stop whining about it. Eventually you start liking it because no one else can live up to your expectations. I remember when I looked at McDonald’s. At first, I FUCKING HATED working on the grill. I was talking to my friend about it and he told me “just keep telling yourself you like the things you hate. Eventually you start to like them.” And that’s exactly what I did. Eventually I looked forward to being on the grill, and you know what? I was the best griller this si…
/r/askTRP12/07/19 07:05 PM
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Thank you. Someone needed to say something. I came to TRP to learn, not watch stupid fucking YouTube videos that I literally give zero shits about.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 09:02 PM
2

I agree with u/Wholsesomeloaf, wait until she texts you. You already asked for a movie so sometime this week, midway through the week I'd wager, she'll likely text you asking about that movie.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:51 PM
1

you two should just fuck already and get it over with.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:36 PM
2

you two should just fuck already and get it over with.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:36 PM
4

Keep it washed then flush the condoms/wash them out. IM VERY SERIOUS. If she’s crazy she might wait till you’re in the bathroom and insert herself with your semen
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:06 PM
7

Yes and I’ll tell you why. 1) it’s exhausting lasting for an hour. Imagine an hour long an workout. That’s basically what it was. By the end, I was hot, sweaty, exhausted, and my sheets were soaked in sweat. 2) it gets boring. There’s only so many positions you can do (especially as beginners) 3) she has a time limit too. Eventually she isn’t as wet anymore. I’ve had both happen to me and I would have rather of nutted on contact. At least then in an hour or so you can try again. That’s not reall…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:58 PM
2

Best Advice here
/r/askTRP08/07/19 03:12 PM
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" Sell the sizzle, not the steak " I would love to see you elaborate on this.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 02:36 PM
1

When u/RedIsBestColour said rest I took it as literal sleep. OP is gonna see much gains if he's only gets four hours of sleep a night. OP is probably in HS too which at that age it's important to get about 9 hours of sleep a night.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 02:24 PM
5

You can always say you're a celibate catholic who is training to become a priest.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 02:05 PM
2

Stop halfassing. THIS. One doesn't simply "test" the red pill. You either do it or you don't
/r/askTRP08/07/19 02:00 PM
1

IDK where you live but I'm assuming a city because you walk home. Walk her home again, and half way through the walk say something along the lines of "I've got an idea" and take her on a "surprise date". Take her somewhere close to the walk (so you're not walking an extra hour), interesting (like a bridge or something, I don't fucking know what's around you) and that is isolated. From there escalate and kino and get her hot and heavy. You can definitely get her to make out. Afterwards take her b…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:55 PM
4

EXCELLENT advice
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:45 PM
4

From this post I can see you are struggling with the "be the prize" mentality. You're not a 7, you're a 10. (Are you really a 10, probably not, but you have to act that way regardless.) Did YOU buy the tickets or did SHE buy the tickets? You made it sounds like she bought the tickets (which is good) but if you bought the tickets you fucked up big time. IDK what you're saying but you have to make it flirty and put some innuendos in there. Isolate is easy, as you'll be there alone for a week, so j…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:36 PM
3

Have prostitutes and be a pimp. Problem solved
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:19 PM
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First two times I had sex, I had trouble getting hard. The third time I lasted an hour (would not recommend). I would have rather of had your problem than have mine. After my third time everything got way better and smoother.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:17 PM
1

You can’t tell your parents. They’re not going to believe this. Even though trp is the truth, they are gonna day it’s toxic for your mind. In my 4 years of trp I’ve only gotten someone to read the rational male once. Not very good stats. I think you’re conflating reassurance with validation seeking. Quit that shit. You’re a man (a boy on his way to manhood) and the only person to give a man validation is himself. Sexual strategy is amoral, there’s nothing wrong about it. It’s just blue pulled co…
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:55 PM
5

Can you elaborate on the Taoism? Find it interesting
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:49 PM
3

AGREED! Was gonna day the same thing. Plus if you have a good DM then it can actually test wit/social skills/ etc.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 03:25 AM
1

I agree. And society (at least in the USA) would like to argue that a woman can wait until their 30’s before they start the process to be respected as a woman. That simply isn’t true. They have to start younger. They should already be respected as a woman by their 30’s. Again, one can be respected as a woman or respected as a man but not both.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 09:16 PM
2

One can either be respected as a woman or respected as a man, but one can not be respected as both. That’s something women who have high ranking status struggle with. They may be the ceo of a company but they are not treated as women because the decided conquer the business world which is a man’s realm
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 05:56 PM
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I would say fucking on the third date would be out. Having sex is scary for a virgin. You have to take things slow. In my experience though, if your game is tight, She should be fucking by a month in. In general you have to take things slow. Edit: can’t spell
/r/askTRP06/07/19 05:11 PM
2

Honestly, at this point I almost hope this kid actually DOES kill his self
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:45 AM
6

I came here to get legit advice and actually talk about the red pill. His shit is annoying
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:42 AM
4

1) stop projecting. I’m not the one who wants to kill myself 2) you need professional (emphasis on PROFESSIONAL) help. 3) no one here cares 4) they still have a home you can fuck, go at it 5) you have a kink, it’s fine. That’s your thing and no one here could give two shits Seriously, you need help dude. Everyone has a kink. I love choking bitches and smacking their ass. Yours is girls with dicks. It’s cool. Calm yourself
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:33 AM
5

Says the one who kissed two trannies
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:26 AM
7

Good, cause you don’t have it.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:57 AM
2

Is this still u/orbe1998 or whatever it was? Bro, it’s cool. If they were hot, who gives a fuck.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:55 AM
3

If you’re staving you should be paying for food! Lqtm
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:24 AM
2

I’ve never paid for a hooker. 100 an hour was just a totally blind shot Edit: but that price isn’t bad...might have to get one
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:18 AM
2

Why is this something we keep getting? That’s like 5 in two weeks
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:17 AM
1

Works for “I love you” also. “I love me too”
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:13 AM
2

I know anecdotes aren’t good evidence, but I had a thing with a girl who was a kissless virgin last year, I could DEFINITELY tell she had never kissed anyone.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:09 AM
6

Hooker- “it’s 100$ an hour” OP-“ok. I just wanna practice kissing”
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:07 AM
12

The only way to get better is practice. Someone in the comments said it a a duel and I agree with that (on mobile, can’t look, credit to whomever said that). Start by holding eye contact with family/ friends more and then move to complete strangers. Make them look away first. If they look DOWN (not to the side) its a sign of submission (this is very good for when assessing if a girl is into you). Overall, in general, you should be holding eye contact for about 70% of the time. People ask which e…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 08:48 PM
1

My hammer and ratchet are tools, not ideologies.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 06:38 PM
5

did not know this was a thing. interesting
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:54 PM
2

If they're looking down then it's a sign of submission. If they look to the side then it is a sign of equality. Point is, if they look down it's a good thing but if they look to the side, they're not as interested. Now stop seeking female validation and go approach them.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:53 PM
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