need some help

TheDreadnought1 · 2019-07-07T12:53:46+00:00

Truth sometimes hurt. Especially if it hits head first on some core beliefs that we had implanted on us since we were little kids

But it's still truth. And it's not hard to see: look around you. Look at how the cool kids at school treat the girls, and how the nerds treat them, and who they prefer. Look at older couples you know. Look at the media. It's everywhere. Once you put these red glasses, you start seeing it, and it's every fucking where. And for me, seeing that it is indeed truth is all the reassurance I need

And it's bitter. Hell, it's one fucking bitter pill. And sometimes you'll just want to lay down and cry because it's unfair. And sometimes you'll want to burn the whole world for it's unfairness and deceitfulness. And the next day you'll be okay

But, a reminder: the Red Pill isn't good nor is it bad. It's amoral. It's a toolbox. Toolboxes aren't good or bad: you can use them to help you repair a poor man's house, or you can crush someone's skull with the wrench. It's up to you how you'll use it. More power to you it is.

unnaturalcontrol · 2019-07-07T12:55:24+00:00

You can’t tell your parents. They’re not going to believe this. Even though trp is the truth, they are gonna day it’s toxic for your mind. In my 4 years of trp I’ve only gotten someone to read the rational male once. Not very good stats.

I think you’re conflating reassurance with validation seeking. Quit that shit. You’re a man (a boy on his way to manhood) and the only person to give a man validation is himself.

Sexual strategy is amoral, there’s nothing wrong about it. It’s just blue pulled conditioning. Imagine a bucket full of crabs. Every blue pill Vick is gonna try to pull you in. Stick to your guns.

Bullshit you can’t apply this at 16. You can apply it at any age. That’s just a fucking excuse. I suggest if you’re gonna be here, you read the sidebar faggot.

Lift, read the sidebar, stfu.

(Edit: on mobile, had to go look at the post to continue what I was saying)

PotatoWatt · 2019-07-07T12:58:37+00:00

Heres my honest point of view, let go of TRP. Just let go of it.

But before you go, take this:

You are 16, start lifting. Correctly. Dont go all in, dont go sicko mode, do it properly. Make friends with the gym teacher, with the a gym big guy, someone that can help you out to get started.

You are 16, you will go through a lot of maturing until you reach the 'ohhhhhhhhhhh ok' point, you will be down, you will be up, thats maturing.

Understand the basics TRP tried to teach, read the sidebar, learn that girls are covert, learn that girls give signals, learn that girls want to get dicked down hard and fast by the right guy, do the right thinks and she will place you in the 'right guy' category.

Dont overthink. You are young. Let yourself go, with common sense. Socialize, party, but also study.

Learn stuff, learn how to change a tire, learn a skill, a trade, read, stop videogaming if you are spending 8 hours a day on it, start exercising, start meeting new people. You are on school, at the line, say random shit to a random guy/girl and if the are into it then you got yourself a new friends just like that.

The best advice I can ever give to someonea about TRP:

Basically, you found TRPand I know you think you are thankful for it, you praise the lord of finding it, but with lots of knowledge comes lots of responsability. You will feel that since you know this shortcut to life that now you gotta succeed, you will feel a lot of pressure that you put in yourself that now that you know something that others dont that you need to be better than them, to be the 'man'. But you will fail. You need to fail. How do you think people learn that fire is hot, and touching it hurts? Because they touched the fire and it fucking hurt. They failed? Yeah. But they learnt. This is what I want you to dig into your head everyday. Because I found TRP just like you, at 19, I improved myself and was motivated af, learnt a lot of stuff. But on my first girl encounter I froze and didnt make a move. Heck, I learnt a lot that first encounter. I learnt that girls like to be lead, that touching girls isnt a bad thing. But I failed to reach the goal I wanted, which was sex/kiss. And oh boy did it fuck me up, I had this incredible weight that I HAD to succeed in this because I knew something that others didnt. But then I saw myself failing and others succeeding, and it fucked me up mentally. Because I had this pressure on my shoulders that I NEEDED to succeed. Im here to tell you that you WILL fail. A LOT. Its required. And im here to tell you that its ok. You can remove this pressure from yourself. Its ok dude, really. As long as you keep pushing forward, its fine. Just take a moment, take a deep breath and remember the situation that you failed. Did you take anything from it? Maybe you learn that escalation is key. Maybe you found out that girls will forget you in a flash if you are boring af. Maybe you learn how cold people are in terms of first impressions. Either way you always learn something. And I want you to keep this in your mind as you grow up, as it will save you a lot of mental fighting. Dont overthink, just be a man, see where you failed and keep going. You had a flat tire because you went over the nails. Are you going to cry that you were a retard for thinking the nails wouldnt break your tire? No. You are gonna learn that nails = flat tire and to avoid them, and you will change your tire and be on your way. If you just stay in your car wondering why you were a retard about knowing that the nails would break your tires and dont actually go outside and just change your tire and move on you are doing nothing about it besides wasting time. Yes, some people will avoid the nails and learn without failing, but not all the time.

Take care my dude, you will be fine.

Title	need some help
Author	NSPolaris
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	July 7, 2019 12:00 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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