I recently wrote about how I was having some apprehension about my LTR's kid coming to live with us. I decided I would give it a few months though, but the kid isn't here yet.

I've noticed lately that it's been more "my kid this" and "my kid that", but of course she hasn't seen her kid in 10 years.

I've been relying on her way too much and tonight it came to a boil. We've been rearranging our apartment to make room for her kid and she's been pressuring me to throw some of my stuff out and it's kind of been getting to me.

She recently authorized me on her credit card to help pay for my dental bills, but she just called and removed me from the account. I've paid 500 on the card the past 3 weeks. I still need dental work.

She saw where I only used it for food this week and she said I was going crazy with the card, even though I paid everything I charged this morning.

I lost frame and we hurled some fuck you's at each other and I called her a piece of shit. I can't take it back and she's always done her best to help me.

She started crying and says she wants me to move out and she's kept it in for a long time but she feels like the man in the relationship. She says I'm pulling her down and she can't take it anymore and she can do better without me.

I don't have a first and last month's payment saved up and my credit is 60 points from being decent. I live in a different country than my family and I've got no where to go.

I just feel really lost and not sure of what to do. I just thought asking If I can use her credit card to help out with my dental bills was ok because we're in a relationship, but I guess that pushed her too. She said "I've never had to go to you for help, it's always you asking me for help."

Guess I made a cardinal mistake of not being self reliant enough and depending on her too much.

Any constructive feedback?