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[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you view your woman as a physical possession that your afraid to lose then yea you gotta get her and all that. However trauma has a way of bringing people to enlightenment. Look at all these boys looking for answers because of cheating sluts. Therefore cheating sluts help motivate men to Intellectual and physical self improvement.
So to answer your question it will be a learning experience whatever happens. So long term it is a good.
[–]eaeulis2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
u said it yourself, you’re not a relationship person so let her just tag along with whatever you’re doing anyway.
u should never vent to her because she’ll lose attraction. you discussing all your worries about the relationship will dry her out and you will lose. don’t believe me? do it and come back here with the verdict.
[–]ActualyIzDolan1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
BIG RED FLAG: she accuses you of cheating out of nowhere. Usually means she’s cheating
If you can do it, learn about her dad/mom. Father/mother issues can lead to them reacting the same way her mother would’ve. But take that with a grain of salt, as there are other factors that affect that (I.e. she hates her mother and wants to be nothing like her)
I don’t know what her sexual past could’ve told you about her, but if you don’t know it 2 months into the relationships that’s kinda sus. Maybe it’s just you though.
Honestly man, my advice is set boundaries. Tell her shit you won’t stand for. It’s okay if she tests the boundaries to check if they’re hardset a few times, but if she constantly tries to push me back then that’s a complete disrespect to you and you should handle it like that.
Good luck man
[–]AirBudSportsDog420 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I have talked to her about her past relationships just not in great detail and nothing she has told me sounds bad. She told me she has been cheated on in almost every relationship she has had. Idk what to make of that honestly. She saw that I messaged a co-worker and became really jealous even though this co-worker is obviously unattractive and someone that I would never get involved with sexually. I'm not really the relationship/emotional type so I just wanted some basic info. Thanks for the response.
[–]ActualyIzDolan0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh lord man. Yeah that’s a red flag to me. She might not be cheating, but a long relationship of distrust and alike isn’t worth your time. Most of the endings to this relationship involve you cheating. I’ve not seen many that don’t.
See if you can push it to a fwb if ya want, but I’d really recommend against anything exclusive personally.
Seriously, good luck.
[–]LBEB801 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You vet before they are a LTR.
[–]Mildly_Sociopathic1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're asking how to vet her after starting a relationship with her.
Dude stfu.
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