LTR question.

GayLubeOil · 2018-01-30T06:28:27+00:00

If you view your woman as a physical possession that your afraid to lose then yea you gotta get her and all that. However trauma has a way of bringing people to enlightenment. Look at all these boys looking for answers because of cheating sluts. Therefore cheating sluts help motivate men to Intellectual and physical self improvement.

So to answer your question it will be a learning experience whatever happens. So long term it is a good.

eaeulis · 2018-01-30T04:24:10+00:00

u said it yourself, you’re not a relationship person so let her just tag along with whatever you’re doing anyway.

u should never vent to her because she’ll lose attraction. you discussing all your worries about the relationship will dry her out and you will lose. don’t believe me? do it and come back here with the verdict.

ActualyIzDolan · 2018-01-30T05:32:52+00:00

BIG RED FLAG: she accuses you of cheating out of nowhere. Usually means she’s cheating

If you can do it, learn about her dad/mom. Father/mother issues can lead to them reacting the same way her mother would’ve. But take that with a grain of salt, as there are other factors that affect that (I.e. she hates her mother and wants to be nothing like her)

I don’t know what her sexual past could’ve told you about her, but if you don’t know it 2 months into the relationships that’s kinda sus. Maybe it’s just you though.

Honestly man, my advice is set boundaries. Tell her shit you won’t stand for. It’s okay if she tests the boundaries to check if they’re hardset a few times, but if she constantly tries to push me back then that’s a complete disrespect to you and you should handle it like that.

Good luck man

LBEB80 · 2018-01-30T11:55:14+00:00

You vet before they are a LTR.

Mildly_Sociopathic · 2018-01-30T12:22:52+00:00

You're asking how to vet her after starting a relationship with her.

Dude stfu.

Title	LTR question.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	January 30, 2018 3:46 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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