So I made sure to give 2/3rd of the attention my ltr gave me during the lockdown. She initiated contact most of the times, but gave me shit about how I forget about her and how can I busy while at home all day. I ignored. Our conversations became less frequent and now it’s down to twice a week. I tried my best to give her the emotional rollercoaster every chance I get. Treating her badly then giving her validation, pushing and pulling, and everything.

However, since last month there have been no problems since I am have been in such a good mood and good place that I laugh everything off and treat her like an amusing child. Off course, she says that I don’t care about anything anymore. I laugh that off and give her some validation.

Now she is kinda depressed that her phone had a problem and all her 20k pictures got deleted. That’s what she has been thinking for the last week. We have our time where we talk and she just doesn’t initiate.

I think the attraction that built up when we used to meet is not there anymore and I am fucking up with the giving attention as a reward thing. Orbiters are there to fill the need. I am thinking I should probably just give it a break for a while and tell her to reinitiate things when we can actually see each other and also so I can concentrate on other girls. My expectations are not clearly defined I’d say and they are definitely not being met, but you can’t negotiate attraction anyway. What should I do?