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Sounds like alot of indecisiveness from both of you. After she declined your invitation to hang that night, you should've said "Okay, let's aim for X day." This date may be salvageable still, but don't be surprised if she ghosts you.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:02 AM
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Complain less, build more.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 01:47 PM
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Be on a mission. Even though you won't be going through hard times necessarily, you'll still be focused on a goal that is difficult to achieve.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 12:00 AM
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When talking with women, the best answer to most "why" questions is "Because I feel like it." Or slight variations. Ex. Girl: Why don't you have social media? Chad: Because I don't want to.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:07 PM
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The balance is between DOING interesting things versus TALKING about them. If you do interesting things in front of her or with her, her attraction will increase exponentially compared to if you tell her stories about interesting experiences. The mystery relates to why you do interesting things, and how effectively you do them.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 01:37 AM
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Stand outside of her door with an air horn, and squeeze it like a titty. That'll get her attention.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:17 PM
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What do I think of a woman with a high body count? She's at least a little more honest than most girls. Beyond that, I don't care. What are my rules? No remote possibility for an LTR, no more or less attention than my other plates, and always wear a condom.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:15 PM
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Men and women are generally attracted to different aspects - men to physical beauty, and women to mental frame. This is TRP 101. Let the ugly women and beta males salivate over each other. Not my problem. Easier pickings for me.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:09 PM
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Disagree with you. If an ugly SOB truly believes that he is built like a Greek god, then women will too. It's all frame.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:55 PM
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All dating apps suck. I only have one downloaded and I switch between them every few months to get the noob boost. But I spend maybe five minutes a day swiping, maximum. Pick a few cuties and if one of them matches with me, I'll send a message. A few have led to dates, but most are dead ends. Just be outcome independent, meet girls irl (because even during the pandemic, yes they are out there), and keep working on yourself. You'll get a few fish to bite eventually.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 11:13 PM
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Who* didnt she do?
/r/askTRP27/11/20 11:07 PM
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Whenever somebody calls you a "simp," look deep into their eyes and let a juicy fart rip.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:06 AM
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Congrats, you're an orbiter. Delete her number and chat with other girls.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:02 AM
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First of all, if you're ashamed to ask out women because of your car...then you have much deeper issues with self confidence. Work on that first. Scour Craigslist and Facebook Marketplace for deals. If you search every day, you'll eventually find a decent ride that you can afford.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:21 PM
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No. Don't respond at all.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:16 PM
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You have two options. 1) Let him figure it out for himself. 2) Sacrifice your friendship by being blunt with him. I suggest the first option.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 07:13 PM
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Use lube
/r/askTRP20/11/20 07:10 PM
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She's not going to show up. Make other plans and forget about her.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:09 AM
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"No donut for you then." Shrug and proceed to give donuts to all of the women.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:37 PM
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"Wow, now I know where your mind was at." Say it with a sarcastic, disgusted look and pull away. She'll immediately try to justify or compensate.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:13 PM
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Clearly you don't understand what the term "alpha male" means. Alpha males are better than "pretty much every guy." That's the point. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 08:48 PM
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As many others have mentioned, it's the porn. Stop watching it. Go cold turkey. I also recommend trying "Man Oil." It increases sensitivity after awhile if you apply it regularly.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:43 PM
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Asking because I'm working on this too: any style tips? What do you wear during the winter?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:39 PM
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Have you been on Twitter lately? In my experience at least 50% of women on that app have openly advertised their OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, or similar accounts at some point. I know Twitter is an echo chamber but I'm blown away at how many women are prostituting themselves on that app. It seems like you are concerned with marriage ability. My advice: steer clear no matter what. I keep learning more and more about why marriage in 2020 is a bad idea regardless of your partner.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 01:44 PM
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I experienced a similar situation during my blue pill days. We were separated for awhile then she floundered around for almost a week before agreeing to see me - she broke up with me right then. My recommendation is to soft next. Let her initiate. Don't fret over what she is thinking or whether she wants to break up - you are a budding alpha male and be able to bring new women into your life.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:30 AM
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It's a random girl you matched with on a dating app. Who knows...or cares? Could've been the weather.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:24 PM
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RP knowledge applies to you, women, and the world forever.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:21 PM
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You dont have to put it on the back burner. Think about what makes you angry, why it makes you angry, then either solve the problem or remove it from your life. That's mastery. Succumbing to it would be throwing a temper tantrum, yelling, being destructive or violent, etc. With women it's not necessarily about making them feel sad, then happy, then sad again. It's about making her want to be part of your life, then making her feel desirable in return. To do those, you must have an interesting li…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:55 PM
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There's nothing rigged about it. Attractive women typically have sexual relationships with attractive men. That's how it always has been and always will be.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:14 PM
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One of the biggest misconceptions within TRP is that strong frame=emotionless. That is simply not true. In reality, TRP teaches that having a strong frame means that an alpha male is in control of his emotions. You should never succumb to negative emotions. Why? Because you should have already experienced pain, heartbreak, loss, etc. and now have complete mastery of those emotions. You should know how to face adversity with a level head and assertiveness. This is totally different than creating …
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:12 PM
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Nobody gives a shit about you until you add value to their life - and only then, it's momentarily
/r/askTRP01/11/20 12:11 PM
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Don't be so sensitive in the first place
/r/askTRP01/11/20 12:03 AM
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Since you are new, then yes, the advice is text only for logistics. You need to break the oneitis mindset and get experience with other girls. There are probably thousands of attractive women at your college, go game a few. Ask this same question in about a year or so - assuming you are still following TRP - and the advice might evolve.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 10:09 PM
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I recently experienced a similar situation. It took until after the split for me to realize why I broke up with her. She didn't have any ambition, so I was simply bored of her. That is a valid reason to break up with your LTR. Just do it. Don't drag it out forever; you'll make both of yourselves miserable.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:11 PM
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Beta bait. For some reason a lot of dudes have feet fetishes and drool over those pics.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 07:30 PM
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Don't knock it until you try it. Put down a towel and have at it. Mostly the girl is self-conscious, so you should be more reassuring during the act.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 07:26 PM
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Let her tell your mom about how big your dick is
/r/askTRP04/10/20 10:57 PM
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Any woman will blow a man who she perceives as high value. Regarding how "good" she is...depends on how good you are at leading her during sex.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 11:51 PM
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"Cocaine." = my go to answer whenever somebody asks "what are you doing" type questions that I dont feel like answering
/r/askTRP29/09/20 11:50 PM
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If you're a student - not a big deal since you'll see her tomorrow. In any other situation - man up and get them digits.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 09:33 PM
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Experiment with different times. Everybody's body is different.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 01:53 PM
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However many times I see a cute woman. There's no set number.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 01:50 PM
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First of all, how do you know that they're fucking? Secondly, I see that you commented that you don't care about sex, just companionship. You have a long, long way to go until you fully understand TRP. Keep reading, keep lifting, and test out a few girls for yourself.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:34 PM
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I was in the same boat as you. I registered for community college a week before the semester started. One of the best decisions of my life.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 05:18 PM
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If you had sex = yes, for safety purposes If you didn't = no, wait for her to initiate
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:13 PM
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Understand that she'll be fucking another dude soon, if she hasn't already. It's called the light-switch effect; women will love you one day, then hate or forget about you the next.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:13 PM
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Why use the internet at all? No need to Google shit when you can go the library and read an encyclopedia like a real man. Why drive a car? If you're not paraplegic, you can walk to wherever you need to go. Why have a furnace in your house? Be a real rucking man...chop a tree and burn the logs. Things change buddy. Social media and dating apps are an efficient way to display social status and meet women. But just like everything in life, there is a thin line to balance on.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 10:28 PM
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Based on this post, I imagine that your social skills need to improve. Everything you described is about your outward appearance and personality, but you didn't mention a single thing about your interactivity with others. Read "How to Make Friends and Influence People." Then implement those ideas into your social life.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 04:27 PM
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Just ignore. If she presses you, just say "I don't make comparisons."
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:37 AM
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I feel ya. Like I said, I've been there. The only advice I can give: you just gotta do it.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 02:16 AM
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I want to show I am high value so I know I shouldn't be initiating text too much Instead of "showing" that you are high value, how about you actually become high value? Spend your time being productive by lifting, reading, working, etc. You shouldn't have enough time to even ponder if texting her is the right move. Then ask yourself: do you truly want to text her? If yes, go ahead. If not, wait. You wont seem desperate if you contact her simply because you want to.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 01:54 AM
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Just drop her bro. I was in the same exact spot as you once. You'll save yourself alot of time and mental energy. One thing you need to focus on is not giving a fuck how she or anybody perceives you. You dont want to reject her because itll make you look insensitive to her. That is beta behavior and you need to work on improving that.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 01:49 AM
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Ditto
/r/askTRP14/09/20 02:37 AM
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Just stop watching porn. Quit cold turkey. Your brain will naturally readjust over time. It will take awhile but you'll get there.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 02:00 AM
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"Frame" is your personal perception of the world. If you easily allow others to impress their worldviews onto you, then your frame is weak. However, if you remain grounded in your own worldview, and perhaps even impress it upon others, then your frame is strong. Shit tests are basic examples of women testing your frame; if you flounder around, validate her, and act like a bitch, then your frame is weak and she loses attraction. But if you shrug it off or put her in her place, then your frame is …
/r/askTRP12/09/20 10:30 PM
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They post hot pics...all of the dues like it. Then they post screenshots of creepy DMs...all of the girls like it. It's a win-win for women, who inherently need validation to show that they are high-value.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 07:29 PM
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Your friend may be more "attractive," but you have better game.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 07:27 PM
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Tbh that's one of the better beards I've seen on this forum. Just keep it clean and trimmed. I would smash.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 07:24 PM
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They're making a few hundred thousand dollars a year on YouTube alone. They'll last as long as that ad revenue keeps flowing.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 01:22 AM
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"I don't kiss and tell" is my go to response for basically everybody
/r/askTRP07/09/20 08:32 PM
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Yeah and a leprechaun led me to a pot of gold yesterday.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 01:50 PM
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She's trying to pull you back into orbit. Forget about her.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 12:03 PM
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Just be friendly to everybody. Join a club. Hang in the common areas, go to parties, have fun. And most importantly, work extra hard on your studies. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:43 PM
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"Because I felt like it." This is my auto response to any question that I don't care to answer.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 01:06 PM
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What type of milk should I drink? Skim is for pussies but 2% looks like cum. I need a recommendation for cow juices to pour into my bowl of Lucky Charms every morning. Maybe 1% is a good balance...that's how much energy I use whenever I bang your mom.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 02:25 PM
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I got a Capital One card when I was 23. It had a $200 limit which increased as I used it over time. The best advice I can give you is to use it like another debit card. Do not spend more money than you have, and pay off the full amount every month. Your credit score will steadily improve then hover around "good" or "great."
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:39 AM
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Your texts seem to dry. Be silly and flirt a little next time. It puts her in your frame and gives her good feelz. Ex: "What are you looking for?" "Right now, matching socks." OR "Somebody to ride shotgun and slay dragons with me."
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:35 AM
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Bingo
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:28 AM
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Practice
/r/askTRP24/08/20 12:38 AM
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You are the center of your own world. Everything else is nonexistent until it intersects with your mission.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 08:47 PM
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No. You're describing PUA. TRP is about becoming a better and stronger man. Women are just one facet of the journey.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 02:35 AM
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You're writing gossip novels on a dating app. This generally places you in the friendzone because you're talking to her like a friend. You need to learn the bare basics of text game. I suggest watching the YouTube channel Playing With Fire...he deviates from typical TRP philosophy but I've definitely improved my dating app and texting game by watching his videos.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:31 PM
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If you want your sex tapes to be shared with all of your friends and family at some point in the future, then yeah go ahead.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 01:38 PM
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You have three options. 1) Keep trying to escalate 2) Next 3) Commit Option 1 could either be successful or an utter failure. Option 2 is the best imo because if she truly wants you, she will chase. Option 3 is the ultimate beta move...the sex is never worth it and she'll still have complete control over when it happens. The choice is yours.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 01:13 PM
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Most people in general are not free at the moment and will not go to the cafe with a stranger. Despite what other TRPers will spew. It happens very very rarely even with skilled PUAs. Get her number, cold approach more women, then contact her later. That's abundance.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 10:11 PM
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I'm 25 and recently experienced this. Check my post history. My advice: just flat out tell her. She'll most likely break down, cry, and be mad at you for awhile. Heck she may even break up with you. You have to be okay with that. Be stoic and strong. Give her the choice to leave or stay.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 07:55 PM
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Just incorporate it into your game. "I know it's not 'socially acceptable' to get this close, but..." Shows confidence and social awareness...two keys to making girls get tingly.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 07:51 PM
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Probably easier to ask for her number, then ask her out later. It eases some of the pressure when she's on the clock.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 07:50 PM
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You're trying to apply red pill thoughts to a blue pill dream (LTR). You need to understand that you could get cheated on regardless of your height, appearance, age, humor, game, etc. Don't stress about it; just live how you want to live while women come and go.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 07:48 PM
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Mild 1: had recently entered a BP relationship and realized that something wasn't clicking on my end. So I just googled simple why/how questions and ended up here.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:26 PM
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Now it's time for you to get out there and apply your newfound knowledge. Lift, develop your passions, and build relationships with women. There's only so much you can read...true learning comes from experience.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:22 PM
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I have a friend like this. Our friendship has evolved a competitive edge to it. We work together on alot of creative projects and we're always trying to one-up each other. It's healthy and highly productive because it forces me to stay on top of my game. As others have suggested, learn new hobbies and take his advice on things he's already good at. You'll bother become better for it.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:18 AM
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One major point of femininity - which coincides with TRP - is that women will exhange their sexuality for resources. This includes selling their bodies for money. Therefore, as sex work becomes more widely accepted, it becomes easier for women to fulfill this aspect of their biological instincts. Side note: I personally believe that the only reason why prostitution is illegal in the US is because the government cannot easily tax it. Think about it: theoretically, I can approach any random woman,…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:42 PM
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Start by contradicting everything that people say. If somebody observes that the sky is blue, say "No it's green." Keep doing that. At first you'll seem like a jackass but eventually you'll calibrate. It just gets you in the mindset of not caring what other people think.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 12:25 PM
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Always make it as easy as possible for a woman to fuck you. If she says "Let's hang out," you should say okay and set a time + place. Dont complicate things
/r/askTRP02/08/20 12:20 PM
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Welcome to TRP. You have much to learn. Come back in a few months and you'll be able to answer your own question. Pro tip: never ask women what they're "looking for." And if they ask you that question, just give a non answer such as "A matching sock."
/r/askTRP31/07/20 07:14 PM
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If your SMV is high enough, and you're a strong leader, many women will be attracted to you regardless. And they'll eventually develop interests/hobbies similar to yours.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 07:10 PM
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No. You should bang her then bang her again and again until either of you gets bored with the other. An alpha male does not seek revenge - especially against a woman - because he is above other people trying to bring him down.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 01:37 AM
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And did you actually go where you wanted to? Or just stand there and ogle her for a minute?
/r/askTRP27/07/20 06:50 PM
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Interesting. Worth a shot I guess, although i personally think that comes off as creepy...you have to be incredibly good looking otherwise. Find the style that suits you. I watch alot of James Tusk and all of his students start with a compliment.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 05:34 PM
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I say yes. Approach any woman who you find attractive. You just have to show social awareness. Watch PUA videos for tips. "Hey, I know this goes against social distancing norms, but i saw you walk past and thought you looked cute. So I had to say hello." Alot of TRP users talk down on complimenting women like this. But in my experience, it's the most effective way for 99% of guys to approach.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 05:29 PM
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"Yup because I dont use Tinder." Or "Only cute girls."
/r/askTRP25/07/20 08:55 PM
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Wait a week to see if she hits you up. Then send her a ping text.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 08:53 PM
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Absolutely no charisma or social ability. I bet he smells like a sewer too. Watch James Tusk instead. You'll learn alot about talking to women from him.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:35 PM
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How do you know he got laid? They could've just watched movies and eaten dinner together. I used to do that shit, although fortunately I never drive right hours...
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:05 PM
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Wait a week then send her a 'ping' text. Something short and attention-grabbing, similar to a social media post. If she doesnt respond, then she's not interested and you should delete her number.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 04:22 PM
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1) If your SMV is high enough, they'll love it. 2) Always enter the room with a "Now the party can REALLY start" mentality.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 12:10 PM
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Also I've found that acknowledging the mask puts most girls at ease. Start with something like, "I know this might not conform with social distancing guidelines, but..." I think this accomplishes a few things. 1) Builds anticipation - classic PUA move. 2) Let's her know that you're socially aware. 3) Shows confidence...you're above governmental rules.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:01 PM
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Protests. Dead serious. Tons of young hot women are going out there. It's easiest after the demonstrations are over and everybody's just milling around.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:23 PM
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I personally have been daygaming while wearing a mask. Out of respect for others mostly. If I'm talking to people who aren't wearing, I'll take it off. It hasn't affected my game at all.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 05:02 PM
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You failed when you followed her lead to "initiating another subject." You should have polarized her right then and there: "Hey we should chat about this over drinks at such and such time." If she agrees, great. If she declines, exit stage left.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 08:13 PM
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I've been journaling since my teen years. It has been extremely beneficial to help me control my emotions and reflect on past situations that lead me to where I am today. Lately I have been keeping an audio diary as opposed to writing. Sometimes it's much easier to verbalize.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 03:03 PM
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I graduated from a community college. In between classes - whenever I had a long break - I would sit in the hallway or cafeteria. Do homework, read, whatever. But I would chat up people who passed by: "Hey I like your shirt," "Don't we have X class together?" and so on. I started seeing these people again and again. Because they generally had breaks around the same time as me. So every day I would say hello and strike up convos with them. And eventually they would start hanging with me during ou…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:55 AM
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Always escalate.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 04:41 PM
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What's hilarious is that I recently saw a viral social media thread with a ton of women complaining that they hate when men call them "the wife" or "the Mrs." It was under the pretense of those phrases being misogynistic. But much of the conversation morphed into being annoyed that those men cannot think for themselves.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:24 PM
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Update: we did meet up. She was crying but I stayed cheery and cracked a few jokes. I explained to her why I don't want to become legally married. She smiled and hugged me, then said that she doesn't care about the contract either; she really just wants to have a ceremony and wear a dress that has been passed down through generations. Without prompting, she also said that she doesn't want to get "married" for at least 3-5 years anyways...which is the timeframe that I would even consider settling…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:53 PM
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That's what I have told her. I said something along the lines of...we can have a ceremony and exchange vows. That's fine. But signing that contract...nah.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 06:39 PM
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I think I do want kids eventually, which is the o ly reason why I would consider marriage. I just haven't thought about kids too in-depth yet.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 05:01 PM
10

Bro...what? You work with her and she had young kids when you LTRd? That's bold
/r/askTRP11/07/20 05:00 PM
54

Hell yeah. I saw the situation with Will Smith and thought he looked like his balls had been chopped off.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 03:29 PM
13

I'm definitely not getting married and nothing she says can convince me otherwise.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 02:22 PM
1

Perfect advice OP. Texting should be used as a tool to setup face-to-face interactions. Just stick to that rule and you'll be good. This past weekend a girl literally described me to her friend as "face-to-face kinda person" in this context. So this comment is on-point.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:26 PM
2

One practical tip is to keep an audio diary. Whenever you have some free time, record yourself telling stories. Then you can listen back later and refine your skills.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:23 PM
5

If you are 21 and truly have 18 partners, you're doing alright. Seems like your problem is folding beneath women who you perceive to be higher-value than yourself. Adjust that mindset - strive for a huge mission, keep working out, and keeping increasing your count. You'll get there.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:53 AM
6

"Alpha male" is a mindset, not a situation. It has nothing to do with status necessarily, but how a male faces adversity and overcomes challenges. The social status and recognition are a side effect because a strong, well-rounded man is somebody who every other man wishes they were. So alphas typically (not always) attract people who are within their social reach.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 09:56 PM
40

If a girl offers her social media after you specifically ask for her number, it means she's not attracted to you. She just wants to use you to boost her follower count and give her unreciprocated attention. So yes, it's a shit test.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:37 PM
1

Still easy to get her number. Much more difficult to go on "insta dates" or kiss her right there. Just approach with the mindset of getting her number and setting up logistics later.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 09:19 PM
1

Because she wears the pants in your relationship. Figuratively and literally.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:12 PM
5

No. Do not do this. Ever. This is giving her validation online which will automatically put you in the friend zone. Just message her to ask for her number, then set up a date. Simple as that. She'll either accept or reject.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:39 PM
0

1) Read the sidebar 2) Download Tinder 3) Setup a date with one of your matches. Doesnt matter if she's an ugly duckling. 4) Use what youn learned from the sidebar to escalate and get laid. 5) Repeat steps 1-5 a few times. 6) Start working on cold approaches in real life.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:37 PM
8

From my experience, many wannabe "alphas" only zero in on a few aspects of TRP. They dont understand how all aspects should compliment and round out each other. So they fail - this usually leads to then whining on the ExRedPill sub or otherwise denouncing TRP in a public space.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:45 PM
6

Your imagination
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:50 AM
0

You're partially right. People will start losing their homes really soon because they cannot afford to pay their mortgages. So there will be an abundance of houses but few buyers. Perhaps you should wait until Sept/Oct when the market does crash to scoop up some properties for cheap. They'll appreciate over time
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:24 PM
21

Real estate. $70k will take you pretty far on down payments for properties. Learn how to invest in real estate, study the market, and make a move. You buy properties and rent them out. It's a constant cash flow with huge returns.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 03:52 PM
1

"Enough."
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:49 PM
7

Hop in a time machine and travel forward a few years
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:08 AM
-1

Stop being angry and bitter with yourself.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 02:46 PM
13

It seems to me like you're insecure about another person's actions. Fix that first before you try to influence your brother. You are your own man. Be masculine, especially in pictures with him or other people.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 10:18 PM
8

Yesterday.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:47 AM
4

One if the most alpha dudes I know has been bald for years. Yet he is always the center of attention and usually has some girls hanging off of him. Just be confident regardless of how you look.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:02 PM
1

There are women everywhere. Grocery store, library, park (especially dog park), everywhere. Shiiit...I just met a few pretty girls at protests this weekend.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:33 PM
1

Until marriage.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:59 PM
4

Mixture of both. Next time you approach, take up more physical space from the get-go; this highlights your masculine physique. Also most girls are not "interested" right away. You have to catch her interest during the conversation. Make her invest by asking open-ended questions or making ridiculous assumptions. Watch some PUA tip videos.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:57 PM
3

Your next text should be a time and place. She can either accept or reject.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:22 PM
1

"I dont care what ANYBODY has to say." I've used variations of this myself. She'll pout for a few minutes but she'll come back around.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:21 PM
1

Use ALOT of lubrication and go slowly. It doesnt matter how wet she is, or whether she bleeds. Lube is your best friend right now.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 07:44 PM
2

Own it. You're both adults. She can do what she wants regardless of what her parents say. So can you. And if you two break up, there's thousands of other girls at your university.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:53 PM
2

If only there was a sidebar with links to tons of posts about Red Pill concepts...
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:48 PM
1

The action of picking up women is one small facet of TRP. PUA tactics will help you improve that specific side of your social skills. But unless your life mission is to fuck as many women as possible, PUA is basically pointless. Theres no meat on its bones. Learning it doesnt teach you how to become a better and stronger man.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:44 PM
1

Just shuffle play Lil Wayne's catalog
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:57 PM
1

Supposedly moving your tongue and passing air through the hole in your face is effective.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 12:26 PM
2

You've only seen her six times? Dude, she can still count that amount on two hands. She doesn't have an emotional connection with you. If she reaches out to you, then escalate. If not, forget about her.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:50 AM
1

You give her 2/3 attention, supposedly, but you just dumped four paragraphs about her on this thread. Which means that you are thinking about her much, much more than you should. The desperation probably translates in your conversations with her. This is fine. I've been in your shoes before. You're almost ready to advance to the next level of TRP. My advice? Keep thinking and acting toward her exactly how you are now. And when the relationship inevitably falls apart, you'll bounce back with more…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:50 AM
10

Only on Mondays
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:49 PM
52

Set up a swingers date with you and her, plus her new boyfriend and his LTR. Except you could swing from her to her new boyfriend. Seriously though, you sound overly concerned. She's trying to make you jealous. Just ignore. If you ever do find out that anything happens between them, drop her like a hit potato.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:25 PM
1

You ask: how in the world? I answer: explore the world.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:15 PM
3

Sounds like a pyramid scheme to me Edit: any "job" that requires you to pay money before you earn money is generally a bad idea.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:13 PM
9

Wow. I used to watch this dude when I first started studying TRP. Proves that frame is much, much deeper than attracting women. Take care of yourself first before you try to bring other people into your frame.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 01:44 AM
1

I've been there before. Trust me - delete them. It will save your mental health in the long run.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 01:25 PM
2

I dont recognize any of those names. Are they still around the community?
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:25 PM
5

I can tell that you're relatively new here. Welcome.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 12:09 AM
1

PUAs recommend that you maneuver around from behind a girl and say a quick hello. If she stops, position your body directly in front of her few feet (1 meter) apart. It's just like talking to one of your buddies.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:18 PM
-4

They have a spray tan, they have a haircut that hides their baldness, they constantly talk about how great they are, they received a small loan of one million dollars from their daddy...
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:24 PM
1

I've never smoked once in my life. But many of my friends smoke regularly. Heck I still get invited, and sometimes attend, smoking sessions. If somebody offers me a hit, I simply say no thanks. I'm there to chill and laugh with them. You won't lose friends if you have a strong frame.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:03 PM
1

You can't make him understand. He has to figure it out for himself.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 10:50 PM
1

I think you're referencing "ping" texts. They are low-investment messages about cool things happening in your life. Similar to a private Twitter feed.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 11:59 PM
1

This has been happening to a tee in my relationship. Good advice.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:32 PM
1

...she claims he is just a friend... I busted out singing the Biz Markie song when I read this. If you dont like that shes texting this dude, then spell out the law. If she doesnt comply, break up with her and move on.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 09:28 PM
3

Some of the most alpha men I know have unique collecting hobbies. Eveything from baseball cards to videogame figurines to 8 track tapes. It doesnt matter what you do. It's all about being passionate, sticking to your guns, and bringing other people into your frame.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 10:18 PM
1

You're considering an LTR with a woman who is cheating, with you, on her current boyfriend. Now shes creating drama. Hard next her. Damn, I understood this simple shit in my pre-RP days.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 10:15 PM
0

You don't wait for those chicks to dump their boyfriends. There's no such thing as "passive game." That's the shit beta males do. The first thing you should do instead is read the sidebar. Then you have two options. One, forget about those chicks and find some new ones to game. Two, grow some balls and approach/escalate with the chicks you want right now.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 01:15 PM
7

Do not double-text her. Just don't. That reeks of desperation. She'll text you when she wants your attention. Until then, text other girls. Or more importantly, improve yourself - sharpen a skill, read, learn a new recipe, do some excericises, anything.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 11:07 PM
2

Writing. There will always be a market for writing - blogs, copywriting, novels/screens/entertainment. It's been my side hustle for years and has paid off not only in money, but experiences.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 09:07 PM
3

Interesting. I hadn't thought of that. I think she could be convinced to accept that.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 06:30 PM
4

Text game is an advanced subject of PUA. Most people on this sub aren't ready to cross that bridge, especially considering they're still asking how to pass shit tests.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:58 PM
1

If you want to own your laughter, just be like Joaquin Phoenix's Joker
/r/askTRP22/03/20 01:04 AM
1

Recently I've been watching Two and a Half Men. Charlie Sheen pulls.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 12:27 PM
1

Yes. He might come over and try to intimidate you. Readjust your game accordingly.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 09:08 PM
13

The biggest problem is that we know very little about this virus, and do not have a vaccine to fight it yet. Everything is shutting down because everybody could become a transmitter, and hospitals simply don't have enough space or resources to accommodate tons of people at once. If anything, this pandemic has exposed our flawed health care and economical structures. Stop blaming "the media." You should be the master of your own health and happiness, regardless of how everybody else is acting.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 06:26 PM
2

Don't worry man. Most of us have been in that situation, myself included. Advice: Stop watching porn. Cold turkey, never look at it again. Lubrication makes it easier to penetrate no matter how wet she is. Buy a bottle asap. Try a different penetration approach next time. Different angle, aim lower, etc
/r/askTRP17/03/20 06:22 PM
18

One time I was on a Tinder date. The girl literally told me, word for word, that she joined Tinder after a breakup "to be a hoe." We had fun that night. At least she was upfront. Most women aren't. Just accept it.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 12:25 PM
1

Yes. I dont remember exactly because I deleted her number, but it was something like "Yep see ya." Not enthusiastic tbh
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:36 PM
1

Opportunity was there, might as well.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:35 PM
1

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Just depends on what I'm doing that night.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:33 PM
2

Interesting. It was a simple "See you later" which I usually do with all of my dates.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:42 PM
2

Thanks for the advice. I did not post any pics, but will consider it for next time.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:31 PM
3

I think the most important thing that you can do immediately is read the sidebar. Beyond that - this relationship seems like a lost cause if you are sexually attracted to her. The problem is that you've waited seven months without escalating. Next time, set the tone right from the get-go. To answer your question - no, don't tell her how you feel. Trust me, it'll save you alot of embarrassment and time. Start lifting, work on cool hobbies, and find some new women.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 12:33 PM
11

Might as well just have your mother do it instead.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 03:06 AM
9

Get out of her frame. Who cares what she thinks. Then ask yourself: do I want to give her a gift? If no, then forget about it. If yes, then what type of gift can show my appreciation for her?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 09:47 PM
4

I usually say "Excited to see you later" or something along those lines. For me like 80% confirm and I've never been stood up.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 01:40 AM
1

1) Your situation isn't "unique." 2) You text like a desperate punk. Asking what she thinks of you, sending memes, "loving" the messages, etc. 3) So no, don't hit her up on Valentines Day. She'll probably send your message to her friends and they'll make fun of you...which would upset you if you ever found out.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 02:48 AM
1

Her: "Do you believe in God?" You: "Yeah, I see him every day in the mirror." Her: shit test about being overconfident You: smile it off and invite her out
/r/askTRP04/02/20 02:41 AM
1

Not afraid - in fact it's quite entertaining to me. I'm just asking about if/how to respond in this unfamiliar (to me) situation.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 09:08 PM
3

Not Chad, but well above average. And I'm always working to maintain and improve my appearance. Good point.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 12:41 AM
2

I'm working on that too. Just figured to take a shot while it's in front of my face.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 12:39 AM
2

Norm MacDonald is a comedian who truly doesnt give a fuck. He's brilliant.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 10:08 PM
20

If you decide where to live based on how easy it would be to pick up women, you need to straighten out your priorities.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 02:58 PM
22

Lol like I said, hit or miss
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 07:13 PM
15

I currently have an FWB who is pushing for commitment. Recently she said, "Maybe I could start seeing another guy to make you feel threatened. There are some cute customers at my workplace...." That was kinda disrespectful so in my mind, it definitely set her back a few steps in terms of commitment. In the moment, I said "Cool. I bet you could." She was riding me a few minutes later.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 05:49 PM
2

"You know what they say about big egos?.....big superegos!"
/r/askTRP10/01/20 11:44 PM
5

Chances are, she didn't even remember that you matched to begin with. Don't even mention it, just escalate per usual.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:05 AM
1

Interesting. Never thought about that physical aspect. Good advice. Also I've been careful with her in terms of consent.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:07 PM
5

To be fair, she's the first virgin I've ever been with. She grew up in an extremely conservative household. I can tell she is inexperienced because she didn't even really know what a blowjob was until I taught her.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 09:00 PM
2

Having oneitis while also having abundance is impossible. Those two mindsets are contradictory. Of course, it's okay to be proud of your hottest lays. When an alpha male reflects on the 9-10s that he's been with, there isn't any feelings of yearning. Just reminiscing on the good times.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 10:58 PM
1

My closest friend -- and maybe the most alpha dude I know -- has told me multiple times about some of his problems and how he goes to therapy. Yet he still attracts people like a magnet.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 10:48 PM
2

-Lost my virginity and had more sex than I could've imagined twelve months ago -Started a new job doing something that I actually enjoy, and am making a ton of money -Wrote and performed a 30-minute music/poetry narrative -Lived my best fucking life
/r/askTRP26/12/19 12:37 AM
8

I actually laughed while reading this. C'mon man. I hope this is trolling. But if it's not: tell her the truth. If she ditches you, so be it, read the sidebar and start gaming other girls.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 03:01 AM
1

Instead of having a passive hobby (like playing videogames), have an active hobby. Create something for others to enjoy. Writing, pottery, play an instrument, dancing...these are all active hobbies.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:17 AM
5

National news? Nah, it's all bullshit. Stick with local news only. Does your city have a newspaper (online or print)? Read that to keep up with what's going on in your community. This is what affects you and what you experience on a day-to-day basis. Still, be cautious because even local newspapers are integrating more opinionated "columnists." Remember, we live in the Internet age. Every single thing is designed to get clicks, which increases advertisement revenue. Clickbait headlines, shocking…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:53 AM
6

I do this pretty frequently. Double entendre texts are amazing because if her ASD kicks in, I just shrug it off like "You keep mentioning sex, you must really want me." And then she qualifies herself and agrees to meet up. Which always leads to sex.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:26 PM
23

Step one: read the sidebar. Beyond that, here's my advice. She's coming to your place which means she wants to fuck. This should be easy unless you royally screw up (which we've all done including myself). When she arrives, offer a drink. Invite her to make herself at home. Pick a movie -- romcoms are best. Sit down and wrap your arm around her shoulders, she will most likely cuddle into you. Then just vibe. Joke about the movie a bit. Tease her. Rub her arm, play with her hair, rest your hand o…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 11:32 PM
3

Contrary to the general thought in TRP, I think texting is an essential part of building attraction. I'm decent at it. My advice: -Mostly text for logistics (80%) -Send cool life-updates, especially if you two aren't connected on social media. Quick photo and caption of what you're doing perhaps once every week or two (15%) -Rarely throw in crumbs of a conversation. If she asks "How are you," give her a short and humorous answer: "Just escaped from prison. You?" She'll laugh and send you a parag…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 10:44 PM
2

I think he meant that the girl will work around the boundaries IF you tell her what they are.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 09:51 PM
9

"Me neither. I'm pretty hard right now."
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:43 PM
2

I enjoy it, so I try it while making out. Some girls are receptive, others aren't.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:34 PM
4

Just because you see them together in public doesn't mean he's getting action behind closed doors. He could be buying her all kinds of shit and giving her constant attention.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:31 PM
1

Lately I've opened with "Hello ______________. Apparently we like each other." This was inspired by OKCupid's matching system. I've gotten a surprisingly high response rate.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 05:46 PM
3

Grab your phone, close down all messaging and social media apps, and read the damn sidebar. Once you finish that, I recommend texting her something that will immediately let her know who you are. Reference something you chatted about, or something that happened at the party, or whatever else comes to mind. If she responds, keep the text-convo lighthearted. Then setup a date (time and location). If she says she can't be there but doesn't offer an alternative, she's probably not interested. If she…
/r/askTRP15/10/19 06:57 PM
4

You lost her with the "get on your knees and worship me" line. Overkill. Even if she agrees to meet you, she'll probably flake 9/10 times. Your best bet is to ask for her phone number, which you should've done like three messages ago. Also, shorten your messages. You're typing at least twice as much as her.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:08 AM
2

Yeah to some extent, I feel bad about total betas who don't have any awareness. Recently I was at an event, and I noticed a guy chatting up a cute girl. They both seemed to be pretty into it. However, the guy walked away and actually was about to leave entirely. I caught up to him and said, "You should ask for her number." He awkwardly smiled at me and shook his head. So I said again, "Dude, get her fucking number." He thought about it for a moment but just waved me off. Uggggggggghhhhhhh....
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 06:11 PM
2

Idk. I just when my last LTR began, which is roughly the same time as I found this sub.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 07:05 PM
1

I usually make weekend plans on Wednesday...which is today. Text her and have a quick conversation. Then tell her to meet you at a place and time on Saturday. If she likes you enough, she'll accept.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 02:59 PM
5

Oh shit. Good reference. I never knew that.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 12:34 AM
148

"Don't save her. She don't wanna be saved." - Role Modelz by J Cole.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 07:40 PM
1

Yup I realize that. Definitely never an LTR. But I'm gonna enjoy the fun while it lasts
/r/askTRP15/09/19 07:44 PM
1

Yeah I already realized that lol.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 07:24 PM
18

Fuck. It makes me cringe to even think about it. During college (like 5-6 years ago) I met a girl in my class. We worked on an assignment together. Instead of being confident and asking her out, my dumbass waited until after the semester was over, then emailed her about my attraction toward her. She claimed she was seeing somebody but it wasn't serious, so she was open to going out with me. We did go on a few dates. But my gaming/escalation skills were next to zero. So she strung me along, got m…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:36 AM
2

So does your username.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:35 PM
1

Money - start a side gig, earn passive income, etc. Even if you lose your job for whatever reason, you won't be totally broke. Social situations - build a network so no matter where you hang out on any given day, you'll be likely to run into somebody you know. Male or female. If you don't know anybody, you'll be confident enough to make new friends. Hobbies - get really good at something. Be better at it than anybody you know. For example, I play chess and write creative fiction.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:35 PM
5

"Spend more time with me and experience me for yourself."
/r/askTRP03/09/19 08:07 PM
1

The best way to gain an abundance mindset with women? Gain an abundance mindset with other aspects of your life first.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:43 PM
1

Drunk texting never works. My response wasn't off-the-wall. It was an observation that deflects her ASD. Based on your replies, it seems that you aren't skilled at handling shit tests yet. Advice: sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 04:16 PM
1

Recently I got a girl's number and was trying to setup a date. I threw in a few flirty, innuendo-type texts. I never mentioned anything overtly sexual. Still, she threw shit tests at me. "I'm not trying to flat out fuck" "Not sure if you're trying to actually have a date or just want a booty call" etc. So I straight up said "You keep bringing up sex. You must really want me." Of course she tried to downplay that. But guess what? We went on the date and fucked. This is a simple shit test. Besides…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 08:31 PM
1

Thank you sir. This is very helpful advice.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:36 PM
2

Early during my last LTR, I bought her a candle with scents and colors she liked. Outside of that day, I dont recall the candle ever being brought up again... Until i broke up with her. She said how much she enjoyed the candle and how it still burns and all that crap. I was just like...wtf is she talking about? But there it is.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:46 AM
0

Contrary to what some comments on this thread claim, I think chasing for a moment is fine. Watch some PUAs, especially their instructional videos, to get a better idea of how to approach women from behind. Here's a general summary: -If you see an attractive woman, approach her from behind. A simple "Hey" or "Excuse me" will cause her to look. Immediately get in front of her. Make yourself big. Yet keep at least an arm's length between you so that she's not creeped out. -Talk deeply and slowly. "…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 05:47 PM
4

Your school. Seriously though. Get involved in a club or social group. Doesn't even have to be related to your school. Just get out and find something to do. Not only will you meet people, you'll also develop more hobbies and skills.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:30 PM
1

Maybe watching animals mate would've given me a hint...
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:47 PM
3

Omg I'm deceased
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:47 PM
2

Close -- that movie was recommended on my queue lmao. It was some stupid horror movie, don't even remember the name
/r/askTRP05/08/19 07:40 PM
1

Good question, I think I'm decent at conversing and verbally flirting. A few points: -Don't think about what you're saying. -Compliment things that you notice about her. Her nail polish, makeup, dress, whatever. If she's pretty, tell her. -Female minds jump around alot. Especially when multiple females are together. So should your conversation. If she says something, make a joke that is related to the topic, but also drastically shifts it. It's all about taking her on an emotional rollercoaster.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 07:06 PM
0

True -- I do have three dates lines up this week. One with an ugly chick (but hey, practice makes perfect). Another with an HB6 that I've hooked up with before. And one with some chick I just met off Hinge. Shit...I don't even have time for another plate right now.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 06:08 PM
4

I do care a small amount...but not because of her, but because of much of an idiot I acted. I was literally laughing out loud at myself yesterday upon thinking about my situation. I'm attracted to her, yes, but she has tons of red flags -- tats, smokes weed, takes depression meds, etc. So I ultimately do not give a fuck because our relationship would've been worth a few fucks anyways.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:54 PM
2

Hmmm...good suggestion. Hadn't thought about that.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:51 PM
7

I met her and her friend at a party. We went to a bar later. I built light kino. Typical flirting. My confidence was sky-high, and I actually approached a few other women at the party too. It was getting late and I needed to work in the morning, so we all parted. I gave her a strong hug and said that we will go on a date soon. Minimal texting for the next two days. She seemed super-eager, like I said. So I setup a date and we met at another bar that was hosting an event that I was invited to. My…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:51 PM
1

Lol now that I think about it, I did need to get up and piss a few times during the movie. Alcohol drains my bladder.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:36 PM
4

Not fear -- I wasn't nervous, and I have fucked other girls in similar situations before. Literally the thought of fucking her didnt cross my mind for some reason.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:55 PM
53

Shit. This is what I need to read. "Set an autism reminder" lmao. Im cracking up. Will do.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:43 PM
39

Lmao true. Gotta remember that for next time.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:38 PM
2

Aside from everything else in this post, here's a text game tip. If you get a girl's number, do not just text her your name. Wait a day or two after you meet her, then text a reference about something. Could be something you both witnessed, an inside joke, etc. Put your name at the end. If the reference was truly memorable, and she is interested in you, she will respond.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 08:36 PM
1

Wait a few days then "ping" her. Which means text her a low-investment, social-media-esque update. Could be something odd or funny that you saw. Could be a compliment. Could be a very short story. Just send something interesting. If she responds, the window is open. Climb inside and use text to build attraction, then setup a date. However, if she ghosts you, delete her number and move on.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 07:19 PM
1

Fitting in with society is the textbook definition of blue pill. You admitted that is why you use social media -- to "fit in better." An alpha male does not follow trends; he sets them. An alpha male has fun or gets "lit" no matter where he is. An alpha male meets women in real life as opposed to being teased through a screen. An alpha male discovers his own passions through personal experience. An alpha male doesn't fit in, others fit in with him instead. An alpha male is social minus the "medi…
/r/askTRP05/07/19 06:47 PM
1

I just glanced at my Tinder profile. Honestly I don't invest much energy into it, just something to do when I'm bored. Overall I have 37 matches. I never messaged 15 of them. So among the 22 that I have messaged to some degree, I've met exactly 1 woman.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 07:00 PM
5

It's similar to making out, just with more licking. Don't be shy to suck or feel around with your tongue. Start slow and sensual. Keep your hands active and use your fingers when your mouth needs a break.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 06:51 PM
3

Well...shit
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:46 PM
1

Political consulting. I am heavily rooted in my local political scene and believe I can capitalize on that. (It's different than small nonprofit politics lol). My vision is to provide membership-based services that help candidates run for office, connect citizens to their representatives, and overall increase engagement -- my city had 31% voter turnout in our last citywide election. Stuff like printing and distributing campaign literature, hosting parties, instructional classes for people who wo…
/r/askTRP07/06/19 07:09 PM
1

Yup
/r/askTRP07/06/19 03:40 PM
2

TRP is all about individualism, right? As an budding alpha male, therefore, you shouldn't care what any other person does. If a complete stranger has an abortion, that doesn't affect you at all. Furthermore, you should take necessary precautions to prevent situations happening in your personal life. If you don't even want the possibility of becoming a father, then don't impregnate your partner. Conversely, if you DO want to become a father, then impregnate a woman who sincerely wants to become a…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 01:53 PM
2

Because a true alpha male doesn't care about superficial labels. He simply knows who and what he is regardless of how others perceive him. In my eyes, there are three levels of progression: 1) Being a beta 2) Thinking about how to become alpha 3) Being alpha I imagine you are in phase two, based on this topic. And that's okay; I was too at one point. But it consumed my thoughts. I dissected every interaction I had with other people, especially women. Like 'did I act alpha toward her?' And so on.…
/r/askTRP25/05/19 07:51 PM
1

Don't label your personality as "alpha" or "beta."
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:39 PM
1

Before I even heard of TRP. I matched with a girl, got her number quickly, and setup a dinner date. Everything seemed to be fine. I arrived at the restaurant a few minutes early. Order a drink and wait. Some time passed but she never showed up. I thought she flaked, so I was about to pay my bill and leave. She texted me and said she fell asleep, apologized, she'll be there soon. Okay. I should've left regardless, but I was still blue pulled and so I stuck around. She eventually came. I would've …
/r/askTRP20/05/19 02:26 AM
1

That photo depicts you from the past. It doesn't affect anything in the grand scheme. You have grown since then. Improved yourself. Lost weight. You are more knowledgeable, experienced, and mature at this exact moment that you were during any other point of your life. Laugh it off and continue working toward your mission.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 06:57 PM
1

Either you're ten-years-old, or a troll. I can't tell.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 06:46 PM
1

Become a magician. Dead serious. That's what I did when I was around you age. Solves a bunch of issues. One, gives you something to spend time doing. Two, you make money. Three, you meet tons of girls. Four, performing in front of strangers totally increases your confidence. Boom.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 08:34 PM
0

"When you figure out that you like me more than him, hit me up." Then contact another woman who is interested in you...and single. Girls hate it when attractive guys such as yourself move on to somebody else. As one of the comments has already stated, she will reach out when the time is ripe.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:34 PM
1

Good points. It never crossed my mind that it could be a shit test. I meant I have a strong understanding of lining up dates, figuring logistics, etc. Still improving my escalation and game skills for sure.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:10 PM
1

Sounds like a situation I experienced during Valentines weekend. The next morning she said she didn't want to see me again. So I shrugged and went about my business. Then later that day she texted me saying that maybe she was overthinking, she wants to see me again, etc. She was all over me for awhile, but I recognized that she probably was BPD, so I ignored and deleted her contact info. Haven't seen her since. Although literally yesterday I noticed that she viewed my LinkedIn profile. I'm just …
/r/askTRP01/04/19 02:49 PM
2

OrzhovPalatine beat me to it. And he nailed the major points. Generally, TRP followers loathe politics because government inherently limits personal freedom -- which "alphas" don't agree with. However, I fucking LOVE politics. I'm seriously involved in my local and state government. I worked on a state representative campaign in 2018 and will probably do it again in 2020. My local election happens in 2021, so I will work on a City Council campaign then. And I may run for office myself at some po…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 06:32 PM
2

Wetter than a melting glacier ​
/r/askTRP14/03/19 07:28 PM
2

Hmmm....possibly. I don't know much about that, honestly. Is that caused by sexual trauma?
/r/askTRP14/03/19 07:27 PM
1

First of all, never allow memes to influence your political views. Don't even look at them, just scroll past. They're all one-sided drivel. Somebody else could post the exact same thing slamming the other side; it's just a matter of which memes you see more often. With that said, government is a necessary function of society. You don't need to be interested in it, but you should understand it as a tool to help you accomplish large-scale goals within your community. So interact with your represen…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 08:55 PM
1

The only difference between 7s and 8s is your perception of their attractiveness. That's literally it. Nothing else. Understand yourself first, then you will become much more successful with women. Also, don't care about what your classmates think. Once you graduate, you'll only see 99% of them at reunions. Life is much bigger than school.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:56 PM
6

Swipe-dating apps are just a tool for women to validate themselves. Notice how the majority of them post Insta/Snap usernames -- they simply want more followers. You should try actual sites that require users to fill out information about themselves. Interests, hobbies, background, etc. Generally those women are more invested and will be more likely to meet you. But yes, you should always improve your real-life game. That's a skill that will always benefit you.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:10 PM
2

Just reading your post, it seems like you don't have many hobbies/passions. So find a few activities that you genuinely enjoy doing, and try to become the best. Just a few years ago, I felt in a similar situation. I'm 24 now and am having the best time of my life. Why? Because I developed some hobbies that keep me focused on tangible goals. For example, I dove headfirst into local politics; worked for a campaign, and will do so again in 2020. I've made tons of friends through this hobby and it a…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:31 PM
3

A major aspect of being an alpha male is knowing what you want, and achieving it. So figure out what you want. Start off on a smaller scale. You want to hangout with your friends? Do it. You want to go to the gym? Go lift some weights. You want to be left alone after coming home from work? Tell your LTR that, and ignore her if she tries to get your attention. Doing what you want on a small scale will help you determine your desires for larger concepts (such as continuing your relationship).
/r/askTRP18/02/19 02:13 PM
1

I understand that. I'm just tryna figure out why she got so defensive.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:58 PM
1

Why do you think she's crazy? I've met crazy women before, and she's not.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 04:38 PM
1

Recently broke up with an LTR. I discovered TRP toward the beginning of our relationship. However, I think I opened up too much, which caused her interest to decline. So I dumped her and haven't looked back. Always learning. Right now I'm in acquisition mode. Actually have a date lined up for tonight. Some girl who matched on a dating site. She messaged me first and initiated our meetup. She lives out-of-state (hence why I didn't contact first) but is in-town this weekend. We're gonna have some …
/r/askTRP15/02/19 05:12 PM
1

Sounds like you need to work on your online game. I just recently re-downloaded some apps after deleting them for awhile. Within two days, I've already gotten a handful of matches on both Tinder and Bumble. Setup a date for this weekend with one particular match. I think I'm an average-looking guy. Maybe 7/10. But looks aren't everything, It's your attitude and how you present yourself. In some regard, online dating is similar to cold-approaching. But in many other ways, it's drastically differe…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 09:18 PM
2

This was to initiate the breakup. Exclusivity talk was totally different.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:52 PM
4

Nah. It's not like that. Good looking out, though.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 02:44 AM
2

Not sure if you're a troll, or the most beta dude on this forum. You're "falling in love" with a girl who you don't have face-to-face interaction with. Have you even met her at some point in your life? ​ I guarantee after every phone conversation you have, she immediately contacts another guy in some way. Just accept that. ​ You should adventure around your new town, make new friends, and find a few women who catch your eye.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 05:30 PM
1

Good points. One thing I struggle with is leading her versus becoming too attached. I think in many situations, I have done a decent job of leading her. Taking her places that i would go to regardless, making decisions, etc. But I haven't felt much investment from her in return. And within the past few months, she's acted somewhat distant. I'm just...bored of her, and she acts as though she's bored of me too.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:43 AM
0

"I bet two people who want to kill each other have crazy fun sex. So do you want to kill me?"
/r/askTRP06/12/18 09:25 PM
1

I haven't replied yet. That's why I'm asking for advice. I might ignore her or just switch the subject.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 07:02 PM
2

You're in college -- you could walk down a hallway and meet three new people who never knew you existed. Strike up a conversation with somebody. Abundance mentality applies to more than picking up women. ​ I attended a community college. I understand that's much different than university (less students, smaller campus, etc). I would sit in the hallway during my freetime in between classes. Read a book, do homework, whatever. You wouldn't believe how many people I met by just sitting there. After…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 08:25 PM
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Dude...chill. As others have pointed out, your hamster is spinning like crazy. Here's my advice. You are concerned about her adding dudes on social media. The simple counteract is have attractive women add YOU! Not only does this keep you occupied (as opposed to stalking your LTR's profile), but your LTR will see other women chasing you -- and thus you will become more desirable to her. Of course, you must interact with other women during your day-to-day life for this to happen. Always game othe…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:54 PM
1

Nah doesn't hurt. Everything still works properly too. Just dry. Haha thanks for the tip
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:51 PM
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