Hoping you guys could give me some advice here. Id appreciate it. A little background about LTR. I’ve known her since last November. She’s 26. Good looking and finishing up rotations as a PA. She initiated relationship talk probably 8 months ago. I decided to make her my LTR. We moved forward. We see each other 1-2 a week. Mostly on weekends.

There are some things about her though that I question and don’t like. I know we all have different standards when it comes to this. One thing is. I don’t know anything about her sexual past. I fuck her really good and try to be spontaneous in the bedroom and unpredictable. She enjoys it and I make her cum but something feels weird. Most girls I’ve Fucked really good will always give me some feedback on how great the sex was. Not her. She doesn’t bring up anything about her exes. She did say a long time ago that she has been screwed over in the past. That’s all. I didn’t say much about it and we changed the topic.

Another thing. We don’t like a clingy needy girl but sometimes she acts distant. I don’t know if this is so she doesn’t come off ass annoying and being that gf that texts their bf throughout the day ? So we do keep texting to a minimum. When we do text she answers like every half hour. Not sure if done on purpose to make it look like she’s busy and not eager to write back to me. (I know we all keep our phones with us 24/7). When we do hang out she does give me her full attention and RARELY touches her phone. I’ve noticed she puts it on silent and on my nightstand. Not sure if this is sketchy behavior. If she does take her phone out to look at funny pics or dog videos or whatever on Instagram. I mind my own business and look at mine.

She is an attractive girl but she doesn’t post much on Instagram or Facebook which is good. She isn’t an attention whore. But obviously she does get guys here and there following her on social media and probably messaging her. Which she also never talks about and I’ve never snooped around her inbox or even looked at her phone. Lately I’ve seen more than usual activity on her social media. Guys from school and different hospitals that she’s rotating to have been adding her. I don’t know if they find her on Instagram because they have her phone number or what. I don’t ask if she’s giving her number out. I don’t ask anything and she doesn’t talk about it. She keeps her phone away when she’s with me so now I start to think maybe she’s being sketchy or hiding something.

Last week she tells me how some kid at the gym went up to her and her sister that she was working out with at the time and made small talk and asked them for their Instagram. LTR said “I don’t really use mine but my sister does” bla bla blah. I then see that the dude added LTR on instagram. I don’t know if she lied to me but whatever. She is good looking and will get guys adding her but what I don’t like and she did this the other day is go and request a couple of guys herself first. I think they are in school with her. Then I see that she becomes friends with one of them on Facebook as well. And then I notice that her relationship status on Facebook said single. Idk if she never changed it when she became LTR. So this seems to me like sketchy behavior to me. I read another post on here about how keeping a status as single on social media means she’s keeping her options open. I know we all have different views on this. So anyway. This was two Fridays ago. We were supposed to hang out the following day, Saturday but I soft nexted her without saying anything and didn’t answer any of her “what time am I seeing you today babe?” texts or phone calls. She texted me like 4 more times asking if I was okay and why I was ignoring her. She also texted me Sunday asking if I was free that night. I didn’t answer her.

I just want to know if soft nexting her for what it looked like some dread game from her part was right. I ended up telling her to come over the next weekend. She brought dinner. And it didn’t take long for her to ask why I didn’t answer her for a week.