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She likes you. You fried her hamster and showed outcome independance. Give it one more shot. Don't bring up the commitment issue. Just press kino like it never came up. You'll likely get through this time. If not, soft next.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:39 PM
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3 days of each. One day of rest.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:27 PM
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Lift, read, find sports and activities where you have teammates or belong to a group. Cultivate social relationships. Go on activities and adventures with groups of friends.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 06:09 PM
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This hair is tied to high T which boosts sex drive in both genders.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 06:01 PM
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You were strong and direct. But it seems ... harsh ... crushing other people's feelings shouldn't be something to brag about. Seems you could have been a bit less autistic about the whole thing.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 12:13 AM
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What's impressive, and difficult for me to understand, is how you can go from having oneitis to plating her and not having any emotions and being OK with her hooking up with other dudes. I wish I could do that. Not strong enough I guess.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 05:15 PM
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Awesome post. I can definitely relate. In a painful LTR right now. Very similar, minus suicide element.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 08:37 PM
9

I guess the upside is your misguided obsession led to a ton of self improvement. So in the end, maybe it was for the best.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 08:04 PM
1

I'm a software engineer. I work for a corporation. I hate it. But I haven't figured out how to break out. My skillset primarily requires me to work for others. Mainly large corporations. They don't all suck equally. Some are OK to work for. Some not so much. But they all suck your soul away.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 07:31 PM
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Absolutely. I used to just tell girls to meet me at the beach where I was playing ball. They'd come, have a beer, watch me glisten and run around. No cost to me. They were wet by the time I was done. EZPZ.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 11:08 PM
1

What the fuck kind of Mickey Mouse work environment is this?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 07:55 PM
1

Don't make bluff's or give untimatum's you're not prepared to follow-up on. You could have took one step and grabbed her from behind. That would have been the proper timing for push-pull AND gave here the feelz. You could have closed this EAZY. You went a bit autistic.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 07:56 PM
1

Lift Heavy, eat lot's of protein, get sleep. There's millions of articles on this.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 11:48 PM
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Always value male friendships over easy lays. Bro's before ho's sounds silly but it's a solid tenant. You did the right thing. Maybe it's time to intro your homie to RP.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 07:04 PM
1

I don't know why I like these FR's so much. Maybe it's the honesty and tenacity.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 04:57 PM
1

My GF has a ton of orbiters. These guys are so pathetic. She has this fat one. She was in the shower the other day and I was looking at her phone. She had sent him a text basically telling him that we had already banged 3 times that afternoon with a picture of me she took from behind when I wasn't looking. I can't imagine EVER being in that position. The orbiter mindset just blows my mind.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 11:14 PM
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They know they're average so they're more skeptical about your interest. They can probably tell you're gonna pump and dump.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:11 PM
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Sounds like a good girl. Maybe give her a little bit of security. Dread is intended work as a subtle undercurrent. Not a tsunami you beat your girl over the head with. Sounds like she deserves a little more comfort from you.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:09 PM
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If they're serious, she's changed, and they have a future don't tell. If you think she's still fooling around then do tell.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 10:19 PM
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If she got butterflies the first time she saw you you're pretty much in. You can play this just about any way you like as long as you don't fuck up. Keep it simple, stay attractive, go at your won pace. You're in no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 09:23 PM
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That's not a bad idea. Building muscle takes time. But once you're ready to slim down it can be done much faster with a good Keto Diet and exercise. Besides, muscle is the best fat burner. Good luck.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 05:06 PM
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I went through something similar. Playing football in college, I graduated jacked. Lotta heavy lifiting and I was 215 lbs at 5'9. No fat. Just muscle, especially in lower body. Since then, I've transformed into more of a swimmer / beach volleyball player physique. I still have muscle but it's much more proportional and you can see veins everywhere, even in my abs, which I love. I've found, that the "Athletic" physique gets better results than the "Power Lifter" or "Silverbck" physique. But that'…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:04 PM
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I agree. There's no upside to ruining their trip and it will probably be easier for you as well to tell them once you've had a couple days to digest the situation.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 05:11 PM
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I'm sorry brother. Time heals all wounds. Most of us have been through this. I have. I know how you feel. Take a couple weeks to digest. Adopt a puppy, preferably from a shelter or rescue. Hang on pics of your old pup. Honor and remember him. You'll be OK. He was lucky to have you and lived a better life than most homeless dogs or dogs in other parts of the world.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 05:09 PM
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He doesn't have to be ONLY interested in sex to seek intimacy with someone he's dating. Just like he's not ONLY interested in food but will probably want to share a meal and go to dinner at some point. Try telling your man he's not allowed to eat around you and see how long it lasts. Guys who have options will want to enjoy life and the person they're with. Not go one some pilgrimage of suffering and abstinence to prove themselves to someone who may or may not be worth it in in the end. Once you…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/19 07:18 PM
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Jeesus. You sound so height obsessed.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 06:29 PM
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Agreed. So concisely perfect and accurate. No explanation needed.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 10:18 PM
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Most high value guys will not play along with this charade. But good luck if it works for you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/19 10:54 PM
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ying MUDs, and I wrote scripts to bot and cheat on them in Emacs Lisp. My first memory corruption exploit was in a MUD as well. I've been a software engineer for 2 decades but guys like you impress the shit out of me. Next level genius and passion that I can't comprehend.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 05:32 PM
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I don't think fucking another dude is a shit test. She cucked you and you played along.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 08:20 PM
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Needed this. Looking for a new place to live right now. Lot's of meeting people and discussing rent, etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 06:58 PM
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Agreed. Show that you can lead and make decisions. When I was young, I thought being laid back and flexible and letting them pick the restaurant, movie, etc was a sign of generosity and putting their preferences before yours. Chivalry, if you will. Now I know better. They also like it when you have a plan and prepare for that plan ahead of time. I.E. You decided you're going for a picnic but you also make sure you had all the necessary stuff to make it fun and comfortable.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 07:49 PM
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Most painful thing I've ever read here.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 11:04 PM
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This is a travesty. I get angry just reading it.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 12:54 AM
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I think he wants advice about the potential rape allegation which is no joke.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 09:11 PM
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Wow! Excellent write up. While I've been aware of this, the "Fractionalization" bit and stock market comparison give me even more insight and grasp. Thanks brotha.
/r/askMRP14/02/19 11:45 PM
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It's great that you took a shot. But also give some thought into why she said no. Maybe she's just a bitch, maybe she's shy. But maybe it's your body language, appearance, eye contacts, speech, mannerisms, etc. Don't blame her. If you do, you'll never take accountability and improve yourself. Work on YOU. It will get easier.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 06:32 PM
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I love stories like this. Stories that highlight the evolution of a man's mind (rather than stories about how an HB 6.2 touched your arm when you made her laugh). Good for you bro. Keep on keepin' on.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 08:44 PM
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Stories like these are ten thousand times more important than a FR about someone getting touched in the forearm by a HB7.675 LOL! I just spit my coffee all over my monitor.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/19 09:53 PM
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Excellent write up. I've gone through periods of immense productivity and stagnation as well. I look back and chalk it up to age, naivete', circumstances, etc. You hit on something I've been pondering a lot: he more concerning issue is that my slump mirrors the upbringing and lifestyle of millions of millenials and Gen Z's. A lifestlye of abundant comfort, with excess availability of cheap dopamine hits while baron of any meaningful direction. What this leads to is hordes of men hitting adulthoo…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/19 09:50 PM
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There's no mention of athletics or physical endeavors on that graphic. Seems incomplete. My mission is to be a competitive athlete and be fit. I has served me well by keeping my mind and body sharp. Keeping me in great shape, and tons of great social connections.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 06:01 PM
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I have a pet theory that cannabis puts you into a feminine frame. It also lowers discipline. I don't understand how or why but I have noticed it many times. Very true. I noticed this too. Almost like "Oh, so THAT is what such and such looks like to girls."
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 11:25 PM
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Weed is the biggest game killer for me. All my charm, wit, and confidence goes out the window. It causes me to overthink and worry instead of free flowing and having outcome independance. It DOES occasionally help when a girl is already into you because you focus on them more intently and I tend to be too aloof at times. But for initial approach and building attraction it can be kryptonite.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 08:10 PM
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As someone who's been on both sides of a lot of interviews, I can say that a lot of it depends on who's interviewing you. But natural intelligence, charm, wit, and expertise the job / role go a long way.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 08:44 PM
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In my experience, high T can sometimes really strengthen and exacerbate cases on oneitis. Not the kind where you long for someone you can't have. But the kind where you fall head over heals for someone due to insane sex and chemistry.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 08:38 PM
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I read this some place. It's not mine and it's not very TRP-ish but worth a gander: I can feel you, I've been where you are or rather am. Honestly, it never goes away, that feeling you get when you know she's not yours anymore, it never goes away. It just becomes less and less over the time. I still have that feeling sometimes, even though it's been over 3 years since we went our separate ways. And trust me, it's not as bad a feeling it may seem like it is now but over the time it will be a happ…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 08:29 PM
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This post goes great with my morning coffee. Thanks OP.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 05:09 PM
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The 2 mindsets that I find most disturbing are the religious dogma of Islam and the cultural norms of East Asia. And these 2 atrocities blend nicely in Malasia.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 06:56 PM
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The 2 mindsets that I find most disturbing are the religious dogma of Islam and the cultural norms of East Asia. And these 2 atrocities blend nicely in Malasia.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 06:56 PM
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I think he's confusing the "Cold" in "Cold Aprroach" with the "Cold" in "Hot Cold" technique. Cold approach doesn't mean you approach her and treat her "Cold" the whole time. It just means you walk to to a stranger you don't know and initiate an interaction. Now, within that interaction you can use "Hot / Cold" but that's a different concept entirely.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 06:49 PM
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I'm grateful that we live in a society where food is so readily available the there's an obesity epidemic. Entertainment is so readily available most men spend their spare time on the couch. Porn is so readily available most men don't care to or develop the skills to date real women. It makes life so easy for the rest of us. Use Hypergamy to your advantage and profit.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 05:40 PM
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LOL! Coke can be therapeutic if used correctly.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 05:31 PM
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There are a lot of very advanced transplant surgeries that can give you back your own growing hair. Couple of my friends have done it and it looks 100% natural as it's your own growing hair. Not a wig or tupe' or anything. If you have a nice, round, symmetrical head without bumps or abnormalities, you can rock a pretty hot bald look. I've been doing this the past 10 years. Love it. Ladies love it. Just shave it in the shower with a razor, keep it moisturized, and slightly tanned with sun or tan …
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:36 PM
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Don't treat your life like a cyclical bodybuilder. Dial in your nutrition. You can be lean and build muscle as the same time. You don't have to spend half your life overweight just to bulk up.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:23 PM
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Might have a point there. I honestly don't know the dynamics of a caveman in love.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 06:27 PM
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Why the hell would you want to hit a girl that's built like a sliverback?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 06:27 PM
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I think we're in agreement. Beer with the lads, poker night, boys trips, long days at the office, work travel, gym, etc. did not exist in caveman days. Men were wired to hunt and protect regardless. A shitty attitude by your female would give you ZERO incentive to provide her with more resources or protection. There was no divorce industry, no moral code, no shame in the community. I just don't think a cave woman would drive ANY benefit by being a cunt to her man and the father of her children.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 07:27 PM
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So, yeah, why on earth don't milk him for all he's got for a year or two? I get this in the modern context but not sure what it would translate to in caveman days. Other than fighting off predators and bringing home the meat, what can he do? How would being a harpy influence that? Without complex language and social constructs I don't even know how a female COULD be a harpy.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 07:09 PM
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Who care if he's Alpha or Beta. Perhaps he is Beta like most academics. I think his ideas and more importantly his ability to communicate them are top notch. Being beta doesn't make him evil, stupid, or useless. Not everyone relishes in the need to be alpha.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 11:19 PM
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This means, the more women you've been with, the stronger oneitis can become I agree. Got hit HARD by oneitis in the middle of a raging abundance phase. Didn't expect it and got completly blind-sided.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 11:40 PM
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Some psychologists consider BPD as just an extreme form of female personality, as autism is an extreme form of male personality. Makes sense to me. Dang, that is so concise and on point. Never looked at that way but that nits the nail on the head perfectly!
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 05:36 PM
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Unless you're trying to seduce and fuck these dudes I don't really see what the problem is.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 12:20 AM
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If you're not trying to hit it, why are you even here?
/r/askTRP14/12/18 12:19 AM
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DGAF and pissing people off to the point of getting in fights are 2 totally different things. You DGAF if you strike out or if she loses interest. But your standards for how a decent human being and a calm confident alpha behave are what will keep you from getting in fights. DGAF does not mean being an asshole, offending people, and instigating fights. You have to actually go out of your way to make those things happen which means you're trying too hard.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 12:17 AM
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Ofcourse there will always be people smarter, richer, better looking, etc. You're not trying to be #1 in everything. Just be a top 20% male. Be well rounded. The confidence and experience come with time and effort. Get out there, put the work in, meet people, strike out, get rejected, rinse, repeat. It will get easier.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 12:15 AM
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That's a helluva stack!!! Guess as long as you need it. Where do you live? There's a TRT clinic where I live that will give you Test, HCG, and Anastrozol for $150 a month. Also covers blood tests for free. They're great and test EVERYTHING in your blood and monitor it all to make sure you're dialed in. Message me, I can give you the info. The franchise has offices in other cities too so hopefully there's one near you. Also, what's your thoughts on Pregnonalone? I see you take it.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 12:05 AM
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You keep using the term "making a move" like it's huge, cataclysmic, and toxic. Just start with simple jokes, conversation, and humor. Calibrate and adjust accordingly. It's not like jumping into a pool. You don't have to go all in all at once.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 10:57 PM
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I think you can pretend or fake it all you want. But to truly internalize it you have to have success with women, receive IOI's, and hear them tell you how they feel about you enough times until you believe it.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 09:20 PM
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It's true. I've had many female friends speak ill of their exes but when I meet the guy he seems pretty normal. And then I figure out she only resents him because he did not comply with her dreams and demands.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 05:47 PM
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You seem pretty self aware. Bless you. I don't think I could be happy in this type of situation.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 05:32 PM
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That dude has no fuckin pride or self respect. Shamelessly advertising to the world that he's addicted to a kid's game and allowing it affect his family life and standing with his LTR. Just pathetic. She's terrible too. But the type of standard default terrible which we all know about. But he's a rare beta.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 05:22 PM
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There's 2 of you and 1 of her. Not saying this will save you. But it's better than if there was just 1 of you and 1 of her. You'd really be done then.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 12:16 AM
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That's a pretty blatant mistake. What you did basically violated DSWYE. But on a male to male level.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 07:35 PM
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The problem with this is that if you're intentionally being beta she may resent you or view you as prey. Some women are not just neutral towards beta males. They're downright hostile. So you don't want to be blatantly beta at work. You want to be an alpha who keeps enough distant to always have plausible deniability and not get into sticky situations.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 05:26 PM
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Endless self critique. I've definitely mastered that.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 06:14 PM
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Even when she looks like a unicorn, be faithful to the red pill, not her. It is your doctrine, your spirituality, your one true faith. This is the last, final, & biggest hurdle for me.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 06:09 PM
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Pretty healthy way to look at things. Despite my TRP ways, I can't help but think that I would have felt some degree of "Kick in the gut" from learning all this. You're a better man than I am for staying so level headed and on point. I probably would have done the same thing you did but I wouldn't have been so matter of fact about it on the inside.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 06:08 PM
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Tell her you're not ready to share that part of your life yet. Makes you look mysterious. Once you make her cum hard, it won't matter.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 11:56 PM
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It has NOTHING to do with the hickey. Likely just found a new shiny object. Happens. Move on.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 08:52 PM
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shit / comfort test. Respond with nuclear humor. i.e. "I pick people how are good in bed." etc.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 08:50 PM
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Thailand. Hit the Islands in the gulf. Koh Samui, Koh Tao, Koh Phangan.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 08:48 PM
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I once negotiated a $30K raise but that was by saying that I had an offer from another company (which was true) paying me $30K more (not quite true). The pres approved it on the spot. It was a ballsy move but it paid off. You need to know your true value to them or at least how they perceive your value. You also need to understand how much power the guy you're talking to actually has. He may be your boss, but in a bigger company, he may have ZERO power in getting you a raise cuz it's all set by …
/r/askTRP06/12/18 08:47 PM
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You haven't even met this girl so no, you're not being cucked ... YET. See her once, if she still wants to see other guys then you have to decide if it's something you can tolerate or not.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 08:42 PM
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I don't think she's being malicious. You can either ignore it, flip it on her (make fun of her when she does it), or tell her it bugs you but that's a little beta.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 08:41 PM
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It's OK to give her control in bed as long as it's not 100% of the time. Give her periods of control. But make sure you also take over and fully dominate her. They like the dichotomy but it can't be one-sided ALL the time.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 08:36 PM
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You can gain a few cm / inches by wearing the right shoes on adding a wedge inside your shoe if you think it helps.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 08:28 PM
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If she had just #MeToo'd them like a proper modern girl we'd have none of these holly wars and priests dicking down young boys.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 07:48 PM
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I wouldn't have done it. Not because all women are evil. But people change. She's not a terrible person. She's just terrible for me because we're so different now. I would have waited 'til I was 40 to get married. I would have compromised on NOTHING. I would have known what to look for.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 11:44 PM
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Supporting wifey and 2 kids for 15 years.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 11:41 PM
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True. I'm a software engineer and although there's a lot I hate about the industry, it's afforded me a great lifestyle. If I'd been smarter about marriage earlier in life I'd be a millionaire by now.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 08:45 PM
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Excellent point. We sometimes disregard this phenomenon in relationships but it helps to keep it in context. The oneitis you didn't even know 6 weeks ago is suddenly the center of your universe. Yet you managed to live happily for decades not even knowing she existed. Obviously, your mind is messing with you. This really helps put it in perspective.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 07:33 PM
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I'm a software engineer. The industry has changed a lot in the last 20 years. I used to love solving problems and optimizing architecture. Now it's become some assembly line which companies throw offshore monkey developers at. No room for well-rounded, experienced, full-stack engineers to make the $ they used to. Whatever job you do get, will be very unfulfilling. The closest metaphor I can use is this: Imagine you love cars. You build and repair cars. You build custom cars for your customers. Y…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 06:10 PM
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Let this one go. Not worth it and you're not ready.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:29 PM
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I made the mistake of living for my family's expectations and found myself in a shitty situation by 40. Career and wife I didn't want, but 2 kids that I love and now stuck since I put them first. I teach my son to live on his own terms. Do what's important but know that you do it for yourself. Not me. Not your mom. Don't EVER make major life decisions to please others. You're only accountable to you (until you have kids) so take care of yourself first.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:28 PM
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If you're living at home at 24 you have waaaay bigger problems.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:23 PM
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You got one more year of this shit. And then you get a new lease on life. Be more careful during the #MeToo era. For the time being, focus on working out and getting into a good college or trade school if you know what you want to do. Also, make friends outside of school. Gym, other schools, etc. It won't be easy or perfect but it might suffice and get you through the next year.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 07:57 PM
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LOL! That's so bad it's good.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 07:52 PM
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Dude. This is corporate america, not a club. You're not trying to game her. You're trying to save your career. Don't listen to this idiotic bro advice. STFU, and let it pass.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:40 PM
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Not in this #MeeToo era
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:38 PM
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That was autistic as fuck dude. What are you thinking. Don't socialize with people at work like that. At this point, just STFU and pretend it didn't happen. Not guaranteeing that it will fix things but ANYTHING ELSE you do is just pouring gasoline on the fire. And for christ's sake don't even look at, let alone talk to, the amazon cunt. Ignore the fire and hope it burns out on it's own before it burns you.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:36 PM
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Nothing. Forget it. She's just worried about her status next to yours. It's in your favor.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:31 PM
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I actually find these field reports of beginners overcoming minor obstacles more refreshing than the "I banged 3 girls in 1 night" reports. I would only offer 1 minor criticism. The shit test about "Do you take all girls there?". For a slightly more proper and conservative girl like this, you don't want to come off too arrogant or aloof. A slightly better response for THIS type of girl would have been "Only the ones I really like." For a more advanced / slutty girl, your response was perfect. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 06:23 PM
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Respect. In retrospect, do you feel that such EXTREME measures were the ONLY way to get to your goals? Would you advise your son to do the same thing? Or pass on your wisdom to him in order to SPARE him the same suffering?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 06:03 PM
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I'm too dang horny to go into Monk mode and stay focused. Eventually sex will saturate my thoughts and I'll be ready to explode. A good fuck sesh gives me peace and a good nights sleep and those 2 things are pivotal to my health and sanity. So I'm not gonna mess with them.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 06:00 PM
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You can be honest without sounding angry, hurt, or toxic. You can make your point without being negative. "I was bit surprised to hear about this given that I'm helping X with his tasks every day. But I respect the company decision."
/r/askTRP30/11/18 09:02 PM
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You've both moved past that line with a couple more correspondences. DO NOT even bring it up. There's NO graceful way to do this without seeming weird, anal, apologetic, nervous, try-hard. Even if you somehow, manage to correct your mistake miraculously, you're basically saying "Hey, when I said you're pretty, I didn't mean it." Which is equally terrible. LET IT GO. You'll have plenty more chances to be smooth and demonstrate value down the line.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 08:59 PM
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You can imply it without being crass, giving them plausible deniability, and not setting off their ASD. It equally efficient and time saving but much higher success rate.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 08:46 PM
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Veins amplify pussy wetness exponentially ;-)
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 08:42 PM
1

If you haven't banged, soft next.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:41 PM
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You can try from time to time without too much investment.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:41 PM
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LOL !!!!!
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:40 PM
22

Yes. Open his eyes and introduce him to TRP. Tell him to lift and shave his head. Baldness aint' shit. He'll be happier than your mom in 3 years. Also, your mom is banging someone at her college. Sorry bro. Guessing you already knew.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:39 PM
0

I've gotten some useful insights before. Having female friends can be beneficial.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:36 PM
3

If you really feel it and want to nurture the relationship, give her some positive feedback, and move things along then tell her. If you don't want things to get heavy then don't tell her. Assuming that you're doing things correctly and being the man with solid frame & game, then telling her is not gonna have any substantial negative effects.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:35 PM
12

If you feel it, say it. If you don't, don't.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:27 PM
1

Lift, read, meditate. You don't need anyone else to do this. 100% up to you.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:26 PM
1

Be a better texter. Don't play games. Show wit, show humor, build comfort, build attraction. If the she still acts shitty, then soft next. No contact at all.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:24 PM
1

Punctuation is your friend. TRP didn't back fire on you. It allowed you to identify a toxic relationship and get out of it. It may hurt. But it worked as intended.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:22 PM
1

Not as bad as doing it at work. If you REALLY like some chic I guess go for it. But in the long run, it could make things awkward.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:19 PM
1

Calorie dense foods. Peanut butter, protein shakes, etc. Also, weed might give you the munchies.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:17 PM
4

There's a wider deviation in men that women. The stupidest people are men, but also the smartest people are men. The craziest psychos are men, but also the most giving and altruistic people. Much less deviation in women. But sure, they have their odd birds here and there.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 08:44 PM
0

Nah, I appreciate them. Easy pivots. Wing girls. Insight into female psyche, etc.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 08:35 PM
1

YES!!!! Maybe even mention something about the date/time to make sure she's knows it's from the same evening. i.e: "Check out my tasty treat from Wednesday night!"
/r/askTRP29/11/18 08:29 PM
2

I personally take way more pride in getting my way by being sweet, charming, & charismatic than by being a bully or intimidating. When you finess people successfully you feel really good about yourself. But when you're forced to be a bully you'll be glad you got your way but I personally walk away wishing I could have been smoother.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 08:57 PM
1

Geez. You can flirt and and be cocky funny like you were in your first text. Don't listen to the Autistic crap. Solid text game can help you show humor & value. It can also help you build comfort and attraction. Just stay funny / positive and stick to the 2/3rd rule.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:11 PM
4

Ignore. They don't exist in your frame.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:08 PM
6

Doesn't bother me. As long as it feels good.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:08 PM
1

Try to be more clear and concise when arranging logistics. Don't assume things or leave things vague.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:07 PM
1

Yup, they'll move heaven and earth if they really want to see you.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:05 PM
1

Yeah. Just ask again. Nothing wrong with "You didn't answer my question." If she keeps playing coy, soft next her.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:03 PM
1

Of all the decisions regarding TRP, working out is the easiest. Busy? Fuck you, go lift. Sick? Fuck you, go lift. Tired? Fuck you, go lift. Broke? Fuck you, go lift. All you have to do is put one foot in front of another and walk into that gym. Much much easier than all the mental gymnastics that the rest of TRP demands.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:59 PM
1

The problem is while you can put your strength and attractive physique on display on a daily basis, you can't really do that with your fighting ability. Unless you're a professional or amateur fighter who participates in organized competitions, displaying your fighting ability on a consistent basis in street / bar fights is a one-way to ticket to jail and/or hospital and/or law suits. So just LOOK like you can fight and try to avoid it for your own sake.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:44 PM
15

A lot of what you're viewing as negative, COULD be viewed as positive. 1) She doesn't talk about sex or her exes much: Well, maybe she doesn't have many exes and hasn't had much sex in the past. Maybe. 2) She's not super clingy and emotive on text: She's pragmatic and not crazy. As long as she's into you when she's with you that's all that matters. Guys are always gonna chase hot girls on social media. If you wanna date 9's and 10's you'll have have to develop the mental muscles to handle that. …
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:40 PM
1

I'm 5'9. If the girls profile doesn't indicate their height I ask them. I date up to 5'8. I've never had anyone have an issue with my height but may be because I don't date anyone taller than myself AND I have a pretty solid face / body combo. If all else is in good shape (face, body, grooming, clothing, confidence, game) you can have your fill at 5'8 and be happy.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:21 PM
1

I don't got soft until I bust a nut. The longer I go, the more turned on I get, the harder I get. Like homie said take pills for that. You may not need them in the long run. Cialis is good and not habit forming. Great for all day marathons.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:53 PM
7

If she's taunting you with other dudes there's ZERO debate. Hard next ASAP.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:51 PM
2

I go for aesthetics. Played football in college. Came out looking like fire hydrant. Now I go for more of the swimmer / wide receiver / beach volleyball physique. The challenge is more in the diet vs lifting heavy since you need single digit BF to get those abs poping. I have natural mass so by focusing on the sculpting aspect I get a lot of IOI's and attention. Especially in the summer when playing ball at the beach.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:57 PM
38

You see this all the time. Guys dating or married to hot women yet cheating with lesser women just for variety. Women will lock on the best man they can get and only look to trade UP.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 10:36 PM
3

bewbs
/r/askTRP17/11/18 12:05 AM
1

Keto homie.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 09:45 PM
1

Now all the girls that are a binary 1, however, fall within some sort of range. You're obviously more attracted to some of them than others. Thus, 1-10. No because then we can't compare a girl that you don't find attractive and one that your friend does. 1-10 comprises the entire spectrum of females. From grotesque to super model. Now we may still have varying preference and scales. It's a give that we won't always agree. You may bang anything you consider 4+. Your bro may draw that line at 6+. …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 09:45 PM
1

You're on the right track. 2 more weeks and you'll feel a difference. 2 more months and you're golden.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 05:18 PM
10

All those things that you think were "Off" about her body language was actually your own tensions and insecurities being mirrored back to you. This one just fell in your lap. You didn't need to do anything except pick up the damn fork and each but you kept analyzing if you should wait or use a spoon and the meal expired. Be confident. Make it your goal to error on being too fast and aggressive than not enough.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:15 PM
1

Check married red pill. It's a separate sub.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 10:32 PM
6

That's a BS chart. 6-2 and 6-7 are waaaaaaay hotter than 7-4.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 07:41 PM
1

I used to lift heavy when I played sports in college. Body took a beating. Now I have a much more refined and isolation based approach. It's awesome for aesthetics but not designed for maximum strength. My goal is more the swimmer / wide receiver / underwear model look and I'm exactly where I wanna be right now.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 12:47 AM
1

Be careful how to speak to them though. You don't want to advertise yourself as angry or unstable. If their behavior is toxic. Speak with HR. Not because you're weak and you need protection but because your options are limited.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 12:43 AM
1

Just add "right now" to the end of everything she says. problem solved.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:55 PM
1

Arguing with the ex shouldn't get you so butthurt. Assuming she's telling the truth: A) He's her EX B) They're arguing because he wants her back and she doesn't want to because she has found a new shiny object (YOU). A simple "Hit me back when you're done arguing with him" would have sufficed.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:51 PM
1

What's the long term prognosis on your eye sight? Can it be cured?
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:48 PM
1

You can only lose attraction through text, not gain or maintain. I respectfully disagree. Well timed and properly applied text game with the right frequency and volume can go a long way do demonstrate wit, value, & frame. It can also build comfort and attraction. Like they say, women are emotional and live in their imagination. Text game and seriously take advantage of these things. And it's quite efficient. You don't have to spend any time or resources. Just mix in humor, anecdotes, sexual esca…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:00 PM
1

even the most ridiculous of IOIs can lead to a flake and looking for a reason to explain it is a fruitless endeavor. Yup. I'm fully aware of this and it still shocks me a little everytime it happens. As a man, we understand this in theory. We know it exists and it happens. But we'll never really feel it so we can't fully empathize. When a girl shows massive interest we take them at their word and assume "Well, she likes me. Cool. I'll try to meet up with her soon." This is the correct assumption…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:48 PM
1

Wants attention. Guilt over boyfriend. Found new shiny object. It's her, not you. Don't waste energy figuring it out.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:44 PM
6

The wall is wider now than ever before. A woman who chooses to eat well, exercise, take care of her hair & skin, take advantage of dietary and skin care science, etc. can stay young a fit looking well into her 40's or even 50's in some cases. On the flipside, fast food, drugs, alcohol, smoking, and a sedentary lifestyle can make a girl in her 20's look much much older.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:40 PM
3

Don't puff out and posture too much or it will look forced and make you look like a douchebag. Natural good posture. Focused. Headphones. Cap low so all they see is your white teeth. Bob a little to the music since you're in your own world. Socialize and laugh with other guys from time to time but not too much.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:33 PM
19

RiskyRewarder is right. This was a slam dunk easy opportunity. She gave you every opportunity to open her. I would have started chatting with her after 10 minutes and took here somewhere more quiet for a longer chat away from the loud dancefloor. It would have been so easy. Lesson learned. Next time don't hesitate.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 06:17 PM
4

Good story. I get the point. But does it HAVE to be a woman in charge? In the story, it did, because they are ALL women. But in a real life corporate environment, does it HAVE to be women?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 06:10 PM
1

Well I hope it works out for you but this doesn't seem like a situation you should waste time, effort, or mental energy on. Go find a stable available girl or girls to have a good time with.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 05:56 PM
1

I can't disagree. But .. just to give you background, I had this thought during a case of oneitis that, strangely enough, hit me during an abundance phase. I was having an epic summer and slaying through data after date with 100% close rate and multiple women in love with me. And then this gal came out of no where and did a number on me. I understand better now, what happened but at the time, I just wanted her more than all the other girls. Probably due to her 9/10 looks, amazing body, and amazi…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 05:54 PM
3

Good posture. Confident eye contact. Moving and talking a shade slower than average (but not too slow). Mix in the blue collar wit you mentioned and you're golden. I don't know what your physique / grooming / clothing is like but these can all be improved.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 05:52 PM
2

For any guys here over 40, as a former athlete my body is pretty torn up. I lift and I look great, at 7% BF. HOWEVER, I have to avoid a lot of lifts that are too hard on the joints. Bench and dips can both be hard on the shoulders. I still manage to isolate and punish my chest, shoulders, and tri's. But I do it with more isolation, stricter form, and cable / free weights. To each his own, but just remember to take care of your joints.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 05:19 PM
1

If she blocked you what's left to discuss? Move on.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 12:30 AM
1

I can empathize with the "I want a longer turn" mindset. I once had the thought "I wish my turn lasted longer". Nothing wrong with that.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 12:27 AM
2

Agreed. Get your new gig off the ground and semi-viable before you quit.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 12:25 AM
2

I know all about this. The way the software industry has been hijacked and handed to thirld worlders is disgusting. Plus it usually takes 3 of them to do the work of 1 american so they import them in bulk. Real estate prices and traffic suffers tremendously as a result. The sad part is these monkey's still screw things up and then the company's have to spend more $ bringing in real engineers to clean up the mess. But they never learn their lesson.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:29 PM
1

Move out & get the surgery asap.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:27 PM
12

Sleep / T Levels / Nutrition
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:24 PM
2

I picture a skeleton with ball sacks under his eyes.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:18 PM
1

This actually not a bad routine / mindset. I've had this mindset since college and it served me well.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:12 PM
2

Well, it's a decent thing to do. And when she replies back nicely, you can take a screenshot to make sure you don't get #MeToo'd. I usually get a text the same night. I reply back nicely. No point hurting someone's feelings. Especially someone who opened up and had sex with you. Don't be an asshole.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:01 PM
3

Sometimes I wish I could lose that strong horny urgency. Other times it serves a purpose. Would be nice if we could control it or turn it on / off like a switch. Get you T levels checked.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:58 PM
2

Clothes, grooming, full exciting life, communication skills, humor
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:55 PM
1

Shy people tend to STFU. This allows girls to fill the gaps with their own imagination. Sometimes a guy who doesn't talk a lot and try to sell himself comes off as confident. My guess is even though you're shy, your body language and eye contact is good enough to not betray that and so you come off as confident.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:46 PM
2

If they're mad, they care. That simple. If you want them back, build some comfort and use humor / AA to reel them back in. If you don't care enough, then move on.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:38 PM
1

Its' normal. But understand that sometimes it has nothing to do with you. If you have a high success rate then embrace it and enjoy life. Look ahead, not back. Plates break and no one bats a 1000. Move on. I know it's easier said than done but if you consciously work it then it gets easier over time.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:34 PM
9

Wow. This is one of the more blatant AWALT stories out there. No pretense, no gray area. But brutal AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 07:22 PM
1

Since it's a one-time shot, your response is OK. If it was in your home town I'd say ghost.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:23 PM
2

This has to be a joke. Dress nice. Bang. Change into whatever the fuck you want to be comfy.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:16 AM
1

Keto has worked AMAZINGLY well for me. I'm 45 and some of the guys I play ball with are half my age and say they wish they looked like me.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:12 AM
2

Correct. You need way more.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:09 AM
21

Never act butthurt. Even if it hurts or frustrates you, act like you're taking it all in stride. A simple. "Sounds good. Best wishes. Stay in touch" would suffice.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 07:01 PM
1

Try weed. Not as damaging as alcohol. Actually has some good anti-inflammatory effects. Or gradually drink less. You don't need more than 1 or 2 drinks to have fun and if you mix in water you'll be OK by the end of the night.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 06:24 PM
1

Alcohol
/r/askTRP02/11/18 06:19 PM
2

THIS. I pay more for MY sake than theirs. I feel better about it and I have the $ so why not. I don't think making them pay helps in any way other than just protecting your wallet if funds are low.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 04:36 PM
1

Think about things you can say or do that have some degree of sexual connotation as well as plausible deniability and ability to change tack if necessary. Start with jokes or annecdotes that rate 1 on the sexuality scale. If it goes over well, move to 2, then 3, so on. If you get negative feedback go back down 1 level and escalate later. This is begginner game. Over time you can read and calibrate better and go 1, 5, 9 in 20 minutes under the right circumstances.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 04:34 PM
3

Yes. Tell him.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 04:31 PM
2

Well, it's possible. But sleep and gym time will suffer. If you can find work on the weekends when you don't have to go to the office that would be ideal.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 04:31 PM
1

It is. It's a slower process but definitely DOES happen.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 04:29 PM
2

Tent + sleeping bags = The world's your oyster.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 11:17 PM
1

Crazy and fun. Not sure about TRP value though.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 11:08 PM
2

Very true. We take it forgranted. I was dead inside for over a decade. Felt nothing for no one. Then I had my heart broken and you know what? The pain had a very sweet undertone because it was better to be in that emotional open state than the emotional corpse I was locked into for 10 years. It still sucks. But kinda the same way that you think school sucks until you become an adult and realize those were special times.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:26 PM
2

You write well for a 16 year old. My son's 13. I can't imagine him being as enlightened as you in 3 years.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 05:09 PM
2

You blew an opportunity but you didn't fuck anything up. Seems like you can just pick up where you left off. No biggie.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:14 PM
2

Learned this lesson the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 07:33 PM
1

If it bothers you, don't do it. If it doesn't bang away. I wonder sometimes if the ability tolerate the thought of other men with your woman is something that can be cultivated or just ingrained. I personally don't like the idea of it but her past doesn't bother me as much as her behavior AFTER we meet.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 08:55 PM
2

I don't understand the problem. You did everything right. Pick up where you left off. I suspect it's a close next time you see her unless you screw up.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 08:53 PM
1

They're not. It's convenient shit test.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:43 PM
2

The best mission I've had is being an athlete. When you're working out and eating for more than just looks, when your training and diet is the difference between winning and losing, you tend to stick with it more. The fact that you're literally winning and losing dozens of times each month forges your mental toughness. You realize that the greatest victory is the fact that you "get to play" not the score on the board. And there's always another game around the corner so you have to move on to th…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:37 PM
2

Your plane got shot down behind enemy lines. Time to crawl back to the green zone. I LOVE that metaphor. Gonna steal it sometime.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:27 PM
2

I'm actually impressed at the volume texts you ignored and the number of days you went without replying. That takes a lot of strength if you have TRUE oneitis. I caught a bad case of it recently and it sucks. Still working through it.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:25 PM
3

Frame doesn't prevent people from fucking with you. It gives you the tools and midset to properly deal with said fuckery.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:19 PM
1

Ofcourse she has no obligation. And that's not your goal. You don't want her to see you out of "obligation". You want her to want to see you based on desire and attraction. That's what you're working on.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:11 PM
0

Amazing metaphor at the end. Love it. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 05:49 PM
2

Thanks for coming clean. I admire your clarity and self-reliance.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 05:48 PM
5

I wouldn't even follow this line of conversation. Just change the subject.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:07 PM
2

Given your age group and being in "Rural" Virginia probably severely limits your options. Are there any nearby cities you can dip to for a larger pool of options? Try online dating apps.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:06 PM
1

I prefer to display IDGAF attitude with wit and humor. You can try to imply it with not contacting her at all or being too aloof but that won't work if there isn't enough attraction built up already. So you have to build attraction without being needy. That's where a great sense of humor, teasing, and your wit come to the rescue.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:45 PM
2

Don't worry about kino & physical contact during the actual playing. Use that show your skills, athleticism, sportsmanship, wit, humor, etc. There's plenty of time for kino and escalation later after you've stocked up on the value list above.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:36 PM
2

Your age is probably a problem. 16 and in college is tough. Keep lifting. Try to make 1 friend at a time. Focus on quality vs quantity. One solid bro / wingman is enough to tackle the the city together and build from there.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:34 PM
4

You're not making them cum hard. You're bad in bed You give off too much of a player vibe You come off too needy. Who knows. Ultimately it's either the sex or your frame.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:29 PM
3

"I don't give fuck about your friends & roommates. Are YOU turned off?" If yes then move on. Anything else is salvageable. Proceed per her answers.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:23 PM
1

The basic "LOL, Who's this?" is a killer. You can also add another sentence to imply you think it's your bro playing a prank on you. Something like "S my D Marty. Tell Garret he can kiss my ass too."
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:21 PM
1

I'm betting she'll hit you up in the next 24 hours if you hold off. But honestly, if the BF is gone for 3 weeks you can initiate any time you want. Just don't break frame. I thought I was alpha til some 10 broke my frame like fragile china.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:19 PM
-2

Come up with some badass story. Walking by an alley, some chick was getting manhandled by some thugs. You jumped in. You knocked them all out but took a few lumps in the process. She's now in love with you. Or something like that.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:14 PM
1

THIS
/r/askTRP23/10/18 10:26 PM
1

Reply with "OK" and leave it at that. Ignore the barrage of text for the next 8 hours.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 10:23 PM
1

Joint support supplements: Glucosamine Chondroitin Tumeric Cissus Fish Oil Colagen
/r/askTRP22/10/18 10:01 PM
1

Me too ;-)
/r/askTRP19/10/18 10:05 PM
2

She meet you at a club while she was drunk. She wanted faster escalation. You took it slow and left town. She's found another shiny object. It happens. Soft next for a week. Ping here one more time. If she's still elusive, move on.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:35 PM
2

Be around. Be cheerful. Help with approaches if he's shy. Open sets. Say good things about him. Make him look alpha. Watch his back. Pull him aside if he's sliding off the rails. etc. I take pride in being a good wingman. If you have a group of alphas that know how to wing each other, you're almost unstoppable.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:30 PM
1

Text game can be very effective but there are limits. You can usually bump her attraction to you up by one level with good text game but no more. I'd say after a few days of texting and building rapport, if she won't see you then let it go. It's online dating and there's probably a ton of other dudes pulling the same shit on her. If you haven't managed you make yourself stand apart then let it go. Step back. Up your SMV. Try again.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:00 PM
1

Maybe the good sex made here too emotional / attached and now she's scared because she's getting feelings. Happens a lot. Sometimes it's easier to keep a plate around if you give them good, but not great, sex. It's less emotional and painful for them.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:55 PM
1

Not being sarcastic but crying really does help. If there's a piece of writing, a movie scene, or song that you know makes you emotional just use it. Get all the tears out. A good cry can be amazingly theraputic, get's all the angst out and give you clarity and peace. A good night sleep does wonders as well.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:51 PM
2

Your in the driver seat. Hold frame. She knows you're willing to walk away so be kind but stoic. Do NOT display any blue pill comfort building until she's earned it back.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:12 PM
1

Sounds like attraction but I can't tell.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:11 PM
2

Oh ... In that case ... NEXT!
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:29 PM
1

She's into you. She's comfort fishing. Keep holding frame as you are. Try to be more exciting when you're with her. Don't change your midweek routine and frame.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:23 PM
1

Bench is not the wholly grail. For better looking chest, try dumbells and cables. Bench destroys your elbows and shoulders over time.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:21 PM
1

If you're not closing by end of 2nd date I'm not sure what you're bragging about here. Also, the fuckboy shit test is one of the easiest to pass while actually demonstrating even more humor, wit, and SMV.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:18 PM
3

Just drinks nearby. Doesn't have to be epic. Just something in public. Try to be funny, interesting, and charming. That should seal the deal.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:16 PM
2

Rookies. He'l learn. ;-)
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:13 PM
1

I'd ping her one more time with something like "Hope asking for that number didn't scare you. Just easier for logistics." If she ignores, just next her. She'll probably hit you up next week with some lame excuse and you can decide if you want to give her a chance or not. Letting them know you cociously walked to due to bad attitude or flakiness is usually a big turn on.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:11 PM
3

Try to spend a little bit of time apart each day. 10 days in each others face can get overwhelming.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:08 PM
1

Put coconut oil on your skin to help it stretch and heal.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:07 PM
1

You just do it. You don't say, you don't tell, you DO. Start making out, move to the neck and ears. Slowly escalate.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:06 PM
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You can make the train ride back fun and romantic. Sneak drinks onto the train. Be funny, keep her entertained, make out. There are waaaaaay worse logistics than a 20 mile train ride with a girl. Heck, with the right frame, the train ride itself can be an epic date. It's all how you look at things.
/r/seduction18/10/18 06:04 PM
1

Weed is the biggest game killer for me. All my natural confidence, with, humor, outcome independance, and IDGAG attitude goes out the window. It's not as bad if you're with someone you've known for a while and mix some alcohol with it. But on a first date, it's TERRIBLE!.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:49 PM
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Weight training makes me feel like shit when I dont do good. I don't understand this. There's no doing "good" or "bad". There's just doing. Pick a weight you can only do around 10 time and go to failure. If you do it, you will succeed. No one's keeping score. Stop trying to compete with the meat heads in your gym. (Unless you aspire to be one, which is OK). I used to play football in college. I was pretty thick and heavy (muscle, not fat). After college I got into a totally different sport that …
/r/seduction12/10/18 04:12 PM
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I sat on my toilet tank for 4 years so I kept reading it.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 04:22 PM
1

Excellent advice. True. Practical. Uncommon. Right on the money. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 05:30 PM
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Easy Tiger. He's digesting and admitting his error. You don't need to flex your e-peen on him. He gets it.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 06:36 PM
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I know that if a man is interested he will pursue you no matter what. Right? WRONG. If you make a guy feel unwanted, he'll stop making an ass out of himself and move on. Especially a quality guy with options and dignity. If you really did need to leave early then you should try to make it up to him. Why do you feel you can't text him? On paper, his part of the story sounds like this: "I went on a few dates with this chick. She bailed early our last 2 dates and hasn't texted me in 2 weeks.". What…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/18 11:31 PM
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As a guy who's looked at 1000's of female profiles in online dating apps here's the simple truth. DON'T use those stupid filters that give you dog ears just because they airbrush your skin and make your eyes bigger. Any obvious filter is a huge red flag One upclose selfie / headshot is enough Include full-body pics so they they don't think you're hiding fatness. Pics of outdoor fun and classy night life outfits are good. Avoid large group photos. Avoid pics with other dudes or your kids.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/18 11:17 PM
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I see where you are going with this, but the truth is a 5+ has dick options 24/7 It's true. I have a hot plate and she has this friend that is absolutely HIDEOUS! Short, fat, flat tits, rotund belly. My plate tells me this friend of hers has been on a cock frenzy and plowing through men like there's no tomorrow. I can't imagine ANYONE wanting to put their dick in that but apparently it's possible. Never underestimate thirsty betas, desperate dudes, and guys with no beauty calibration.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 10:50 PM
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I basically asked the same question above.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 10:45 PM
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Was this over text or in person? What context? School? Work? Seems like the fact that her not initiating bothered you is an indirect confession to her that you really value her attention. Catch 22 I guess.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 10:41 PM
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Seems like you have to give SOME validation. Otherwise, you'd have to moonwalk up to some chick, without direct eye contact, and set a date without being charming or likeable.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 10:39 PM
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Excellent. Great metaphor, really hits home.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 05:12 PM
4

This was actually a REALLY good FR. Pretty ballsy under the circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 04:39 PM
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Yup. Had a very similar situation, posted about it it here. Got hit with oneitis in the middle of a major abundance phase where I was juggling close to 5 plates. In retrospect, it just came down the chick being so much better than the 7's and 8's I was dating. She's easily a 9 or 10 in anyone's book with the body, bedroom action, and personality to match. She drops jaws everywhere she goes and she knows it. I was glad to have her while I did but I guess girls like that are always looking over th…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 11:10 PM
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I'd fake accept her apology and play super nice until I can make sure she're NOT pregnant. You're more likely get cooperation if you're on her good side. OR ... I can backfire. IDK.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 05:25 PM
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My sleep has been the bane of of my existence. I have ample will power when it comes to eating and working out. I control what I eat, and don't eat. I control when I go to the gym and how long I stay there and what I do when I'm there. But I have no control over my sleep. Even when I go to bed early with good intentions, often my mind races for hours or even if I'm not thinking about anything my body just refuses to fall asleep. It's become a real problem and I've had major insomnia. I take a lo…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 05:13 PM
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You can be a lot more honest, direct, and intentional with women over 30. A lot of the distractions and pretensions you have to pull with younger women are out the window. You can be direct with them and also be assured that they will be direct with you. F-Close rate is a lot higher with women over 30. If they were not into you they would not have wasted time hanging out with you in the first place. They're also smarter at assessing high quality men. So if you are one, you'll be more successful …
/r/seduction21/09/18 11:11 PM
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I know that I should talk to her as little as possible until we meet Absolutely and utterly wrong. You don't want to seem needy or pushy but you MUST do some comfort building along the way to keep them from ghosting, especially if you plan dates a few days in advance. A funny, amusing text once an evening or every other evening just to let her know you're still thinking of her and demonstrating some wit, humor, and intelligence from you will work as a 2 pronged attack and also lets you let her k…
/r/seduction17/09/18 11:57 PM
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Very good point. I've definitely noticed the same thing but I've still had great success online, given, the time/effort to date/close ratio. It CAN be a great time saver but I'll admit that if you're solid, your IRL rate will always exceed your SOD rate. But your SOD volume can drown out your IRL volume.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 07:55 PM
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I don't think everyone can tell. Some guys have real bad social IQ and calibration. Some women are great actors. It happens.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 04:47 PM
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I liked it. Not so much for it's TRP value but just as a nice piece of writing.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 04:43 PM
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You're on your way. Hard life, harsh lessons. Glad you made it out the other side.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 11:28 PM
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Yes. Do this. Just meet. Be charming, confident, and listen. You can pretty much dictate where things go. Take her back to your place or her place or whatever. Give some though to logistics and options before the date. When/Where you're meeting. How close you are to each persons house. Who has rommates and where they are. Logistics will make your break your success more than attraction sometimes.
/r/seduction14/09/18 08:46 PM
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Stop the silliness. If you want him over then have him over. Nothing substantial is gonna change by waiting more dates. It's all games, gestures, and facades if you think along those lines.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 08:34 PM
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Men LOVE it when women initiate sex. Despite what women think, sex is more than just dick friction for guys. Bu initiating sex first you're sending the signals that: 1) I'm attracted to you and I want you 2) I trust you and I feel safe with you This combo is a HUGE turn on for guys.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 08:30 PM
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If I've never banged then usually no. I feel more guilty about nexting girls I've banged so I stay pleasant and hope they eventually lose interest. I don't have it in me to cause pain.
/r/seduction13/09/18 07:01 PM
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Well put. But easier said than done sometimes. I posted a question earlier about weather or not it's possible to have oneitis in the middle of an abundance phase when you're spinning multiple plates. It's been vexing me to no end. I have multiple plates and tons of abundance right now but there's one girl that get's under my skin like no other and at times brings me more grief than joy but I just can't get her out of my mind. So matter how many other plates I bang, it has no impact on how I feel…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 04:33 PM
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The fact that she doesn't even drink but did what she did is the ultimate proof in the pudding.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 09:27 PM
1

Fair enough. I have mad respect for your honesty and genuine stories.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 05:41 PM
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Oh, trust me, I read it and I get it. But when you put all the emotional stuff aside get down to brass tacks, you acted like a blue-balled, blue-pilled beta orbiter for 15 years. Went through emotional grief, and nothing out of it. I realize you wrote this as a precautionary tale, and I do appreciate as I have struggled with similar issues in the past. But other than a cautionary tale of "it can happen to you too", I'm not sure what to take out of it. It would have been nice to know what a smart…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 04:25 PM
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The number one rule is pay attention their body, breathing, and sounds they make. Every single girl is a little different and you have to figure them out although it typically comes down to 2 or 3 types. Some girls respond strongly to stimulation by hand / fingers. Some prefer the cock. With fingers, you should completely understand the difference between clitoral, vaginal, and cervical orgasms. They're 3 different things and require different techniques. Start with clitoral, transition to vagin…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 11:49 PM
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Not sure what to take away from this. You blue-balled yourself for 15 years I guess. Congrats.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 11:39 PM
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I don't know man. ONE single text does not make for a TRP mindset. I'd say you played it well but it may have also came off as a bit butthurt or passive aggressive. Also, we have no background on this girl. Is she a plate? Have you already banged her? If no, then perhaps well done. If it's someone you already banged then you're basically bragging that she's talking to another dude and you didn't act jealous which, while good, isn't some type of home run to brag about.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 11:10 PM
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Go Keto. If you haven't met his friends in 2 years you might be a plate not know it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 09:50 PM
1

All I know is the women I have sex with get a lot more out of it than i do. I work my ass off, give them multiple O's and the feelz & tingles then can only get from a true Alpha. I enjoy myself too but it's obvious it means a lot more to them than it does to me. So, in a way, I feel I'm being generous and they should be grateful. Or maybe I'm just feeling extra swaggy today. But that should really be your outlook. You are the prize. If they make it unpleasant or not worth your while to be with t…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 09:46 PM
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All I know is the women I have sex with get a lot more out of it than i do. I work my ass off, give them multiple O's and the feelz & tingles then can only get from a true Alpha. I enjoy myself too but it's obvious it means a lot more to them than it does to me. So, in a way, I feel I'm being generous and they should be grateful. Or maybe I'm just feeling extra swaggy today. But that should really be your outlook. You are the prize. If they make it unpleasant or not worth your while to be with t…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 09:45 PM
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statistics show only 40% of men will have offspring, conversely 80% of women will have offspring. I can't tell you how many times I'll see some abomination pushing her troglodyte offspring down the isle in a shopping cart and think to myself "Who in the world decided to put their dick in THAT?" But apparently someone did. The male is equivalent of that female is 100% guaranteed to be a virgin.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 04:52 PM
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I just don't understand why you're even here if you're such a moral white knight. You destroyed another man's life (albeit a weak, stupid, naive man) just to protect your ass on the off chance a certain series of events happened a certain way. To approached the whole situation like a beta. You could have silenced the informer and had a chat with the guy an told him to end it now. You could have made things better for everyone involved but you took a flamethrower to the whole situation to cover y…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 04:45 PM
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Why not just use social calibration, experience, and instincts to choose the right approach instead of premeditating one? I'm super direct 90% of the time but I know when to intelligently test the waters and get more feedback.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 04:16 PM
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I woulda started a convo in the first 5 minutes.
/r/seduction06/09/18 09:37 PM
2

Sport dating. You'll get your fill. Eventually it will get old and you won't waste time generating interest in someone you're not interested in.
/r/seduction06/09/18 09:35 PM
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Explain it to him just as you explained it here. Most guys are logical and he'll get it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 05:21 PM
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Jeesus. 12 hours is nothing. Relax. He's probably eating a pizza, taking a dump, or playing video games. Give it a couple days and worst case send him an innocous text like "How's your days going?". Don't over think it with guys.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 05:19 PM
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It's called preselection. Tried and true. Look it up.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 05:15 PM
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Some of you will say that I did the right thing standing up for myself. Wrong. It was a bad decision in a work environment. It cost me a good paying job and a lot of forward equity I had built there. Want to defend yourself/stand up for yourself outside of work? Fine, if the situation calls for it. Not at work. You're right. In this situation, YOU should have been proactive and contact HR first. Minimized all private conversation with her and had the meeting with her with multiple other attendee…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 05:03 PM
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Agreed. If your meditation helps you get deep sleep it will definitely affect your HGH levels and skin tone.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 04:57 PM
1

Very similar experience with by buddy and teammate. Got his heart broken and now instead of doubling down on living a good life he's quitting our ball league to hold bible study sessions in his house. Pisses me off, but he's not ready.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 04:53 PM
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You're waaaaaay overthinking this. Start of just chatting about random stuff when opportunity arrises. Try to have funny, interesting stories. At some point, drop a teaser like "yeah, something like that but much crazier happened to my Aunt, I'll tell you about over lunch" or something like that. Then just hang out and chat during lunch. Don't worry too much about escalating to the point to physicality during school. You're not gonna bang her there so don't push to hard. You can escalate when yo…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 10:31 PM
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I played football in HS and College. During my 2nd year in college I went through a phase where I got the drops. I literally couldn't catch any pass no matter how perfect it was. It was a mental struggle, eventually I worked my way out of it and everything was OK again. However, during that period I learned very valuable lesson right down to my bones. Confidence isn't knowing with certainty that you're gonna catch the ball. Confidence is knowing that it's OK if you don't. This relaxes you and yo…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 04:19 PM
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I think you get a pass on this one. Don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:18 PM
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School's tough. She's young, insecure, surrounded by judgemental peer who she values the opinions of. Most important thing is to isolate. Find a way to be alone with her. Away from pyring eyes she will be much more relaxed and open to escalation.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:17 PM
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Next her.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:14 PM
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Just know, internally, that you are capable of being that kind, caring, respectful human being, but that most people would benefit more from you being stoic. This has been my battle, as of late. I'm naturally sentimental and kind and enjoy giving women the feelios they crave so much. I know that at times it can be detrimental to frame.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 11:02 PM
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I preface it with a text. "Got a minute to chat?". If yes, then call.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 07:50 PM
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You call a Woman in this day and age, and you've got the biggest balls on the block. Even moreso than Billy Big Balls in the corner who thinks he's uberchad because he's texting all these different girls. I like text game but calling is powerful and I use it when I sense wires are getting crossed or the hamster needs a jolt. Very effective, and actually enjoyable.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 07:49 PM
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You sound salty AF. Alpha is about your frame and your presence. You think the average LineBacker corps in the NFL is a bunch of betas because there's more than one of them? You are sad, salty, and delusional. Sorry, if things are going rough for you. My friends and I make each other look good. We wing each other, create social proof, and generate a fun party vibe that draws women in. We'll be laughing at your sad little existence while we bang hotties and you rage on TRP, secretly crying while …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 08:11 PM
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... as I stood, arms crossed, in the corner trying to look as stoic and swole as possible I've really enjoyed your stories, but this line crushed my image of you. I thought, and do believe, that you had depth but this is literally the mindset of mouth breathing bouncers who only hang out with other bouncers and go out afterwards to talk about bouncing. Disappointing.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 07:50 PM
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Do it. Only upside. Then you won't screw up when you're with a girl you want to actually impress.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 07:20 PM
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My bros and I always try to pass gals to each other if we notice a strong vibe between them. If you have a solid crew, and think of it in terms of the long haul, vs one specific instance, you all collectively help each other out. One strong alpha wets the panties. A tribe of alphas dissolves them instantly.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 07:07 PM
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If it's been a dry spell and your nuts are so full you come right away then just cuddle for a little while (10 to 30 minutes) and bang her again. Assuming that once you nut the deal is over is blue pill. I let girls know they're in for multiple rounds. Take it slow and give them all they can handle.
/r/seduction29/08/18 08:57 PM
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If you were good, you can send whatever the F you want. Or nothing. Depends on how hard you're trying to game her and where are in the timeline of getting her completely addicted to you.
/r/seduction29/08/18 05:37 PM
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Wow. The "White Man" part would have send me over the edge.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 05:34 PM
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I've found this to be true as well. In fact, if you're attractive and have strong frame there's almost infinite nonsense that can come out of your mouth and have NO impact on the final result.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 04:35 PM
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What you have to work on now is giving her the type of experience that will keep her coming back for more.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 10:05 PM
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I'd pump and dump her on prinicipal. Make the last act humiliating. Like get off her, put clothes on, and walk out without saying a word. Never call or text again. That would be a minor victory against such an ungrateful biotch.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 08:26 PM
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i've been saying this for years.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 08:16 PM
1

Not shaking his hand shows passive aggressiveness which is actually a beta trait. It also indicates that you found him threatening. If it was a 6 year old girl, you would have shook her hand. So I don't think you little anti-social dick move was as sexy as you think.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 05:42 PM
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Maybe she see's you as more valuable than other men in her life or she's looking for a sugar daddy. Have fun but keep that antenna sharp for BS.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 07:25 PM
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I disagree. It's anecdotal. I have a nose for humble brags and this is not it.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 07:12 PM
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You seem strong and stoic and don't pander to her. At her age that may very well be the panty droppin trifecta.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 07:09 PM
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You have to blend a little bit of flirtation and story telling into your texts. The "Text only logistics" method sounds great but I've found that you need to add a little comfort building before the first date to avoid flakes. Also text game allows you to: Demonstrate intelligence Demonstrate humor Build intrigue and mystery Entertain and build subtle DHV This can all be done via text and it's important to leverage. If she's never met you and and all you say is "Billy Bob's Cafe @ 3:00" it won't…
/r/seduction17/08/18 08:48 PM
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My friend who is a model gave me the simplest tip. "Smile on the inside". It actually affects your face but in a subtle yet pleasant way.
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:09 PM
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I have great text game but the handful of time I've felt wires getting crossed or something getting lost in translation I immediately called and sure enough salvaged the situation. Helps to have a nice phone voice too.
/r/seduction14/08/18 11:37 PM
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I love this post. Needed it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 10:36 PM
2

Why was it such a big deal that his VIRGIN friend was banging in his bed? This type of inconsiderate cock-blocking is my pet peeve. What a mental midget to interrupt a virgin buddy like that. He should have took pride in providing the hookup for his friend but instead he selfishly blocked him. Why? To avoid a load of laundry? Some stained sheets? What a POS.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 06:17 PM
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Bullseye
/r/seduction10/08/18 07:02 PM
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Wow, that might be the mother of all shit tests. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 06:59 PM
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It happens man. You're not bulletproof. Bonding happens. It's why it feels so good when things click. But your knowledge and life experience will allow you to bounce back faster and further. Just find another hottie to bang. Always does the trick.
/r/seduction10/08/18 04:38 PM
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Laughing so hard right now. TLDR: I got blue balled by a fat chick and out-alpha'd by her boyfriend. Hope this helps some of you guys who are just starting out. LOL!!!
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 07:31 PM
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so I don't want to write them off entirely. Just appreciate them for their role in my life This key I think. You don't need to take a scorched earth policy to every past friendship who isn't as Alpha, or Woke, or RP as you. Just appreciate them for the role they played in your past. Recategorize them correctly, and enjoy their company at birthdays and holiday parties during the 2 or 3 times you see them each year.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 07:25 PM
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I can relate. There's always that ONE girl that make you break frame and get flustered around. If you guys are texting a lot take the time to talk on the phone you'd be amazed how a live voice conversation can change dynamics. Otherwise, you'll just have pull back. Sure it can backfire but you you can't overpress unless you know how to do it without coming off as needy. Or you might have to completely change tack. If you're too PG13 you might have to steer things to a Rated R direction. Every gi…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 11:05 PM
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Outside the context of dealing with women. In other areas of life (sports, business, bros, etc.). Would honor, virtue, and integrity not be considered desired traits. I value the love and respect from other men over desire from women. I don't have to treat both sexes the same way but I think the narrative that you must be an amoral monster at all times is unhealthy.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 06:15 PM
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That's some stone cold James Bond shit. Smooth operator.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 04:57 PM
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1000% disagree. It can happen depending on your health, age, timing (how long ago you took it), and volume. But it's absolutely an enhancer and makes for some epic mind-blowing sex. Especially when you're both on it.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 04:52 PM
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I hope you're right. I don't have the patience for long game but I think the #1 thing that helps with this is having multiple plates. Had a girl slightly HINT at not being able to keep a Friday date. Immediately texted a backup that I turned down earlier due to the first date and we was down, no fuss. Then the first girl changed her mind and decided she could make it. I pondered who I'd have to cancel with and decided to punish the first girl for being flakey. Sure enough she drove an hour to co…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 09:55 PM
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It wasn't a moment. I think it set in gradually. Part of it was constantly having the rug pulled out from me professionally (company moving to another state, areas of expertise becoming obsolete, department closing down). The other part was the massive changes in wife attitude which, ironically, sent me on a solo mission of self discovery.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 09:46 PM
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confused why the cold showers need to be at 5:00 a.m.?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 09:42 PM
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whoa! You can't just not finish with the story about the bitchy 10. How did it end? For all we know she told her friend you were a delusional homeless idiot and they were both staring at you out of amusement. Where's the close? The impression I get from your FR's is you may need some work in the appearance department. All the usual shit (lift, grooming, etc.). You're doing a good job building comfort but you're not irresistable. Fix the looks and what you say will matter half as much as before.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 05:17 PM
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Flirt and escalate with her regardless of the setting! I'm a strong believer in this. It's always been my default mode.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 04:42 PM
1

Still have belly fat and love handles to work off. Always the toughest part. Lose another 30 Lbs and you'll be a god.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/18 04:24 PM
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If she's really as awesome as you say, then it will get tested and proven when she's out drinking with tons of dudes hitting on her. I think you should let her go just to find out what she's really like.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 04:35 PM
1

Seems like the perfect situation for A&A or silent exit.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 07:29 PM
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I read the comments before watching the video. I thought he handled himself well. Spoke calmly without ever allowing his tone to get toxic. The hosts, although misguided and confused, also stayed relatively civil compared to the impression I got from the comments. To be honest I just don't understand why he bothers talking to these people. He's not "peddling" the narrative of what's attractive. I mean who in the hell is gonna convince a man to be attracted to what he is not or vice versa.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 07:18 PM
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Excellent post. Wonder myself. I suspect both things matter but there are no absolutes unless you're on the extreme ends of the bell curve in either department (personality, looks, status, wealth).
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 09:32 PM
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There's flipside to this you're not admiting or you're unawere of. I started out in life with immense work ethic. Didn't miss a single day of school from 7th grade through college. Played sports in college and got an engineering degree. Shot up in profession in my early 20's and thought I had it made. And then I realized all work ethic, excellence, and commitment to the details didn't bring me true happiness. So I became a hedonist. I do enough to make a living and stay in shape but I try to mil…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 09:24 PM
1

Quite moving and well written. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/18 05:28 PM
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Your results will depend on your SMV Seems like this get's underemphasized.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 05:08 PM
1

That's the one thing I'm always curious about with all these stories. I want to see photos of the OP and people in their story to get a better grip on the REALITY of the situation.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 06:54 PM
4

Thanks for sharing. It's hard.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 06:08 PM
1

Wait, wut? Avoid music in order to avoid dopamine? Haven't heard that one. Please expand.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 05:46 PM
2

You're off to a good start. Don't apologize for anything.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 04:51 PM
6

"She says that she left her phone back at the bar with all of our friends and that once we get it she wants to fuck. We go back and her stupid lesbian hoe sister starts to argue with her about me. They both leave." I hate when dumb luck logistics and bad luck leads to epic cock blocks.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 04:48 PM
1

"she tries again to make me worship her (by dangling the carrot of her pussy in front of me) but I tell her I have better things to do than that" What exactly do you mean by this? Was it something she said or did?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 08:57 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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