Hello, I will be trying Tinder to lose my virginity. I'm 22 years old.

But there is a complication: I live in a small village about 20 miles from a big city. There is almost no chance to meet somebody from Tinder here or in other villages around, so I have to go to dates in that city. Where should we go after the date to have sex? Because I just can't tell her to go by train with me about 20 miles to my home to that little village. Even if she agreed (I would be very surprised), it would look like this: Waiting for the train on the train station... the journey... going to my home to the other side of the village... urghh.

Should I go with her to her home? - Again, it already decreases the chance to succeed, maybe she wouldn't want to take me to her home. It would be just much easier to invite her to my home, if I lived in that city...

Should I buy a night in a hostel in advance for that day and then just hope that the date will go well? It doesn't sound so good to me, it would surely kill the vibe for her. - Finding out that I bought a night in a hostel in advance just to have sex with her. It sounds desperate and strange...

Or should we be looking for a hostel after the successful dinner or something? It just sounds terrible...

I will appreciate any advice, any tips on how to do that. Thank you.