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girls are complicated as fuck
/r/seduction20/03/22 04:03 PM
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Sounds a bit a bit strange to me to start talking about her shoes but hey I'm not the expert if you think it works give it a try.
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:41 PM

Very motivating to read! I feel like I am in the same boat as you with my social anxiety, I really have problems just stepping up to people, I did however on a few occasions but not enough probably... ​ You approach a working girl differently then a girl walking on the street. This all comes with experience. My best approaches were with girls that were actually working and in the gym. ​ Do you have any advice on approaching girls in the gym, I go a lot to the gym myself and simply love it and wo…
/r/seduction24/01/21 09:18 AM
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Really motivating to read bro, very good you did! I've done a few things out of my comfort zone but should do more. One day when I was living in Brazil, I saw this super hot girl in a shop and was like I want to talk to her so I walked across and thought I really need to go and talk with her, so I started running back and started talking to her lol xD I got a rejection right away haha but at least I did, only that short feeling of having the balls to do that made me feel amazing.
/r/seduction19/01/21 09:15 PM
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I want to get shit done, but I can't approach in the gym apparently, moved to the UK and don't know anybody here. So my options are dating apps but most girls are there for attention.
/r/seduction03/10/20 03:40 PM

Didn't you read...
/r/seduction19/09/20 11:27 PM
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Yeah, well honestly I'm also there to train off course but I love the gym and therefore get attracted to girls that do also. But it feels weird to approach there.
/r/seduction19/09/20 01:07 PM

Well at least you are able to maintain eye contact, I've encountered the same as you describe multiple times in the gym but I avoid eye contact like the plague because my mind tells me I shouldn't look at a girl while they are in the gym. While rationally thinking it is all bullshit, why not. Yet, I'm unable to do it as it makes me uncomfortable as ****
/r/seduction25/08/20 12:34 PM
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I've exactly the same.
/r/seduction24/07/20 02:31 PM

Man, thank you so much for your input! You are absolutely right, I need to get this shit sorted. I am going to start practising eye contact for now day by day in front of the mirror and with girls in my gym. Do you have any recommendations for good mentors? I used to watch RSD a lot.
/r/seduction11/07/20 12:04 PM
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Haha made me think about a Tinder date, girls sent me a screenshot of me matching with her girlfriend. The ladies were pretty angry lol.
/r/seduction11/07/20 11:55 AM
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Because girls like attention
/r/seduction11/07/20 11:54 AM

Any advice for good content to learn game? Used to follow RSD back in the day.
/r/seduction11/07/20 11:53 AM

Thanks man, love it!
/r/seduction11/07/20 11:42 AM
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Thanks mate! I'll need to work on this for sure.
/r/seduction10/07/20 06:38 AM

Men, this couldn't be a better time, I am struggling a lot with this. Also, I feel awkward smiling when making eye contact. Especially at the gym, it makes me feel I am some kind of weirdo...
/r/seduction09/07/20 07:14 PM

Hi man, thank you for your message it really means a lot to me! You're definitely right, I need to start taking action, somehow, often have the feeling that I don't deserve a girl and that she will despise me after we get a relationship because I don't have a huge social circle. I think this has to do with that I've been bullied so much till the point I started believing that I'm worth nothing. Luckily, I am a couple of years further now which made me realize this is a false belief. I'm currentl…
/r/seduction09/07/20 07:06 PM

Maybe meet somewhere in the middle.
/r/seduction29/06/20 03:57 PM

Hi mate, As u/mmillergold said just text her it's not creepy at all or maybe a voice message if that works better for you. I've been exactly like you as I suffered from severe social anxiety. What I did learn though is that you better not let it get cold otherwise it's going to be way harder to get her invested in you. Is she living far away?
/r/seduction29/06/20 03:27 PM

Have been there as well bro! It's fu*king terrible. 3 second rule might be good, I should try it.
/r/seduction28/06/20 08:04 AM
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Goed bezig! :)
/r/seduction28/06/20 08:00 AM
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I've been doing so much on self development, looking good not to be cocky but that has been told me by multiple girls. However, in social situations I'm overanlysing everything... I don't know how to stop it, it has been bothering me since childhood. I'm pretty sure this is the only thing keeping me from getting a nice girl.
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:22 PM
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Hi man, I'm in the same boat as you! I've notice a beautiful girl in my gym and I'm pretty sure she has been checking me out for a couple of times now. Don't know how to approach her. Any advice?
/r/seduction09/03/20 08:05 AM

Inspires me man, I should start doing it. Only, thing is the times I did it, it didn't work out well...
/r/seduction09/03/20 08:01 AM
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Want to use this but I feel uncomfortable when doing it to a girl. It seems ungenuine...
/r/seduction08/03/20 11:57 PM
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She told me this.... Game over Hey sorry! I’ve been a dick! Yeah I really enjoyed our time, but a guy I used to date started messaging me as he’s back in the country now and wants to give things another go! I just needed some time to think about it x
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:00 PM
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Yep, like usual
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:36 PM

Thanks, for your reply! Well, I think I will never be successful in getting a relationship.
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:28 PM
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I want to use this, but I have already had a date with here so it would be weird to ask her for a date right?
/r/seduction07/03/20 02:52 PM
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Damn, I already expected that she wasn't interested anymore but now I am pretty sure... Went with her on a date, paid like a gentleman the dinner and the shisha afterwards. We kissed, everything seemed to go very well but this week she said when I asked to go and do something: '' I have some big projects for university going on so I won't be able to do much the coming time'' I feel like I keep failing in every aspect of seduction, only shallow relationships remain...
/r/seduction07/03/20 02:49 PM
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I'm nervous about texting with a girl from which I already know she likes me. I don't know if I should ask her how her day was, because it might come across as needy.
/r/seduction25/02/20 06:33 PM
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Yeah, you're right I know that. It just felt so nice right away when we were together that evening. For instance my thought's were this morning, it comes across like if I'm uninterested in her if I don't ask her a lot of questions. Because she's back in Spain to visit her family.
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:50 PM

Hey bro, Yeah I've ignored your advice haha but to be honest it went very well. Can I send you a screenshot of the conversation.
/r/seduction14/02/20 02:14 PM

She's not home yet she will be leaving Friday. But I figured it might be weird to not say anything to here about her last reply. But I will feel that way probably with every message she sends. Think I might be over analysing the situation. It's just that I like her a lot.
/r/seduction10/02/20 09:57 PM

Thanks for the advice bro! I've sent her a message today and she seemed pretty happy to get it. She said she would like to go for a drink with me when she returns from Spain. Me: I told her I am jealous and would love to go to Spain. She: hahaha yeah, you would enjoy it there. Not sure if I should keep talking or leave it for now?
/r/seduction10/02/20 09:30 PM

Okay man, I haven't add her on Instagram yet. Do you think I should? Or is it better to just contact her next week?
/r/seduction09/02/20 07:26 PM

Alright thanks for the advice man. Why do you think I should wait texting her? I was talking with my best friend about it. And he said the same about meeting up but that he had a lot of trouble because he was to laid back and his girlfriends didn't like that. So I'm not sure if I should send her tomorrow or even today an message. Because she might have some days off before she goes back to Spain on which we could go for a drink. I've also a party coming Friday with her friends at my home but she…
/r/seduction09/02/20 05:51 PM
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Haha nevermind, plenty of fish. And I am gonna meet her again.
/r/seduction01/02/20 08:31 PM
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Well, I got the feeling that she was taking advantage of me and I don't like that type of girls.
/r/seduction01/02/20 08:31 PM

So in your opinion, I should be the little orbiter giving her all the time what she wants?
/r/seduction01/02/20 08:30 PM
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Oh boy you've a lot to learn.
/r/seduction16/09/19 02:48 PM
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Well that guy is watching RSD because Owen or Julian said this in one of their video's lol.
/r/seduction16/09/19 02:46 PM
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Tell her: '' so that's cool you have a fetish for small boys''
/r/seduction16/09/19 02:44 PM

Yeah I know her Facebook I'm only thinking that it might be a bit weird/needy to contact her that way.
/r/seduction31/08/19 11:58 AM

Yeah but this fucker knows that I am not super good in portuguêse he is and he just starts raping the conversation every time by speaking in portuguêse...
/r/seduction14/12/18 01:17 PM
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I got kind of overwhelmed by the environment, i was alone so i didn't know how to keep a stance. Instead, i ended up walking around all the time. I really couldn't approach after the third approach of two girls who were standing there with their boyfriends.
/r/seduction14/12/18 11:55 AM

I was trying to have fun initially but when you're out alone it's different. I tried talking to people who were working there etc. But the thing that broke me that evening was the following, i had the balls to go up to a group of girls and talk with them. I tried to kiss one she pushed me away, at that moment i kept my head cool and didn't care to much. But then when i started talking with this super hot Argentinian girl it went okay but then this fucking dirty Italian guy interrupted... A few m…
/r/seduction14/12/18 11:52 AM

Respect bro! i wouldn't have the balls to do that.
/r/seduction10/12/18 08:11 PM

Because I like a girl I am needy and desperate... Ever read the book of Mark Manson models?
/r/seduction02/12/18 01:18 PM
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Yes, I think in my case it's a combination of sometimes not being physical enough and awkward conversation skills
/r/seduction01/12/18 06:46 PM

He is just naturally good, I am not sure how far his understanding about game goes. I asked him a time ago about daygame but he didn't know what I meant with it.
/r/seduction26/11/18 07:12 PM

Haha yeah, unfortunately I'll be leaving next month. I really love this county.
/r/seduction26/11/18 04:55 PM
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Have you ever watched RSD? But I am looking good so that's not the problem numerous of women told me. However, inner game is a different story although, it has become way better.
/r/seduction26/11/18 04:04 PM

Yeah, well I am from Holand so I am gringo here haha. I am looking good although, I say it myself. Muscular going a lot to the gym, but as most people say, girls don't care about looks...
/r/seduction26/11/18 03:30 PM

Actually I don't see him use that much humour.
/r/seduction26/11/18 03:19 PM
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Well every time I was trying to do more than kissing she pushed my hand away. I might be exaturating about an hour kissing. At least that is how it felt. At least the sex was worth it.
/r/seduction19/11/18 01:17 PM

My roommate has already a girlfriend... I'd like to meet you big mouth on the reddit forum but actually a little boy hiding in the basement.
/r/seduction17/11/18 11:26 PM

You're so funny probably you are some guy still living in their parents basement 😂😂
/r/seduction17/11/18 08:45 PM

If you don't even the read the post don't comment please....
/r/seduction17/11/18 08:03 PM

Don't know if there is much chance here in Brazil to charge me... And I am sure she wouldn't
/r/seduction17/11/18 06:52 PM

Yeah I've already contacted her and explained that I didn't intend to do anything she didn't want. She told me that she doesn't care and that I did noting wrong. We will meet next week.
/r/seduction17/11/18 06:45 PM

Men you don't know where you are talking about... You was not there. I gave her the choice to leave inmidiatly. Instead she pushed me on the bed and started kissing me and touching me. So don't pretend you know everything...
/r/seduction17/11/18 06:44 PM

Yeah, because his girlfriend has been abused by some uncle of her. They think I will do the same with that girl....
/r/seduction17/11/18 04:32 PM

You weren't there... It was a birthday party with a lot of people thinking that I was gonna rape her...
/r/seduction17/11/18 04:31 PM
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Yeah what would you do if you're about to fuck and someone keeps knocking louder and louder on you're door... They thought I was gonna rape her
/r/seduction17/11/18 04:29 PM

Yeah i just was talking with him about it. And he was telling me some story about his girlfriend that has been abused for a long time by her uncle. And that he was representing a whole group of people who saw me drag her into the room. And that's why he did it.... He also said, that girls sometimes don't dare to say no... And later that all the guys are jealous of me and making jokes about me. Because i look good and do cool things and am good with communicating with the opposite sex. Okay, well…
/r/seduction17/11/18 02:23 PM
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Hi brother, I know how you feel. I was not that long ago in the same position. Then I moved to Brazil for an exchange program, and I thought fuck it I am gonna change my life and become good with girls. Although, I still struggle now and then I've become way better. I fucked 5 girls in 3 months which is not that bad for me lol. Anyway, I don't know your life situation but I would try to move away from your parents and start using tinder. Easy way to get in touch with girls. Goodluck!
/r/seduction08/11/18 09:27 PM
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Hi, i know at RSD they did some excercise in which you had to talk daily to the wall lol. Just talk about whatever comes up for 15 minutes do it daily and you will be better.
/r/seduction06/11/18 12:17 AM
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Yeah you're probably right, I am trying to hang out with some girl but she isn't that responsive let's move on.
/r/seduction05/11/18 06:49 PM

Awesome, respect brother! I know the feeling, I was once running after a girl I saw in a shop. At first I was thinking no i am not gonna approach her, but then I thought fuck it I am gonna talk with her. So started running after her lol. Started talking in português which I don't speak well, I got rejected but somehow I felt quite good after it for doing it.
/r/seduction05/11/18 06:44 PM

Yeah, the thing was also she brought yesterday a male friend and a girl, they were a couple and fucking drunk. So I thought it might be better to meet her without them. She seemed a bit off or tired or something I don't know... Women are hard to understand
/r/seduction03/11/18 10:21 PM
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Solid advice! I notice that I have a lot of trouble in big clubs. Smaller events are okay or big events where there is space to walk. But this crowded clubs I can't get the confidence to do it. But some pieces are falling in place now because I did one what you did and it worked perfectly.
/r/seduction03/11/18 09:47 PM

Hi bro, this is solid advice! I took a girl last week to my apartment and we were sitting the whole night talking on the balcony. I didn't kiss her at first because I was waiting for the sign of her to kiss her. At a certain point I thought fuck it and kissed her, and after that escalated. I didn't read her social cues right. Anyway, yesterday I had another girl and she was also not making strong eye contact. I have a second date with her again today. I should kiss her tonight. Fuck it!
/r/seduction03/11/18 09:38 PM
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Good job bro! 👊🏻
/r/seduction03/11/18 07:01 PM
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Nice bro!
/r/seduction03/11/18 01:51 AM
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I wanted to say hi your beautiful to women on the street but I couldn't...
/r/seduction02/11/18 06:03 AM

Thanks good post! I felt anxious but after reading it I felt somehow more confident again. Last week I saw a hottie walking in a shop. I live and Brasil for my study and speak barely portuguese. So at first I thought well I won't go I will be rejected. And then I thought fuck it I am going to approach her. I was running behind her and started talking. Off course I got rejected... But somehow I felt better after it. Anyway, I am gonna try some things today. Thanks!
/r/seduction01/11/18 03:38 PM
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Well trying to fuck is something different. But if this is his main goal the girl will now. You have to let her know in a gentle and subtle way not like '' hello I am only here to fuck you and drag you to. My mancave'' and lock you up for 30 years.
/r/seduction20/10/18 03:46 PM

Totally agree with @martingeluz, logistics are so important! It's not gonna work if you have to travel far... And a hostel is not a good option lol, it has shared rooms right. Also, your mindset comes across a bit needy, the girl will probably feel your intentions, don't be needy be cool and relaxed and don't expect anything.
/r/seduction18/10/18 11:45 AM
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Why do i get the impression that you just want to link people to your blog. But i like the content of your post!
/r/seduction18/10/18 11:37 AM

What do you mean?
/r/seduction14/10/18 05:42 PM

Yeah, i am not that anxious because last week i saw a 10 girl walking during the day. I thought at first i am not gonna approach her. But then i thought fuck it i go, went there and got rejected.
/r/seduction14/10/18 04:11 PM

Well, i know many hotties check me out, also, many women told me i am pretty. But my confidence is not solid, although it has become better. Have been struggeling for a while with social anxiety. What can i do to have a better personality?
/r/seduction29/09/18 01:13 AM

Can you give me some more details, you mean value like social status or money etc.
/r/seduction29/09/18 01:07 AM
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Well, I don't care much about what you believe little boy...
/r/seduction09/09/18 10:04 PM
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Well I just grabbed her head and directed it toward my penis haha and she followed, first time this happend in my live
/r/seduction09/09/18 09:04 PM
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No i am studying in Brazil
/r/seduction09/09/18 01:49 AM

Hi men, don't you get too much in your head when youre alone?
/r/seduction08/09/18 10:09 PM

Yeah well I don't know what to think about her on this point. Because she was not really responding that much too me in the club actually she didn't put effort in it. And then when I left she suddenly reacts
/r/seduction24/08/18 11:44 PM
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Yes, you are right! You need to have at least some social skills. I try to be in as many social situations as possible at the moment, and i notice i am changing because of it. I look physically attractive, i know this because many girls told me. But my social skills are the bottleneck. I don't agree with the statement that the guys from RSD make that looks don't matter....
/r/seduction22/08/18 04:26 PM
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Thanks going to try it
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:29 PM
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Awesome content, I was already aware of them but I notice I forget to use them in practice
/r/seduction16/08/18 09:56 PM
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Thanks a lot for the advice m8! The thing is that I don't had a moment to ask her face to face as we don't see each other everyday.
/r/seduction15/08/18 09:46 PM

Probably fucked it up really hard, I didn't really touch her. Although, i asked in the karaoke bar to sing together and she agreed. I definitely used dreamy eye lids. I just said that I didn't have a girlfriend. And I asked her out over text message because we don't see each other that often and she lives in another town nearby.
/r/seduction15/08/18 01:49 AM

Hi men, I've met her like maybe less than two weeks ago as I am on an exchange program in Brazil. She's one of the students which has to help exchange students. So in the beginning I noticed that we seemed to have a good connection. A few days later she invited all exchange students to a karaoke bar, only me and her best girlfriend showed up. We had a super nice evening, and she asked me if I have a girlfriend.... So finally I gathered the balls to ask her out today. I am 24 and she's 19 but beh…
/r/seduction15/08/18 01:35 AM

Pff feel so fucked about it... I still have to see her now and then
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:12 AM
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Yes, i think you are right, because in my opininion it was too early too go for a kiss. I don't know if this is stupid but i asked her today to go for a coffee. Inmidiatly after our first date...
/r/seduction13/08/18 12:18 PM
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I know this feeling men, had actually the same experience on the airport. Had a girl sitting next to me. And I almost sure that she liked me, but I didn't say anything. Today, also a girl in the gym and I didn't say anything again.
/r/seduction12/08/18 04:46 PM
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Hi men thanks solid advice, any advice how I can boost my state? Also, I feel being judged by my roommates and social circle when I approach girls. Especially a Hotty which like a lot.
/r/seduction10/08/18 08:46 PM

I tried this yesterday but I was alone and didn't really approach. Approached one girl standing with here friends. We talked a bit but her body language showed that she was not in to me. How can I approach more without feeling an the weirdo in the bar.
/r/seduction10/08/18 11:25 AM
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No does that matter 😅
/r/seduction10/08/18 01:13 AM
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Yeah well we ate together because she invited a bunch of people. I was the only one showing up together with her best girlfriend. Why would her girlfriend say yeah next time I drive so you can both drink. And she asked me if I have a girlfriend
/r/seduction02/08/18 08:22 PM
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Okay thanks bro!
/r/seduction02/08/18 06:35 PM

I can talk in dutch haha
/r/seduction01/08/18 07:55 PM
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Haha this is a nice one 😂
/r/seduction01/08/18 07:39 PM
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Ah that's a bit far away unfortunately I live in Santa Caterina
/r/seduction28/07/18 02:27 PM
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Haha okay thanks for the advice
/r/seduction27/07/18 06:02 PM
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haha lol, solid advice
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:44 PM
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Haha 😂 well I can tell you you can but you know girls they talk about everything especially if they are girlfriends. I had the same experience, did meet a nice girl we fucked and the day after it here girlfriend found out about it. Story didn't end well after that
/r/seduction26/07/18 04:26 PM
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