Hello Pimps,

I am from the Netherlands and now living in Brazil for an exchange, i've been struggeling with social anxiety for my entire live. However, since i am in Brazil i notice i've become more open and things are changing for me. Still sometimes i experience it. I get constantly laid with girls i met using tinder, i am physically attractive, however, my confidence could be better. I have problems talking sometimes because of the language barrier, especially in clubs where there is loud music.

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Went out yesterday with a friend to a very big club, it was cool lots of nice chicks. BUT, i didn't take action my brazilian friend was in the VIP earea and provided me with free drinks so he said i should stay near that place because otherwise i would be pushed back by the crowd. This in turn caused that i didn't walk much in the club. I didn't approach a girl. I notice i've problems in this loud environments to approach girls because i can't make myself understandable....

I felt kinda lost and my state was really droping at a point i wanted the girls and i couldn't get myself to have fun by my own. How can i prevent situations like this or what can i do?