So I'm new to the TRP and in a LTR. After trying to make plans for new years with the gf (which she blew off because her kid is 'ill') I decided to go out with the guys. She asked if I wanted to do something today and I just laugh it off, say depends on how bad the hangover is. She says 'dw then' clearly butthurt (I usually puppy dog at the chance to see her) but I follow up with 'how about the weekend?' and I hear nothing back from her.

Today she messages me saying she has plans to go out with her friend Saturday and no alternative arrangements offered. Dunno if her whole new years day plan was a shit test for me to cave and have quiet new years eve or even just not go out altogether.

At this point I don't know whether I should go radio silence, say something indifferent or just ask when she's free next?