So i'm in 16 month Ltr and the story is we lived together in one City and i got job in another and moved we did long distance for 4 months after some time i said that i want here to move and she did. Actually she left very good job all her friends and parents that she is realy connected to. First month she was horrobly depresses crying alot , after she found a job and it's not that good as she had in old town and i feel that she is stressed alot, and now sudenly i get alot shit from here. It's really sudle something like "dont pack this gift, u cant do it properly" or "look at your belly you look fat" or "this car cleaner broke because you bought shit one" and before shit tests was like " honey maybe you skip gym to hangout with me" . I actually was baby caring here allot when she moved and i think it provoked this. So now i'm kinda lost is this comfort tests or shit tests? And i'm getting tons every day. What you guys would do in my situation because i think its kinda unique