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-1

I'm fine mate. You're the one spending his free time replying to utter shitposts lmao
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:33 PM
0

he's right
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:30 PM
-2

Stop pm'ing me you faggot
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:23 PM
3

Weird way to flirt. No wonder you spend so much time here.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:21 PM
3

pretty solid answer. I feel the same way
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:12 PM
-1

You're a fucking retard. Just go to jail and save the town the trouble.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:09 PM
4

Easily one of the most fucking obnoxious posts I've ever seen. Enough with the awful paragraph spacing. If over 50% of your content is bold, it defeats the purpose of bolding your text, doesn't it? tl;dr: stop being a desperate attention whore
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:05 PM
3

Save both of yourselves the trouble and end it now.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:02 PM
21

Perfectly reasonable and I'm insanely proud of you. Holy shit, if I have a son, I hope he grows-up to be like you.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:49 PM
1

You're a fucking retard. Kick this bitch out and start allllll over.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:47 PM
1

You're being needlessly pedantic. My parentheses were put to good use, and I think it's likely that you may have autism.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 01:00 PM
1

What you do/how you behave is an extension of your mentality. You have to be outcome-independent and truly not give a fuck. You have a lot of reading to do and theory to practice.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:45 PM
1

lol welcome to women 101. I used to play "charismatic talk show host" until I realized what a cuck I was being. Close/get to the point or drop her. Since I started dropping women, I've felt much happier, though I do get annoyed when someone of them come crawling back. Like others have said, she has 20 other dicks pursuing her and she'll likely sleep with none of them, opting to fuck a chad in her local friend's group.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:42 PM
2

Also, she knows I don't like/want her to go to that club because it's known for sluts. You're probably beyond helping
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:40 PM
1

I don't recognize it. Let her do what she wants. I'd go for a passionate fucking session.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:39 PM
14

I think it would be weirder for a girl not to be into BDSM (what they think BDSM is, anyway). It's basically lay down and get pleasured. Why wouldn't they be into it?
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:34 PM
1

I've heard that there is one, but I don't know. It sounded secretive.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:17 AM
1

That's how I understood it as well. It fits in line with my own observations, too.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:16 AM
3

I'd just ignore it. Shit's annoying and life's short
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:15 AM
9

It's mostly likely a sincere thing. There are some socially retarded dudes out there who don't know how to approach women and come-off as annoying. Next time give her ass a slap and tell her that the dude has good taste, then go to pound town. She should have girlfriends to bitch to about this stuff.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:13 AM
1

I'm not sure that I see the problem. Women have been attracted to me because I was kind and polite, and it was fine. I want to contribute positively to my community lol
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:43 PM
2

Damn, this is actually really inspiring. Though, nihilism seems to have a negative connotation.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:42 PM
1

It really does work. I thought it was retarded, and I still think it is, but I can't argue with the results.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:38 PM
1

fuck
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:36 PM
1

I don't have a good answer for this. I've pulled a lot of tail with my charisma, but when you're apart of a consumer culture, you are abstracted to a product of entertainment. I've gotten tired of that and simply coast on being boring with moments of charisma when I feel like it. When I think about it, I'd guess that you're supposed to be "on" for the limited amount of time you're interacting with plates. The rest of the time you can be monk mode or fucking-off with whatever your goals are (the …
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:36 PM
1

I don't disagree with your opinion, but I also think you should have known better. I honestly don't know where you can find like-minded people as most people seem to be on the radical extremes. It's probably best to just stay off off the social Internet as much as possible, anyway.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:29 PM
3

Yeah, that's not an uncommon story (and staying together even after cheating... jesus christ). I think at first it's a big relief for women to find a "good man" who stands-out from the "fuckboys", but women still want to fuck like they're with an alpha-- just my guess. I'm sure you already know about the inverse relationship between comfort and arousal, so reality usually catches-up to these types of relationships, and stacy starts thinking about the rush (arousal) that fuck boys made her feel. …
/r/askTRP29/01/19 01:40 PM
2

I don't think you know what you're doing, but I also don't have any great advice. You went too intense on the dread game and her hamster is going nuts. I'd pass some comfort tests while soft-nexting. An LTR that doesn't send nudes sounds really fucking lame, anyway.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 01:33 PM
2

It's good that you're seeking the perspectives of others. I do this to, but for the most part, my views on people, life, and morality are fairly rigid and consistent. Though I'm open to influence, I know what my limits are and what I'm not willing to compromise on (fully accepting of the consequences). In general, I'm simply not comfortable with American levels of hedonism. I think it leads to an empty and unfulfilling life, and people of this generation are going to be very miserable fucks (I d…
/r/askTRP29/01/19 01:27 PM
32

I admit that I used to be "feminine" in a lot of ways. In my experience, I attracted women that had some form of a mental illness and sought emotional comfort and security (which feminine men provide in spades). They were all average in looks, young, had insatiable sex drives, and very low self-esteem. That's kind of a rare extreme, though. More commonly I think some women know their SMV is too low to lock commitment with top men, so they kind of settle for feminine, inoffensive men. I think all…
/r/askTRP29/01/19 01:14 PM
2

Eh, it's fine. He sounds like an attention whore. Harmless.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 02:23 PM
1

Yeah, this could work. If she ignores it or says anything that isn't a confirmation, just move on. I can't stand chasing people around.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 02:16 PM
1

Is this a good use of your time? If not, then leave it.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 02:14 PM
2

A frame that could hang a tank.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 02:10 PM
2

Unfortunately I don't have any links for you. However, I can relate to most of what you said. I used to be recklessly transparent and direct, both of which are a total mistake even though I've had a lot of success with them. In general, try to keep in mind that women like to figure you out. Don't be mysterious in an arbitrary way, like something you've read in a book or Reddit posts lol, but instead use humor, specifically sarcasm. This opens the door for a lot of banter and makes it easy to piv…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 02:04 PM
1

I like the two pieces of advice that you received: Get him in text admitting it's not true, or call him out publicly. No matter what, this faggot is no longer your friend.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 01:57 PM
7

Take it easy, killer. He's still relatively new at this.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 01:52 PM
2

Textbook move. It's nice to see good examples like this.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 01:51 PM
1

It might not be your thing. It's not my thing, so I do a date or two and then plate them. It's just my style; both are fine.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 01:43 PM
16

You should have asked her if she suffered from autism. Be prepared to banter. If she's going to act like a man, she should expect to engage in banter like one. Anyway, usually women like this get-off on that sort of power and know that they can break a lot of social mores without repercussions. In my brief experience with them, they're pretty miserable people.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 01:38 PM
9

Is it 'rude' to not give in and go for the exclusivity thing, or is this really just socially enforced norms? (I know it is). Trust me, no woman will ever be burdened with whether or not something is rude lmao. You may want to shed your whiteknight tendencies, but to answer you question: I'd go with A. In this case, be honest and direct.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:36 PM
1

Well, I feel bad for you and I'm sorry that you got hit while you were already down. Don't be too hard on yourself-- she sounds like a real fuck-up. Good luck, brother. Good things await you.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:34 PM
5

goes Mad because I compared her now childish behavior to my ex. Well, that was a huge mistake. You both sound like obnoxious assholes who make a scene everywhere they go. How old are you both? Also, dread game.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:29 PM
15

This is one of those things where we all have to pretend like we're not shallow assholes, but every single one of us absolutely is. Don't sweat it, because to plenty of women have thought the same thing about you, too. No need to guilt yourself or whiteknight. This is all just a verbose way of describing SMV.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:23 PM
0

please read the side bar before giving advice.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:21 PM
1

over text
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:20 PM
2

Dunno. I'd just get a hooker, instead. Even saying the word "sugar baby" makes me cringe.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:19 PM
1

Reductionist comment
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:17 PM
6

Agreed. High social media usage basically disqualifies a girl from an LTR, for me.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:16 PM
1

You need to live your own life and have your own mission. She now becomes secondary to that.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 02:26 PM
1

Troll.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 02:22 PM
1

Your guess is right.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 02:21 PM
1

Damn man, this is good shit. Good for you.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 02:19 PM
2

My experience with dating and women made me realize there was some massive disconnect between with how I thought things should be, and TRP taught me how things are. So I guess I'd say my experiences with dating lol
/r/askTRP26/01/19 02:18 PM
1

Shit, I should have read the comments before typing mine, because this is basically what I said, too. It's so true.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 02:15 PM
2

Just imagine what they'll be like when you're in an LTR with them. They're all the same. If your SMV was low or lower, they wouldn't give a single fuck about you. They want what you offer, so that's it.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 02:12 PM
4

My new goal is to ride the sarcasm and humor train into the grave. Women like to figure men out, and they are fucking awful at being direct and honest.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:51 PM
2

just smash and end it there
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:49 PM
0

You have to ask for head? Is this common for most people? Asking for head would make me cringe into a black hole.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:48 PM
1

I need a tl;dr before I even consider whether or not I want to read all of that.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 01:35 PM
3

how interesting. I wonder why Netflix made this show considering how Netflix is Netflix.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 01:28 PM
6

Yes, it is.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 01:20 PM
2

what are you on about?
/r/askTRP21/01/19 07:42 PM
2

Goals and ambition. Spread your focus to other things and get out of the house/off of the Internet. That advice is so good that I'm going to take it myself.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:42 PM
1

those two statements are so abstract that they're practically meaningless.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:41 PM
2

The only woman I've known who had a passion for anything was legally, mentally ill. Don't try to turn a plate or a bitch into your best friend. That's what friends are for.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:33 PM
3

seconded.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:30 PM
5

Men think they need love when they're really seeking admiration and respect.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:19 PM
2

perfectly said
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:18 PM
3

I don't understand what the point of this post is? It sounds like you're doing okay? Good work?
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:17 PM
1

Agreed. You shouldn't be concerning yourself with some weird externalities. Life's too short of that shit.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:14 PM
6

I like this one.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:10 PM
1

Spot on. This is why it's recommended to change employers every few years to increase your pay.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:57 PM
2

Agreed
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:50 PM
23

But she told me she'll need to think about meeting me another time. You're the prize And if she doesnt respond for a few weeks I shouldnt take it personally. She is now nothing more than someone who comes over and fucks you at best. No one has the time to fuck around with people this immature.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:46 PM
1

You're gonna have to learn to be okay with it. I don't ask for n counts and I don't give mine.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:45 PM
1

I would say it's pretty reasonable. I mean, most of it is seeing family. Use this time to do your own thing and have fun.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:43 PM
6

Why can't you leave the relationship?
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:37 PM
3

You're a good son, and I'm sorry that you have to see this stuff first hand. I think what you're doing is good.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:33 PM
32

Apparently I misunderstood. Let's hope she thinks like a man then.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 02:08 PM
1

This is one of the dumbest things I have ever read on Reddit.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 02:02 PM
1

haha so close
/r/askTRP19/01/19 02:00 PM
3

You're absolutely right that it's disrespectful, and the fact that her behavior hasn't changed, while not surprising, means it's time to next her. This post is so fucking pathetic that i believe you're trolling.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:55 PM
92

Whatever control you're seeking, know that it's an illusion. You're not going to defeat millions of years of evolution, that's just hubris. Keep your SMV high, stay in frame, and pray lol
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:53 PM
2

male society exists to serve women. This is a recent thing, and why it's come to this? I don't know. I don't believe women run shit, but I also know that alphas are an exception to social standards.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:27 AM
2

It's not gonna get better. Some women are just dumb cunts who need a spineless beta to submit to them.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:24 AM
1

Marriage is marriage. It's an entirely different situation that begins to escape the domain of TRP (kind of). It seems like you really like her, so what is your gut telling you? Of course, I think you're insane.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:16 AM
1

That is some amazing patience and feedback. Thank you for helping out like this.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:12 AM
1

I haven't seen results from it, no. it's simply not where my interests or core strengths lie, but being well spoken and thoughtful has helped me a lot. I've always been pretty good as keeping my emotions together, at least outwardly, but I don't consider that stoic. Just... mature.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:11 AM
2

Jim's the perfect example of a big fish in a small pond. The moment he's out of his element, his ego crumbles.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:07 AM
1

TRP does live up to its name, I've found. Yeah.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:57 AM
1

fuck
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:51 AM
2

I'm sorry, bro. That shit hurts. For me it's when they begin to emotionally withdraw and become distant. Their words become insanely formal and patronizing. I've learned not to even bother discussing it with them, because I already know they're going to gaslight me and what actions will happen next. Women are extremely covert in their behaviors and their minds are always hamstering. Your post is so true. Never ignore your instincts
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:48 AM
1

I was in your shoes once, but I couldn't do it. Depending on someone else that much makes me feel ill, but if you're gonna get married, shit, at least get something out of it, right? American divorce has a good chance of fucking you anyway.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:42 AM
2

He's right. It's frankly not something a good girlfriend does. This relationship can only be a "Disney dream come true" if you ignore behaviors like this one. Keep it in mind going forward.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:34 AM
3

Back when I was into LTRs, I made it a rule to permanently block anyone who dumped me. I've never regretted this rule, so I'd advise against even the acknowledgement of your ex's existence lol
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:31 AM
1

You are what you believe yourself to be. I don't think you can "will" yourself to be something, or mimic something great. You have to live it as a lifestyle. So to answer your question, no, you can't mimic it. You can only do it, if that makes sense. I don't think a lot of it is natural or simply the result of high test, though both play a role in it.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:29 AM
1

How the fuck did you go from such a great post to this insane shit?
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:20 AM
1

Trust your instincts. Every time I've ignored mine, I've deeply regretted it.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:19 AM
1

false
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:15 AM
1

It's a next for me. I don't like dancing around and chasing-- Feels pathetic and desperate.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:09 AM
3

Ignore them. I don't have time for that stupid nonsense.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:08 AM
3

In my experience, they feel as though they have a competitive advantage over the girl. Surprisingly, it doesn't lower the man's SMV.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:07 AM
1

I'm gonna guess that she can tell. When that's happened to me in the past, I owned it and laughed it off. Sounds dumb, but it works.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:05 AM
1

Honestly, you sound like you have a good understanding of your situation and what's to come. So long as your girlfriend respects you (and you respect yourself), you should be fine.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:00 AM
5

"Don't have time for that stuff"
/r/askTRP18/01/19 01:56 AM
4

Block and move on. Leave the past behind you. Add a tl;dr next time, please.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 01:51 AM
-1

The job definitely makes a difference. For men, too.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 01:40 PM
7

Are you okay?
/r/askTRP11/01/19 01:37 PM
2

A 25 year old woman hanging out with an 18 year old guy is already pretty weird, so I believe that she may be telling the truth. I've known Christians who waited until marriage, but they are really repressed and horny as fuck. I don't like to mess around with those types, but it sounds like a good thing for you. Only you can know the truth.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 01:36 PM
1

I don't like dinner dates. I prefer coffee shop, bar, etc-- so very casual attire.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:20 PM
3

Shit, I could have written this myself.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:17 PM
3

100% in almost every way. It helped me move from bitterness to acceptance and living a healthy, productive life.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:15 PM
1

Sounds really obnoxious. Just block and move on.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:14 PM
3

You should have continued to ignore her. While other men fill her physical void, your purpose will be to fill the emotional one like some kind of sexless teddy bear.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:10 PM
1

I understand. Perhaps you're experiencing disillusionment, or you're reaching your limit of tolerance. Regardless, it's important to accept things as they are and to focus on productive behaviors. Focus on leaving.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:06 PM
1

It is indeed. What a world.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:23 PM
2

To raise the Roman Empire back to its glory days. Fuck straight answers.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:18 PM
1

I don't know if you played it correctly, but that's exactly how I would have handled it. Social media like that bores the testosterone out of me
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:17 PM
1

I agree with basically everything he said, and have been in your situation before. You've done the right thing, so keep her blocked and try to fill your life with new people.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:13 PM
0

At first I thought you had mental problems, but then I realized that you were just Colombian.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 02:28 PM
1

Don't over think it. If she's happy to please you, there's nothing wrong with reciprocating.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 02:18 PM
1

I understand how you feel, but this is why practice is more important than theory. Find your own way, Luke.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 02:15 PM
16

I used to have a few of them, but that shit is pointless.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 02:14 PM
1

Oh man, that was rough to read.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 01:26 PM
3

Respect. I don't mean obedience, but rather, someone who admires your character and shows it with their actions. The downside is that women are largely incapable of respecting anything.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 01:25 PM
1

What is "seeking arrangements" exactly? If she's boring, take-tits level of shallow, and using beta bucks to fund her tits, then yeah, a retard like you should probably wife her so the rest of us don't have to deal with it.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 01:18 PM
6

I had a girlfriend like this. She was very smart, educated, and curious, but in fact sponged-up every every word I said and would use it against me during disagreements or similarly out-of-context situations. She was legally classified as mentally ill. You can imagine how poorly things went when I began to do the same thing to her. Be wary of women who ask a lot of questions and follow-up questions without giving their own opinions (they're often disguised as an abstract shit test). They're not …
/r/askTRP06/01/19 01:12 PM
2

It's relative and on a continuum, so no; there is no forced choice.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 01:08 PM
2

Withdrawing is okay, but you have to withdraw completely and focus on something else instead of waiting, hoping, pouting, etc. This will also help you seem less needy. I think it could lead to a conditioning, but more likely it will lead to her feeling obligated after a while (the killer of attraction). I mean, you guys don't even live together and it sounds like she's totally complacent. Don't get me wrong, I like the laid back and comfortable lifestyle a lot, but if some bitch comes over to br…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 01:05 PM
6

You haven't read anything in the sidebar, have you?
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:50 PM
4

You drove your car into a wall? Wtf seek therapy immediately.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:44 PM
1

Yeah, it's best not to even engage in these kinds of shit tests. A little restraint can save a lot of headaches, and no good conversation will come of it, anyway.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:42 PM
38

Yep. Pretty solid compromise.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:40 PM
5

haha ah, to be young again
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:39 PM
6

A lot of people over-invest in their LTRs, so when the LTR ends, that person feels like a bitter fool. People also take the path of least resistance and become complacent, which obviously manifests itself as stagnation in a relationship. You can spin plates or do and LTR if you want.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:37 PM
1

I'm not sure I understand what you're afraid of. Who gives a shit if idiots reside here so long as they're clearly unwelcomed? *In fact, I welcome them. They and their contributions are great examples of what not to do, and can be used to explain what TRP is about as much as what it isn't.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 01:32 AM
1

I completely disagree with you. As a matter of fact, most "incel" posts are routinely criticized with disdain outright.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 01:01 AM
1

I can see the big picture. The women, the betas who support them, the thirsty degenerates who fuck anything, etc. I'm disgusted by society, I think, but I've moved into an acceptance phase.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:14 AM
3

Realistically you can't text only for logistics. I believe that sentiment serves are a reminder not to get lost in useless attention-giving activities like texting when you could be doing something more fulfilling or interesting. Unfortunately, too much attention is an attraction-killer for women.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:11 AM
2

I tend to fuck around with women who want me to be satisfied, not successful and unsatisfied. I'm on that quest for self-fulfilment, thots be damned. Get out of this bitch's frame and consideration.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 04:11 PM
1

I usually answer the first comfort test directly with a big compliment, and the rest with humor (your line is something I'd throw in subsequently). Women that insecure are usually a mess, so I'd soft next with radio silence until she shows initiative to rescheudle.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 04:09 PM
1

I felt the same way in high school. If I could go back in time (wouldn't really care to), I'd tell myself to keep your eyes forward and focus on school, goals, and plates. No one at that age is worth feeling sick over lmao We're very emotionally vulnerable and sensitive at that age, or at least I was. You're just going through growing pains.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 04:05 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:57 PM
1

What's the tl;dr?
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:56 PM
2

This didn't happen. If it did, it's a total outlier that doesn't warrant any kind of mental consideration.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:53 PM
3

I'm a "spirit of the law" kind of guy. I'm also a bit more conservative and should I ever be stupid enough to have a daughter, I'd hope that focuses on her school, friends, and paling around with people her own age instead of university students. I know there are some teens who physically develop very early and would be indistinguishable from a 22-year-old, but it just seems wrong to me.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:52 PM
3

it's all good. I've never been married, so hopefully others can share their experiences with you. I believe that marriage and TRP are a contradiction, but people have and are writing books on married RP, so you may want to look into that. What goal can you have when you're married? Any! The point of a goal is personal fulfilment and self-realization! Of course, some goals more realistic than others when you're married (and/or have a kid). You can focus on work, side-projects, hobbies, friends, y…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:45 PM
5

Agreed. 16 is basically a child, even for a 22-year-old
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:18 PM
1

The end goal is the on-going goal to have direction and drive in your life. Whether you're spinning plates or getting married, have a goal. If you're marriage minded, you can also think of TRP as a vetting process.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:17 PM
11

It's a very frustrating part of modern society. We're expected to grin and bear it, which is why I don't mind when other people on TRP post their frustrations and disillusionment. We're only human, and this sort of thing can wear you down.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:04 PM
5

She claimed I did after we broke up, but I knew better and she realized she was "mistaken" and just missed her period. Kind of a weird version of the tactic to get my attention, but there was an attempt.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:02 PM
16

I feel ya. It absolutely is ridiculous, yeah, and supposedly most of those women don't even hook-up with anyone in the end; it's just about validation.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:23 PM
3

It's no problem. Honestly, I would just read, "The Rational Male." It's not even that well written, so you can skim the verbose parts, but it has a lot of perspectives to consider. I should really look into some other theories to practice with.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:22 PM
0

I know that.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:21 PM
4

Shit, man. You went through all of that? Just reading that feels awful. I'm sorry.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:18 PM
4

Absolutely. I've had this happen to me before, too. That's why you always "control the birth."
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:16 PM
1

I don't think you can really prepare for it, to be honest. My advice is this: When you move abroad, stay out of your home for as long as possible. Stay public and visible however you can-- hanging in bars, libraries, coffee shops, etc. It's really easy to feel lost or intimidated by how different an unfamiliar a culture can feel. Try to join some groups. other than that, have fun! Now's the time to try new things and meet some cool people.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:16 PM
13

I think you should keep it as a backup plan, but I've always had better results from the day game. Usually meeting new people and building rapport, yeah. It's far more exhausting, though.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:09 PM
3

You are wrong. Everything you've said is likely what you've seen other people say, which is a logical reply. However, keep things simple-- have a driving goal in life. Is it health? Sports? Art? Your career? Hobbies? I dunno, but keep your health up and focus on your goals. These goals should be your #1 love in life. If you take a magnifying glass to your relationship searching for problems and ways to solve them, you're completely in another person's frame (I get it, I used to be like that too)…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:07 PM
3

To answer your question: yes, to some degree, culture can absolutely overcome biology. I'm reminded of that lady who froze her eggs and focused on her career, only to discover her eggs failed to work and she lost her dreams of having children (lol). This was a woman whose insane decisions about reproduction were guided by her culture.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:02 PM
4

The usual story of disillusionment with modern dating and relationships.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:55 PM
1

Well, I wouldn't do it.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:53 PM
3

You don't know anything about TRP, do you? Can you tell me what you think you should do?
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:48 PM
4

I second this as well. I only deal with shittests if I feel like a person's frame is worth fucking with. If I have absolutely no respect for them, then I don't bother with them at all. Life's too short for that nonsense.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:43 PM
85

That's why texting and social media is not a great way to date. It's too abstract and impersonal, so women flake and have an extraordinary amount of attention/options. Just the nature of the beast.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:41 PM
1

Your older brother sounds like an obnoxious dickhead. You're doing everything right, but you do have to let your anger go and learn how to banter without getting hurt or angry. Outcome independent and all that. My younger brother has anger issues, too (without me being a dick), and it's really uncomfortable to witness.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:39 PM
6

Start contacting the building owner. They usually have fines for things like that. It probably helps if you record the situation, too. pretending to be cool about it and then being a little bitch by blasting the music is a cringe-y thing for your neighbor to do lol. How embarrassing.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:34 PM
1

Direction in your life; goals that precede all else. Eternal frame. In short: personal fulfilment--whatever that may be.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:12 PM
3

There's no way that this is healthy or a good use of your time.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:11 PM
1

It's all relative. "Staceys" are always blonde, but blondes do absolutely nothing for me.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:10 PM
3

Agreed. It may feel cathartic at the time, but in the grand scheme of things, you're just repeating bad behaviors. Better to be disciplined now and not keep falling into the same pits.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:09 PM
3

This is how I handle it. I hate texting, though, so it's kept to a minimum.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:08 PM
1

Congratulations on making a healthy choice. I think your instincts are right, and I believe this will be a good year for you if you follow the advice in this thread and put it to practice. Good luck!
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:07 PM
2

This is so goddamn pathetic. I'm actually cringing.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:00 PM
5

I've been there (a few times, admittedly). I put them on a pedestal and was completely in their frame until I realized I was doing something wrong and read The Rational Male. When I look back, I feel a bit sad about how innocent and kind I was. These days it's very easy to get over a woman by spinning plates and dating around. At my age I've realized that anyone who doesn't want to be a part of my life doesn't need to be a part of my thoughts, either.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 12:55 PM
2

I wouldn't have tried to save the marriage. I'd just divorce, lose half my shit, and not repeat the same mistakes again. Chris Watts was an idiot or mentally ill.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 12:48 PM
3

I only eat pussy if I really like her and it's a monogamous relationship, so I understand where you're coming from. They almost never outright ask in my experience, so i just ignore their body language and fuck them instead lol. It's like a bad Seinfeld episode
/r/askTRP02/01/19 12:06 AM
1

Happy new year
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:29 PM
1

I wouldn't even bother fucking her unless she was basically willing to come over and do all of the work lol. You're entirely in her frame.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:24 PM
1

Honest question: Do you think she can become LTR worthy?
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:23 PM
5

Agreed. Textbook 101 stuff: a woman's words and actions are two different things
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:19 PM
3

Well said. Whatever you are, just own it and own your frame. Don't worry about keeping a dual identity so much as just maintaining your own frame.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:15 PM
7

She's fishing for attention because she's either greedy or looking to branch swing. I wouldn't even reply-- leave that shit in the past.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:12 PM
2

It's not a big deal, but it's also a good idea to keep "political" stuff to yourself.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:07 PM
1

It's possible that you simply haven't met the right girls. Maybe you can try casual dating instead of picking-up women? I'm not really into the ONS stuff and never have been. Dating is a lot more fulfilling, but it can also be super boring as well if she's not your type.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:05 PM
2

Shit only gets worse after marriage lol. You're locked in, you have a child, I mean, why do you think dead bedrooms are a thing? If people started giving you free money, would you keep working? There are happy marriages, but my point is this: people don't change. I've devoted my life to growing and improving, and even underneath it all, I have to admit that I'm still the same at my core.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 03:45 PM
11

Agreed.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 03:43 PM
1

Nice, maybe you'll act like you're intelligent, too
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:52 PM
3

There it is
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:44 PM
0

How many accounts do you have? Is this what you do all day? Just posting retarded literotica nonsense?
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:41 PM
3

Great, more stupid fanfiction-tier writing
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:40 PM
1

I would not fuck around with divorced women or single moms. Shit's just bad news.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:36 PM
2

I'm damn proud of you for how you handled that. Keep spinning if you want, but make sure you're using proper protection.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:35 PM
1

I would say it's a combination of looks, age (fertility), and pressure from friends who are having kids of their own/settling down. A lot of them surprisingly aren't aware of how hard it is to have kids after 28+, but if they're not kid-minded or pressured to settle down, then it's primarily about looks, yeah.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:33 PM
1

Be aware of the "crabs in a bucket" mentality. People don't like change, so expect to be treated with resistance and other nonsense.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:21 PM
6

When I read, "The Rational Male" and it defined my long dating history to a T. I wasn't even that bluepilled or beta-- it simply explained in detail what I was already observing. The final straw was when my unicorn turned-out to be one of the worst people I had ever met. That's when I decided to stop being a romantic and instead see what the RP was about.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:19 PM
1

You're gonna have to speak for yourself there, miss
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:14 PM
1

I will say that I've rarely seen cheating. However, I have seen a SHIT TON of branch swinging. Women will technically follow the letter of the "law", but not the spirit. I've had three (3) exs that had boyfriends when they tried to reconnect and flirt with me. They probably wouldn't have cheated on their exs, but they would have dumped them to be with me in a day or two if I wasn't such a principled retard. You don't commit without extreme vetting and a base level of respect. Even then, you're a…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:09 PM
1

yeah, I think you're right. So weird
/r/askTRP31/12/18 12:30 AM
0

Believe in logic? Wtf? Do you believe in gravity?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 05:20 PM
2

I feel ya. Dogs really are a man's best friend.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 05:19 PM
1

yeah, you got it
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:55 PM
1

Huh, interesting point
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:51 PM
1

They may do it, sure, but it's undeniably covert and feminine behavior.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:50 PM
1

I mean, yeah. What kind of retarded question is this? lmao
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:49 PM
3

They will never feel bad, not for any meaningful amount of time. Women do this because it's a feminist society and there are no consequences for this behavior. Their decision to behave covertly with dating is usually stuff like, "It's too dangerous to be direct because men get angry/violent when they are rejected." etc. etc.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:48 PM
0

they will look to their man for guidance & the wisdom on how to navigate through life. If they did this, they wouldn't be children, mentally. Your post is contradictory.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:44 PM
8

I broke-up with a girl for this kind of behavior. Instantly felt better and never looked back (rare for me, as I'm always second-guessing myself). This shit's only going to get worse the longer you tolerate it, and I've noticed that people who swear and storm away like that are stubborn as fuck. You can do your best, but at the end of the day, they either want to exercise restraint and respect you, or they don't.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:39 PM
2

Sounds like too much work. Just adopt a kid, instead
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:33 PM
2

well-said.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:20 PM
5

what the fuck kind of fanfiction is this? Only one other person in this thread can see though this bullshit? Really?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:12 PM
3

Right. I wouldn't even bother at this point.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:09 PM
13

u/btrpb misread and took the rainbow pill
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:04 PM
1

I see. What do you feel you should do?
/r/askTRP29/12/18 03:13 PM
1

He has a daughter. Our society is so fucked up.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:30 PM
2

I think you should still try to keep moving and don't stagnate. Keep the diet right, learn some mean recipes, do some reading, maybe even consider meditation. I hope you get well soon, and I'm sorry that you're dealing with this stuff. do not stagnate, or you'll fall into a depressive habit
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:28 PM
1

lmao
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:25 PM
1

I dunno, maybe they just want to wait for their hair to dry and develop some kind of routine around it.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:25 PM
1

I feel the same. Thanks for your other book suggestion.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:23 PM
1

I thought so. You could try it, and it may or may not work, but you should know that this is fundamentally against the red pill advice. You may want to ask r_relationships. Me personally-- I don't want someone to think that it's okay to break-up with me, or that I will chase after them. I only reward good behavior, and I'm always open to calm, productive conversations about FEELINGS and the relationship. If someone hints at or breaks-up with me, I show them where the door and do a hard block wit…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:21 PM
1

yep.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:15 PM
1

I've been in your shoes before. I regretted not breaking-up with her after the first month of her disrespectful shit. The more you tolerate and accept, the worst it's going to get. Challenge her and she may leave, but life is too short to deal with this kind of behavior. I disagree with the top comments that say you should ease her stress (any more than you already are). You're gonna burn-out, and that's some straight-up savior complex bluepill shit.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:12 PM
2

Yeah, I feel you. I'm sure most of us have been in your shoes before. May I ask what it is that you want to do?
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:09 PM
5

Do you know what a cuddle party is?
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:07 PM
1

Can you give me an example or two of how he "shit talked" you? I can probably give a better answer after that.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:06 PM
3

It's mostly been because of sheer boredom. Women have been drawn to me because of my charisma, but they themselves were so passive and spiritually bland. The other reason is simply disrespectful behavior. I'm not sure why women would date someone they feel is worthy of being treated like shit, but I've seen that a few times. tl;dr: what u/adadya said
/r/askTRP29/12/18 01:54 PM
2

Welcome to the world of women lol. Start getting used to short-sighted decisions now, because it's not going to go away. I don't know why your girlfriend broke-up with you, but "experience" is just an abstract buzzword to make it seem like she had a reason that was different from reality. Maybe she found someone more interesting and confident. For the record, the mutual friend didn't do anything. Your girlfriend did. If you're going to have a girlfriend, find one who will stick-up for you, even …
/r/askTRP29/12/18 01:50 PM
1

I hope things get better for you.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 02:29 PM
1

You're overthinking it because your instincts rightly detect that something is wrong. LTR is already a tricky thing with human nature. An LDR is a goddamn nightmare. I can't say that she's doing someone else, but you're definitely not a high priority in her eyes.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:26 PM
3

Dating apps are a total shitshow. You can increase your odds, but honestly I think it's better to skip that "filter" and work on your day game. I don't even use dating apps as a backup, that how much I dislike them.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:23 PM
1

(I know you‘re probably gonna reading this because you brought me here, so go and fuck yourself.) What is this about? Anyway, the sidebar or the book, "The Rational Male" has a lot of information that can be said more concisely than what I'd tell you.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:20 PM
3

Yeah, OP's instinct was right, I think.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:13 PM
1

Can you tell me a little more about the research that you've done?
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:09 PM
3

I was in a kind of similar situation before. Honestly, I just couldn't bear it. Not only was she mentally in a state of arrested development, but she was just so... dumb. Highly educated, but impulsive and difficult to communicate with. I don't know how the fuck gold diggers do it. I felt like I was killing myself. TL;DR: It's better to laugh on a bicycle than to cry in a BMW (maybe someone else will get the reference)
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:00 PM
2

I have, but they were kind of fucked-up mentally
/r/askTRP28/12/18 04:00 AM
1

You're getting shit on, but I find myself agreeing with you. Unwitty shit tests are just obnoxious. I'm not really into dread game stuff too much either, so that's probably why.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 03:56 AM
1

"and you look fat from that angle" lmfao absolute mad man haha I don't have any good advice here. That shit is just hilarious. I don't mind a few shit tests, but she sounds insufferably insecure. Who tells their man they look gay at a certain angle? I'm not even fucking her and I feel annoyed
/r/askTRP28/12/18 03:51 AM
0

I'm the prize. She should want to meet me and make plans for me. I'll take the lead and get things going, but I do not chase and harass them to reschedule-- that's on them. The best way to get a woman to want you more frequently is to have a higher SMV. it's that simple. I know it sounds abstract, but you'll know when a woman really, truly wants to be with you compared to a bitch who's blowing you off all of the time. Life is just too short to fuck with the latter. TL;DR: You're right, there's p…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:49 AM
1

Cheers and goodluck
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:47 AM
3

I feel for ya because I've been in your shoes before (when I was young). I would read, "The Rational Male" and try to reset your approach with "girlfriends". I agree with the other users that say she doesn't have respect for you, and when that's lost, I don't think you can or really should get it back.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:42 AM
2

This sounds so petty and meaningless. Are you sure you want to devote this much energy to a school debate? Anyway, to answer your question, """""win""""" with a likeable rhetoric. Treat it like you're a chatty talk show host. Sounds weird, but it worked for me.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:39 AM
5

Mexican cuisine, exclusive plates... I have no idea what the fuck you are trying to say lol
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:36 AM
1

Rule of thumb is to never raw dog-- if not for the simple fact of preventing STDs, then to control the birth. Never trust a woman that she's on the pill or taking them faithfully. It sucks, but it's the safest move.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:33 AM
7

Yeah, I would not text again. I've been in your shoes, almost exactly. You'll be alright.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:30 AM
3

This is probably the best reply
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:27 AM
1

I tell them I'm an arms dealer. Interview questions bore the fuck out of me, so just make it fun and flip it back on them.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:19 AM
2

I don't know what gives. People are complacent and take the path of least resistance, so I guess she's just an unchecked asshole.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:17 AM
3

Typically I don't give a fuck. I used to, but it only made me reek of insecurity, and trying to change someone's behavior is a total waste of time. Have fun and let her do her thing, but don't expect this to be a long term thing.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:15 AM
6

I don't know. I could probably hate my ex forever if I wanted to, but I blocked her and decided to live a happy, productive life, instead. No need for either of you to look back. Further more, there are going to be people who just fucking hate you for little to no reason. Pay them no mind if you can.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:11 AM
10

Well, here's the bad news: You sound like a nagging beta. The good news: You can fix this with some reading and a better grip on your behavior. I highly recommend "The Rational Male". To answer your question: Don't text her. Let her text you and make it up to you. In fact, don't text too much, full stop. When you text, pretend as though your texts are going to be read to a jury-- that means keep it free of cringe and stupid shit.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:00 AM
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