Hey guys,ill keep this as short as possible.

Plate 27 (i'm 30) id say we are both same SMV, i'm not blown away by her, great body, everything else kinda plain, she does 80% of the pursuing, been like that for the last 3 months, she wants LTR, ive been honest in telling her that's not what i want. No shit tests so far until now.

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Last night we were out in bars, i looked at this 10 who walked past, she didnt like it, complained, we resolved it, the rest of the night went on fine, she was all over me etc.

we get back to hers as usual , this time 'You aren't allowed a BJ tonight, looking at other girls while with me isnt cool (whilst cuddling me and kissing me )

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What i don't like here is the 'your not allowed' part, if she was so angry about it and generally wanted me to fuck off / stay away from me / your not staying in my bed etc i wouldn't give a shit, my issue here is that shes using sex as a weapon to regulate my behaviour, to train me like a dog, to use sex as some sort of reward / punishment system and i aint cool with that. I very close female co worker of mine who is very blue pill minded even agrees with me on this exact point. what do you guys think?

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Also for the record i just said 'Cool' and went to sleep.