My LTR has been really bitchy lately. She's usually very compliant, cooks for me, sucks my D every time she get's the chance, swallows my load and tells me "thank you" every time afterwards. So yeah, guess what, she's pretty cool to hang out with.

But lately I've been getting massive shit testing to the point that it's starting to get really annoying, and getting the best of me (emotions). Have been repressing some angryness and getting headaches... which made me think to next her, but really I think it's just a matter of handling things efficiently.

All started when she began to criticize my "ego" lately. She says it's always about me me me. When I call on her bs or tell her I don't like her attitude about something she tell's me "It's always about what YOU don't like". When I'm giving some advice to a friend, she says "Stop talking like you know everything". Or when I try to advice her "Stop talking like you always know better". Has been very non compliant on purpose. The other day I was sitting and she was standing, I opened my arms and told her to come to hug her, and she said "no", was puzzled and she replied: "Because I'm standing here, don't you think about what I want? Maybe I just want to stand here, why do I always have to do what YOU want."

If it weren't for the TRP I would have lost my frame huge time. I began doubting myself, either way, thinking, "maybe i'm being a egotistical self centered asshole to everyone". But the fact that this only happens with her and that I'm here on TRP has helped me stay on frame.

Still, don't know how to proceed. Don't know if maybe I'm just being too demanding, or being too controlling. Maybe I should just stay amused and follow her game? like, if she says me something like "Why don't you come over", get amused and play her game? Deep inside I'm getting kinda angry and I just wanna tell her "I feel you try to shut me down every time and I hate that". I KNOW she would reply "It's always about how you feel" or some BS. Don't know, how to proceed.