Mad girl

FuckboyAWALT · 2019-01-19T16:54:55+00:00

Read the sidebar.

You totally lost frame and sound like a needy bitch.

She wants a man that can enjoy himself even if he doesn’t know anyone, not a puppy. Hell if she isn’t interacting with you go and talk to her friends or look for a hotter girl in the bar and approach her.

You sound like a boring guy. Why did you even write this pathetic message to her?

Well next and learn from your mistakes

FeralRed · 2019-01-19T17:48:07+00:00

WTF is wrong with you?

Turn on the charm, you're out with a girl and her friends at a bar. Shake some babies, kiss some hands. Be the mayor...

Be the Mayor, not Chad. Despite the fact I have a long and sordid history with PUA in the mid-2000s, I don't "run game" anymore. I'm just the goddamn Mayor. You know who the Mayor is, right? You walk in, he warmly greets you. He offers you a drink, he seems so goddamn happy you're there. He asks you about the things important in your life, even though you've previously only interacted with him briefly before. He tells you a hilarious story. Then he's off to circulate -- but that's OK, he's the Mayor, and when he said "I'll catch up with you later," you believed him. And he did. Later on, the Mayor drops in a conversation you're having a few others. It's almost like he knows exactly when the group was having a bit of a lull in the conversation, and he pops up. Another funny story. A round of drinks -- he breaks out a special single malt scotch, and you feel kind of bad, but he says, "oh come on, I'm just happy to have people here to drink this with me." You know that's totally bullshit, since this guy has like 400 friends, but it makes you feel warm and fuzzy anyway -- just as warm and fuzzy as the Mayor's scotch does, which like all things about him, is appealing and in excellent taste.

Later, you see the Mayor seemingly flirting with an attractive girl -- wait, isn't he married? -- except then he's bringing that girl over to you. "Hey 2guns, I was just talking to [cute girl here], she mentioned she's also into [some esoteric hobby he knows you have]. Thought you guys should meet." You know the Mayor isn't your best friend -- how could you be, when he seems constantly surrounded by friends and loved ones -- but you know he makes you feel that way in the few minutes you talk to him.

You want to "run game"? Run some Mayor game. This whole thing where you flirt with girls and get their phone number is cute and all, but essentially you're investing all your social capital into a girl you'll probably never see again, and for guys on MRP, it's usually just out of some stupid sense of validation because they never got to fuck the Prom Queen. That's why I think it's hilarious. You are building some great fucking social capital with your band, and getting the most excited when you spend it only people who can't possibly ever pay it back in any way you can (or should) care about. You want to hit on girls? Sure. The Mayor flirts, but only because he likes warming up those girls to introduce them to his younger coworkers.

You can't go back in time and fuck the Prom Queen, but what's stopping you from being the Prom King?

Think about that for awhile, I've gotta get going. This black tea is getting cold.

What you did was a DLV, a demonstration of low value, which is the opposite of what you should be doing, which is cultivating a constant flow of Dread.

Shame on you for thinking it was your girl's job to entertain you, then getting butthurt when that covert contract blew up in your face.

There is a sage that's no longer a participant here, but you should read every word he ever wrote if you're in a LTR.

u/jacktenofhearts

His explanation of dread here is particularly relevant to your little tantrum. Those are his words in Italics above, BTW.

What should you do? Nothing. It's over, learn from it. Don't let it continue to infect your mind.

throwawaybpdnpd · 2019-01-19T18:02:30+00:00

You acted like an effeminate low value needy bitch, no wonder she’s mad at you for quitting out of nowhere

It was your job to take the lead and present yourself to her friends, to show her ex you are a true male; but you didn’t

You putting the blame on her is even worst. Instead, you should learn from this experience and never replicate it

[deleted] · 2019-01-19T17:29:42+00:00

Ghost

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-01-19T19:43:42+00:00

You're an introvert dating an extrovert. That typically works better when it's extroverted male and introverted female. That was a bad set for you because lots of her friends, her fucking EX - whose idea was that? - and then she drags you into it.

So first, stop being butthurt about it, and stop sending bitchy texts. Re-engage as if nothing happened and set something up where it's just the two of you. At some point let it drop that you're and introvert and prefer one-on-one interactions, and not big group hugfests.

Title	Mad girl
Author	Willy-Wanka15
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	January 19, 2019 4:45 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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