Made a big mistake at work

causeandcorrelation · 2015-12-11T08:28:09+00:00

There is power in claiming victim hood and most women 'can' extract a utility from that power. By suggesting that a woman isn't a victim, you effectively remove her from a large space of power that she can draw from in the future. You recover by holding frame while changing subjects in the future; if you are challenged.

The__Tren__Train · 2015-12-11T07:37:25+00:00

you committed the cardinal sin by implying that a woman may in fact, not be a victim. learn from this.

as for what will happen, it's too soon to tell. I would suggest you keep your head down for the time being.

TRPdating · 2015-12-11T09:49:13+00:00

Boy, you fucked up HARD.

No, you can't recover. Those precious few seconds of silence were all your coworkers needed to galvanize their new, lower opinion of you.

Next time shut your god damn mouth unless they are talking about something related to your role in the company. You are there for WORK, not for friends. Get this in your head.

MattyAnon · 2015-12-11T10:34:45+00:00

I noticed the following two days my boss acting a little different toward me so I've just been avoiding her.

Don't avoid. Play it like nothing happened. Maintain comfort.

yes, you're probably overreacting.

hb8only · 2015-12-11T07:38:40+00:00

he should be acting the same way as usual but you paid a lot of attention and you feeled it other way. just let it go men

workdavework · 2015-12-11T18:08:29+00:00

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What is this?

Bigmouthatwork · 2015-12-11T18:35:46+00:00

Title	Made a big mistake at work
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	December 11, 2015 6:52 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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