Met a 34, divorcee (didn't know this) and HB 4/ 5. She seemed flirtatious on text but met. Bounced to two venues. Held hand after first venue. Kino. But she didn't a kiss . Said only had sex with one guy.

I tried to remain frame. Try not to react. Talk sexually then change. She kept resisting. She never kisses guys randomly - thought this was an ASD and kept pushing/pulling. When she said she was a divorcee it threw me a bit. Is it too alpha to say if 'I meet you next time wear a dress and put more make up on'? She said I'm misogynistic. That she can't read me and I'm a dick at times. Maybe I tried too hard. Tried to push and pull. Kissed her neck a bit but no kiss on lips.

So I became frustrated (obviously lost frame)..how do you respond when she says 'you're so evasive and don't answer questions?'. She kept asking about my ex and girlfriends. I tried to evade but then she pinned me down on when I broke up with my ex etc.

I didn't kiss her on the way out. I kissed her neck and on way I said what if I push you against a wall and kiss you what would you say? She said she'll slap me. I ended up getting angry and saying cause she's a divorcee she has so many issues and layers that she can't get over herself. It wasn't a nice thing. I lost frame right? How to maintain and not care? It was bad vibration. I said I won't see her again. i blocked her. I know it's one girl but how to maintain and step over shit tests?!

I feel a bit low and talk to one of girls I'm seeing but I'm trying to keep it not so serious.. How do move on without it affecting you?

Thanks