My LTR is submissive for the most part. Always in the bedroom.

Sometimes she will try to “play games” and not do what I ask her. For example, the other night I told her to go turn off the lights and she responded with “i’m not your slave, do it yourself”. I agreed and amplified but she still wouldn’t do it. I ended up turning the lights out and then revoked attention afterwards and read my book.

How can I get her to be more submissive to me?