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Agreed…? Isn’t that what i just said?
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 07:57 PM
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Nope, because I have different views on what I want from men than what I want from women. Friendship doesn’t require me to care about their sexual history, whereas that changes a few things for me in a more intimate relationship. But assuming I were bisexual + wanted the same thing from both of them, then yes I’d judge them the same.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 06:34 PM
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That women have the same right to choose whether or not they want a relationship with that guy.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 05:49 PM
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This post wouldn’t last 30 seconds in r/MurderedByWords. If I’m guessing/betting, it’s a rule 5 “sexism”
/r/PussyPassDenied15/06/21 02:30 PM
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This is just petty, definitely not king shit. King shit would be learning your lesson on splitting the first date bill for next time and losing this broads number. Seriously, this accomplishes nothing for the guy. She’s not gonna respect your excel receipt, so you’re really only doing this for an ego boost.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/21 03:36 PM
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I’d say the underlying reason is that the women that don’t stay lose interest because their man isn’t as high value as before. That + the thought that they will have to sacrifice their life for someone they won’t love anymore. I believe my mom had the same thoughts there, but decided against it (hence her being really hard on those who made the opposite decision). To me, that’s all that matters regardless of rationalization
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 11:26 PM
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I mean, I lived through it and saw how much it hurt her emotionally. I’d be inclined to believe what she had to say there. I don’t doubt she had the same thoughts (hence her being really hard on others who made that decision), but she made the right decision in the end. To me, that’s all that matters.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 11:21 PM
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My mom stayed with my dad through something very similar to this, and I’ve listened to my fair share of her shit talking women who don’t stand by the man they married. Most of them rationalize it as a regular divorce, like “I value my freedom more than my commitments.” And they also get VERY defensive when their morals are questioned. Basically, they don’t rationalize it as anything more than “wanting more freedom” and “wanting to feel appreciated and loved” and will actively deny reality as it …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 05:13 PM
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The worst part about this whole thing is Depp probably felt he couldn’t defend himself, because the second he did Heard would go right to Twitter to her millions of followers (who are the kinda people that would’ve cancelled him) Fucking horrible. I DO have some hope that she’ll get what’s coming to her because she’s been playing the public support game for far too long and it’s bound to come back around and fuck her right back. But we’ll have to see what sticks...
/r/MensRights02/02/20 04:53 PM
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Me and the boys also had “practice girls” for our first time. Made it a lot easier not giving a shit at all
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 02:01 PM
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So, this post made me have an epiphany of sorts Back when I was 10-15, my mom would give me random shit sometimes. Like, turning off the lights, chores, and the tiniest details you can imagine. When I was going thru my anger phase, I thought she was using this to put me beneath her and make her frame the strongest. This confused me, because she NEVER gave my dad any of this. I now understand she wasn’t doing it to put me down, but rather to lift me up. She essentially trained me for shit testing…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 04:45 AM
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Right, yeah. I’m a 6’1 290ish former football player, and I have a good bit of muscle on me. I’m probably 25-30% bf. I don’t look bad, as I’m still probably in the top 30-50% depending on what a girl likes. Whereas if I were 290lbs of higher bf%, I’d look like shit and likely be in the bottom 10% With that said, there’s zero doubt I’d look 10x better as a 6’1 230 lb 15-20% bf man.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 05:17 PM
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I got into basketball when I was 18, and I wish I had gotten into it earlier. The sport built up my abs (responsible for my good posture), helped me practice my hand eye coordination (useful in more ways than one), and cut all of my water weight (responsible for making me look less bloated all of the time). I know from experience my guy. I can’t vouch for everything he said, but I understood the main idea was “playing sports has less obvious side effects that women tend to notice,” which is some…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 04:24 AM
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Let me guess, you’re really shit at sports and you’re just looking for an excuse for your ego. Shit, you haven’t even tested this theory, so how are you so adamant it’s wrong?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 03:02 AM
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That’s a good point, in the end I just need to approach more women
/r/askTRP21/07/19 08:17 PM
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Huh, fair point. Maybe I should be less pickey, as being too pickey is a way to hamster not doing shit
/r/askTRP21/07/19 08:06 PM
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You’re absolutely right, thanks for the advice. I’ve definitely been boxing myself in
/r/askTRP21/07/19 04:22 PM
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Man, I wish it was as easy as me being so ugly I can’t get women. I’ve had my shots, I’ve just justified not taking them for one reason or another (which are all probably just some cognitive dissonance to be fair.) But, anyways, have a great night
/r/askTRP21/07/19 03:06 AM
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Except I am, I have a great understanding of women that have been confirmed over my past experiences. I know most of the shit I read here is true because I have validated it and it makes sense. I got the chance to bang a fatty, and I felt disgusting after getting to 2nd base. Paying for it wasn’t never an option lol I’m not exactly afraid of girlfriends, I just don’t want one for anything but sex. I don’t care for the baggage, I don’t care for having to manage two egos, and I honestly am certain…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 02:58 AM
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I don’t have issues with meeting women, but rather the volume of women I can meet. I definitely should talk to 3 new women every day, and everything in my mind is telling me this won’t work so I’ll at least start there. I have no issues with openers, I’m a learned converstionalist and I’m pretty good at talking to people. I don’t have a problem with being outcome independent, as I already go into every conversation with no intentions of fucking whoever I’m talking to. I have an interesting life.…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 02:48 AM
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Sounds like you’ve made up your mind, and you want us to make you do it. Shoot your shot, if older guys are your thing then I couldn’t give any less of a shit. The only thing you have to worry about is other people judging you (if you really care)
/r/seduction11/07/19 02:41 PM
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It’s safe to assume I’m of average SMV. I’m tall and muscular, but fat. I essentially have the build of an offensive lineman (because that’s what I was), and I’d say I’m realistically a 6 (confirmed by the women that like me being 6s or below). I’m just not a big fan of dating apps. I figure dating apps are made for the top 20%, which I am not a part of (yet). The friends of friends could be interesting, as it’s how I’ve done it my whole life. I’ll probably join a rec basketball league or someth…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:37 PM
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No, I have a full time job.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 01:47 PM
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Yeah, body language is very automatic to me. I know my IOIs very well also. It sounds weird, but I don’t get nervous. I don’t think I’ve felt nervous for a while now. It’s literally a mental block, and I think I just need to get into the flow for it to go away.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 06:12 AM
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Shit, I figure I should get a few rejections out of the way first. I know body language VERY well, I just don’t pay attention to it often. That’s probably a smarter starting point
/r/askTRP01/07/19 06:05 AM
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Yeah, right. I haven’t broken the mental barrier on cold approaches yet, sadly. But parks seem best
/r/askTRP01/07/19 05:59 AM
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Programming. But that’s a great idea. I might as well try it
/r/askTRP01/07/19 05:56 AM
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I live on a downtown street lol. But parks and meetups seem to by my only viable options. I can’t tell you a single mall anywhere near me, the nearest college campus is pretty far, and I don’t have the friends for parties since I just moved here.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 05:55 AM
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Fair. I’ll do that
/r/askTRP01/07/19 05:54 AM
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I do, but they’re all at minimum 10 yrs older than I am. I’m also not in college at all, I got a job doing what I was getting my degree for. Cold approaching seems to be my only option. I’m 1.2k miles away from everyone I knew before, and I really don’t have any friends rn. Weirdly enough, I don’t care that I’m alone. I enjoy it at times
/r/askTRP01/07/19 05:53 AM
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Again, why do I give a shit if they block me? There are millions of other women out there, so why in the fuck am I going to worry about what I’m going to text her next? And why do I care if she’s going to reject me? I’ve probably been rejected in the 3 digits at this point, so what’s 1 more? Also, who the fuck knows she’s a slut besides me? I TEXTED her. I didn’t walk into the middle of her friend group and thank her for the beej last night. Women don’t want other women to think they’re sluts th…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 02:40 AM
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You’re most definitely overthinking this, but you didn’t give her the reaction she wanted. Some women get heated when you don’t, so it looks like she’s one of them.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 05:05 AM
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Then so be it. This is something I use when I get the feeling I’m going to next. There’s plenty of women who would be willing to turn my prostrate into the fuckin Sahara, so I’m cool with losing a few chicks who were iffy to begin with. It works more than you think. Almost never a direct “yes”, but steps in the right direction.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 04:59 AM
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Just see what shit you can get away with at that point. I’d be sending my “alright, but only if you come over and suck the soul out of me through my dick like a straw right now.” You should have other options, so why not shoot your shot?
/r/askTRP24/06/19 04:20 AM
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It’s understandable. It probably feels like a rejection of sorts. But it really isn’t in the end
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:03 PM
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Fucking forget about it. Who knows why she slept with you, maybe it was because you spit some amazing game, maybe it was because she just broke up with her boyfriend. Either way, ignorance is bliss. Assume the best, give your mind a reason she slept with you and move on.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:12 AM
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Wait, I missed it all then. This all happened at her work? Let me guess, a bar?
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:05 AM
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Oh, then she’s not going to text you back again. She made it clear what she wanted, and you said that isn’t you. That should wrap this up nicely. But, seriously, get a social hobby. Skiing, offroading, hiking, drinking wine, anything. You can’t meet anything but superficial friends without having interests outside of work, working out and video games.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:58 AM
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What’s preventing you from finding out? (Hint: fear of failure) Go find out yourself, and if it ends badly learn something. If it ends good, also learn something. There is no success without failure
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:46 AM
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No issues with banging the chick. Be honest with yourself. It’s more than apparent you’ve subliminally made up your mind that you want to date the broad. Let me tell you what I think is happening, and you can figure out how well it matches your situation. You liked this chick. You caught feelings. The chick went out of your life. You felt bad when she did. Years later, you meet her again. Your subconscious wants to “conquer” this challenge. Keep in mind, the challenge was provided by your BP sel…
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:35 AM
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You have some issues you need to work through. 2 separations that involved a house and it’s clear that you want to put a ring on a glorified hooker (even if you don’t know it). Think: would the best version of you be married to a former escort? But if you just want to ignore all of the above shit, then let me just lead with what you’re probably wondering: No, she’s not pretending to care. She’s past her prime and looking to settle down (looking for BB). She found the perfect man to settle down w…
/r/askTRP23/06/19 06:24 AM
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the female
/r/seduction17/05/19 11:33 AM
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Thank you man. I appreciate this
/r/askTRP31/01/19 01:21 AM
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Follow your gut dude, don’t bang chicks that you don’t want to. Move onto other options, and get others if you don’t have them. There’s no reason to stick around if you clearly don’t want to.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 07:06 AM
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It’s a beard that’s on a nu-male. It’s grown out to hide double chins, hide a lack of a chin or make the guy actually look like a guy. It’s generally not taken care of, patchy and generally shitty. Go to any big social justice guy and you’ll see it. It’s a sad excuse for a beard that shouldn’t be grown out
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 04:43 PM
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Let me piggyback off the other guy and say you should use your god given right to abundance here and move on. This shit ain’t worth it.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:06 AM
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Act outwardly confident no matter what your inner you says. Always have calm eyes, move slowly, and sit in dominant poses. Even if the inner you is telling you you’re lying to yourself, nobody will be able to tell. As for the actual icebreaker, just speak slowly and don’t be afraid to take pauses.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:05 AM
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Yeah, but the real advice I can give you is to do some introspection. Figure out WHY you didn’t find it attractive. Was the how much control she had over your emotions? Was it how little she hid her wealth? Was it how she tried to buy your affection? Just figure it out and adjust for next time man. Maybe you can do the “gold digger” strategy, but with the right woman.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:07 AM
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To be honest, it’s all personal preference. I personally would be receptive to her gifts, but I wouldn’t EVER let her change how I get my own bread. Maybe I’d use her as a networking opportunity in exchange for some A1 dick. Anything more, and you’ve ceded control of your life to her. If you’re not attracted, move on. You’re not losing the god damn opportunity of a lifetime, you have to have SOME confidence in your ability to succeed. There’s always going to be a big market of post wall rich wom…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 06:56 AM
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Get some sleep you fuck. I personally know I will not make a decision on anything when I am hungry, tired, or horny because the decisions I make in any of these states wont be clear headed and logical.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 06:49 AM
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Aahhhhh man, why’d you have to get into an LTR. It’s TRP on hard mode. With any plate, you can literally just choose not to play the games and soft next. With the LTR, you have no choices here but to do what you did. The biggest chip you can bring to any table is your willingness to leave. You implicitly threw that out when you entered a LTR. That’s why the only advice you’ll ever get on LTRs is “improve your dread game” or “hard next.” You took away your bargaining chips, so no fucking shit she…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 06:46 AM
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Yeah, for that first point you have to make her comfortable sexually enough to actually get the real body count. One of my plates was constantly saying she had a lower single digit body count, but as she grew more comfortable with me it turns out it’s in the 30s.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 02:33 PM
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I wouldn’t call it a date, to be honest. Dating implies you’re anything more than FWB. If you do, then you just ignore what she said and continue with what you were going to say anyways.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 04:51 AM
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It was a shit test man. You obviously failed, and she’s not giving you a chance so you next.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 04:47 AM
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My guy, you failed her shit test. You apologized when you should’ve said “alright cool. Glad we have the same goals here” to the hooking up over sex. You should never apologize, unless your reputation depends on it. Even then, it’s still better to just break it off and move on. My advice is to just move on from her. It sounds like it was a serious shit test, or she wants you to validate her. So just soft next and see if she comes crawling back.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 11:55 PM
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Jesus dude what the fuck. You wrote an essay on this broad, and you expect us to read this? It sounds like you’re developing oneitis, so however you decide to handle this make sure you keep an eye on that too.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 12:00 AM
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What do you mean by “some hard stuff”? Chill out dude. Drink some water, sober up and deal with it tomorrow. You’re not in the right mindset to deal with this shit right now, so put it off your mind until you can. Just make sure to learn a god damn lesson here.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 11:56 PM
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Meditation could work for ya.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 07:30 AM
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It’s your choice. You pick one you think is more important, and cut back a little. Maybe you master bate every other day instead of every day. Maybe you limit your Reddit usage to 1 hour daily. Whichever you think is more important to your success is the one you should work on.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 06:13 AM
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That’s the point of slowly building it. You incrementally add more things when you think you can handle it. For example, I added weightlifting to my schedule and for 3 months I focused on being in the gym every day I scheduled it. After that, I felt confident I wouldn’t just stop going so I added weekend basketball. You HAVE to balance it. It’s a one way ticket to burnout if you don’t
/r/askTRP06/12/18 05:59 AM
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What’s wrong with your knee?
/r/askTRP06/12/18 05:54 AM
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Discipline is a muscle, you have to work it. And if you stop working it, you can lose it all at once. The key is, build it up slowly. Start by taking cold showers. Maybe next you hit the gym 3 times a week consistently. Next you could start waking up early. Just keep progressing, and you’ll eventually have great discipline.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 05:53 AM
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Dude, the chick is literally giving you the most clear “fuck me please” signal ever and you’re sitting here thinking through this shit like “but what if she doesn’t like me” You have to read the situation, my guy. The situation says “free pussy.”
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:32 AM
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Sounds like you have an issue of not striking while the iron is hot. If you have to continue to text to show enough interest, then you probably aren’t scheduling your dates soon enough. The other option is you aren’t escalating fast enough. That might signal that you’re not as interested as she is, and would turn her off. Likely, it’s a combination of the two. You probably fail to schedule dates fast enough and don’t escalate when you do.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:18 PM
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If she’s fighting for it, it’s become an issue of frame. Don’t break on this one, it’s a shit test. But, in general, you shouldn’t text for anything other than logistics. So, shooting a quick text saying “I’ll be at x doing y, come and join” shouldn’t matter.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:05 PM
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Split your cardio days and lifting days depending on how your physique is. I’m a little fat, so I go 3 days cardio 2 days weights and 2 off days. Let’s say you’re really skinny, maybe you skip cardio altogether. Put it wherever it maximizes your likelihood of actually doing it while also taking into account your schedule. As for meditation, I’d do it just after I shower every morning. Nice fresh feeling makes it feel good. Studying usually worked best for me when I got home from school. Mostly t…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:33 AM
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God I hope so. Good luck.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:23 AM
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Honestly, she could. That’s not the problem, though. You’re going into this with the completely wrong mindset, and she’s going to completely destroy you in a few months when her felon gets out or she cheats or whatever. I’ve know a few women like this, and they are NEVER loyal. Your other option is to ignore what I’ve to say and take the hard road. It doesn’t really matter to me, it’s just a personal decision you have to make on whether you want to learn on your own and deal with heartbreak or t…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:17 AM
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Took me around 20 rejections to get 1 in every 5 women I talked to and around 50 to get 1 in every 3. Might be different for you, but just make sure you’re learning something from each interaction. What’s rejection without a lesson?
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:05 AM
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Alright, since you apparently don’t see it, you need to next her. She’s giving you all of the red flags, and you’re being willfully ignorant. Let me list them out here: Her actions contradict her words. She says she was looking for you, but she keeps dodging your further attempts. She’s an alpha widow (with the felon), and she’s even telling you he turns her into something she isn’t. I want you to think on what she could be pre apologizing for and decide if ANY of it is worth it. (let me give yo…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:59 AM
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I was with you until the part where her brother asks her out. That seriously made me wonder if I had a fucking stroke. Care to clarify?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:33 AM
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I have exactly zero idea what the issue is, but the advice is consistent. Look him directly in the eye and tell him what’s up. Don’t condescend him. Don’t be passive aggressive. Just tell him what you want in the calmest tone possible. Give zero justifications. If he ignores your wishes, you withdraw all attention from him. You said you’re work friends, and that’s sadly the only bargaining chip you have. But don’t threaten it, just let your actions speak for themselves. Another option I’ve used …
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:26 AM
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Start a conversation that can be started. If she’s wearing some expensive shoes, you talk about them. Make sure to ask for advice, it’s the quickest way to endear someone. Really, this entire dance is solidified after a few solid rejections. That’s really what you need right now. Keep trying and never give up, because it’s the rejections that make you great not the successes.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:09 AM
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Really, the easiest way to expand your social circle is always through mutual friends. Make sure to make friends with the guy who’s friends with everyone, and meet new people through him. But if you’re looking for a razed earth new start, then by far the best way to do it is joining different groups. Could be a fitness club, could be a cycling class, could be a debate club, whatever. Just join something and fraternize.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:02 AM
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Just a few minor screw ups. Here they are: me: nah im tryna cuddle afterwards as well Something about this seems like you’re trying to be more than a ONS. She made it clear that’s what she wanted, so make that your plan and see if her mind changes after you fuck the shit out of her. her: im sure theyd love to sit on your lovely face me: i mean i could do that She was looking for a “yeah, I’m kinda tired of that tho. Once you get around the gym for your third time, it starts to get boring” or som…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:03 AM
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Yes. That’s a big IOI, it’s one of the first things they teach you in pick up game. If a woman is matching your mood and body language, chances are she’s very interested. It’s a subconscious thing for sure.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 07:48 AM
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Quit masterbating. Make yourself go out there and earn your nut. I don’t care how crazy it sounds, unleash your inner beast and let the primitive controls take over. That’s how I fixed it.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 07:44 AM
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It varies from woman to woman. But lemme give you the most common I’ve experienced: Passive aggressiveness. Certain women tend to get angry when you don’t take control of the situation, so they take it out in the most annoying way possible. Body language. Take a note of her body language when she’s around you vs when she’s around a beta male vs when she’s around a guy you know she wants. There’s certain tells most women have (laughing at jokes in a specific way, acting submissive, etc) that’ll t…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 07:35 AM
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I have this feeling from reading this it’s not going to go through. If it does, great. If it doesn’t, tell her you’re going to be somewhere with friends at x time and if she doesn’t respond well then lose her number and move on.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 05:29 AM
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Not the kind of person to believe we live in a complete patriarchal society, but this IS what would happen in a patriarchal society. If women aren’t expected to be strong or whatever, then this kind of thing would be a joke to any onlookers. Think about it this way, let’s say there’s a race of people who are seen as physically weak. The thought of them physically abusing someone of another race would be funny to some. How can that other person just let that happen? That’s not to say that’s right…
/r/PussyPassDenied27/10/18 05:28 PM
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Fuck no. Stop overthinking and get out there and fail like any “normal” kid would’ve done. You have some catching up to do, so don’t waste your time.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:01 AM
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That’s why I said you’ve gotta do it in person. Look her in the eyes and say it with a serious tone. If you say it over text, you lose a lot of advantages you’d have otherwise.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:48 AM
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Sure man. “Give me something worth posting to Instagram” Really, you should be dodging it or pressure flipping by saying “is our relationship not real if I don’t post it on Instagram?”
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:46 AM
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You definitely don’t do it over text. In person, next time, tell her “I don’t appreciate you cancelling plans last time. Try not to let it happen again.” Her response will tell you your standing in the relationship. If she gets mad, then you have frame loss. You need to ignore her until she calms down. If she agrees, you’re in good standing. Also, for the love of god don’t post anything about this girl on social. I saw your other post, and this is absolutely not the time. You should be withdrawi…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:35 AM
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Sharing a picture of you and a hot chick without any indication you’re dating is fair game. If you start posting her too much, it becomes a problem. Think about it this way: Instagram isn’t for socializing. To a well RedPilled man, it is nothing but a way to build a public image without being corny. So, posting yourself with hot women is cool, but think about it from the perspective of another TRP man viewing the post: if you’d think the guy is a beta then don’t post it.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:25 AM
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First off, it sounds like you have a bit of self esteem issues. Why should it matter to you if she goes out and parties? You’re the fucking prize, so it’d be the biggest mistake ever on her part to cheat or do anything else you wouldn’t like. Overall, you shouldn’t give a fuck what she’s going to do. Second, you clearly have loss of frame. You said you had plans, and she cancelled them to go hang out with friends. This is a red flag to me. You can either confirm your trust in her by snooping aro…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:18 AM
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Hell no. The only way you should is posting pictures of you to instagram. And even then, you have to limit it to one maybe every 5-10 posts. Posting about your LTR on social media is an easy way to lose frame. It makes the girl think she’s more important to you than she is. Just think about it like this: if you saw a obvious beta bitch post about his LTR on social media, you’d probably think “poor sap” or “damn that’s kinda sad”, so why would you!?
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:09 AM
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It’s obviously untrue, and some beta conditioning at best. Some poor saps really believe women want a beta provider when they get older because that’s what they’ve been told all of their life. It’s not necessarily untrue, but they want a chad who will be their beta provider.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 10:00 PM
2

Every woman is in your league, you’re the fucking prize. You have to get rejected a few times to understand how more attractive women work. After that, you can pull no matter how you look. Source: am a big boy and have good game.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 09:51 PM
55

Hey man, if you need help developing the website I’d be happy to help. I’ve much experience with ReactJS apps, and I even teach a class on it. I also have a lot of experience with SQL, MongoDB, NodeJS, Python, and the obvious front end languages. I’d be glad to help too, I have a bit of free time I need filled
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 03:06 PM
2

I’m not sure there’s logic in your statement either. How the fuck is drinking someone’s drink the same as pulling makeup out of their bag and using it? The closest you could get there is maybe stealing a stick of gum, and even then it’s a fine line between going through her purse and stealing a stick of gum.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 11:49 PM
2

Yeah then just walk away. The dude isn’t worth your time, so give him as little attention as possible. But, with that said, harbor zero ill-will against him. Just forget about him, point blank.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:48 AM
3

Fuck her friend and block her number. Burn her shit or repurpose it. I’ve done it, and it works wonders.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:36 AM
1

Then start chatting up the hottest chick in the class. For some reason, the guys always crawl back or never talk to you again.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:32 AM
2

You have two options: fight a winning fight or walk away and find new pals. The winning fight means you have a size advantage or some kind of special training where you could kick his ass. I would only do this if you’re in a group that continuously shit tests you and you want it to stop or you’re a leader of a group and this questions your authority. Even in both of those cases, walking away is still fair.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:30 AM
1

It’s just a way to feed the hamster a bit. She’d probably feel like a bad person if she realized she really just wanted nice guys for the money. Or, she’d feel REALLY bad if she had to realize that she isn’t choosing the beta males, she’s being forced into it by way of being rejected by alpha males. It’s just a way to protect the ego.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 05:28 PM
1

They don’t have to do much encouraging lol
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 04:21 PM
1

Yeah. The real life equivalent is finding a church girl, but even then it’s really 50/50
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 12:02 AM
1

Sure. The thing is, there’s no TRP for women to tell them not to be sluts. It’s just basic biology at that point making them slow down But the mannerisms are still there. There are small things she’ll do to show her disloyalty to you, and the second something better pops up you know she’ll hop on that dick and off yours. There’s this old saying, you know. “You can’t teach a hoe to be a house wife.” It has some truth to it. Once a hoe, always a hoe.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 05:13 PM
5

Yeah you’re right. This isn’t regular me, it’s been a rough week. Usually I’ll look at these and laugh to myself
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 08:30 AM
1

Honestly, it’s not. As I see it, writing and developing my personal voice in my free time is a lot better than jerking off and playing video games.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 08:29 AM
2

Not entirely true for me. Video games fucks me up, but it makes time pass
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:47 AM
2

Thank you brother. I appreciate your help.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 07:24 AM
1

I agree on monk mode. I’ve been in a half assed monk mode, and I really need to make it a full assed one lol. I’m not lonely, if I’m being honest. I have friends around me that are great and I can make friends easy. I know what lonliness feels like, trust me. I’m all about knowing myself. I’ve been great with identifying the underlying cause for all my behaviors. I feel as if it’s some issues I’ve had all my life. But, meditating. I need to do that. I always thought it was fucking stupid, and th…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 07:23 AM
1

A relationship? Man, I can’t get close to people like that. I haven’t a clue why. Every chick that wants me I end up driving away. I suspect it’s a subliminal way of destroying the relationship.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 07:17 AM
1

I’ve tried to respond to this a few times, but I can see the hamster spinning in my own head. You’re absolutely right I need to get on this.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 03:41 AM
1

How can I best do that? Or how would you do that?
/r/askTRP09/09/18 03:35 AM
1

watch what they say and not what they do Psssst... I think you mean “watch what they do and not what they say.”
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 09:35 PM
7

This is a bit of LMR. Give her a better reason to head back (maybe you have a dog who’d love to meet her) and see if the hamster responds. As for this girl in particular, soft next. See if she comes to you, if not move on.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:47 AM
2

3 should give you the most learning opportunities, but leading her on is the surefire way to give you a solid foundation on how to spin plates properly. Good luck, nonetheless.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:45 AM
4

How sensitive are we talking? If it’s anything that’ll affect your social status in another place, then you get dirt on her and guarantee mutually assured destruction. If you’re too much of a pussy to get dirt, then fake your death and move on. (Joking. Maybe.) Else, lose her number, delete Snapchat, and move on.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:42 AM
6

If you were in this specific situation, I’d advocate dread game. I wouldn’t meet the guy at all, because that almost gives the hamster a little food. Nexting would come after the point when I CAN fuck hotter chicks than her and she hasn’t changed.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:39 AM
1

The underlying words leads me to believe you don’t follow the principles of AWALT. A “nice” girl will fuck your brains out at the same party that a party girl would. You just have to be that guy. But I’ll ignore that, and try to interpret what you’ve said as if you know this. Sluttier women shouldn’t be taken out on dates when you have the option of going to a party. However, if there are no parties, strike while the iron is hot and go on a date. In my experience, parties lead to easier lays. On…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:36 AM
1

This is the basicest of shit tests man. She wants to see you bend to her will. You will need to learn the art of leading her to believe you’ll commit, but never committing. I can’t give you advice on that, as I just move onto the next one, since I have that option. What I would do is one of 3 things: Not respond and move onto the next. This is my option, but it’s probably not the best. Say something that implies she’ll have to work for that. I’ve not much experience here myself, but I know this …
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:32 AM
1

First off, you shouldn’t use Snapchat. It’s a time sink and a social waste. Second, if you have Snapchat you should be snapping for logistics or, in rare cases, ice breakers. If you’re snapping for ice breakers, then you should literally just not respond. She’s already shown you she’s not interested in the guy by being on her phone near him, so you have no competition there. But, again, don’t use Snapchat for anything but logistics.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 02:26 AM
5

You don’t leave your family for a younger woman, you leave your family because you don’t want to be a miserable, sucidal sack of shit. Your daughter knows exactly what’s going on. If you stay with that woman you call your wife, your daughter will grow up to become the same vindictive bitch your wife has become who will marry a cheater. You should take pity on your daughter and show her that good men shouldn’t stand for that kind of behavior. It’s a hard decision, but it’s ultimately one you have…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:56 AM
1

Sure. But most later stage TRP men don’t criticize hypergamy, as they just play the game laid out by it. It’s mostly those in the anger stage who feel the need to criticize hypergamy. It takes a certain level of maturity to understand that you can’t change the world by bitching about its issues instead of exploiting those issues and becoming successful in the frame of the issues you once thought were issues.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:50 AM
2

Yup. That’s it. I still struggle with it myself, and especially when sober. You just have to fail a few times. It took about two serious rejections until I could tell the signs where it’s okay to push further or back off and move on. Just keep the fact that you WILL have to fail a few times before you get better in mind, or it’ll be half failures and bullshit attempts.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:40 AM
7

guys on the dancefloor are telling her to cut me loose and that she can do better I’m 6’6, fairly muscular, been training for years and OK looking One of these two things are lies, and it’s up to you to figure out if it’s her that’s lying or if it’s you that’s being a pussy and not improving your SMV. If I’m being honest here, it sounds like a shit test of some variety. She’s trying to, first, push the narrative that SHE’S out of YOUR league, second, trying to test if you believe it, and third, …
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:36 AM
1

There’s not a way around this, sadly. You will always be seen as beta bucks for any women on the app. If your numbers are getting low, I suggest removing your profession and showing your wealth in other ways. Include pictures of you doing rich people stuff (for lack of better words) on your profile, pick her up in a nice car, wear a Rolex, etc. I’ve run into the same issues (to a MUCH, much lesser extent), but I’ve the confidence to move onto the next one if there’s no sex within a date or two. …
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:26 AM
1

I’ll give you advice you need to hear but won’t listen to. You need to quit all of this petty, trifling bullshit. If it matters to you that she isn’t checking your story, you clearly haven’t learned much from TRP. I’ve been in very similar situations, and they never end well if I don’t ghost the woman and move on. That’s the first step you need to take. Ghost her. Completely. Next, you need to delete all social media’s. They’re clearly a big reason for your insecurities. You need a long monk mod…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:50 PM
1

Nothing, sometimes you gotta let people learn. It sucks, but ya live and ya learn man. Only thing you can do is let him flame out then help him through it and show him the shit he did wrong.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:31 AM
2

Contrary to your belief, you didn’t fuck it up. Let’s say she takes it as angry. It’s okay to be a little pissed as an alpha, provided you ARE the alpha. It shows her you mean business. Most likely, she takes it as funny. Just a joke. And you did the right thing by not going to the bar. I’m not sure why you threw the number away, it wasn’t even close to ANY frame loss. If you were to meet up and forget about what you said, you’d have the same chance at nailing the chick as you did before. And th…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:26 AM
1

If you’re handling your woman right, you shouldn’t have to lay a finger on her to get her to do it the right way. Your friend clearly has no idea how to handle a woman, and I’d wager he’s had close to no experience with women or he’s grown up in a house where that shit is regular. Again, a big thing within this community is not letting a woman know she got to you. If you hit her, you’re clearly showing that. It’s like the ultimate form of giving her attention. You’re showing the purest form of w…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:21 AM
1

No. Not even a question. The reasoning behind it is a lot different than what you’d might expect.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:51 AM
1

I appreciate the advice. I think a big issue is that literally fucking everything goes on in my room. I’m not surprised it’s hard to sleep because I do so much in there. Another big issue is I’ve never had routines before bed. I’m not sure where to throw this upon the list of priorities, but it’ll be somewhere near the top.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:30 PM
1

This is kind of what I was thinking, but I wanted someone else to confirm it. Thanks for the direct advice, I’ll try to start with sleep and I’ll work on my diet after around a month or two. I appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:26 PM
1

I expect the answer is no, because I’ve previously had a great sleep schedule. I just fuck around way too much at night.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:23 PM
1

I wouldn’t give a shit if my girlfriend did this to me. I don’t get emotionally invested into women. There is always other things to fuck out there for me, so I don’t see a reason to waste my time and emotional energy into something that could go away 3x easier if I moved onto the next one. I have the attitude to ghost her and find something better because I know she’d drop my ass in 3 seconds once she finds something better. I’m not like most TRP members I suspect. I literally couldn’t give les…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:21 PM
1

The thing is, I used to work out 8 times a week less than a year ago. Since then, I’ve consistently worked out at least 3 times a week with gaps in some places. I’m not overworking myself, and it’s been relatively easy to work out 5 days a week. Hence, why I can stick with it through a big down period. I’ll try running in the afternoon, but I was thinking about doing it as soon as I woke up with nothing in my stomach. I’ve read it’s a great way to burn fat. Then maybe in the afternoon I lift. I …
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:17 PM
1

I don’t sleep 7-8 hours. I can’t fall asleep
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:59 PM
1

455 Could be higher, haven’t checked in a month or so.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:55 PM
1

Second wind?
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:54 PM
1

I’ve quit drinking and smoking easily. Masterbating has been an issue because I tend to sleep like shit if I don’t. It’s gotten to the point where even if I do, I sleep like shit. So that has to change. The eating isn’t an issue because I don’t pay for my food. You’re right and that guess. I have nothing to do. I will very soon with school coming up, but I’ll still have plenty of free time to piss away. I plan on starting a few programming projects to fill the time, but I’ll still have free time…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:12 PM
1

I work out 5 days a week and rest on weekends. I’ve noticed that with alcohol and weed, and I’ve quit weed for a bit and alcohol has been going away too. I’ll try the magnesium glycinate. What exactly does it do? The jogging with lifting I think seriously contributed to my burnout, but I’ll try it for sure. How do you do it? Lift then run? Only lift some days and run others? I also lift in the mornings anyways because it’s a great way to start my day (as well as still having the benefits of my m…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:58 PM
1

Not really. I save the numbers for other men, plates and anything above a plate.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:48 PM
1

I’m with that. My issue is actually doing it. I can be dead tired but I can’t go to sleep for some reason. Masterbating puts me right to sleep and that’s why I’ve had trouble. I think to myself “do I want to sleep or not sleep but also not master bate?” And it’s become the former recently, but with a diminishing return of not being able to sleep anyways. I think it could have something to do with my ADHD, but I don’t know how I could solve this issue.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:46 PM
1

See, the thing is, it definitely looks that way if you act like that kind of shit matters to you. I also just generally don’t save numbers I don’t plan on seeing again. It’s not a fact of me cognitively doing it, it’s more so out of actual need. By the second or third time, women will come to know I’m not faking it, and they’ll want to give me a reason to save their number and give them approval. I regret sharing the behind the scenes benefits, because those are mostly subconcious to me. I know …
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:23 PM
1

I have my important time consuming shit in order. I have a problem with self-discipline, point blank. I’m working to fix it, but I have to start somewhere. Don’t act like I just asked you to help me fuck your sister, I haven’t gone through fixing all of those things like you apparently have and would like advice on where to start building from. It’s not a question of “should I?” It’s a question “in what order?”
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:16 PM
1

Because I don’t get into active conversations lol. If I’m texting a woman, it’s because I’m telling her where we’re going. If she’s texted me before, I’ll probably play the “who is this?” Card once or twice just to show abundance and a general lack of fucks to give to her. Imagine if someone texted you that. You’d think “hey, this person should remember me. I guess I didn’t give them a reason to remember me, and I’ll have to try harder next time.” That’s the intended effect.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:08 PM
1

Jeez man, nothing in here shows me you’re even TRP aware. Do yourself a favor and read the sidebar again. As for the girl, you’re clearly developing a oneitis with her. No RedPilled guy I know would think a second time about the woman. They wouldn’t be dating her in the first place, but that’s beside the point. They’d drop her entirely and not let her know they did. I know you won’t listen to me, but you need to break up for your own good. If you stay with her, implement a dread game. Start lift…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:04 PM
1

It’s not that hard, don’t overthink it. “Who is this?” Is my go to for a regular conversation, it just so happens to be your true opener.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 03:58 PM
6

At the next possible convenience. Women tend to lose interest over time, so you have to strike while the iron is hot. Don’t let the hamster get in front and tell you it’s better to wait.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 03:57 PM
10

Should’ve agreed and amplified. “Agreed, I love nothing more than a nice warm cock in my ass at the end of the day. Is it so wrong I title my posts to fit my personality?”
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 05:13 PM
1

Yeah man. It’s a big thing in stoicism. The point of guilt and worry is to train your mind to think differently. You felt guilty because you did something wrong again one of the different types of values. In this case, it was a social value that was there to essentially further the human race (men that stay with their women can protect the children and reproduce more often), so it feels like shit for a big reason. Skip the whole guilt and worry stage by: first, deciding if those values you worry…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:30 PM
1

You’re right msn. Thanks for this
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:29 PM
1

And so what if you did? You’re never going to date the broad again, and you’re sure as hell not going to make friends with her. So why does her opinion of you matter to you? Shit, why does your family’s opinion matter to you. In the end, you just need to do you. If someone has an opinion on it, it shouldn’t fucking matter to you. Just learn from your fuckin mistakes. Don’t get into a LTR if she’s not worth your time or you’re not ready to commit. Make this a simple one week lesson instead of a d…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:22 AM
1

It hasn’t for me, but I lead my relationships very differently. I commonly just leave when it isn’t going like I want it to. But I see where you’re coming from, sometimes you just want to keep a plate spinning. I respect that. A great solution to this would be to just say “I wouldn’t be here if I just wanted sex. You’re a pretty (insert adjective here) gal, so of course you’re gonna see me again.” That’s not what I’d personally do, because I’d aim for something more like “There is nobody worth m…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:15 AM
1

Yeah, the issue is you guys probably started without a frame battle. I started out at a beta bitch and now it’s a little different.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:08 AM
1

Yes lol don’t text them for anything but logistics. Don’t do anything you don’t want to. A good way to do this is to pretend to be super busy and only be free when she wants to fuck you. As an addendum, instead of letting her choose when and where you’re doing shit, you tell her what you’re doing and tell her to join.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:56 AM
1

Honestly, you aren’t really living in a TRP mindset if this still happens. I know because I literally cannot relate to this. If I broke up with a chick because I cheated on her, I’d literally not look in her direction ever again. Shit, I’d feel a little proud because I know she’d drop my ass for a more alpha male in a heartbeat and I ended it before that shit could happen. I’m not sure what to tell you here except for go and immerse yourself in blue pill stories. There are plenty that’ll tell yo…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:54 AM
1

It’s social conditioning man. You have to break it. It’s like training your legs to lift 400 lbs. You’ll fail, and fail again. You’ll wonder if the day ever comes. But, with strong effort and persistence, you’ll be squatting 400 in reps of 10.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:49 AM
1

Don’t. Or, if you have to, deflect it. If I had to deflect, I’d personally say “That’s such a weird thing to think”
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:47 AM
2

It’s too true. I have 1 very close friend. He was there for me when I was at my absolute rock bottom. He was there to help me build myself back up. I’m very lucky he’s a red pilled man (I think unintentionally), he helped me rebuild my VERY beta mindset. I can’t thank him enough. Through the ups and downs of my big party boy lifestyle, he didn’t flinch to help me when I was in need. I’ve realized just now I need to give him more of my attention and respect. He deserves it.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 01:32 AM
2

It is, that’s part of why I said “keeping frame should be left unsaid”
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:52 PM
7

None. Just prove to her that she does
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:00 AM
4

You’re right, you can’t compete with that mindset. If you can’t walk into a bar like your dick is slapping between your legs ready to pounce, then you can’t pick up women. There’s always men bigger than you and richer than you, but you have the ultimate advantage in being TRP aware. So treat it like they have the disadvantage and think nothing more of it.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:59 AM
1

Text for logistics, nothing more. So, no.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:56 AM
1

It works if you’re decent high SMV as well as confident in your approach. Keeping frame should be left unsaid, but if you lose frame in a situation like this it’s game over.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:55 AM
1

Butter is pretty Keto, so don’t shit on fuckin butter.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:05 AM
8

Yeah, this is more so for men that don’t have a personal code like that. I’m one of those people. My personal code it to obtain my goals by any means. I don’t give a shit about honesty and integrity if it doesn’t support my cause. I won’t lie to my superiors or business partners, but I’ll lie when it can be pulled off and benefits myself.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 03:37 AM
1

The irony that you’re on Reddit saying this. Reddit is as equally a time waste as FB is, it just happens to not be personal.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 01:19 PM
1

“Great, that’ll give her something to do when I’m not around” But if you REALLY want to show you don’t give a fuck about her shit test you ignore it. I wouldn’t AAA, but it really comes down to personal preference here.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 11:49 PM
1

It’s a basic girlfriend shit test. The move is to just ignore it and continue like she didn’t say it. So, open with your own bullshit and pretend like she didn’t say that. I’m a fan of “is she hot tho?” Because, chances are, she’s butt ugly if she has to have her friend get her laid.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 11:39 PM
3

Sounds like the real reason was that you were her BB instead of AF when she wanted a AF. Also sounds like you have a bitch of a gf. It’s not anything about your dick, she’s just looking to rationalize leaving you. Seriously man, it also sounds like a bad case of oneitis. You have some shit to learn. My advice? Full on ghost her. She straight up disrespected you, I’m not sure why the fuck you’re in that relationship if she still is able to say this shit without repercussion. Absolutely abhorrent …
/r/askTRP24/07/18 11:34 PM
8

Engage in small talk, if she brings it any further play stupid or ignore her. Don’t bring it further than VERY light flirting. By very light I mean: Physically: nothing besides the arms Body language: keep your alpha position, but close off your body from her in some way Words: Don’t even try those double entendres. If you make one, play dumb It’s not a hard game to master, just literally play like you’re the most oblivious attractive dude ever. And if she pushes it, you ignore the advances. The…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 02:27 AM
6

“Everything is about sex, except for sex. Sex is about power.”
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 02:21 AM
1

Wow, I’ve actually seen this exact line of “logic” in DebateCommunism and LSC. I’ve never been able to respond with anything, because part of me knows using logic won’t work on people who have hamstered their position so hard the hamster is dead. It’s crazy man. I’m glad there’s at least 50% of people in the US that can see it for what it is: the political equivalent to being an emotional lesbian. It’s fucking sad these people have been able to control the god damn college campus’ so well. I’m a…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 01:59 AM
9

What exactly does this mean in regular words?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 01:51 AM
4

h o l y s h i t. I didn’t know this level of crazy existed. Fuck me man, I never knew I was so god damn lucky to have two sisters who aren’t crazy and have friends who are so high value that I don’t have to worry about this shit. Like what the fuck man. If I had heard about this from my friend, I’d be helping him scheme ways to get the girl an abortion without her knowing it. That shit is some serious human trash shit. I’ll just add to the fire already and say go no contact with your sister and …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 12:23 PM
1

66 days?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:34 AM
1

Yeah you’re right man. No time to fuck around, I need to get serious.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:34 AM
1

Yeah you’re right. I appreciate this man. I just need to immerse myself more
/r/askTRP20/07/18 04:26 AM
1

I know, but for some reason I can’t fucking stop myself. I don’t know why
/r/askTRP20/07/18 04:08 AM
2

Treat it like a reward. I find that works best for me. If I do something I know I don’t want to do, but have to, I pick something off of a list of rewards. Gaming is on there. I suggest something like that
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:52 PM
1

holy shit man this is too real. How the fuck did the Greeks have so much foresight? That’s insane.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:19 PM
1

Jesus H. Christ. No, I’m not. This is the thing that got me into TRP, so of fucking course I’m going to be for it.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:02 PM
1

I agree with you. The point isn’t to have full control over people, but rather to give the appearance of control and make it in the best interests of the people around you to do what you want. If I remember correctly, that series of videos was literally about making it in the best interests of those around you to do what you want.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:29 AM
1

It’s essentially just a laws of power channel. Like OP said, watch the video. It’s not really that bad. I’m not sure if you know this, but learning how to control people helps in both controlling yourself / your emotions and dealing with women.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:12 AM
1

Yeah it’s pretty good, it got me into TRP. Just keep in mind, this channel is essentially just the laws of power explained. You don’t learn much about hypergamy and the works on it, just about power.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:10 AM
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There’s great websites to get you to start (I used codeacademy.) That’ll teach you the basics, but there’s more to learn. I literally just decided I wanted to make a website, and did it. I went through setting up a web server, learning via google(the first time was fuckin hard), and taught myself how to use GitHub. I suggest starting with a front end website (I.e. just html, css and JS), and then making it a full one (using node to host your website locally). You can do that, or you can join a c…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 01:00 PM
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Yeah, the 3 biggest needs I've found are Node.js, Java, and SQL. I've also heard about a lot of Python, GoLang, and front end jobs. So pick one of those (Java is best) and just start programming in it. Make projects, do stuff. Eventually, you'll get noticed and the Github is a big indicator that you love programming, and recruiters eat that shit up.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 09:35 PM
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But then I have to go into Applebees :/
/r/askTRP12/07/18 09:32 PM
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Big company. I don't have a bachelor's I live in a city with a big market for programmers.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 09:31 PM
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Web development. Mostly, Node.JS, MySQL, MongoDB, front end work, and whatnot. If I have any suggestions for you, get your github up. I created a github website that I use as personal website. I also use that as a blog, so my commits for the past year are pretty much green. Develop your github, get on LinkedIn, and literally just get into programming jobs. It’s like the old saying with business, “the best way to run a successful business is to be in business.” You literally just need to take any…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:08 PM
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I don’t want to suck my own dick more than I already have, but my social skills are there. I spent my late teenage years developing them. I don’t see how money changes anything, I don’t plan on flexing on motherfuckers. I kinda want to master the “unassuming successful person” look, because I’ve always had a big issue with women using men as a meal ticket. I just don’t want to become some random chick’s meal ticket. How do you suggest I show money?
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:05 PM
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Went to college for a semester, dropped out. I got a TA job at a local college and I worked that for a few months until I was supposed to go back, and I JUST got the offer in time. I was able to get the job because I spent time building my brand without knowing it. I have a big github, and when I was 17 I made a drone fly with a web server. Is this something I should make a post on? I didn’t think people would respond the way they did.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:59 PM
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The mall? What’s there that might be interesting?
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:55 PM
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Yeah man that’s true. I totally did come off as a little humble braggy. You’re absolutely right about that. I should really keep it to myself, especially to women. I’ll look like a fucking meal ticket, and I would absolutely hate that. Thanks for this
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:52 PM
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Yeah, absolutely man. I appreciate this advice.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:04 PM
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Yeah man. I’ve been doing it since 14. When I was 17 I made a drone fly with a website. Just not in the Bay Area. I like being able to eat and pay for rent at the same time.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:02 PM
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It’s programming work. I got really lucky to have the skill set I do.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 01:59 PM
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I’ve been programming since 14, so learn to program!
/r/askTRP12/07/18 01:59 PM
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Very close. Programmer in a different area.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 01:58 PM
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Sure, a little. But even the most minor frame break can be fixed. Just give it radio silence. Game women in the mean time. If she comes back, then that’s just another plate to add. Worst case, you break a plate. Oh well.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:30 AM
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It’s a sign what you’re doing is working. Just don’t break frame and you’re good. This happens with nearly every girl I get with. She gets all clingy, she overanalyses everything, and I don’t give a shit, furthing both of the aforementioned things.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:03 AM
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I personally use Google Calendar to plan out my day. I have a set up time during the week to plan out my days for the upcoming days.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:27 PM
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Ignore the other dude in the thread, he gave shit advice. It’s time for you to get a schedule. You need to have a hard schedule on when you do stuff and when. It’s surprising, you’ll find a lot of free time you didn’t know you had. If you truly don’t have free time, drop one of them. Only you can make that decision there.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:15 AM
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Ignore her and wait for her to reach out. If she doesn’t, hard next. But in the mean time, fuck one of her friends or something.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:12 AM
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She seems to be only interested in your attention. In my experience, that really only leads to ONS, or the occasional ONS turned plate. If you want a LTR, you probably shouldn’t be here. But even still, if you want a LTR, move on.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:11 AM
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Listen, I went through something similar. A very shameful experience that I really got down on myself for. The one thing you need to know is, you shouldn’t be changing your will to hang out with attractive women. It absolutely destroyed mine, and I wish I could go back in time and tell myself to keep shooting. You’re lucky you live in the 21st century, where you can simply move to another state if your name gets tarnished by some woman like this. Worst case, you lose some unworthy friends. Best …
/r/askTRP11/07/18 01:56 AM
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Well then you very clearly ignored everything you learned. You went in with a scarcity mentality, and didn’t tell her to walk her ass home when she gave you the cold shoulder. You didn’t note any body language, and still tried to make a move. You really need to learn social cues. If she’s on her phone the whole time, she doesn’t want you. Point blank. It’s a big reason others in the thread were calling you autistic, it’s because you have to be able to see that and cut the date short. But, you st…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 01:13 AM
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You are aware you can change venues and times, right? If you do that, and receive resistance, then you were already fighting an uphill battle anyways.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:44 AM
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The key to passing shit tests is genuinely not giving a fuck. If the girl texts you that shit and you were where you were supposed to be, you wouldn’t give a fuck because you’d already be balls deep in her friend. If you respond to that message with anything that isn’t straight up ignoring her or saying “okay” (and even that’s pushing it), you’ve failed. There is no agree and amplify here, there is no other method of dealing with this instead of ignoring it or giving it as little attention as hu…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:42 AM
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If you go, ignore the man. And that in itself says enough, because you’re going to his party to ignore him. I personally would find something better to do.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:35 AM
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What the fuck? Dude, this isn’t on you completely. Who the fuck is she to go on a date with a man, when she is in a “serious” relationship? Who also posts about a fucking date on Facebook? You dodged a bullet at least here, my friend. Even still, she sent you signals, you just failed to tell her “go kick rocks bitch.” You pretended to be something you aren’t, and she recognized that. You shouldn’t have to ask to go back to your place, you should just go. If she asks, give her some form of plausi…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:33 AM
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Then they’re in a different category. Maybe guardians
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 04:05 PM
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What the hell? Why would a judge throw out a prenup
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 04:03 PM
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Link to the 38 page “The Flinch” pdf.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 01:03 AM
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Yeah I should have used that
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 01:58 PM
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That’s right. You ignore anyone that might be putting you down or speaking down to you until they have something worth listening to. That quite literally means ignoring them if they ask you a question. If they ask you for something, you ignore it. I wouldn’t give my time to really anyone who thinks I’m easily controlled or just in general inferior to them. If you can also show them the shit they pull doesn’t affect you, you’re at a plus. But there’s a certain point where you just shouldn’t take …
/r/askTRP03/07/18 08:53 PM
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Get used to ignoring people until they have something that supports your position of an alpha. I’ve found that it really fucking sucks in the beginning because it feels “wrong”, but eventually you’ll realize it’s for the betterment of your relationship with them. In general, just say as little as possible. It’s a law of power that’s one of the biggest nowadays. Also just don’t associate with someone who won’t treat you as their equal or superior, unless they’re mentoring you. Another big thing i…
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:37 PM
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I’ve found that men like this don’t really feel a need to get better. They just feel “entitled” to it, for lack of a better word. I’ve met a few men like this, and I’ve offered them what was essentially teaching them how to fish, but they’d rather take the fish because it’s just easier. As someone else said in this thread, consider it a learning fee. You shouldn’t give your money to someone who is A) a good friend of yours (because that shit destroys relationships) or B) someone who doesn’t need…
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:33 PM
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I think the real issue is, as many in this thread have pointed out, TRP is too similar to some of the shit going on in the Incel subs, to the point where it looks the same. Incels and TRPers have very similar views on hypergamy and the works, but they separate at a very big point: how you’re supposed to deal with it. TRP sees it as something to take advantage of. It essentially says if you maximize your SMV, take care of yourself both physically and mentally, and maintain a strong frame, you WIL…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 03:23 PM
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Absolutely. I’ve read a great book on self discipline recently, and I’m trying to use all of the tactics taught to me in there. I’ve really been neglecting my list. Thanks for shifting my attention
/r/askTRP02/07/18 01:46 PM
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This is true. Definitely a big part of my issues. Thank you man.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 01:45 PM
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You’re right man. I appreciate this more than words can say.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 01:43 PM
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A little too much, but it’s a really hard one to kick because it essentially will wreck my sleep schedule. I can barely sleep regularly
/r/askTRP02/07/18 03:38 AM
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I’d think that too, but there’s too many things pointing otherwise (not losing muscle when not lifting, playing sports all my life, etc)
/r/askTRP02/07/18 03:07 AM
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What’s the best you’ve read?
/r/askTRP02/07/18 02:55 AM
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Yeah you’re right. I haven’t had a reward system all my life, and it hasn’t exactly yielded great results. I read a book that’s great recently, and I’m hoping that’ll teach me something. You have any other books that you loved?
/r/askTRP02/07/18 02:23 AM
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Yeah that’s true. I really appreciate this response, brother. It’s true, what you’ve said. I guess it’s just my mind shit testing me (for lack of a better term), seeing if I’ll crack under pressure. Fuck no I’m not. Not again.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 02:19 AM
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(You can say shit, we’re on the internet)
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 07:08 PM
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Right, but how far along are you? I.e. what’s your SMV look like? How successful are you? Etc
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:25 PM
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It’s a bitch and a half to get her to the point of submission, and she’ll pounce on your first sign of weakness. There are plenty of women out there looking for a daddy, so do everyone involved a favor and let her look for her beta bitch. My experience with this has essentially been as follows: it was enjoyable to make a very dominant women very submissive, but it didn’t last. It just gets old having to answer to actual questions to your masculinity every time she wants sex. It’s how it went. If…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 10:24 PM
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How far along are you in your journey?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:18 PM
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Yup. Never had to start working out, just started lifting weights more often.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:17 PM
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So what I’d essentially do is say “no” and when she says some shit like “wow all men are such pigs”, I’d either say some shit like “yup. And what are you going to do about it?” Or just ignore it. Would that still be social assassination territory? And what exactly are the ramifications of social assassination? I tend to sway towards not really giving a fuck, but it’s gotten me into “bad” positions previously where women kinda spread bullshit to other women to get the to ignore me. I’ve kinda bui…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 03:21 AM
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