First time posting here. I've got a problem with a girl I've been seeing from my work, hottest girl who works there. tiny waist, perfect skin, hips, bright blue eyes, massive lips, etc. The kind of girl guys debate on whether she's a 9 or 10.

I was seeing her more seriously about a year ago and she was massively into me, I was emotionally unavailable from a breakup which made it easy for her to turn me off with her insecurity and I stopped speaking to her for half a year.

Time passes and we end up in bed again on a work night out. Been meeting several times after, having sex, having more relationship esque meetings, swimming in the sea etc. She's not grossly fishing for compliments this time and has relaxed and can have fun with me. It's better.

However, the power dynamic has changed now. Before it was her making more effort, now it's me. She acts interested half the time, clearly no where near as attracted to me as she was a year ago. It's baffling because she was crazy about me, said that I was one of the only people she's ever really considered being with seriously. I think her finding out that I've been around with the girls at work may have turned her off, and now that I'm making more effort I'm no longer a challenge to her. Yet if I stopped making an effort I think nothing would end up happening between us at all.

Last night she pissed me off, before I do anything brash I thought i'd ask you guys how you would handle this situation. We had planned a date by ourselves and then to end up back at my house for sex. Shit gets in the way and we end up going out to a club with the whole work group instead. However, while we're out i'm getting big signs of disinterest from her. She wasn't trying to talk to me, wouldn't come to the bar with me by ourselves, I suggest leaving together at one point and she says no, she wants to stay for a bit longer. I was like "eh, see how it plays out and leave her alone for a bit."

But then I noticed she was getting a friend to stand in between us if I was standing next to her. Like, i'd be next to her in the circle of people in the club, not trying to dance with her/kiss her or anything, she'd say something in his ear and he'd blatantly move to block my view of her. She was actively trying to avoid me. She did this once, I watched it in my peripheral, thought maybe i'd imagined it, but then she did it again 10 minutes later when I was next to her and I thought "yep, lost cause" left the club and went home.

Then i get texts from her an hour later.

"Where did you go? you just left without saying anything"

Of course I fucking left, she was so blatantly trying to ignore me, what other option did i have? Why behave like that and then act suprised when I leave without a word?

I replied this morning with this "..." maybe I shouldn't have. Now it's obvious i'm pissed about something.

She replies "??? I said I wanted to stay for a bit longer haha"

I haven't responded.

So my question is, should I call this girl out on her shit? Mention that I saw her getting someone to help her avoid me? How would you guys deal with this? This is a bit of a make or break situation so i thought i'd ask for some help. If she wasn't so fucking hot i'd have discarded her already.

I was considering replying and saying that I left because she was so obviously avoiding me, and that I'm going to leave her alone now. That if she wants to continue meeting me she'll be the one who needs to get in touch. Otherwise i'm cutting my losses.

Half of me says I should call her out on her behaviour from last night. But the other half says no, that would be butthurtbetabob behaviour and will turn her off, act as if nothing happened.

Any advice would be appreciated, i just turned 23 and have been reading theory for at least a couple years but i'm still a spring chicken.. I'm sure this is a common situation and someone here has dealt with it correctly. I'm guessing you're all going to say "NEXT" but i'm going to see this girl at work and have to interact with her there, I can't just completely cut loose. (Also she's so fine and i want to have more sex with her)

TL;DR Girl i've been sleeping with arranges a date and sex with me, we end up with work mates instead, then she actively avoids me. Do I ignore it? Call her out on it? Stop making an effort with her without an explanation? Completely next her?