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| 14 | Drugs and frameHonestly dude at this point your priority should be getting your drug use under control. And not women. You are clearly an attractive guy and could probably pull 8s and 9s without being a junkie. The main thing about frame is being a solid and reliable leader. A drug addict is not solid, nor reliable , nor a leader. A drug addict is a slave to drugs. It actually does make you more attractive women to be so into drugs because you have a "purpose" that is more important than women. But you need a … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/23 04:55 AM |
| 57 | Where are all the OGs?Your issues with 8 and 9s are all in your head. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/23 07:24 AM |
| 2 | Why women are obsessed with powerYou're overthinking this way too much. I was making a simple point that women are obsessed with power and want a powerful man to protect them. You are just doing intellectual masturbation and arguing just to argue. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/23 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Why women are obsessed with powerDude the point I am making is that any woman can go crazy. If you have some magical ability to sniff out crazy girls or girls that will go crazy in the future, great. Most guys don't. Either way, studying crazy girls is the best way to understand normal girls. All women have tendencies like this, they just do a better job of keeping them under control. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/23 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Why women are obsessed with powerIn my book I purposely relay stories about crazy girls because extreme examples illustrate the emotional make up of all women. Crazy girls are not some different species of creature from a regular woman, they are just a regular woman who has lost control of her emotions. Also this woman does not look crazy to the naked eye. She is college educated, has a good job, looks put together. You should assume every woman might have this type of shit going on. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/23 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Why women are obsessed with powerI personally don't give a shit. I'm writing about women's psychology here. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/23 11:49 PM |
| 3 | The Fourteen Commandments of FrameOk so what are you saying? You shouldn't be a fun person? You should hang out with negative people? You should be closed off to new experiences? The reason that advice is "woman like" is because people give women that advice because they are bad at those things. Women are not fun because they are neurotic and conformist. They cannot move on from negative people because they are validation seeking. They are not open to new experiences because they are afraid of the unknown. That advice is "woman … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/23 11:48 PM |
| 10 | The Fourteen Commandments of FrameDamn man that anime line really hurt yalls feelings. I mean that men shouldn't obsess over stupid things, like the guys who spend 40 hours a week playing video games. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/23 11:44 PM |
| 6 | Why women are obsessed with powerSaying the average woman is more powerful than a CEO is stupid. You sound exactly like one of those women that wants to feel like a victim no matter what. If the average woman could "unleash" the authorities on a CEO whenever she wanted tons of broke women would be extorting CEOs all the time, but they are not. Be a fucking man and stop trying to be a victim. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/23 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Why women are obsessed with powerMaybe I should address this in the book. The problem isn't that the dad was weak, it is that he felt weak to her subconscious mind. In reality there was nothing the father could do, but in her mind he was superman and needed to save the day because she definitely was not going to save the day. She felt weak and helpless on her own, which is why she felt let down by the dad. Does that help? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/23 02:00 PM |
| 10 | Why women are obsessed with powerThis is the dumbest, most ignorant thing I have ever read. This post is not about how to bring home a drunk girl from a club. This post is about how to succeed in long term relationships, how to deal with women in your family and workplace, and how to understand why women act the way they do in every fucking situation. At some point you will deal with a female boss, a crazy ex-girlfriend, or even just a crazy bitch at WalMart, so the idea that it is "bad" to understand the most important aspects… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 02:06 AM |
| -5 | Why women are obsessed with powerWell she was telling the truth about her father being a politician, so I would not be so sure she was lying about this part. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/23 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Get some means and get some hoes.For most guys it is hard to get pussy. They have to deal with subconscious feelings of inferiority, bad social programming, false views of masculinity, bad dating advice, etc. More than 30% of men did not have sex last year, so it is clearly not easy for lost men. If it's easy for you great. Go fuck your heart out. But saying "it's easy bro" to guys who are struggling is not productive or helpful. It's just douchebaggery. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Get some means and get some hoes.However, they will also fuck any man who looks presentable enough just because she's horny. What the fuck are you talking about? Plenty of guys blow it because they act weird, anxious, needy, douchey, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/23 10:28 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The slippier the branch, the firmer the grip.What do you mean by "fixing their beta traits, not the other way around?" Men need to provide women 2 sets of emotions to maintain an emotional connection. Alpha emotions (adventure, excitement, being challenging, being masculine, etc...) and beta emotions (comfort, acceptance, being "nice," etc...). The vast majority of men provide way too much beta and almost no alpha, mostly because our society teaches men to be beta and being beta just feels better. Most of the guys that come on discussion f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/23 02:02 AM |
| 15 | Red flags in a woman you should NEVER ignore.Your filter should be their actions, not your guesses about how they might act. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/23 10:12 PM |
| 14 | Red flags in a woman you should NEVER ignore.I wasn't making the point that exceptions exist. I was saying that doing character analyses of girls based on their appearance is a waste of time. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/23 08:39 PM |
| 4 | [FR] The slippier the branch, the firmer the grip.Thousands of relationships have been dissected on here. Many girls have ejected because of a lack of attraction. Yet not a single one due to lack of comfort. Your analysis is misguided for several reasons. First, most of the men who come crying on the internet for their relationships are providing comfort, and usually way too much of it. In fact, if you are married, you are almost certainly providing a high level of comfort. Most RP and MRP guys need help fixing their beta traits, not the other … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/10/23 07:38 PM |
| 42 | Red flags in a woman you should NEVER ignore.I actually reject this kind of thinking. It is not your job to do a character analysis of every woman you come across. It is too much work and you cannot read womens' minds. Furthermore, women are way too diverse in the modern world for you to be able to make easy generalizations about them. A much easier metric is to just judge them for their actions - do they do things for you to improve your emotional experience? If so, great - you can do things for them. Do they not contribute to your emotio… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/23 07:31 PM |
| 15 | What is frame?I hate when people say shit like this. If frame was simple or easy and you could sum it up in one sentence, way more guys would be holding frame and living happy lives with healthy relationships. There is obviously something missing for most guys, which is why 50% of marriages end in divorce and 30% of men have not had sex in the past year. If holding frame is easy for you, bro, congratulations. I'm happy for you. But it's not easy for a lot of guys and I am writing for the hard cases. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/23 09:28 PM |
| 6 | What is frame?Ok I think that aligns with what I'm saying here. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/23 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Get some means and get some hoes.What is the purpose of writing douchey shit like this? I understand you are a miserable fuck because women don't like you, but why take it out on me? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/23 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Get some means and get some hoes.Ok sorry for the harsh response - I am just tired of guys thinking that "red pill" just means becoming an ATM for women. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 11:25 PM |
| 4 | Get some means and get some hoes.You completely missed my point. I never said it is bad to make money. Every man should make money. And I am not even saying that it is bad to spend money on women. You can, and should, spend money on women when they have done something to deserve it. The thing that is wrong about this post is the idea that money is the main thing or the thing that most drives attraction. This is a very common opinion among bluepill beta losers and men who suck with women, and it causes them to become ATMs. These… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 10:54 PM |
| 5 | Get some means and get some hoes.I didn't miss his point entirely. You actually missed his point. I never said it is bad to make money. Every man should make money. And I am not even saying that it is bad to spend money on women. You can, and should, spend money on women when they have done something to deserve it. The thing that is wrong about this post is the idea that money is the main thing or the thing that most drives attraction. This is a very common opinion among bluepill beta losers and men who suck with women, and it … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Get some means and get some hoes.Are you fucking retarded? OP is basically saying you need to make the woman financially dependent on you so she will stay. He even says: but a woman has to NEED you to KEEP on fucking you WHEN (not if) the enthusiasm has faded. How the fuck are you going to do that if you are not spending? Do you morons even know how to read? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Get some means and get some hoes.If taking her to a yacht affected her attraction she wants the yacht, not you. So many bluepill simps in here, it hurts my soul. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 05:30 PM |
| 19 | Get some means and get some hoes.I shouldn't need to explain it to anybody who has actually taken the time to read the material here, but "get laid at all costs" is a poisonous mindset. A guy who will try to get laid by becoming an ATM for a woman will become a doormat in other ways. Women do not respect men who try to buy sex and even if they do fuck you, they will treat you like shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | My Size CONSTANTLY Bothers Me As a ManAll else being equal, women prefer taller guys but there are so many other areas in which you can improve that, as a practical matter, being short is not a big deal. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Get some means and get some hoes.Go read my other writings. Woujo.com | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 04:37 PM |
| -8 | Get some means and get some hoes.Why is the most bluepill comment the most upvoted one here? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 04:36 PM |
| 57 | Get some means and get some hoes.No. Fuck this. This is beta bitch shit. You are basically telling guys to be ATMs for women. You should get banned from this subreddit for posting this horseshit. Any attractive woman can find 100 guys who will be ATMs for her but she will not respect nor give a fuck about them. Women want something deeper - the feelings created by the alpha male, something OP doesn't know dick about. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 08:01 AM |
| 12 | My Size CONSTANTLY Bothers Me As a ManDude, 179 cm is 5'8". That's not short at all. And 72 kg comes out to around 158 lbs, which is not supper skinny either. This is all in your head. Even if you were abnormally small, thinking about it does not solve anything. Neuroticism and thinking about yourself is the same thing. Just focus on the things you can improve and be thankful that a man can become attractive in many ways other than just looks. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Confused about my SMV and my place in lifeHowever when I see hot women who are clearly older than me, maybe 25, I find it hard to know how they perceive me. Who gives a fuck how they perceive you? You are not a mind reader, and what they think about you is none of your business. You should just judge women on their actions. Do they do things for you? Then you can do things for them. If they don't do anything for you, then you should not do anything for them. Am I a man yet ready to dress more serious and take older women out on fancy da… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/23 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Good Girl, Bad Girl: Same GirlFine me one post where I said women are soulless and stupid | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/23 01:14 AM |
| 9 | Field Report: Good Girl, Bad Girl: Same GirlI think you're confusing me for somebody else and it's clear you have no idea what I teach or believe in. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/23 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Field Report: Good Girl, Bad Girl: Same GirlI dont ever say shit like, even as a joke. I would just say "that was super fun, maybe we can do it again before you leave." | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/23 01:56 AM |
| 15 | Field Report: Good Girl, Bad Girl: Same GirlThe more men a woman has sex with it, the harder it will be for her to form emotional connections in the future and the more likely she is to cheat. But yeah talking about N count is stupid, especially with a girl you are having a one night stand with. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/23 12:21 AM |
| 15 | Field Report: Good Girl, Bad Girl: Same GirlPeople that say women don't like alpha males don't know what the term alpha male means. An alpha male is a person who is confident, has boundaries, is focused on his mission, and enjoys taking the lead. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/23 12:18 AM |
| 14 | Field Report: Good Girl, Bad Girl: Same GirlNot necessarily. Every girl with a high body count has to start somewhere and you don't necessarily need to get warned up. I know lots of girls that suddenly increased their N count. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/23 10:04 PM |
| 19 | Field Report: Good Girl, Bad Girl: Same GirlShe said that shit because he invited it. Women know better than to talk about fucking other guys unless the guy allows it. There is nothing Red Pill about that shit. But if you expect all women to be pure virgins you're gonna have a bad time, Red Pill or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/23 10:01 PM |
| 15 | Field Report: Good Girl, Bad Girl: Same GirlI'm not saying you completely fucked it up, I'm just saying that you shouldn't have said that one particular thing. Like what good purpose did saying that serve? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/23 09:56 PM |
| 27 | Field Report: Good Girl, Bad Girl: Same GirlDude why the fuck do so many guys on this subreddit have such a weak cuck mindset? Why would you assume she wants to fuck other guys? If I fuck a girl the first night I would expect her to come back and want to fuck me all week. My dick is the holy grail. Even if she was thinking of fucking other guys, why talk about it with her? Nothing good can come from that. To a woman's subconscious brain, there is only one alpha male, and you are either him or not him. And if you talk about her fucking oth… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/23 09:54 PM |
| 62 | Field Report: Good Girl, Bad Girl: Same GirlOk but by joking about her fucking other guys, he subconsciously portrayed himself as a beta cuck, which means she was more likely to go fuck other guys. If he had played it right he could have set it up where she spent the entire vacation fucking him. It's no coincidence that right after he made this joke, she said "I need to go meet more people." You have to realize that a lot of women fuck different guys not because they want to be whores, but because they cannot find a man who can consistent… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/23 04:49 PM |
| 102 | Field Report: Good Girl, Bad Girl: Same GirlShe said she and her friends will be here for a week. I agreed/amplified, jokingly saying ‘if you bang three guys a day, you’ll up your body count to the twenties’. She looked at me and said “Omg, twenty guys?!”. I joked again, saying they’ll come in all shapes, sizes and races. Dead serious, she stared through my soul and said “you’re making my mouth water”. Had to pinch myself. I’d said we should just lock the doors and bang for a week. She says ‘Yeah! But do that on my last day, I want to mee… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/23 04:07 PM |
| 2 | The first rule about power is you do not talk about powerGo back and read that sentence again. I said "trying." Trying. Trying. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/23 03:09 PM |
| 28 | The first rule about power is you do not talk about powerI wish, there is so much more to do on this book. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/23 04:36 PM |
| 39 | My last 4 dates were basically identical.It's really hard to tell from this brief description. My guesses: 1) You are demoralized so you show up nervous, anxious and with shit confidence. Women can smell that lack of confidence/enthusiasm right off the bat. 2) You start the date off boring and never build momentum to a fun, interesting conversation. What are you saying to start a date? 3) You are doing/saying something that is coming off as needy/creepy/pushy, which is why they are immediately looking for an "out". It is very strange f… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/23 09:03 PM |
| 10 | I propose a new symbol for post wall women.And why the fuck does this need a symbol in the first place. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/23 09:11 PM |
| 85 | I propose a new symbol for post wall women.What the hell has this subreddit become? Go outside bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/23 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Thursday Night OutI know you are being dense on purpose but I will break it down for you. Before you approach most girls will not show any interest but after you approach they will be excited to approach. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/23 08:30 PM |
| 8 | Thursday Night OutI realized that I was seated alone at my table, so I tried to talk to some of the guys who were around me to calibrate some social proof. You don't need to know this shit. "Social proof" is not nearly as important as people make it out to be. Obviously, you will be more attractive in a place where you know tons of people and are high-status, but no girl is gonna think you are more attractive because you know Jeff and Bill sitting in the back of the bar. I hate sitting alone in a venue without sp… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/23 07:58 PM |
| 4 | Thursday Night Outmaybe they don't indicate for you. Don't get me wrong. Tons of women approach me, make eye contact with me, etc. But not approaching a woman because she did not "invite" you to approach is stupid. You are basically disqualifying yourself 90% of the time. Waiting for women to invite you is pussy shit. Nice doesnt mean they are going to let you sleep with them though. If a woman is being nice and talking to you, that means you have a chance. If she was really not interested, she would leave. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/23 07:52 PM |
| 16 | Thursday Night OutI completely disagree. Most attractive women will do absolutely nothing to indicate they want to be approached. But when you approach them, things go well. If you wait for an invitation you will be waiting all night. If she's not interested she will let you know after you approach. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/23 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Women are currently engaging in an absolute, total warI honestly have no idea what point you are trying to make with this comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/23 11:45 PM |
| 42 | Women are currently engaging in an absolute, total warJesus this is like the 5th time this moron has posted this. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/23 11:21 PM |
| 1 | The importance of your attentionI already said a woman should never feel like you are ignoring her "on purpose." So its not clear who you are arguing with. I just think you want to self righteously proclaim how dumb everybody else is. Also I don't advocate ignoring women who aren't working for your attention as some kind of sneaky strategy. I just generally think you shouldn't pursue people who aren't doing anything for you. And yes, your whole "this only works for rich gigachads" horseshit is telling guys that the "rules" are… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 06:05 PM |
| 1 | The importance of your attentionOk even worse. The last thing this subreddit needs is women who hate the Red Pill coming to tell them to act beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 04:30 PM |
| 2 | The importance of your attentionI think the issue is the word ignored and purposefully and as in a game, ignoring. Yes, if a woman is not working for your attention you should ignore her. You should not pay any person attention, much less a woman, who does not deserve it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 03:43 AM |
| 1 | The importance of your attentionNo you're a loser who thinks the only way he can get women is by acting like a beta male. If that's how you want to live your life, that's fine. Go live your life that way. But I don't agree with you and I think your mindset is wrong and stupid and toxic. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 03:42 AM |
| 2 | The importance of your attentionThis is a great post. One of the most toxic, fucked up mindsets guys have is "well, I'm not an attractive GigaChad, so I must act like a beta male to get girls." And then guys use this weak ass mindset to pay women too much attention, buy them shit, act like their servants, etc. But acting beta just makes women like you less. Even if you are a fat, ugly loser, it is still better to act like an alpha male than the alternative. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 03:25 AM |
| 1 | The importance of your attentionOk, well if you are not a Rich Giga Chad you should just give on women and go buy prostitutes, because acting like a beta male makes women even less attracted to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 03:22 AM |
| 15 | The importance of your attentionYou shouldn't ever say these things to women. You should move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 01:34 AM |
| 4 | The importance of your attentionThe kind of women you want will smell your game a mile a way, you really will need to be a celebrity or a very wealthy gigachad to follow this advice, not an average joe. Jesus fucking Christ, I addressed this point in the article too. I see you are "ex red pill" so I am not sure why you are here. If you think this whole red pill thing is wrong, why are you here? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/23 08:24 PM |
| 4 | The importance of your attentionI actually address this exact point later in the chapter on attention I am writing: Furthermore, women can tell when you are withholding your attention to look cool or play games, which also causes them to lose attraction. To build attraction, women must feel like you are withholding your attention because you have a genuinely cool life and lots of options, not because you are purposely trying to ignore them. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/23 08:10 PM |
| 13 | The importance of your attentionDude I say this exact thing multiple times in my article. But obviously, just ignoring a woman will not make a woman sexually attracted to you. At any given time, you are ignoring 99.99999% of women on the planet, but they are not lining up outside your door. You need to pay women enough attention to make them feel accepted and valued for their contributions, but no more. - If you only focus on your purposes and completely ignore the woman, you will look like a badass alpha male, but the woman w… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/23 07:02 PM |
| 7 | Nuclear shit test exampleI know people in the YT comments say 'Drop this girl, she's for the streets' and people here might say 'You've already lost her if she runs these kinds of shit tests on you' etc. And there is truth to that. But I think a lot of this is said by people not because they don't want HB9/10s like this, but because they know they cannot compete at that level in that environment for these women. It's coming from a place of weakness disguised as moral superiority. Ugh. No. Wrong. You are still stuck in t… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/23 07:47 PM |
| 45 | Nuclear shit test exampleI disagree with this answer. If the girl pulls something like this, she's already dead to me. Like, why even waste my time with this bitch? I've already moved on with my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/23 07:38 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.Picking her up wouldn't technically violate anything if only it was his idea originally - where do I pick you up. Whether or not you are doing something beta has nothing to do with whether it is your idea or not. If the guy had offered to buy her a Ferrari on the first date, that would have been beta even if it had been his idea. The guiding principle here is the alpha male quid pro quo - you should only do things for women after they have done something to deserve it. Whether or not she "deserv… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/23 11:54 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.Instead of responding point for point to your dumbass post, I will just get right to the point of why you are completely wrong: You are still making the mistake of thinking that men and women are the same, and you can apply the same standards to women that you can apply to men. That is dead fucking wrong. If you spend your life expecting women to act like men, then you will always be disappointed. Just because women accuse men of gaslighting doesn't mean men should accuse women of gaslighting. G… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/23 04:39 AM |
| 31 | Am I over reacting?Being insecure is a self fulfilling prophecy. By acting insecure, you become less attractive, which makes women more likely to fuck you over, which in turn makes you more insecure. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/23 08:02 AM |
| 86 | Am I over reacting?Dude you are Hella insecure. You freaked out because she searched another guy's name on Facebook? How will you ever function in a relationship? You realize that women will hang out with other guys, work with other guys, etc. If you freak out every time a woman interacts with another guy your relationship will be hell. You should assume she likes you and will be loyal until strong evidence shows otherwise. Otherwise your insecurity will constantly find reasons to freak out. Who cares if the guy i… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/23 07:18 AM |
| 58 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.This is an example of what happens when guys take Red Pill shit way too literally and autistically. First, asking her to meet at 8am is weird as fuck. Like, why?? Is this some kind of weird power move? Just be normal dude. The only girls that would agree to this are probably already fucking psycho. Second, when she asked you to pick her up you should have just picked her up. I know it technically violates the rules of Red Pill to do a nice favor for a woman she has not deserved, but saying no ju… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/23 05:05 AM |
| 1 | My intolerance to shittests has grown out of proportion: weak frame or it just comes with maturity?So what do guys like you do for sex? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/23 10:10 PM |
| 7 | My intolerance to shittests has grown out of proportion: weak frame or it just comes with maturity?If you absolutely need to block your ex girlfriend because you need to get over her that is one thing. But blocking all these girls means he is getting too angry and emotionally invested. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/23 01:49 AM |
| 26 | My intolerance to shittests has grown out of proportion: weak frame or it just comes with maturity?Dude, blocking girls because they don't want to hang out with you is super weak sauce. It shows that you are overly emotionally invested and butthurt. Do you think Brad Pitt is blocking girls when they don't want to hang out with them? Of course not - he forgets he even asked them out and is already on to the next girl. My guess is that you are girl crazy right now and you are acting overly needy. It sounds like you are an attractive guy and all these girls have some initial interest in you, but… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/23 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Classification of psychological tests that women use on men to determine their qualityIt is a pointless analysis. Who is ever going to use this. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/23 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Shit TestsYou are right, I am trying to post snippets from my book but I am realizing I need to break them up in my book as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/23 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Shit TestsI am going to address this question in my book, but at the end of the day, it is up to you to decide using your own morality whether a woman's actions are unacceptable. Remember, at the end of the day the rules are determined by you and your frame, so if you think something crosses the line, it crosses the line. It is up to you to decide. How you react depends on what she has worked for. If she has worked to gain your validation and has emotionally invested in you, you owe her an explanation of … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Shit TestsWhat do you mean by clearer formatting? Like do you mean I should break the text up into sections? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/23 04:31 PM |
| 18 | An Interesting Congruence TestWhat do you need to know? If she raises a real issue, you address it. If her concern is silly, then dismiss it. Either way, show that it didn't perturb you. The girl freaked out because YOU freaked out. By getting defensive and explaining yourself, you made her subconsciously think that maybe she was right and you are a drug dealer. You should have been like "no im not a drug dealer" and ended it there. You should have treated it like she was accusing you of being a robot. By the way, it sounds … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/23 03:25 PM |
| 34 | An Interesting Congruence TestThis post is an example of how overcomplicating and overthinking things turns your brain into mush. You do not need to divide shit tests into 5,000 different categories. There is no way in hell you will be able to remember how to respond to each kind of shit test. Just keep it simple, stupid. A shit test is an attack on your frame. You beat a shit test by showing that your frame cannot be perturbed. That's it. The fact that you defended yourself or explained yourself showed that you failed. I'm … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/23 01:27 PM |
| 4 | will this way of getting girls workThe "why not" is that doing shit like this is telling your own subconscious mind that you are a fucking loser, which in turn will make you into a fucking loser. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/23 01:03 PM |
| 14 | will this way of getting girls workThis is a stupid idea and anybody who tries this is an insecure loser. There was a thread a few days ago where a guy asked about "faking preselection." Go read that thread to see how dumb of an idea this is. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/23 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Does my girlfriend think I'm beta? Am I beta?Your GF obviously doesn't like you. Why are you still with her? Sounds miserable. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/23 11:45 AM |
| 5 | Do you guys think "creepy" guys exist?There are senses of the word "creepy": an objective and a subjective definition. The objective definition is when a person is overly emotionally invested in the other person. If we meet at a bar and talk for 5 minutes, and then I become obsessed with you, stalking you on social media and stuff, that is creepy. That raises the question: how emotionally invested should a person be? The answer is that emotional investment is caused by actions and you should only do things for people who are doing t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/23 07:28 PM |
| -1 | Let's discuss strategies and tricks to fake preselection.Doesn't matter. You need to talk and act like him. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/23 10:11 PM |
| 10 | Let's discuss strategies and tricks to fake preselection.Ask yourself this: does Brad Pitt need "tricks" or corny lines like "a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell"? No. He's fucking Brad Pitt. Everybody knows he gets pussy. And if a girl asked him if he was seeing girls he would probably say "what the fuck do you think"? Girls can smell try hard a mile away and they can tell when a man is putting a show to make himself look cool. If you are attractive and have game wome will assume you get booty. In fact I have girls say to me all the time "you look like… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/23 09:12 PM |
| 75 | Let's discuss strategies and tricks to fake preselection.Faking preselection is lame and women can almost always tell if you are trying to do some slick shit to show them you are fucking other girls. If you have confidence, frame, and game, you don't have to play these kinds of games. Women will just be able to tell you have other girls. The best thing you can do is act with abundance rather than scarcity, and nothing shows scarcity more than "faking" preselection. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/23 07:27 PM |
| 4 | Shit TestsGood point. Later in the chapter, I talk about how you should walk away from women who are genuinely disrespectful. -- Sometimes the best response to a shit test is to leave. Not every woman deserves your time and attention, and not every woman deserves your responses to her shit tests. Responding to shit tests is a service you provide women to alleviate their neuroticism, and per the alpha male qui pro quo, you should only provide this service for women who deserve it. For example, one night I … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/23 07:16 PM |
| 0 | Shit Testsit’s easier to just say to not take women seriously I actually don't agree with this at all. Sometimes you should take women seriously because sometimes their shit tests are about real problems, and if you don't address those problems, you look like a weak bitch or an asshole. I actually have another section on this in my book. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Shit TestsOne thing I'd underline; if the shit test is about another man ™, it's either you already lost your frame, or she's a bitch not worth any of your investment/commitment. I think you are right, except for situations when you first meet a woman. If I meet a woman and we are dancing and partying all night together, I am not going to ditch her on the side of the road because she brought up some other guy she had a relationship with. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Shit TestsIt's an error to apologize, even once. I disagree. It looks small and weak to not apologize if you genuinely made a mistake. But again, you only need to apologize once, and only for genuine mistakes. Women often use "apologies" as a cudgel to assert their power - they keep asking for apologies over and over again for the same mistake as a way of letting you know you "owe" them. If a woman keeps trying to harp on a mistake after you apologized once, you let her know that it is not going to work o… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/23 06:56 PM |
| 16 | Shit TestsThe guiding principle in all your interactions with women is that the interaction should be fun for you. If she is doing something you don't enjoy, you don't have to do it, unless she has done something to work for that favor from you. If a woman is talking about another guy I would say in a polite, not-butthurt way, "I really don't care about this.' Women almost always immediatwly change the subject but if they were to ask why I guess I would say "your relationship with this guy is not fun or i… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/23 07:03 PM |
| 8 | She used dread game against meThe big mistake beginners make is overthinking everything and trying to hold 8000 pieces of information in their mind. When you are actually in the heat of the interaction with a woman, you're not gonna remember the 30 different types of tests and how you are supposed to react to each one. Instead, it is better to learn the general principles so you automatically know what to do in every situation. At the end of day, honesty, morality, manners and all that stuff is can be summarized as just "fra… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/23 11:30 PM |
| 3 | She used dread game against meI've had a lot of girls come fuck me after they've hung out with other guys. But this situation is different - she is going on a date with another guy because she is dissatisfied with OP, so it won't work for OP to be like "come fuck me later." She is doing this as an act of protest. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/23 09:44 PM |
| 9 | She used dread game against meI don't like this new trend of dividing up shit tests into 5,000 different categories. I just call all tests shit tests because all of womens' tests are fundamentally asking 2 questions: 1) Is your frame strong? and 2) am I still accepted into that frame? Here, the woman's test is subconsciously trying to determine two few things: 1) will this guy become a weak bitch or a lunatic if I tell him I'm doing on a date with another guy (question #1), 2) does he like me enough to try to keep me (questi… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/23 01:54 PM |
| 6 | She used dread game against meWhether or not you responded correctly depends on what you want. Do you want an exclusive relationship. If so, you passed the "test." Do you just want her to be a plate? If so, you lied to her because you are weak and needy. So you failed. One of the stupid ideas that Red Pillers need to let go is the fantasy that every girl will be a plate. No, some girls want an exclusive relationship and if you don't give it to them they will leave. I have had lots of women ask me for exclusive relationships … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/23 01:51 PM |
| 2 | She used dread game against meThis is red pill fanfiction bullshit. Most girls aren't gonna be like "sure I will come over and fuck you after the date I went on because you weren't committing to me." If anything they might fuck the other guy out of spite. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/23 01:42 PM |
| 9 | What Jonah Hill did wrongMost of this speculation is gonna be wrong because none us really know what happened. My suspicion is that there is a bunch of information here that didn't get out. She probably did a lot of stuff and his anger probably built up over time. And of course she is gonna only present information that makes her look like the good guy. From what we do know, I would say this: First, you can't change a ho into a housewife. If her lifestyle is being a thot, she will not quickly change. If she does change,… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/23 12:33 AM |
| 1 | What Jonah Hill did wrongMost of this speculation is gonna be wrong because none us really know what happened. My suspicion is that there is a bunch of information here that didn't get out. She probably did a lot of stuff and his anger probably built up over time. And of course she is gonna only present information that makes her look like the good guy. From what we do know, I would say this: First, you can't change a ho into a housewife. If her lifestyle is being a thot, she will not quickly change. If she does change,… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/23 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Emergency! Got a complex test. Need immediate advice.but she has the value... way way above everybody else. Yeah you are way too invested and you sound like you have oneitis. The fact that you are thinking so deeply about the mechanics of this shows you are in too deep. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/23 03:33 AM |
| 38 | Emergency! Got a complex test. Need immediate advice.Today, I was demonstrating high value with her present (but engaged elsewhere). Sorry but I think this kind of talk is super fucking gay. (my standard response to postponements is not to allow them) Lol what. You sound like a psychopath. At that, she said, "It's ok, we'll do the date." I then showed mild concern and asked if she was stressed about anything. (I figured if she was backing down on the postponement, I could validate with a show of concern.) She of course said she was fine, so that e… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/23 03:32 AM |
| 1 | I got ghosted after the second date at my place and I would like feedback.How is it copypasta? I typed all that shit out to help you. If you don't appreciate it, you can fuck off. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/23 09:12 PM |
| 2 | I got ghosted after the second date at my place and I would like feedback.Not all girls on Bumble just wanna fuck, but when a woman comes to your house you should immediately start making moves. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | There's the redpill and then there's you.Ok I don't understand what the point of this pissing contest is. Yes, emotional intelligence is good. But it is not the only thing, nor is it the most important thing. Plenty of women have nigh emotional intelligence and we would not consider them red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/23 02:31 PM |
| 0 | I got ghosted after the second date at my place and I would like feedback.We just talked about a lot of different things. Mostly she asked me if I liked younger women and my sexual orientation. What the fuck? You should have led the conversation and made it fun and interesting, not about this bullshit. I can already see why she ghosted you. It sounds like she put you on trial and you just went with it rather than changing the subject. I told her that If the man was really pretty and Feminine(transgender) i'd hit it. No complaints. First, you're gay. Second, women don'… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | There's the redpill and then there's you.Ok you need lots of traits to be a good leader, and emotional intelligence is one of them, but it is wrong to say that red pill is all about emotional intelligence. You also need courage, confidence, emotional stability, meaningful hobbies, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/23 02:09 PM |
| 11 | There's the redpill and then there's you.RedPill is not just about lifting, making money, OR emotional intelligence. In fact, those are peripheral things. Ultimately, "red pill" is about being a leader, both of yourself and in relationships with women. It is about developing your own morality, your own boundaries, and your own mission, and not just blindly following others. Leadership is the core concept of red pill, and most men cannot or will not accept it, so the rest of this shit is useless to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | i actually maked my first move yesterday a biw WYou gotta say something. Make a compliment, introduce yourself, something. | /r/seduction | 09/07/23 06:19 PM |
| 1 | How to manage being in a group of loud, boisterous, high energy, high charisma, rambley friends?Didn't you post the same thing in the seduction subreddit. The fact that you are comparing yourself to your friends or even caring what they do shows serious feelings of inferiority. Who gives a fuck what they do? Do whatever you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/23 04:54 PM |
| 11 | Getting back into itYou're pushing too hard and they are getting creeped out. The woman should be chasing you, not vice versa. I know that's a strange concept when you are the one approaching them, but think of it like you are opening the door for them to validate themselves to you. Also why you are asking for Instagram? Get their number like a fucking man. And you are asking for the IG way too quickly. You need to have at least a 20-30 minute interaction for her to even remember you. Don't be a number bandit. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?Ok so you don't actually approach women but you go on an internet message board to tell men if they approach women they will get pepper sprayed, which is not true. Stupid. Stupid. Stupid. | /r/seduction | 01/07/23 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Are women leeches?Relying on women for your feelings of worth as a man is a dangerous game. You need those feelings on your own. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/23 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Are women leeches?OP you need to go meet some real women and stop basing everything you know on some shit you read on the internet. The fact that your fingers even typed "are women leeches" shows that you are suffering from stage 4 retardation. There are lots of different kinds of women in the world and calling them all leeches is just stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/23 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Are women leeches?Why do you want to be like this guy? You sound like you've been dicked over by women and want revenge. That's beta loser thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/23 07:23 AM |
| 1 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?This is weak loser thinking. I have approached thousands of girls, sometimes with their boyfriends and husband's there, and nothing ever happened to me. If anybody ever showed any displeasure at me approaching them, which they rarely do, I just keep it moving. You are just making excuses to justify your lack of action. Let me guess how many women you approached in the last 3 months: 0. | /r/seduction | 01/07/23 07:15 AM |
| 1 | After date everything changedYou acted needy and beta. Next! | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/23 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Being asked about past relationship experience and LTRs.First of all, freaking out about what a woman MIGHT ask you is a waste of your time. Second, you should be honest. Here is my answer "I have had a few relationships and I am on good terms with all my exes. In fact, I still fuck a few of them sometimes. My longest relationship was X years." You can leave out "I fuck a few of them" part if you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/23 04:14 PM |
| 1 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderDawg you're taking steroids and talking about "girls want Chad" but you don't believe in alpha males? Lol there are some real weirdos out here. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/23 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Grocery store pickup attemptYou dont need clever lines to approach girls. | /r/seduction | 27/06/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Confidence and the feeling of physical dominanceI think the real issue is that a lot of guys don't like the message so they find any excuse to poke holes in it. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/23 02:18 AM |
| -1 | Confidence and the feeling of physical dominanceI never said you actually had to fight anybody. This is all about a feeling. I agree that fighting people is dumb. Holy hell the autism is real. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/23 10:13 PM |
| 7 | she wants the "what are we" talk all the timeA lot of damaged women are subconsciously afraid of emotional connections and twrrified of rejection, so the moment they feel one coming on they do something to blow up the relationship, getting them rejected. So maybe she was the one doing shit to blow up the relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/23 03:31 PM |
| 6 | she wants the "what are we" talk all the timeThe emotional motivators are safety, security, comfort. Women evolved to need to feel like they are "accepted" by the tribe for a long-term. In rationality, this translates to a desire for a monogamous relationship. Sometimes you can stave off the "what are we" by just making her feel loved and accepted. But I don't think it will work with this girl - she keeps asking, your answers are not satisfying her, and she has "rational" reasons to want commitment - she is damaged from earlier relationshi… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/23 03:08 PM |
| 21 | she wants the "what are we" talk all the timeYou can't make a woman "stop" having the what are we talk. Sometimes girls want a monogamous, committed relationship. If you can't give that to her, you need to tell her that. Some girls don't want to just be "plates" and in fact a lot of plate relationships end because the woman wants something more serious. And unless you want to be a liar and tell you are monogamous with her, you need to end it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/23 02:51 PM |
| 41 | [FR 3] First time cold approaching at a downtown college town while running night game. Things almost got violent. Analysis at the endYoure making 2 main mistakes. 1) You are not talking to them long enough. I generally don't even ask for their phone number unless I've been talking to them for at least 30 minutes. Otherwise, they will just not remember you. Women take longer to emotionally invest and if they don't emotionally invest, they won't call you back. 2) you are pushing too hard. You are the chaser, not her. She feels pressure. I generally don't even ask for a phone number - I let her ask first because she wants to han… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/23 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Cancel Culture, And Losing All Your Things Just Because You Offended Somebody Is Going To A Whole Another Level... And Will Only Get Worse With Time. Recent experienceWell none of us will ever know the real facts but to me OP sounds like a 14 year old edgelord whose brain has rotted from too much politics so I am assuming he may have left out some relevant facts. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/23 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Cancel Culture, And Losing All Your Things Just Because You Offended Somebody Is Going To A Whole Another Level... And Will Only Get Worse With Time. Recent experienceNope at will employment means they can fire for you any reason, unless it was for racist or sexist reasons. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/23 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Cancel Culture, And Losing All Your Things Just Because You Offended Somebody Is Going To A Whole Another Level... And Will Only Get Worse With Time. Recent experienceDude a business isn't a charity where you reward swell guys. It's about making money and this guy is fucking the money up with his corny jokes. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/23 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Cancel Culture, And Losing All Your Things Just Because You Offended Somebody Is Going To A Whole Another Level... And Will Only Get Worse With Time. Recent experienceJeez you people are dumb. They had mandatory lockdowns in earlier pandemics too, like the 1918 one. I honestly think that some of you only know what you read on right wing blogs. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/23 01:44 PM |
| 7 | Cancel Culture, And Losing All Your Things Just Because You Offended Somebody Is Going To A Whole Another Level... And Will Only Get Worse With Time. Recent experienceYou clearly have been on too many right-wing websites. Americans are freer than ever before. You do realize that 50 years ago you could have been arrested for saying curse words? Right? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/23 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Cancel Culture, And Losing All Your Things Just Because You Offended Somebody Is Going To A Whole Another Level... And Will Only Get Worse With Time. Recent experienceYeah he deserved to get fired, not because that was an offensive joke, but because he was too stupid to realize that's not a joke you should be making at work. Most workplaces are hyper sensitive and hyper conservative, especially when it comes to clients. Why would a workplace want to risk their money? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/23 09:54 PM |
| 11 | Cancel Culture, And Losing All Your Things Just Because You Offended Somebody Is Going To A Whole Another Level... And Will Only Get Worse With Time. Recent experienceIf you get offended by the word "rape" in this context, whether hospitality or not, something is truly wrong with your brain. Haven't you ever dealt with customers? There is always something wrong with their brain. But they are the ones fucking pay you, so if you offend them, you get fired. Jesus fucking Christ. Have none of you ever worked anywhere? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/23 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Cancel Culture, And Losing All Your Things Just Because You Offended Somebody Is Going To A Whole Another Level... And Will Only Get Worse With Time. Recent experienceI think this is less an incel thing than a guy that has spent too much time on right wing outrage porn websites. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/23 09:52 PM |
| 7 | Cancel Culture, And Losing All Your Things Just Because You Offended Somebody Is Going To A Whole Another Level... And Will Only Get Worse With Time. Recent experienceNow, if that same employee was to talk politics, or mistakenly say his views for example in the sense of "I only think there are 2 genders" or "I didn't want to get the COVID shot but they were forcing it on us and if we didn't we couldn't do anything and it's all control blah blah" if he said something like that, I can bet you he'll be fired. Yeah and he should be fired. The point of a business is to make money, not be a personal soapbox for your dumbass political beliefs. Making anything polit… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/23 08:39 PM |
| 19 | Cancel Culture, And Losing All Your Things Just Because You Offended Somebody Is Going To A Whole Another Level... And Will Only Get Worse With Time. Recent experienceThis is all dogshit. Your post is clearly written from the perspective of a guy who has spent way too much time on the internet and has never actually stepped foot in the real world. Everything is dumb, internet clickbait outrage porn talking points. "Cancel culture" is not a thing for regular people. It has always been the rule that you get fired for saying inappropriate things in the workplace. Your tour guide friend was a moron and he should have been fired - if the customers complain about y… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderHow does it feel off? Serious question. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderYeah you're not my target audience | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/23 03:29 AM |
| 3 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderSorry dude but this shit is deeper than capitalism. Women have been lining up to fuck the high status male since caveman days. Capitalism adds certain pressures and incentives, but the underlying biology is still the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/23 12:48 PM |
| 5 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderOh sorry I see now. But still, saying "humans are less violent than chimps" does not prove your point. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 07:26 PM |
| 2 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderNone of that says anything about humans. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 07:03 PM |
| 3 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderTo be clear I am not saying that there is no "Alpha males" it's that the traits associated with it are rooted in reactive aggression and have been chosen against. Idk how to make that any more clear. You can cite one of these "books" you're talking about, which I don't think you're gonna do. Again, your vision of the alpha male is completely wrong and completely contradicted by actual primatologists, including Franz De Waal and Richard Wrangham, who are the top guys in this field. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 3 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderI need you to cite some of these "books" disproving the alpha male that you're talking about before I engage with you anymore bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 06:15 PM |
| 4 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderThere's books written on it, it's pretty common and well known theory lmao. There is not a single respected scientific book that says "there is no alpha male in humans." I know its a common left-wing talking point, but it has not been scientifically demonstrated. everything you wrote about what the alpha male does and is is wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 06:12 PM |
| 3 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderThere is no such thing as an alpha male in humans, we ditched that shit when we were chimps because cooperation became more effective. There is 0 evidence for this. Also, having an alpha male and cooperation are not mutually exclusive. The alpha male must cooperate with the other apes for the tribe to succeed, but the tribe still needs a leader. Otherwise, why would evolution even produce an alpha male? Also, how else do you explain the prevalence of kings, dictators, and cult leaders throughout… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 06:04 PM |
| 9 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderOk thanks for your feedback. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Stupid question; Why is it often times easier to get laid just after getting a lay??Dude there is tons of evidence of pheromones in humans. What are you talking about. | /r/seduction | 19/06/23 03:49 PM |
| -12 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderMaybe you can shut the fuck up and actually read the article before you say anything about it | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 03:10 PM |
| -11 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderLol dude I wasn't actually asking a question. It's called a "rhetorical question." Maybe you would know what that was if you knew how to read. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 02:52 PM |
| 13 | The Alpha Male is the LeaderThe "I didn't read the article but lemme give you my opinion anyway" are truly the dumbest, worst people on the earth. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 02:45 PM |
| 8 | Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy”Are you kidding me? There are tons of creepy behavior: Staring at a woman all night Saying overly sexual things when you first meet them Following her around after she shows she is not interested. Trying to touch her when she is not into it. Pretending like good looking guys can do whatever they want is something ugly losers say as a cope. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/23 03:42 PM |
| 6 | Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy”No there is actually some behavior that is objectively creepy. I have seen tons of attractive guys and even celebrities get blown out because they are being too creepy. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/23 01:17 PM |
| 19 | Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy”No no no. You should approach anyway. Waiting for an invitation means you will be waiting forever. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/23 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Ditch Western WomenYou're a grown ass man don't play these semantic games with me. There's a rainbow flag flying in front of the White House not a confederate flag. yeah it shows how strong we are. We celebrate gays and are still the dominant economic, technological, cultural, and military power in the world. All the people complaining, including the confederates, have lost every time they have tried to defeat us. These are your own words and I agree. You live in a shithole and are employing boomer tactics just to… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Ditch Western WomenLOL ok we'll see what happens. People have been saying this for years but the West just keeps getting stronger. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 02:45 PM |
| 0 | Ditch Western WomenWho is "you"? Plenty of people in the West are healthy and fine. They just live in insular communities, which is what you would need to do to be healthy and fine in shithole countries too. Like I said, the west is coming for you and will eventually gobble everybody up who is not part of an insular community. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Ditch Western WomenChina is not Marxist in any way, shape or form. A famous Chinese leader said about Marx: "We treat Marx like Americans treat Jesus. We love him, we worship him, we teach our children about him. We just don't do anything he said to do." | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Ditch Western WomenIts culture keeps spreading and destroying other cultures. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 01:11 PM |
| -1 | Ditch Western WomenPeople have been saying this since the 1700s but the West keeps winning. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 03:50 AM |
| -4 | Ditch Western WomenYou cannot defeat the west. It's tentacles will eventually reach all around the world and infest every single country and ruin every traditional culture. You cannot run. You cannot hide. It's coming for you too. And when western culture hits most of these traditional countries their people will become even more fucked up than westerners because they have built no defenses to it. Western culture is so powerful because it appeals to what is lowest in humans: our narcissism, our selfishness, our de… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/23 11:42 PM |
| 7 | How to establish frame with a plate? So she knows and enjoys being a FWB and no moreFirst, you don't anything about OP so you're just talking out your ass. Second, "don't ever do anything for a woman" is dumb and oversimplistic. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/23 01:12 AM |
| 70 | How to establish frame with a plate? So she knows and enjoys being a FWB and no moreYou don't need to have this discussion at all. If a woman wants to be exclusive with you, she will bring it up. And when that happens, you just say "no, I don't want to be exclusive." At that point, it's up to her if she wants to stay or not. That's really it. Some girls are gonna be cool with it, some won't. That said, you probably should bring up that you have a girlfriend and are in an open relationship at some point early, and then let her decide what she wants to do. RP principles can get y… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/23 10:56 PM |
| 6 | How to establish frame with a plate? So she knows and enjoys being a FWB and no moreThis is such a dumb and over-simplified explanation it is practically useless to most people. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/23 10:51 PM |
| 22 | The Tesla Method: How To Make Dating EasyNo amount of work is ever gonna make women consistently approach you. You need to stop being a wuss and approach. But yes working on yourself is good. | /r/seduction | 09/06/23 01:44 AM |
| 11 | When did cockblocking become a beta move?You shouldn't NEED to mate guard your woman. If she has accepted you as the "dominant male lion" then she will naturally not want to talk to any other guy, and you mate guarding will just look stupid and insecure. And if she hasn't accepted you as the alpha, then you are just a beta male she doesn't give a fuck about ruining her fun and being needy. A major mistake men make is acting like the "dominant male lion" before they earn the woman's emotional investment. They give her orders, send her d… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/23 12:37 PM |
| 2 | To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “Compliment her on something interesting about her. | /r/seduction | 30/05/23 10:55 PM |
| 8 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?How about you learn how to speak politely and respectfully first? | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 12:58 PM |
| 7 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?It's a long story, but basically you must think, feel, talk and act like you are.the hottest, most awesome guy in the world, you can easily defeat any challenge, you can get any girl, and you have everything you could ever want or need, so if this girl bullshits you, you can just walk away and find another girl. | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 12:53 PM |
| 11 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?I accept my flaws and work to improve them. But when I am actually interacting with women, I don't think about my flaws at all. I have all day to think about my flaws, I am not going to think about them when I am actually talking to a woman. Women want extreme, godlike confidence, and worrying about where you stand against other men will reduce your confidence. | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 10:28 AM |
| 104 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?A man should never think about or worry about his attractiveness. You should approach and talk to every woman like you are the hottest guy in the world. You cannot spare a single millisecond of thought to the idea that you might have any flaws or weaknesses. That will ruin your confidence. | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Old school tip: How to tell if a girl wants you to approach herThis is a stupid post. Oftentimes women do not give off any indication whatsoever that they want to be approached. You need to just approach anyway. Waiting for an invitation is a waste of time. | /r/seduction | 17/04/23 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Got invited out with cute blonde, she carpooled with me | Night went sideways, she got her period and was occupied by orbitersWhen guys are obsessed with a girl, they remember everything. When my clients call me, sometimes they tell me every single fucking thing that happened over the last few years with their girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/23 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Got invited out with cute blonde, she carpooled with me | Night went sideways, she got her period and was occupied by orbitersNo offense bro, but this is the gayest thing I have ever read. There is so much wrong here. First, you are way too emotionally invested in this bitch. Some talking, my hand's on her thigh and there's a little flirting. She again says she doesn't trust me and is wondering why she got in the car with me. It sounds like you were being pushy and needy. There is an element of truth to every joke a woman says. Blonde and I are chilling then two guys show up (they're regulars). She knows em, they come … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | No man is ever good enoughThe Box, Paradise Club, Myth, Butterfly, the Blonde, Somewhere Nowhere, Sapphire, Gospel. A few other places. Hit me up if you're in NYC and wanna party. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/23 11:00 PM |
| 2 | No man is ever good enoughEverybody was BORED out of their ears. The dudes, the chicks, everybody. There was almost nothing that could get their dopamine going, they've seen it all before, unless they were fresh to the scene (like me, in the beginning anyway). The way you get dopamine going in girls like that is to implement RP principles but in an extreme way. Your teasing must be insane. Your dread must be insane. Your frame must be rock solid. You must show no weakness whatsoever. Also, you need a lot of time with tho… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/23 09:46 PM |
| 1 | No man is ever good enoughYou think there is only one real club in New York City? Are you insane? Sounds like you might be Korean and are stuck in that world. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | No man is ever good enoughDude what was the last time you actually approached a woman? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/23 03:37 PM |
| 2 | No man is ever good enoughI am working on a chapter about this in my book. But to make it short: novelty, challenge, and a prize at the end. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/23 11:53 PM |
| 1 | No man is ever good enoughNah dude lots of guys go out and try and still fail. If you are needy, desperate, anxious, low confidence, weird, and racked with feelings of inferiority game is not easy. You can't project your experience on other guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/23 09:50 PM |
| 3 | No man is ever good enoughIt's nice that you have a positive attitude but the part about some unattractive guy taking over with 'game' where a male model has failed just sounds far fetched. It sounds far fetched to you because you think you are ugly and a "normie" so you don't even put yourself in situations where you might steal a girl from a "Chad." In fact, it happens all the time and I see it happen all the time. And yes, Chads have social skills too but that's not a reason to just give up on getting laid. And also, … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/23 08:09 PM |
| 4 | No man is ever good enoughIt's interesting how losers that have given up on getting laid because they are not "Chad" always accuse ME of coping. You're the one coping, dude. You've built a stupid fantasy in your head for no other reason than to justify your own failure with women. In fact, the fact that you divide men into "Chads" and "normies" is proof you are weak and submissive. It's also funny how you use the term "gamer" like it is some important part of one's identity they can never overcome. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/23 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Creating indestructible confidenceAnd you can criticize whoever you want, but you aren’t above being criticized yourself. You can criticize me all you want, but if your criticism is "don't say anything bad about my heroes" then that is lame and submissive. Also I don’t know many things more bitch made than talking shit about a persons death. Sorry dude, if you do something stupid that got you killed people should be able to talk about it. The best way to not die in a stupid way is to learn from other's mistakes. anyone nowadays … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/23 03:55 PM |
| 3 | No man is ever good enoughIf game was easy why have 30% of men not had sex in the past year? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/23 11:23 AM |
| 10 | No man is ever good enoughYou completely missed the fucking point of this entire post. Jesus Christ the educational system in this country is fucked. The Idea of hanging out to maybe have a shot with a Gold Digger I literally write in this post that 1) you should not hang out to have a shot with these girls and 2) they are not actually gold diggers. Holy shit man try reading it again. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/23 12:54 AM |
| 4 | No man is ever good enoughI know a really hot girl who fucks a lot of guys but sometimes tells them that her gay friend needs to join. And she says you would be amazed at how many guys are ok with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/23 04:24 PM |
| 27 | No man is ever good enoughYes I agree. I should probably write a paragraph about that. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/23 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Creating indestructible confidenceI don’t think OP meant to speak down on him, but people like him, Patrice O’Neal, and others of the kind that died early and truly embodied RP more than anybody that reads this sub ever will, don’t deserved to be talked down on. The idea that you are supposed to uncritically accept everything another grown man does and never criticize them just because they are "Red Pill" is weak and beta. It is the literal definition of being a submissive bitch. Jumping a Southside Compton Crip with multiple mu… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/23 11:47 AM |
| 2 | How To Start Cold Approaching Women Even Though You're Paralyzed In Fear Of RejectionDepending on the context, I may walk up to them and say "Hey, you look amazing!" or "You are so hot" and then I gauge her reaction. Almost all girls are appreciative, but some girls make clear they are not interested in a further conversation and some girls make clear they are interested in a further conversation. If they are interested, then I say "what's your name?" and go from there. The next line after that might be "how did you end up at this bar/club/whatever" or "how was your day?" | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Creating indestructible confidenceHow are men logical creatures? Men are just as dumb and emotional, just in different ways. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/23 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Creating indestructible confidenceI have no idea what point you are making with this post. Like the other guy, I think you are agreeing with me but you just want be a dick for the hell of it. Yes the guy may have made a calculation that fucking with Sammy is a bad idea but that story could have easily gone the other way and then Sammy would have been fucked. I think the guys in this thread that think Sammy is some kind of badass have never been around actual psychos or actually dealt with the consequences of being an idiot. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/23 12:50 AM |
| 7 | Creating indestructible confidenceDawg, from the sound of it, Sammy got put in jail for being a drug dealer. Tupac was a great rapper but he got killed being involved in gang shit. Both Tupac and Sammy got in trouble because their decisions were based on overconfidence. If you don't see that then I can't help you. And no, Tupac was not involved in gang shit at all. He just thought he could beat somebody up with no consequences. The type of confidence Sammy displayed at the bar is what you want. You want to be able to take on any… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/23 11:11 PM |
| 12 | Creating indestructible confidenceOk, let me rephrase. There is a difference between confidence based on real accomplishments and confidence based on nothing, and based on my experience, a lot of dudes are afraid to display confidence based on nothing, which is why I encourage them to create a persona. It kind of seems like you are agreeing with me, but you seem to want be an asshole about it for some strange reason. I will not be buying the book not because of this bad take but because you write like a copypasta novelisation,… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/23 11:08 PM |
| 24 | Creating indestructible confidenceI like some of your stuff, but telling these young bucks they need to be a delusional, archetypical, hyper masculine male in order to get some pussy is just wrong. If you went up to me at a bar and complained that I almost got you killed, I would have told you to stop being beta, or some variation. Because that was some beta shit. Dawg what the fuck are you talking about. The universe is governed by rational laws, and one of those laws is that if you talk shit to a guy who can clearly beat your … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/23 09:36 PM |
| 58 | Cold Approach And The Symbolic OrderThis is a good post. One of the alpha males most important traits is empathy. In fact, he is the only member of the tribe who can show complete empathy because he has complete control of his emotions, so he can accommodate the emotions of others if and when they deserve it. Women cannot be truly empathetic because their emotional needs will always be stronger than yours. For example, if a billionaire was complaining about his money problems to a homeless person, the homeless person would not be … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/23 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Womens' attraction summed up into one emotion: ChallengeHere is an article from the Stanford website: https://med.stanford.edu/news/all-news/2018/05/scientists-find-fear-courage-switches-in-brain.html And he also talked about it on Jordan Peterson's podcast. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/23 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveTickling womens emotions is not just about having certain traits: height, looks, money. It is also about how you act and the emotional experience you create. If you are a boring dweeb it does not matter how much money and height you have. You seem to not understand this song its no longer any use trying to talk to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/23 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveDude women leave tall, rich guys all the time because they are boring and beta. If you can't tickle a woman's emotions she will end up fucking her drug dealer or some loser in an indie band over you. I know its not what you believe but it's reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/23 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Short but strong relapses back to blue pilled behaviorsGood comment. To be honest I don't really have ONE goal, I just have multiple process goals like "lift weights every week day" or "work 50 hours every week". Maybe I need more outcome driven goals instead of process/habit goals? Not sure Why not both? Humans are wired to feel a rush of dopamine by seeking "wins," and the more "wins" you can build into your routine, the more motivated you will be. I personally build both outcome goals, process goals, AND time goals. For example, I am writing a bo… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/23 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveThat's completely not what I believe. I believe that the emotional experience the man provides is much more important than his height, his looks, his money, or anything else. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/23 01:28 AM |
| 23 | Short but strong relapses back to blue pilled behaviorsAsk yourself this: what is the ultimate goal you are working towards? Are you creating some piece of art? Are you building a business? Advancing in your career? One of the problems with self-help spaces is that they seem to preach self-improvement for the sake of self-improvement, but that's stupid. If you are not working towards some large goal, you are not going to be motivated to continue to get back on the horse when you fail. Once you do have some big goal in mind, you need to have an inner… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/23 05:35 AM |
| 1 | The key to womens' attraction is transcendence emotional experiencesWell I highly doubt you have asked every woman you have ever known what they would do in that situation so you have no way of knowing that they would leave. I, on the other hand, have told this story lots of times and nobody ever left or got disgusted. They were almost always interested. Maybe you shouldn't make assumptions about how you think people WOULD act, especially with no evidence. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/23 05:16 AM |
| 7 | Womens' attraction summed up into one emotion: ChallengeYou need to be challenging even if you are ugly. You don't know what the looks threshold is for her and being ugly AND a non challenging pushover is not going to help. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveI have no idea what you mean by "primal attraction," and I don't think you do either, but I can tell you that women become deeply attracted and fall deeply in love with ugly guys all the time. Obviously, when a woman first meets a guy looks are the only thing she has to go on, but I have seen women absolutely lose their mind over ugly guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/23 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveI made a post about this recently. I can't link to it, but you can find it in my profile. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/23 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveIts about game. This stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/23 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveIts a side thing. My focus right now is on writing a book. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/23 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveThis is silly; women ditch their children for men all the time. Women are complex creatures, and trying to simplify them into some easy formula will always fail. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/23 03:28 AM |
| 6 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveAs a female- I know that men are purely attracted to looks. Women are not ONLY attracted to looks. In a relationship, men are attracted to a lot of things - personality, sense of humor, not being crazy, etc. But the front line of mens' sexuality is looks. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/23 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveIf you are interested, I can do a quick chat with you for free if you want. Just send me a msg. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/23 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveHow old are you? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/23 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveI looked it up and apparently "rizz" is short for charisma. But what's a gooner? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/23 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveWell first I guaranteed I’d put u on hard concrete but nevertheless insults and shame won’t wrk. Where did this come from? Are you that mad I am telling you not to be an ATM for women? LOL But anyway, thanks for proving my point. You were exactly the kind of guy I was talking about in my post. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/23 08:32 PM |
| 6 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveListen bro, if you want to an ATM for women, go fucking ahead. Your life is not my problem. You are clearly like 19 or something because you write your posts look like a teenage girl wrote them. I, as an older man, am trying to teach you something. If you think I am wrong, then go ahead and buy women shit, take them on vacations, and be their butler. I'm sure it will turn out great and women will "respect" you because you bought them $15 drinks. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/23 08:22 PM |
| 10 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveFirst, I don't know what "rizz" means. Please translate to English. Second, you clearly have not been around a lot of really hot women because I can promise you tons of them are fucking poor losers. Bullshit doesn't walk, bullshit often gets tons of pussy. "Women just want money" is a cope for guys who have low self-esteem and are afraid to actually act like a fucking man around women. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/23 07:58 PM |
| 18 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveThanks for the post. Very interesting - 5'7" is not even that short. The one thing I would disagree with is that I don't like the "men are rational, women are emotional" dichotomy. I think a more accurate way to put it would be to say that alphas are rational and betas are emotional, and even though women evolved a much stronger tendency to be beta, there are still tons of beta males too that are extremely emotional. Also, a more accurate way to say "emotional" is to say "neurotic." Womens' neur… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/23 07:56 PM |
| 7 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveYou have to do all three simultaneously. You must: learn game by going to places like TRP (but limit how much of this you do) practice game by actually talking to women (you should do a lot of this) and 3) actually improve yourself (you should do a lot of this) Doing any one or two of these without the other two will not work. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/23 07:51 PM |
| 14 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveHoly moly guacamole your post proves my point exactly, including the insane, irrational anger. I have never seen a sadder, more pathetic bunch of excuses in my life. I'm 6'2", blue eyes, brown hair and a white dude and I'm invisible to most women because I don't have handsome face. This is almost as insane as the "shape of your nose" guy. Do you realize how many guys would cut off their left nutsack to be 6'2" and white? And what the fuck is a "handsome face'? I have literally never seen a guy w… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/23 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveYes, age is just another excuse. Obviously, there are some young girls that absolutely will not go out with an older guy, but generally speaking being over 35 still gives you access to tons of girls from age 20 and up. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/23 07:40 PM |
| 17 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveThanks for saying this. A lot of my clients say things like "ill start approaching girls after I lose this weight." I will start telling them your story. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/23 05:23 PM |
| 10 | Girls only care about the one thing I don't haveI am working on a book and posting excerpts for feedback. If you can't read long things then don't. Also if women, dating and game were simple things you could easily summarize in a paragraph there wouldn't be so many guys struggling with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/23 05:22 PM |
| 3 | FwB downgrades plans at the last minuteHoly shit, you're an electrical engineer??? Well that changes everything then. Butthurtness is oozing out of every single thing you are writing. You sounded butthurt in your text with the girl, you sounded butthurt in your OP, and you sounded butthurt in your response to me. If you just want a FWB situation with this girl where you don't see her in public and only got o her apartment and fuck, tell her those are your conditions, but don't come crying here if she doesn't accept those conditions. … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/23 12:22 AM |
| -8 | FwB downgrades plans at the last minuteThis is one of the neediest, most butthurt text exchanges I have ever seen. This is what happens when autistic morons get ahold of the Red Pill. Jesus fucking Christ. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/23 10:02 PM |
| 76 | Let them have their fantasyI actually agree and disagree because I think the question is more nuanced than most guys realize. First, I agree in the sense that women want their man to be the archetypal alpha male, which means they want a guy who is perfectly competent, perfectly strong, and perfectly confident. They want to know that when their man goes to war he is going to win, and it will not even be close. If there is any feeling that you might fail, that will drive her away because her own neuroticism will not be able… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/23 07:02 PM |
| 1 | The key to womens' attraction is transcendence emotional experiencesThis is completely wrong. If you were right then cold approach would never work because she has seen no evidence that other girls wanna fuck you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/23 09:51 PM |
| 1 | The key to womens' attraction is transcendence emotional experiencesYou can buy, or just review, my book: https://www.amazon.com/Transcending-Tribe-Conformity-Insecurity-Reliance/dp/173624860X/ref=sr\_1\_1?crid=1QMPMOZU6GZDU&keywords=woujo&qid=1673043346&sprefix=woujo%2Caps%2C105&sr=8-1 | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/23 10:16 PM |
| 1 | The key to womens' attraction is transcendence emotional experiencesI'm not sure what you mean | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/23 11:32 PM |
| 3 | The key to womens' attraction is transcendence emotional experiencesBut this emotional experiences can be traced back to some craving , when she smells from you danger and potential for adventure , and now don't get repulsed , couldn't that emotional readiness to temptation be varried between a tall man and a short man , a rich man and not so ? The way you create a transcendent emotional experience for a woman is by creating a transcendent emotional experience that you yourself actually enjoy. So instead of thinking about what the woman will like, just focus on … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/23 02:59 PM |
| 5 | The key to womens' attraction is transcendence emotional experienceswhoa did this really happen? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/23 03:30 AM |
| 27 | The key to womens' attraction is transcendence emotional experiences"I'm not attractive so I have to act beta" is an excuse. Acting alpha is harder than acting beta, so guys will take any excuse to act beta that they can. Anybody can be a nice, supplicating, kiss-ass, it is much harder to ignore women, say "no," walk away, maintain boundaries, and stay confident and positive in the face of womens' bullshit. Here is a different section of the book I am writing: -- Many of the things I write make men who suck with women extremely angry, but the thing that makes du… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/23 10:13 PM |
| 72 | The key to womens' attraction is transcendence emotional experiencesYou must be careful to not fall into the trap of "I'm not attractive so I have to act like a beta." The game plan is the same no matter how attractive you are; you just have less success with it if you are unattractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/23 04:28 PM |
| 2 | The alpha and the beta personalitiesA high IQ woman can be a narcissist or have BPD. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/22 11:50 PM |
| 9 | Why Do You Think 'Blue Pill' Advice Is So Popular?Blue pill advice is so popular because it is easier. Anybody can be "nice," which is why niceness is so cheap. It is much easier to say "be a people pleasing, submissive, supplicating, bitch" than to say "be a confident, dominant, monster with boundaries who can say no and walk away." Humans evolved to feel like there is just one alpha in the tribe, and many betas, so the default mode for men is beta. A rare and unique man become an alpha, but you need to fight all your weak parts. Blue pill adv… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/22 09:58 PM |
| 3 | What is the fucking truth about women?You are absolutely right but the question is now, is there a correlaction between your value and your success with women? Yes but it is much weaker than most men think. Women reject guys for tons of reasons that have nothing to do with the guy's value: their hormones, shit that is going on in their life, their unique preferences and interests, and most importantly, the guy's game. Game is like 60% of getting laid, and just having game does not make you a more valuable person. For me its just har… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/22 04:31 PM |
| 36 | What is the fucking truth about women?The problem with you, OP, is that you are basing your subconscious sense of your own value on whether women like you. This is a common trap that ruins many men. Your value is an objective fact and does not go up and down depending on whether a particular woman likes you. When around women, you should act like you are a perfect, godlike alpha male with infinite value, but on your own time you should constantly be working on improving yourself and fixing your flaws. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 08:29 AM |
| 3 | Power Games and Shit TestsThanks, that is very helpful. I think I should address this in my chapter on shit tests. The biggest mistake men make in shit tests is taking them personally and getting butthurt. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/22 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Power Games and Shit TestsI don't have a post on how to tease women, but I wrote a section on teasing for the book I am working on. Here is the current version (let me know how I can tweak it): Teasing One of the most important weapons in your arsenal is a tease. You should be teasing women every time you find an opportunity because the woman should feel like hanging out with you is a constant battle for her to prove her worth you. A tease is simply a silly, lighthearted joke that questions her value. The best tease is a… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | My best friend is a male stripper, I watched TRP play out in real life this weekend.You missed the whole point. No I got the point. I can read. The point of the post was that your body it plays a MASSIVE role in getting you 'in the door' when it comes to female nature. No fucking shit Sherlock. Who didn't know this? Are there really guys in the universe who think this is some amazing revelation that women like tall and jacked guys? MY POINT, which it seems like you completely missed, is that TRP is not JUST "be tall and jacked." Go back and read my post again and notice the use… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/22 07:40 AM |
| 4 | Power Games and Shit TestsYou dont need to shit test women, you need to tease them. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/22 03:47 AM |
| 3 | My best friend is a male stripper, I watched TRP play out in real life this weekend.The Red Pill shouldn't just be "women like attractive, jacked guys." Any fucking idiot should know that and it doesn't require a complicated philosophy to learn. TRP should be a series of mindsets and behaviors that enable you to live a fun life while building good relationships. Yes, lifting and being jacked is part of that, but if you think that is ALL TRP is, you've missed the point. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/22 05:34 PM |
| 13 | My best friend is a male stripper, I watched TRP play out in real life this weekend.The higher purpose is making the world a better place, finding peace and happiness within yourself, and forming real, lasting, meaningful relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/22 05:32 PM |
| 10 | Power Games and Shit TestsThe moral of the original story is that women see everything as power games, even innocent actions like asking me to move because I was sitting at his work computer. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Women live in a neurotic hellI'd say indestructibly confident moreso than positive. I would say those are the same things. Confidence is essentially projecting the feeling of "I know I will succeed at doing whatever I am doing in this moment." | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/22 12:53 AM |
| 4 | I (19M) don't understand if she (21F) is interested or notFirst, you are too way emotionally invested in this girl. You are sitting by your phone like a pathetic loser - go approach some girls. Second, there is only one way to know if a woman is interested in you - is she doing things for you or not. Is she coming to meet you? Is she texting you back? Is she paying for her own drinks? If the answer is "no" you need to move on. You are not a mind reader and neither are we. Third, you guys are "friends" and if you want that to change you need to immediat… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/22 05:44 PM |
| 5 | I think I’ve made a realization about the “female gaze” and why it seems like women tend to underestimate the importance of looksIn short, the way to make people feel good is to have fun yourself and let them feel like they are contributing to your fun by rewarding them when they have done something to deserve it. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 01:37 PM |
| 7 | You’re cute but you look like you’d be down to rob a gas station with meYou deal with the shit tester like any other shit tests - be nice, but hold frame. Have fun with it. If her shit tests get to the point where they are insulting and no longer fun, just say to your target "I don't think your friend likes me, I will talk to you later" and leave. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 07:34 PM |
| 15 | Struggling through breakupI have an article on break-ups: https://www.woujo.com/blog/breakup | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/22 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Online dating is pretty brutal and insaneGo meet people in real life. Jesus Christ. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 01:26 PM |
| 2 | How to approach smoker girls?First of all, girls will not laugh and turn away from you if you approach confidently. Women treat you like shit because you act like somebody who deserves to be treated like shit. Second if women brush you off just go approach somebody else. There are literally more women in the world than you can approach in 1000 lifetimes. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Tinder - too high standards?Get off the fucking app and approach girls in real life. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 08:21 PM |
| 6 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?this sounds like if you are sad just be happy. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Does she like me? What do I do?Stop trying to read her mind and just go for it. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 07:31 PM |
| 2 | trying to talk to a girl buy feels like a Interview.Your goal isnt to learn about her. Its to have a fun conversation. Find a subject you and her both enjoy and talk about that. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 07:31 PM |
| 11 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?Abdunance mentality is not feeling like you have a lot of girls. Its the feeling that you can go out and get girls whenever you want so you don't have to take shit from any particular girl. If you dont feel like you can get girls whenever you want, just delude yourself into thinking that. It helps if you are constantly doing something to get more attractive. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 07:29 PM |
| 5 | How to approach smoker girls?Approach confidently with your shoulders square to theirs. Make eye contact and speak like you have a pair. Dont approach weakly or try to talk to them from the side. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Keeping a solid 9The fact you care about her income is hilarious. Just play it cool and have fun. if she is into you, she will show it. if not, move on. Relationships are the woman's responsibility. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Going to a Halloween party this weekend - how do I flirt?Don't think about "flirting" - just focus on having fun conversations. Compliment their costumers. Halloween is the easiest night. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 03:54 AM |
| 9 | 9 seduction facts I wish I knew earlier!What do you mean by it’s your indifference to how you look? You didn't bother to do your hair, you are wearing clothes that don't fit or look like shit, you have stains on your clothes, you didn't bother to trim your beard, etc. Think about how much time women put into how they look. Why would they want to be with a man who puts 0 time? | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 06:09 PM |
| -1 | 9 seduction facts I wish I knew earlier!This is generally a good post, but I have some disagreements: 90% of game is self-esteem, getting out of the house and having a fun laid-back personality, not on being "alpha". Having self-esteem, confidently approaching women, and having fun IS alpha. Being alpha is not being a loud, obnoxious asshole. Do not rely on seduction "rules" (never buy her a drink, remember to neg, be cocky/funny, etc). Putting on an act = shittier self-esteem = shittier game. I think rules are helpful for a lot of gu… | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 06:08 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Apprroach opportunities are very rare realisticallyThis post is complete bullshit. If you are attractive and approach with confidence none of this shit matters. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | The alpha and the beta personalitiesOk I get it. You think a man's game, and actions in general, dont affect whether he can get women. And I can tell you are going to reject every argument otherwise. Then why are you here then? Stay home and jack off to porn and cry about why you are ugly. Get the fuck out of here and stop polluting this place with your loser negativity. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/22 12:19 PM |
| 2 | The alpha and the beta personalitiesgood-looking, tall, rich guys fail with women Ah, man. Thanks for the laffs. You thinking that good-looking, tall, rich guys can't fail with women tells me either that you are really young and don't have a lot of experience in the real world, or you are just trying to ignore the truth. Good-looking, tall, rich guys that are boring, anxious, depressed, creepy, needy, etc. fail with women all the time. In the jungle, looks don't mean shit You mean height, build, and health don't mean shit? Those t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/22 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Why does it take you so long to respond to texts?Cuz they're not that into you dude. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date, kissed, ghosted. Wtf?You were probably too pushy. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | It’s better to assume a girl is not interested than to assume they are interested, saves you a lot of timeWrong wrong wrong. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 06:22 PM |
| 3 | The alpha and the beta personalitiesYou are so wrong its not even funny. Tons of good-looking, tall, rich guys fail with women because their game sucks. And tons of mediocre-looking guys succeed because they have awesome lives and their game is good. Saying "only looks matter" is an excuse ugly guys make to not take action and improve their game. Think about it: how could women have possibly evolved to just care about looks? In the jungle, looks don't mean shit, which is why hot women don't respect men who only compliment their lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/22 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Question about this girl I slept with and am intoYoure acting needy. You let her know you want to hang out again, so you don't need to do anything for a while. Fall back and text her something random in a few weeks. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 05:24 AM |
| 4 | Is there any way we can archive/back-up this whole subreddit?Why was askseddit banned? | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 01:22 AM |
| 6 | When did the switch flip for you?There is on "switch" - you are always improving. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 01:21 AM |
| 8 | An awful lot of theory is stopping you from learning the actually valuable skills of attracting women.Ok so you admit that kino is important, making this whole stupid post a waste of time. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 04:46 PM |
| 5 | Why are redditors so against and negative about approaching women?Simple: they are ugly. Ugly women generally hate being approached because guys are mean to them. Hot women, however, like being approached because being approached usually goes well for them. Once you start approaching girls you will notice that hot girls are a lot more receptive than mediocre and ugly girls. Sounds crazy, but its true. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 05:43 PM |
| 15 | What's your seduction hot take? Like something you believe, but would probably get you downvoted if you posted it here?I have a ton. 1- Looks matter but, unless he was horribly disfigured, any guy could become a 9 within a year if he lifted, ate right, dressed well, and got his hair done right. 2- Good game trumps everything, including looks and money. 3- This subreddit actually hurts most people's game because it is full of negative losers who are giving bad advice. 4- Women actually have much lower standards than guys think, and most of game is just not making a catastrophically stupid move. 5- 90% of rejectio… | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | I see so many girls in college and I just can’t approach them. Any inner gane stuff that will helpThere is no magic thought that will kill your approach anxiety. You need to just push through the pain and just do it. Just walk up to them and compliment them. | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 03:14 PM |
| 0 | I see so many girls in college and I just can’t approach them. Any inner gane stuff that will helpNo this is terrible advice. Trying to create an environment specific approach every time is too much thinking. Just walk up to them and compliment them about something genuinely interesting about them. That's it. | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudesShe did that because you acted too emotionally invested. She "conquered" you so she moved onto other guys. Also don't spend $100 on drinks next time. By the second date she should be chipping in. | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | What to do if you're not Witty?The key to being witty is just being completely authentic and honest. The main characteristic of people who aren't funny is that they are playing a character. | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 03:46 AM |
| 9 | Guaranteed signs of interestThis is the wrongest thing anybody on this subreddit has ever written. | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | A Beginner's Bachelor Pad Guide. How to optimize your place for sexOnly once but it scared me straight. She came to my apartment, saw it, and left. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/22 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Got friendzoned. Should I still make the trip?Good guess, but no. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 05:23 AM |
| 5 | Got friendzoned. Should I still make the trip?Dude you were the one who started the dick measuring contest by bragging about how you were a bartender. You were also the first one to leave a douchey comment. So I think you're projecting. But it's ok, maybe one day you will get the courage to approach. I believe in you. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 05:23 AM |
| 7 | A Beginner's Bachelor Pad Guide. How to optimize your place for sexSome of the advice is overkill (like getting a mirror or creating a man cave), but most of this stuff is necessary and common sense. You need good lighting, you need to have a clean place, and it needs to look like you're a fucking adult, not an overgrown child. And no, a lot of women will not fuck you in a shed or in a gross apartment. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/22 05:20 AM |
| 9 | Got friendzoned. Should I still make the trip?I’m a bartender, I don’t have to do anything Oh wow you get to bang whatever trash is left at the end of the night at your bar, I'm so impressed. You approach, good for you, want a cookie? Did it change anything? Yeah I met a lot of awesome people and had a bunch of fun sex. I wish you had the balls to do it too. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 05:15 AM |
| 4 | Got friendzoned. Should I still make the trip?That may be true but I approach at least 20 girls a week. What about you? | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 04:47 AM |
| 5 | I’m 30, I have really weird facial features and I’m one of the uglier people I know, is it possible for me to be attractive to a woman? (Pics included)You look unattractive but not because of your forehead or jaw or any of that shit. You are unattractive because your body looks flabby and you look sad and low self esteem. If you went to the gym, ate right, and got some confidence you would be done. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 03:25 AM |
| 22 | Got friendzoned. Should I still make the trip?How is that not real advice? | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 03:19 AM |
| 13 | Do women ever make the first move?Why is this important to you? The answer is that you cannot sit around waiting $or a woman to make a move. You need to just do it. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 11:02 PM |
| 5 | A noob mistake: leaving the self-improvement journey after getting the first high-value womanThere is a very simple formula to this. Focus on your purposes and only pay women attention if and when they have done something to contribute to your emotional experience. And no matter what you do, never, ever let a woman throw you off your big purposes (career, self-improvement, lifting, eating right, etc.) | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/22 04:27 PM |
| 2 | The alpha and the beta personalitiesYes she was very damaged. But I think I learn the most from the extreme outliers. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/22 07:10 PM |
| 43 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.Its amazing how many guys on subreddits like these dont have any friends. Like, having friends is the first thing you need to do before you can even try to get laid. If you have no friends you can run to women will tear your heart to fucking shreds. OP is right. Most guys here don't want to hear hard advice. They just want quick tips and tricks. | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 12:50 AM |
| 16 | I have this moms number since my professor gave me it to tutor the moms kid. I gotta wanna try to game her. Any advice ?Dont do this. Its extremely unprofessional. You should only try to game her if she shows extreme interest in you. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 04:22 AM |
| 4 | How can I stop being interested in women?This is a fool's errand. It is wired deep into your biology to want women, so you cannot just turn off that desire just like you cannot just turn off your desire to eat. The thing you CAN do, however, is to learn to spend your time with women productively so you are growing and improving as a person, rather than just drinking and partying all the time. Also, to control your desire for women you must feel "full" with respect to women. Just like a starving guy is obsessed with food, a guy who feel… | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 02:15 AM |
| 11 | The alpha and the beta personalitiesSo? I was getting what I wanted too. I didn't want to be her boyfriend. I just wanted a fuckbuddy. A relationship does not have to be a zero-sum game with a winner and a loser. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/22 07:16 PM |
| 29 | The alpha and the beta personalitiesYou are insane if you think being like this has anything to do with IQ. If anything, high IQ women are more likely to be like this because they are more able to rationalize these kinds of decisions. Also I am not sure what you are here for? A high IQ woman? To do what, to do math problems with? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/22 07:09 PM |
| 3 | The alpha and the beta personalitiesPlease explain how I am the beta in this story. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/22 07:06 PM |
| 2 | should I only approach girls that give clear iois?This is wrong advice. Most women don't look at any men. You have to approach everyone. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | should I only approach girls that give clear iois?No. Approach anybody you want. If they are not interested they will make it clear. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 02:58 AM |
| 0 | A very controversial, possibly triggering question: Is a big percentage of women in their early 20s today lazy?You are only noticing the losers. This is such a stupid generalization. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Just came back from a partySounds like you haven't practiced enough. Also sounds like you haven't worked on yourself enough to get good at approaching. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 05:46 AM |
| 30 | Just came back from a partySo you went to a party, didn't approach anybody, and then came home and wrote a post about how seduction is bullshit? Why are you in this subreddit then? Did you expect guys to encourage you to get prostitutes? You are a loser taking the easy way out. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 05:42 AM |
| 5 | Blind SpotsYou are probably not spending enough time talking to the girls. You have to build a real emotional connection. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | I have been told I give people anxietyYou are being too needy and pushy | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 03:55 AM |
| 6 | The red pill reality checkyeah I guess you can claim you can get loads of pussy when you are broke. I know and you know that is hard. Nope. You are dead fucking wrong. You have no idea what you are talking about. For the third time, you have completely missed the point of the Red Pill and you have no idea what makes a pussy wet. I definitely triggered you because you are not making enough money and living the life you claim. This is childish, insecure horseshit. You need to get off the internet and actually interact with… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/22 02:56 PM |
| 14 | The red pill reality checkThis is a sub about sexual strategy and you can get tons of pussy even when you are broke. Like I said, if you think the Red Pill is just "women want guys with money" you completely missed the point and clearly have trouble with reading comprehension. Guys like you become ATM machines to stupid whores who take their money and then go fuck guys they actually like. You are the definition of a weak beta male who is looking for an older "alpha" to guide him. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/22 02:14 PM |
| 36 | The red pill reality checkThis post is the stupidest thing I have ever had the displeasure of reading. First, how the fuck can any guy "prove" anything to you? Do you want bank account receipts? Do you want pictures of the girls they have fucked? If you are skeptical of this shit, you will find a reason to reject any "proof" anybody will give. Second, you should not follow anybody's advice just because they are rich or get pussy. You should follow advice because it makes sense to you and you have tried it. This subreddit… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/22 02:02 PM |
| 2 | How a loser gets laid more than some of youSexual strategy is a paradox. The less you focus on getting pussy, the more pussy you get. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/22 12:51 AM |
| 5 | My theory on attracting a woman at the gymFirst of all, no, women are not gonna work for your attention if you are just working out and ignoring them. But assuming they did, then what? Do you continue to ignore them or make a move? | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Women and man's desire for adventureNot all journeys are fun. Some journeys, like yours, suck. But to be attractive to women you must make a fun journey. Also "live your life" is not helpful or actionable advice for guys who are struggling with women. Not everything can be summarized into an inspirational quote. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Women and man's desire for adventureThat article is not making the point you need to win this argument. The guy above was saying that chimps form tribes and kill other chimps because they were taught to do so. That's fucking stupid and contradicts all the science. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Women live in a neurotic hellI understand the science well enough to make my point. Are you denying that humans enjoy novelty, challenges and being creative? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/22 01:42 PM |
| 81 | My theory on attracting a woman at the gymSo your theory is to do your workout and completely ignore women. Ok great. And how exactly would you "pick them up"? | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Women live in a neurotic hellYou are the typical example of an internet autist who completely misses the point and obsesses about an irrelevant fact. The point of this article is about how to succeed with women. Its not a fucking scientific paper. And no, all women are neurotic, just like all people are neurotic. Its just a matter of degree. And on average women are more neurotic than men. All that is true. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/22 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone actually achieved this mentality with women?You need abundance mentality - the feeling that you can get whatever girl you want, so you do not necessarily need THIS girl at this particular time. | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Women live in a neurotic hellWhew, glad I never pretended I was an evolutionary psychologist. I'm just a moron on the internet trying to teach douchebags how to get laid. You can either use this advice or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Do people usually date the same level of attractiveness?No. Women are interested in a lot of things other than looks. Lots of hot women end up with average-looking guys because those guys are smart, confident, athletic, well-dressed, funny, successful, etc. What's the point of this question? | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Got called a red flag todayOP and most of the commenters in this post are morons. First, OP clearly said something he left out of the story because women do not usually call guys "incels" or "assholes" for no reason. Second, calling a girl a c**t because she shit tested you is weak sauce as fuck because it shows it really got to you. In fact, it got to you so much that you went home and made a completely stupid, pointless post on reddit for no reason whatsoever. The autists here may have had a point about the girl liking … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Women and man's desire for adventureDm me your email address and I will put you on my mailing list. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Women and man's desire for adventureI am still writing it. I am posting these excerpts to get feedback. Turns out dudes don't like being told that it is their responsibility to make emotional experiences fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Women and man's desire for adventureNo that's not true. We are closer to chimps. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/22 02:34 PM |
| -3 | Women and man's desire for adventureThat's not an argument, that's an assertion. You are not backing up anything you are saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/22 03:57 AM |
| -2 | Women and man's desire for adventureIm sorry bro, but we are all apes. Sorry if you didn't learn that in Bible class. Also I think it is useful to understand the biological and evolutionary origins of these emotions. A lot of guys do the things you wrote in your post and still fail with women because they do not understand that women want the emotion of adventure more than the real thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | What matters the most for a man?The most important thing is the emotional experience you create for her. And the key to a fun emotional experience is an adventure. | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Women and man's desire for adventureI think its probably pretty common | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/22 12:01 AM |
| 8 | Women and man's desire for adventureFlow is when the hunt is going well and the positive emotions are at their peak. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Women live in a neurotic hellA hypothetical perfect alpha male with no neuroticism doesn't make any psychological sense. Nothing would bother him at all and he would be perfectly happy living homeless in a sewer wasting away and getting eaten alive by maggots. No woman would want him. No, the archetypal alpha male would go on fun adventures because winning is fun. Any alpha male is going to be under a lot of stress in order to maintain his position at the top of a dominance hierarchy. Studies show that the alpha male actual… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/22 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Women and man's desire for adventureHow about you not be a loser AND don't get played? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/22 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Women and man's desire for adventureOp draws his conclusion while conveniently ignoring every other species of Great Apes : bonobos are the same species as chimps (pan), virtually identical genetically, and do not engage in this type of gang-banger warfare - these differences in behaviour are cultural; gorillas usually only fight over harems and harem territory and only fight to the death if two silverbacks happen to meet; and, lest we forget, orangutans live in fucking solitude. Gibbons, (still apes, just not Great apes) mate for… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/22 11:28 PM |
| 3 | I invite you to discuss about the truth of seduction.You need to stop "studying" and go do. Your studying and thinking is fucking you over. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 04:17 AM |
| 2 | This shit easier than I thought10 years??? You must be doing something extremely wrong. If you want, I can give you some free coaching. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | This shit easier than I thoughtCheck if she has a feeling for you Horrible advice. You need to ask her out anyway. What are you scared of? | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | This shit easier than I thoughtAnxiety is an alarm system designed to keep you safe from threats. What bad thing do you think will happen if a girl rejects you? | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | This shit easier than I thoughtFirst of all, no, this shit is not easy. It may be easy for you, but it is not easy for a lot of guys. Second, your advice of "all you gotta do is be friends with her then ask her out" is horrible advice because that is what leads to being friendzoned. Also pretending to be a girl's friend when you really want to fuck her is lying, manipulative behavior. Horrible post. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | (28M) Dozens of matches on apps. Couldn’t get a single girl to meet up.Go meet people in person | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Women live in a neurotic hellIt's taking me forever to write so I dont know. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | If you are walking a straight line and the girl os the only clear bumping into you, does that mean she likes you?What the fuck is the point of these posts? Just fucking approach and trying to read women's minds. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 09:40 PM |
| 8 | Women live in a neurotic hellThe women not approaching example proves my point exactly. Imagine a woman is at a bar and she sees a guy she finds attractive. Will she approach him? Probably not, because she fears that she will approach him and he will reject her. Therefore, she "rejects" him (i.e., does not approach him) not because she is not attracted, but because she fears he will reject her. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/22 08:40 PM |
| 45 | Women live in a neurotic hellThanks for the comment to. I am naturally a neurotic guy too, both genetically and as a result of trauma. The answer, as far as I can tell, is to cultivate a "character" that you present to women that is indestructibly positive. Women know that men deal with real problems, but what they need most is that feeling of positivity. So just act positive. You have all day to be neurotic by yourself. In those few hours you around women, put on a character. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/22 08:30 PM |
| 26 | Women live in a neurotic hellAll women are neurotic, it is just a matter of degree. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/22 02:49 PM |
| 2 | How to tolerate a loud AMOG?You should treat douchey guys like they are women shit testing you. Being a douchebag is a sign of insecurity and weakness because it means they subconsciously feel like they are inferior and are trying to "fight" for status and acceptance in the tribe. More importantly, women can sense this. Women are EXTREMELY sensitive to douchey behavior so if a guy is putting other guys down they will be grossed out. So if a guy is acting like a douche just laugh off his jokes and ignore him. This is what I… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:36 PM |
| 23 | Women, why you do that?Who gives a fuck go approach women in person | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 03:38 PM |
| 3 | A new problem with approaching that happening to often this days, how do you guys manage your way around itJust saying "hi" is not enough. Give them a compliment. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 04:24 AM |
| 8 | Quick guide to hookeup with a girl at a clubThis is fucking horrible advice. Get drunk and offer girls a puff if your vape? Is this advice for getting laid at a Middle School dance? | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?It doesn't matter. You can't read her mind. Go approach her anyway. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do people do thisYour comment sucks and makes no sense. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do people do thisThats not "getting approached" because the onus is still on the man to make the conversation happen. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 01:01 AM |
| 9 | My super simple “Basic Guy Game” structure that will help you get comfortable meeting new women.Asking for her number after just a few minutes is not going to work. You need to build an emotional connection. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 12:53 AM |
| 3 | How the hell do people do thisVery few men get approached by women on any kind of regular basis. You are either lying or you have a very unique experience. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Approaching girls in college, what contact info do I get?Don't ask for anything after a brief interaction. Try to have a long, sustained interaction, at least 20 minutes. Otherwise, girls won't remember you. Also, you shouldn't be asking - if the girl actually is into it, she will ask for your info. And get her number and be a man and call her. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Is it kind of late to the pickup game at the age of 50?The only way to overcome the anxiety is to just do it. The more you think and read, the strongest the anxiety gets. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Is it kind of late to the pickup game at the age of 50?It's not too late but you need to stop reading and start doing. Those books are useless if you are not putting the work in. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 09:25 PM |
| 0 | How many dates before you invite a girl back to your placeYou should try to fuck a woman on every date unless it is clear she isn't into it. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Do you only initiate/show interest if it is obvious that the girl is into you?I have. You have no idea how a woman will react until you approach her. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Do you only initiate/show interest if it is obvious that the girl is into you?No. Escalation is a process. You show a little interest, she shows a little, and then it snowballs. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Not sure what to doWe texted a bit and arranged to meet up. She ended up bailing last minute which pissed me off because I was waiting around for her until like 9pm so that was my whole evening gone basically. Always have a back up plan. She asked to rearrange for another time but I thought why should I? You just wasted my time and not gonna bend over backwards to meet you. I expressed this to her over text just saying I’m a person who values my time and I said nah I don’t want to go on a date, I’m good. What's th… | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | The only women I can get online are women I would have never approached IRLGrow a spine and stop whining. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | The only women I can get online are women I would have never approached IRLOnline dating sucks. I get way uglier girls on online dating than I get on cold approach. Stop being a bitch and go meet women in real life. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 07:11 PM |
| 35 | Andrew Tate is not your friendThe people on this subreddit need to internalize a very important lesson, which is this: the mainstream academic/entertainment/media/political/etc. establishment hates Red Pill ideas and will do everything it can to squash them. And these motherfuckers are good at what they do, which is why RP ideas are a minority in our society even though they are clearly correct. A few weeks ago, a video came out of Andrew Tate beating women. You can make excuses and say "oh well it was consensual" or "it was… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/22 05:09 PM |
| 19 | A sperg negged my friend and failed.One time I was gaming with this really corny guy and we somehow ended up convincing these two really hot girls to come party back at my place. As we were driving to my place, I was in the driver's seat (it was my car) and my girl was in the front seat, and this guy was in the back seat with his girl. As I am driving, I am not listening to their conversation until I suddenly hear the girl yell from the back "did you just NEG me?? What kind of pickup artist bullshit is this?" It killed the night b… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | If you are attractive, how much effort should put in?Show her as much interest as she shows you. Reward her for what she does, but dont give her more than she deserves. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | What would you rather? Nice car/decent place or Decent car/ nice place?Whats the point of this question? | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?You are probably being too needy. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:03 PM |
| -6 | Never be friendzoned againI completely disagree. Cutting a girl off completely and blocking her guarantees she will never fuck you. Instead do this. Say "I am very attracted to you. But yeah it is probably better if we were just friends." Then just treat her like an actual friend. Tell her about all the girls you are fucking. Tell her about your dating issues. When she says anything about sex be like "eww I don't want to hear about that." Friend zone is about power. And by talking about all the girls you are fucking you … | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:54 AM |
| 15 | Where are these single women you guys cold approach to?You can approach women when they are with their friends too, yknow. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 03:10 PM |
| 8 | Asking for feedback from ex datesJeez calm down. I have asked for feedback before. It was helpful. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 01:01 AM |
| 13 | She said “guys don’t understand that if a woman wears a matching bra & thong set as he’s getting her naked, it wasn’t him that decided to have sex”so it doesn’t matter how much “game” you think you have. Getting laid is always be womans choice! What a silly statement. Of course it is the woman's choice, but also, women choose to have sex with you because you have game. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:05 PM |
| 2 | How did I fumble all girls last night1) you looked needy, 2) you didn't stick to one target, you kept scattering your attention, and 3) they probably weren't going to fuck anybody anyway; when there is 5 one going off to fuck somebody is really obvious to the rest of the friend group | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.No this post is stupid. Stop generalizing your experiences to others. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 01:06 AM |
| 2 | How to be ChallengingSomething you naturally do, completely AUTOMATICALLY when you don't give a shit what a woman thinks about you and are just having fun This is the dumbest thing I have ever read in my fucking life. No, teasing is not something anybody AUTOMATICALLY does. Tons of men struggle with this shit which is why discussion forums like this even exist. I'm glad you figured it out and you don't need this stuff; you can go away and fuck bitches in the real world then. Also, getting to this magical place where… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Broad stood me up last night, how do I proceed?You completely misunderstood my comment. He doesn't give a fuck about her scheduling abilities. He just wants to smash. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/22 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Broad stood me up last night, how do I proceed?He wants to fuck her, not use her as a scheduling assistant | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/22 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Broad stood me up last night, how do I proceed?This is the right answer. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/22 06:40 PM |
| 2 | I tend to attract women with using normal conversation rather than doing pickup artist type stuff.The pickup artist method IS having a normal, fun conversation. If the pickup artist "method" is anything, it is removing the barriers and weirdness and making a list of "nos" that stop you from just having a fun time. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Stop trying to read womens' mindsWhat should I do to fix my page to still make posts here? Should I delete the ads on the side banner? I make like 0 money from them so I am happy to delete them. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 05:26 PM |
| 2 | I always fumble when I'm so close and it pisses me offEverybody makes mistakes. Learn from your mistakes and do better next time. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Approaching a groupWalk up to the group and have a "group compliment." Something like "you guys looking fucking amazing, I would say you are the best dressed friend group in the whole bar." Sometimes I add something like "y'know, it's interesting how most groups of girls usually have a particular level of fashion they all reach." Get them all engaged, but quickly shift to a particular one. You don't want to look like you are just a friendly guy who likes talking to people. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Do many women realize the power they hold in dating and use it to their advantage?You complain about bad dates, most men on this Reddit complain about never being able to go on dates. Those men need to stop fucking whining. It is their own fault they cannot get dates. It is not hard to be attractive and have game if you are a guy. Those guys are mostly dealing with insecurity and mental issues. The dating pool for women actually sucks and if you can be reasonably attractive and have game you will kill it. This subreddit is just full of sad sacks of shit. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Do many women realize the power they hold in dating and use it to their advantage?I'm tired of these posts. Dating sucks for women. More so than for guys. First, most guys have no idea how to act on a date. They are boring, selfish, misogynistic, rude, and basically do not know how to treat a woman. Also, most guys just want to fuck and never call the girl again. Also, women aren't excited about tons of losers in their DMs. Women want a confident, dominant man, and most men are not that, so the fact that she has 1000 losers in her DMs means nothing. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | I need to get coaching...Hit me up. My website is woujo.com | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:39 PM |
| 7 | telling a girl I don't like her actions.. turn on or turn off?Whining about her not answering your messages will not make you more respected. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 01:14 PM |
| 6 | The worst dating advice I’ve ever received was to focus on having fun and not getting womenYou need to do both. You need to focus on having fun, and only pay attention to women if they contribute to that fun. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have to leave the USA in order to enjoy your 30s as a bachelor?No | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 03:06 AM |
| 2 | What do women mean when they say they want a confident man?Confidence means you do everything like you already know you will succeed at it, even if you are not sure you will. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 03:04 AM |
| 6 | plan on sliding to a girl's dms on Insta, pls helpGosh so much bad advice in this thread. Find something in their pictures or stories that seems interesting (other than her just being hot). Slide in and say "hey I saw.your art and I think you are amazingly talented!!" Then go from there? | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 07:14 PM |
| 11 | people on reddit always say things like "with that attitude no wonder you're a virgin/single" and "women are repulsed by you because you're a terrible person" but how much of it is true?I don't know about internet people, but I have met a lot of "incel-y" type guy in real life. Almost all of them seem to share a similar set of traits. First, they have unrealistic and weird expectations of women. Their image of a woman seems to be more based on a Disney movie than how women actually are. They hate "whores" and seem to act like they are too good for most real women, even though they have never gotten laid. And yes, most incel guys actually do hate women. They often do not realize… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 03:56 PM |
| 8 | Keep attraction during/after holidaysOh sorry, here is another thing: do not text her too much on vacation. It will make her think that htinking about you is more important than your vacation. Bad. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Just got absolutely rejecteded. Idk I’m done with club girls. Just good for hookups. No its stupid to generalize a huge group of people based on one interaction. A lot of people go to clubs. I feel like you are leaving something out of this story. Who goes on a date to a club? If you are telling the truth, it looks like you just ran into a shit head. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 03:31 PM |
| 89 | Keep attraction during/after holidaysNobody is a 10. You are getting oneitis. Text her some cool stuff about your vacation. For a 3 week vacation something like 3-4 texts is fine, depending on how much she is texting back. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever tell guys to stop contacting them as a test?Dude you literally made a post on the internet asking if you can get a girl after she tells you to stop contacting her. You are thirsty as hell. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Got stiff armed out of my IG crush’s DMsQuit this internet bullshit and go approach in person. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | How to be DominantThe term alpha male has become a joke to most people because it is used in so many stupid and cringy ways by douchebags on the internet. I actually address this in my book and explain why I use the term alpha male. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever tell guys to stop contacting them as a test?I don't know anything about you but I understand game. Don't ask for advice if you are gonna get mad when people tell you the truth. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Do girls ever tell guys to stop contacting them as a test?Once a girl turns you down, you move on. You don't keep messaging her to "create rapport." You sound thirsty and needy. Move on. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 02:58 PM |
| -8 | Do girls ever tell guys to stop contacting them as a test?First of all, why the fuck would you text a girl for 3 weeks before meeting in person???? Girls don't need 3 weeks of texting to determine if they should meet. You should ask her out right away. Second, when a girl asks you how many people you have slept with, just say "I dont know, but its a lot. The good news is that they are all hot." Saying "one" was lame. Third, you blew it with this girl. She thinks you suck. Move on. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 12:01 PM |
| 4 | How to be DominantThanks this is really helpful and stuff I have thought about as well. This is my first draft and mostly just a vomiting of ideas. I need to fill it out with color. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/22 11:37 PM |
| -25 | How to be DominantNo he actually agreed with what I said you fucking moron | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/22 10:59 PM |
| 33 | How to be DominantI really don't understand why guys think its cool to say they didn't read something. This article is literally about something completely different. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Girls who flex about stuff other guys are providing themAll women shit test men. If you write them all off as "problematic personalities" you will end up alone. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 06:30 AM |
| 3 | How Easy It Is For Women To Get A High Body Count And Why "High" Is Not That HighWomen can form all kinds of emotional bonds with men, and many of them do not include dick or money. A woman cannot form a true romantic emotional bond without dick, but money is not necessary. Plenty of women are obsessed with poor guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/22 06:29 AM |
| 33 | This experience instilled my fear in approaching women.No definitely do not do this. This is how you end up in jail. He doesn't need to go back to this fucking mall. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 03:57 AM |
| 12 | Girls who flex about stuff other guys are providing themNo. Wrong. This is a shit test. You win by showing you don't give a fuck. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Friend grinding on me in the clubWaiting for IOIs is stupid. You should just go for it and the woman will make clear if she is not interested. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:23 PM |
| 13 | How Easy It Is For Women To Get A High Body Count And Why "High" Is Not That HighThis is exactly right. Women want 2 things from a man: dopamine and serotonin. Dopamine comes from the alpha traits: dopamine is when the tall, good-looking, badass guy ventures into the unknown, conquers his enemies, and grabs the booty. Serotonin comes from the beta traits: being loving, caring, warm, accepting, etc. Women need BOTH. Women with high lay counts are often damaged and cannot form serotonin bonds with men, usually because they have been so hurt in relationships so badly that their… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/22 03:16 PM |
| 9 | How Easy It Is For Women To Get A High Body Count And Why "High" Is Not That HighLol they don’t bond with men they bond to what men can provide You need to get this type of incel nonsense out of here. If you don't think a woman can emotionally bond with a man you have never actually had a woman like you. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/22 03:12 PM |
| 12 | how many of you go to bars/clubs alone?I do it all the time. Women rarely question it unless we are deep in a conversation, and I usually say something like: - I came with my friends but they left because they were being lame. - I came with my friend and he went home with a girl he just met - I came with my friend and his girlfriend and I left because I didn't want to be a third wheel. Or you can just say, "something awesome happened to me at work today and I wanted to come out and celebrate." | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?First, no, women look at a lot of factors other than looks. Second, improving your looks as a man is easy. Just go to the gym, eat right, and wear better clothes. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?Don't waste your time. They don't want help. I have tried to help some of these guys and most of them are deeply mentally ill and have much deeper problems that seduction. It's really sad and I really do think the only thing you can do is ban them. They need some kind of intense shock to wake them up. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.No she goes back to him because he is confident and dominant and isn't whining on an internet message board about hot guys. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 03:30 PM |
| 36 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.Of course. Anybody who says shit like "girls just care about money, looks, etc" is just making excuses for their own shitty game. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 03:30 PM |
| 8 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.Wrong. Wrong. Tons of attractive men act creepy and gross our women. Creeliness is an objective thing, not a subjective determination the woman makes. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachI find a topic we are both interested in. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:58 AM |
| 0 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachYou assume I don’t close and my advice is stupid and wrong just because I disagree with you? No I assume you don't close and your advice is wrong because it is wrong. Collecting phone numbers without forming an emotional connection doesn't work. I know that for a fact. I also know for a fact that you aren't closing. Also, if you were closing, you would have said that you are closing. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachOk well the alternative is you don't get laid. Jesus Christ I am tired of guys that don't actually close giving out stupid, wrong advice. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachIf you don't want to spend 45 minutes talking to a girl ro have sex well it looks like you need to get your porn collection up. Also why would you be talking to girls you are not interested in? Go talk to girls you are interested in. It sounds like you have low self esteem and only chase fatties and uglies. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:00 PM |
| 7 | How would you handle this?How about how try not lying next time? | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 06:56 PM |
| 8 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachStop trying to be a tough guy douchebag. Nobody has sex with women after talking to them for 10 minutes. Women only want to have sex with men they feel an emotional connection with. If that is too hard for you go jack off to porn. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Strippers and escorts with SOsCastrated myself among other issues. What do you mean "castrated yourself"? Can you not get a boner anymore? What if youre willing to for instance not care if a girls gonna leave you cuz you have all kinds of escorts or strippers as backup. If getting escorts and strippers helps you not care about girls, that's great, but it will not impress other women that you can go to a stripper Strippers for paid sex. The thing is strippers arent like escorts, its not always easy to fuck strippers for money… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/22 05:01 PM |
| 6 | Strippers and escorts with SOsIts not possible for everyone mate. What about disabled or diseased people, or people in wheelchairs? Any guy can become attractive. Are you disabled or diseased? Dread game works if you’re willing to replace her with a regular girl? What do they think if you’re willing to replace them with an escort or stripper? Isnt dread game more about your willingness to replace them more so than the method of how you replace them. No dread game is about making women feel like you are an attractive in-deman… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/22 01:51 PM |
| 62 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachYou are getting the numbers way too early. You need to build up emotional investment before you even ask for a number. In fact, I rarely ask for a girl's number. At the end of our interaction, the woman is usually so invested she asks to give me her number. It clearly sounds like you were being aggressive and pushy and pressuring these women to give you their number before they were ready. 5 numbers is one night is way too many, unless you are out for like 10 hours plus. Usually you should be sp… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 01:48 PM |
| 6 | Strippers and escorts with SOsIts more like not enough confidenxe in my looks mate. Well stop being ugly. And you also need to learn that women are attracted to much more than looks. But at the same time, I do also save tons of time, in exchange for paying money for it. How much total time are people investing in a girl off tinder or whatever before fucking her? If you’ve spent 10 hours, that is already too much imo. You don't need to spend 10 hours to bang a girl off of Tinder. But more importantly, you need to be able to f… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/22 01:45 PM |
| 24 | Strippers and escorts with SOsWhy are you asking other men on the internet permission to get a prostitute? You clearly want to do it, so do it. Im against paying for prostitutes because the woman does not really want to have sex with you. Sex is more fun when she wants to be there. I also don't agree with "you're paying for it either way." If you have game you don't need to pay for expensive dates to get laid. You clearly only want to pay for a hooker because you don't have enough confidence in your game to get laid the righ… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/22 12:51 PM |
| 54 | Strippers and escorts with SOsWomen need the feeling of acceptance, which is why they get boyfriends even though they get all the sex and money they need from clients. Beta bucks is not just money; it is also warmth, A true Red Pill guy would not marry or have kids with an escort because they are emotionally unstable. Also she is fucking other guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Incels, MGOTW, and the Epic of GilgameshWomen are more than just pussy. If you are torturing yourself by hanging out with women you get nothing from except for sex then your life will be miserable. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Girls been follow similar patterns?This is women playing games to make you like them | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Incels, MGOTW, and the Epic of GilgameshIf you think an Xbox is more interesting than pussy something is wrong. You need to learn to take the lead. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/22 12:26 AM |
| 17 | Incels, MGOTW, and the Epic of GilgameshThat was some good writing. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/22 03:28 AM |
| 14 | Incels, MGOTW, and the Epic of GilgameshDid you write this or get it from somewhere? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/22 02:48 AM |
| 12 | Incels, MGOTW, and the Epic of GilgameshIt doesn't matter. Every man should think and act like he could be Chad. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/22 11:55 PM |
| 7 | Incels, MGOTW, and the Epic of GilgameshI stand by my comment. Almost all mass shooters and terrorists are incels. They may not be "incels" in the sense that they are participating in online communities about inceldom, but they are not getting any pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/22 10:20 PM |
| 27 | Incels, MGOTW, and the Epic of GilgameshYou have a grossly oversimplified understanding of the Adam and Eve story. The fundamental lesson in that story is that Adam failed as a leader. He failed to give Eve correct instructions, he failed to give her a mission, and then he failed by letting her trick him into the eating the fruit. And to top it all off, Adam failed to take responsibility for his failure because he blamed Eve. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/22 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Tinder and other dating apps are handsome man’s world.How is it useful? I think being hot, attractive, and handsome are the same thing. Why should I think different? | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Tinder and other dating apps are handsome man’s world.First of all, why are you so mad? Where is this hate coming from? Second, I am attractive and I fuck a lot of girls. I am just here to help you losers. Third, being attractive and having game are different. A lot of losers here think it is all attractiveness. That's wrong. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Tinder and other dating apps are handsome man’s world.Your distinctions are worthless and not useful in any way. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Tinder and other dating apps are handsome man’s world.Everything you said is wrong. A man change his attractiveness. Also a man can go approach people in real life instead of whining about how online dating is so hard. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 06:28 AM |
| 0 | Do girls like when a guy fights someone for annoying them or being disrespectful to themIt doesn't matter if they like it or not. You shouldn't fight anybody to impress girl. That is weak, beta male behavior. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Tinder makes me depressed!Go meet people in person then | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 12:55 PM |
| 4 | Building Rapport is BullshitNo a lot of women dont feel comfortable meeting a random guy off the internet that texted them 8 words. Also its ok to give women a little attention as long as you get to the point reasonably quickly. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/22 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Best books for inner game?My book: https://www.amazon.com/Transcending-Tribe-Conformity-Insecurity-Reliance/dp/173624860X/ref=sr\_1\_1?crid=3NZ16NV66GZ9G&keywords=transcending+the+tribe&qid=1654381092&sprefix=transcending+the+tribe%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1 | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Todd V’s bootcamp is $4500Did you take his course? | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 10:17 PM |
| 19 | Building Rapport is BullshitThis is just wrong. A lot of women on apps need to talk to you to a little before they agree to meet you in person. I'm tired of guys having something work once and then thinking it's the ultimate rule forever and ever with everybody. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/22 06:00 PM |
| 28 | If A Woman Rejects You In Any Way, There’s No Solution. You Just Walk The F* Away.Strong disagree. Women rarely "reject" men. They just don't show interest. There is a difference. "Rejection" means she does not find you attractive and never wants to see you again. Lack of interest means you just did not spark her emotions at that moment. If a woman does not show interest, you should move on, but the possibility is always there until she does actually reject you. Sometimes I will approach a woman, have a nice conversation, and she will lose interest. I will then leave and mayb… | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 03:32 AM |
| 3 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?You dont need smooth openers. Just compliment them. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 04:23 AM |
| 7 | What advice do you guys have for attracting women that have the "baddie" look?No no no. This is loser thinking. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 12:02 AM |
| 11 | What advice do you guys have for attracting women that have the "baddie" look?Stop telling people they need to be rich!! You dont need to be rich to get laid. Holy fuck you guys are losers. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | What advice do you guys have for attracting women that have the "baddie" look?Didn't you post this a long time ago? | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on ScheduleIf you are this worried the woman might flake an hour before your date you are doing something wrong. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Why is it a that she replies 2 or 3 times then stops replying?Why are you wasting your time with this bullshit? Just ask her out. Jesus Fucking Christ. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 06:47 PM |
| 2 | I *still* haven’t had the courage to cold approach womenI tell my clients to not think of it is an "approach." Instead, think of it is a compliment. You are just walking up to women and giving them a compliment. That's it. Stop by, give a compliment based on something she genuinely impressive and meaningful she did (usually her hair and makeup when it is a stranger), and keep moving. If, after she receives the compliment, the woman makes clear that she is interested in having a conversation, then you can stick around and talk, but if not, you are not… | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 03:11 AM |
| 7 | How To Start Cold Approaching Women Even Though You're Paralyzed In Fear Of RejectionOffering a compliment to a women who fields twelve dozen compliments a day goes against every approach method I've ever read or talked to anyone about. Your game should not be affected in any way whatsoever by what other guys do. You are the alpha male and the rules are different for you. You don't change your game because some other guy was nice to her earlier. It's not your job to figure out what happened to her all day and do the opposite. That's stupid. You are living your own life and you s… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/22 12:13 AM |
| 0 | Why are women oblivious to how easy they have it on the dating market?Women dont have it easy on the dating market. They have it harder than men. Stop whining. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?Women care about you if they emotionally invest in you. But they won't emotionally invest in you if you act like their butler, especially with respect to letting them make the conversation all about them. If you let them ramble on and on about boring shit they will not respect you. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 05:24 PM |
| 4 | Have women always had a shit ton of options? Or is this just a recent thing from Online Dating?Why even think about this? Just be attractive and you will get women. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:00 PM |
| 2 | How do I start a conversation with a girl in a bar while she is surrounded by her friends?Stop trying to "isolate" her. That is creepy 2003 shit. If you see a woman you like, you walk up to her and tell her she looks fucking amazing. It doesn't matter who she is with or what she is doing. If you are attractive and your compliment has enough energy and warmth, she will be interested. If not, go find somebody worth your compliment.. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 03:44 AM |
| 26 | Girl of my dreamsThis subreddit is full of haters. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 03:15 AM |
| 8 | How To Start Cold Approaching Women Even Though You're Paralyzed In Fear Of RejectionI don't think about "indicators of interest." Instead, I think about it in terms of my own emotional experience. If she smiles and acts warmly, I am enjoying myself and I hang around. If she is cold or mean, I am not having fun so I leave. But I try to not read peoples minds - I think of it terms of myself. I am the center of the universe and the world revolves around me. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/22 01:41 AM |
| 7 | How To Start Cold Approaching Women Even Though You're Paralyzed In Fear Of RejectionI completely disagree. I don't do fake approaches where I am pretending I am interested in something else. I just walk up and tell them I think they look hot. They are either interested or they are not. The key is to not be creepy or emotionally invested. You literally treat it like you are just giving a compliment and then planning on walking away. The woman must feel like she needs to do something to keep you there and keep the interaction going. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/22 10:36 PM |
| 18 | How to get a girl really close to youAttractive men don't need cheap tricks like this. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Okay, what if instead I turn the tables and ask her, “what are we”? Before she asks first?Women don't deeply emotionally invest in men You have been on the internet too long and have not had enough experience in the real world. Once a woman really, really like you, you will see how deeply women emotionally invest in men. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Okay, what if instead I turn the tables and ask her, “what are we”? Before she asks first?First, I think she might be lying that she was a virgin. Second, if you really did take her virginity she will either deeply emotionally invest in you or she decided to go crazy for some reason and fuck a lot of guys, in which case you are SOL. Confessing your feelings for a woman is never a good idea because words mean nothing to a woman. You show a woman you like her by rewarding her for shit she does for you. If she is not doing anything for you, you don't give her anything. But if you are co… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/22 01:59 PM |
| 3 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingHow can you generalize ALL women under these huge blanket statements When did I say anything about ALL women? I just said this is a technique that usually works for me. The fact that there are some men out there who go through this mental strategic warfare in their minds to get women to hang out with them is the reason I’m pursuing strictly women right now (as a bisexual) lol. Yeah if you hate all men, that's a great reason to become a lesbian. Enjoy yourself. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 12:45 PM |
| 2 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingLots of younger girls don’t do phone calls with strangers these days. How do you know that? Have you tried calling them? How do you expect a girl to fuck you if she won't get on the phone with you. Being a diva is just bad. Yeah you're right, you should just be a wet rag and do whatever she wants and never have any standards. If she invites you out for 20 minutes you should be like "ok sure. I have nothing better to do." Being a diva is just bad. Being disappointed when she flakes is also bad...… | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 12:43 PM |
| 2 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingJust went through your post history. You seem like a very angry, negative, miserable person. Every single post of yours is you being an asshole and expressing your hatred at the world. Sad! | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 12:41 PM |
| 2 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingYou have to have a deep conversation about something they care.about. that's the subject of a different post. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 12:32 PM |
| 2 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingThanks | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 12:29 PM |
| 9 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingWhere did I say to force anybody to do anything? | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:43 AM |
| 9 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingNo women dont have a binary yes/no approach to men. Women have a long "maybe" period and you can blow it by not building up investment during the maybe period. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:42 AM |
| 1 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingSo by "its too much work" you really mean "I give up" | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:41 AM |
| 2 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingNever said it wasn't 🤷 yeah you did. You just said that "Anyone who still says getting her number is better than getting her IG/socials either A) has a shit IG profile, B) is insecure about how they look in photos, C) is a boomer, or D) all of the above." You started off being the dickhead here and now you are being a little bitch because I gave it back to you. Maybe you should try to learn how to interact with people and everybody won't downvote you. And my coaching business is doing fine, than… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 11:01 PM |
| -2 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingYou didn't call me out because you didn't actually say what I said was false. You just vomited negativity. If you have an actual argument to make, I am ready to hear it, but all you have done so far is call me names. Also, why are you even here? If you are a woman who thinks this community is stupid, is your only point to be a negative pest? Go do something productive with your life. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 11:00 PM |
| -3 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingthey are better than short 5 minute conversations | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 10:51 PM |
| 5 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingIf you put more than 30 seconds of thought into your IG profile, you are a loser. It's very easy to get laid without creating an image on social media. I'm sorry you haven't figured out how yet. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 10:40 PM |
| 5 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingOr maybe they don't spend all trying to take cool IG pics to try to impress women. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 10:30 PM |
| -7 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingDo you have any actual criticisms of what I wrote or are you just here to be a troll? Also, I went through your post history and all your posts in this subreddit are either trolling or just plain wrong. Your advice to men that they have to spend a bunch of money to get women is wrong and also contradicts your whole shtick of being a "feminist." Go away. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | How to get easy sexy pics on chat?Meet girls in person | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else noticed they have more/less success with women based on location?Yes, you will quickly learn that your success will vary based on the places you go. Different places attract different kinds of girls, and those girls may be more or less into you. But you need to go all kinds of places. It is easy to get sucked into the mindset of "I am going to just go places where I have had success in the past." The rules of game are the same everywhere, you will just have a little more or less success. You also need to be careful to not cause this to be a self-fulfilling pr… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 07:33 AM |
| 11 | Field Report: Spontaneity’s FrustrationDecreasing interest, distant at social events You got too emotionally invested and started acting needy. there was an anonymous submission to our uni message board in her style talking about keeping distance to avoid getting hurt The fact that you read that and assumed it was her means you were WAY too emotionally invested After 2 weeks of near silence I call it dead in the water and seek her out for an answer. I get the classic ‘it’s not you it’s me’ and ‘wrong time right person’ lines OWTTE. S… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/22 07:17 AM |
| 7 | How To Start Cold Approaching Women Even Though You're Paralyzed In Fear Of RejectionYou're making excuses. Plenty of people with 9 to 5s go out and approach women. Also why would you tell your parents what you are doing? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/22 01:59 PM |
| 31 | How To Start Cold Approaching Women Even Though You're Paralyzed In Fear Of RejectionI tell my clients to not think of it is an "approach." Instead, think of it is a compliment. You are just walking up to women and giving them a compliment. That's it. Stop by, give a compliment based on something she genuinely impressive and meaningful she did (usually her hair and makeup when it is a stranger), and keep moving. If, after she receives the compliment, the woman makes clear that she is interested in having a conversation, then you can stick around and talk, but if not, you are not… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/22 01:14 PM |
| 4 | How To Start Cold Approaching Women Even Though You're Paralyzed In Fear Of RejectionHow does not having money stop you from approaching women? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | What to reply when she says she's "not that type of girl"?So you were trying to make up for looking needy by looking like an asshole? | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | What to reply when she says she's "not that type of girl"?Damn I should have just told her I'm not looking for a relationship and stop there Why even say that? The answer to "what are we" is always "I am having fun now, but we will see what happens." Your posture should always be "maybe." Never definitely yes, and never definitely no. You cannot have logical conversations with a woman about the relationship; you have to go with what she is feeling. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 04:33 PM |
| 0 | What to reply when she says she's "not that type of girl"?I sent her a message saying I don't want a relationship right now but I want to sleep with her and just talk some more. WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU TEXT THAT??? Have you ever in your life texted that to a woman and it worked?? Why on earth would you think that is a good idea. Holy fucking shit. Do you understand how women think at all. Women are not logical creatures like men who sit and analyze this shit. They just catch a vibe and go with their feelings. But they definitely do not make an agreement… | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 04:26 PM |
| 12 | A key element of your game - IntensityGood post. Confidence is just the feeling that you are going to succeed at whatever you are doing. If you really want something, and you feel confident you are going to get it, then of course you would pursue that thing with enthusiasm, intensity, focus, and energy. If I told you were was a suitcase with a million dollars in it in the other room, and you know there are no obstacles to grabbing it, would you you slowly and anxiously walk over there to grab it? No, you would run over there with en… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | I hate dating as a manI have learned in my coaching that guys that think like this usually need to be yelled at. This is lazy, weak-minded thinking. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:36 AM |
| -2 | I hate dating as a manYou should retitle your post "I hate being a man." Part of being a man is taking the lead and creating the emotional experience. If you don't like that, you should become gay and start dating guys. I was just texting this woman from Hinge right now, and the conversation got kind of boring (mostly because of me). Oh I get it. You are just whining because of you are not working to make your game better. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 09:07 PM |
| 19 | Was friendzoned but she gave me a cha ge for a dateI disagree with everybody here. Go on the date. But don't be a sniveling supplicator. She already said "no" to you so you can be a little more free to be an asshole. Be challenging. Tell her why you think it might not work out. Tell her she might have been right about friendzoning you. Go on fun adventures. Make fun of her. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | First DATES: Why Rollo is wrong - response to his latest (May 5th) RM ClipsDon't worry about having a long list of fun date ideas. Just find 2-3 weird bars near your house and just invite girls there. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/22 04:33 PM |
| 12 | First DATES: Why Rollo is wrong - response to his latest (May 5th) RM ClipsGeez Louise. This doesn't need to be a debate. You can take a woman on a date to a dumpster and still smash. Here is all you need to know: You should only invite her out to do something you would enjoy doing anyway. You are not putting on a show for her, she is just joining you on the adventure you were on anyway. You should have an out on any date. You should never put yourself in a situation where you are stuck with a girl you don't enjoy hanging out with. So, no, don't take her to Burning Man… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/22 02:47 PM |
| 0 | When flirting how much should you compliment women?This is a completely unhelpful comment because it just raises the question of what is simping. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 04:59 AM |
| 2 | When flirting how much should you compliment women?You can't say these lines until she is already deeply invested. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | When flirting how much should you compliment women?Compliment whenever she deserves it and only when she deserves it. When somebody asks her why you like her, she should be able to answer. Compliments are crucial. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 04:58 AM |
| 7 | Uncertainty + Fear Of Rejection + Neediness = Creepy To WomenBeing unattached to the outcome is impossible. Why would you talking to her if you didn't want anything? A better way to think about it is this: as a man, you get all the sex you want, so you don't care about sex. You care about fun emotional experiences, and you are only talking to her because you think she might be able to contribute to your emotional experience. If she can, you will pay her attention. If she cannot, you won't. Once you and her share a fun emotional experience, she will want t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/22 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Uncertainty + Fear Of Rejection + Neediness = Creepy To WomenNo creepiness is when you are emotionally overinvested. Emotional overinvestment is when you do more for her than she does for you. You are less likely to be emotionally overinvested when she is into you, but anybody can blow it by being creepy. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/22 06:31 PM |
| 3 | When a tinder girl wants to bring a friend on the first date, how do you turn it down without sounding annoyedThis shouldn't be happening so much. Are you not making clear it is a date? | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | I'm a SHORT ASIAN GUY who won at the seduction game. Two tips on meeting new prospects and getting them HOOKED.Him saying "dont think about game" was wrong because what he is doing IS game. He really meant dont escalate sexually. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 06:22 PM |
| 6 | How can we improve this subreddit?Delete negative, shitty, unproductive comments from incels. Delete (or flag) obviously wrong advice. Delete douchey comments where users attack each other. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 07:28 AM |
| 8 | How to get past the eye contact and smiling phase in a club ?Fucking approach. There is no other answer. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 04:02 AM |
| 3 | Is this a good Opener on Tinder?I am interested, but not yet sold. I might like you, but you need to do more to show me you are worth my time. And so forth | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Is this a good Opener on Tinder?Keep the "maybe" up until she really wants to go on a date, and then ask her out but do so in a way that your interest is always in the moment and could die in a second if she does not stack up. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Why do some guys (like me) think that girls will like them if they are NICE?Good question. From later in the same chapter of my book: -- To eliminate this feeling, you must subconsciously see yourself as the alpha in the interaction, not her. You should see yourself as the master of the tribe coming to offer her acceptance, not the beta asking her for to accept you. And more importantly, you must disconnect your feeling of being an alpha from whether she likes you or not. You are the alpha, not her, and she does not decide whether you have value, whether you are accepte… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Why do some guys (like me) think that girls will like them if they are NICE?Here is why (this is a passage from my book I am writing): What is it about women that makes men so anxious, even extremely high-value men? The answer is simple: When a man really wants a woman, he subconsciously sees her as the alpha of the tribe. As I noted earlier, humans evolved to view human relationships in terms of tribes, and we subconsciously view the resources of the tribe as being controlled by the “alpha.” Therefore, when a single person has or controls something we really, really … | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:51 AM |
| 17 | Is this a good Opener on Tinder?No. No. No. You always want to project the feeling that you are "maybe" and she needs to fight for your validation. By giving up the game so easily you show that you are not "maybe." | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:39 PM |
| 2 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?I don't think it is about number of approaches, but what you are doing. My approaching improved once I created a game plan for myself and calibrated my facial expressions, fun, and vibe. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:52 PM |
| 11 | Any tips on not getting a blank head when talking to women?Honestly if you did that confidently and joyfully, she would be into it. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 10:54 PM |
| 23 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.The thing most guys don't realize is that neediness and creepiness is unattractive to ANYBODY, even guys. I have had seen hot girls come onto my friends who NEVER get laid and the guy still freaked out and said no. We have some kind of deep, biological aversion to people who are too aggressive. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 10:11 PM |
| 8 | Any tips on not getting a blank head when talking to women?Talk about something YOU think is interesting without worrying what she wants. Then tailor your conversation accordingly. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 10:09 PM |
| 3 | If you’re new to cold approaching read this.This is literally the wrongest comment I have ever read. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:32 PM |
| 16 | Fuck seduction get in your bag. I don’t want woman until I reach 100k cashThis is stupid. You need to enjoy your life. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 05:11 AM |
| 44 | Confidence is only sexy when it has something solid to back it up.No. Wrong. This is just OP making excuses for not being confident. Women evolved to like the feeling of confidence even when nothing backs it up. Tons of losers with nothing going for them get women because they act confident. No. Wrong. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Day game or night game for a weird average looking guy?Instead of asking a bunch of strangers on the internet just try both. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Girl wanted to fu** me in the center of the club.The reason you arent finding one is because you are so desperate. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 01:25 AM |
| -16 | Girl wanted to fu** me in the center of the club.Shut up hater | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | is seeing multiple people actually considered normal??Why the fuck would you assume exclusivity from the beginning? It takes a while to get to know somebody. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 04:55 PM |
| 7 | I cant hold eye contact with pretty girlsJust fucking do it. The more you think about it, the more you get anxious. Imagine somebody put a gun to your head and made you make eye contact. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 04:53 PM |
| 3 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.I didnt even have to scroll down to guess this thread would be full of negative, hateful comments. This subreddit is a cesspool of haters. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 04:53 PM |
| 6 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.You are just a hater. What kind of results are you getting? | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 04:52 PM |
| 4 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.That's how you should think about it. Most guys get over anxious because they think of it like life or death. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Taking girls on expensive dinner datesTaking girls on expensive dinner dates actually makes you less likely to score because it puts a bunch of pressure on the woman. The cheaper the date, the better. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | When people say to you they don't understandStay calm and act like it didnt affect you. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Difference between British girls and American girls when it comes to dating .Stop worrying about shit like this and focus on the fundamentals. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 12:28 AM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"that is such an empty thing...so I work extremely hard and won't be able to have a partner who doesn't cheat on me? Yeah its a free country. Women can leave you at any time for any reason. If you want a guarantee your wife will never leave move to an Islamic country. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Does a girl expect you to become angry when she rejects you?What does "calibration" mean here? | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 08:12 PM |
| 88 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"You are misunderstanding the statement. Its not a statement about female nature, its a statement about what your mindset should be. Instead of trying to "own" a woman, you should just try to enjoy the moment, and if she chooses to move on then dont stress out. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Hot waitress.Dont bother people at work | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | nothing sucks more than doomscrolling on Tinder on a Friday after work and you can't get any matches...Go approach women in person and stop complaining on the internet. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 01:55 PM |
| 0 | How do you guys deal with womens fuckery?Women are naturally challenging. They want to see if you are gonna be a fucking chode or not. You probably approached in a needy, wanty way; you should have come in more challenging. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Dating in college as a dark skinned Indian guyThere are no special tips for ugly guys or guys of an undesirable race. The rules are the same: you just get more rejection. The only thing you can do is go out and take that rejection like a man. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s?Why do you care what anonymous people on the internet are saying about you? | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women?Asking what game is not productive. Do you have a specific question or sticking point? | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | What's your 100% icebreaker sentence?Don't hit on girls at the gym. It like never works. The only time it might work is if you actually have a gym-related topic to discuss. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 10:21 PM |
| 6 | What's your 100% icebreaker sentence?Yes, that's a horrible thing to say. Most of the advice in this subreddit is shit. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 10:21 PM |
| 10 | Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women?Like, umh, the entire point of this subreddit? | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 09:20 PM |
| 22 | Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women?Your game is not good enough probably. Learning game is usually the hardest part. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 08:30 PM |
| 50 | Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women?Gym. Dress better. Learn game. Act confidently even when it is not based on anything. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Getting rejected for heightDude are you insane? 5'9 is not considered "short" at all. And even if a woman prefers a guy taller than 5'9 it is extremely, extremely rare for her to actually say that. I have approached thousands of women and nobody ever made fun of me for being short and I am literally the same fucking height as this guy. The problem with this subreddit is that tons of guys are too afraid to take action so they excuse it with some real or perceived flaw. Maybe one girl in this life made fun of him for his he… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 02:59 PM |
| 10 | Getting rejected for heightI doubt that. I am 5 9 and I rarely get rejected and when I do, nobody says "its because you are short" someone is fucking with you. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 04:35 AM |
| 3 | How to Unlearn PUA bulls*t?In social interactions you should do whatever the fuck you want. To the extent PUA shit has value, it serves as a set of guiderails as to shit you are not supposed to do. Within those guiderails you can do whatever the fuck you want. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 04:34 AM |
| 9 | Getting rejected for heightHave you actually been rejected for your height or did women say a bunch of shit to fuck with your self esteem? | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have experience pulling girls to a place with a concierge/receptionist?They don't care. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 01:17 PM |
| 3 | My two cents on how to start dating after having been in a relationship for a very long time.Man fuck off with this negative shit. There are no leagues. Have some fucking confidence. Wrong Wrong wrong. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Why are men so confusingRun. Run. Run. He is either playing games or massively insecure and will make your life a living hell. Run. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Rate yourself 1-10No wrong. You approach the hottest girl and then work your way down. It only takes 2 seconds to approach a woman. By the way women like delusional confidence so you will have success other men will not. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Rate yourself 1-10This is a stupid exercise. Every guy needs to act like he is the hottest guy in the world, whether he is or not. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | I have no idea what league im in. What should I do?You dont need to know what league you are in. You should assume you are the hottest guy and you should approach the hottest women. If they say no, then step down and approach the second hottest women. And so forth. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Been seeing a girl who said it would be funny if I got a black eye…Its a shit test dont let it get to you | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 01:16 AM |
| 11 | How does a sexual market works - Summary for males and females"Women just want money" is a cope by boring, unattractive guys to explain why they don't get women. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 01:30 PM |
| 21 | How does a sexual market works - Summary for males and femalesNo you're wrong. The most important metric is the emotional experience you provide. If you are rich and powerful but needy, boring, and low confidence women will take your money and not fuck you. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 12:08 PM |
| 1 | How does a sexual market works - Summary for males and femalesWomen are not "attracted" to rich men. They fuck them for money because they are hookers or because they cannot find a fun guy who will commit to them. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 11:55 AM |
| 3 | I feel like looking young (babyface) has hurt my life with girls drasticallyThis is all in your head. Stop thinking about your "babyface" and just go approach women. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Should I bother to reschedule?You're dancing around my question. Does "sending women texts to make their day" get you laid? Usually it doesn't. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 03:10 AM |
| 2 | This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok.Im genuinely curious as to why people downvoted my comment | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Should I bother to reschedule?Of course you got positive feedback. But did it get you laid? Those are not the same thing. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Should I bother to reschedule?over text you’re suppose send a reply that’ll make her day too, not leave her on read thats just me though Where are you getting this rule? Because you've tried it and it worked, or because you just "think" that's what a guy should do? | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Should I bother to reschedule?We eneded up texting until the date. This was your first mistake. She blows you off but yet you continue to text her? Why? She texted me yesterday saying she couldn't make it to our second date(Which is on Wednesday) because she "forgot she has to nanny." She wants to reschedule. If she asked to reschedule, then reschedule. You're being butthurt. If she canceled and then didn't ask to reschedule, that would be a different story. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 08:17 PM |
| -11 | This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok.First, why are you "talking" to a girl? Have you been on any dates with her? If not, why not? Second, how do you even know this is about you? Third, who cares about feelings? Your feelings don't matter; reality does. This girl is a damaged attention whore, like a lot of women in modern times. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | I’m angryYou are probably being needy and pushy. I approach all the time and I never get "I have a bf." If a girl is saying "I have a bf" that means you have made it extremely clear you want to fuck her right away and she is just looking for an out. An approach should be a fun, casual thing and you should not even be discussing relationship shit until you have been vibing for a while. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | DMing models on Instagram does actually work, but you have to do it in a VERY specific way to get responsesDming models you havent met in real life is a low roi waste of time. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Are dating coaches a waste of money?What? They have dating coaches do AMAs sometimes. I just havent asked because I am a nobody. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 02:22 AM |
| 57 | Going on dates with women has made me realize how invisible I am. Is this a woman thing or do I just look uninteresting?Nobody approaches men. Women are too scared of rejection and men dont want to look gay by approaching other men. This has nothing to do with you. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 06:20 AM |
| 2 | I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girlsThe reality is that you will never know, so instead of just blindly trusting what guys on the internet say, focus on trying a bunch of different shit and applying advice you see in many different places. If a lot of people are saying X, X probably works. At the end of the day, you need to figure out for yourself. Nobody can really help you. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Are dating coaches a waste of money?Lol, I don't think I'm big enough of a name to do an AMA yet, but if you have any questions I will try to answer them here. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Are dating coaches a waste of money?Some of them are a waste of money, some are not. It's mostly up to you? Do you know exactly what you need help on? Does the guy know what he is talking about? Are you going to do what he says? I am a dating coach and my clients seem happy but I am sure some of these guys suck. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 11:26 PM |
| 3 | My complete guide to seduction and alphaThis is not a "complete" guide but it is a very good post and great starting point. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/22 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Can anyone solve this or explain this for me?This is the type of quality post TRP needs more of. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | MYTH about MONEY and GirlsYou cant use money to get girls. It is a myth propagated by losers to justify why they are not getting laid ("I am poor, I am not Chad, etc").. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 10:21 AM |
| 2 | I have never seem a guy spit game like thisThis is a great post. From what I have learned, this is the best approach. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 02:03 AM |
| 7 | What one question to ask a girl to awaken her curiosity in me ?Questions dont make women curious about you. Having a fun emotional experience makes women curious about you. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 01:48 PM |
| 5 | What's your unpopular seduction opinion? Something you really believe, but would get down voted on this sub?What if the seduction expert says to be genuine and look for a real connection? Checkmate. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 12:12 AM |
| 2 | You need to realize that you will ever see and experience a tiny tiny snippet of realityWhich is it? You don't want to date outside your race or there are no other races there? | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 07:56 PM |
| 2 | You need to realize that you will ever see and experience a tiny tiny snippet of realityLol @ acting like not dating outside your race is a reasonable thing to do. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | What is it like to be pretty handsome dude, seriously?How about instead of complaining about being ugly you just go to the gym, eat right, dress well, and stop being ugly? | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Why are women even on this subreddit?I've noticed you have made several loser mindset threads complaining about women lately. How many women have you approached in the past few weeks? | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 02:15 PM |
| 20 | Why are women even on this subreddit?Women sometimes give valuable advice. Thinking that everything women say is useless is stupid. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:38 PM |
| 10 | How to become emotionally detached when hooking up?Abundance mentality. You are getting overly fixated on this girl because your subconscious mind thinks that the only thing you will get. You must feel like you can get 1000 of her. You should also enjoy the moment without looking too far into the future. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Are Modern Women's dating standards too high? Why or why not?Threads like this are just a pity party for dudes to make excuses and whine. Go to the gym, dress well, and build an exciting life. You will be fine. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 03:42 PM |
| 44 | “C’mon lets go pick up some condoms, i’ll drive”I actually disagree. Sometimes women who wanna fuck are shy and subtle about it. You can't wait for every woman to do this. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 04:20 AM |
| 5 | IME online dating is so vastly different nowadays that even girls who genuinely like you on apps, still have zero chance of actually coming over or going out with you because of unlimited optionsYou're right, OLD sucks, go approach in real life. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 01:55 AM |
| 2 | How to recover after cringey drunk nightYou definitely don't "pretend it didn't happen." Play it off and start acting challenging. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 05:43 PM |
| 13 | Just experienced the worst cock-block of my lifeThis, ladies and gentlemen, is why logistics are important. If you don't have a better place than a bathroom to fuck her, you don't deserve to get laid. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: She asked if I had learned my game on the internetyes | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 04:09 PM |
| 23 | Lay-report from last night"We're not having sex tonight" is the woman trying to resist what she wants to do. Like when you say "I am not having any more Oreos tonight." If she wasn't interested in fucking you, she wouldn't even need to say that. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Failure with women hurting my mental healthFind a hobby you enjoy and some friends you like and focus on that. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 06:46 AM |
| 3 | I can’t never get hardIt sounds like you have performance anxiety. You need to relax and focus on enjoying the moment. You may need therapy. I rarely recommend guys get hookers, but you may want to get one to do the act without caring what she thinks. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 06:43 AM |
| 38 | Dating after Nuclear war?You nerds need to go outside and approach | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Should I ask this guy to hook up even though he dumped me??I dont think its healthy to go crawling back to somebody who dumped you, even if you are ok with just being FWBs. You do have feelings for the guy and he does not really respect you. That is a bad combo. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Girl doesn’t know when she will be free due to workYoure too available so she has the luxury of hemming and hawing because she knows you will be there no matter what. You need to become the challenge. Maybe you can respond by saying "hmm I am pretty busy in the next few weeks too, maybe some other time." That puts her on the defensive. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Are there any situations where it is ideal for a guy to let a women approach him or make the first move?Yeah that's why I tell guys they need to approach women. Because women will not approach them. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Are there any situations where it is ideal for a guy to let a women approach him or make the first move?What the fuck are you talking about? Yes obviously its better if women approach you, but they rarely do that. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Are there any situations where it is ideal for a guy to let a women approach him or make the first move?That's not "approaching." Approaching is when you make your intentions clear and actually take the risk of being rejected, which women rarely do. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Is this how you kiss someone?Dont overthink this shit. When you feel like she is ready, you put your lips against hers and she will do the work. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Older women & younger manWhy would you want to do this? | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Why men have to suffer so much of rejection? Even the attractive men sometimes could find it hard to get matches?Who cares "why"? Just face reality and deal with it. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 11:07 PM |
| 2 | I can do easily 30 sets a day in daygame if I have the time. Getting paranoid in my small cityYou should not be doing 30 approaches a day. You should be having more success and taking these approaches somewhere. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 01:05 PM |
| 24 | I'm "one of those short guys who does well" and I think simply stating "I know a short guy who does well with girls" is one of the worst responses you can giveBeing short is a big disadvantage but you can make up for it in other ways. Unfortunately most dudes on the internet enjoy being lazy and negative and do not want to take action. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: She asked if I had learned my game on the internetNo | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 12:36 PM |
| 0 | How to get more success in dming girls on Instagram? Any advice hellsThere is no "line" that will make a hot bitch on IG give a fuck about you. Go approach in person and stop being a pussy. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: She asked if I had learned my game on the internetI should have asked for her number, but that's not the point of the story. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Older coworker (F40’s) and me (M21)2 things: 1) Don't shit where you eat. Unless you are ok with getting fired (or even taking a sexual harassment charge) you should never start a relationship with somebody you are working with. 2) "Indicators of Interest" are bullshit. If you like somebody, you should just go for it and stop trying to read their mind and figure out if they like you. But again, Rule #2 is irrelevant because of Rule #1. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 01:16 PM |
| 6 | Am beta bucks in relationship do I just cut my lossesYes | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Appreciation post - girls who make the first moveThat's great, but you cannot count on women to make the first move. They rarely do. You need to overcome your approach anxiety. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | How to handle girls shoving their ass into me at the clubHonestly when this happens, I don't engage. Be the challenge. Later on in the night you can ask her name and have a real conversation. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 11:45 PM |
| 54 | Female friend sent me [M 22] a nude out of the blueNo don't text that. Looks thirsty. You already have a date lined up you dont need to say anything. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | I learned from YouTube pranksAll approaches should be light hearted. And what matters is the emotion not the words. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: not gauging your level of attractiveness off of how many women you’re currently talking to but instead your success in your own lifeYou should never be "gauging your level of attractiveness." You should always act like you are the hottest guy in the world. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else using professional sex workers occasionally?Your reading comprehension sucks. Im sorry I cant help you. Get a hooker, you will feel great afterwards. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 07:00 AM |
| -2 | How to respond to girls at work who keep asking if/who I'm fucking?No this is a stupid and offensive thing to say, and can get you in trouble for sexual harassment. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 05:39 AM |
| 3 | I asked a girl out todayNo you got rejected. If a girl wants to hang out with you she will make it happen. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else using professional sex workers occasionally?Ir didn't happen to me and I didnt say one person's actions reflect on an entire group.. All I said was that if you saw how many SWers hated their clients you might not want to pay for them. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 05:36 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else using professional sex workers occasionally?No you don't get it. They hate ALL their clients. Their Twitter bios literally say "I hate all clients." They are miserable people doing a miserable job, and they look down on ALL their clients. Im not saying every SWer is like this, but a lot of SW on Twitter are like this. Stop making excuses for people you dont even know. Paying for hookers is weak sauce. Period. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 05:15 AM |
| 16 | Girl I’ve Been Hooking Up With Won’t Spend the NightIt doesn't matter why. You cant spend your life trying to figure out what women are thinking or why they are doing what they are doing. All you can do is keep your own boundaries and decide if her actions are acceptable to you. She might have some kind of OCD or issue sleeping with somebody. It might be related to some kind of trauma she experienced. Either way, doesn't matter. And don't push the issue. No means no. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 04:52 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else using professional sex workers occasionally?Most swers i know hate all their clients. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 04:10 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else using professional sex workers occasionally?Would you hire a chef that went on the internet and complained about how much of a gross loser you are? | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 04:09 AM |
| 7 | Reminder- Never make her your focusThe problem here isn't vulnerability, it's the fact that he became her ATM and wasn't getting anything in return other than sex (which doesn't count). | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/22 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else using professional sex workers occasionally?The purpose of seduction is to learn how to get laid so you don't need to buy a hooker. You can literally have the same relationship with lots of women without having to pay for it. IF you are thinking about buying a hooker, go on sex worker twitter and just look at the terrible things SWs say about their clients. SWs generally HATE their clients; they look down on them. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | A waiter at a restaurant waited until I went to the restroom to flirt with my gf, am I in the wrong to feel mad and disrespected?Newsflash: lots of dudes are horny assholes. If you let this kind of shit get to you, you will be miserable. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 06:22 PM |
| 20 | How to respond to girls at work who keep asking if/who I'm fucking?There is nothing wrong with letting girls know you fuck. I would tease them and say "maybe one day I will tell you." | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Mixed reads after second date - help!Cool! Can you please tell me exactly how it went down? (I love collecting data on what does and does not work). | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:30 AM |
| 5 | Mixed reads after second date - help!Ok first, let's look at her response: "I could maybe do something that night but I might be hella tired haha. After that I might have to focus on studying since I have the BAR exam in a week By saying I "might" be available, she is making herself a challenge. She is not saying no, but she is also not making herself completely available. As a man, your approach should also be "maybe." I would play it like this: I would respond and say "Oh no, I had no idea you had the bar exam. I would feel bad k… | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Average American vs Average European seduction skills, who wins ? Street fight ?Ok looks like the answer is 0. You are wasting your time posting stupid threads on seddit yet you are not actually approaching. Look at what you are doing with your life. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 12:23 PM |
| 3 | First Post! Could not kiss close; help with overthinking it.You should have went for it. She probably would have come home with you. Dont worry about being a creep. Creepiness is when you keep pushing after she shows disinterest. Go for it once and then stop if she says no and completely change the subject. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 12:21 PM |
| 0 | Average American vs Average European seduction skills, who wins ? Street fight ?Yeah I still dont think you are getting what I am saying. How many women did YOU approach this week? | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 12:13 PM |
| -2 | Average American vs Average European seduction skills, who wins ? Street fight ?No they don't. How many women have you approached this week? | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 07:33 AM |
| 0 | Average American vs Average European seduction skills, who wins ? Street fight ?How many women have you approached this week? | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 07:24 AM |
| 3 | The Classic "Theory" of Alpha F's, Beta Buxx Explained In Depth, With Studies. And Why "Attracting" Women With Your Money, Is The Worst Possible Thing You Can Do.The idea that women actually want two guys has not been proven by the science. As of now, the scientific consensus is that women want just one guy who can be the alpha AND do the providing. The reason the AF/BB dynamic exists is that women cannot find one guy that can do both, so they are forced to find two. Professor David Buss, the guy who started evolutionary psychology, used to believe that AF/BB was evolutionary ingrained, but now he doesn't think so. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/22 07:18 AM |
| -1 | Average American vs Average European seduction skills, who wins ? Street fight ?The whole idea of "silly threads" on the seduction subreddit is stupid. You fucking nerds need to be out approaching and getting laid, not jacking off and making jokes on the internet. I'm intense because I coach guys who spend too much fucking time on the internet and act like pussies when they actually get around women. You need to get off your fucking computer too. How many women have you approached this week? | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 07:15 AM |
| 0 | I met a girl on tinder, we had a casual conversation and about on hour later we exchanged instagrams. I mean she told me her name and I followed her, she followed me back.First, why are you exchanging Instagrams with a girl you met on Tinder? Get her fucking number and call her on the phone like a man. Also, it none of your business who that other dude is. Just press the gas on your game. If she is into you, she will reciprocate. If not, she won't. Thinking about shit like this is a waste of time. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Average American vs Average European seduction skills, who wins ? Street fight ?No I do have something very fucking important to add: wasting your mental energy on stupid shit like this is very bad for your game. The biggest problem most men have in pickup is overthinking, and sitting around thinking about whether men in Europe or America have better game is a perfect example of that. You need to stop thinking about other men, what type of woman you think she is, society, and all that other bullshit, and just focus on your emotional experience and your self-improvement. If … | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 06:56 AM |
| 6 | Average American vs Average European seduction skills, who wins ? Street fight ?Who gives a shit? Stop taking up your mental space with dumb questions like this. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to ask a random girl for her number?Find something about them to compliment, then introduce yourself, and then ask "what did you do today" that will get the ball rolling. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 04:22 AM |
| 0 | Should I give out business cards to women I connect with?No. You shouldn't be giving your number to women period. Women rarely call. You need to get their number and call them. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to ask a random girl for her number?Dont just walk up to girls and ask for their number. Have a fun conversation. If they want to see you again they will make it clear | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 12:46 AM |
| 6 | Public Service Announcement: Talk to everybodyI have a simple rule I call the alpha male quid pro quo. You can only do something for a woman if and when she does something to deserve it. Does she deserve the compliment? Give it to her. But dont give fake disingenuous compliments. Women can tell. But going around asking for sex is weird and creepy. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 12:43 AM |
| 8 | Mixed reads after second date - help!Here is the thing. No matter how much she likes you, if she feels like you are relentless she will get freaked out. You should always feel like a challenge to her and like she needs to work for it. Right now she feels like she conquered you and you are going to relentlessly pursue.her. I would go quiet for a few days and then text her something random but do not ask to hang out. That will get her intrigued again. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Public Service Announcement: Talk to everybodyWho said that? I think its ok to hand out compliments if the person did something to deserve it. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | “Fake it till you make it” and “Women can tell when you’re being fake and it puts them off”I don't think of it as "faking" it. I think of it as building towards an ideal. If somebody said "I am trying to be a good person" you may not be a good person on day 1 but you are working towards it. You may never get there, but the more you work towards it the better off you will be. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Girls ghosted me, after 6 months she asked to hang out twiceNo car is not a good option. Are you fucking insane? A lot of women will not want to fuck in a car. You need to have a place to take her. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 06:10 AM |
| 3 | Girls ghosted me, after 6 months she asked to hang out twiceNo car is not a good option. Are you fucking insane? A lot of women will not want to fuck in a car. You need to have a place to take her. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 06:10 AM |
| 4 | Girls ghosted me, after 6 months she asked to hang out twiceDude you need to figure out your logistics. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Girls ghosted me, after 6 months she asked to hang out twiceMake other plans as well, keep her as an option, the plan C.. This is true but you should always have a backup plan. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 06:09 AM |
| 68 | Girls ghosted me, after 6 months she asked to hang out twiceNo do not ask that. DO NOT ASK THAT. Women's emotions are temporary and fleeting, and she herself doesn't know what changed. When a woman blows you off, asking what happened or begging just makes you look too emotionally invested. DO NOT SAY ANYTHING LIKE "what happened" "what changed", etc... Make her feel like you completely forgot and that her blowing you off didn't affect you whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 06:09 AM |
| 11 | This is crazy but I’m moving out of London to WarsawMoving to a different country cuz you had a good day on the apps is the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Go meet people in person in London. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 07:35 PM |
| 2 | If you’re new to cold approaching read this.If a guy like Zac Efron approached her would she forget about him 20 mins later? Um, yes. Women emotionally invest differently than men and it usually takes a a while before a woman gives a fuck about a guy. Hot women are approached by tons of hot guys and they forget most of them. If you think you are too good to need to "win over" women then you are going to home most nights jacking off. Sorry but that's just the reality. Of course, if Zac Efron himself approached a woman she would not forget … | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 09:18 AM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a girl says " I don't know you" and how would respond to it?Its a bad signal. You are trying to take her to a different location too soon. You need to get her emotionally invested in you first. She has to want to go because she is excited about you. It usually takes like 20 minutes at least before a woman will go somewhere with you. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 06:46 AM |
| 2 | If you’re new to cold approaching read this.I disagree. Most women forget about you if you dont hang out with them for more than 20 minutes. Also you should always be going for the same night lay. Her friends can come too. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 06:41 AM |
| 3 | How to approach shy women (especially those with social anxiety)No its not ok to be friends. If you want a romantic relationship and she doesnt, then move on. Dont lie and act like you are ok with being friends. You are just setting yourself up to be angry and cause problems later. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:10 PM |
| 0 | How to approach shy women (especially those with social anxiety)Im sick of these joke answers. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:09 PM |
| 20 | If you’re new to cold approaching read this.You need to have a long interaction or else she will flake. You need to build a connection before you get her number. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | How much is due to game?Depends on the person and situation but game is a lot more than people think. Also game has to be there. You can be the hottest guy in the world and still blow it cuz your game sucks. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 06:04 PM |
| 5 | What are some of the most obvious signals girls give off, to a guy to approach and he won't get rejected? or there are none actually?Dont worry about "signals." Just press the gas and she will let you know if she is not interested. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:58 AM |
| 2 | I honestly dont know what Im doing wrong...about to give upStop paying for shit Dont take her to dinner Stop over thinking and focus on having fun. 5 dates is not that many. Message me. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:57 AM |
| 7 | Tinder experiments are some of the most eye opening things you could run..The default is that women should chase men. "Game" is just making women feel comfortable to chase you. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Tinder experiments are some of the most eye opening things you could run..You have no idea what a "blue pill" personality is. Blue pill does not mean "politically left wing." | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | “You Don’t Get Girls Haha” “Still Not Gonna Get Any Buns”You dont need a "line." Ignore them. They are just hating because they are too afraid to approach themselves. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 03:00 PM |
| 2 | 3 days to respond, left on read. What should I do?Text her "hey I really like you, but I think the distance might be too much" That way, you are making yourself a challenge but giving her an easy way to get back with you. I think the problem is that you are pushing her too hard and you driving all the way to her city makes you look low value. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Texting girls!You suck at texting because you are worried about making it fun for her rather for yourself. You need to have a conversation that YOU think is fun, and then she will enjoy it too. But you should not be texting girls that much. Pick up the phone and call her. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Is thinning/balding hair a turn off in the dating world?I dont know how effective it is for women, but the YouTube channel More Plates More Dates has some great videos for dealing with hair loss. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Comfortability excuseYes. Her saying "is that a bad thing" was a shit test. What kind of idiot thinks having good energy is a bad thing. You just gotta be confident when answering her shit test. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Comfortability excuseSuggest things before her. Be like "im getting a tea, what about you?" Say "lets go to this other place." Be challenging. Make her feel like she is auditioning for your approval. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Comfortability excuseJust do it but have a better plan than Panera and take her there. Also this lady sounds like she has a strong frame so you need to politely take the lead. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Comfortability excuseJust call her and have a fun conversation but dont show too much emotional investment. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 03:04 AM |
| 0 | My first day of cold approach was a disasterThat's normal. Next time make your goal to just walk around giving people compliments. Men, women, dogs. Everything. Just a compliment and move on. Once you can do that you can move to saying something else after the compliment. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 05:35 PM |
| -1 | Can't stop obsessing over a girl I picked up just for sex?Go to my website and read my article on breakups. Woujo.com. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 05:31 PM |
| 3 | I’m starting to realise that I’m probably looking for some form of deeper relationships without screening/understanding that not every girl might want that, how should I adapt?Every interaction should start casual. If you begin every interaction with "i want a serious relationship" you will scare girls off. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 05:31 PM |
| -15 | So I finally asked out that CashierStop asking people out who are working!!! | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 08:28 AM |
| -7 | How do I seduce a coworker to sleep with me?Make him think you "might" want to fuck him but be challenging about it. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | let's be real, 90% of the time it's about looks.No. Wrong. Looks are like 20% of the equation. Looks get your foot in the door, but you need gamr after that. Also, you can improve your looks!!! If you go to the gym, eat right, and wear good clothes you will not be "ugly" anymore. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 11:51 PM |
| 12 | What are some places that are meant for hooking up?This is a stupid post. Imagine you are a woman at a grocery store and you see Brad Pitt. Are you going to think "I can't meet Brad Pitt here, this is a grocery store." You can meet women anywhere. An approach becomes creepy if you are relentless and annoying, not by the place it happens at. OP is wrong. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | 36 Questions that Lead to LoveDude this list is a result of actual studies done by respected scientists. Saying "i dont believe anything that is in the NY times" is just as dumb as saying "i believe everything the NY times says" | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/22 02:06 AM |
| 2 | 36 Questions that Lead to LoveThese questions were formulated by real scientists and were shown to improve attraction in a laboratory setting. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/22 02:05 AM |
| -2 | Asked a girl out for the first time in personI cannot believe people are praising OP for this. This is not impressive at all. First, you SHOULD NOT BE ASKING OUT PEOPLE WHO ARE WORKING UNLESS THEY SHOW STRONG INTEREST IN YOU. They are literally getting paid to talk to you. Guys ask women who are working out because they are too scared to actually cold approach strangers that might turn them down. Second, you did it completely wrong. You did not build any rapport, you did not give her a compliment, etc. You basically gave her no reason to s… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 01:22 AM |
| 0 | Do girls really like funny guys ? If yes then how to be funnyGo to my website woujo.com there is an article on how to be funny | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Feeling sad + disrespectedYou are coming off as too emotionally invested. Women want deep relationships too, but starting off by acting like you are soulmates scares them off. Start off with something chill and casual, then the relationship can get deeper if you are both into it. And unfortunately you need to fuck girls in the first few dates if you want to have a deep relationship. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 03:18 AM |
| 10 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveHow about instead of complaining on the internet you learn how to do it correctly? | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 03:01 AM |
| 13 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveIts extremely effective for me. You are probably doing it wrong or you look like shit. Probably both. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 02:03 AM |
| 6 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?What do you mean "works for you"? How many times has this worked? | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 02:02 AM |
| 144 | 36 Questions that Lead to LoveYes you should ask questions like this, but you should not be corny as fuck and say "we are going to play a game called 36 questions for love." You should just slide these questions in at appropriate times in the normal flow of the conversation. Getting deep like this works. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/22 09:43 PM |
| 27 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?You are not getting my point. You should not be trying to fuck women you only know from social media. It doesn't work. It is a waste of time. The chance your DM will mean anything to her is like 1/1,000,000. It's a much better use of your time to meet women in person. Men generally only try to "slide into DMs" because they are afraid of approaching in person. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:21 PM |
| 39 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?Sliding into dms generally doesnt work unless you are famous or something. Go to a club or bar and meet women in real life. Stop hiding behind your computer. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:09 PM |
| 18 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?Go meet them in person. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:04 PM |
| 7 | Is she playing games with me?Honestly her playing these games with you regarding sex is a huge red flag. She is basically setting you up to be her emotional blanket while the other guy fucks the shit out of her. I wouldnt fall for it. I know this sounds crazy, but this is what I would do: I would text her and say 'hey I was thinking about what you were saying about sex and I think we are probably not sexually compatible. You seem like a nice girl, though, and I wouldn't mind hanging out as friends." By doing that, you flip … | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Wait so if you give and give and she just takes, that's not toxic? | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:34 AM |
| 8 | need adviceThe rules are not different for milfs. Just dont act like it is weird | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It is only an issue if she doesnt reciprocate. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 03:09 AM |
| 2 | She agreed tone date and I sent the details butSend one, just one, text asking if you are still on. The answer will probably be no. If she does not answer, or she says no, delete her number. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 03:03 AM |
| 10 | How to not ruminate on what you did wrong?1) assume the smallest possible mistake 2) if you cant figure out what the mistake was, assume it was something out of your control 3) realise most of the reason you get rejected has nothing to do with you | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach; this always worked for me 85% of the timeHave you tried this? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 02:50 PM |
| -1 | Never worry about how many IG followers she hasOr how about you just don't generalize women based on how many IG followers they have? | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Never worry about how many IG followers she hasYou advise people to seek out a person with you can have FUN (or so I understand), I advise them to seek a person with you can have a fulfilling or meaningful relationship. Do you understand a difference between my advice and yours? First of all, not everybody wants a fulfilling or meaningful relationship. Sometimes people just want to fuck and have fun. Stop trying to push your morals on people. Second, it is impossible to have a fulfilling or meaningful relationship if you cannot have fun with… | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Why dont women approach men but can approach taken or super attractive men?Women are generally more afraid of rejection and transgressing boundaries, which is why they approach less. This has nothing to do with Tinder or Snapchat, this has been human nature for centuries. In most societies, even super traditional ones, the man has to approach and initiate - it was always seen as unbecoming for a woman to chase a man. In fact, nowadays women chase more than ever. You should be happy that men approach. That means men have the power - they can walk up to whomever they wan… | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Never worry about how many IG followers she hasWhen you first meet a woman, there is no "fulfilling or meaningful" relationship. You are literally talking to a stranger, and if you are not enjoying the interaction you should walk away. If she is ignoring you or not talking to you, there is no "relationship" to speak of, so you should leave. Fulfilling and meaningful relationships are for when she has emotionally invested in you and you are actually dating and stuff. In any event, you completely missed my point. When you approach a woman you … | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 07:46 PM |
| 6 | Never worry about how many IG followers she haswhat? | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionI think I've spoken to you before. You are doing something wrong. You need to figure out what that is. I have no idea what is wrong, but my guess is that you are probably showing your desperation and neediness. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 05:00 PM |
| 2 | My hookup broke down in front of me? Knew him for 4 daysJust be honest with him. "Dude, that's way too much emotions for knowing somebody for 4 days. I am not your therapist and I didn't sign up for this shit." He either gets the hint or he learns a lesson for the future. I can't think of anything better to do than to be completely honest. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionOk then why are you on this subreddit? | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 04:34 PM |
| 39 | Never worry about how many IG followers she hasHow about this: never worry about anything about her, ever. Don't worry about how tall she is, how hot she is, how rich she is, who her last boyfriend was, etc... The only thing you should be thinking about is how much fun you are having when you interact with her. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionI just went through your post history and its mostly you whining about women on anti feminist subreddits. And let me guess, you are not approaching women, amirite? | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionIm 100% a man, and you need to 100% find a better use of your time than spending all day on the anti feminist subreddit and seething at women. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 04:10 AM |
| 2 | How do you all make girls stop walking and pay attention to you when cold approaching?You need to get in their face with energy and enthusiasm. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 04:06 AM |
| 0 | How does a deformed guy even attempt to date?If that's what they meant they can say that. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionYou need therapy that is deeper than an internet message board for getting laid. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionIf youre not approaching women how do you know that only uber chads get girls? | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionits not their fault they alone No it actually is their fault. Most of them have terrible, self-limiting beliefs and false and weird attitudes towards women. A lot of them aren't even that ugly - their difficulties with women are mostly in their head. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:47 PM |
| 12 | The power and importance of the word "No"Ok find me the original then. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/22 07:53 PM |
| 2 | How does a deformed guy even attempt to date?Maybe your approaches failed because you arent confident because you think you look ugly? Have you considered that? | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 06:53 PM |
| 4 | How does a deformed guy even attempt to date?Ok then how do you know approaching strangers doesn't work if you arent good looking if you are not approaching. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionProbably. If not somebody should start one. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 06:46 PM |
| -1 | How does a deformed guy even attempt to date?How many women have you approached in the last month? | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 06:22 PM |
| -4 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionI actually give guys a free consult but only if they are nice. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionWhen you approach a woman you dont know with the intention of starting a relationship | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionPlease just answer the question and dont play semantic games | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | How does a deformed guy even attempt to date?People usually dont get threatened for approaching unless they do so in a very threatening or aggressive way. Second, how are you deformed? | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | How does a deformed guy even attempt to date?This is not true. Approaching strangers works. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionNobody proved your point. Your point is wrong, but even if it were right, why does it matter? | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionHow many women are you approaching a week? | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 05:33 PM |
| 7 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionWhat does this have to do with my post? Stop looking for reasons to hate women. Its pathetic. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionIf you only think uber chads get girls then you should just give up on seduction and stay home and play video games and stop mucking up this place with your whiny negativity. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 05:16 PM |
| -4 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionWho cares if women are mean and jaded? That shouldn't affect your behavior. Sitting around whining and crying that women are mean is a waste of time and loser behavior. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 03:47 PM |
| 10 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionWhat on earth are you talking about? | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 02:36 PM |
| 61 | The power and importance of the word "No"No. Wrong. If they are "being natural" most guys would just keep saying yes and do whatever the woman wants. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/22 02:29 PM |
| 10 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionThanks for making my case for me. These type of negative generalizations is exactly what ruins mens' game. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Whats the ioi (indicators of interest) girls gave ?Don't worry about IOIs. You should approach no matter what the girl is or is not doing. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 01:33 PM |
| -3 | NEVER PAY A COACHOP has no idea what he is talking about. I am a coach and I have tons of happy clients that keep coming back. Also, OP's advice sucks. I got into an idiotic argument with him where he was trying to say a man shouldn't approach women and instead wait around for women to approach him. That, like, isn't going to work bro. LOL | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Approaching a girl checklist: Did I miss anything?Having a checklist is not going to be helpful. The human mind can only keep a few pieces of information in working memory at one time, so trying to memorize a long list every time you approach is impossible. Just work on one thing at a time, and focus on having fun. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 01:12 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to someone who told that my pickup line was bad?It doesn't matter if OP is Chad or not, he still needs to act like Chad. Being ugly doesn't entitle you to start acting like a little bitch on top of it. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 0 | How to respond to someone who told that my pickup line was bad?This is irrelevant..she was turned off by it..that's what matters..how she feels. No. Wrong. A man has no duty to cater to a woman's every whim. Again, if he actually did something wrong, he should apologize and backtrack. But if she is mad at him because he ate a slice of pizza or ate a green shirt, that's her fucking problem, not his. A corny pickup line is not a "mistake." He didn't do anything wrong. Maybe you live in a different culture than me. If you act and think like that in a liberal p… | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to someone who told that my pickup line was bad?That pickup line was not a "mistake." The woman trying to make him feel bad for saying it is bullying him, and it is weak to cave to a bully. You are teaching him to be a subservient bitch with no spine or integrity. You are either a man who gets treated like shit, or a woman who treats men like shit. Either way, you are wrong. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 03:58 PM |
| -1 | Mixed signals.No the fact that you keep relentlessly chasing her even though she keeps saying no and the fact that she knows she can make you come back with one text makes you a simp. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Mixed signals.Theres no "mixed signals." Shes not interested. Women often use text to get attention and to know they have options. But unless the guy is a challenge they do not get excited and chase. She texted you to confirm you were still a little bitch who would chase her, and you confirmed you were, so she got what she wanted. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 03:32 PM |
| 0 | How to respond to someone who told that my pickup line was bad?Why would a man backtrack here? He did nothing wrong. Apologizing and backtracking just because the girl told him to is weak behavior and shows a lack of self confidence and frame. If he had actually done something wrong it would be a different story, but he did nothing wrong here. Also I didnt equal being a bitch with being female, you did. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to someone who told that my pickup line was bad?Say "im sorry you didnt like it, I thought it was a good line." Dont get sucked into her frame and accept the line was shitty. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 08:16 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to someone who told that my pickup line was bad?No backing down like this makes you look like a bitch | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 08:15 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I look good. I work out and dress well. I look young for my age but tney know how old I am. I make good money but thats a non factor because I dont tell girls about that part of my life. I meet them everywhere but mostly bars and clubs. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 03:06 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I'm 38 I bang 21, 22, 23 year olds all the time. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 12:32 AM |
| 0 | gym attraction, girls with headphones on.Ok dude. You can stand around waiting for women to approach you, and I will go make shit happen for myself. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 03:53 AM |
| 0 | gym attraction, girls with headphones on.I never said I fail at this. How does saying "you should approach women" instead of waiting around for them choosing failure? | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 09:38 PM |
| 9 | Should I keep cold approaching or give it up?Lose weight and learn how to cold approach correctly. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 07:01 PM |
| 0 | gym attraction, girls with headphones on.No you dont stand around with a stupid smile on your face hoping women will approach you. Men need to approach. Women dont approach. If you want to sit around waiting for women to approach, you are wasting your life. And your fantasy world where beautiful women approach men does not exist. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What is the meanig of stud?Whats the point of asking questions like this? | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | gym attraction, girls with headphones on.Good for you, but your experience is atypical and completely unhelpful to most guys here. Also what the fuck does it mean to "be an open door"? Sitting around wishing things happen to you is a losing strategy in life. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Social media/ technology and its part in making it harder for the average man to get interest from women.Or you can stop focus on having fun instead of comparing yourself to other guys. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 03:33 PM |
| 0 | gym attraction, girls with headphones on.Women sometimes approach men but it is rare. Usually they approach only if they are drunk, desperate or the guy is really hot. Most women dont approach men. If you sit around hoping women will approach you, you will be waiting a long time. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 02:15 PM |
| -1 | How does one attract a "baddie" type?You do not change your game or your behavior to "match" the kind of woman you want. Just be you and approach confidently. You have on idea what those women "want" so playing some kind of character will inevitably fail. Sometimes those "baddies" secretly want a white guy. You don't know. But calling them "baddies" is already putting you at a disadvantage because you are putting them on a pedestal and acting like they are something special. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Youre staring like a creep. Why are you not approaching? | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 05:17 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Did you agree that you would be exclusive with her? If not, what is there to "confront" her about. If this girl is making you too needy, you should probably take a break from her before you embarass yourself any more. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | He’s so beautiful i wanna cryWhat does "throw him off" mean? Just fucking do it. I compliment women all the time. If you are too scared to compliment him, how are you going to ever have a relationship with him? Dont be scared. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 04:29 PM |
| 8 | Social media/ technology and its part in making it harder for the average man to get interest from women.Who gives a shit about any of that? How does any of that affect you? | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 3 | How do I get girls to approach me first so I don’t get rejected?Stop being a wuss. Just go approach. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 37 | Social media/ technology and its part in making it harder for the average man to get interest from women.First, learn to use paragraphs. Second, "technology is making it hard" is loser mentality. She doesn't need validation for 1000 guys, she just needs one attractive guy who knows what the fuck he is doing. Be that guy and stop worrying about "society." You are comparing yourself to other men and you are killing yourself. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | He’s so beautiful i wanna cryWalk up to him and compliment him on something and then just move on. The less expectations and pressure, the better. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 03:20 PM |
| 6 | Speed dating worth it?You are going girl crazy. Take some time off of thinking about women. Your desperation is going to make you fail at everything, including speed dating. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 01:55 PM |
| 3 | gym attraction, girls with headphones on.Are you that much of an insecure twat that you randomly write an insulting, douchey comment to a random guy on the internet. A comment, btw, that has nothing to do with what I wrote? | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 03:15 AM |
| 2 | gym attraction, girls with headphones on.JFL at anyone saying "yOuRe ThE MaN..." yeah..... so that means she's unable to say so much as a single word to you if she's interested...? Don't think so. We aren't mind readers. Sorry bro, but women do not approach men. They just don't. It's the man's job. I'm sorry, but that's the way the world is. You can cry about it, or just accept it. That said, I generally don't approach women at the gym unless they make it extremely clear they want to be approached, and that didn't happen here. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 10:10 PM |
| 247 | What can we learn from Pete Davidson?This is the right answer. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Girl with BF but shows interest, dump her and make her miss me or keep escalating?Why are you wasting your time texting a woman that lives far away from you that has a boyfriend? Why can't you find somebody in your hometown? My advice stands. Either arrange to meet her in person or move on. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 06:29 PM |
| 7 | Girl with BF but shows interest, dump her and make her miss me or keep escalating?Why are you texting girls and not meeting them in person?? She is using you for attention. Invite her to meet in person. If she says no, next her. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 05:43 PM |
| 3 | When is the perfect time to ask for their name?As soon as possible. Within the first few minutes, if possible. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with the shit test revolving around only wanting to hook up with her?Ok | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with the shit test revolving around only wanting to hook up with her?You didn't answer the question. Have you actually used any of these lines? | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Dealing with the shit test revolving around only wanting to hook up with her?Have you actually used any of these lines? Be honest. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | What to do in a public setting when a female stranger responds to your smile by showing interest in you? Please share recommendations for this, and other public setting contexts where a female shows interest. Thanks!Why post this? There are a million articles on how to approach. Go read them. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 12:50 PM |
| 2 | [Question] How to deal with "White Knights"?Ask for her number | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Public Service Announcement: Those girls you are afraid of approach are usually more insecure than you!I think I already did. Let me know if you cant see it. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This a stupid question. "Im a rapist and serial killer." End of thread. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 08:59 PM |
| 79 | [Question] How to deal with "White Knights"?This is kind of correct but buying him a drink and supplicating to him is the wrong move. You act nice, but not like you are trying to win his approval. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 08:02 PM |
| 13 | [Question] How to deal with "White Knights"?No. This is wrong. "Shrugging him off" and being a dick just makes you look like an insecure douche. You need to just be nice to the guy and show you aren't an insecure douche. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 08:02 PM |
| 270 | [Question] How to deal with "White Knights"?In retrospect, I should've possibly responded by saying, "Yes, you." No, wrong. If the guy is her friend, she will usually choose him over you unless she has really deeply emotionally invested in you, which she hasn't. You just be nice to guy. Shake his hand. Introduce yourself. Show you're not a creep. If he continues to be an asshole after you show you are a nice guy just tell her "hey, I don't think your friend likes me so I'm gonna leave, let me get your Instagram first though." | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 08:01 PM |
| -2 | Public Service Announcement: Those girls you are afraid of approach are usually more insecure than you!Women are not "insecure, fickle people." They are just different than men. You need to accept that. And if you can't, then you need to become gay and fuck guys. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 07:59 PM |
| 7 | Public Service Announcement: Those girls you are afraid of approach are usually more insecure than you!I can' tell you have never approached a woman. I have approached thousands of women, some with their boyfriends there, and nothing has ever happened to me. This is just your fear making excuses. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 07:57 PM |
| 5 | Public Service Announcement: Those girls you are afraid of approach are usually more insecure than you!Most women I have spoken to do not like being pursued, especially by guys they do not know. Women often like the chase themselves, but they just need to feel comfortable chasing the guy. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 06:09 PM |
| 65 | Public Service Announcement: Those girls you are afraid of approach are usually more insecure than you!You got me. I am lying. You should never approach any girls, especially hot ones. Leave them all to me. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Public Service Announcement: Those girls you are afraid of approach are usually more insecure than you!Sorry I dont understand internet nerd language. What are you trying to say? | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 06:02 PM |
| 41 | Public Service Announcement: Those girls you are afraid of approach are usually more insecure than you!Thanks. This sub is full of incels who dont actually approach women but do go online and write negative shit about them all day. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "how old are you?"You people are fucking weird THEN FUCKING LEAVE THIS SUBREDDIT. You are the weird one if you are hanging around a bunch of people you hate and disrespect just so you can make shitty comments. Go back to your Coi LeRay subreddit and talk about whatever stupid shit you enjoy,. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 05:09 PM |
| -14 | Public Service Announcement: Those girls you are afraid of approach are usually more insecure than you!What the fuck are you talking about? | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 04:56 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Youre pushing too hard. Fall back. If she wants to hang shell let you know. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 11:47 PM |
| 2 | We’re all gonna make it bros. Got my first date tomorrow, please advise.I have an article on my site on what to do on a date. Go read it. Woujo.com | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 11:46 PM |
| 5 | Proper way to deal with flake on 4th date?Go silent. If the flaking wasnt enough the shitty message is enough to dismiss her.. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 11:45 PM |
| 2 | TBH getting pussy isn't that difficult despite what i thought beforeYes and I am very good. I have my own blog: woujo.com. i just think this guy's advice is not helpful. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 09:03 PM |
| 5 | TBH getting pussy isn't that difficult despite what i thought beforeI am pretty confident that "you should want pussy more" is not helping anybody, but if it helped you, congratulations. I am generally just very annoyed by guys that get some success and then act like it is easy for everyone. It is not. For most guys, getting good with women is hard work. Once you get good it is easy, but it is hard to get good. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 09:00 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Easy: make yourself challenging. Here's an example: Me: What's your sign? Her: Gemini Me: Oh, I'm an Aries, we're not compatible. By saying "we aren't compatible" I am introducing the idea of her and me as an "item," possibly in a sexual way. At the same time, however, I make myself a challenge, like I am the prize. It changes the power dynamic in the interaction and makes her the chaser. It sounds stupid, but it works. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 08:57 PM |
| -1 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightWhat's the evidence of that? Also, that still is not proof that all or most girls that go to festivals are full of STIs. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightBRO YOU NEVER PROVED THAT THESE GIRLS ARE FUCKING GUYS THEY JUST MET. You said "festival girls are full of STIs." HOW THE FUCK DO YOU KNOW THAT? I know lots of festival girls, and most of them don't go to festivals to fuck guys. They go to wear crazy outfits, hang out with their friends, and dance. The assumption that they are all full of STIs is stupid and sexist. I can guarantee you've never actually fucked a girl at a music festival so the question still stands: how do you know festival girls… | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "how old are you?"If seduction people are weird why are you here? Go back to the cooking or bible subreddit or whatever. A shit test is when a woman challenges you to see how confident you are. They are real and if you respond wrong, they lose attraction. I am not saying shit tests dont exist, i am saying that not everything is a shit test. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 08:02 PM |
| 0 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightAnd you're a hateful moron. Stay home and read your Bible while the rest of us party and have sex. I know sex is a rare thing to you, but a lot of people know how to have safe sex and not get STIs. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 05:47 PM |
| -1 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightOh ok so you are saying YOU have STIs. Got it. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 05:30 PM |
| 17 | TBH getting pussy isn't that difficult despite what i thought beforeGood for you. And Im sharing that its not really helpful to other people. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:39 PM |
| -4 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightOk how do you know these festival girls are sleeping around? Are you fucking all of them? Did you do a survey? Again this is a stupid generalization. Im making a bigger point here, which is that most dudes suck with women because their brain is clouded with stupid, hateful generalizations. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:38 PM |
| 22 | TBH getting pussy isn't that difficult despite what i thought beforeYeah, as everybody else here has made clear, your advice sucks. Thanks for trying tho. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:22 PM |
| 0 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightIm fine, you're the one acting like a butthurt loser who hates women. You didn't answer my question: How do you know all these chicks have STIs? Did you talk to their doctors? | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Over the course of 9 hours, I managed to send 6 messages before she ghosted me. Yeah you were too needy. Send less messages than them. Also why the fuck were you doing this texting shit? You need to meet in person. Stop trying to be their text buddy. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:08 PM |
| 13 | TBH getting pussy isn't that difficult despite what i thought before*proceeds to list a bunch of things that are difficult to do What, exactly, did he list that is "difficult" to do? And aren't these things you should be doing anyway? | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:05 PM |
| 39 | TBH getting pussy isn't that difficult despite what i thought beforeTBH getting pussy isn't that difficult I fucking hate when people say this. Everything is hard until you get good at it. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightDude, if you already made out with her, it would be rude if you DIDN'T message her. Unless she somehow made clear she didn't want to be contacted. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:04 PM |
| 67 | How to respond to "how old are you?"Just say your fucking age. Not everything is a shit test. Also, nothing looks more pathetic than if you look like you are trying to hide your age. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 03:54 PM |
| 8 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightThat's a stupid, hateful generalization. I wish the mods would delete stupid posts like this. How the fuck do you know how many girls at festivals have STIs? Did you test them all? Did you see some kind of study? Or are you just a pathetic loser who is mad they won't fuck him? | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Rant: I don't see the point of doing night gameYou just said a lot of nothing. If you actually were as successful as you claim, you wouldn't have such a shitty, negative attitude about nightgame. I have actually done more approaches than you and had more success, and I can tell you that not everybody in nightgame settings are stupid degenerates. You are just being a negative nancy. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Rant: I don't see the point of doing night gameFirst, you are the one saying "mostly" so the burden is on you to provide "the numbers." The failure of you and your friends to keep a relationship going doesnt prove anything. Second if you think nightgame is just for shitty people why are you in this subreddit? Go to a Christian subreddit or something and leave us degenerates alone. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 10:20 AM |
| 8 | Rant: I don't see the point of doing night gameMostly it leads to just meaningless sex with chicks who won’t even remember shit. It's only meaningless sex if you let it become that. I have met lots of women are night that I have had real, honest relationships with. I am still in touch with women I fucked on the first night ten years ago. Yes, a lot of women who go out and fuck random guys are not going to be able to sustain a healthy relationship, but a lot of them can. You are just stereotyping a gigantic group of people to make yourself be… | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Rant: I don't see the point of doing night gameWhat's the point of this kind of post? If you don't like doing nightgame, don't do it. I always feel like posts like this are you fishing for excuses to give up. Most of the stuff you wrote about nightgame is not necessary. You don't need to drink, you don't need to do drugs, you don't have to go to expensive places, and you can wear earplugs. So those are just excuses. Also, you should not use the existence of other creepy guys as an excuse to not approach women. The fact that other guys are cr… | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 12:50 AM |
| 6 | Seducing women with a disability/deformation and a perspective on why looks truly don't matter.This was a great read. I'm gonna save this and send it to the next guy who makes excuses because he feels he is not attractive enough. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What are some more Natural ways to break the ice like this one;Ok you didn't respond which I take to mean that no, you haven't actually approached any women and you are just talking out your ass. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 10:30 PM |
| 2 | How do I convince my father to pay for my plastic surgery?Op send me a picture of your face and I will tell you if you need plastic surgery or not. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I tend to be all over them too much by telling them good morning and how are you doing and shit like that. Then don't do that. Text them one interesting thing every 2 days and let that be it. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Ghosted after the 4th date, so why am i listening To sad song right now ? She dont owe me anything. Rejection always hurts, even when it is irrational. I have dumped girls and then felt bad when I saw them with other guys on social media. The best thing to do here is try to figure out what you did wrong (hint: you probably acted needy and not challenging enough) and embark on a self-improvement program. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | What are some more Natural ways to break the ice like this one;Have you actually approached any women or is this just what you think would happen? Because you are completely wrong. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 06:13 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with close female friends who you find out are warning women against youFirst, these women aren't your friends. Second, you should confront them, preferably in a group setting. Don't act mad or butthurt. Say it in an almost jokey way, like "what were you saying to that girl??" | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | What are some more Natural ways to break the ice like this one;You don't need little "tricks" to start conversations. Just introduce yourself. Say "Hi, I'm X." Or compliment them. Don't be scared. These disingenuous "indirect" approaches are for losers. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 02:22 AM |
| 3 | On being nervous; this sub loves to talk about importance of never feeling nervous, but industry giants like Mark Manson and Mystery will openly admit to being nervous during approaches. So which is it?Who said never be nervous? People are saying you cant show anxiety; you can feel however you want. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?Yes, it is normal to feel guilty for wanting women. A lot of guys feel this way. Our society portrays men who like to get laid as creepy predators or manipulative liars. Another reason men feel this way is because our society portrays "players" as emotionally fucked up assholes who just use women for sex and dump them. THAT is wrong because you are lying and also because you are doing something that is not fun. If you just see women as a body to put your dick in, you are missing most of the fun … | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 12:49 AM |
| 5 | What’s wrong with people on the sub?I posted a thread on this earlier and you can go back and read it again. But you have already read it and you are doing too much reading, which is increasing your anxiety. At this point going out and saying anything is better than staying on this subreddit and leaving rude, shitty comments. It doesnt take a month to learn how to approach a woman. You know how to do it. Just go fucking do it you pussy. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 04:38 PM |
| 4 | What’s wrong with people on the sub?The advice is to get off this subreddit and actually try approaching a woman. Also stop posting negative, shitty comments. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 03:45 PM |
| 10 | What’s wrong with people on the sub?The lambofdeth is a perfect example of a negative, shitty commenter that comes and pollutes every thread with his hateful negativity yet won't actually approach a single woman. You should be banned from this subreddit and go get therapy. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 03:16 PM |
| 7 | What’s wrong with people on the sub?I agree with OP. I think that reddit used to have some incel subreddits and after those subreddits got banned all those losers came here. Another thing is that seduction/gaming subreddits are almost always douchey and full of insults and sad, pathetic posts. Women make men emotional and a lot of men come to these places to vent their negative emotions rather than improve themselves. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Will this opener work ?You dont come on the internet and ask if an opener will work. You just need to try it. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 11:35 PM |
| 9 | Put Yourself First. Why Being an Asshole is a Good Thing.I don't disagree with the content of this post, but I do disagree with the terminology. A man who puts himself first and does not do shit for women they do not deserve is not an asshole, and you should not think of yourself as one or let a woman call you that. Part of the betafication of men is letting women call them "assholes" for perfectly reasonable behavior. If a woman calls you an asshole or not taking her on vacation or committing to her, your answer should be "I'm not an asshole." In fac… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/22 04:30 AM |
| 8 | Chasing StacyGreat post. “But wait, Uncle Vaz,” you say, “Isn’t the point of all this self-improvement to GET Stacy?” No, and if you thought so, go punch yourself in the dick 10 times. The point of self-improvement is so that you can live the life you want and not be some bloated, depressed, unhappy loser. Great point. I sometimes tell my clients: the purpose of my advice isn't to help you get more pussy. Sometimes it will cause you to get LESS pussy because it will force you to eject bitches from your life … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/22 06:35 PM |
| 4 | How to turn matches into dates?The key with any kind of texting, including with Tinder, is to try to take the conversation somewhere deep and interesting so its stands out from her other conversations. Try to find something in her profile that is unique or interesting, and then somehow connect that with your own life. For example, if there is a picture of her surfing say something like "oh I love to surf, I have been doing it since I was 12." The more unique and interesting, the better. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 03:39 PM |
| 4 | What should I reply?"You should say 'yes'" | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Here's a whole mess of relevant quotes from Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip Show. [Repost]I never said it couldn't happen, but its not something you can expect with every woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No a lot of white women will fuck ordinary, corny black guys because in their stupid minds black = interesting, transgressive, fun. When in reality black people are just like the rest of us cornballs. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]My guess is you live in a small town or tier 2 city because liberal girls in big cities will fuck black guys. I am not black and I havent thought about this question deeply enough but my guess is that your best bet as a black man is to dress in a preppy/business casual way, like Jay Z late in his career. You look clean cut, but you technically are still hard enough to appeal to the hip hop crowd. That way you appeal to whute girls but you dont look too corny or weak for black girls. But I need m… | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 06:17 AM |
| -1 | Here's a whole mess of relevant quotes from Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip Show. [Repost]Ok so you admit that white girls aren't the easiest girls to get, and you also haven't had any of these magical relationships where you cheat on your girl all the time and she just accepts it. That's all I needed to know. Conversation over. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/22 03:58 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]1- don’t try to date outside your race as much. They don’t like you like that I don't want to tell a black person what it's like to be black, but you really shouldn't think like that unless you are in a really racist area. Tons of women want black dick, they often just need to hide it because of social stigma. 2- get rid of any alternative/creative/ hippy/hipster etc style you have if you are black. Black girls are not into it and those who are prefer White Guys This isn't really game, but more … | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I completely disagree with this post. OP: what should you, as a black man, do differently than a white guy? Serious question. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Their experience is gonna be different, but what they are supposed to do is the same. There is no different game for ugly guys. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 01:13 AM |
| -5 | The craziest thing that has happened since I got a gfI think by now everyone knows it takes girls to get girls. Uh, no. You can get laid without having any girls. It helps if other girls like you, but its not required. In the same way it takes money to make money. Also no. I’m 24 and have been dating my first gf for almost a year now. Guy gets his 1st girlfriend and now thinks he has discovered the secrets of the universe. The craziest part is the the looks you get from other girls. So what? What are you gonna do with looks? What is the point of t… | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How introverts flirt?There is no such thing as an introvert. Stop crippling yourself with these self-imposed labels. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 01:10 AM |
| -1 | Here's a whole mess of relevant quotes from Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip Show. [Repost]i don't comment on men's looks and their ability to get pussy. I'm sorry you are so insecure about your sexuality, so let me help you out. Fat ugly black guys usually have trouble getting laid unless they have something else really compelling about them. additionally, women have ALWAYS shared high value men... go back afa you want in history to attain that fact. "women would rather share an alpha than have a dutiful, faithful beta." AWALT too. Have you ever been in a relationship with a woman wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/22 01:08 AM |
| 6 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?Where else do you think people are getting laid? | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 11:28 PM |
| 24 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?Usually the whole night. And its not just talking - it's dancing, going to different places, having adventures, etc.. It's practically impossible to talk to one person for 6 hours straight. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?It seems like it's either a myth or it only happens if the girl is extremely drunk and/or the guy is extremely hot. It happens all the time. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 11:27 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Nice job but you need to block your ex completely on all social media platforms. Healing cannot start until you go full no contact. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?Your use of term “the game“ is curious, seeing how that word describes something very specific. Just to be clear, my main gripes are your claims that: 1) there’s only one type of ‘game’; 2) ”Ugly guys” and “hot guys” both use this single method of ‘game’. This couldn’t be farther from the truth and I think your confusion lies in not knowing what Game really is… When I say the "game" I mean "what you are supposed to do." It's a pretty fucking simple concept. In any case, good “game” should be eff… | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 05:28 PM |
| -1 | Here's a whole mess of relevant quotes from Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip Show. [Repost]his point was, AWALT, and they can't help themselves It is true that All Women Are Like That. But like what? If he was trying to say that all women are ok with being cheated on, then no, he's wrong. "look sweetie... we've gone on enough dates; it's time to fuck or i'm moving on. i'm not getting anything from this situation, and you know i want to fuck." Saying shit like that doesn't work because you cannot negotiate desire. She either wants to fuck you or she doesn't. And if she doesn't, giving … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/22 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?Wrong wrong wrong. You have to act the same way no matter what you look like. Worrying about whether the woman thinks you are creepy is going to cause paralysis by analysis. You need to just be confident and push ahead. Also creepiness is an objective thing, not a woman's subjective interpretation. Creepiness is emotional overinvestment that is overbearing. If you are not emotionally overinvested and she acts like you are creepy, that is her problem, not yours. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 12:56 PM |
| -1 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?Look. What a hot guy and an ugly guy have to do is the same. Of course it is harder for an ugly guy to do that because they have less self esteem, but at the end of the day the game is still the same. A lot of ugly guys come onto message boards like this looking for a secret "cheat code" for ugly guys. They will ask shit like "what should I say if Im short?" The answer is nothing. The rules are not different. You need to be confident, transgressive, fun, etc if you are ugly too. You will just ha… | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?Like what | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 12:14 PM |
| 8 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?Look, your friend's game just sucks. A lot of good looking guys get laid with shitty game. He would get laid even more if he had good game. But there is no secret "ugly guy game" that only works for ugly guys. Being less confident and aggressive because you think you are ugly just makes you do worse. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 04:38 AM |
| 5 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?I'm sorry dude, there is no secret "ugly guy" game. IF you're ugly, you're fucked. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 04:37 AM |
| 6 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?This is a horrible mindset because it implies there is a different "game" for hot and ugly guys. There isn't. The game is all the same, and if you start censorsing yourself because you think you are ugly, you are shooting yourself in the foot. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 01:52 AM |
| 18 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?No girls like being teased and challenged, but in a fun, lighthearted way, not in a serious, insulting way. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 01:51 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You need to watch a video of how to put one on. Try doing it a few times on your own. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 09:10 PM |
| 12 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?You should have told bitch shield to leave, saying "sorry, we are on a date." I normally dont advocate that, but you never, ever, ever let a third party into your date for more than 5 minutes and you never let a third party lead your date. Period. If your date is unhappy with bitch shield leaving, then you were not on a date. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 09:03 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]This is such a good post. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 03:09 PM |
| 18 | Here's a whole mess of relevant quotes from Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip Show. [Repost]I am a huge fan of Patrice O'neal and the Black Philip show and I quote him all the time. Some of his advice, however, is wrong. Most of the girls he smashed were really low self-esteem ghetto trash so he could get away with shit you cannot get away with other girls. He even admitted he could never get a white girl. A lot of girls will not be ok with you cheating if they want an exclusive relationship, so some of these quotes are not valid. But generally, his content and philosophy is good. Just… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/22 04:04 AM |
| 4 | I screw it with girls i find interesting and rock with girls i don't care about. Is there some trick to reverse this?You act normal with girls you don't care about and censor yourself around women you like. Also you don't challenge women you like. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 03:56 AM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Ok then stop texting her. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Any regular weed smokers here?You should not need to rely on a drug. Your raw state should be good enough. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | How to sexualize the conversationI'm trying to explain relationships wrong between TWO people, not just how women work. I have been in a lot of relationships between TWO people, and it generally goes like this: - If the man indicates he wants a sexual/romantic relationship, he either gets it or he doesn't get it based on the woman's interest. - if the man never indicates he wants a sexual/romantic relationship, he never gets it because the woman assumes he just wants to be a friend. This is not that hard, and I am not seeing wh… | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How to sexualize the conversationDon't do the flowers and fancy restaurant. Go to a nice coffee shop and have a tea or something. The flowers and fancy restaurant put too much pressure on her. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | How to sexualize the conversationWomen friendzone men for different reasons. Sometimes the man shows interest and the woman is not interested but still wants him around, so she lets him into her bubble as a "friend." This is what you are talking about. Sometimes a woman might have been interested, but the man presented himself in a platonic way, so she assumed he really wanted just wanted to be her friend. Then later when the guy shows sexual interest she is shocked and appalled. This is the scenario I am trying to prevent. The… | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 02:33 PM |
| -1 | How do you filter girls?Spend your energy on those who are showing interest. This is actually terrible advice. First, a lot of women do not clearly show interest when they first meet a guy. Women often hide their sexuality and interest for a lot of reasons, but if they are talking to you and engaging with you, that means they are interested. Second, women are challenging, and they will shit test you to see if your frame is strong. If you only talked to women who "show interest" then you would bail every time a woman ac… | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:56 AM |
| 5 | How to sexualize the conversationOk then tell us how a man should show sexual interest. Saying "nu uh" is not helpful. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:33 AM |
| 3 | How to sexualize the conversationYou don't have to do anything besides maybe actually verbalize interest at some point. Uh.... That's literally exactly what this article is saying. I am just sayin that when you verbalize interest you do it in a challenging way so the woman does not feel pressured and like she has an out. What exactly do you disagree with here? It's generally pretty obvious though. Uh, it's actually not. Most guys read comments by women like you and interpret that as "don't show any sexual interest at all until … | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:32 AM |
| 4 | How to sexualize the conversationThis needs to be more about men learning to read interest (or non interest) in women and being respectful. Yes, a man should try to read a woman's interest or non-interest. But that's not the point of this article. Also, a lot of time women don't telegraph their interest so if you only showed sexual interest to women who showed sexual interest in you first you would never show sexual interest to anybody. The friend zone is not real. I say this as someone whose experience has been that most male … | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:28 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You were gonna let some random person on the internet convince you that talking to girls in America is a waste of time? That's crazy. You should just do it. Women are the same everywhere. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:20 AM |
| 3 | How to sexualize the conversationThen what should men do to show sexual interest? Teach us. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 05:09 AM |
| 4 | How to sexualize the conversationThere has to be some indication that your intention is to have a sexual/romantic relationship or else the woman will friendzone you. Women complain all the time about their "friends" trying to fuck them so I am trying to prevent that here. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 05:08 AM |
| 6 | How to sexualize the conversationNone of what you wrote has anything to do with my post. My post is about how a man who is sexually attracted to a woman can express that interest without making her feel uncomfortable. I never said anything about manipulating women or coercing women so I have no fucking idea where you got that from. Also "get a prostitute" is not helpful advice. Prostitution is illegal, if you havent noticed. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 04:18 AM |
| 4 | How to sexualize the conversationOk tell us how we should do it then. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | How to sexualize the conversationWell if my advice doesnt make sense to you then dont use it. It works for me. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 10:43 PM |
| 4 | How to sexualize the conversationA lot, but that shouldn't matter. You should follow advice because it makes sense to you, not because some guy on the internet said it. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 10:21 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You gotta go places where people that share your interests hang out. Do you like to party? Go to bars and clubs. Do you like to play sports? Join an adult sports league. Do you like to do comedy or do some other kind of art? Go to a place where people are making that kind of art. And if you do not have any such interests, then find some. You need to have a fun, interesting life to attract women in the first place. Every social circle has an "alpha" that is kind of in charge - find that person an… | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 09:11 PM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]my natural tendency is to try and be the nice guy in order to get the cookie, OR overcompensating and being overly blunt or curt, almost angry with the girl I'm talking to. This sentence describes your issue, and it's good you figured out what your issue is. Instead of doing either of these things, stop worrying about what the other people in the interaction think about you and just focus on having fun. Are the others contributing to your fun? Great, they are in. If not, move on and find people … | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | How to sexualize the conversationYeah this isn't the whole story. I hate people that try to boil seduction down to just one thing. If it was this easy we would all be getting laid a lot easier. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I make the conversation sexier?If you've already started to become intimate, you don't need to "talk sexy." Just tell her she's hot periodically and have a fun, interesting conversation other than that. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 06:20 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]American girls love foreign guys but what is the point of reading or thinking about this? The rules arent different if you are in a different country. Just have fun and stick to the plan. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 04:47 PM |
| 8 | Should I stop sleeping with my hookup buddy if I’m starting to like him?Ask him what HE wants. If you enter the conversation with "I want..." he will reel back. Listen to what he wants and formulate your response. If he wants a serious relationship then great, tell him you want the same. If he doesn't, then think about whether you can accept what he wants. If you can't, tell him. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that only some men can handle casual sex with lots of women?Youre getting emotionally attached because you are new and feel like each woman is youe only shot. Once you start to feel abundance you won't get as attached. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 04:36 AM |
| 42 | I (20 M) never had sex... Need advice on having first time sex with a virgin girl?Take your time. The biggest mistake men make in sex is going for it too fast. Men get aroused much more quickly than women, so they jam their tongue down girls' throats and their fingers up girls' pussies way before the woman is ready. Don't even worry about penetration until her pussy is very wet and she is definitely ready to go. Also, you need to take the lead. Women like a man who is in charge and control. At the same time, however, be mindful of whether she is enjoying what you are doing. S… | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Liking a guy's/girls pic on social media. Any thoughts?Dont do it. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Best way to ask her out on a date?Wrong he needs to just ask her over text. There is nothing more needy than hanging out at the gym hoping he runs into her. You are overthinking it. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | How To Set Dating Goals That Actually Get You LaidAh yes, "throw shit at the wall and see what sticks" PUA tactics. PUA has existed for less than 20 years and nobody has completely figured it out. The best books on the subject (Mystery Method, The Game, Bang) still leave a lot of shit out. The best players still make tons of mistakes and blow great opportunities all the time. The only way you are going to get good with women is go out and try different shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/22 02:23 AM |
| 37 | My Time In SOF And Why Being Dangerous Drives Women CrazyNot just that, but "confidence" is basically the emotional state and body language of a man who knows he can win a physical confrontation. It sounds strange, but I tell my clients all the time that when you approach a woman in a bar, you need to talk to her like you are Mike Tyson talking to a guy he is about to fight. Obviously, you should not actually make the woman scared that you will commit violence against her, but the body language, and tonality of a confident man is the same as a guy who… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/22 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Dated a 10/10 and I fucked it. Anyone else have this experience? How’d u move on?You get over her by realizing that you cannot base your identity and happiness on other people. You are you and she is her. You just build your life, become more awesome, and you will eventually find better. Also, nobody is a 10/10. This is just your mind playing tricks on you because you are emotional. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 07:57 PM |
| 27 | Women coming to you?Women rarely approach guys unless she is exceptionally confident or crazy, no matter how hot the guy is. If you want to meet women, you need to approach them. "Women come to you" is only true in the sense that if you get an interaction going, women will chase you in the sense of trying to validate themselves to you. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Am I bad if I just want sex?You don't believe me because you don't know a lot of really hot girls. It's ok, I don't blame you. I can't tell you how many hot girls I have fucked who have told me "I just want a fuckbuddy but guys keep catching feelings." | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Should you ask this to a woman?No, it shows too much emotional investment. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 11:51 PM |
| -4 | Am I bad if I just want sex?No. Wrong. The hotter she is the more guys will catch feelings for her. "Casual sex" is actually really hard for hot girls to get because most guys are whiny bitches. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 11:28 PM |
| 4 | Am I bad if I just want sex?No as long as you are honest about it. But just wanting sex is lame. You dont need to want a relationship but you can at least want to have a fun time with her too. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meI wrote a post about how women are attracted to transgressive men. You should do a search for it and read it. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | The most attractive thing to women is a transcendent emotional experience.Where my confusion comes in, is where does attraction end and comfort begin? Or is it always a blend between the two. Because its not all about attraction You need both. Think of it this way: she wants to join your adventure, but she needs to feel accepted by you or else she is not part of your tribe and cannot enjoy your adventure. The way I think of it is like this: for her to be accepted into the adventure, she needs to contribute. You are like the CEO and she is the employee. She gets to sta… | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 03:29 AM |
| 18 | When it rains, it poursYou shouldn't be paying a lot on dates. Your dates should be less than $20. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 11:04 PM |
| 6 | Why does she keep texting me after I got rejected?Nope. Wrong. Shit testing is part of women's nature. Get used to it. If shes shit testing that means she likes you. Shit tests are good. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 07:24 AM |
| 27 | Why does she keep texting me after I got rejected?I don't think she really rejected him. I think the guy is too scared to confidently press the gas. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 02:24 AM |
| 30 | Why does she keep texting me after I got rejected?Sometimes girls text just for attention, but this girl might still be interested in meeting. "We don't have that here lol" is a shit test; you should have plowed through it and be like "let's meet at X place at Y time." Girls sometimes act wishy washy about meeting unless you confidently press the gas. Ask her out again, confidently and directly, and then if she says no ignore her texts. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 02:24 AM |
| 3 | All The Reasons Women Have SexDon't bother talking to this guy. He is mentally ill and seems to think that women should approach him but don't because there is something wrong with his face. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best US City for a single man?Any big city is good. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Does crying in front of your girlfriend/partner destroy sexual attraction?Its not about growing up. Women evolved to want emotioally strong men. If you destroy that illusion she will lose attraction. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Does crying in front of your girlfriend/partner destroy sexual attraction?Not necessarily. But you can ruin attraction if she starts to see you as fundamentally weak, unstable, and unable to handle the pressures of life. Women want their man to be an emotional rock, and if you appear as unable to be an emptional rock, she will look elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 03:05 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]The game is never completely over but at this point you need to lay back and let her come to you. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 01:46 AM |
| 14 | [deleted by user]As Jay-Z said, jealousy is a weak emotion. You need to get over that shit. You don't own anybody, including her. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 12:58 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Every single sentence of this post is wrong. Let me start from the beginning. I told This coworker of mine that I like her and she ended up telling me she likes me too! Sorry but this is not how it works. Words mean nothing to women. Emotions mean everything. Saying she likes you doesn't mean shit. Look at her actions. If she is not ACTING like she likes you, don't get so excited. Also, you shouldn't be telling women you like them either. Instead, you should reward her when she does something me… | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 12:56 AM |
| 2 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?That's the wrong mindset. If a girl likes you, she may want to fuck you. What are you gonna say, no? | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 03:33 PM |
| 3 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?Google a bunch of places, preferably close together, so if one sucks you have back up options and your night isnt ruined. Try to go the Facebook pages of the clubs to look at pictures to get a sense of the crowd. Try to go a pregame spot before (like a chill lounge or hotel bar) to warm up before you go to the main venue. Bring condoms and mints. Don't get drunk. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 11:24 PM |
| 2 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?It's amazing how the most negative comment always gets upvoted in this subreddit. Humans are adaptive and flexible, and people can learn to thrive and enjoy different situations. Saying "I don't like nightclubs" is a self-limiting belief and an excuse to not take action. Some nightclubs suck, some are fun. Depends on the music, the crowd, how busy it is, etc... This place is becoming an incel swamp. Also OP has never even been to a fucking nightclub so how would he know if he enjoys it or not? | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it easier to pull off a threesome if I’m the only guy drinking with 10 hot girls?First of all, forget a threesome unless the girls make clear they want to do it. Threesomes are initiated by women, not men. Second, in a situation like this you start off by acting friendly towards everybody and then you flirt with whatever woman naturally gravitates towards you. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 06:43 PM |
| 4 | Please criticize the beginning of this chapter in my book.Ok that's helpful. I was trying to tell a story of how I started in her frame and brought her into mine, but you are right - I didn't convey that. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Please criticize the beginning of this chapter in my book.Thanks for your feedback. Regarding your first comment, do you mean I should start the chapter by explaining the purpose of the chapter? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/22 05:21 PM |
| 8 | Please criticize the beginning of this chapter in my book.Im not against that. Do those women buy books? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/22 05:07 PM |
| 9 | Should I (20M) ask her (20F) out again?Words mean nothing to women. They care about feelings. Does she FEEL like you like her? If not, saying "i like you" doesn't mean shit to her. She needs to feel like you genuinely like her, and the way you do that is by rewarding her for the shit she does for you. But if shes not contributing to your emotional experience you cannot like her. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 07:34 AM |
| 2 | How to reply to corny message ?A lot of stupid answers in this thread, so let me ask you. How WOULD you feel? Just answer that. I would think it is cool. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like dating is completely pointless now?So many things going on in the world right now and the future seems so uncertain. Don't let the media bullshit freak you out. If you ignore the news and just go outside you will find that everything is just fine. You are letting the media bullshit plunge you into depression. Stop watching the news and start focusing on getting small wins. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 02:21 AM |
| 9 | Should I (20M) ask her (20F) out again?I had a plan the last time we saw each other that I'm gonna ask her to leave the group for a couple minutes to tell her that I like her, but I didn't. Don't do that. Telling a woman you like her means nothing to her. Just ask her out. So I texted her if she's still in town if she wants to grab a drink, but she went to the city (where we 15-20 of us all study So you asked her out and she said no? It's over for you bro. Your best bet is to pull back and ignore her for a while. so I asked her about… | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Is height really that important?Maybe if you actually approached some women and got off this fucking subreddit you might learn that you aren't as fragile as you thought you were. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Anyone just accepted that night game isn’t for you?I know some guys who are all about the night game. They’re sort of the salesman who’s good at securing a quick deal but ultimately full of shit. One guy I used to work with was all bravado and knew how to move but got him talking about anything deeper and it’s as if he had brain damage. Ok sounds like you are making excuses for sucking at nightgame; and your excuse is that all guys who nightclubs are pieces of shit. Yeah, no. If you don't want to do nightgame, then don't do it, but shit on oth… | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Achievement: I landed my first numberThat's nice, but one thing you will learn is that numbers mean very little, you need to build an emotional connection first. You should talk to the woman for at least 20 minutes before you get her number. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Is driving an hour to meet up with a woman doing to much?Why do you have to drive an hour? Do you live in the boonies? | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Is height really that important?Yes the key to success with women is often counter intuitive. If it were intuitive every guy would be awesome with women. How are you so sure Im wrong if you havent even tried approaching a woman once? | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Is height really that important?I knew it. You're not actually looking for advice. You just want a pity party or somebody to give a secret cheat code for ugly guys. Well, guess what. It doesn't exist. You have to just go approach women, and they aren't going to invite you in first. You either have the balls to do it or you don't. I'm not tall, I'm not super good looking, but I am good enough with women that I make a lot of money teaching men how to get laid. But you are rejecting my advice without even fucking trying it. I don… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Is height really that important?No you're not. You just want a pity party. The advice is to go out and approach women and stop looking for IOIs. If you're not going to do that get off this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Is height really that important?If you are too ugly to approach women why are you on this subreddit? | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Is height really that important?This is a lie. How are you gonna tell me what's a lie or not? I approach more than 20 women a week. You? 0. How are you supposed to know which women are interested? You have no way of knowing, which is why you have to approach them. I've already asked quite a few people...seriously and legitimately. People who I believed would give me a real answer.... So nobody said there is something wrong with your face yet you still think your face is the source of all your problems. I think you might need a… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 10:57 PM |
| -1 | Is height really that important?It doesn't matter whether he is really competent or not. It depends on if he feels competent, like he is on a fun adventure. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 10:38 PM |
| -3 | Is height really that important?If you were actually interested you could look it up yourself. I have found that people like you on the internet usually just find a way to dismiss the study after I post it. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reset buttonThere is nothing wrong with showing interest, but you must also be challenging at the same time. If a woman thinks that you are going to be dedicated to getting into her pants no matter what she says and does, you become less attractive and she starts to freak out about you. You need to convey the idea of "I am interested, but not yet sold." | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Is height really that important?In terms of physical appearance...what matters more than a face to women Height, musculutare, posture body language, confidence, looking healthy, looking like you can kick ass. Literally everything else. We've established that you have body dysmorphia and are using your face as an excuse to not take action. You need to get a real opinion from somebody you trust on your face, and you need to get off of this subreddit if you are not approaching women. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Is height really that important?Ok so it is clear. You are using your face as an excuse to not take action. There is nothing wrong with your face, but yet you have decided you look horrible, with nobody at all to tell you, and because of that you are not approaching women. And btw, most women never get IOIs before you approach. You just have to dive in. Here is your homework if you are ready to stop being a pussy: ask somebody you trust, a friend, a girl, ANYBODY, if there is something wrong with your face. See what they say. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 09:24 PM |
| -2 | Is height really that important?Nope, this statement is supported by numerous scientific studies as well as by tons of anecdotal evidence. A woman would rather fuck an aspiring rapper who lives in his mother's basement but is hustling and grinding than a rich real estate mogul that spends all day watching TV. Of course, there are tons of women that are prostitutes, gold diggers, or just strategically end up with the rich guy to take his money and screw him over, but in terms of pure sexual attraction women are more attracted t… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Is height really that important?...just bc its an insecurity doesn't mean it's not true, though...I'm not saying I'm grotesquely, hide the children ugly...but I objectively know what a good-looking or average person looks like, and it's better that me. HAS ANY OTHER PERSON OTHER THAN YOURSELF SAID THIS TO YOU? A FRIEND, A GIRL, YOUR MOTHER, ANYBODY?? I'm not expecting them to get in a single file line or any thing, but with my height, build and fashion sense I should get more than blue moon attention. That's how I know I'm ugl… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 09:11 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I made a post about this: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ra7c17/the\_best\_thing\_to\_say\_to\_a\_woman\_when\_you\_approach/ | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Is height really that important?To women your face is literally the most important physical aspect. You are completely wrong. It is clear you are suffering from some kind of body dysmorphia and now you've decided that faces are the most important thing to women. You are pinning all your insecurities on your face and it's just stupid. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Is height really that important?Ok let me rephrase this another way: Do you have any reason to think your face sucks other than your own insecurities? And no, you can't go out and just expect women to approach you and "give you attention." That's not how it works. Women are generally much more shy and insecure than men, so they rarely approach you or give you attention. As the man, you need to approach. I am almost certain this is all or mostly in your head. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Is height really that important?I am almost certain this is all in your head. Has a woman ever told you that your face sucks? | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Is height really that important?A good looking face is like a tiny, tiny part of womens' attraction. Unless you have some kind of deformity, you can fix your face by working out and eating better. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Is height really that important?They want a man they see as moving up in the world. Studies have shown that women prefer a competent man who is moving up over a man that has already made it. They want the adventure, not necessarily the prize. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Is height really that important?A few things to know: 1) Women generally prefer taller guys to shorter guys. 2) Women look at a lot of criteria, so if you are short you can make it up for it with other characteristics. 3) You should not be thinking about this shit AT ALL. You cannot really change your heights, and you should not be thinking about your weaknesses when you approach a woman. You should only be thinking about whether you are having fun. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Y’all men gotta start getting comfortable with the sheer amount of volume we have to work not only for sex but even more so for a relationship.I don't think you've actually read my work. I am saying the same thing - focus on your purpose, not women, etc... But I am also saying that getting women is not just about getting money, because that is a real thing that a lot of guys think, including guy sin this thread. You seem to just want to argue for no fucking reason other than to tell people how much pussy you get. Fuck off. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Y’all men gotta start getting comfortable with the sheer amount of volume we have to work not only for sex but even more so for a relationship.Yeah "stop caring" is exactly the kind of generic, trite, meaningless advice that doesnt actually help inexperienced guys with anxiety around women, which is why I do what I do. You don't seem to actually care about helping either, but rather bragging to strangers on the internet. So until you can actually improve guys' lives, I am not interested in what you have to say. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Just go and stop being a pussy. If you can afford to go to vacation to Hawaii you can afford this. Worst case scenario you approach some other chicks while you are there. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | I don't get the hype around Eastern European women.I can tell you have had sex with less than 5 women in your life. Anyway, I tried to help but some people are too dense to be helped. Bye. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 2 | I don't get the hype around Eastern European women.You didnt defeat shit. Anybody who generalizes women and assumes shit about them is making false assumptions because every person is different. You are never gonna get any pussy thinking like this. Im done with you and this dumbass conversation. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 07:13 PM |
| 2 | I don't get the hype around Eastern European women.Lol you cant talk sense to some people. Do what you want. Im sure it will work out great for you. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | I don't get the hype around Eastern European women.No its not cuz you cannot read women's minds. Guys like this always fail because they make a bunch of false assumptions about women they dont know shit about. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 06:39 PM |
| 2 | I don't get the hype around Eastern European women.No cuz once you start thinking like that you start to make excuses and overthink. And you have no idea what the probabilities are because you cannot read their minds. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 02:54 PM |
| 13 | Y’all men gotta start getting comfortable with the sheer amount of volume we have to work not only for sex but even more so for a relationship.1) what does your comment have to do with my comment? 2) why are you on this subreddit? | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Working On The Alpha Fucks Side Of Hypergamy To Get The Best From WomenWomen are very emotional. So emotional that they try to transfer their emotions over to the guy. If the guy doesn't seem sympathetic enough to her feelings, she'll try to guilt trip him. This guilt trip can turn into an argument with some men or it can make some men walk on eggshells and try to appease her. The man with emotional strength will is not be phased by her emotional episodes. His demeanor towards her emotions can set her at ease or it can piss her off. He doesn't care. He knows that w… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This is all true, but this post leaves out a very important point: whining about being a victim and blaming women for all my problems feels good. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | How To Get Past The Anger PhaseSo you're intentionally not getting vaccinated and then using that as an excuse to not work out? Jesus Fucking Christ the victim mentality here is strong. The world, the government, and Joe Biden do not give a fuck about you. Either figure out a way to get your fucking workout in, get your fucking jab, or stop fucking complaining. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/22 03:54 AM |
| 5 | Live Life Not To Impress Others, Rather Live Life On YOUR Terms.But what doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger. This is actually not true. A lot of men become weaker because of the challenges they were put through. Just because Nietzsche said something does not make it true. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How about instead of worrying about women OR the government, you focus on shit you can control, which is yourself and your own life. The internet is basically a giant nursery where different groups gather to cry about being oppressed and marginalized. Unfortunately, this victim mentality has seeped into the manosphere and a big chunk of content creators are just posting pornography to make men feel good about being victims. Unless you have about 5 trillion dollars you are not going to change any… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/22 03:50 AM |
| 30 | Y’all men gotta start getting comfortable with the sheer amount of volume we have to work not only for sex but even more so for a relationship.Here we fucking go again with this beta provider mindset. Yes, when women are looking to settle down and get married they look for a guy with a good job. But if a woman just wants to get fucked, why would she care what your salary is? Here is an excerpt from a book I am working on: One of the most common platitudes in the dating world is that women only (or primarily) care about money. Men who believe this idiotic platitude often end up becoming ATMs for women who take their money and then run o… | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 03:47 AM |
| 36 | Y’all men gotta start getting comfortable with the sheer amount of volume we have to work not only for sex but even more so for a relationship.This is wrong. Women don't give a shit about your career if you can make them emotionally excited. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 03:29 AM |
| 0 | "We should only invest our time in women whose actions show that she has a genuine, burning desire for you." - but how can you get that desire while meeting them on social media?We should only invest our time in women whose actions show that she has a genuine, burning desire for you First, I don't agree with this advice because I do not understand how to apply it practically. How can I tell what her desire is? I can't read her mind. I prefer to follow a rule I call the alpha male quid pro quo: "You only do things for women after they do something equally meaningful for you first." That said, it's really hard to get women to build any kind of emotional investment in you … | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 03:28 AM |
| 2 | "We should only invest our time in women whose actions show that she has a genuine, burning desire for you." - but how can you get that desire while meeting them on social media?Have you read the book? Serious question. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 03:27 AM |
| 2 | How many rejections in a row is too much?You don't ask for a number in the first 5 minutes. You need to build a connection first. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | BoundariesI have the core structure completed but I keep rewriting the chapters because I am being a perfectionist. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Why all the games and shit tests? (M17)People like a challenge. Period. | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 05:30 AM |
| 5 | FDS, and by extension, TRP, is a cult that traps you into alt-right thinking patterns. That's the thought terminating cliche they use to couch learning critical thinking skills.I like how people are applauding this post like it is something brilliant when the author didn't even try to show how "pill culture" leads to the alt right. Alt right has become a meaningless term to most people. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/21 05:21 PM |
| 10 | Taking Rejection And Patience Are The Foundation To A Happy Dating LifeYou don't need patience just to deal with rejection; you also need patience once you get into a relationship because you must always stay slightly less emotionally invested than her, so you must resist the urge to press the gas too hard even when you are emotional about her. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/21 05:18 PM |
| 1 | The top player (seducer) is an extreme insider or an extreme outsider, but not averageI saw this on somebody's blog recently. Why not link to the original post? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | The most attractive thing to women is a transcendent emotional experience.Lol wrong guys who think like this never get laid. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 03:47 PM |
| 7 | BoundariesNo you can fix yourself you just gotta start acting differently, which will rewire your subconscious feelings about yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/21 06:38 AM |
| 4 | The most attractive thing to women is a transcendent emotional experience.Nope. First, you should be creating transcendent emotional experiences for yourself anyway, whether or not it is for women. Second, saying it is minimal reward sounds like you've already given up and assumed you will fail. Why would you do that? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 04:24 AM |
| 15 | BoundariesIf this is a serious question I will literally reach through my computer and slap your autistic ass. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/21 04:06 AM |
| 11 | The most attractive thing to women is a transcendent emotional experience.Im writing a book right now to explain how to do this. This is just the beginning of the first chapter. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 10:55 PM |
| 22 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?This is not something any guy should worry about. Seduction is not a race against other guys. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 01:58 AM |
| 12 | Shit testA couple of weeks back I met this girl. My 2nd month into red pill You're not qualified to be giving advice yet. Before you post about any technique you should probably have done it at least like TWICE, preferably 100 times, before you get on the internet and act like you've discovered something. Also, did you fuck her? My guess is no. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Do as much small talk as possibleYeah I think Im gonna pass on trusting you for anything. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Do as much small talk as possibleI would make fun of you for this dumbass comment but it's not even worth it. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Do as much small talk as possibleThe better your game becomes the quicker you can go deep "Hey walmart girl, I love that t shirt, I can tell you are an artistic person" and then bam you are talking about art Where she went to high school is boring as hell. Why even ask about that? You should be askikg about life goals, relationships, spirituality, art, etc. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 03:41 AM |
| -2 | Polite way?If youre gonna pay a woman for a sex just get a hooker. This answer is weak. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 03:32 AM |
| 5 | Polite way?"Oh sorry I am not interested in having that kind of relationship." Basically implies they are a hooker. They will never bring it up again. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 03:31 AM |
| 7 | Men of Reddit, what body language you notice when you make eye contact with a woman?Thats a horrible line that will never get you any pussy ever. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 03:30 AM |
| 4 | Do as much small talk as possibleCold approaching is not dead. Thats the dumbest thing I have ever read in my life. I get WAP from cold approach all the time. Jesus you guys are some negative losers. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 03:29 AM |
| -5 | Do as much small talk as possibleNo small talk isn't getting you or anybody else laid. You need to have a fun, emotionally resonant conversation about deep, interesting topics. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Do as much small talk as possibleWrong. If you dont build some kind of emotional connection she will forget about you and not answer your calls. Small talk is also the not answer. You need to gave an emotionally resonant conversation. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 03:27 AM |
| 3 | MONEY, LETS BE HONEST!I address this in the book I am writing: One of the most common platitudes in the dating world is that women only (or primarily) care about money. This is a terrible thing to believe because men who believe this platitude often end up becoming ATMs for women who take their money and then run off to have sex with other men who actually stimulate their emotions. Having resources is one of many characteristics of the alpha male, but just having money is not enough to sustain attraction. Again, mone… | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 12:59 AM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]Yeah you need to completely next this woman. She is treating you like shit. | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Best coaches, resources, and real seducers?Todd V videos DJ Fuji videos The book Models And of course, my website! | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Why you have no success with British girls, and how to remedy thatYou cant sit and create a different approach for every race, nationality, type, etc of women. Stop generalizing and just stick to the game plan. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 07:05 PM |
| 3 | I almost NEVER saw a successful pickup in my life. Why??Pickup happens all the time. You are making excuses to justify not acting. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Girl brings up other guys hitting on her. Best response?If the guy is talking shit about you in front of her laugh and brush it off like it is a 2 year old calling you a poopyhead. The guy will look like a docluche and you will look above it all. If he gets seriously disrespectful, leave the interaction. If she likes she will follow. If not, she didnt respect or like you in the first place. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 07:02 PM |
| 11 | Girl brings up other guys hitting on her. Best response?If youre gonna spend the rest of your life looking for women without insecurity good luck. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 07:00 PM |
| 0 | Girl brings up other guys hitting on her. Best response?All the answers in this thread are wrong and stupid. The right answer is "of course he did. You're hot. Why is this news?" This answer is simultaneously a compliment and lets her you know that trying to make you jealous by talking about other guys wont work. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laidUsually when guys say this they are not actually getting laid. Are you getting laid? | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How to snap a girl your interested in?The problem is that it is creepy and you cannot build attraction over text. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 05:36 PM |
| 2 | How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of youLook dude its clear you havent actually been in this situation and you are just talking out of your ass. I have been in this situation a lot and encouraging the guy is just gonna make him push the gas harder. Its not gonna make you look alpha like the fantasy you have in your head. Most dudes would lose respect for you and go even harder to take your girl. If a guy is hitting on your girlfriend you need to tell him to fuck off or else you look weak. If it is just a girl you are with but dont hav… | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How to snap a girl your interested in?No dont do this either. Just approach her in real life. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 04:48 PM |
| 5 | How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of youA man with abundance does whatever is most fun for him. If the girls is being fun and contributing to his emotional experience, he pays her attention. If she is not, he moves on and finds somebody else. But he definitely doesnt sit around and kisses the guys ass that is openly disrespecting him and trying to take his girl. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 12:36 PM |
| 10 | How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of youOffering your girl up to a guy hitting on her is cuck shit. At best ignore him but you dont need to pretend to be nice to a guy openly trying to take your girl. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 11:21 AM |
| 1 | How to snap a girl your interested in?Yes. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 11:20 AM |
| 1 | How would you chase down an old lead?No that's too fast. You need to warm her up a little bit. Showing up out of nowhere and asking for her time doesnt work. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | How would you chase down an old lead?Send her a text about something you used to talk about, saying something like "hey I just saw a dog with sunglasses, and it reminded me of you." And then if the convo goes well ask her out after like 7-10 texts. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Do I try again some other day, or do I just let her go?Let her go. You probably came off needy and pushy, which is why she made up an excuse to say no. Move on and become a challenge to her, and maybe one day she will pursue you. But maybe not. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Is bragging about nudes in your dms really that impressive?Who cares if it is "impressive"? The worst thing you can do is game women to impress other guys or judge guys by how many women they get. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 04:53 AM |
| 73 | How to snap a girl your interested in?Approach her in real life and introduce yourself. Forget this snapping shit. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 04:52 AM |
| -10 | How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of youThis is the cuck response. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 04:50 AM |
| 10 | Girl that my best friend had sex with is making movements to meAsk your friend if its ok to smash. If he says no, then ask yourself if hes a good enough friend for you to give a shit. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 12:08 AM |
| 3 | What are the Mistakes in Seduction/ Approaching?I wrote an article about it. Search for woujo and transgressive on reddit | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Shooting your shot at someone “out of your league”?Don't think about yourself or your own weaknesses at all. Just think about the interaction and how much fun you will have. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 10:11 PM |
| 9 | What are the Mistakes in Seduction/ Approaching?No don't be so negative. Men naturally want to be edgy and transgressive. That's boy little boys run around the playground screaming, climbing walls, eating dirt, etc... It's society that beats it out of us. If you get back to your true, natural, childlike self you will have more fun and attract more women. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 07:54 PM |
| 17 | What are the Mistakes in Seduction/ Approaching?Sorry, women like transgressive guys. If you're gonna be a cookie cutter conformist and be just like every other guy, you will not stand out in her mind. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | My weird unexpected strategy to get girls to approachLol ok keep buying women shit, I'm sure it will turn out great for you. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 03:52 PM |
| 62 | What are the Mistakes in Seduction/ Approaching?Biggest ones are being needy, negative and being afraid to be authentic and edgy. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 02:47 PM |
| 3 | What are the different "Sticking Points" in game? and their fix?If you are fat and ugly you need to hit the gym. But also you need to not think about yourself at all when interacting with women. You cannot spend a single second thinking about whether you are hot enough for her, good enough, etc. You can just focus on having fun in the moment. That's it. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 02:46 PM |
| 0 | "I think I'm in love" opener"It works if..." Did you have sex with her? Did you go on a date with her? You cant say something "works" unless you actually achieve your goal, and preferably multiple times. I am tired of guying saying shit "works" because they saw it work one time or because they think it might work. I am telling you this is a bad thing to say to women if you approach them. If you disagree with me, fine. Do what you want. But stop arguing because I hurt your ego. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | My weird unexpected strategy to get girls to approachMen who think women only care about money are beta losers. While you are being an ATM for she she is having threesomes with broke dudes that actually stimulate her emotions. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 08:37 AM |
| 0 | The supposed busy jugglerYoure a 51 year old who keeps failing at this shit and then makes more excuses as to why he should supplicate more and bend over backwards for women. She knows who she is. If she has time and wants to hang out with him she will call him. Interesting your "experience" is just what you3 woman friends say. Of course they want attention and guys asking them out. But you haven't actually seen a guy keep chasing a woman who keeps saying no and succeed. And that's what is important, not what women tell… | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 08:03 AM |
| 1 | "I think I'm in love" openerIt doesnt matter. Its not an effective line. Even jokes can make you look needy. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 07:59 AM |
| 2 | The supposed busy jugglerYou dont get it. It literally takes her no effort to propose a different time. She is not interested. Chasing women who keep saying no will not get you anywhere. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 12:51 AM |
| 5 | I don't get the hype around Eastern European women.Why do you give a shit? Trying to generalize and categorize women is stupid, especially in 2021. There are freaks, prudes, bitches, and nice women in every culture. Categorizing women like this will guarantee you never get pussy because you will fill your head with negative thoughts and judgmetns about women and you will not feel free to just go for it. | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 11:48 PM |
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