What is lacking in the PUA world?

VinsTheSpaceDriver · 2016-02-11T14:39:03+00:00

I got a topic for you. When you first meet a girl how to turn a playful / flirty / fun conversation into a deeper conversation leading to real connection. It would be very helpful for me

DaygameCoach · 2016-02-11T15:21:58+00:00

Try writing about the areas of pickup that men seem to have innate self-limiting beliefs (like, no, you can't do that or it's too difficult) and how to do them. Examples: the gym (I've written about this one), women who are at work (at the mall, baristas, waitresses, bartenders, strippers, etc), or at your job with customers or even employees (some people have jobs where it is ok or they aren't in same group or on same floor as her).

Maybe walk people how to work large mixed sets since that scares a lot of gyms.

How to dress well is always helpful.

Conversational topics like...how to make emotional connections with women (it's called Deep Rapport) could be useful too. VinsSpacer had a good suggestion related to this.

How about series of articles that takes one self-limiting belief at a time and tells you how to get over it?

Cuisine, Daygamer.net

2016-02-13T04:31:49+00:00

Maybe my input isn't welcome here, but as a female I feel like so much of the PUA community is so misogynistic & degrading towards women, reducing us to HBnumbers & body parts & approaches & f-closes. It's really scary & saddening to women dating in the world, knowing that men will "game" them & make surface-level connections just to get into their pants. Women are the other half of this equation, right? So I think like "VinsTheSpaceDriver" suggests, strategies for making Real connections & authentic shared moments with the opposite sex are really important. Respect is really key, it's how both people can have pleasurable experiences. Women want sex just as much as men; but we don't want to be lied to, manipulated or otherwise tricked. We want to know when you say something, it's You saying it, it's not some pattern you learned somewhere & have used on dozens of others. We want to have good memories from our involvements with you, not feelings of guilt & self-hatred for being played or iced out. Just my 3 cents. Hope this can help

Nopani · 2016-02-11T11:31:00+00:00

I'd like a step-by-step procrastinator-proof guide to getting girls for somebody who stays at home playing with a computer all day. Ideal for the average redditor.

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-02-11T05:11:34+00:00

A lot of times, people don't know what they want until you show it to them.
--Steve Jobs

Instead of asking for free market research, why don't you make an effort to engage with our community and find out for yourself what people need?

Bigjohnthug · 2016-02-11T05:11:42+00:00

If you can't think of what you could add that is unique it's probably because you lack the requisite experience to do so.

Title	What is lacking in the PUA world?
Author	Woujo
Upvotes	4
Comments	15
Date	February 11, 2016 5:04 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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