My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flaking

2022-05-17T00:26:11+00:00

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TransitionNormal1387 · 2022-05-17T00:16:50+00:00

Let’s be honest though, most of the time they flake because they’re not interested in you lol.

feelin-supersonic · 2022-05-17T01:11:26+00:00

Just let them flake, I wouldn’t want to force a women to hang out if she is going to hate it/not have a good time.

Just move on.

yeahthatslifedarling · 2022-05-16T23:20:30+00:00

I cant read this shit since you wrote "girls are these creatures driven by", no, they are human like me and not enormously different at the core

RainbowChardonnay · 2022-05-16T20:41:26+00:00

Lol

r/menwritingwomen

GabeDrumBeats7Seals · 2022-05-17T01:01:31+00:00

This is all taken from your viewpoint and I skimmed past most because it really isn’t this difficult, she either likes you or doesn’t, screw all these steps.

You meet people or you don’t, some stay and some go, that’s the reality, stop spinning in circles and to say you fucked many women shows you have something to prove to someone, I would have skipped that entirely buddy. My two cents.

Experience - Musician in a performing band and a bartender at Dave n Busters 😏

malwaysfuckn · 2022-05-17T02:28:10+00:00

DUDE. This is wild. you are wild.

i give up.

stupiddummydotcom · 2022-05-17T04:33:33+00:00

Im not even a woman and for some reason this post kinda creeps me out

JustifiedCroissant · 2022-05-17T08:32:55+00:00

Stopped reading when that clown started describing women as strange and mystical creatures and their "flow of emotions", bruh, sounds incel-ish.

Women aren't a single-cell unit.

ssspiral · 2022-05-17T04:39:08+00:00

hahaha this made me laugh for some reasonn

Zenterus · 2022-05-17T13:05:57+00:00

Brother, ignore the ignorant comments from people who probably don't even approach women enough to recognize patterns in behaviour.

Everything you expressed here makes perfect sense to me.

Keep killing it!

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-16T21:38:06+00:00

I enjoyed reading this. Good essay. I would certainly add a few things to it but overall, B +

Upset-Temperature · 2022-05-17T02:43:14+00:00

I think people think this is really involved, but a lot of attractive women want to save their cake and eat it too. They may really like you, you can do everything right, and they will still go “yeah and?”. It’s because society has sold women on the idea that they can have it all, and the way the OP suggests being a diva (albeit a pretty reasonable diva) is just a response to the diva-ness you’ll encounter. She can like you and still flake. You never know the true answer until they are in front of you, but I do believe OP wrote a really good post for someone who gets tilted in moments of being ghosted (tilted meaning that they totally lose their composure). This allows you some semblance of control, and even that feeling of control allows you to project more confidence into a situation

tryingmybesteverydy · 2022-05-17T07:33:24+00:00

As a woman, this is so fucking creepy.

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-05-16T22:22:27+00:00

Long, invested conversations during initial contact do not prevent flaking

ZosoWicca · 2022-05-17T06:13:06+00:00

If she doesnt want, she can fuk off. Im not applying any method so 😂

ZosoWicca · 2022-05-17T06:15:37+00:00

Just because they are women it doesn't mean that I need to treat them as unresponsible children.

uniqueruntimeerror · 2022-05-17T06:44:04+00:00

that seems like a lot of mind games for not so much return on investment. quality > quantity . no high value woman is going to tolerate these mind games.

uniqueruntimeerror · 2022-05-17T06:46:40+00:00

P.S. as a woman, I will personally tell you I’m not interested. I would see through the game and discern your intentions in a split second. I don’t need to be flaky to avoid a disaster, I’d cut fast and deep. On the other hand, when we women do like a guy and end up opening up, the guy starts flaking thinking his job is done. Hence, no mind games is the best game.

FeelingRisk89 · 2022-05-17T06:21:24+00:00

Bla blah bla blah bla.

She wants to flake, let her. Find yourself another two leads while you're there and get a nice dinner for yourself.

Codename-Misfit · 2022-05-17T07:20:26+00:00

Well explained & this is quite different advice from what I'm used to. Saving it.

KnownPlently · 2022-05-17T11:58:45+00:00

Oh wow… this was a lot of useless information.

yennybear888 · 2022-05-17T12:36:14+00:00

Steps 1-2 are good but 3-5 is horrendous advice.

Lots of younger girls don’t do phone calls with strangers these days. Being a diva is just bad. Being disappointed when she flakes is also bad...the right reply is “ok.” I’ve had women come crawling back when I didn’t chase them like every other guy when she flakes.

SalesAficionado · 2022-05-17T12:37:47+00:00

This post is garbage. Also F your site.

tradery · 2022-05-16T20:49:27+00:00

Great post, but I don’t think getting phone number and texting is still a thing. Apps like WhatsApp and Snapchat are more common, of course it depends on the country you’re in. For me Snapchat is by far the most common way of communicating. I also believe texting in Snapchat is not as good as sending videos of you talking. I rarely text more than a few words there and then. By sending videos of you talking and with her sending back, you can actually build comfort and attraction through the phone. Also don’t do phone calls, always go for FaceTime unless she’s not home.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-05-16T20:54:34+00:00

Not reading all that (and I'd be surprised if anyone actually has apart from OP re-reading it over and over again while jerking himself), but here's my bulletproof method:

Getting her IG instead of her number. The social proof from my IG is enough to prevent flaking since there's no reason for her to doubt my value.

Edit: y'all who are down voting obviously have shit IGs and do not know the power of having a good profile.

connigton · 2022-05-17T00:23:24+00:00

I do like your method. It is a good framework and I could find many more things that I actually do than stuff that I would never run. Just don’t see what you have to gain with Step 5. For me it feels like you are being a sore loser. Rejection is also part of the game. If she actually gives a shit, most of the time she will propose another day and time on the moment that she flakes.

anxiouspotter · 2022-05-17T12:34:07+00:00

How can you generalize ALL women under these huge blanket statements? We are multi dimensional as well and each one of us is completely different.

There are so many things wrong with this post. The fact that there are some men out there who go through this mental strategic warfare in their minds to get women to hang out with them is the reason I’m pursuing strictly women right now (as a bisexual) lol.

Yanksfan28gg · 2022-05-17T04:39:28+00:00

this is too much work dude. girls don’t ask for my number. has never happened in my life. i live with my parents also so taking them home isn’t an option. lol I’m never getting laid

Neo-Rio · 2022-05-17T04:27:40+00:00

The other reason is possibly because they're going through PMS. Being on a period and feeling terrible is also a valid reason for women to avoid men.It's usually something that guys who don't get laid much probably haven't even considered.

That completely random factor can mess up many a pick-up attempt. And obviously women don't want to tell you when they're on their period. It's embarrassing for them and - they'll find an excuse to tell you. Sadly you might end up interpreting it as her being crafty, when she isn't necessarily.

realistfake12 · 2022-05-17T07:41:03+00:00

Hi, Just going back to one of the points you made about emotional convocation. How do you strike such an emotional convocation with someone you've only just met?

jackythevillen · 2022-05-17T11:35:35+00:00

I understand your strategy, n I was of thinking of something similar myself but this post gave me the validation I was looking for. I'll give it try for next time.

Title	My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flaking
Author	Woujo
Upvotes	107
Comments	118
Date	May 16, 2022 8:30 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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