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Could say the same for men, too.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:56 PM
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Don’t bother. And not in a pessimistic, defeatist way. What I mean is that if you’re looking for relationships you’ve already lost. If there’s anything I’ve come to learn over the years since my first girlfriend it’s that the good ones never appear where you think they will, and the bad ones are always the ones you find when out looking. Do your own thing. Make stuff, be good at what you do, explore hobbies and get passionate about nerdy things, read all those books you promised yourself you’d r…
/r/seduction31/07/22 09:47 PM
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Become mysterious again. Trust me it works. Start going out and not saying where you’re going, spend longer at the gym, go to the gym at random times and don’t mention anything. She’s not attracted to you because you’re boring. Doesn’t matter if you look like Brad Pitt, if you bumble along day to day not being interesting and mysterious she’s gonna fantasies about other people. Become mysterious again and sex will come back, I promise you. Edit: and be a man about it. None of this “will you have…
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:49 AM
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Depends on the relationship you have with parents/people you live with. I’m 25, and moved back home after leaving my old job in March. It’s only me and 1 parent in my house and she’s quite relaxed about me bringing people over. She just says hello and gets back to whatever she’s doing, there’s no sit-down dinner, awkward chat, door-open rules etc. It’s not lost me any dates so far. A lot of my mates are in quite successful relationships and they also live with parents. It’s not uncommon for peop…
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:42 PM
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Not sure what you mean, exactly. Care to elaborate?
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:40 PM
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Posts like this just drive home to me how fucked dating is in general. Like people are raised to believe there’s a “special someone” out there and that love is this amazing, organic thing that generates between two people in an effortless way. Absolutely the fuck not. Dating in the 21st century is no different than sitting down at the roulette table. But instead of putting money on the line, you’re playing with your emotions and time. I wonder how we’ll all feel like this 40 years from now, when…
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:42 PM
15

I always just be honest: “I’m looking for a serious relationship, but I won’t rush into one. I’ll know when I’ve found the right person.”
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:54 PM
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Maybe I’m a traditional guy, but personally for me the end-goal of seduction and pickup is to find a long-term partner. I have no interest in spending years of my life just sleeping with strangers/FWBs because that kind of thing doesn’t fulfil me as much as really getting to know someone. But that doesn’t take away from the validity of seduction/pickup. Some guys get rejected before they’ve even secured a date - that’s where subs like this step in and help out. R/Seduction isn’t concerned with t…
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:33 PM
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This comes from a place of insecurity. You are comparing yourself to her previous partners in a very strange, convoluted way. It’s a very insecure mindset and it will probably leak out in other ways. Just an FYI, if you judge women for having >certain number of previous sexual partners, they don’t feel ashamed. They just assume you’re insecure/weird and probably feel like they dodged a bullet. It’s 2022, everyone sleeps around. If you want a virgin start going to church, and even then you’ll hav…
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:07 PM
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Don’t really agree with point 9. Ghosting is a shitty and immature thing to do whether you’re a man or woman. It shows a clear lack of respect for the other person and is honestly a great way of weeding out socially inept/incompatible people. I make a point of NEVER ghosting anyone. If I don’t want to see someone anymore I’m very clear and direct with them, it gives them closure and takes out all the hours/days of “will they text me back? What did I do wrong?”. Bottom line. Don’t normalise ghost…
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:45 PM
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RemindMe! 1 month
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:21 PM
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It’s one of those things that’s hard to tell, until it isn’t. You’ll always be questioning “is this girl into me?” “Does she want to meet up?” “Why are her replies so short?”. If you find yourself asking these questions, you need to say to yourself: FUCK. NO. And you will realise why when you eventually match with someone who IS interested. The difference is night and day. My best OLD matches have been girls who have no problem showing interest, don’t play stupid games, and actually put effort i…
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:09 PM
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So you didn’t want to commit and went on a break. You then told a guy you know to “try it” with said girl. They fucked. What’s the issue here? You literally brought this upon yourself man. If you don’t want her to fuck other people, you should commit yourself. If you don’t want people to try and fuck her, don’t tell them to “try it”!!!
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:16 AM
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All goes back to that “pedestal” mindset. You know the drill 😎
/r/seduction22/06/22 07:39 AM
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This is the answer. You don’t even need to be addicted. Porn just generally ruins your perception of sex/women. And I’m pretty sure they can tell.
/r/seduction22/06/22 07:35 AM
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It’s cringe af and everyone can see through it
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:41 PM
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This is a new low for this sub 😂 taking drugs to get laid… After all the “work on yourself” stuff that gets thrown around - gym, hobbies, self-worth etc… we’re now talking about taking/supplying drugs as a means to get laid. The desperation… Just in case anyone is still on the fence, drugs are the polar OPPOSITE of self-improvement. If you need drugs to feel good, you’re not “having a smoke”, you’re partaking in an addiction. I’ve seen drugs, even weed, fuck people up and it’s not something wort…
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:39 PM
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Think it’s a bit reductionist to assume fat people are fat and stay fat because that’s how they see themselves. There is some incredibly complex psychology going on when it comes to addiction and making change, stuff people devote their lives to studying and understanding. You’ll lose a lot of credibility by saying “it’s because they’re afraid of change” (fat being just an example - this applies to a lot of things)
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:17 PM
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1) supermodels aren’t shit. Most instagram posts these days are photoshopped, they’re nowhere near that hot irl 2) one day they’ll be old and wrinkly just like everyone else, except they’ll have the added sadness of “I used to be so so hot and now I’m a saggy fart” 3) banging supermodels isn’t the only thing you can’t do. I’m assuming: you can’t fly a plane, you can’t skydive, you can’t climb Everest, you can’t write a bestselling book, you can’t paint a masterpiece. Why does none of that make y…
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:24 PM
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Lesson learned. Confirm date is still on before making any effort to get ready/go out. I usually ask the girl to text me on the day-of so I know it’s on. If I don’t get a text I assume it’s a no-go.
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:53 AM
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Arrange a date, don’t fuck around with snap or whatever. Natural order should be dating apps -> text (very brief) -> date Let her Snapchat her friends and orbiters, if she wants your attention it should be in person.
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:46 AM
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Easy. Set up a date. Time and place, that sort of thing. Then send a message: - my number is xxx-xxx, drop me a text sometime so I know it’s still on. Either you get a text and it’s on, or you don’t and it’s not on. Minimal effort required. So far I’ve always received a text after doing this.
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:44 AM
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Tbh this time of year is pretty hectic for students on some courses. Is she a med student by any chance? Their exams start next week (where I am anyway). Girl I’m seeing atm is in library literally 12 hours a day. I’d take it as a soft rejection. Just tell her to drop you a text when she’s free, and you’ll see if you can fit something in. I wouldn’t try to arrange another date. Either her scheduling is shit or she’s not attracted - either way I’d not pursue.
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:39 AM
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Tbh I hate getting pics like that. Like what am I meant to do with it? Jerk off? If I wanted to do that I’d just go on Google images 🤣 Just compliment and say something like “can’t wait to see it on [whichever day you’re scheduled to see her next]” or “wear that when I next see you” etc etc Depends if you want to go down the sexting route but tbh it’s not for me, each to their own.
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:34 AM
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All good but your point about baggy clothing is a bit silly. Baggy clothing looks dope. I’m currently trying to remove all skinny jeans from my wardrobe because they honestly look shit 😂 Just find a style that suits you. If you’re a punk, there’s no point walking around in chinos all day. And if you’re a businessman, don’t wear ripped jeans and hoodies all day. Just create your own style that you’re comfortable in and makes you feel confident. Edit: I think this is a problem most guys here have,…
/r/seduction03/06/22 12:08 AM
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Oh I’m familiar with the nickname. Loved it there. Been to sing 3 times!
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:52 PM
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Unpopular opinion, but most people aren’t as unique and three-dimensional as they like to think they are. Everyone travels to the same places. Everyone eats at the same restaurants. Everyone reads the same books, watches the same movies, listens to the same music. The point I’m making is that to be full of character, you don’t even have to be unique. Just do something! Humans share roughly 40% of their DNA with Bananas. Make of that what you will.
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:40 PM
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Even if it’s a quickie wrap that stickie. I mean I’m no stranger to 1 night stands and bumble dates, but in the UK I can’t say I’ve ever met a girl that was more invested than the guy from the get-go. Normally for me that comes after the 1st date.
/r/seduction31/05/22 04:44 PM
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“Rare women” please 😂 I’ve had long relationships with women who weren’t on birth control and they certainly didn’t bounce on a different dick depending on what day of their cycle they’re on. I think you just have commitment issues and are looking for a biological explanation where there isn’t one.
/r/seduction30/05/22 09:22 PM
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Can’t think of anything worse 😂 I intentionally stay well away
/r/seduction28/05/22 10:10 PM
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Just go to Geylang or Orchard Towers with a bit of cash. No need for game in Sing 😂
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:15 AM
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1) you’ve put her on a pedestal for being attractive. You forgot she’s just a human being no different to you. 2) did you try and escalate during the date at all? Or just talked the whole time? 3) was it a “fun/casual” date? Or did you take her out for a meal (which is a bad 1st date idea)? 4) did you come across as nervous, anxious, or otherwise not confident during the date? Attractive people are just people. Don’t treat them like they’re special, just treat them like a human being. Being born…
/r/seduction25/05/22 06:13 PM
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I don’t think it’s above average… most were one night stands, 2 were LTR (multiple years each) and a couple FWB. Lost virginity at 16. Edit: to answer your question I’m a pretty basic 6’ slim/athletic white guy. Not built by anyone’s standards.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:03 PM
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Could be.
/r/seduction23/05/22 05:41 PM
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Weird Q broski
/r/seduction23/05/22 05:41 PM
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I was kind of thinking it might be down to something like that. I definitely like this girl more than my other previous partners. There’s more common ground between us in terms of hobbies and interests that I’ve not really had with someone else before. Perhaps just a nerves thing?
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:52 PM
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Yes I’ve always used condoms. Only one of my previous partners was on contraception.
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:50 PM
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They definitely exist, I’ve seen them with my own eyes.
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:35 PM
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Thanks for the laugh 😂
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:33 PM
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If you think dating is too expensive (which it shouldn’t be - if she can’t enjoy a cheap date she’s not worth the expensive ones) then sure, take a break to build your professional life. But don’t do it with the reasoning being “so I can afford dates”. Because it simply won’t fulfil you.
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:56 PM
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People on this sub put way too much value on using artificial attributes to attract women. Money, looks, security… etc. If you want to get wifed up, have kids, then get cheated on, divorced, and have a midlife crisis, then sure: make money and security your main selling points. In reality, those things should be for YOU. If you start earning more money and working out solely for the approval of the opposite sex, you’re pitching a losing game. The only reasons you should be doing those things is …
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:50 PM
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Was thinking the exact same thing… Guys on this sub never seem to realise women are just as 3-dimensional as men are. They are all different. I just feel like writing a “5 step plan to reducing flakiness!” Is such a male thing to do 😂
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:52 PM
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That doesn’t change the fact that your manipulating tactics are cringe and weird.
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:17 PM
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Occasional short texts. Nothing more than a sentence, 2 at a push. Light-hearted observations or jokes. The day before the date, text her asking her to text you the next day so you know you’re still on. This is a great way to avoid being stood up. No text = no date. If she’s interested, she’ll text you in the morning/afternoon like “just making sure we’re still on tonight”. You shouldn’t need to remind her. If you don’t hear from her on the day of the date, just assume it’s off. Until then, don’…
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:37 PM
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First of all, this is a pretty creepy admission of manipulation. Secondly, she will eventually realise you’re not as distant/aloof as you make yourself out to be and the gig will be up. Be honest with yourself and others simultaneously. If you’re interested in her, show it. If you’re not, let her know. If you lose interest in her but then she catches your attention again, that’s ok. The point is, this stuff has to happen organically. As soon as you start actively trying to manipulate her emotion…
/r/seduction16/05/22 05:51 PM
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The fact that you’re even dwelling on this tells me your GF deserves better. Anyone with half a brain would leave that situation 1) realising gym girl is attracted to you, and 2) instantly recognising that that doesn’t matter at all because you’re in a relationship. Sort your shit out man.
/r/seduction15/05/22 11:48 AM
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This is so middle school it hurts 😂
/r/seduction15/05/22 10:04 AM
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The current advice you’ve been given is, quite honestly, shit. Here’s my 2 cents: You probably already know the answer to your own question. There’s no need to manipulate her, and for gods sake be honest about your intentions with her. If she’s inexperienced, she doesn’t want her first to be with some guy that ghosts her after sex when she thought there’d be a relationship. Honestly is key for building trust here. Secondly, in terms of actually allowing her to open up to you, just keep being con…
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:34 PM
6

You can tell how insecure everyone here is by how much they feel the need to brag about body count. It’s not a measure of anything.
/r/seduction14/05/22 01:20 PM
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I’ve been in similar situations. I used to go clubbing alone all the time. Due to my work (at the time), a lot of my friends lived far away and I’d only see them every so often. I spent too much time away from home to really know anyone in the area, so I’d just go clubbing alone in the weekends to get my social fix. I did it like every weekend for about 2 years. Eventually I ended up in a LTR that lasted 3 years. Once that ended, I had lost ALL my confidence. Going out alone - something I used t…
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:30 AM
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“I’ve never felt this feeling” Understand that the feeling you’re having is nothing but your brain producing chemicals because it thinks this woman is a good candidate for procreation. It’s not an uncommon feeling. There’s no divine power drawing you to this woman. Just thousands of years of human evolution and selection leading you to that moment. If the distance is too long, what will you do about it? Move to a new city to be closer to her? Or just accept that it won’t work? If she wants to tr…
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:56 AM
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Dude if you want to jack off in front of a mirror just do it. You don’t need to write a whole Reddit post before hand 😂
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:40 AM
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If you’re taking dating advice from serial killers, you’ve already lost mate
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:19 PM
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😂😂
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:35 PM
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You’re again making assumptions about me. The 2 years I’m referring to was mostly spent in my own country.
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:48 PM
3

Quite bold to make assumptions about me… was in the military and spent the best part of 2 years sleeping around with strangers when away from home. Despite having “game”, I found myself feeling more disconnected and alone than I did before that when I had no self esteem or dates. Then entered a LTR which I found to be much more fulfilling than just f-ing strangers. I have no interest in that anymore, it didn’t make me feel good then and I doubt it will now. My opinion is that honesty is the best…
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:21 PM
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Yeah see that just confuses me. Because if I’m looking for a relationship, and she is too, it doesn’t look very good if I deflect/agree&amplify her question… just makes me look non-committing and like a player. Or like I don’t know what I want.
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:41 PM
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Haha, I feel like you didn’t read my post. That’s the opposite of what I’m looking for. To say that, I’d be lying, not being honest.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:47 PM
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