You must approach every situation with the most positive assumptions. This means you absolutely must not make any negative assumptions about women, ever. Don’t assume that just because a woman is very hot, or very tall, or well dressed, or surrounded by cool people, she is not interested in talking to you. Most regular people think of attraction in terms of “leagues,” as in “that woman is way of out of his league,” but leagues do not exist in reality. Everybody has their own set of preferences as to who they are and are not interested in, and you have no idea what a woman’s preferences are until you approach her. Sometimes very tall, beautiful blonde women just want short Asian guys. Sometimes very prim, proper girls want bad boys that are covered in tattoos. You have no fucking idea so you should not assume. You should also not be afraid of a woman because she looks bitchy or intimidating – many times, women that look mean and unwelcoming from the outside will be very receptive to your approaches. I have been approaching women for over 15 years and the one thing I have learned is that women are often nothing like what they appear on the outside, so if you let your assumptions prevent you from approaching you will miss out on a lot of great opportunities.

Of course, it is true that sometimes certain kinds of women are attracted to certain kinds of guys. For example, a goth girl covered in tattoos is probably more likely to be interested in a tattooed goth guy than a nerdy accountant. But you must completely shut off the part of your brain that makes pre-judgments about people, because once you start to let your brain do calculations about whether this or that girl will be receptive to your approach you will start overthinking and get paralyzed in excuses. Your subconscious mind is naturally afraid of rejection, so it will grab onto any excuse it can generate as to why you should not approach, so even if there is a large chance you will get rejected you should do it anyway. And again, women violate their stereotypes often enough for it to be worth approaching them.

You should also not speak to women based on a caricature you create in your head based on her appearance. If a woman looks like she is from the “hood” do not speak to her like you are also from the hood, if a woman looks like a bitch do not be an asshole to her, etc… Many men dumb down their conversation when they talk to hot girls because they assume hot women are stupid. Do not do that. You should always assume that women are nice, intelligent, interesting, deep, cool, and interested in meeting new people, until the woman proves you wrong. If you go out of your way to treat a woman like she is valuable, interesting, and capable of carrying an intelligent conversation, you will immediately stand out to her.

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