I am 28 in NYC have been here for a few years and find making friends very difficult. I only have one or two friends here who I would consider people I could talk with regularly. Accepting TRP I found that this lack of friends has affected the relationship and resulted in me being too needy and only wanting to hang out with her because I don't have other things to do. The relationship suffered much from it as a constant result of me losing frame in that and other respects.

Unfortunately due to health conditions the gym isn't really an option for me to meet people. I also find myself just wanting to go home straight after work to make music or fuck around on the internet or figure out a career path that I would actually be happy with, and that competes with me wanting to go out to meet people.

But I know that I need to be socially active. I just hope that at 28 making friends is not too late.

So I want to stop making excuses and create an action plan. So asking trp on the best way I could build a social circle.