Hi guys;

Just moved to a new city. Left my LTR 9 months ago and slowly putting my life back together. I appreciate your feedback whatever it may be. Thank you.

Okay this is relevant so don't shittest me for saying this. I have tons of challenges in life like everybody but currently at 41, attractiveness is not an issue. However, in clubs and parties an innordinate number of girls perceive me as gay. They ask me if I'm gay. I joke around, or flip it around and make it sexual between us two or something. I don't get mad and I don't defend myself. They tell me it is because I am very well put together. It might have something to do with the way I dance (I use a number of moves which I worked on during my raving years - definitely not your average dancer). I have been told I am metrosexual. I have a slight lisp which doesn't help if you hear me talk but this is happenning in club and bar settings where no one hears anything anyway. I have chest hair, a beard, almost all my hair and I dress in well fitted shirts. It doesn't frustrate me; better be excessively well put then a piece of garbage like 80% of the population. I'm not going to stop dancing or combing my hair or stop showering or whetever the fuck the expectation of a straight man is. Are they all shit tests? Do I just go with it? Any good come back I can tell girls? I do have sex regularly so its only a nuisance but anything that can help manage the situation to my advantage would be appreciated.

Thanks;

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