Head Games?

I have been separated from my wife since April and I moved out of in June. She is the one who told me it was over. We don’t have any children but we raised 2 kittens together and I really loved them. About a month ago she wanted to go to see her parents for a week and she asked me if I could feed them while she was away. I agreed. I got the keys to the place and went over and fed them and spent time with them. She came back and sent me a “thanks” text and I never heard from her for a month. This week I got a text from her and said she wanted the keys back. I said fine and we agreed on the time. I let her know I was coming over and drove up and sent her a text that I was there. A good 5 minutes passes and then she texts “did you want to come up and see the cats?” I said “No I have to go”. She comes down to the door and she is all dolled up and I can see she is pissed off. “Well it was nice to see you again Goodbye” ... in a huffy pissed off manner. I drove off and while I was proud of myself for not folding... like I wanted to. At the same time I feel a bit of regret that I didn’t go up.

What are your thoughts? Oh by the way, this is a woman who was flaunting that she was going out on dates while I was still living with her due to financial reasons until I could move out.