I’ve recently come out of an LTR and have decided to go into monk mode. Pre-break up my mission was solid and I was dedicated to self-improvement. Since the breakup I’ve been almost re-red pilling myself but I feel like the rest of my life is falling apart.

The one thing I have been doing well is lifting. I lost all of my tone and size over Christmas because I’m not a member of a gym back home. I’ve been going 3 times a week since and have started to see some results.

I went on a date a week or so back but I feel like I need some monk mode and I need to re-discover myself.

I’m really lacking discipline and wasting my life on bullshit like Reddit and video games. I’m in college.

Today I worked hard in my studies and made a spreadsheet to chart my studies and lifting (thank you TRP sidebar).

Is there anything else I should be doing? Breakup was 5 weeks ago but I’ve seen her intermittently until recently.

Also any advice for re-focusing on my mission and getting my priorities straight would be appreciated.

Edit: just to be clear, I study a vocational degree at university and my studies are my mission.