Long story short I'm seeing a girl who is for all intents and purposes my gf. Things have been good so far, with her definitely being the one investing in the relationship more than myself.

Recently however, I've been feeling empty for lack of a better word. I think I need to go into monk mode to re-discover my purpose or direction. Im just wondering how to go about that while still in the relationship.

Has anyone ever done something similar? Or is the lack of direction in itself a sign that she and I should split? Any words of wisdom?