Hey guys, I'm at a new school doing post-grad. What are some good ways to get more attention from people so they invite me out more, message me more etc? At the moment I talk to everyone around me, hold frame on my beliefs, workout, dominate volleyball and soccer intramurals.

I am highly active in the school community however, I find myself messaging or motioning things forward a lot - group hangouts etc.

I went to a class party last night, talked to everyone engaged in conversations, but I feel that the chemistry is missing with a lot of the people. The guys may be too beta maybe? and the girls seemed super Square.

Let me know some good ways to build rapport with people, good conversation topics, etc etc.

Thanks guys.