Due to advice, i changed my pics, and I get a lot of matches on tinder now.

But, my problem is, at least 60% of them is not interested afterwards.

Or, in fact, if I was to count all my dates since I installed tinder, about 90% rejected me. Seriously...

It makes me want to stop dating altogether.

What are the most common mistakes?

Maybe im plain ugly but people say im not (im not model tho). I pasted pic here and in other places and they all said I look good. I think im at least average from face. Apart from that I lift and im 190cm tall.

Couple things I heard:

  • she would prefer knowing me only through internet (ouch)

  • you are cute but... hmm i dont know...

  • i prefer to take things slow, not kissing on first date

But most of the time there was no verbal feedback

I do read sidebar regularly. it helped me a lot (i have sex from time to time now, and before nothing in 2yrs), but im still in hole

Thanks in advance!