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| 2 | Avoid being friend zoned but not burning the bridge forever. | cl3537 | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 05:20 AM | |
| 1 | Scratching my head... better way to handle this?, girls telling me they want to go out but only as 'friends' | Red Pill Theory | cl3537 | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/18 07:03 PM |
| 0 | Set killed by young waiter. | cl3537 | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 06:31 PM |
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| 2 | Reinventing oneself at 31. AND. My family's story of female exploitation.You must be in an Asian country near Macau. Poker is a very difficult living( I know I used to do it back in my University days made about 300k USD online before I quit). You have to have extreme discipline and strong money management skills which I think you will struggle with even if your game is good enough. I would suggest you focus your efforts on building a more stable business and forget poker. If your stable hourly at poker grinding low/med stakes is high enough it may be a temporary sol… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Got her number, got a date.. how much should we be texting?If you have already set time and place, remind her an hour before that is about it. But you don't have to be an autist if she texts you in between of course answer. Just don't have long conversations or be too eager or available to communicate over text, you don't want to have the date over text nor invest too much time in the girl before the date. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 02:35 AM |
| 1 | [Field Report] Lost my virginity - is it really this easy or was I lucky? Advice?Gotta love the troll, go write for Hustler. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 12:43 PM |
| 3 | I have an issue I want fixed. I find flaws in very attractive women that makes me lose interest once they show they want me as a boyfriend.You are Seinfeld. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | I have an issue I want fixed. I find flaws in very attractive women that makes me lose interest once they show they want me as a boyfriend.Sounds like a good thing it prevents you from putting them on a pedestal. I tell my buddies to stop looking up to hot women, just look at them only from the neck up most of them don't have such pretty faces and from that perspective you can have the right attitude. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 11:38 PM |
| 0 | thoughts on RSD and seminars in generalRSD Julien is way over the top for me. I think the GirlsChase stuff is excellent. I haven't paid for anything and I am curious about OneDate but the overall theory and content of the articles on his site are better than anythingelse I have ever read. The problem with TRP is that it doesn't really help you with the fine mechanics and detail other sources are necessary. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with disrespectYou can't walk around angry through life, if everyone is disrespecting you its either all in your head or the problem is you and you have to figure out how to fix it. Walking around with your chest puffed out like a peacock can only get you so far. You should treat people the way you would like to be treated, and choose to spend your time with those who respect you and ignore those who won't. People rarely change so standing up to someone who disrespects you (imagined or otherwise) will rarely e… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 07:24 PM |
| 0 | im confused. if plates are just holes to fuck, why do so many people here next one for sleeping with other people?I think my point has been made so I will stop in this thread. If you ask a plate if she is also plating you, you are asking for trouble. If she then subsequently lies to you about it then its your fault. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to internalize RP thrusts without first getting burnt?Monk mode = not trying with girls because they all reject you Did you even fuck this 'GF'? FYI girl showing you attention from other guys is a huge red flag she is not LTR material. Strictly a pump and dump or plate at best. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:07 PM |
| 0 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?I already posted that above in Adult language. (no LOL, no k. no sorry). Almost only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades. Good-luck luck in September in your next year of high school. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?No Gold Digger is trying to steal half of the $9/hour you make at McDonalds junior you can sleep well tonight. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?Difficult to do it that way, family in the nice big house, you expect a one family income (wife usually makes a fraction if anything as the husband) to afford two nice big houses when they could barely afford one before. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?When prepared and used correctly, a prenuptial agreement is the best way to protect your interests. But of course if your name is Ebenezer and you live your whole life scared of women and your children taking you to the cleaners than keep repeating the same dumb shit from this cult. Nothing in life is 100%, family law judges are notorious for ignoring contracts and jurisprudence which leads to some horror stories but usually those happen when the contract was coerced, or brutally one sided witho… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?Better laws than the US you need to read better junior. 1) There is a CAP on child support. 2) There are guidelines and some jurisprudence not some redneck judge deciding to fuck your life forever. You must be trump. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 11:48 PM |
| -1 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?Here is another take, you got off cheap and you have kids that she is going to take care of. Get off your cheap lazy(or dumb) ass and make more money. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?Stay in school junior, keep reading, wedlock has nothing to do with being a father or a child being fatherless. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?Because those smarter than a doorknob around here(that may be stretching it for some) either: A) Doesn't live in a mensrape divorce country(the world isn't the same). B) If they do live in mensrape country is smart enough to get an airtight prenup and live in a state with reasonable laws. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Post-processing events with a red-pilled lens, should it happen concurrently with the event?6 weeks is nothing you need months or years but you can start by simplifying things. Redpill is basically ask for what you want from people and don't act butthurt if they don't give it to you, find someonelse who will. Act in your own self interests because noonelse will do that for you. Approach and hit on lots of women with low effort and push for sex quick. If they won't give it to you find ones that do but don't get butthurt always treat it as a fun game. You will never know why women don't … | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?Agreed, dumb comments on legal matters, dumb comments on tax matters, dumb comment on custody matters. We are the victims bla bla bla. Its funny how this garbage is okay as 'evidence' not to get married or have kids, but its not okay in the rest of what TRP preaches about not acting like a victim when women mistreat you. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?Haha we don't have such stupid laws. No Fault Divorce in Canada it doesn't matter what the reason is the money split doesn't change. The USA has some great places but your legal system is so fucked up and you are such a litigious gun toting society. If I ever move to Florida I am going to have to get lawyer friends and make sure I avoid all the "traps". | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?You pay child support whether you get married or not. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?In Canada child support is on a fixed schedule (no judge can change it) and its based on the income of both spouses. The law assumes the more money the parents make the higher the cost of living should be for the children. Assuming his ex makes nothing he probably makes between 300,000 and 350,000 net a year and the child support is peanuts like 9 - 10% of net income after taxes. Much less than if he had pay to take care of the kids full time. Australia has a very similar system and fixed capped… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 04:46 PM |
| 8 | im confused. if plates are just holes to fuck, why do so many people here next one for sleeping with other people?Maybe you need an intelligence check you aren't as smart as you think you are. Go take an IQ test. The last paragraph i wrote was written in a perjorative way because you DO get butthurt when you find out one of your plates is sleeping with someonelse and didn't tell you about it. My plates have no need to lie to me EVER I don't put them in that position unless I want to promote them and then they aren't plates anymore. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 07:17 PM |
| 7 | im confused. if plates are just holes to fuck, why do so many people here next one for sleeping with other people?BOOM argument closed thank-you. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 06:53 PM |
| 2 | im confused. if plates are just holes to fuck, why do so many people here next one for sleeping with other people?Newflash for you buddy, the sidebar isn't a tome of knowledge. It isn't specific enough on many topics including this one and doesn't cover everything. It is ridiculous for you to claim the sidebar defends you fucking multiple women and then getting butthurt when you find out she is doing the same with men. I could care less that women can more easily fuck(and some do) multiple men at a time that is irrelevant to the argument. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 06:51 PM |
| 9 | im confused. if plates are just holes to fuck, why do so many people here next one for sleeping with other people?You just proved the OP's point and I don't think you get it either. I don't wave in my plates face that fact I am fucking other women, nor do I ask them who else they are fucking I use a condom and have a don't ask don't tell policy. If on the other hand I 'forgot to mention' who else I was fucking and then got butthurt when I found out she was fucking someonelse and not telling me than I would be you. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate itUnbeleiveable, 36, vape everyday, write like a 16 year old girl, stupid nickname, giving 'advice', 125k post karma. You are on permanent ignore, redpill is unfortunately full of fucktards like you and its too bad because you are the opposite of helpful and your ignorant opinions just make you a piece of shit bordering on troll. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate itIts your reality not mine, and if you think of things in black and white terms and blindly follow dumbed down redpill principals it will remain that way. Women are not so black or white, nuances are important but I am not going to argue with someone so idealistic, it isn't going to lead anywhere productive here. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate itI don't necessarily disagree with that statement depending on the terms you are looking for in an LTR. However with that mindset, and a total automatic disrespect for women you will never find one that does. Your audience here is mostly anger filled teenagers who have been dumped or been dumped on by women repeatedly. You think repeating that statement helps them at all? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 12:57 AM |
| 17 | Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate itSelf Fulfilling Redpill Prophecy I push for quick sex > I treat women like nothing but cum dumpsters > All I can get are low quality women not worth an LTR who don't mind being treated like cum dumpsters. > I think all women are not worth LTR because the only ones I attract are low quality. > The women I plate I think are representative of All Women > All women are not worth an LTR. Do you see the problem with that sequence of thoughts? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate itThere are lots of sloots in Vegas yeh yeh yeh.... | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate itThe issue is you have massive cognitive dissonance. You are meeting Tinder whores and you think you are so 'special' and they fuck you easily but you are not magical they fuck others as well. Stop hooking up with Tinderellas and go after higher quality girls who don't have triple digit n-counts. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 12:33 AM |
| 0 | How do you make a family in today’s and future society?Uhhhh you blindly follow a cult, and you are too stupid to realize that when you are 60/70 that family will only be your siblings and their kids and you will be the hermit uncle who is too difficult to ever be with anyone. Congrats Ebenezer noone will ever get half of your $9/hour you make at Mcdonalds. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Whatever I've done in the past year, it didn't hrlp me to get over the exHow many girls have you fucked? How many girls as hot as your oneitis LTR have you fucked? How many girls as hot as your oneitis have you had an MLTR with since your oneitis? I am guessing 0 for the last two questions and therein lies your problem. You don't get over a serious ex oneitis until you find someone better. A string of plates with lower SMV than your ex isn't going to do it, set the bar higher and keep working till you get there. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 05:45 PM |
| -1 | How do you make a family in today’s and future society?You guys can run your hamster all you want at some point you will get older and be alone and realize noone gives a shit about you. Certainly your plates will only care for a short period of time. Sure you don't give a shit about anyone, but noone gives a shit about you. You may not be there, perhaps you are/will become a selfish hermit who doesn't mind being and dieing alone but make no mistake you will get there eventually and you are just pretending if you think that is always going to be a gr… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you make a family in today’s and future society?That article missed the boat completely in my mind. That is good for finding a women to have an LTR with, but having children is a whole other ballgame. My ex had few redflags and a lot of the green ones but she is dumb as a post when it comes to child psychology, rules, boundaries, how to be efficient with her time, deal with stress, act like a responsible parent. I barely see anything about ACTUAL CHILDREN and being a good mother and maintaining a household in that list. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you gain status in a practical way?You want status, get a girl wingwomen and have her introduce you and bring over other women to you at parties, bars, clubs etc. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to get toyed with by these savage bitches on swiping apps? How do I avoid it?Avoid the apps completely. She has 100 thirsty dudes trying to get her attention. I don't like those odds. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 01:16 AM |
| 0 | How do you gain status in a practical way?Congrats you are a young piece of shit, you will learn one day but that day isn't today. "Sucked", "Bro", "Cute girls are blind", "No Frame" You must be 17 and working at McDonalds, definitely in no position to give advice on status. I stand by my original comment you are now on ignore go circle jerk elsewhere. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 01:08 AM |
| 0 | How do you gain status in a practical way?I am shitting on not just you but all of redpill, it is dumbed down to stupidity most days. I've been here long enough to know that only a dumbass actually thinks that making 2X your salary or benchpressing 2X as heavy makes you more attractive to women. IT DOESN'T! Your confidence and drive to achieve "might" be attractive to women but only if you don't know how to communicate that in a non douche bag way (you sound like a douchebag) it confers no status. FYI I am worth close to 10 mil and my s… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 12:43 AM |
| 0 | How do you gain status in a practical way?You clearly don't make a lot of money or lift a lot of weight. Neither of those things give you status whatsoever. Nobody with class walks around with their shirt off or shows people their bank accounts. I seriously doubt most people here can even answer that question you clearly can't. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 11:59 PM |
| 4 | I'm not her best option anymore.Friendship with other guys is not acceptable and is an uncrossable line unless the four of you are going out socially and you get to know his girlfriend. She is disrespecting you in front of your face and you are taking it. You should eventually dump her and leave but more likely you will continue being a beta bitch until she dumps you. For now improve yourself(get a job loser, workout, dress better, etc). Flirt, go out with other girls, and text or talk to them in front of her for dread game. N… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | I took a huge shit where I eat. Now I'm eating that turd. I need some advice!Shut your mouth, ignore it, and it will blow over. If you react in any way you lose and he will get what he wants which is to toy with you. Damage to your reputation? (That is childish highschool bullshit) so what, you spent time with some girl who didn't fuck you. Get over it, she was a worthless piece of trash, who cares. Losing your job or being a fucktard at work is never the right answer. Your reputation at work should be about work, so keep it about that and ignore the childish frat boy no… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else get fucking irritated by listening to girls just so you can fuck them?Yes | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do 9's and 10's seem nicer and more down to earth than 6's and 7's? Am I crazy or has anybody else noticed this?Small Sample Bias. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Two years of lifting but SMV seems stuckUnfortunately this forum is full of asshats who can't read or understand nuances and new teenage douches come here everyday. So the 'old guard' got tired of people not reading or arguing basic points so they just tell everyone "sidebar sidebar sidebar." Well the sidebar isn't that comprehensive or great, you need to start reading girlschase for a lot more detail and information. But one thing is for sure lifting and some arbitrary goal in your head like 9% body fat and benching 4 plates is not w… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Gym BasicsThen get a trainer to show you how to use the equipment the first time. You are full of excuses about why you can't do it. If you use low weight to start and make sure you control the weight meaning you move slowly throughout the whole range of motion you will be better than 90% of the people in the gym. Don't race to use heavy weight and you can't get injured. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | SMV up but can’t pull 7’sMaybe you should reread the thread you are preaching to the choir. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 06:59 AM |
| 3 | SMV up but can’t pull 7’sThe defeatist attitude about not being able to bang 7s and above is just a limiting beleif you need to drop it. How much money you make has very little to do with your status it only helps if you know how to use it. Are girls introducing you to other girls? (that is status). Do you own the hottest club or restaurant in town? (that is status). Stay off online it is a fool's game and you end up with women much lower than your SMV. Cold approaches are a low percentage game especially if you don't h… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 05:16 AM |
| -4 | SMV up but can’t pull 7’sWork on your reading skills and answer my questions first. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Gym BasicsYes just follow the worksheet. At the beginning you have to simply be going 3 - 5 times a week and working hard while you are there. Perfect form not important. Challenging yourself and getting in the habit of never missing a gym day is more important. 95% of guys I see in the gym have shitty form but looked ripped anyway. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 03:50 AM |
| -7 | SMV up but can’t pull 7’sYou are 5'8 and only make 125k/year. What status do you have? How many 7s have you been rejected by? In what context? | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 03:44 AM |
| 0 | Two years of lifting but SMV seems stuckShocker, Redpill is idealistic bullshit. Lifting and making money don't get you laid. If it improves your confidence great, but if you don't do a ton of approaches and improve your social game and network it doesn't help much at all. Lifting is for your own psyche, as you have found out, tons of jacked black dudes that isn't going to get you laid. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 02:13 AM |
| 5 | Did I make the right decision pushing this guy last night?No, and the next one might hit you over the head with a beer bottle after you pushed him. Or better yet the bouncers throw you out on your ass for starting a fight. So cute fucktards come here asking for confirmation bias from other fucktards. Funny thing is most people here are scrawny fucks who couldn't fight if their life depended on it. The truly good fighters and martial arts masters know how to avoid a fight and only fight when it is absolutely necessary which is just about never. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Job interviewed by two femalesGet out of that position quickly if you don't to be a eunich the rest of your life. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Formerly Borderline Attractive Men: What Got You to Cross the Line?It is amazing to me that you Asshats keep asking for references for common knowledge as if I am writing a scholarly paper and have to do that. Yes the statement is true, and even if it wasn't Mr. 5"10 should assume it is true and work on what he can change not worry about what he can't. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 10:53 PM |
| 4 | Formerly Borderline Attractive Men: What Got You to Cross the Line?Have you invested any time in interesting hobbies or actually spending part of your life where you come into contact with the women you would actually be interested in? You can make 6 figures (I make 7 in a good year). You can be lifting for years (I have) and be 6"1 with well above average looks. You can even have decent hobbies (I latin dance, yoga, do charity work) But that doesn't mean shit (I continue to struggle) if you aren't meeting a lot of women the type you are interested (my standard… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 08:25 PM |
| 7 | Lost Faith in WomenAhhhhh 12 year old sleepovers so cute. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 07:11 PM |
| 2 | What to say to new plate? Did I fuck up?You did fine, some women need some comfort after sex you have to read this. If she agrees to see you again at your place she is down to fuck again. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Best responve to this flakeYou are gaming a tourist who is already giving you resistance = low interest. NEXT for sure. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 02:50 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with semi-frequent sexual harassment at workKeep it professional and stop 'pretending' to be dominant or flirting. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Submitting to Alphas around meThe smartest CEOs sorround themself with smarter people than they are in their respective area, you need to learn that mentality. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 02:45 AM |
| 1 | How to get rid of my conditioning of being intimidated by attractive womenJust view her from the neck up. Most women don't have hot faces. Forget about her body just look at her face when evaluating her then you won't put pussy on a pedestal. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 12:50 AM |
| 1 | This HB4 keeps asking me about my girlfriend... is this normal? Is she hitting on me?The problem is you, not her. What do you care what she thinks? Why do you even talk to her? Just say nothing or a Gentleman never talks. Even though you have a 'girlfriend' she is still your oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Best way to get latin women?If you want to waste your time have at it. My standards are far too high to bottom feed on dating apps. Yes I could fuck some girls 2 or more levels below my SMV from dating apps but I simply don't want to. I see it from the girls side ,miss 7 or 8 has 100 thirsty guys after her, I don't like those odds. My photos are already not bad, most are professional promotional shots because I am often getting photographed professionally during latin dance socials. In my city I doubt it matters, as an exp… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend wants strapon. Thoughts?Tell her until she has tasted the fudge popsicle she isn't going to get to peg you. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 05:36 AM |
| 4 | Really need advice on how to deal with this situationNo more texty texty until she gives your balls a resty resty. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 05:30 AM |
| 11 | Best way to get latin women?Get off tinder and all apss. That is 'scared mans' game where most women are on there only for validation and don't take anything seriously. Grow some balls and approach Latin women in person. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 05:24 AM |
| 7 | My son was born yesterday. Paternity is in question, she cheated and we broke up. 80% chance it’s mine.Forget the speculation and strategy, get a paternity test immediately. Call company in your area, nurse will come and take cheek swabs from you and the baby it takes 10 minutes. Results can be 1 - 2 weeks but I would rush it and find out immediately. Get the legal paternity test(useable in court) so the nurse has to maintain chain of custody of the samples. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 08:34 PM |
| 2 | What financial advice would you give to a 19-year-old?Forex is a scam. Day trading is very difficult. Both are just gambling the way that 99% of people try to do it and are not careers. Become an entrepeneur and learn about businesses, if your relatives will help you buy a business that is a whole different ballgame. You have to find a good business(good cash flow) that you are passionate about and think you can maintain and grow and that the previous owner will groom you for the transition in a few years time. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 03:49 PM |
| 9 | I have so much trouble holding frame.Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and to remove all doubt. 'Mark Twain There is nothing wrong with being quiet at times, just keep positive body language and eye contact. The smartest people listen more than they speak and their words are considered powerful. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Is it AWALT or is it just your social circle?You are 23, driven and motivated to work hard and get a professional degree and have a good paying career. A good catch so far if you have decent looks. However if you stay selfish and focused on your career and ride the cock carousel for 7 years and are now 30 you aren't the women men want to commit to much anymore. You may think your value increased over those 7 years but we don't see it that way. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 10:13 PM |
| 1 | How can I safely raise a family in my country.You are a lazy asstard why should I bother doing anything except putting you in your place? Google is your friend USE IT. 1) If you DON'T get married you are even LESS likely to get custody if you end the relationship with the mother. 2) If you go surrogacy and can find a women stupid enough to accept that arrangement you will be the only parent. 3) No legitimate adoption agency would give a child to a stubborn, selfish, redpill asshole father who doesn't want a female partner to adopt with. You… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 09:29 PM |
| 2 | How can I safely raise a family in my country.Common sense should have told you "children have a better outcome when raised with two active parents" and the courts in Canada certainly share that view. But you don't seem to have any common sense or care about the children, your only 'care' is that you will not be able to cooperate with the future mother of your children before, during, and after the relationship fails. I feel sorry for any kids you might have what a life they will be in store for. Your kids can leave you at 18 as well and ev… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 07:36 PM |
| 0 | How can I safely raise a family in my country.Keep preaching to the choir, you are not an expert on family law. Anecdotal reports are pretty useless for properly evaluating risk. You can still get raped by the mother for 'child support' even without getting married. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Bad logistics, bad luck, or just hamstering?You have no clue who is or isn't interested because you haven't escalated. Once you realize what is possible with experience your whole mindset on the possibilities will change but you need success (and many failures before you get success) to get there. You are resisting change, good luck overcoming that. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 06:12 PM |
| 2 | How can I safely raise a family in my country.I gave you sound advice, it is up to you to research if my recommendations fit with your life goals. Raising children is a mature decision, one that is incompatible with the extreme narcissistic views held by most on this subreddit. The extremely ignorant, rigid, and pessimistic views about family law, raising children, and women in general are not helpful or accurate when it comes to planning to start a family. Your approach needs to be much more educated and nuanced and I don't see you adoptin… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 06:01 PM |
| 3 | How long do you usually wait to respond back to a text?Texting is for logistics if she won't meet with you she isn't worth your time. Don't fall for the "I need to get to know you first" bullshit 5 text or 5 minutes then push for a date if she won't move on. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 04:07 PM |
| 9 | How long do you usually wait to respond back to a text?You are worrying about the 'strategy', and missed the point altogether. Redpill men are spinning multiple plates, they don't care about one interaction and aren't worried about one stupid text. Respond when you want to, quickly if you have time, slowly if you are busy. If you are genuinely busy women will be more attracted to you and not worry about when you text them back. Don't play silly games with taking longer than her to reply you have to lead. But if you write her a text and she doesn't r… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Into meYou can hamster in your mind whatever you like every bluepill bitch thinks women want them, till they make a move way too late, the escalation window has closed and they get shot down. Then they come on here posting and are angry at women and themself because they waited too long. Ever wonder why the assholes in highschool who are constantly hitting on women get all the pussy? Because they strike while the iron is still hot. You likely missed that chance move on. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 03:57 PM |
| 3 | How can I safely raise a family in my country.Legal advice from fucktards on redpill who have no experience = bad idea Marriage without a fair prenup properly setup where both parties have lawyers who sign it = bad idea Marriage without abundance mentality = bad idea Children as a single father = bad idea Not understanding you are not the king or priority once children arrive = bad idea Not understanding that marriage shouldn't change anything, but children changes everything, your life is for your kids for a number of years = bad idea. Bes… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Into meIOIs for months = validation whore trying to turn you into orbiter. IOIs for first 5 minutes = potential genuine interest. Group dating = no pussy for you, no isolation, awkward escalation. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 03:23 PM |
| 4 | Red Pills at workplaceYou aren't redpill in the slightest so I wouldn't worry about that. Keep your mouth shut, don't game women at work. The big problem with redpill, is it turns beta guys who have a at least a chance with women into combative neurotic idiots with narcissim problems and severe cognitive dissonance. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Bad logistics, bad luck, or just hamstering?You don't have abundance mentality the exact opposite. You can't find any local girls so you are spinning your wheels with girls from out of town. Yes you can find your balls and fuck these women, you can practice escalating very quickly, by why bother? Why not find women who actually are local that you can turn into regular plates. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Consensus on telling a girl you're dating that you like her?Don't give away your power and tell her you like her. You obviously like fucking her and if you see her more than once a week you are giving her more validation than just a fuck. A little comfort here and there, a dinner out once and a while is warranted if you really like her. You are in her frame, what do you care what she thinks? You do what you want, and lead the communication and meets where you want them to go. If she is going to flake, she is going to flake, if she leaves she is going to … | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 03:35 PM |
| 1 | How Effective is my Father's Advice?When you aren't getting sex you think about it 90% of the time. When you are sexually satisfied you might think about it 10% of the time. Go have sex so you aren't kissing up to a bunch of armchair quarterbacks on an internet forum. There is no reason why you can't have sex and still focus mainly on school and career, balance is key. Stop making excuses why the girls aren't good enough to sleep with, a hole is a hole and you need one right now. Every excuse you make for not escalating with women… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 03:26 PM |
| 9 | Men... do you personally like it when a woman in real life approaches you?I don't care if she approaches or vice versa it doesn't change her value to me. But usually the ones who do approach are not hot so it doesn't interest me much. The hotter ones will just 'accidentily' be in my vicinity so I approach them. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 06:38 PM |
| 2 | So this girl who was my long time close friend and i were hooking up. Last night she started sobbing when we were making out and said she cant do this..."scared I was using her for sex" Classic ploy of 'close friend' when you decide you want to bang her after being a beta bitch for so long. You didn't value the friendship clearly so you should have made a move sooner. Don't take that seriously, smile at her and say "Of course I am I want you every time I see you now." "Scared she isn't good at sex" Just ignore and keep going. You already decided in your mind sex with her or next you should have said 'we will be fine' and ignored her shit tests. … | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Suggestions on getting a 3rd date goingTell her to come over to get charger, and listen to some music, cook dinner, watch a movie, whatever. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Can I do a side gig with a plate or is it one or the other?Tinder girls aren't even going to remember you in a week. What makes you so memorable? | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Can I do a side gig with a plate or is it one or the other?Tinder is about hooking up. If you are trying to date them you are doing it wrong. Schedule all tinder meetups at night, go for alcoholic drinks not coffee and make it short and close to your house. Be very forward sit close, touch her, talk in a low and slow voice, be very sexual one drink and move it back to your place. If she isn't game next. (1) Don't justify or explain yourself, you weren't being flirty on the date so just next. (2) Depends on Context but Agree and Amplify a shit test like … | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Can I do a side gig with a plate or is it one or the other?This forum is about sexual strategy not about 'being friends' with women. We also advocate to not date anyone you work with period. Redpill is about knowing what you want(sex) and not being too afraid to make your intentions known. If you want to 'be friends' then go to a bluepill forum, it is my opinion that any women you want to sleep with will always be a shitty friend. Women in general make lousy friends and one side usually wants something more. That aside there is nothing wrong with contin… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Can I do a side gig with a plate or is it one or the other?You are going to have to learn about game before you can even think about plates or 'side gigs', you can't just act like a friend the whole date and then surprise her with a kiss. You can't plate anyone as you don't know how to move more quickly. You have 'dates' and she won't even kiss you, that means you haven't escalated(varbally and physically) and really haven't applied any redpill concepts. Having 'side gigs' where you are friends and don't get sex is a laughable bluepill concept. What do … | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 02:27 PM |
| 8 | Are women over 30 permanently damaged?They are thinking, I am still hot and have so much knowledge and wisdom now, men should value me more now than ever. They are wrong. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 12:39 AM |
| -1 | I'm in the process of text game with a chick rn, it's going poorly, need advice quick to see her+sex soon.You are way too invested in defending yourself. Consider comments in this thread as directed predominantly to the OP and those reading who are in similar situations. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 06:47 PM |
| 4 | If a chick asks you to cum. Is it cause she wants to stop having sex with you or she wants to know she pleases you?Women who fuck you want to please you. They need the validation of making you cum for their self esteem. If you aren't they think that they are the problem it isn't always the case but they think it is no matter what you say. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 06:04 PM |
| 0 | I'm in the process of text game with a chick rn, it's going poorly, need advice quick to see her+sex soon.You overanalyzing a text conversation to make it less cringey isn't that helpful, you are missing the point. Stop remaining in her frame. Stop begging her to meet you. You aren't going to demonstrate high SMV over text. Escalate and create attraction in person so she wants to meet you broken car and all. Choose a girl with better logistics. Hard next any girl who already rejected you before. Stop trying to 'seduce' over text. Text game is overrated and usually occurs because guys are trying to p… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | I always shake during confrontations. How do I stop this?Lift, martial arts, meditation, stress management and learn to avoid confrontations. Mostly just avoid confrontations, your body is telling you to exit a situation you should listen. Even if you can kick someone's ass cleanly without them getting in a shot(almost noone except Bruce Lee), you are still a loser for allowing yourself to be drawn into a fight. There is a common misconception here that if you look weak you are more likely to be targeted for a fight. NO, if you look like a douche bag,… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Red pill rage at all time high...leaning MGTOWIf you are going MGTOW because online apps aren't working for you I can understand that. Online apps/dating are terrible for getting quality women close to your SMV, most men have to drop their standards for an app like Tinder 2 - 3 levels because those women are what is available to them. If you are truly MGTOW it doesn't mean you give up sex, you just put very little effort into getting/maintaining relationships with women. Nothing wrong with that but you still should be doing approaches and r… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 04:05 PM |
| 0 | I'm in the process of text game with a chick rn, it's going poorly, need advice quick to see her+sex soon.Both of you are trying way too hard to be 'witty and sexy' over text. Serious overkill any quality chick and most others her ASD would kick in and she will never meet you. Instead she can show the texts to her friends: "Look how bad this guy wants to fuck me" | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm in the process of text game with a chick rn, it's going poorly, need advice quick to see her+sex soon.Yeah for someone 'advanced' it should be easy. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 04:48 AM |
| 7 | I'm in the process of text game with a chick rn, it's going poorly, need advice quick to see her+sex soon.You aren't advanced, you are doing 'dumb text game' and then asking us about why it isn't working. Good-luck with your HB4.5 Ghetto trash who like me didn't seem too impressed by your 'text game'. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 02:12 AM |
| -1 | Red pill rage at all time high...leaning MGTOWI think you are too dumb to understand what I wrote. Good-luck with MGTOW and Jerkoffsville its a noble choice you are making. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 02:10 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop myself from clamming up around people of higher perceived social value?Get out of your head. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Stop putting people on a pedestal when you really know them you realize they aren't so special. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 01:47 AM |
| 0 | Red pill rage at all time high...leaning MGTOWYou are a pussy. 3 women in years? "Girl who doesn't give a shit about me" Why should she give a shit if you aren't going to put in the effort to learn game? Go be MGTOW but you aren't fooling anyone the reason why you are there is because you quit and can't get quality women. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 01:46 AM |
| 7 | I'm in the process of text game with a chick rn, it's going poorly, need advice quick to see her+sex soon.Texting doesn't mean shit. "I am already precumming" is cringe worthy. Only a low value dirty skank would respond well to that texting. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Girl rejected you but comes back a year later and realizes your SMV has increased and shows interest, do you go for it or ghost her out of respect to yourself?Its amazing that a opinions of a bunch of anonymous assholes mean so much to you about your 'friend' you are so young and foolish. Obviously if she makes it easy for him fuck her ONS, if he has to chase his tale and do boyfriend shit with her before she will give it up its not worth it. The answer really depends on how good his game is. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 01:51 PM |
| 4 | why does every actual useful redpilled post get removed the very next day? talking about the "ENVY" post for those who have seen itYou think this is a good post? What a bunch of paranoid crap and a bunch of elitist garbage advice afterwards. Why should I even notice some jealous bluepill guy? I don't give a fuck if guys are staring at me I don't notice them. Why can't I have bluepill friends? Most 'redpill' men are selfish assholes who won't lift a finger for me unless it somehow benefits them. I would have a no bros if all I was allowed to be friends with was assholes. Noone in this world just accepts ideas and opinions th… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 02:36 AM |
| 5 | Any solid advice on the LMR text?One of my first posts on this site was on this very topic. The mistake I made was to get boxed in and making it combative. I ended up cancelling a date with a girl "who told me she just wanted to go out as friends", not just for that reason but there were others as well. I regretted this decision and my response to her as well. Don't make it awkward or combative and don't make 'you holding frame' and communicating that the most important thing. "I just wanted to take a cute girl out for a drink … | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Anyone successfully plate someone from their BP days after swallowing the Pill?No. Escalation window has closed. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Last minute resistanceHe acted butthurt she wasn't going to put out. There is no way this girl is contacting him. What is with this angry next next next crap with every women who isn't a robot who doesn't do exactly what you want? Terrible advice, I would reach out to her, 1 day after, pretend/ignore the LMR and ask her out again to a bar near your place and take her back to yours. If she agrees to go back to yours she will be ready this time. If she doesn't take your text or doesn't agree to meet than you know where… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Last minute resistanceScenario 1: I still make/have made the same mistakes you made, dates are too long, go too late and I hesitate when/if going back to the sex location. Your dates are too long, your intention is not deliberate enough and your intention of sex is not being clearly communicated. After three bars and drinks don't do anything in your place except escalate and go for sex. Push her up against the wall start making out as soon as you enter your place and then take her to couch,floor or bed and seal the d… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Last minute resistanceWhat are you doing step by step when you get them to your place? If a girl is willing to come back to your place after a date she is DTF but you still have to lead and not hesitate in the face of shit tests or resistance. The problem seems to be there. Scenario1 was cringe worthy, you let a girl stay over without fucking her. That is awful how does that even happen? find your balls. The problem seems to be there. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Got invited to a threesome with married coupleI see your Schwartz is as big as mine but can you use it as well? | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 05:52 AM |
| 9 | Got invited to a threesome with married coupleDon't ever cross swords. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 06:45 PM |
| 4 | I'm not sure eating saturated fat is the way to go...Bacon? (No! where is that dumb advice) Eggs? (The 3.3g of saturated fat in an egg compared to 13g of protein) You don't eat eggs to get fat you eat them for protein. Nobody should be saying "I need to get more fat in my diet" Foods have fat in them and some fat is needed by the body. Sure if you are a fat lazy slob you may have low libido but eating a high protein(and some fats diet) like eggs, tuna, dairy if you lift heavy you will have a huge libido. There is no proven correlation whatsoever b… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 01:22 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on Jordan Peterson?His voice is so rough, someone please take the hairball out of his throat I can't listen to him. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QRQjrsFnR4 | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Feeling disconnected from most people"I dislike women but still am crazy horny, even though getting pussy seems almost impossible withouth some form of social drinking" You will enjoy gaming women when you have more success and your learned abilities making the whole seduction process fun. But you will have to stumble through the painful process of figuring it out first. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Gym ioi, not sureI prefer no teeth. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 11:05 PM |
| 2 | I know this is a weird question but does it matter if a man uses women's shampoos?Yes it matters. It also matters if you go to a bar and order the fruity drinks with umbrellas. (HUGE SARCASM) | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 10:46 PM |
| 4 | Gym ioi, not sureHamster, Hamster, Hamster. You will never know because you didn't talk to her. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Boring as fuckIts not black or white (Bf or non BF). The flirtation and sex talk is fun. Building up sexual tension is fun. If they aren't having fun they won't give you much attention. The fun doesn't always lead to sex and you never explicitly tell them "I want to fuck you" or its not fun anymore. The chase and be chased is tension is all part of the fun. The 'game' to play to make it fun is you pretend to be interested in a amused in a non needy way and this gets their hamster spinning and them more intere… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Set killed by young waiter.No I like sluts, sluts are easy to game. I just like sluts who appreciate the game I am giving them, if they don't they are useless to me. I don't hate all postwall women they are generally much easier to game than the younger ones at the top of the SMV chart. Plus I need a certain level of maturity to not go insane and its debateable whether I can put up with women in their mid 20s anymore. Its not a graph its a diagram. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with beta orbiter cuck who interrupts my approach?You can't avoid what he is doing. You can either approach same girls when isn't around or take my advice and just game different girls. Just because he is your roomate and cringe worthy doesn't mean you will get rejected by the girls if you try. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Set killed by young waiter.Well if they want to "cougar" it up then I need to move on right away, I have no interest in stupid sluts. You are right about the wingman it would have prevented this situation entirely. https://i.imgur.com/YU35EGq.jpg | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 08:22 PM |
| 8 | All my old friends started hating me since when implementing trp"Bla bla bla I became a selfish asshole and people hate me now." People hate you because you you have no empathy towards anyone. It isn't your 'self improvement' it is that you listen to the Aspies here and can't have any real connection with anyone anymore. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | I don't get itIt isn't your lifting routine it is your game. Unfortunately most people here have no game or if they do, they don't know how to teach game. Next, Lift, Approach More, Abundance Mentality (gets you nowhere without learning seduction and game) Go to Girlschase.com this forum is useless for learning game. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | I don't get itYou didn't show sexual intent and didn't escalate enough. She is a tinderella she wants to get fucked what took you so long to do something about it? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Failing comfort tests with “empowered” women?It was a comfort test and you passed it. If she fucked you, obviously you didn't screw up before it probably was part of the reason she did fuck you. After sex ASD kicked in, "How could I sleep with a guy so quickly who was just using me for sex, does he even like me?" You did fine. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Boring as fuckThink about how Chad would act with them. He shows sexual intent and energy right from the start. He flirts, he makes sexual comments, subtle at first and more overt over time. This takes a lot of practice and a DGAF attitude. If done well these silly girls will be excited, turned on and suddenly will be showing you more attention. The flirting and balls to show clear intent is what separates Chad from the 80%, most likely the attraction window with these two has closed but the practice of being… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Failing comfort tests with “empowered” women?The power play here is not to say a word, calmly get dressed and leave. But it is risky if she needs some comfort. But I am really not understanding what 'dickishness' is after sex. I am never a 'dick' after sex, prolactin makes me satisfied and tired if anything. I don't have the energy to be cocky and I usually just hold the girl a bit afterwards and try not to say much. Afterwards its easy to get sucked into her frame don't do it. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting nervous around hot chicks?Look at their face only. Most girls their face is only meh even 8s and 9s from some angles their face is just okay. If you have that mentality that she is just okay you will act more natural, be more comfortable and be in a better frame. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 06:04 PM |
| 2 | How to stop being desperate for validation?Work on your game, that is what I am doing. Hotter women, just look at their face, even the hottest women from some angles their face is just meh. Ignore the body and treat her like any other human being and it will help you get them easier. The grass is always greener on the other side, find the hottest women and you can and then its easy to find a guy who is tired of fucking her. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 02:27 PM |
| 2 | How to stop being desperate for validation?Getting a new plate initially gives you more confidence. But once you realize how low her smv actually is, that confidence fades when approaching higher SMV women. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Set killed by young waiter.Thanks you are right. My game was really off that night, I was dressed in gym clothes wasn't expecting to pickup, I was out with my buddies to watch hockey, those two girls just showed up and sat near us. I am still shocked that 30s women would be so excited by a 24 year old waiter but live and learn I guess. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Set killed by young waiter.Thanks for the incoherent babbling about grammar and game. This sub is full of little children who think they know about something that they are actually clueless about. I got 9 points for telling someone to bugger off, but my genuine post about how to deal with a cockblock waiter was downvoted and most replies didn't bother to focus on the main point. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Set killed by young waiter.I am still working on showing sexual intent in the right way, for her that was the wrong way. I tend to believe if she was interested it would have been perceived better. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 01:46 PM |
| -2 | Set killed by young waiter.Welcome to Ignoresville, Population: You. Thank-you for replying to me a second time now I can ban you. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 09:08 PM |
| -2 | Set killed by young waiter.I rarely make a post in this forum but ALL CAPS fucktards like you who don't know how to develop an argument give me a strong reason why I should be asking this in Girlschase instead of here with you jackals. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Set killed by young waiter.Ha ha ha I called the waiter Ryan Gosling junior you are psychic! | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 08:53 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with beta orbiter cuck who interrupts my approach?Since when is trying to kiss an engaged girl out of the blue, or "hey do you want to netflix n chill with me" nice guy behavior? It is quite the opposite both of those require balls and have a high risk of rejection. He may be autistic and have used them in a very poor manner but those are both topics incels don't have the confidence to do. Why are you hamstering about the one or two girls he is talking to? There are so many women, avoid drama and choose ones he hasn't already spoken too. Have s… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Set killed by young waiter.Using the word "set" is not a grammar mistake dumbass. He just doesn't know what the word means, and therefore is weak on PUA parlance as are you. I doubt either of you have anything useful to tell me so why are even posting here? | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 08:30 PM |
| 8 | Set killed by young waiter.11000 karma and you are too lazy to read the the paragraph to understand the context for the word set. Feel free to "bugger off" I am sure that is clear enough for you. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 07:40 PM |
| 3 | TLR ends the relationship because I won't show enough commitment.TRP Men don't value HB1 women. You apparently do. Bottom of the barrel NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEXT. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Social media. Useful or hindrance? Also, holding frame enough to deal with petty stuff?Go ask a real trainer to watch your form, your perception of reality might not be correct. Bad form doesn't just lead to more injuries, you isolate only part of the muscle, you aren't working as hard or properly and just feeding your ego. You would be better off doing less weight or less reps, slower, and controlling all of your movements. For strength, mass building, definition, and tone this is the case. The numbers in your head (Br0 I can squat 315pounds now) are meaningless. No serious body … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 11:44 PM |
| 8 | Beanie increases my SMVGet tested for Autism quickly your social awareness radar is WAY OFF. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Does this sound like a weird way to be asked over?That is perfectly fine. What isn't fine is you are making her lead. Girls hate to lead hence the subtle difference between asking directly versus suggesting that she would be pleased to see you tonight. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me what the FUCK I'm doing wrong on Tinder?Tinder suxx, Attention whores, most just want your attention and validation. Get some pro photos and write some shit about S&M and 50 shades of grey in your profile. Even still its a low percentage play, most just want to play around with you anyway and never meet. Bumble suxx even more. If you are okay with 5s and 6s Tinder and online could be okay but if you want better forget it they get 100s of messages per day. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are women ALWAYS on the phone?Short attention spans, attention and validation whores. Head phones at the gym different category I will wear them sometimes. I zone out don't want to hear the gym music or anyone's useless banter while I work out. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | What are some social hobbies that'll allow me to meet women?No Trader Jo's here, but I go to yoga for my body's sake a good counterbalance to lifting heavy. Haha there is always a teacher named Yolanda :) The tight asses in lulu lemon pants doing downward facing dog in front of my face is just a bonus. As is flirting with hippy tree hugging, vegan, tattooed, hipster, hyper slim, fit, and flexible yogis who can all hold their legs behind their heads. Not easy to pull as escalation is difficult talking is frowned upon. I don't see these girls elsewhere but… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Anal sex testing shit test - how did I do?Don't talk about it, don't try to make logical arguments or 'game' anal sex. You are only going to play on her fears. You need to try it in the moment when you are already fucking her good and she is wet and loosened up. You want her out of control and in her most compliant state before you bring up this topic again. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 02:57 PM |
| 9 | Getting your ass kicked.You fighting made her lose tingles period. Next time just ignore it, and just say to her "Lets go somewhere with more classy people" Even if you win you still lose in most women's eyes. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 02:15 PM |
| 5 | What are some of your favorite charming ways to ask a girl back to your place?I have said rediculous stuff "I want you to make me a cheese sandwich" Just never tell them the direct truth or their hamster will go into rejection mode. Listen to some music, good bottle of wine, watch a comedy show, music videos whatever. I have an ice cream maker I make vegan coconut ice cream so I invite them for that. Really just something so she doesn't feel like a slut. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else mentally shut down after ejaculating?If the girl is so ugly to you that you are disgusted afterwards you are bottom feeding | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else mentally shut down after ejaculating?Of course, but I am your subconscious speaking to you right now. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else mentally shut down after ejaculating?You are bottom feeding, shame on you. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 05:28 PM |
| 3 | For everyone who gave me advice on how to deal with my best friend who fucked my gf (over 2k views)Piss off troll. Old thread removed (by you)? Nobody wants your youtube links here. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 03:52 PM |
| 2 | I'm not happy with my overall choices, 23 years old now.Look forward not backward. Finish school,l apply yourself to your studies. You need to live a balanced life, just prioritize things that will have a greater long term impact on your life. You can still chase pussy for fun(you should) but you know its not going to achieve anything long term so you have to make other things a priority. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 03:44 PM |
| 1 | BulliedKeep a strong work ethic, train your mind and body, smart is sexy, fit is sexy. You are on a mission, and your mission doesn't include drugs, 'hanging out', stupid childish games or being 'cool'. I was 5"5 for most of high school 6"0 now, I got bullied, assholes would take stuff out of my bag, it wasn't fun. I had some big friends who protected me but it was still embarrassing at times. Just focus on productive things and don't react and bullies will eventually move on to a target giving them mo… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 03:34 PM |
| 0 | Girls tell me I look 18.. I'm 21."When on a date with a VYW, you’re there to enjoy the deep, visceral feelings of sexual desire and masculinity that much younger women can give you. That’s it. If you look for anything deeper or anything beyond that, you’re likely going to be disappointed." 'Blackdragon | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 03:24 PM |
| 11 | How normies escalate/have sex in few dates?You used the term 'normies' you are way past being helped here. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Are pick up artists a Scum?There is a full spectrum of PUA. The worst ones are gimmicky with rigid constructs on how you should act or think, not a scam but pretty useless. The better ones are a wealth of knowledge and teach you how to adapt to different women and situations as you are seducing. Redpill is just a state of mind, it really doesn't get into enough detail on many different topics that PUA cover. I would read Girlschase its just about the best most detailed material on so many topics I can find. I don't know i… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Can a woman get over being an alpha widow?Fuck that noise. Stay in the present, if she is fucking you, you are good enough for her to fuck. The more she fucks, invests in you, passes your compliance tests the more she will idealize you and "Mr. Previous Alpha" will start to dim. You stay in the present, anytime she isn't treating you the way you deserve to be treated you up your game. I really don't care if she dated or "idealized her previous Brad Pitt Chad" in her mind, I am here in the present and now and he isn't. I won't stand for … | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 02:01 PM |
| -1 | Why are people becoming more standoffish as my SMV increases?"I lift so every women wants me, so every guy is mate guarding" NO. Guys are not responding well if you look thirsty and are trying to flirt with their girlfriends. Stop being autistic and worrying about other men or on flirting with women who have their boyfriends in the room. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 01:33 PM |
| 3 | How often do you see these posts on FB?The attention whores love all the beta attention. Until he gets enough balls to ask her out and then she says "Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww how dare he try that he is my ffffriend" | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | How to hold frame with a taller girl?Of course not you couldn't reach high enough to kiss her when she was wearing her heals. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 11:21 PM |
| 13 | How to hold frame with a taller girl?Take an axe and cut her down to size. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Is it me? or are girls today more on that "princess" mindset.They will act differently with different guys. Every princess is happily sucking some Chad's dick and at the same time treating BB like a cuck. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 09:51 PM |
| 1 | My friend just fucked my girlfriend and bragged about it to all our social circle friends.First of all are you sure this actually happened or is he just trying to get a reaction out of you. Did you actually speak to the girl? If its actually true there is an easy response to this: "Enjoy the sloppy seconds, I was just about done with her anyway. You just proved to everyone what a disloyal piece of shit you are, congrats you are ghosted." | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Honest Feedback From a Girl Who Just Dumped MeThis isn't a business deal this is a women she isn't rational the way men are. Never ask for feedback again, what she gave you is not useful information, you played right into her frame( you were already there) and if she isn't in your frame her attraction will wane. The next time some girl wants to have a 'talk' just don't even bother and cut her off, no communication. If you must go to such a talk, as soon as she says she is breaking up, just say okay and leave with no emotion, don't give her … | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | I just had the most fucked up date of my life.You fucked up big time. You can't escalate like that in public when you can't go all the way. If you did all that in private you could have fucked her. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 08:25 PM |
| 5 | What are some social hobbies that'll allow me to meet women?Wow little billy are you afraid of women? What a good little soldier you are. Hot Guy stares at her ass, he is flirting and its hot. Ugly Guy stares at her ass, he is creepy. Just don't be ugly guy, worrying about creepy is beta as fuck. In hot yoga, I am always shirtless with shorts. I always sit in the second row and will select a spot behind the hottest girls in the room. I will stare at their ass if I feel like it and not worry about it. I will talk to the instructor and other women after cl… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | My parents are pestering me for an arranged marriage.... what can I do?You marry and you will be a beta bitch to your parents and ball and chain your whole life. Grow a pair and get out of this toxic situation. But I suspect you are a lazy ass and are supported by your parents and afraid they will cut you off. If you were independent you wouldn't be asking us you would have done it already. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Are you totally okay with not having kids (your bloodline continued)?Be Jamaican, only hook up with uber whores who have lots of kids and don't know who the father is. You be that guy have lot of raw sex and have baby momma's you don't know about all over the world. Never give your real name or contact information to these hos. Spread your seed around the world. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Why am i basically completely invisible to women. Do any of you guys have a similar problem.Lifting doesn't matter if when you talk you sound like Fred Flinstone. Go join debating or public speaking club and learn how to talk and think on your feet. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 03:39 PM |
| 40 | How harsh should we make our shit tests toward women?Why are you shit testing women? Why are you shit testing women on tinder? Why the hell would you criticize a women for her looks by asking a question that invokes negative emotions? Go get tested for Autism. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Straight up ignored this girl for weeks - interest spiked - Still worth engaging?Next. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 03:46 AM |
| 3 | To everyone here, sex is great, but PLEASE have standards. I hope none of these men were you.There are landwhales that are prudes. There are landwhales that are whores. This one example proves nothing. You need to realize hotness and promiscuity are independent. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 02:12 PM |
| 1 | To everyone here, sex is great, but PLEASE have standards. I hope none of these men were you.You are are hamstering, stop that negative bullshit. You are autorejecting yourself. When you realize women keep their attraction hidden for manoeuvrability reasons and you will never know if its AW versus genuine interest, you treat all women the same and you really DGAF, you approach any women who gives you wood and DGAF if she fucks you or not there are 10 hotter ones right beside her. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | To everyone here, sex is great, but PLEASE have standards. I hope none of these men were you.Its fucking tinder what do you expect? If you were on tinder swiping right to EVERY girl (don't hamster we all have done it for kicks) seeing what you could get and a landwhale matched with you and you were really horny. Unlike all the other cunts on tinder who play around for validation, bla bla bla, takes a few days to go out on a date, bla bla bla only a % of them will fuck you bla bla bla. Instead she messaged you up right away and pretty much said "Come Over Now, I'll spread for you at the … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | UPDATE: Dealing with guilt from Alpha Widowing a girl.Then video tape that shit the last time before its over. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 02:42 AM |
| 1 | UPDATE: Dealing with guilt from Alpha Widowing a girl.You are thinking like a women. 'I won't reject him overtly I'll just always say i am busy till he gets the message because I can't stand confrontation' C'mon man stop being a pussy, rip that bandaid off if you are done fucking her, its better to do that than string her along longer do you like being strung along by women? | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 02:32 AM |
| 2 | What happened to your old Oneitis?She put on 10 pounds and the magic was gone "poof" end of my attraction for her. She tried to get me back on my birthday, she came over with a present, but I had already moved on to another women and I was still bluepill at the time but luckily I knew better than to go back. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 02:25 AM |
| 2 | After TRP I'm filled with disgustTry only 5 years, and 500,000 plus 50k a year in CS. Worth every penny to be free. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if oneitis likes me or notWhat is embarrassing is you think a bunch of internet strangers understand your interaction with your oneitis better than you. Women use ambiguity to maintain your attention and keep her options open, she might want to use you as a friend or she might be interested in fucking you. If you ask her out and she doesn't say yes, you have your answer and you can move on. That is not something to be embarrassed about, what is embarrassing is you wasting time posting this thread and being too afraid to … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 05:13 PM |
| 5 | The "I need space" phase?She prioritized a job in a new city over you, that is probably a next in most guys books, she is 23, if you move on her terms it isn't going to end well for you. All the conversations are cringe worthy and you know that they didn't help. If you still want her, use a little dread, withdraw attention and go game other girls, you seem to be hanging on to this one because of scarcity mentality first get an abundance mentality and decide if you still want her. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 04:04 PM |
| 93 | A woman just stood near me, when her boob touched my arm, she didn't flinched nor backed up. Did she do it on purpose?Get tested for Autism. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Increasing success with white womenIf you weren't Autistic you would have understood your perception of yourself and theirs are very different. Anyone who actually dates 'White Women' never refers to them as 'White Women' they aren't all the same did you know? They have different origins and religions did you know that? The way you write and think, I hope you have a large cock because your only chance with the 'proper ladies' is that you are their Cabana boy and they need to slum it once and a while to get back at their cheating … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Increasing success with white women'I talk pretty proper' I am laughing so hard at that line, NO, you definitely do not speak or write English well. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if oneitis likes me or notMixed signals = low interest Telling Friend Cute = more interest Only way to find out is to stop hamstering here and ask her out (date, time, location). If she says anything but yes, wait for her to propose an alternate if she doesn't, she is not interested. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 03:32 PM |
| 7 | How to avoid relationship and just have sex?Don't fall for the good girl act. Is she a virgin? If not treat her like every other girl. Escalate push for sex, she will let you know if you are moving too fast. The interesting thing is, this is the strategy you use with the 'good girls' and the sluts it works equally effectively, just don't get butthurt if she tells you explicitly when to slow down. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 03:20 PM |
| 7 | Extreme focus mode on datesYou are nervous and trying too hard. You probably don't go on many dates. As you go on more you will learn to relax and that women and sex are not that big a deal. When you aren't having sex you think about it 90% of the time. When you are getting it regularly you only have to think about it 10% of the time. You should realize it isn't what you say but more of the vibe she is getting from you. When you have a DGAF attitude your focus will be stronger on the things that interest you and change th… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Asked this chick out to dinner but instead of dinner, I just wanna fuck her. If you were in my shoes right now, how would u diverge her from dinner to bed instead?Neither of you have provided any benefits to a coffee shop. That was the information I was asking about. While I don't do many dinner dates (unless I'm dieing to check out a new restaurant), I never do any coffee dates. I'll do coffee as a business meeting venue, never to game women. In my opinion the rest of the stuff you are both talking about can happen more easily at a night venue or a more physical daytime activity. I think coffee places are a shitty place to take a date. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 03:00 PM |
| 3 | "You never talk to me" problemUsually girls who send 'mixed signals' are not interested. "sexually unattractive" and "why do we never talk" are two opposite ends of interest. One indicates quit explicitly you are in the "friend zone" the other indicates she wants your attention. My guess she wants you to be her 'beta friend' and for you to continue to validate her while she gives nothing in return. I would just continue to withhold attention from her. If you see her be polite, be civil, and just focus your attention on peopl… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 02:54 PM |
| 0 | Asked this chick out to dinner but instead of dinner, I just wanna fuck her. If you were in my shoes right now, how would u diverge her from dinner to bed instead?What does push/pull kino look like in a daytime coffee shop? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Went beta hard with oneitis but she attends same group events/meetups as meSounds like you can't keep your cool around the previous oneitis, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this. I would avoid her because the drama could cause you to do something stupid in front of your new gf. I have been through this situation before had 3 exes in the room with a current girlfriend. They were giving her the evil eye in jealousy the whole time and smiling at me. There was no drama, I loved every minute of it, and there was no way I was going to get upset over anything that happened b… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 02:34 PM |
| 4 | Asked this chick out to dinner but instead of dinner, I just wanna fuck her. If you were in my shoes right now, how would u diverge her from dinner to bed instead?I have never turned a coffee date into sex ever. Daytime, public, loud, boring venue. How does that turn into anything good? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 02:28 PM |
| 1 | When her actions don't match her wordsYou have to learn to stop apologizing to women. They don't think logically and rationally and can radically change their opinion. You apologizing makes them more upset with you not less. You talking about it makes you the guy who 'gives her bad feelings' just ignore and change the subject. If you are still fucking her then she still wants to fuck you. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 02:26 PM |
| 5 | I keep finishing at around 5 minutes during sex. It never makes me feel embarrassed but I want to last longer wtf can I do?Round 2 will be longer. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Just fired from all female firmYes I love it, the women made you there little bitch for 3 months, gave you no training, and then let you go with no consequences. Alpha Women. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Hooking up with girls who are in a friend group"Look around at the ground." Yeah Autistics love it when you are looking at your shoes, it gets them wet :). Real women not so much. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Girl turns cold after a kiss during music festivalIf that is really how it played out you did fine. Your only mistake was not getting her number (not social media so you become her orbiter). But that is a judgement call because you might have already blown it or she was just not interested and being an AW the whole time. Punching you in the arm or doing anything physical is a sign of interest and flirtation usually but AW also use it to get more validation out of you. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | First redpill experience. Oneities, scarcity and bluepilled behaviours. Suffering. Mayday Mayday!You did great when you were with her congrats. Now get really scarce stop giving her too much attention and go game other girls. The more attention and validation you give her now in long distance the less you will have a chance to fuck her when she returns. I am not saying cut contact but don't be her emotional tampon or she will lose attraction for you. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Drunk hookup keeps apologizing for feeling sick and not going the whole 9 yardsUntil they are invested in you more, you have to hit them up at least once a week to 'hang out' there is a hook point before which you have to put in more effort and give them a little more attention. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with women with massive frames?Match her loud voice with a big amused smile. She is a child crying out for attention, you are so far above it, you just stay calm, ignore her, and don't give her the attention she craves. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 03:50 PM |
| 2 | I cheatedYou can't make someone trust you. Either she does or she doesn't. You don't care about if she trusts you, you care about her compliance and whether she gives you a good time. If she won't fuck you when you want because she says she doesn't trust you then, soft next. If she is still not compliant hard next. She will only trust you if she invests more and more in you, then in her head the relationship is too big to fail and she will trust again. The way to build trust is to get her to invest. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 03:45 PM |
| 12 | What was the reason for your mind shift from beta to alpha and discovering TRPPutting in little effort with women and still getting to bang them. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 02:19 PM |
| -1 | Why are there so many beta nice-guys found in retail jobs?99%+ of all men are bluepill. Why should this surprise you? Redpill men (or those who appear to you as redpill) are proportionally going to have better paying jobs but there are so few of them its BP everywhere. Working in retail sucks, I won't even touch owning retail or investing in it, Amazon is killing retail. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a manager who is a total cuntYour impression of them 'needing you' is probably not reality. Keep your mouth shut and do your job unless you want to be fired. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 01:04 PM |
| 21 | Laying in bed with this chick I couldn’t close. What do.Your mistake is letting her stay in your bed if you are not fucking. Why would you let some bitch stay in your bed if she won't give you what you need? She is withholding sex just to have power over you (ASD,LMR,not enough attraction). Kick her out, withhold comfort and attention until you go out again and she either puts out next time or next. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 12:54 PM |
| 6 | Are some women delusional?The average guy will still hit on a 5 - 7, they are too afraid to hit on a 10. 5 - 7s get a lot of attention from thirsty guys so they get big heads. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend “kidnap” situation. How the fuck do I approach this?Stop jumping to conclusions armchair quarterbacks. For all we know it did happen or it mostly happened (she is exaggerating a bit) and she doesn't want to go through being a victim and testifying in court. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 12:47 AM |
| 4 | So i plated a long time friend but she told me she wants to stop hooking up cause shes worried itll ruin our relationship.Happened to me, just say okay and then cut contact until you want to ask her over to have sex. Do exactly what you did before to get her into bed as if her comment didn't exist. If she doesn't agree to come over don't agree to anything else and soft next. The next time she contacts you ask her over again and be a broken record each and every time. She will either agree to come over or stop contacting you. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 03:37 AM |
| 3 | LTR & AWALT: How Much Does A Woman's Sexual History Matter?She fucked you on the first date. She stabs a piece of chicken and mentions another dude's name. She talks about a 'train' of guys. She hasn't transcended her past she is flaunting it proudly. Why are you hamstering that she is GF material? You are under her spell and you better guard yourself more carefully in future. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 03:19 AM |
| 4 | LTR is trying to get me to help her friend ride the CC (my fucking roommates) and acted out when I told her I have no obligation to help her friend.Suggest threesome with you your GF and friend. If it works you are in for a fun night. If it doesn't I think she will shutup about helping her friend. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 06:17 PM |
| 3 | She regrets it: “feels miserable”You failed to provide adequate comfort after sex, either immediately after and definitely if you didn't respond to her text the day after. If you don't want plates to fall try to remember women feel a connection after sex and you need spend a little bit of effort to keep them spinning. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Ya'll ever notice how the more your SMV increases, the more enemies you seem to make?This is a nuanced topic, if you are teenager, autistic, or a simpleton please feel free to never compliment anyone as you probably lack the social skills to do it properly. http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-compliment-girl-youve-known-her-years Also read Dale Carnegie's "How To Win Friends and Influence People" on selling in business. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Should i ghost this bitch? She keeps talking during sex.It really depends on if she is fun and up for power play or not. If you say to her "Shut Up Cum Dumpster" and she gets turned on you have your answer. If you grab her throat and say "You like that Cum Whore" what would she say? If you are too afraid to do these things no wonder you are reacting to her jabs. You have to see how dominant you can be without killing immersion and emotion. Read Sex G-D Method definitely worth it. If you are being really dominant or role playing she probably will stop… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 09:20 PM |
| 5 | HB10 extremely coldGood luck with that you Anti Semitic douche. You have no prayer, she is out of your league, move on this is going to end with you looking foolish. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Ya'll ever notice how the more your SMV increases, the more enemies you seem to make?Boy you and the OP have huge male hamstering going on in your heads. Other Men don't like you flirting with their girlfriends? (go figure). Why are you so adversarial and insecure and thinking so much about competition from other guys? The stuff about pullups and pushups, they can see you are bigger and are complimenting you. Keep your 'changes' to yourself, do you really think the guys who are high SMV and naturally successful go around bragging about their changes? Do rich guys go around bragg… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Ya'll ever notice how the more your SMV increases, the more enemies you seem to make?Fucktard A said to Fucktard B "Your doing it wrong" Fucktard B Lols like a teenage girl and then hamsters in his head how he is doing it right and Fucktard A doesn't like him because of his 'Self Improvement' Don't be a fucktard. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Asked girl out, she proposed something elseWhat do you expect from a guy named anusbleach?!?!?!?! When you get more experience you become less rigid with the 'rules' and just go with the flow a little more. Its okay you are learning we have all been there. Chances are you haven't escalated enough so the girl is not sure about you and her interest level is low. You can turn that around but you might have to go out once under less than optimal conditions to do it. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 11:40 PM |
| 49 | Do sluts feel proud of their high n-counts?no they are ashamed and lie to lower numbers all the time | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Finding a balance between indifference and displayed interest.Remember name next day. - Agree and amplify, nope I won't even remember your hair color. Anyone going to find out - Nope noone is going to find out unless you tell them. I like my women discreet. What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. Its not important what she says its important what she does. You needed to lead her to a new place(yours) or to an empty bedroom, "lets go somewhere more comfortable" and ignore all are ASD hamstering. You don't even have to answer those questions just l… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Failed shit tests with FWB that always pushes my buttons - how to recover?You came home jet lagged and still fucked her twice. Why you didn't let her leave I have no idea, but it sounds like you spend a bit too much time in her frame. Just ignore all this you probably didn't fuck up too badly and just continue on as normal. You seem a bit too invested in a FWB though you better have options so you don't come off so needy next time. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Whats the fine line between "strong silent type" and "socially inept autist"? I'd really appreciate some guidelines on talking less.Stop thinking you are The Godfather or like the Godfather you aren't. If you are silent you are invisible to women. They don't care as much about looks as we do, they care about your confidence and being a mime doesn't show much confidence. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | why do I get scared by girls that like me?Are you afraid of sex? Very inexperienced? Have you been rejected by women when you tried to escalate? | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | I’ve decided to full commit to self investment...just one questionSetting goals is meaningless that is easy. Sticking to them is hard. You have to decide the priority of your goals and keep true to that in terms of how you spend your time. Why are you making women a bottom priority? | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Should I make a harem as a high school student?You can and should fuck if they are hot enough for you. HB9 should keep fucking you on the dl its her reputation she has to worry about not yours. I got much more pussy telling them and keeping my mouth shut and telling girls I prefer they did the same. But if a girls gonna talk she's gonna talk, you just deny everytime with a cocky smile. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 06:20 PM |
| 12 | A coworker tried to push me aside in front of my boss and I confronted her. Did I do the right thing?You handled things badly. Complaining to her does nothing, and documenting is only important in really bad situations this one isn't. Next time find a way to be in important conferences and meetings and don't get butt-hurt if you can't be. Her comment with a positive spin is she was covering for your absence and justifying hers. You don't get ahead by putting others down or having conflict with your co-workers quit the opposite often. You get to management by showing you can work well with peopl… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 06:12 PM |
| 2 | HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr'Very immature situation you must be really young. Yes smart thing to keep on the dl so she knows you are discreet and not going to damage her 'rep'. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 03:22 AM |
| 8 | How do I stop feeling guilty about being a player?Treat all the women in your life who fuck you with respect. Just because you have a DGAF attitude and power over them doesn't mean you have to act like a fucktard. It means you treat them as you would like them to treat you and don't remind them constantly of their status. You take them out for a meal once and a while as a reward. You might do something other than fucking them once and a while and actually show up to something they want to do even if its not exactly your favorite thing, If you d… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 03:04 AM |
| 2 | A girl slapped my assOh no the mean girlie is hitting me. Are you for real? Are you a virgin? | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 03:01 AM |
| 54 | Anyone else find TRP and its network to produce the most raw and factual information regarding bettering yourself? I've looked at a bunch of other subs and this place in general has helped the most.Funny thing about reading about self improvement, IT DOESN'T MEAN SHIT unless you act on it. Stop praising the advice and apply it. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Recommendations on going about getting dna test.You have provided zero real information. If the mother is trying to get you to pay for anything just tell her you want to do a paternity test first. It is so simple these days, under the tongue swabs for you and baby takes a couple minutes max. Just call up one of the labs, if you need a legal one(chain of custody maintained) its more expensive but the nurse can actually come to your house to take the samples. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Innate personality vs TRPIf you internalize redpill it will become part of your consciousness and change your personality. You become more confident, more selfish, more willing to make it clear what you want. These are all for the good, if some people call you a dick ignore them. You will learn to stop doing romantic crap until and only if she has earned it. Nothing dries a women's pussy up faster than a man willing to invest in her right away without her even lifting a finger. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 10:19 PM |
| 8 | HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr'Sounded great until the "had to sneak out fast" part why would that be exactly? | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 10:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I kill that voice in my head that says I can't be with a woman?You can't, but you will try anyway and it will be awkward so what. She won't be the last women you will be with so what. You will also realize pussy and sex are not the end all be all that you thought so what. "For every beautiful women there is a man who is tired of fucking her" Your mindset should be improve your approaches, improve your sexual skills, if it doesn't work that is okay just try again be outcome independent. One women doesn't matter, it only matters if you are too afraid to appro… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Uneasy feeling, possible oneitis.You are going to need to learn about seduction. HB8+ don't need to do shit, you need to be leading, escalating, flirting, sex talk, physical escalation ladder etc. If you aren't she won't get the tingles and you will get put in friend zone. Young girls have attention spans of about 20 seconds if you haven't already lost your chance setup date two and be ready to escalate even if she isn't giving you much. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 08:19 PM |
| 9 | I get very defensive & lose frame when I get shit tested by my parents because they bring up old stuff I did 10 years ago like I did it yesterday, & I still do that, even though I learned from these mistakes the first time - how to stop this pattern?Are you a full fledged Aspie? You don't get shit tested by your parents that is reserved for girls who are interested in you. This Forum is full of Autistics. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Help me analyze my behavior from last nightMaybe your brother will fuck her just as good but be the bluepill beta bitch boyfriend she has been dreaming of and drop you for him. He can do all the bluepill beta stuff with her but you just rail her from time to time. You don't even have to tell her who is who. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Any of you on here do sales? If so, how do you build an emotional connection with a customer within the first 15-30 sec ( prior to pitching them)?14$/hr is low but what makes it horrible is the quotas. Get trained and learn to sell insurance it pays much better. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 11:12 PM |
| 5 | chick I soft-nexted asks me if anything is going on because I was being cold and formal. How to respond?Why did you even bother replying to her? You can't soft next someone who doesn't respect you or your time. If you are in friend zone hell nothing you do other than ask out and escalate is going to change anything. Chances are you have no chance with her, but you are welcome to try to test how Redpill you are now and how good your seduction skills are. Best case scenario after you grab her ass and push her against the wall she may say "What has got into you?, you are so different now" | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Help me analyze my behavior from last nightTwin brother, this is hilarious I guess she must like his looks too. Maybe she will plate him as well. Your mistake is having 'feelings' for a plate. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 10:41 PM |
| 4 | Any of you on here do sales? If so, how do you build an emotional connection with a customer within the first 15-30 sec ( prior to pitching them)?Horrible job, get a different one you aren't going to sell shiite and even if you do it isn't going to be worth it for the time effort expended. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | I think I found out why women have such high standards, it might be because of dudes like thisNice troll you got the perm ignore now. You can play your Aspie games with someonelse. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | I think I found out why women have such high standards, it might be because of dudes like thisExactly, this older fat charming guy I know gets way hotter and younger women (9s and 10s) than me. Does it make me mad, HELL NO, I just want to learn from him. The Chads I want to learn from I admire them and aspire to learn the things they are good at. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | I think I found out why women have such high standards, it might be because of dudes like thisFirst off a landwhale is not a 6 more like a 2 or 3. I wouldn't even fuck one with your dick. But that is irrelevant, Chad doesn't waste his time with this forum nor does he give a shit what you think or want. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Is public indirect teasing by a woman considered a shit test or beta shaming?You are seriously not getting it. Girls rarely give excessive attention to a man unless there is some interest. Noone online can tell you what is really going on you are just hamstering. You don't even trust your own instincts and it isn't what they say its their body language and actions that matters more. Who really cares what their motivation is ? Treat these girls like the silly children they are. You need to learn how to handle them and learn to handle future women who test you if you truly… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 04:56 PM |
| 0 | I think I found out why women have such high standards, it might be because of dudes like thisOh Boohooo Chads are bottom feeding and its fucking up your chances at 6s and 7s. Are you fucking kidding me? Chads do whatever the fuck they want, get your own shit in order and learn seduction or just find women who haven't been "Alpha Widowed" Crying over what Chad does or doesn't do is pathetic you won't ever change it. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Is public indirect teasing by a woman considered a shit test or beta shaming?Of course its not okay, but instead of being butthurt you need to flip it around. If you act butthurt they will permanently brand you as a loser and you are one. If you play up the arrogant annoying badboy image who flirts with them you will see their attitude change quickly. Every single women finds flirting attractive and fun if you are doing it right. If they make comments that appear to be insults Agree and Amplify and show them you DGAF ( hide that fact you care way too much) which you shou… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 04:43 PM |
| 5 | Do you you really have to lift?I am a hard gainer as well. 6"0, 180 toned fit. Compound exercises are key. Squats, Dead Lifts, Bench Press, Pullups. I haven't gained much weight(a few pounds max) still working on getting my diet right but it certainly gave me a lot more confidence I especially like carrying women up the stairs and throwing them on the bed. You have to go religiously 3 times a week to see any significant results. You also have to push yourself to almost failure on every excercise to get the benefits. When my s… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 04:32 PM |
| 0 | “Stop playing games” - what to do with this?Telling a women she is boring you is immature and aspie I don't know what that is supposed to accomplish. Intentionally waiting hours to respond to a text is immature. If you normally respond quickly she knows you are doing it. I don't know why you do much communication online you should be speaking in person and saving your energy and time for when you are together. You are in an LTR, don't have other options, and are in her frame and she is asking for more commitment from you. I'd read sex g-d… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 02:50 PM |
| 15 | Do you you really have to lift?The initial value improvement you get from lifting is not in your looks(that takes time) its in your confidence. The testosterone boosts, feeling of self achievement and feeling of being more attractive are what helps the most. Yes if you stick with it for months or years you will change your body(assuming you are eating right) but that takes time. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being angry at being fed blue pill bullshit my whole life?Forget online, do real life approaches your odds are way better. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Female coworker in service industryYou don't hold frame with your boss you do what she tells you to do. You don't care what your 'image' is at work that is all in your head. You don't seem too bright so I'd keep it simple at work keep your redpill hamstering to a minnimum and do your job well and keep your mouth shut. You are not gaming women at work period. Get two bags that will both fit in the lockers if you must, really doesn't take Einstein to figure that out. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever thought a girl was more interested in you than she really was? And if so, what happened? How did it end?For your own confidence assume she is always interested. But this is typical bluepill thinking (she is interested and will be when I get the balls to make a real move). If you haven't done anything to make her interested (sexual frame, flirting, complimented her, compliance tests, seduction) and its been more than a few minutes(let alone days) she likely isn't all that invested and if she was interested your lack of balls has diminished that interest. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 01:54 PM |
| 6 | Is public indirect teasing by a woman considered a shit test or beta shaming?Is this your male hamster making excuses why you don't flirt and ask out one or both of them? | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | When a plate tries to go through your phone..Keep that phone locked! She is a plate doesn't deserve to snoop through your stuff period. We are always walking a tightrope with plates, most of the time I like to keep it ambiguous our 'status'. Plates break eventually this will happen and if she really isn't into to spinning plates herself she will end it for a beta guy. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Girls, explain me this situation..and should I leave it?Best post in this thread by far! | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:53 PM |
| 5 | I think I found out why women have such high standards, it might be because of dudes like thisYou creamed your pants over some girl with a Chad? Boy your hamster is in overdrive, who gives a crap, could have been a friend, classmate, Chad can hang out with whomever he feels like and it isn't your business. Are you serious? an UGLY bitch raises her SMV being with a Chad? Not in my world she doesn't. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 07:09 AM |
| 6 | I ghosted a girl who treated me like a beta, she randomly hit me up today. Should I do anything?You went on two dates with her. Date 3 is at your house to 'watch a movie' you get some wine cuddle a bit escalate and fuck. If she declines, counteroffers or whatever just soft next. The next time she hits you up the same offer. Just keep repeating it until she agrees to your terms (e.g. fuck you at your house.) You have nothing to do lose, ignoring her is just butthurt. But you have to be strong enough not to do beta things or let her dictate where you go. Don't go anywhere but your place. If … | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:38 AM |
| 1 | They came to me in flocks when I was a 100kg addict, now that I quit that life and lost 30kgs, I can't score."I abstain from night life" Well if you cut down your approaches and aren't approaching gutter trash anymore than you aren't going to get laid as much you will have much lower opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 11:55 PM |
| 2 | High interest - then silenceAre you autistic what the hell is wrong with you? Yes many women enjoy rough sex, but choking her and receiving LMR from her at the same time is rapey VERY RAPEY. I have yet to see a women enjoy being choked but at the same time not want to have sex. You want to have a discussion with the women about what kind of sex she likes(and find out from her she likes rough sex) and what is the best way for her to get off. This should have happened way before sex and probably away from the sex location so… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 04:04 PM |
| 2 | High interest - then silenceWhen you have a girl in your bed and fail to push through LMR there is a very high chance she will not give you another chance. Woman psychology is fucked up, she wouldn't let you sleep with her and then hamsters in her brain that it was the right decision and then loses attraction for you. The opposite is also true if you were successful in pushing past LMR. It happened to me with one really messed up girl, had her in my bed couldn't get her pants off she then refused to see me again. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Was I wrong for leaving a plate...But on the other hand, you've got to give her a little bit of care. If she's being a good soldier, and she's having you over for wild animal sex whenever you feel like it and not giving you too much drama, then why not buy her dinner once in a while? I agree with this it keeps the plates from breaking too quickly. Its cheaper to do this than to constantly have to replace breaking plates. I have no problem buying a chick dinner if it gets me ass No this is very wrong, you don't pay for her ass. I… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Was I wrong for leaving a plate...Girl you haven't seen in a month(wonder why?) gets you to pick her up and give her a ride, and with the lure of sex gets you to take her to a restaurant for steak and wine dinner that you weren't expecting and then asks you to pay. You call her a plate but you aren't acting like a plate or treating her like a plate. That plate either broke a month ago and this girl is trying to turn you into a Beta Boyfriend or you are seriously out of touch with reality. You left out the details but obviously y… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Just got this text back on Tinder, how to respond?Lets meet at X at Y time, texting is for logistics only, keep it minimal. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Just got this text back on Tinder, how to respond?Just do what you want, and every action you do is to get what you want. You will find out that women who like you will want to please you and do exactly what you want. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Why are most of the muscular men right wing?If it was mostly redpill men lifting (which it really isn't in mine or any other gym), than yes I'd assume most are Right Wing capitalists, working out is a means to an end and in a capitalist society you have the greatest potential to be rewarded for your efforts. The disparity between have and have nots is greatest in right wing society. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Just got this text back on Tinder, how to respond?Why are you always here hamstering? I have written several posts to you and I'm not sure you are getting it. Do what you want, she is a HB4 you don't really care about her. Your attitude should be IDGAF I won't put in too much effort and just fuck her as quickly as possible. If she isn't responding to you Next. Don't focus on what you need to repair(except your logistics, you better make sure you can fuck at her place) don't even think about it, she is a HB4 she should be lucky to have you or an… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis moved into my commune and I gotta vent about it.You are 6"5 and lift heavy, and presumably have a decent university degree. Nobody cares that you wasted your time except you. Just be more productive now. A 22 year old doesn't care what you do for a living, you can still fuck her with confidence. Your lack of career hurts your confidence and that is what women find unattractive not that you are unemployed(provided you can afford some simple dates of course). I feel like most of what I have done in my life has been a waste of time, I made a few… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 02:40 PM |
| -3 | Why are most of the muscular men right wing?Nonsense assumptions based on small sample size. Most body builders are one dimensional and not too bright who cares what their political views are. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 02:32 PM |
| -2 | 17 and my life has taken a turn for the worstExercise your brain, you need that the most as that seems to be severely lacking in your life. Find a hobby, club, interest group and do that instead of pushing physically. If Random guys are picking fights with you, you are either hiding details or need to seriously work on your personality. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Main Plate/ Future Ltr comfort test?Stop thinking everything is a test. Girls who are in love with you aren't testing very often at all. It means she wants you, stop complicating things. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Just got this text back on Tinder, how to respond?HB4 and you are hamstering how to handle her? Just ask her out and smash first night, you are doing her a favor. Don't even waste time worrying about details she should be easy if your SMV is high enough. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | my therapist said it. im depressed.You are depressed because you don't think things will ever get better. You have to start with small victories and achievements and go from there. Go game ugly chicks, and gain confidence with them and you will be much better. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Don't want to be a provider, but the only way I have to interact with girls is to provide her something?The point is for you to stop being lazy and educate yourself before asking questions. Not everything is covered by sidebar, but if you demonstrate total ignorance, nobody will be motivated to help you. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis moved into my commune and I gotta vent about it.27 and unemployed is the problem. This girl isn't yours and it isn't even your turn. You need to work on yourself and your own confidence, even fucking this girl(which you likely will never do) won't improve your confidence it comes from within and your own achievements. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl flakes for the third time, should I even respond to her text?I think reprimanding women is never the right call ever. Much better to soft next, go silent, and say nothing than to say something that she can use against you in her hamstering. Whether OP chooses to soft next or hard next is up to him, it comes down to how many options he has and how persuasive she is in making it up to him. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 09:00 AM |
| 3 | Plate acted weird once I talked about hitting the gym and getting a 6 pack.Girls have a great sense for a man's motivations. You telling her that you might as well just say: "You are okay, but I want to get a better body so I can get hotter women than you." | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop looking needy when girls are around?You get no action because you would rather write diatribes online instead of approaching girls. The world is not so black and white as you will discover, but the only way you will is by getting experience and trying. Women aren't totally emotional devoid of logic and men aren't logical devoid of emotions people vary. Its great that you now understand what it takes to seduce and be successful with women now go out and practice. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 03:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop looking needy when girls are around?I think its much more simple that that. They don't respond to logic they respond to feelings. You make them feel good they will be attracted to you. They hate negative feelings, if they feel those when they are with you they will lose attraction for you. You lead her to good times and positive emotions she will let you into her pants. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 04:37 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop looking needy when girls are around?MGTOW (”Men Going Their Own Way”) is a way of life which refuses to defer to women in defining the worth of men. Instead, it focuses on positive male aspects, inviting men to go their own way in life. Spinning plates requires game skills, experience, and spending time seducing women few 'MGTOW' guys can actually do both. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop looking needy when girls are around?'You look tired lets go sit down and talk over here on the couch' That is a compliance test. The more she complies and accepts your leading the more attraction she will feel. Escalation - Read Escalation ladder for physical escalation. For verbal read about sex talk and communicating the right belief system for sex. Girlschase has good content on this. You are always leading the interaction let her worry about 'too controlling' you will decide for her what will give her a good time. You have to … | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop looking needy when girls are around?Compliance tests, sexual frame, flirting, escalation both verbal and physical. Taking her number, asking her out, taking her out, more sexual escalation all the way and during sex. Yes some women will jump you if your SMV is high enough and you are in a private location but the majority expect you to lead even if you are much higher than them. The biggest nightmare in the world for women is to be rejected that is why most will not lead or make moves for you. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 03:17 AM |
| 6 | How to game a shy girl?You have to push forward with escalation even if she isn't giving you much. As long as she isn't saying flat out no keep escalating. You will have to make all the moves all the way to the bedroom but some of them may really surprise you and become real tigers in bed. I have fucked up badly with introverted girls, I need some validation that they are liking what I am doing otherwise it feels weird to me. I had to learn to just push through it and see results before I realized they just weren't go… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 03:07 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop looking needy when girls are around?I don't find it cute at all its pathetic. A true MGTOW man fucked 100s of women and is a real pussy slayer and then just decided to take a break from their drama. All the ones today didn't make the choice they just got rejected by women and took the easy way out, hamstering they don't need or want women which is a pathetic defense mechanism and pure bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 03:03 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop looking needy when girls are around?The OP doesn't have high SMV, it is very low, no confidence is always very unattractive and low SMV. If Brad Pitt was a virgin, sure lots of women would approach him but they would autoreject him very quickly, this would happen because he wasn't leading and wasn't showing confidence or showing confidently he had sexual interest in them and they would fear being rejected. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 11:01 PM |
| 4 | How do I stop looking needy when girls are around?You didn't take sex off a pedestal, you just aren't even trying to get it because it is too 'difficult' for you. You are clueless if you think I am going to hold your hand or anyone here wants to waste time doing that. You are a loser because you quit and now I'm the asshole for pointing out the obvious. If you are a virgin follow the advice here that is repeated 100X each weak. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 10:11 PM |
| 5 | How do I stop looking needy when girls are around?If you went MGTOW because you can't get women and stopped trying to get sex because you don't know how to seduce women you are just a beta loser. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 09:27 PM |
| 2 | [End-game] Which societies/countries do you think have the healthiest women?What do you expect from asktrp? I would bet that half the guys here or more are still in the anger phase nexting women all the time for dumb shit and are very difficult and selfish guys in general. Yes you have to stay dominant in a relationship, keep pursuing your goals, set healthy boundaries, and stick to them. But you can have an LTR if you want, and there are plenty of women suitable for that. The real world doesn't have unicorns but there are plenty of loyal, affectionate, loving women out… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop looking needy when girls are around?I like your advice up until the 'make them chase you down', highly unlikely a virgin can do that. I would start with a low SMV women, flirt, game, escalate all the way to sex. Then maybe after 1 or 2 of those he can make them chase him. But that isn't going to happen right away. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop looking needy when girls are around?I really don't understand what 'losing your edge' is all about and how you are scaring them away? Some examples would help. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 08:05 PM |
| 5 | Why do I keep getting one sided conversations?You are not gaming your male friends that is not important. Your top paragraph is the perfect style conversation, get women talking about themselves, ask questions, deep dive don't say much about yourself. Women love talking about themselves and they will feel a 'connection' if you get them talking about what they are into You will be the mysterious guy that just gets her. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 07:52 PM |
| -1 | "He has a small dick" - said Plate to My FriendsYeah like Gonzo you Anti Semite. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 11:23 PM |
| -4 | "He has a small dick" - said Plate to My FriendsWhy does your Alias lead me to believe you are a 16 year old fucktard? | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 06:32 PM |
| 2 | "He has a small dick" - said Plate to My FriendsI agree with this a lot. Real redpill guys have seen all the dumb shit women do, instead of getting angry and 'next next next' they do a value assessment and decide if she is still worth his time. This silly line talk is nothing, if you hit her up and she is still eager for your 'small dick' then forget it and continue to smash. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 05:24 PM |
| -1 | "He has a small dick" - said Plate to My FriendsI would ignore it, and read sex g-d method about 'allowing a women to orgasm' Stupid girl is admitting she fucked/is fucking a guy with a 'small dick' or your friends are just trying to get a reaction out of you. If you don't care and will nuke the plate, you can mention the "small dick or big gaping vagina" but that is some Larry David douchey stuff. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Advice needed: banged roommate of best friend (who is jealous)Well you can continue to be a piece of shit and burn bridges with your long term guy friends over women, I despise 'alpha' jackals like you who would step on me for a broad. There are plenty of women to fuck, I can get out of the way for my 'bluepill' friend to get over his oneitis and be patient while he figures it out for himself. You can also hamster yourself into thinking the bluepill friend isn't worth being around anymore and just forget about him over an easy piece of ass. At some point y… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 04:34 PM |
| 0 | Advice needed: banged roommate of best friend (who is jealous)I have one particular good friend he is smart and reasonably successfull in career, has a nice house etc., he goes on tons of dates from online but is bluepill as hell. When we are at social events sometimes we have our eye on the same woman. I always let him have his turn first, when he inevitably fails I do my thing if I even want to at that point. The difference is I am aware if its on or not with a women and he has no clue because he doesn't set a sexual frame quickly enough. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 03:25 PM |
| 9 | Having to talk about depression to a womanTreat her like any other boss male or female. Don't talk about your depression just make it clear you had some health issues and now you have your life in order now and your priority is becoming an electrician and you are dedicated to doing it. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Advice needed: banged roommate of best friend (who is jealous)Yes you are a douchebag, Bros before Hos. You didn't need to fuck his roommate his oneitis. I would back off the girl for a while and be honest with him, she doesn't see him like that and he should talk to her and try to escalate or get over it. If he finds that out and gives you the green light than you can do what you want. Value the male friendship much more than some plate that will break in a while anyway. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do women dislike seeing low-SMV men improve themselves / become successful.Stop trying to impress women, that is not redpill. You will realize when you are actually successful nobody wants to hear about it. People with money (not the nouveau rich) don't make a big deal about money and aren't impressed by it. The same goes for someone who will get a 'good job' soon. You do you, and stop worrying about validation from others. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 01:46 PM |
| 4 | friendzone due to cheating anxiety?You are stuck in Bluepill hell and hamstering. Noone can help you here. If you adopt the redpill you escalate and push forward with sex to hell with what she wants or LTR all that, figure it out afterward if you even want it at that point. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Cuddling and making outYou didn't expect to get our dick sucked or to have sex so it didn't happen. Don't blame it on the girl you didn't make your intentions known. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Are women really this shallow?Stop hamstering, you don't know what she really thinks or thought unless you escalated, for all you know she would never have fucked you ever. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 02:11 PM |
| 1 | I feel like my soul is dying inside my bodyInstead of approaching women, being sexual, escalating, being flirty, letting them know you want them you are stuck in your head trying to figure out some long term goals. As you have figured out this doesn't work, you can't know what you want until you are having more success with women. If you desire a women you have to learn how to turn her on and start the seduction game in the first 30 seconds that you meet her. Forget your long term 'goals' with women, your first goal is to get a women int… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 03:01 PM |
| 2 | If getting married is fucking insane due to her one day taking half your shit. Would getting married with a prenup outlining that in the event of divorce she gets absolutely nothing of yours be perfect?Wow a bunch of armchair lawyers giving bad legal advice. No you can't do a prenup where she gets nothing, it would be an unconscionable contract and struck down as invalid. But you can protect yourself with a prenup done properly where you both have been advised by legal counsel who sign the agreement with you, in that case you can minimize the damage and retain what you each brought into the marriage. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Plates breaking and I feel like shitCorrect 6 months of her being a robot and jumping on and off your dick on command is FANTASYLAND. Being honest with a girl once you fucked her a few times that you want to fuck other women as well will eventually cause the plate to break sometimes very quickly. Ultimately what you want and what she wants are not the same so plates spin and fall and then of course you have to pick up more women and go through the whole process again. At some point you may get tired of it and settle but that is fo… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Plates breaking and I feel like shitOf course you enjoy the affection attention and sex you get from your plates. Women don't fuck multiple times unless they like you. When a plate breaks its normal to feel rejected and like shit. If a girl wants to leave you for commitment let her, don't say a word, soft next her, don't get emotional or butthurt. There is a good chance when she is bored with Mr. Beta she will come back to you if you played it correctly. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Alpha bitch and her minions at work got me firedHa ha ha. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8evgu4/dealing_with_an_alpha_female_at_a_new_work_place/ As I already told you: Treat work like work, don't shit where you eat, go work on your career and stop 'gaming' girls at work. All that hamstering in your head about how much the girls are into you IS IN YOUR HEAD. Your SMV is super low if girls find you creepy and get you fired. You still think you are the super cool Alpha who the girls at the factory are fighting over? As for all that fa… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with an alpha female at a new work place, and her minions.Yes that is exactly what it means LOW SMV. I worked in a factory when I was 13 for about 1 day. MOST JOBS are better. He 'might' be able to raise his SMV in future but not until 'Gaming bitches at work' is not the focus. Hamstering how Alpha he is and telling us about hot bitches who are also low SMV working at a factory doesn't smell like 'College Student' working his way through school at all. Truth hurts, all the mental gymnastics in the world and 'Fake Frame', 'fake abundance mentality' real… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with an alpha female at a new work place, and her minions.You aren't high SMV if you work in a warehouse. You should be focussing on doing better for yourself career wise instead of hamstering your facial expressions are so alpha. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 10:56 PM |
| 0 | Dealing with an alpha female at a new work place, and her minions.Warehouse worker = not red pill Male Hamstering = not red pill Worrying about women talking about you = not red pill 'Pretending to see a stripper' = not red pill. Good-luck man you have cognitive dissonance, you have low SMV and think its higher. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Micro level strategies for encouraging girls to contribute more?If your plates are selfish bitches and don't even offer to bring anything when they come over, than treat them like a Fuckbuddy and you should skip dinner altogether and just invite them over later on in the evening for sex and not much else. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Micro level strategies for encouraging girls to contribute more?Your problem with money is that you don't have any. You are worried about $20 worth of ingredients? (Maybe you need to spend less time on plates and more time making money?) Some people here don't get laid(I am not saying you), they sit on their computer pretending they do, and in "FANTASYLAND" if you are the cool Alpha girls just come over like Robots ride your dick, say Thank-you and leave. That is not the real world. Girls want to have fun as well and enjoy spending time with you. You should … | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Micro level strategies for encouraging girls to contribute more?Really you can't spring for food to cook dinner for the two of you? She should be offering to bring things, if not you can suggest she bring dessert or a bottle of wine or whatever. Do these women think they just need to bring their pussy and no other effort whatsoever? | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Convert a flaky girl who's super interested in me because she knows i am a player.You are writing like a young child, MattAnon knows what he is talking about and most of us here know why he asks what he asks. 1) Abundance mentality, if one girl isn't treating you well or giving you attention don't worry about it find others. 2) If 3 girls aren't treating you the way you want, then we need more details the problem could be you. If you truly wanted him to "Leave Me Alone Okay" then go back to facebook and stay away from this forum as its too mature for you. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Ex talking behind my backYou were good enough to fuck her. Women are catty, the friends may just want you because you used to be with her. Not her close friends but 'friends' who are in competition with her. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 07:08 PM |
| 2 | How does someone "selling" you to a girl work on your frame?It just goes to show you even with a 'warm' introduction, where someone is selling you it is still up to you to lead and make a move and escalate. There are no shortcuts. The problem with being setup by friends is you may feel pressure not to do the "Pump and Dump" and you have to be careful how you do it or seeing her and your friends who set you up can become awkward in future. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 12:04 PM |
| 1 | How does someone "selling" you to a girl work on your frame?You made up a bunch of bullshit excuses and autorejected yourself. Frame and all that crap is in your head. The frame that matters is a sexual one and expressing sexual interest in her and you haven't done it. You may have already lost your opportunity by waiting too long to ask her out and make a move, but if you haven't then find your balls and ask her out. (Date, Time, Place). If she says anything but Yes wait for her to propose an alternative date otherwise cut off all communication. If she … | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 07:56 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys think I could have improved this date?EVERYTHING If you wanted to be her girlfriend you did great. If you wanted sex you did everything WRONG, is all that shit what you really wanted to do? Or more likely you are still a Beta Bitch and trying to impress your Tinderella. This is some cringe worthy stuff. Next time make it REALLY SIMPLE: Bar One Drink, then tell her you have some cool whatever to show her back at your place. As soon as you get any sort of privacy anywhere escalate kiss, makeout, straight to the couch or bed FUCK. Don'… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 03:03 PM |
| 5 | What's Up With This Chick, Anyone Else Go Through This?Most of the time when someone posts any story like this, our advice applies to the next one. Women are flakes its usually not worth worrying about why they do what they do. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 08:33 PM |
| 9 | What's Up With This Chick, Anyone Else Go Through This?Definitely don't do the 'butthurt' why did you ignore my texts text. Calling is best I agree and just forget about admonishing her for not replying to your texts. Wait a few days don't act too needy and don't send another text. If she doesn't pickup the phone (very good chance), leave a message quick, "Hey its X, wanted to hit you up to go out on Sunday night, speak to you soon." If she doesn't get back to you Next. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 08:27 PM |
| 6 | What's Up With This Chick, Anyone Else Go Through This?When she said "Indeed" You should have followed up immediately with a date, place and time. Never answer her question about it just being a hookup keep her guessing. You disappeared after she said she wanted to go out with you thats a mini rejection. Also girls like this get all hot or cold and could be fucking some guy the next night, its all about 'feels' so strike while the iron is hot is usually the best policy. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Reward myselfYoga. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 06:18 PM |
| 2 | I'm to aggressiveYou need to work on your seduction skills. Read Sex God Method. While you may be plenty dominant, you are likely very weak in keeping women immersed and forming an Emotional connection. Do a women's reactions and body language calibrate how fast you move with her? They should! | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | An alpha female loved it when I made her feel feminine and desired. Her ultra beta BF even totally lost frame in front of me. Why does she stay with him?A girl likes attention from other men WOW shocking! But you are just an orbiter, to her and her non lifting BF is fucking her even though he was supposedly 'nervous' in your head. You are doing a little too much hamstering and then preaching to the choir. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Why would she go out of her way to avoid me?Oneitis, she is not interested in you anymore, get over it. Stop thinking about her or caring if she is there or not or what she thinks. You didn't escalate when you had your chance so she auto rejected you to protect her feelings and because she thought you weren't interested. Learn for the next one. Game other women so you forget. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 12:40 PM |
| 6 | Need advice on soft nextingWait longer. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 12:38 PM |
| 1 | 80/20 and n-count questionWithout any real data or proper surveys its just circle jerking. Women lie about n-count all the time down, men lie about n-count up. To what end? You will find great geographic variance in these counts. US probably will have one of the highest n-counts, Canada much lower and likely on par with many European countries and than Asia will have much lower n-counts where conservatism is much more common. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:29 PM |
| 3 | What are your best go-to's to instantly level up your attractiveness?I am disgusted by ideas like this. Everyday in the morning and before I go out at night for sure. I latin dance a lot and BO is fucking disgusting and the surest way to turn off women. I used to take Kizomba classes, some women stank, after a few weeks, the same women always stunk I couldn't breathe. Finally I had to tell her and then she didn't show up for a month. Good Riddance. I had a guy tell me "Manly Musk" is intoxicating to women, and not to shower before we went out. I told him that was… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Hit me with your RP StudytechniquesGTF off the internet, turn off your computer and phone, and go to the library where its quiet without distractions and do it. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:10 PM |
| 2 | What are your best go-to's to instantly level up your attractiveness?Every other day? Maybe if you were a caveman. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | 80/20 and n-count questionI am projecting my personal preferences on n-count which is a biased and invalidating way to look at this. There are sickos on this forum and in PUA who will fuck anything with a hole. 20% of guys fuck 80% of the women is lot easier to defend, it doesn't mean prima facie that all these guys have high n-count. It also doesn't mean that all women have high n-count the statement can be true independent of any n-counts at all. All it really means is if you are not a top 20% guy, your n-count with HB… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:05 PM |
| 1 | 80/20 and n-count questionMost promiscuous guy has n count of 45/100 is way unrealistic to me. You overestimate the quantity aspect of what Chad does. He gets the hottest women why would he want to fuck - 6/10s? (I am not some super chad but I won't even look at below 7s) Lets assume Brad Pitt(Chad) could fuck the whole population of women if he wanted. He will only fuck 7s and above which is 20% of the female population. (It would be 40% if we had an even distribution but we know that the looks distribution of women is … | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 05:33 PM |
| 0 | How to be RP when you're in the bottom of the dominance heirarchyStop drooling over his cock would be a start. Then focus on WHAT HE DOES/SAYS IN BUSINESS. Why do I even waste my time with little crapweasels like you? | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 04:19 PM |
| 3 | 80/20 and n-count questionWhy would the top 20% of guys want to fuck all the fatties? | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 04:17 PM |
| 14 | 80/20 and n-count questionMental masturbation and totally irrelevant. 20% of guys are Chads is a poor assumption. That every Chad fucks all women is also a poor assumption he don't like uglies and all women are not whores fucking every Chad. Answer is meaningless if the assumptions are all poor. The 80/20 rules just means the top 20% of guys are fucking most of the hot women. Yes Chad's n-count is high, who cares how high it is, that is up to Chad and if he chooses to go for quantity. Wilt Chamberlain said he fucked over… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How to be RP when you're in the bottom of the dominance heirarchyYou have a man crush and you are watching how this guy interacts with women in your workplace. Concentrate on work and the job in the workplace, not gaming women or how well your boss does it. You need maturity and to grow up and get your priorities in order. Work on your career, get money, get more authority, the women will be there if you have other aspects of your life in check. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Isn't "how to win friends and influence people" betaishNMMNG is for how to treat Women you are trying to game. Carnegie's book is more for people who are logical and pragmatic like men and business situations. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 03:42 PM |
| 1 | How can I quit worrying about what she’s doing?Oneitis, you crave attention from her too much. Get off Snapchat, Get off Social Media, Stop Texting. If you had other girls as plates you wouldn't be worrying about "church" girl. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Can't understand if I'm in alpha or beta territoryA girl is flirting with you over text and still giving you attention even though you have acted like her girlfriend and you are heartbroken. Get out of your ridiculous mind, flirt with her, escalate, try to fuck her. Everything you wrote is cringe worthy, redpill(you don't even know what redpill is) you are not even bluepill you are totally clueless, GO READ SIDEBAR. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | I decided to soft-next this girl and I think she's calling off my bluff. Here's what she said. What should I do?Usually a softnext is warranted when she is being dramatic, or disrespects you in your face and you leave and withdraw attention. In this case it is you giving her too much attention. She should be the one soft nexting you. You should be ignoring those texts, she is a grown women let her deal with her own shit. You getting upset or clingy (you demonstrate both and text too much) is exactly the behavior that is unattractive. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How to be RP when you're in the bottom of the dominance heirarchyFirst of all you shouldn't be gaming women at work, don't shit where you eat. But I assume you are talking about being 'alpha' around your co-workers strictly in a work environment. I'll give you two extremes you should avoid: 1) You are your boss's best worker, you never say no to a task, and do your work diligently and well. He can always rely on you to get the job done but you don't go too far out of your job description or show much ambition. You are a workhorse and your boss will never want… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 03:01 PM |
| -6 | How do I respond to girl who forgot we had sex last night?"I don't know if we had sex, but you were real good at ATM" | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 05:25 AM |
| 1 | How do I avoid being bitter towards women?Who says you deserve HB8+? maybe all you can get is HB 1 - 6s. You wouldn't be so damn bitter or have such a cloud hanging over your head if you got laid once and a while. Best of luck buddy, you can lead a horse to water but can't make them drink. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 03:19 AM |
| 2 | How do I avoid being bitter towards women?If you believe that, your attitude is shit and you will auto reject yourself every time. You can raise your SMV by lifting, having fun hobbies, getting a better job, better hair cut, dressing well, and learning about fashion a bit. But until you actually understand that you can get women who are hotter than you simply by displaying confidence and being fun you might as well just stick with HB 1 - 6s who will be easier to game and raise your confidence. One day you may realize you can get hotter … | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 12:29 AM |
| 4 | How do I avoid being bitter towards women?For us looks are very important for them not as much. But if you are not confident you will not be attractive. The advice is always lift around here, but what people don't realize is it takes a very long time to change your body, but changing your confidence from lifting happens much more quickly. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Girl from tinder takes day & a half to respond to text asking her out but text back & wants to go out just now. I already unmatched a day ago andBumble is a little different, I wouldn't assume automatically she is the just looking for a hookup like on Tinder. But it doesn't change anything in terms of how you will act or the type of date you plan. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice from experienced TRP userYou have already done the outside date(s), NO, invite her over to your place, she has to bring something and you can cook dinner together or 'watch a movie' she knows what the invite over means, you are putting things back in your frame and asking for what you want. If she declines you know where you stand, you are her validation beta and she wants more free dinners out of you and will likely never fuck you. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice from experienced TRP userThere is no one size strategy that fits all for women you must calibrate. But with every women you are going to be flirty, sexual(verbal and physical), escalate(verbal and physically) on every date. You are the one who leads and pushes things forward. Of course you have to calibrate based on her responses but you are always trying to push things forward and that is firmly in your mind. Your mindset and attitude need to change. If you don't expect her to come home with you on the first date she n… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Need some advice from experienced TRP userWow you are really stuck in your bluepill brainwashing. His response was exactly what you need READ THE SIDEBAR 10X until you internalize it. This story and your questions are cringeworthy and it means you are too lazy to read or really don't care about what TRP is all about and teaches you. Do you really want to be taking every girl you want to sleep with out on 3 dates and 'winning' her over? Do you think that really works with most women? (If you answered yes to one or both of these you have … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 07:22 PM |
| 1 | First meeting with her dad and he says i look young.WRONG, it was a compliment, plus you really shouldn't care what her Dad says anyway especially if he is okay with you. Don't discuss it with her, keep your confidence you are fine go on as normal. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Girl from tinder takes day & a half to respond to text asking her out but text back & wants to go out just now. I already unmatched a day ago andIt doesn't matter just don't intentionally make her wait, if you want to see her respond back you don't have to wait. Good chance tinder match means ONS and DTF just you have to make her attracted in you and be confident. On date choose good logistics, night, drinks and alcohol(not food), two places close to your house or hers. MOST IMPORTANT THING: Escalate, Escalate, Escalate, Exampel Date: Go to one bar for an hour, flirt, talk about sex, touch her, be flirty, be touchy feely, put your arm ar… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Do girls adapt to trp? (theory)Women already have, hypergamy is commonplace, many of them just want to spin plates, they don't want relationships either. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice from experienced TRP user2 dates already where you paid and no kiss? (Ugh Bluepill Cringeworthy). Invest in 2 - 3 dates (Is she a whore that you have to pay for her time?) If you aren't having casual sex regularly noone is a plate you have oneitis. You are in her frame completely, not escalating, not talking sexual, not doing anything that creates attraction. Do you even read anything on the sidebar here? You are as bluepill as they come and haven't even started your redpill thinking yet. The answer is you fucked up bad… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | How to pass the “OMG, you’re still a baby” shit test when an older woman finds out you’re younger than them?"Waaaaa.... Mama Mama" with a big grin. A&A is all about your body language and how you act after the shit test. If you don't get rattled you passed it, if it makes you self conscious or silent you failed. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Response to shit test ?No response necessary just confirm meeting hour before meeting. If I wanted to respond and you really have been sexual over text: "I am only mean to girls who turn me on, see you on X" | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do people say anger is one of the stages in the RP journey?If you aren't doing approaches and getting rejected you only have yourself to be angry with and that is wasted energy. Most people come here after a few rejections and get angry when they realize why there efforts failed. (I certainly did). If you never tried you have noone to blame but yourself. I am still not totally over the anger phase, I find many women's behavior ridiculous, I accept it for what it is, but I still don't like it or think they should act like that. I see all the times women … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 05:47 PM |
| 9 | I thought I got a booty call at 01:30 in the night. Puzzled.You screwed up the minute you walked in, you need to escalate right away and make it clear why you came over, grab her push against the wall and kiss her passionately. If she resists I'd just leave. Its 1:30am only a chump would come over at her back and call at that hour and not make it happen. "HB9 says take this girl home I'll pick a dude then we'll go to your place and both fuck someone because I'm so horny." Doesn't sound like she wants you if she is saying that. But my response would have … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Invisible, disrespected and lonely - looking for a changeThis is a good post, he might need an occupational therapist to give him goals and make sure he is working on them weekly but I'd say that is good advice. As for the last part don't be an Autist and repeat the person's name over and over again in conversation most people hate that. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Am I an idiot for preferring monogamy?No, seems okay to me, Condom sex really sucks. But if she is controlling you, withholding sex, not doing what you want then you have a problem and your abundance mentality will be tested. Will you keep her in her place or let her turn you into her slave? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 05:23 PM |
| 7 | Ex-girlfriend, now turned plate, refusing to have sex unless we have MFM threesomeExcuse me Cuck, I want to use your cock and your best friends for my amusement, I want you both panting in lust over me while you cross swords. In fact while you are at it before you get to touch me I want you to get pegged by your best friend. Yuck, "hey ex lover, if you want to invite over a hot gf of yours I'll 3way you properly otherwise and I'll try to say this politely GTFO." | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone here familiar with Roosh's book Day Bang? Have you tried his techniques yet? Are they really more effective than being "direct"?If you need to be told some silly rule that 20 or 30 minutes is too fast for touching and have no clue about how to calibrate your moves based on a women's body language than you are socially awkward or autistic. As for the rest of your defensive outburst I wasn't attacking you or bragging you need to work on your reading comprehension. If my benign comments from a place of wanting to help ruffle your feathers imagine what people do to you in the real world. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 12:52 AM |
| 2 | How do you minimize general anxiety/depression.No, Anxiety/Depression is psychological when you don't believe you can change the situation that you are in. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I'm seeing alot of super hot middle eastern chicks on instagram married to fat, ugly, and/or balding men.Men let themselves go in marriages, so do women, you have no idea what he looked like when they were dating. Women don't care about looks as much as we do. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone here familiar with Roosh's book Day Bang? Have you tried his techniques yet? Are they really more effective than being "direct"?For Autistics: If you start to touch her and she recoils it was TOO EARLY. That rarely happens to me, but if it does slow down and start from the beginning of the escalation ladder, if you are out on a date and this happens there is a good chance you will have to next her and if you retry 15 minutes later get rejected again its usually best to cut the date short. A 5 - 7 hour date is too long I used to do those in my bluepill days and still enjoy them but they are not optimal for ONS. Like I sai… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone here familiar with Roosh's book Day Bang? Have you tried his techniques yet? Are they really more effective than being "direct"?I haven't read Day Bang in years but you are getting the wrong idea if you think he moves slow in any way or is not flirtatious during the day, he is just calibrating to be less sexual due to the responses of women. RooshV is a ONS PUA and he moves very fast, during the day you can't move as fast especially with cold approached girls. Its not because you don't want to, its because women strangers just don't act as sexual during the day and you have to act according to what the women is giving yo… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone here familiar with Roosh's book Day Bang? Have you tried his techniques yet? Are they really more effective than being "direct"?You have no idea how many incel beta lurkers there are on this forum. When in doubt always be escalating. If you are escalating 'direct' and turning off a women you are doing it wrong. I have no idea what being too direct even means, I would never walk up to a women and say "You are very beautiful and make my dick hard, lets go home and fuck like rabbits" that is retarded shit to say right away. If you are that autistic and can't calibrate how a women is responding to you, your 'strategy' really… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 11:21 PM |
| 18 | How do you deal with your beta orbiters?You aren't a women, don't think of your 'friends' as orbiters that just makes you an arrogant prick. You are like a women though, you seem to crave attention from them and now on here. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Is this essentially it, everything they do, they do it for themselves, it has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with them?Focussing on this misguided thinking just makes you angry and jaded. Everybody uses everybody for something, even if she just wants you to give her tingles as you want to use her to bust a nut. The women I sleep with like me and treat me well, I really could give a shit if they have long term goals. They want to please me and put in effort to do so. I also treat them well, they enjoy spending time with me and get great sex out of the deal. The rest really doesn't matter if one or both of us isn'… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Should I be practicing on girls I'm not in to?I would, practice with the 5s, see what works, see what doesn't. Its easy to have DGAF attitude when you don't care about them. See how fast you can get the lay. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Going InsaneYou have to see TRP for how it can benefit your life, avoid getting jaded, or seeing only the worst in women. If you don't you will take the fun out all of your future interactions. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 01:56 PM |
| 2 | To propose next week, but now wondering if it's a big mistake.RP theory says don't get married, don't even have an LTR. What do you expect to get from answers here? You don't even live together, haven't even proposed, and sex is dropping off that is not a good sign though and you need to make your needs known that you don't want just duty sex. The problem may be you as well, read Sex G-d Method keep things fresh in the bedroom. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 06:04 AM |
| 3 | Lying on tinder to get liked/ or get laid.. good idea?You can make up whatever you want to on tinder, if its just for a bang she is not going to be around long enough for you to get busted. Even if you did so what she is already hooked. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Is she nuts or did I !@#$ up?You have to constantly think to yourself, what would I like to be doing with her and lead her towards it. Dilated pupils are a sign of attraction why would that prevent you from escalating? Yeah she could be a stoner but do you really care? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Is she nuts or did I !@#$ up?She was with you for 7 hours she was interested. But you failed to lead the interaction, you were also afraid to leave the interaction when it wasn't leading to where you wanted. You need to be more assertive and act more quickly, getting them to talk about themselves is fine, for 7 hours is ridiculous. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Follow up from last post 2 weeks agoI am the opposite of uptight, I call out bullshit online and in real life, you are obviously a young punk with a ton of bullshit. If you fucked her why are you whining about it on here? The obvious conclusion is you didn't, you just got all butthurt when I called you an orbiter. You are blocked now so I won't spend another second thinking about your lame time wasting posts. Via Con Dios. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 07:47 PM |
| 2 | What's more important to you strength or hypertrophy(size)?You aren't wrong, if you are trying to lift perfect you are doing it wrong. Most of us have trouble dragging our asses to the gym 3 times a week. 99% of the big guys in the gym have terrible form but still get results because they go a lot. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 07:39 PM |
| 5 | I don't understand why people hate the red pillRedpill doesn't advocate healthy relationships with women it is strategy to get sex from women without commitment. Sure some women want just that, but they can also get sex from a thirsty beta who might also commit to them. The upfront strategy for Redpill isn't what is objectionable, it actually leads to great sex. Its what happens when you have the power and just use it to manipulate and use women that is more offensive. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Follow up from last post 2 weeks agoIts pretty obvious what you did wrong. But fronting in here and lieing just makes you a time wasting troll I don't find your situation funny in the least. If you keep being a troll I'll just block you on your next stupid post as I suspect you are wasting everyone's time. 1) No snapchat, no social media, no online communication, texting is for logistics only. 2) Anger and Butthurt is AFC lame Bluepill crap. She is just a hole, no point in getting upset about it, getting angry makes any chance of … | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Follow up from last post 2 weeks agoAnd then you woke up from your wet dream. If you had fucked you wouldn't be posting it here. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 03:11 PM |
| 4 | Why are you hated if you're not the guy who "just gets it"?She despised you more when you were beta, she just spared your feelings. When you are polarizing like an alpha should be, you will get people love/hate from people. That is perfectly fine, better to be noticed than to just fade into the crowd. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 03:07 PM |
| 6 | Why are you hated if you're not the guy who "just gets it"?Its a ridiculous and contradictory standard. You have to become something you are not (overcome beta conditioning from years of feminist society), and do it so effortlessly that women won't even notice you had to work really hard to do it. At first you pretend to not give a fuck. Then you actually don't give a fuck. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 03:03 PM |
| 7 | Follow up from last post 2 weeks ago"Hey Mr. Orbiter, can I keep coming to you for validation, I know you will fall for it every time. I'll keep stringing you along for as long as I can. I know you want me and I love your validation but I will never let you fuck me." | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Girl went from totally hooked to /Ignore. Just want to learn ; What did I do wrong? Or did I even do anything wrong?The more confidence and IDGAF you display the less LMR you get. You don't want to be the delivery boy push for what you want in sex. Not always easy if she is not reciprocating. Don't forget to verbally escalate and tell her what you want to do to her and be dominant it removes a lot of resistance. Pick her up and throw her on your bed etc. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl went from totally hooked to /Ignore. Just want to learn ; What did I do wrong? Or did I even do anything wrong?Good-bye kiss is nothing, you are giving her validation that you still want her and are willing to accept no sex and are still 'happy'. She gets what she wants and doesn't have to put out. Totally in her frame, I've seen girls do this who had no intention of ever speaking to me again. I am not saying be butthurt if she won't let you escalate but you need to learn to withdraw attention, if she shuts you down don't make out anymore, withdraw attention and take her home or tell her to leave but do … | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Girl talked disrespectfully to me on phone, I blocked her. Should I give her a second chance?"So I'd been talking to a girl I met on Instagram for 4-5 days" stopped reading after that. No girl will respect you if you are doing that. Setup a meeting within first few minutes, if she won't, next. Edit: As for dinner and her bitching, just tell her when I plan on taking you out I will tell you a time and a place and set firm plans that was your mistake. Women are funny you start apologizing and get defensive they get hysterical but if you go on offense they seem to take it better. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Girl went from totally hooked to /Ignore. Just want to learn ; What did I do wrong? Or did I even do anything wrong?You are 30 with a kid she is 22. She doesn't see anything long term with you so you must escalate fast. LMR is part of the game, smirk, change subject, try again in 5 - 10 minutes unless she totally shuts it down (like leaving are saying stop). I am in your shoes and it sucks with much younger women they are sometimes so fickle. Bottom line is if you are fishing in that age range expect random shit, flakes, most of the time it may have nothing to do with you. The one thing I can say is if your f… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Advice for starting fitness habit?If you are worried about what you are doing you are doing it wrong. Make sure you sweat, exert yourself, weights and high intensity is best at least 3 times a week. Most important stick with it at least 45 minutes to an hour and don't worry about perfect form only that you make it habit until you feel shitty if you skip a day. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 05:05 PM |
| 1 | I’m with a girl and she just told me she’s bi, what I do?Jump for Joy! Setup 3some. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a JokerYou have a fun personality don't beat yourself up over it own it, it works for you. Don't listen to old hens (they are clueless about young hens) and its not what she says but what she does that counts. Just make sure to escalate, make your moves, and get serious at times. Don't let anyone disrespect you though. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What motivates you to pursue women?They seem like too much trouble because your game isn't strong enough and you move to slow. Both of those are things you will have to get more comfortable on with experience. We have all been there at some point, but basically when rejection is no big deal and when you are moving quickly pushing for sex(because you don't care about rejection), and have success you do more approaches and get more sex and are more interested in approaching. The thing is if you aren't autistic and learn to handle r… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Girls w high n-counts aren't so much aggressive, but offer little resistance?You are a man you have to lead all women even the slutty ones high n-count ones. Women will never be aggressive or make first moves, getting rejected would be the biggest nightmare for her, for us we just have to accept it as life. Even low n-count girls could be down to coming back to your place, they get horny too. Even high n-count girls give LMR it depends on how fast you are moving and how good your game is. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Girl with boyfriend has Snapchatted me for 25 days straight but it’s not getting anywhereWelcome to Orbiterville, Populate: You | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 03:16 PM |
| 6 | Girls who are interested decline to provide contact information shit test.Forget the number go on an instadate. You must be in highschool and this girl is very immature and playing games so strike while the "feels" are good. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 06:31 AM |
| 10 | Girlfriend dumped me, went on a date, she found out and freaked out.I hope you didn't respond to that drama. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Do attractive girls makes bad girlfriends?They may know that they can get sex easily, but they can't keep chad around anymore than the less attractive ones. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 02:41 AM |
| 0 | Accidentally friend zoned myself..what to do now?"Meat them" Freudian Grammar slip :) I might try that sometime Hey girl I'd like to "Meat you" tonight what do you say? | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Most common failures on dates?Define shot down? Are you cocky/funny, verbally sexual on dates? When shot down do you give an amused grin, change the subject, and then try again later? | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 10:29 PM |
| 6 | “I want to take things slow”She has fucked your friends but is holding out on you, of course she is playing hard to get with you. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 02:30 PM |
| 2 | How to stay “loose” during interactions with womenLifting will help with your mindset but it won't help you interact with girls and hone your wit. You need to do more approaches, flirt with more girls and learn how to be fun again. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 02:18 PM |
| 4 | How come the most beta thing I ever did not only got me laid, but made the girl hornier than any girl I had ever seen?You seem to have an idealistic notion and black/white view of redpill/bluepill. It isn't like that at all, you did fun things you wanted to do and acted like you wanted to and had fun teasing her. You escalated as far as you could on dates two and three and that is redpill. You did that just fine and got the lay that is more important that the rest. Not every girl is going to agree to come to your place for a ONS or a 2nd date lay and you pushed as far as you could on the 2nd date so you planted… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 02:11 AM |
| 38 | I’m burnt out. I can’t physically or emotionally bond with women anymore.Following Redpill is a self fulfilling prophecy. You preselect women who will fuck you quickly not the ones that are good for LTRs. You don't trust women and read about stories from angry thirsty dudes on here who are stuck in the anger phase of being unplugged. Eventually you may want to stop spinning plates and make a compromise but I don't expect you will get good advice here on how to do that. Too much idealism here. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 02:02 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you’re trying to get someone but all of a sudden someone with higher SMV comes and snags?You didn't make a move thats on you, she was never yours but you missed your turn. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 01:33 AM |
| 5 | Does this come off as needy or spotaneous?I think this is a big ask for a girl you just met. I'd ask her out to something less elaborate first. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 05:40 PM |
| 3 | At work and a loner red pill tipsDon't shit where you work, no learning game at work find a hobby. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Ran into an ex, (she dumped me) she was still attracted to me...trying not to fall into old habits.Plate her at most, see if your game has improved, use her in the name of science but never forget what she did to you. Revenge sex can be amazing just remember you are not going to commit or be anything with her other than a plate. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | 8/10 wants to fuck at her apartment after a party. ED from anxiety, she's too drunk. Following first regular date a week later, she leaves in middle of night & ghosts me after I make advances at my apartment.Those kind of hypergamous girls like quick, fast, rough, dominant sex. She doesn't need long foreplay or any of that romantic shit. She doesn't even need a bed the couch would have been better. Wild spontaneous, awkward rough sex is more her speed. If you are going to do the massage make it one minute and then rip her panties off. I learned this the hard way, don't take your time with whores and be all gentle and romantic, that turns them dry. She told you at the beginning what she wanted you to… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Monk moded it for a year, am now borderline fuckable, what now?Ha ha ha you are a troll. Noone is that one dimensional and autistic. But you just highlighted why just "Lift, get better clothes, bla bla bla" does nothing for you if you aren't doing approaches and why Monk mode is downright foolish if your goal is to get pussy. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 01:43 PM |
| 7 | I have a date tonight - what do I need to keep in mind?The girl agreed to come over first date to your place she is dtf. Good job setting it up. Both of you drink a little wine or whatever alcohol you have (not too much) and then physically escalate this should be a slam dunk if you fuck it up you are a pussy. Don't forget to wrap it. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 12:03 AM |
| 1 | I feel like a useless plug. Can someone give me some advice? I already know I’m being a useless faggot.How does an incel get 300 tinder matches? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 11:18 PM |
| 1 | I Got PlansGood-luck with your text games and using dread on girls you haven't even gone out with yet. Misapplication of Redpill concepts 101. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | I Got PlansYou completely missed how I flipped her question about plans into actually making them with her. Texting is about logistics nothing more. If there is something I want to invite her along to do I will do that immediately. Showing neediness and giving her the power, would be having pointless conversations over text for 3 days and then asking her out. I make plans, they can be for the next day or for 3 days from then, I make them nonetheless then radio silence until the confirmation text before the… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | “Nothing is going to happen” testPure Gold! | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | I Got PlansI am not OP and you clearly missed the context of his and my post. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Ltr spending a lot of time with her new bossIn LTR sex can get stale, especially if you don't have variety. Read the ebook you should be able to find it somewhere on here. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | New to TRP but Trying to ExperimentYou are so confused about Redpill and haven't internalized any of it. Pretending to be higher value, wanting to be boss, caring about your value, wanting her to beg for your dick etc etc. That is not how any of this works. You work on yourself first(lift mindset etc), then you hit on girls, escalate quickly, use sex god method to be great in bed, and then practice practice practice and do it all over again. Throughout this process it isn't about what they want or think its about what you want. Y… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Fwb cries after anal, "doesnt want to be put in a box"?Well done, and her willing to prep everytime means you handled her comfort test very well. Make sure you give her a little extra comfort cuddling after anal sex as she will be a little vulnerable afterwards the first few times at least. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 07:44 PM |
| 20 | finding out it was a whole easier for chadRead Sex God Method. You will learn psychologically women love dominance in the bedroom (dirty talk, being choked, calling her your whore etc.) Good sex is more about the psychology for her not the mechanics. Once you understand that most women crave being treated like a slut in the bedroom you do it because you both get off on it, not because you don't care and you think only you get off on it. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on independent women?Truly independent women can't have a long term relationship with Alpha dominant males, they clash and power struggle too much. Truly independent women can have a relationship with Beta males, but her hypergamy and craving Alpha cock will prevent anything long term. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 04:50 PM |
| 133 | finding out it was a whole easier for chadThe same Women acts differently for different men and wants different things. They all have ASD and LMR to some degree, if you are the guy who makes it very clear you want it here and now she will give it to you fast. If you back off and are too relaxed with comfort instead of sexual energy she'll make you wait, Women have intuition about these things and they mirror the way you are acting. If you act like a potential boyfriend they will treat you like one and not fuck you until you are hooked. … | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Two plates falling in love ?Plates break, and most will leave you for a man who is willing to commit. You have to balance the comfort you give them and amount of time spent so you keep them casual as plates. Don't sleep over, don't text a lot in between seeing them etc. Its a balancing act, enough comfort to keep them around not too much or they will want more. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 04:29 PM |
| 11 | Thoughts on independent women?Truly independent women are low drama, they are too busy with their own lives to stir up shit with you. Its rare for a women to be truly independent, these women are redpill and they don't stay monogamous and don't like to be submissive except maybe in the bedroom. They are always on the go and have way too many activities to be emotional or cause drama. More what you describe are 'Dominant' women who like bossing men around but are very needy and have to be in a relationship to be boss. The fak… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Messy situation with LTR of 5 years - I've become extremely beta, she broke up and had a brief rebound, now that I'm improving in every way I can, she begs me to let her come back. I have mixed feelingsYou are 23! No LDR, No LTR go bang other girls. You got a good-bye blowjob forget about her. Just tell her no strings during the summer and have a great trip and you'll catchup when she gets abck. You don't care what she does abroad you will be fucking other girls. If/when she returns and is still after your cock you can plate her or FWB, you are way too young for a LTR especially with a girl who already branch swung when you were down. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Ltr spending a lot of time with her new bossThis would not even be a concern if you are fucking her well. Satisfied women don't care about other men. Read "Sex God Method" make sure you are giving it to her good. Everyone has to eat, but lunches and dinners out of the office are not efficient and not just about working. If she is loyal to you she needs to set some boundaries with her boss and keep it professional. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Is it normal to hate oneitis after thinking of what she has done to me before?Yes Anger phase is one of the phases, you are not truly over her until you reach acceptance. You will probably bargain with yourself "if i did this she wouldn't have done that" that is one of the phases as well. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 03:30 PM |
| 10 | What kind of answer is this?Don't ask her when she is free, propose something you want to do with a time and place. Come with me to XXX at 8pm for drinks. If she says no or is busy or anything other than yes, wait for her to propose another time don't text another line. If she doesn't she isn't interested. You can hit her up again a few days with another time/place but chances are good she has weak interest if any at all. Chances are high you didn't escalate enough before you got the number and her interest isn't high. Do … | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Overcoming flaws you have no control overShe can't see your back in most sexual positions ignore it, if its not big deal to you it will be no big deal to her especially after you give her the O. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Plates and datesI don't just want plates I prefer FWB so I don't mind doing a little bit of comfort and not nexting someone who won't fuck me first date. I don't count dates, I don't have rules on how quickly I setup a date (but I don't wait and I'm busy so a couple days in advance is a must for my schedule) but i want things to always move forward. ONS are more likely plates that break very quickly I don't mind investing a little more time a date or two if I like spending time with her and might want a little … | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Im depressed, how I help myself?People who are depressed think things will never change. People here will tell you how to change things but you have to put in the work. If you have a good body than you can get women now you have to train your mind to abundance mentality and IDGAF. If sex helps you a lot choose easy targets low SMV girls, move quick escalate quick feed your ego. Then move up to higher SMV with better attitude. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | How to accept that I have low potential in life?Yes I do. The only thing limiting you is your lazy bad attitude. You have more potential than many guys here and you are young, way too young to giveup. Skinny - Lift Heavy Money - Work hard and move up Job Women - Grow a pair of balls and be cocky funny confident even if inside you are not. Fake it till you make it. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 01:42 AM |
| 2 | I Got PlansJust setup a date for tomorrow and tell her, then your plans will be with her. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Using hands for expression and gesturing, how much is too much?RSD Julien is a sick sick sociopath but I have learned much from him. The pulling aside the panties and licking if she won't remove them has come in handy for getting past LMR. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Using hands for expression and gesturing, how much is too much?The hottest girl I ever had a relationship with told me I demonstrated how I wanted her to suck my dick with my fingers on our second date. I don't remember doing that but I guess I do know how to use my hands to communicate. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 01:35 AM |
| 16 | Are they all sluts ( even my mom, yours, sisters etc?)Do you expect a whore you just paid to point and laugh and say how awful it was? Smart escorts get repeat business, telling you how big you are and how good the sex was strokes your ego and sets you up to pay her again. Doesn't matter if she faked an orgasm and is disgusted by men who pay her for sex you are and will always be just a trick. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 01:31 AM |
| 3 | What exactly is the "Brad Pitt rule" and what exactly is the POINT of it?Most women I have been with post TRP have said something along the lines of "I don't sleep with guys on the first date" I replied even before the date for the right guy you will, and I made sure I was the right guy. "This is really fast I don't usually do this so quickly" bullshit I bet if I was your brad pitt or chad it would be even quicker. "I should go I have work in the morning" "Yeah you should" and then making out turns into fucking. What a women tells you she wants is irrelevant it chang… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Plan to smoothly leave LTR of 4 years after she raises marriage and buying a house together.What the hell is a proper breakup in your mind? Getting shit off your chest and telling her why you are breaking up with her. (don't think that is going to make her feel any better). | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Interesting situation, should I even try escalating or nah?Show her the new redpill you. Forget golf, get drinks and be ready to escalate. Even if you want to be friends with her she will be a much better friend once you have fucked her. Girls are never as loyal to platonic friends as they are to guys they have fucked. Once they fuck you they hamster in their head how amazing you are to justify sleeping with you. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Persistence vs NeedinessA girl who does that isn't worth it. Don't enter her frame, if you were a guy she really wanted to sleep with you would be a priority. You are chasing if you have to re initiate more than once. I made that mistake with one of those 'super independent' type of girls, I know she traveled a lot and was also doing a ton of training but that was just me making excuses for her treating me badly. I stuck around long enough to fuck her which wasn't much fun I got LMR overcame it but then didn't enjoy se… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 01:31 AM |
| 2 | LTR throws an unexpected tantrum.People here don't like LTRs unless its some magical woman that doesn't exist who is never human and is never in a bad mood. That is not reality and doesn't mean that LTRs are never worth it. If you come here and post this type of story you will get the obvious responses, next her. But you didn't provide the whole picture and you are with her for a reason. So if you aren't ready to blow up the bridge than you should follow through with what you said you were going to do which is "See her Tomorrow… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 12:53 AM |
| 8 | Fine line between escalate and thirstyThere is no escalation in text. There is no escalation on the phone. Those are for logistics only, too much of either makes you a beta orbiting bitch. Don't tell her too much or have the date online. No you don't have to wait, just text 3 lines and setup the next date and then escalate in person. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 07:43 PM |
| 52 | Single mothers want their kids to be "special"?Your mother needs a soft next for a couple of weeks seriously and a discussion on boundaries and how if she continues with the "Asperger's stuff" you will cut off communication from her permanently. Also you have to stop blaming your problems on your mother, own them now. She may have been the cause but you are the only solution. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Question about Frame in TRPYou aren't going out of your way to make people hate you. But there are always people who aren't going to appreciate your leadership or IDGAF attitude. Pay no mind to them. Polarizing means you don't want to be the 'nice guy' who never makes an impression, you would rather make an impression good or bad. If its the 'bad boy', 'rebel', 'asshole who gets all the girls' so be it. The old hens and beta white knights might hate you, pay them no attention. People questions my attitude and beliefs all … | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | If you have too many plates by default are you putting women as a priority?Plates spin, plates fall, women are lots of work. I've never been able to keep up with more than 2-3 plates at a time and even then only for short periods. I still am not dominant or smooth enough to just do late night booty calls because I know if there is no comfort the plate falls quickly. Congrats on the plates, but its up to you how much time you spend with them, what your priorities are, and know they will eventually fall. Even if you only have 1 or 0 plates, if you know how easy it is to … | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Is scheduling meet ups just one day after meeting in real life and texting ,alright?Yes waiting is so foolish these days. Girls of all ages have 30 second attention spans these days. You take initiative show interest if she is not responding properly waiting a few more days would only make things worse. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:32 PM |
| 2 | I need a vision in life.You struggle with goals? Your struggle is putting in the work to obtain them not having them. You are on a "how to have more sex sub" but you aren't having any. You know your job is monotonous and career limiting yet you stay and sacrifice getting a University education. Best of luck, you need a hard kick in the ass to wake up but really are you going to take it from me? | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:30 PM |
| 6 | I need a vision in life.Self-deprecation and you clearly struggled with tenth grade English. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:28 PM |
| 7 | Ex texted Ltr... Lost frameUsing this sub as a crutch doesn't change reality. If you want to dump her do so, but you provided nothing that would get you a response other than dump her. Do you not have the balls to do it? Scarcity Mentality? Sex is Meh? (Read Sex God Method do something about it.) Bitch is interested in attention from other guys? (Of course because sex with you is Meh) Don't want to be Beta Bux Provide?r (Than why is she living with you? and off you?) You can easily change the sex but the whole relationshi… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Plan to smoothly leave LTR of 4 years after she raises marriage and buying a house together.I have no idea what you want. Do you want sex? (No. doing it once a month) Does you want a girl who doesn't cause drama? (No. You need validation from a bunch of internet jackals to dump a girl treating you badly). Scarcity mentality, having to move back with parents. What does this LTR provide you? Why are you having trouble letting it go? I am not as quick to dismiss a 4 year relationship but your post is not providing the whole picture, what is the value in staying? (I will ignore the fact yo… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:09 PM |
| 1 | First tinder date, K-closed, what next?You already waited too long setup immediately before she forgets who the hell you are. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:59 AM |
| 1 | How to invest money to get more money?Troll on perm ignore. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 07:07 PM |
| 4 | How to invest money to get more money?Your an assclown, you come for advice and then argue about something so trivial. Over certain time periods in recent history the S&P 500 incl dividends returned only 4% or less especially if you sold during a bear market. READ ABOUT IT. That doesn't mean you should assume over the next time period if you invest in an S&P500 ETF you will only get 4%. Dividends on the index are at about ~1.85% can you beat 4% (VERY LIKELY). You really need to get your head out of your ass and read for yourself nob… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to just feel like you're not interested in dating/relationships at all?Are you Masturbating? Watching Porn? No sex drive is highly unusual for men your age there is something you are not telling us. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 12:56 PM |
| 3 | How to invest money to get more money?Do you go to the butcher shop when you want to get Dental Hygiene tips? Why do you come here then for financial advice? Even your premises (like stocks only give 4%) is erroneous find a better source. There are tradeoffs and timeframes for any investment you have to learn about those, your questions indicate you need to go read a book about investing even before you think about investing. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Question about Frame in TRPBe polarizing, not everyone needs to like you. People can enter your frame and worship you or hate you. You don't care about the haters. You don't need to be a sociopath but do what you like to do and invite others to join you not the other way around. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 01:35 AM |
| 10 | Why does Beta game work so well?If the guy was handsome and loaded that behavior would hurt his chances but his chances would already be high. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 07:44 PM |
| 15 | Going on my first date in an hour. Any last minute advice?Sit next to her don't sit across from her. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How To Respond to "Just Got Out Of Relationship"When you get a text like that it might be 'friend zone' but it also might also be ASD. You just don't know. I got a text like that recently and I just cancelled the date, she wasn't very responsive on text when I was setting up the date so I assumed it was more likely this was a poor prospect. It could just as easily have been a women who needed a little more comfort but was interested and attracted I will never know. If you want to keep the prospect just answer in a playful manner and ignore th… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Guys who are in their 30s, 40s and older, what do you regret doing when you were in your 20s?If you are worried about women thinking you are a rapist then you need much more help than this sub. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Guys who are in their 30s, 40s and older, what do you regret doing when you were in your 20s?Escalating is far more nuanced then pawing some girl. Most of the escalation I was missing was verbal and sexual. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Anyone notice how a girl becomes more attractive once she starts sending you IOIs?Yes of course, women are more fun and more attractive when they are giving you lots of attention and trying to seduce you, when they are doing all the work. That fades quickly though after you fuck them a few times the novelty wears off. Then you feel dirty and can't figure out why the hell you are still fucking them. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Guys who are in their 30s, 40s and older, what do you regret doing when you were in your 20s?Being a little beta bitch not escalating on dates. Being afraid to let women know I was attracted to them and wanted to have sex. Staying with GFs because I didn't think I would find better. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Issue I have after escalatingWomen aren't logical like men, very difficult to figure some of them out. But yes the cuddle and rapport building afterwards is important if you want a repeat. I have the opposite problem every girl I bang I can't get rid of, I am too nice and stick around too long afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 04:19 AM |
| -1 | Just discovered my fiance has a very promiscuous past and I have thoughts of ending it. Am I being too rash?You thought you were marrying a virgin? How superficial and immature can you be. I never understood the how many guys she slept with lowering or raising her value arguments. If you are looking for a reason not to marry her or break it off, that is a silly one but you don't need a reason just end it. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 04:12 AM |
| 1 | [Advice] Physicality/Escaping the FriendzoneOgling other girls in front of her is just foolish. Showing the confidence to approach other girls in front of her, flirt with them, take their telephone numbers, now that is if anything going to make her realize you have options. Having her on your arm may actually make it easier for you to approach other girls. But really if you had options you wouldn't really be here trying to get out of this friend zone mess with this oneitis, so I'd probably avoid the dread game unless you can truly pull it… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | [Advice] Physicality/Escaping the FriendzoneNo you don't push for sex right away I never said that, you have many steps of escalation that need to occur before she will even think about having sex with you. Always be pushing up the escalation ladder and calibrating her responses, when in doubt keep going. You just need to be prepared for her to give some resistance which you need to smile, shrug off, don't act weird, don't show emotion, change the subject or scenery, and come back to it later. I don't value the friendship, and I would wan… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Advice on closingIt is both your responsibility to keep the ball up in the air just make sure she is putting in more investment than you are keep the chat to a minnimum. I don't know what spoon pics are? | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | [Advice] Physicality/Escaping the FriendzoneYou have watched way too many movies like "Hitch" again more and more bluepill nonsense. Giving a young girl validation on her looks (which btw she was born with and didn't do anything to earn) does not create tingles. There are so many better ways to compliment her and show your attraction. How she smells, how her hair looks today, her outfit etc. You can't just compliment her it has to have a clear sexual tone. Her girlfriends and beta orbiters already tell her how beautiful she is, her future… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 04:22 PM |
| 2 | [Advice] Physicality/Escaping the FriendzoneIf you are going to take your shot do it in person. Don't be a coward and try to sext her or profess your love on the phone. Ask her out for a drink at night like any other girl and show her your sexual side, she may be surprised and shocked but you just stay the course, she may feel the same way. Don't worry about being shut down (like a turned cheek) just smile, be playful, change the subject, and try again a little bit later. If she is still hanging out with you than she is at least open to t… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 04:09 PM |
| 1 | [Advice] Physicality/Escaping the FriendzoneNo the escalation ladder is exactly about escalating to sex. You never want to be the touchy feely guy with no goals, girls who aren't attracted to you will find that creepy. You seem to have a ton of time to burn and that is incredibly unattractive to women. If they know this they will have no trouble taking your time for free and giving you nothing in return. If you don't value your time and have an urgency towards having sex they certainly won't feel much attraction towards you. Think about i… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 03:58 PM |
| 1 | [Advice] Physicality/Escaping the FriendzoneGet out of here with the Bluepill bullshit, you shouldn't be advising anyone. OP ignore this total nonsense, not only is it total BP but its all bullshit. You have to lead and calibrate based on her responses, (start with flirting, teasing, sexual innuendo, and learn the physical escalation ladder.) If you are getting a positive response and she still sticks around and doesn't tell you to stop keep going. Most friend zone situations are a next (you already fucked up by taking so long to have the… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How about the person that got me into trp?You can't chase a women who has dumped you. She has to come to you. If she doesn't, you will never get her pussy again. Don't bother contacting her and just game other women. Best case scenario she contacts you and you make her a plate on your terms. That only happens if you have many other women as plates and aren't needy when she miraculously finds you. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Advice on closingDon't waste your time chatting with her being her girlfriend. Just wait, NEVER go to see her, make her come to you. Get her facebook or even better video chat make sure you aren't being catfished, better she doesn't stay with you but good logistics so you can fuck her. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 03:24 PM |
| 15 | If a plate teases you by leaning away from a kiss and sort of playing with you before making out, does that mean she's trying to control the frame or is it just her being cheeky?Shit test and playful one if she is smiling. Testing if you really want her and have the balls to push through a little resistance. Get out of your head and stop worrying about frame when you are making out, pull her towards you and get to it. Sometimes when that happens and I know its on, I tease her right back I pull her in for a kiss barely touch one of her lips and then back off and look into her eyes for 30 seconds. A minute later I kiss her deeply. Women love that shit. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 03:18 PM |
| 8 | How did you beat your Approach Anxiety?Do easier approaches. Trying to get some girls attention while she is sprinting to work isn't going to work. Just like you always want to do a 'small ask' like a coffee around the corner instadate in day game make it easier for you. You don't overcome approach anxiety by getting shot down 100 times on stupid attempts. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 02:15 PM |
| 3 | What did I do wrong? HB9 kissed on first date. Long read please help.Girls can be so fickle and big sluts. Making out in the back of your car could mean nothing to her. Just ask her out again with time and place. If she says no, wait for her to propose another time. If she doesn't next her. You need to stop hamstering and find out where you are at. Stop texting, stop calling, those are for logistics only keep the talk in between meetings to a minnimum until you have banged a few times and want to reward her with more attention. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Why do people hate on r/TheRedPill?Redpill isn't just about self improvement, it is about spinning plates, fucking women without commitment, and in general being as selfish as possible. Yes you prevent yourself from being mistreated by women but many here genuinely speak ill of women and advocate treating them badly as well. While these things are not strictly in the spirit of TRP they are a byproduct of the strict rules and behavior that is advocated here. Ultimately if your goals with women are to quickly sleep with them and th… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Stress From Concentrating On a Few Things In LifeWhy should you be stressed? You have made a conscious effort to focus on the two things most important to you and achieving those goals will give you the most satisfaction. I am exactly like this, I focus on one or two things to the detriment of everything else. I don't care about the rest, achieving those goals will give me the greatest satisfaction until reward/effort becomes diminished and then I switch my goals. In most things in life there is a steep learning curve, overcome it and you will… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 02:43 PM |
| 5 | Bluepill "PTSD"Highschool isn't so amazing with everybody hooking up like you see in movies. Many many guys just coast threw it, work hard, have a part time job, and don't get much pussy(that was me in highschool). Pussy isn't such a big deal, at your age you might think its the end all be all of existence it really isn't. Once you have fucked a few dozen times, or even the same girl 2 or 3 times it won't give you the same high anymore. There are phases of being unplugged, you are so young so its not surprisin… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Need Help With A Diet.If you are trying to GAIN weight you don't have to worry too much about too much fat or carbs you need them. Just because you are eating healthy doesn't mean it has to be bland and tasteless. A plain chicken breast tastes lousy, but with jerk marinade or hot sauce it is much better. Nothing says you can't cook with spices and heat. Get coconut cream or coconut milk instead of water for your rice. Walker's Wood Jerk marinade with a little cider vinegar and soya sauce is amazing for chicken breast… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 04:37 AM |
| 1 | So I essentially just got handed a few million and now I dont know what to do with my life anymoreI am older (42) than you in the same situation but noone gave me anything, I earned it when I sold my business and through good investments. But having money only solves some problems, having a career, being in a position of power, learning to network and deal with people, employees, colleagues, bosses, are very important life skills. It sounds like you know nothing about investing, well you should learn, and you should keep going for that finance degree you might consider becoming a PM and that… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Hypothetical: If a huge guy that can very obviously destroy you in a fight slaps your girlfriends ass in public and walks away, what do you do?Oh yeah, women just love when you start a fight and then get the shit kicked out of you, it makes them cream. (sarcasm) You are going to lose 100X more respect by doing that. In fact as soon as you throw the first punch she lost 10X more respect then just taking her arm and leading her away. Wrong answer. We are not in cavemanland anymore. The answer is take her by the arm and walk away and if need be protect her from getting assaulted again while leaving the situation. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Not following TRP adviceUse her as practice, learn to not care at all. Be sexual, be outrageously flirty, push as far as you can, have fun with her as far as you can go until you get a definite no from her. Escalate like you have never done before and see if it works or not, at this point you have nothing to lose. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 04:56 AM |
| 2 | What did I do wrong with this divorced girl with two kids?If you think the way I do, every date and every women you need to be escalating and making your intentions known. Have enough balls to push it on the date not afterwards by text and stop making excuses. I took out a single mother once a few years ago, we were dancing for over an hour latin dancing so physical kino was done naturally. I tried to kiss her twice on the date, once at the dance club, and once in my car near the end and she wasn't going for it. It didn't work out but I didn't have to … | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 01:31 AM |
| 3 | What did I do wrong with this divorced girl with two kids?Reading your hamstering is just painful. You fucked up because you had her on a date and didn't kiss her and didn't escalate sexually (physically and verbally). You showed extreme lack of confidence and turned her off(he isn't in to me enough, he has no balls). You can't make up for your cowardice by being more sexual over text. Game over, do better on the next one. No need to think about it, you autorejected yourself. Your face or whatever else you are hamstering about had nothing to do with it… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Children - What to say and when to tell them the truth about their motherSTFU don't disparage their mother ever and you haven't provided any background on even the custody situation. Teach them to be MEN at around puberty. This is not the place to be asking questions, most guys here would not entertain having children and would already see this as BP. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Moment of Beta-ness during unexpected fight. How to handle the inevitable round 2?You are asking a forum of anti LTR guys how to fix your LTR, bad idea. One thing is for sure if you want to keep your LTR now you have to keep your mouth shut, and let her come to you and stop talking and acting and actually listen. Don't phone her, don't text her, leave her alone. If she reaches out to you don't have an argument over the phone, meet her in person and you better be ready for her to break up with you and you can't show too much emotion or get angry. The less you say the better, w… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 05:15 AM |
| 1 | At what point did you realize, "I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks anymore", and how did you get there?You need success to grow your confidence. Just don't be so picky and I'm sure there are some women in your life who are into you and you can practice seducing quickly. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 11:40 PM |
| 2 | How to get rid of her?Just stop responding that is the easiest way. Otherwise just tell her she is really cool and you had a great time but you aren't really into the LDR thing. Leave it at that. Don't get into the age thing, or why you are rejecting her, women take that shit hard. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 01:49 PM |
| 19 | Looking for a guide on the mannerisms / ways of a leader in personal interactionsLeadership isn't something easily memorized from a book, you need confidence in your own ideas and that people will follow you. In escalation and compliance tests you want to be constantly leading a women and doing what you want to do which will also be good for her. You look tired, come and sit down on the couch with me and have a drink. The music is too loud, lets go to a more chill place where we can relax more. I like this song lets go dance etc etc. You have to be selfish, know what you wan… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 01:43 PM |
| 10 | Need serious help building a social circle and a decent sex life in University in unfavourable conditions"You can't cold approach without developing a bad reputation." That is the biggest load of horse shit I have ever heard. Cold approaching is about being friendly talking to lots of girls not about walking around campus asking "Do you want to fuck". You want to talk to them and then if its day game invite them to lunch a coffee whatever. Or just get facebook or phone number and hit them up later. If you do it right you will never come off as creepy, also girls who reject you will never talk shit … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 12:57 PM |
| 6 | How to Highlight a Girl's Bad Behavior Without Losing Frame?You made a plan to text later? Silly. She is a plate you don't plan to text later you plan for her to come over and get fucked. What is the use of making a plan to make a plan. She did nothing wrong, it is you and you are not managing your plate properly. Don't get all butthurt if you are weak and don't make your expectations known. If I were you I'd forget this whole incident don't apologize just go on as if it never happens. A Soft Next doesn't work if you get angry before you start it you com… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Guys in your 40's do you still go after 20 something women ?I'm not following you, I look in my mid thirties but I'm 42. In your first example: "How old are you?" What do you answer? "You're so old." (which they never say but many I suspect are just going into auto reject mode at that point). I'm thinking: Be careful you're young enough to be my daughter. I can't see that playing out too well but that is what I am thinking at times. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Guys in your 40's do you still go after 20 something women ?Do you have any common examples of shit tests you experience and how you easily brush them off? My mindset is a bit weak concerning telling them my age(especially the low 20s) and any associated shit test concerning that. I have a don't ask her and don't tell policy but I get into trouble with my frame when this comes up though. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Guys in your 40's do you still go after 20 something women ?Love your ranges spot on. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Guys in your 40's do you still go after 20 something women ?Dazed and confused, great movie. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | What was that thing that you had a hard time getting?Yes, I went on several dates recently where I got the first night lay. I never did that before. Prior I went on many good dates where all I got was a kiss at the end of it and things went really well and then she didn't want to go out again. Girls today want sex fast and like men who take bold steps and the initiative to make it happen. I just learned that its never too early to sexually escalate if done in a playful and fun way it makes things interesting for her. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Whats the next step?Your situation is no different from the guys who don't have the 1% top body. Snapchat, text, social media is for AFC chumps, get off it quick ask them out for a drink and really show off that body of yours escalate sexually quickly. Pussies dry out, after a couple of days(or even an hour) of chatting online she starts to think "Does this guy even like me? Does he even have the balls to ask me out?". I don't waste more than 5 minutes with useless small talk, you matched based on looks that is all… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 05:57 AM |
| 7 | Tried AM and A&A. Did I do it right?This isn't a shit test at all and the girl cares about you and you are fucking it up, can't you see it? She is serious and you are playing around and being a dick. You haven't set her up as a plate or mltr and I doubt you were upfront or that she agreed to let you see many different women at the same time especially if she is so upset over just someone flirting with you. If you want to keep her as an OLTR than you should do more comfort and actually treat her better. It doesn't mean you shouldn'… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 04:25 AM |
| 1 | My GF makes more money than me, problem?Your in College man and already worried about what her parents will think? I would concentrate more on your school, yourself, and on giving her the tingles. Her opinion of you is much more important than theirs. Yes be polite, have good table manners, be respectful in front of them if you ever meet them but otherwise they will only know what she tells them. Do you really think that her parents have such a low opinion of their daughter that they think the only thing you are after is her money? St… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Help moving to the next stageYou are putting the cart before the horse. You don't know if girls are into you until they agree to go out with you and then they accept your sexual escalation. You don't determine the type of relationship until after you have slept with them. Its good to have what you want in mind, so you don't lose frame and act all mushy after sex but many steps away from those situations. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 11:27 PM |
| 2 | I Answered to my hard-nexted ex text because today is an important day for her, did I fuck up?If you want to be her emotional tampon go ahead. You didn't answer my questions on what you want from her. It seems you just wanted us to validate your beta bitch actions and give you the okay, boy you are in the wrong forum for that pathetic behaviour. Boy, you came to the wrong forum for this kind of advice, we have different goals than you, and won't tolerate being treated like shit by women. If what she did warranted a hard next then move on, it is very obvious you haven't. If not you are de… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Should I do it?Stop wasting time just figure out where you stand. Instead of doing women hamstering with a bunch of internet quarterbacks just ask her out for a drink. We don't see the interaction, don't know the history, can't see her body language when she interacts with you. Our opinions only matter if you next her and learn to behave differently on the next one. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 10:30 PM |
| 1 | How to forcefully swallow the red pill?Get off the computer, meet women, try to fuck women, screw up, figure out why, ask questions here, try to fuck more women, have success, have more success with less effort, realize AWALT, finally internalize TRP. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What was that thing that you had a hard time getting?Learning how to escalate quickly and push for what I want(sex) and that women being led to quick sex even if they say otherwise. Still an ongoing issue for me and working on reads and calibration. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Friend is tall, model-tier attractive and very muscular, but still manages to be basically at virgin level with girls? What can I do with him?You can lead a horse to water but can't make him drink. You have better things to do with your time let it go. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I Answered to my hard-nexted ex text because today is an important day for her, did I fuck up?Something is wrong with your thinking if you are asking us. What is it you want? it is very unclear at this point. If its a HARD next than you shouldn't want or care about anything she does or says, you have decided she isn't worth your time end of story ignore her going forward it really doesn't matter if you responded or not just STOP. But you are coming here asking for advice so what is it you want with her you have to be CLEAR IN YOUR OWN MIND, never mind what she wants or needs its not impo… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 09:55 PM |
| 10 | Today I messed up. I took the redpill a month ago and I was okay I ghosted my ex blocked her from where.I would rarely say this, but ASKTRP and TRP are HORRIBLE places to get advice for your situation. No you can't ghost her. No you can't ghost your kid. Yes you need legal advice. Yes you need a paternity test. No you shouldn't be hooking up with her and clearly you are both young and still have attraction for each other. Get counselling, get a social worker for the child, get a mediator(if she is willing), get legal advice, but really avoid internet quarterback opinions, this is a complicated and… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | How do alpha males dress?Yes not just physically, you need to be comfortable in your clothes, it wouldn't hurt to brush up on current style trends (tapered pants, and slim fit clothing for sure), but ultimately you must wear clothes that you are confident in. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Girls describing me to others as nicePerfect reputation for you, the girls will have their guard down, you ask a girl out and escalate and show her your sexual side. She will be surprised and become instantly attracted to you if you do it in a non awkward way. If you are acting like an AFC pussy who is too afraid to escalate than you have to read the sidebar and learn how women work. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | What should I do if women always select me first?Enjoy it while it lasts. I was the same way in my teens and early 20s. I would talk to them approach them etc. but never make a move or say anything sexual blue pill AFC to the max. I would just be around and do fun things with them and eventually they would jump me and become my gf. I hopped from gf to gf and had no conscious game whatsoever. But this was before cell phones social media and women getting online constant validation from 100s of thirsty dude I think today is different. I graduate… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Approaching two women at the barDude keep the ballzy abundance mentality it will work but not with every women. No point in guessing sometimes chicks go to bars just to have fun and get validation. Making the threesome happen is difficult, the girls have to be into girls or at least bi curious most women aren't. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Girls that like you but treat you like shitYou are not the delivery boy, you have to take what you want during makeout sessions the focus shouldn't be on her but on your own selfish desires and she will like it better that way anyway. Of course you want sex so push forward constantly. If she is shy or resists, slowdown go to a more neutral area, and then go back to moving forward a few minutes later. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Too early sex with possible LTRNo you shouldn't have waited. Girls get attached AFTER you have fucked them at least a couple of times. Push for a second meeting and set logistics perfectly so you can fuck her again. If you want to keep seeing her, push through any of the resistance you might get that you weren't expecting and make sure you fuck her again. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Help with shit testClassic Attention Whore Behavior. You replying anything makes you her beta orbiter period. Ask her out, escalate, and show her what you want she won't do it for you. Talking on the phone for more than 5 minutes (beta orbiter). Talking on social media (beta orbiter). She craves attention and validation, don't give it to her unless she is giving you her pussy which is what you crave. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 05:33 PM |
| 30 | Threatened breakup w ltrThis thread is so sick are you for real? Are the responses here for real? You acted like a 12 year old and lost your temper over nothing and it all could have been avoided. You are not ready for a relationship and I have no idea how a women would stay with you for 4 months. Oneitis? (you are living with her and fucking her daily, you should mean monogamous.) Frame? (If you mean your selfish immature chauvinistic in-congruent behaviour than yes, losing your temper and being a bitch boy by coming … | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Recovering from Predatory Student Loans and Finding a JobYou spent 90k on a microbiology and a terrorist language degree. You deserve to be in debt, good-luck with that, no idea who the stupid idiot was who would agree to lend you money to do that. Your only option is to go work for Iranian terrorists, Jihad on biological weapons. If you are not a troll you are one stupid SOB. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | LTR said something dumb, how would you have responded?You were being 'playful' and you didn't like when she played back. People in glass houses should not throw stones. No your response was seriously in-congruent with who you claim you are, don't do anymore damage and quite the silent treatment, you should have laughed it off instead. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 03:48 AM |
| 2 | I keep messing up my chances with women by being a nice guy. Really need help on how to change?Your goal should be pound town every time you see a girl and you should not be satisfied or pleased with her behavior unless you are getting it. If you are not getting it the 'punishment' for her is a minimum amount of attention and validation, just enough to make plans for another date where you plan your logistics better and are focused on sexual escalation. You can't seduce a girl by text it will never work, no matter how witty or funny you are you/she can be rockstar behind a text wall but i… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Teach me how to figure out her interest"Does He treat you well? because I wouldn't" "I have a pet Iguana, but why are we talking about things that aren't important." Unfortunately both of these work better in person where she can see the amused smirk on your face and both would be incongruent with how you have acted so far with her, its a next bro not even worth finding out if that is a lie or not over text. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Teach me how to figure out her interestThis is all in your head. You don't know where you are at because YOU HAVEN'T ESCALATED. Texting is for logistics and nothing more, don't give her attention and validation for free demand to see her and get her to your place quickly. Your biggest problem is you have been too much of a pussy and don't even know where you stand. Be polarizing find if she wants to fuck you or not (and don't do it by asking!) physically escalate. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 06:18 AM |
| 2 | How would you invest $1 millionIs it better than 5 minute abs? How about 4 minute abs? | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 06:10 AM |
| 1 | How would you invest $1 millionDo you have any idea how well the S&P did last year? You could have made 19%+ + dividends investing in it last year. This thread is a joke and a troll, who asks for advice from a bunch of internet quarterbacks on managing money on asktrp. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Is this advice on Frame-control smart?Amused Mastery works very well with women especially young ones but you have to calibrate as with everything. You want to lead and its okay for the women to know she is being led even if you aren't explicit about it. You don't need to treat them like children, or drop hints you aren't leading them, on the contrary you project being a dominant man who does what he wants. If she won't follow I will find someone who will and I don't want to waste my time on those that don't. You also have to have i… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What is the smart way to eliminate approach-anxiety?I never wanted to do the first method and still won't even though I am now very extroverted and was very shy before. I don't like low probability plays, but it works for some people. What you need to think about is what is the worst (but unlikely thing) she could do to you. That would be "laugh and point at you so that the whole room could see her rejecting you" however she would also look like a psycho bitch. A more realistic rejection would be her turning her back on you or ignoring you or wal… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | So I fucked up last night and need to get this girl out of my lifeGo and get the morning after pill (if where you live allows it without prescription) and make sure she takes it in time. Be nice but firm about it. Just tell her just in case she didn't take birth control consistently. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Relationship is failing. What to do?You don't have to blow up the bridge based on that behaviour, its one way to go if you don't care. Before doing that use dread game and pickup other women, have options, if she still cares it will make her jealous and more attracted, if not it will make the transition less painful for you. Yes withdrawing sex makes women cheat much much faster, they need sex and you withdrawing it is not helping. You should have wild, dominant, makeup sex and see if that doesn't change her mood. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Polish Woman: Getting a single rose for the first date?Your frame is already weak and you haven't gone out on a date with her yet. The Rose doesn't matter(not my thing but not terrible if done right), I certainly wouldn't give it to her to start the date, and if I did it would be accompanied by a sexual compliment and only if things were going well. Your most important goal should be to lead and sexualize the date. Don't get lumped into her orbiters and ignore any LJBF comments and escalate escalate escalate. Move as quickly as you can and push your… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 05:06 PM |
| 12 | Just recently I got access to my GF's phoneIf you are giving her great sex she has no need to stray. If you aren't read Sex God Method and learn. You are jealous, insecure, and worried about her cheating. You betrayed her privacy to satisfy your low self esteem and insecurity. You found nothing and still you are talking about it, if I were you I'd delete this thread and make sure you are giving her good D then work on those self esteem issues and in that order. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 04:55 PM |
| 2 | 44 Y.O. At a crossroad in life..any older guys divorced w kids please chime in....Ignorance is bliss in many respects. I have watched almost all my friends become slaves to their wives and children. I see snobby entitled women everywhere constantly playing games, doing insidious things to exploit men and trying to exploit me ( I won't let them). My ex-wife tries to exploit me often. I do not enjoy being acutely aware of such poor behavior I was certainly happier when I didn't know Women's true nature and wasn't forced to face it on a regular basis. I just hope that my newfoun… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 07:18 AM |
| 3 | 44 Y.O. At a crossroad in life..any older guys divorced w kids please chime in....If you truly have internalized Redpill I'm not sure any women will ever make you happy ever again, can you ever trust them or want to be with anyone long term? that is a very lonely place to be at least for me it is right now. I have very similar circumstances to you and am thankful my ex-wife didn't take me to the cleaners but we had a prenup so the damage was always going to be limited. I made money prior to and during my marriage, and half decent investments and some part time work on my busi… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 10:44 PM |
| 0 | Why is does TRP generally advise to block/delete women after a breakup?When it comes to plates, FWB even an LTR how you handle the breakup determines 100% if she ever comes back. You really need to not react, or give her the closure she wants and just move on. You need to put her completely out of your mind which is easier if you have a lot of other women around to help. Blocking/Deleting someone is just Butthurt stuff, but we are men and we too easily fall into the oneitis trap. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Regret?You can't 'hold abundance mentality' you only have it if you are doing lots of approaches and have many girls in the pipeline. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 04:07 AM |
| 4 | Potential FWB said she'll "probably come over tonight and will let me know"You told her to come over and she told you she is tired. If a girl wants your dick they will never be 'tired' she has low interest in you. Just soft next her, don't even respond, unless she starts chasing you and proposes another time. Let her propose another date and time you shouldn't have to prompt this or you look very needy, if she doesn't NEXT. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Potential FWB said she'll "probably come over tonight and will let me know"Forget the games, tell her to come over to watch netflix and have some wine. If she refuses and doesn't propose another night she is just playing and next her perm. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 03:42 AM |
| 1 | A question regarding the sidebarIt doesn't matter if its 100% valid for every women or not. It holds true for a majority of women and its a mindset that allows you to be successful with women regardless of whether they fit the profile or not. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Obsession and overthinking due to ScarcityThe only cure I have seen for oneitis is to pickup and fuck more women. Be productive, be busy, don't worry about women, improve yourself and they will come as a byproduct of your new success and confidence. While you are still working on your degree take your opportunities as they come with women but don't make that your highest priority. The other poster was right though you won't finish uni and magically women will fall into your lap, that will take practice of game and playing the numbers. Y… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Too good?Do what you want to do if you want to keep fucking her, keep fucking her. If she walks out again don't chase her or give her anymore attention just soft next and ignore her bad behavior. You sound like you just want to plate her anyway, so see other girls and just plate her for as long as it lasts. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 06:07 AM |
| 2 | How often should you pull?Enough so that you have options, avoid oneitis, don't feel desperate and are able to let go of girls who aren't acting the way you want very quickly. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Bet a girl I was gaming...she lost...not holding up her end of the bet..."Giving ground while seemingly innocent would be a far greater sign of weakness than walking away." Waiting a week and then texting her. (weak sauce don't wait that long women will think you are not interested or cool off). Why do you take yourself and her so seriously it was a game of pool. She saw weakness in your sexual game all night it really doesn't matter now if you let go of the bet or not. If I was a gambler I'd see if you softnext and don't reestablish contact (which may not work anywa… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 05:53 AM |
| 10 | Dealing with a flakeGirls are going to flake nothing we can do about that. You handled it well and because you did she has decided she does want to go out with you. If you aren't busy just go out with her tonight and make sure you sexually escalate, dancing makes it easier there is already kino and touching involved. There is no point in 'pretending' to be busy just take your opportunity now and create more attraction. Women who are very attracted are much less likely to flake. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 05:29 PM |
| 8 | Bet a girl I was gaming...she lost...not holding up her end of the bet...Bet or No Bet doesn't change overall game. A k-close isn't enough with some women for them to be interested in another date especially if you waited till the end of the date to kiss her that is weak sauce. If you didn't escalate enough, or for many other reasons out of your control she may not be interested anymore. At this point it isn't really about the bet, I would forget about it and just try get her out again(it may be difficult) so you can sexually escalate. If the bet comes up again you c… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 05:23 PM |
| 6 | How do I deal with a 9 that's not very talkative and doesn't reciprocate much to touching?Russian women have learned to put up an ice wall at first to test how dominant you really are. They have learned this because Russian men are often hyper aggressive, rough, and are constantly blatantly hitting on them. If you get past the wall then they will warm up quickly and be great lovers you just have to proceed even if she isn't giving you much of a positive response. Even though Russian women are the opposite of shy in general they have to be treated the same way as a shy girl initially. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 12:54 AM |
| 3 | went for kiss, got cheek. bout to next but I have a question.Before that kiss happens, you have to have escalated verbally and physically. (See escalation ladder). Instead you just went in anyway because it was the end of the date and had no idea how she felt. Waiting till the end of the date is weak sauce as well, If I can I do it during the walks between venues or to and from my car that is much better. If you already made sexual compliments to her (verbal escalation) you would have a better gauge of her interest level. You probably didn't do enough esc… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 05:47 AM |
| 1 | what do i do in these situations?Yeah call the number right in front of her and watch her go pale as her fake number is exposed. Then say "I would have just used you as a one time cum dumpster" so don't really have much need for your number. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Avoid being friend zoned but not burning the bridge forever.Thanks for the great advice I am starting to get it: 1) I was a bit lazy, didn't want to take her out on what I perceived to be a low probability prospect (she wasn't responding quickly to my texts and didn't answer my phone call) I don't like to talk much in between dates and texting is just for logistics but this was ridiculous we had 0 conversation. In hindsite I should have just ignored the qualifier and proceeded as if it didn't exist. Also I doubt I would even be in that position to be tol… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Ex boyfriend is alpha as fuckYou are autorejecting yourself, don't compare yourself to him he doesn't matter, if she brings him up ignore and change subject. What do you mean by had a date and it went really went well? Why is there even LTR being discussed here have you even smashed yet? | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 07:14 PM |
| 3 | We're not hooking up tonight & what did these shit tests (?) mean?Am I the only one who thinks you should flip it around and get her talking about herself as soon as possible and stop entering her frame and answering all her questions and trying to qualify yourself to her. After a question turn it around and ask her a question of your own. Also if you are tired of answering her questions make up funny ridiculous answers and know that you don't have to answer her questions if you don't want to. Get her to qualify herself to you not the other way around. As you … | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Avoid being friend zoned but not burning the bridge forever.1) What sort of escalation in front of her friends at a party would you suggest? We did dance a little Kizomba and I did a body wave with her from behind but I'm not sure how much more I could do at the initial meet and that is typically the case for me. I invited her to sit on the coach with me and she was pretty compliant but other than that its not appropriate for me to do makeout sessions or anything to overt in public in my scene. 2) Interesting perspective so would you just get them out an… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Avoid being friend zoned but not burning the bridge forever.Thanks for the quick response. 1) No response from her after that, she went silent, it was today. It Doesn't feel great though and I have no intention of contacting her or texting anything for at least a few weeks if ever. I can't help but thinking I blew up the bridge, and a little humor with "Okay Friend, You Buy the first Round" would have been more effective. I probably would have acted exactly the same as if she hadn't said it and escalated as much as possible, maybe tease her about about t… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 06:25 AM |
| 70 | Don't you deserve respect?Excellent post sir, we all have one that got away I pined over one for years. Then I met her again married with a kid, her looks had faded a bit all that was left was her stupid personality which was lacking before and still is. Her husband tagged along to our reunion, i bet he is in constant fear of her cheating. My dream image was shattered I just didn't care about her anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Female friends: just as easy to fuck as any other womenThis post is in-congruent at best at worst it is fake bragging and can be misleading. If you are so alpha dominant and sexual you don't ever become friends with women you want to sleep with, You might be friends with women you have already slept with and for one reason or another it didn't work out but never the ones you still want to sleep with and haven't. The reason why you don't become friends with women you want to sleep with is that your window closes(with them) if you take too long to mak… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/18 11:26 PM |
| 0 | You don't have to understand women to reap the benefits.I agree with this, too much rationalization and internet reading and not enough trying and doing (and failing) does not push you forward or make things easier. A lot of these principals have to be practiced and felt on instinct they can't be memorized. We will only ever be able to make an educated guess as to why a women wasn't interested or didn't act the way we expected. I constantly look for guidance here and elsewhere in 'manosphere' when things don't go the way I planned and I rarely get th… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | An insight on lifting and self-worth.I really hate when these threads sound like infomercials. Yes be motivated have goals and work towards them and be passionate. You improve yourself, keep your mind focussed, and women will find this attractive as a byproduct both your new body and productivity. However don't be delusional it takes months if not years to put on muscle or to transform your body. If you don't get that you will burn out fast. Think about putting on a pound of muscle if scrawny or losing 2 pounds a month if you are f… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Remind yourself during the date you have nothing to lose. Try, try, try and see what happens.Outcome independence is a nuanced concept as well. Of course we care and develop 'game' to get better results if this wasn't the case why read redpill yes we care about the outcome. But we should care about doing the right things that will work with the majority of women or many and not worrying about whether it works with one particular women if her response wasn't positive. You can't get them all and might as well get used to rejection from some its really no big deal and may not be a reflecti… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Remind yourself during the date you have nothing to lose. Try, try, try and see what happens.Picking up new women always leads to marginal loss of time and money, I can't bang most of who I ask many of them lead to a waste of both. So I developed strategies to not do dinner dates, not do anything expensive, and always invite women to do something I want to do and not what they want or to impress them. However invariably I often don't like them, even the ones I slept with. So I feel like every time I ask a women out its a waste of time and money and just an attempt to get laid. Its a blu… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Remind yourself during the date you have nothing to lose. Try, try, try and see what happens.Data points 2, conclusion = very inconclusive. Did you stop to think for a second, second girl was into you and down to fuck and the first one wasn't? (ignore what she said that is just hamstring, women lie and she has probably done it before many times) You guys give the impression that you act a certain way and magically she ends up at your place. Hold on a sec, they are women but they have their own minds, desires, and the place they are in in their life. Having game allows you to capitalize … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 07:16 PM |
| 2 | An insight on lifting and self-worth.I am in Montreal and I train where he does wrestling at the YWHA and, perhaps your 'internet research' is incomplete. I am sure he trains in several other places as well but I only see him at some restaurants (Mythos etc.) and at the YWHA once and a while you internet douche. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 05:41 PM |
| 1 | An insight on lifting and self-worth.Being strong and looking cut are two different things, most actors are cut because of special diets and high rep type training. The men who win strongmen competitions are not cut at all and their training is to bulk and involves a lot of heavy lifting and free weight stuff. The two goals are at odds with each other as are the diets. Want to look like Matt Damon(?) this will give you a clue https://www.menshealth.com/fitness/how-matt-damon-prepared-for-action-roles its a PR piece so probably a li… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | An insight on lifting and self-worth.Wow are you in delusion town, JSP trains at my gym and he has cauliflower ear and I promise you if it was as simple as draining the ears he would have done it. He is one of the smartest fighters in the world by far. You missed the entire point of my post, doing MMA pretend in the gym might get you into shape (there are better ways) but actuallly fighting MMA? People who might do that don't need some joker on the internet telling them to do it they should already know. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 05:16 PM |
| 0 | An insight on lifting and self-worth.Lol try MMA, get your pretty face bashed in or those thick 'boxed in' ears. I once dated a kickboxer, perfect body, but her face looked like Simba the lion. I started calling her lionness, good thing she thought I was talking about her hair and liked the name. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 02:45 PM |
| 9 | An insight on lifting and self-worth.If you think you just go and lift 4 times a week and get big and women will fall in your lap you are dreaming. Lift because it gives you confidence, lift because it makes you more attractive, but don't lift for the sake of lifting. If all you have is lifting you probably are stupid and that paragraph applies to you and is true. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Couples’ Social Dances Are an Excellent Venue for Practicing Red Pill ConceptsOf course they do, good looking guys can pick up women anywhere with ease but they will have more difficulty doing it in a serious dance venue than they would doing it in a bar unless they have put in the time to master dance. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 10:49 PM |
| 5 | Couples’ Social Dances Are an Excellent Venue for Practicing Red Pill ConceptsWell YMMV, as I wrote before you pickup beginners and fresh faces and may get this response I have on occasion. I think we are talking about different venues though if she's a regular and noone knows how to lead that is more like a club not a dance venue for me. I need to have good partners and follows or its boring so going to a regular club where noone really knows how to dance is not my thing. I picked up a beginner girl in a dance studio, her friend said 'dance with this guy he is the best l… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Couples’ Social Dances Are an Excellent Venue for Practicing Red Pill ConceptsIt should be pretty obvious to you that you need to take classes, which are also a great way to meet women. At some point you may even 'take classes' just to hit on the beginner girls once you have gotten good at the dance. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Couples’ Social Dances Are an Excellent Venue for Practicing Red Pill ConceptsRoosh can't dance for shit, and would never put in the effort to learn as he finds easier venues to pickup and has said on several occasions that it isn't worth the effort. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Couples’ Social Dances Are an Excellent Venue for Practicing Red Pill ConceptsYou missed my point completely, the social etiquette at dance venues makes women much more likely to accept your invitation to dance even if they have no interest in you other than for the 3 minute dance. It isn't about social proof or what you look like it is often 'rude' to say no. I find this example is NOT practicing redpill concepts, as someone who has been dancing Salsa for years, I am usually one of the better dancers in the room. I find it is actually a poor place to pick up women and pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 08:32 PM |
| 25 | Couples’ Social Dances Are an Excellent Venue for Practicing Red Pill ConceptsSocial Dance venues are not like clubs. The women have 20 'mini dates' every night and many get all the validation they need from many guys. The regulars go there to dance not to be picked up and trust me your 'moves' are nothing compared to the teacher she danced with hours or weeks before. The best targets for picking up are the beginners or fresh faces to the venue but be aware dancing is not really Kino at all, the women are desensitized from dancing with 20 men in a night. Your regular game… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Got a girls number by telling her I have a tiny dick.Oh wow you are my hero the girl was so into you she offered you her snapchat. Shrug that is worth less than nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 06:14 AM |
| 2 | The "Fuck me Or Die" shit test.Don't confuse LMR from my story with the 'no' issue they are two vastly different things. I have never had a women say no to me in my bed. She didn't have to, I didn't push, I just expected a half naked women in my bed with my hands all over her, it was going to happen and my work was done. When in reality she would have preferred quick and spontaneous on my couch downstairs. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 03:28 AM |
| 3 | The "Fuck me Or Die" shit test.Woopdedoo you put up with 2 hours of bullshit for some shitty lay. How often do they not become plates? I can correlate the more LMR the less chance they are of becoming a steady plate. If things are going good they WANT to have sex, not all these irritating games. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 08:27 PM |
| 2 | The "Fuck me Or Die" shit test.No means No and you should stop. But if she is in your bed its never that black and white. She is perfectly capable of getting up and putting her clothes back on, noone is advocating rape or forcible keeping a women in your bed. However, hearing "I should go", "We should stop" is often not no, its just hamstering 'he made me do it so I am not a slut' type of behavior, you have to watch her actions as well as her words. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 07:01 PM |
| 4 | The "Fuck me Or Die" shit test.Honestly, if I actually think she’s not even into it, it kills it for me anyway. The word no to me is like instant mood killer. Agreed, I despise LMR and it really is never good sex for me, it might feed the ego a bit to know you pushed past this and were up for it but truly those are shitty game playing women who do that. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 06:55 PM |
| 2 | The "Fuck me Or Die" shit test.Great post, I have failed this test. I am still getting used to having women in my bed 1st or second date. I fucked up with a women who basically said "I will take off my bra so that you won't go crazy" I should have removed her panties quickly and despite her resistance but I didn't and she got a 'text' and her head went elsewhere. She gave me a second chance and I fucked that up to. Lesson learned I should have gone caveman on her and fucked her on the couch. My mistake, my bad, for that type … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Stop Trying To Cover Your Neediness Up With Your Words.Yes what is so hard for YOU to grasp, your examples were terrible and posters above tried to get you to understand you can't paint all situations with such a wide brush. But I don't think you got it at all did you? How do I know, because you downvoted my comment and wrote I don't understand. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Stop Trying To Cover Your Neediness Up With Your Words.What wonderfully tragic advice, the minute a women does something you don't like, instead of communicating you just soft next her. Boy it must be lonely for you hitting the bars everynight with your hand on the ejector seat at the slightest notion of behaviour that offends your enormous ego. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 06:24 PM |
| 52 | Don't bother with her if you already lost frame. Not worth the time or effort.This advice is dicey at best, especially if you aren't sure how much you 'lost frame'. If you smashed already she has already hamstered in her head that you were worth it, otherwise she made a mistake which women hate to admit. You should just regain frame ask her to your place, put in minimal effort for plans, and plan something where indirectly it is clear you want sex again. If she balks a couple times you can bail, but make her say no to 'your' plans three times before you giveup. Getting wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 06:20 PM |
| 4 | How I fucked up my chances with a girl by showing concern.You are delusional, she wasn't anything but a dance partner, your perfect ego is still in tact because you never tried. You didn't fuck it up by your tattoo opinion, well if you did its because you never asked her out, not because you had an opinion. Women like men with opinions who aren't afraid to contradict what they think. Meh, partner dance clubs are so funny, guys have no game, dancing is about breaking the ice and a bit of kino but if you have no game afterwards you can dance all night wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/17 03:34 PM |
| 23 | How calling out a girl made her want meYeah your massive ego is still pristine, you didn't get rejected because you never tried. Well done, and none of us are buying a girl who gave you an instant hardon isn't worth your time, but is worth all the mental gymnastics you went through to make an ' spontaneous offhand' comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/17 03:15 PM |
| 8 | Law of Success #12/64: Polish Your Diamond: Make them come to YouAlan Jaw, You are promoting your book and selling indirectly here, while that in itself is mildly irritating I don't have a problem with self improvement or in general your law #12 except on this forum these 'self improvement' diatribes are tedious. The average reader here isn't the guy getting rejected 50 times a night in a bar, instead its the timid guy who doesn't do enough approaches or is not confident enough when he talks to women. Also your 'inspirational' writing leaves much to be desire… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/17 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Law of Success #12/64: Polish Your Diamond: Make them come to YouFYI: A club is usually loud and you can't talk easily, you are judged based on your appearance first and foremost and then possibly by your body language second. This is no place to show your 'beautiful inner confidence' so it was a horrible example. I also read the entire post and 'theory' and its still a load of contradictory crap to me. Unless you look like Brad Pitt(and even then not so much) there is no guy at a club(or elsewhere) sitting there exuding inner confidence that women are just f… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Law of Success #12/64: Polish Your Diamond: Make them come to YouWhat a load of crap, if you are an introvert and not loud and flashy don't go trying to pick up girls in clubs, can it be done, yes of course but your time would be better spent elsewhere not in a place where women have their bitch shields up. All that inner game stuff doesn't mean shit in a club, you need balls to be relaxed in the face of resistance, if you have that you don't need to be reading anything here. If you don't you are more likely just to make a fool of yourself in a dance club wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble converting phone numbers into fucksAsk girls to do things with you that you enjoy, you don't get in a girls pants by trying too hard to impress her and do what she wants. I am a good latin dancer, so I enjoy doing that so I take girls dancing it gives me a chance to take charge, get physical and its instant kino and I am very confident in doing it. That works for me it may not work for you. Go for a walk, go get ice cream, play pool, go bowling, go get bubble tea, go to a jazz club, go to a concert whatever. Just don't spend a lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/17 03:48 AM |
| 5 | How to Attract Women With Dominance (Pt 1)Without detailed examples it is not very applicable or useful. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 10:39 PM |
| 0 | Three Lessons from an Investment Banking Career for your Professional and Personal LivesWhat a douchebag post written by a douchebag. If you want to standout style wise in IB or any suit wearing field wear a 3 piece or get yourself some brightly contrasting pocket squares. You don't need to wear some loud ugly suit to do that. As far as 'quality' people everyone has their strengths and weaknesses, you will have different friends for different needs, you'd be better off setting up relationships and realizing how to leverage those relationships than acting like the 'cool kid' in scho… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble converting phone numbers into fucksYou have a lot of reading to do, and if you are that indecisive about where to take a girl than they can smell the lack of confidence. We have all been there that is why you have to spend more time preplanning your dates even before you have a girl to ask. You should have your go to spots in mind near your sex location and you just ask her to one of those. I never do the movies on any date until much after I have slept with a girl. I always make it at night, and alcohol helps you get laid food d… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble converting phone numbers into fucksYour approaches to girls require more preplanning. Don't make the goal getting her phone number, make it asking her out on the spot or setting up a date and time. Also if you are getting a number and 'waiting' to text her than you have already made a mistake. Interesting successful men, don't have time to worry about whether she will say yes or not, they act confidently ask and if she says no or waffles just move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 09:12 PM |
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