Had a few first dates that have ended similarly and would like some insight.

Scenario 1: HB8.5 early 30s intelligent but a basic bitch (Netflix,naps,gossip, wine). First date, venue one fun and a few drinks, venue 2 & 3 more drinks, came over wanted to stay the night but too tired to do anything and it was too late to kick her out. I did try to escalate but nothing more than kissing. Never heard from again after.

Scenario 2: Bumble date, late 20s hb7. Great night venue 1 and 2, brought home, had drink, escalated and out of nowhere she just decided she had to leave. Of course I call her bluff and just say 'sounds good'. Didn't get up to see her out and she got upset and said I was 'such a guy'. Probably will never hear from.

TL:DR Fairly good first date results but not closing or getting 2nd shots. Girls have a great time and are under my frame til it's time to get down on date 1.

Edit: thanks all for responding!