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The good days, so much growth. It’s a disappointment every time I visit now
/r/TheRedPill19/01/23 03:10 PM
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Yup. Don’t trust anyone who’s been on this sub for 10+ years and has nothing substantial to show for it. That’s GLO
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:29 PM
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Yup He’s a 45+ year old who’s only relevance and achievement in life is to come here and pretend to be alpha to the young and confused as you can tell by this useless and un-actionable post. When I discovered this sub many years ago he was still here belittling and arguing with strangers on AskTRP . A few of us discovered his identity and I can tell you that he is nowhere close to this persona he portrays in real life. All you need is the sidebar. Download it and leave this sub. Absorb it. Pract…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/22 12:57 PM
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it’s like a virgin going MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/22 05:24 PM
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Yup this sub has turned into nerds ( and not cool kind of nerds) roleplaying and taking very simple straightforward concepts and purposely making them more complex than they need to be.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 07:39 PM
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I confirm everything this man said. Source: personal experience. Do the work - it's only up from here.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/22 07:34 PM
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You are both still correct. Training your girl how she should act in a relationship is an act in itself. Now if he were to explain the underlying dynamics and how you learned this knowledge to his girl, then that would be different. Remember, explaining a process, changes the process - she wants to think you were always a winner. So save the sad blue pill stories for your boys
/r/TheRedPill06/10/22 10:13 PM
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Good advice. This applies to a lot of people in one way of another and in more than one situation. Do the work
/r/TheRedPill06/10/22 09:26 PM
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You are a 36 year old loser addicted to escorts because you are too weak and pussy to talk to a girl. If there’s anyone else here who needs this post, it’s you but you’re too stupid or too weak or too lazy to put in the work.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/22 03:48 PM
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I understand your perspective as I used to think the same way. However, another $100K would do you a lot more justice in attracting women than another 100 hours of pickup. However, at the end of the day, both skills are very important to have so I agree with you as well, it just comes down to which one to prioritize and at what point in life. This is going to be different for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 10:10 PM
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I would rather dedicate this time to financial and physical self improvement. Imagine how far ahead you could be if you worked on technical analysis of stocks vs technical analysis of what to say to Susan and Shirley at Aritizia at the mall. But that’s just me… there’s new girls turning 18 everyday .. you’re not missing out on anything
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 04:44 PM
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The idea is to be well rounded. There’s something to be learned from everyone. For example, you can have the charm, charisma and “ don’t give a fuck” attitude of the gentleman that OP has described, but I certainly would not want to be 30 years old and in his position professionally and financially. That’s why it’s important to work on all aspects of your life - take care of your physical health, don’t neglect your mental health and continue to read, study hard, grow and learn. Take something fr…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 10:39 PM
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I mean this respectfully, but what exactly is the point of this nonsense post? this is a prime example of overthinking simple concepts and letting anyone who just turned 18 to come here and give advice. I don’t need to be told that I am lucky to be born male - save that for the women and girl. I want to be told that life is tough, to be acquainted with the facts of that reality, as a man , but to be provided with sound, true and tested advice on how to make life easy.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 08:24 PM
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notice how he didn’t tell us about his workout routine, his diet.. how fat are you OP? This is important information
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 01:39 AM
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logic and women don’t go together or using logic to understand women don’t go together. I now understand, you’re too rational for your own good. I’m sorry brother. I hope you find a way to deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/22 03:35 AM
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I am not on the spectrum so I will not pretend to understand the challenges that you go through. I hope you find a way to make it work, despite of this. I do feel like you are giving up too easy, but again. You are grown and intelligent man and it is safe to assume you weighed the benefits and costs in a rational manner and you decided that it is not worth it for you.I respect that. Thank you. I wish you the best as well too. Hit the DM’s if you ever want to chat when you change your mind
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 03:33 PM
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I disagree but to each their own. If that is the defeatist mindset that you have and the subsequent existence that you want to have, as a result of it, then who am I to tell you otherwise? God luck.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 01:29 AM
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it is what it is. we can whine & cry to the man upstairs or we can do what we can to still win in this game. I choose the latter
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 11:02 PM
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they are the same species but there are variations among them.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 10:54 PM
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Work on yourself and find someone who is less unloyal and less unfaithful.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 10:53 PM
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You make a good point. From my personal experience, it went from being disgusted at who I was, to hating to who I was, to being uncomfortable at who I was, to finally accepting that I needed to be that person and go through the subsequent pain, to be who I am today. I wouldn’t call it “ honor” but rather understanding. Understanding that I knew no better and was acting out of information that I had available to me at that time. It’s as if I am empathetic to my past self.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 10:30 PM
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The hardest part is usually forgiving your “ past” self for being so naïve, for being fooled. But, that is life.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 10:10 PM
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You don’t hate women, you hate yourself. You hate that you were forced to take the Blue Pill, you had no choice, you didn’t know better, no one was there to teach you, to show you the Red Pill. It’s called the anger phase and we all go through it, but an unfortunate number do not get through it and end up stuck, it turns them miserable. As someone who went through it, who went through the pain of this realization and had to start the slow tough climb back up..I can safely say I love women even m…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 09:21 PM
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I learned the hard way that yes it’s essential. It’s good to have a balance.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/22 03:54 PM
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Balance is key. A common mistake when on our purpose and on our grind, is the idea that you need to “ lock yourself in” . I learned this the hard way. I went from having a vibrant social life and going out every weekend ( one extreme) to a 6 month period of not going out at all ( another extreme ) and only confining myself to going out with my LTR. While I made milestone improvements in my career, education, finances and overall professional life - I almost went crazy. I know balance it out wher…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/22 02:49 AM
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Follow up question before we summarize. How is your social life ? Do you have a group or close male friends that you: go to the bar with, go to the gym with, go for dinner and drinks with. Are you in a group chat with your close male friends where you can engage in locker room talk ?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/22 09:41 PM
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Bad habits: ( video games, porn, social media, sleep schedule) . You however have stated that you cut them out so we will believe you there and can cross that out. Good habits: What good habits have you replaced the bad habits with ? Meditation, Journalling, Excercise. You stated that you’re back in the gym so we can cross that one out. Diet? What’s your current diet. If your water intake, protein, and vitamin intake are all in check, then we can cross that out. Testosterone. If all the above is…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/22 08:51 PM
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Good stuff. Now make sure not to revert back to your old programming and get fixated now that you banged her, you actually have to fully internalize it now to where it’s not a technique and you no longer need those coach Corey videos. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 05:22 PM
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what’s the point of this novela ?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 12:54 PM
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I agree - as long as it works and gets you the results that you want. Good luck bro
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 02:04 PM
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I never text to confirm in any form, they always text me the morning of or hours before “ hey are we still on for x” . If she’s enthusiastic and interested, she’s the one who will be confirming. This is my experience
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 11:25 AM
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This is terrible and weak but if it works for you then who am I to say otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 11:06 AM
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I never text to confirm in any form. You will get to a point where you don’t even need to do this If you have a set a definite date and definite time. They will always end up texting you “ hey just confirming we’re still on for x “ the morning of or hours before. If she’s enthusiastic and highly interested, she will be the one doing this and not the other way around. It’s a progression though so do whatever works
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 11:04 AM
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such delusional creatures
/r/TheRedPill27/05/22 12:37 AM
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You don’t hate women. You hate yourself. You hate yourself for accepting the lies that were sold to you. Accept this first and begin to forgive and make peace with your past self, for he knew no better . Once you have forgiven yourself, then you will begin to reap the benefits of this new paradigm.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/22 02:38 PM
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stop that feeling sorry for yourself shit. ADHD can be a huge advantage if you incorporate structure and routine into your life. I have it too
/r/TheRedPill08/05/22 08:11 PM
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even the endorsed contributors have gone to shit. my advice to everyone new here is 1. Download the sidebar 2. Filter “ top posts” ignoring anything after 2018 3. Leave the sub and go experiment, fail and learn.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/22 06:56 PM
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Here’s some advice: go to top posts, before 2018 and soak them in including the sidebar. Ignore everything posted 2019+ it’s all repetition and “e-book” marketing Then block this sub, go out, practice, fail, revise, improve fail again etc .. come back in 3, 6 , 9 , 12 month increments and witness how much worse this place has gotten while you have gotten better.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/22 07:46 PM
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Bro are you autistic. I mean this in as respectful way as possible.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/22 03:47 AM
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I had the unfortunate opportunity of finding out the true real life identity of one of the Endorsed Contributors - never meet your “idols”. Disappointing is an understatement. I downloaded the sidebar and then promptly left - This was Five years ago. I’ll occasionally check in on the sub and he still posts, preaching his “ wisdom” and pushing his next course or e - book. His reality is far from who he pretends to be on here. The reality is anyone who took TRP and implemented it in their life doe…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/22 11:14 PM
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Hope you doing better now bro
/r/askTRP21/12/21 03:21 PM
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How many girls do you have on rotation right now ? I came easily guess zero. With all due respect, this is a stupid take. In order to know how to handle a relationship, you have to first experience multiple women - this gives you an abundance mindset - and also the confidence that if the relationship were to fail, you can go right back to the game, this makes you outcome independent and leads to a more submissive girlfriend. A virgin starting with a girlfriend would become needy, that’s his only…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/21 09:31 PM
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hahaha fuck the butterflies. I do not miss those
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 10:43 PM
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Excuses.
/r/seduction01/12/21 11:15 PM
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Simple, I don’t wear a mask
/r/seduction01/12/21 11:14 PM
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The more you comment the more it becomes clear to me why these girls don’t like you.
/r/seduction24/11/21 12:31 PM
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it’s most likely way higher than that. Regardless, shes had her fun and wild sex with all the cool and exciting guys and now is ready to settle down with a nice reliable good guy like you! Congrats
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:37 PM
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This is true. I now understand and agree. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill02/11/21 09:59 PM
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I have contributed and have been on this sub for 3 years before I left. This post, like many of his recent work has been shit. Filter “ top posts” ( 2 -5 years ago) and you’ll see some of his better work. The work that helped me turn my life around when I first joined this sub
/r/TheRedPill02/11/21 03:29 PM
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How old are you? What an embarrassing response that further proves my point. I’m sorry I hurt your feelings sir. Anyway I have a life and my entire personality doesn’t resonate around being a “ senior contributor” ( I remember when that title meant something ) for TRP. Take care, I’ll turn on notifications so I don’t miss your next post.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 10:00 PM
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I now understand your main point, complaining is not a solution. I agree with you. Thanks for the clarification
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 09:48 PM
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Guilty, she was hot. But deflect however you want, the fact does not change that this post offered zero value. The sidebar and numerous quality posts from years ago already delineate TRP’s teachings on masturbation and porn. You’ve been an EC for 5+ years.. How do you prioritize time to create such garbage posts. You had great ones many years ago when I first joined this sub, stop forcing it. Thank you for your contribution but time to take the lessons and go live life and be a real life example…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 09:46 PM
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With all due respect, your recent posts have offered no value beyond what is already on the side bar or what was posted already pre-quarantine. You’ve been posting on this sub for too long.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 09:32 PM
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Despite his troubling behaviour of validating random whores online; he does have a point. The sub and OP have fallen off since the quarantine. These recent posts, such as this one, offer no value. All one needs is the sidebar and filter “ top posts -> 2-5 years ago “
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 09:29 PM
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Except it’s not an argument. I am merely making a statement; I hope that at 43 y/o - I will not be doing what you are doing.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 07:36 PM
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No disrespect but I certainly hope that at 43 y/o the last thing I’ll be doing is arguing on Reddit or after taking a look at your post history, indulging in revenge fantasies about women who never wanted you
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 07:04 PM
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Yes, that’s what gets my attention at first - since we’re being honest. Her personality then determines if I keep her around and view her more than just a fuck .
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:05 AM
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I agree with you on #2 making intentions clear. Maybe you do have some use after all
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:55 PM
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That is absolutely my logic. Why pay more for something that was given for free
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:36 PM
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With him. But with his friend, she let him use him whoever he wanted.
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:14 PM
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Who said you’re some foreign unattainable species ? Quite the opposite. You’re nothing special.
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:13 PM
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She liked him just so so so much that she didn’t not want to have sex with him 😂😂 this is why you don’t listen to women on relationship advice
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:23 PM
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So she still doesn’t find you attractive, she is just with you out of necessity because she doesn’t have a choice..how is that a good thing
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:21 PM
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She can initiate the question whenever she wants, it doesn’t matter .. what matters is that you control the outcome; wether to acquiesce to her demand or not.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 07:12 PM
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Discovered this place 5 years ago @18. Changed my life. I check back in once a while and … Ya this entire sub has gone to shit.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 10:25 PM
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I think he’s just not interested in you. If he was, he would have wanted another round to prove himself
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:14 PM
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Do whatever works for you, just don’t betray your authentic self for some basic pussy. I’m black as well and I’ve done it all. When I worked in investment banking I did the clean prep look, when I played football in college I did the athlete look and now it’s a nice cut suit on the weekday ( pre-covid) and nice fitting casual clothes and boots on the weekend ( I left the bling behind) and honestly they all worked. The most most important thing is your physique and confidence and then tailor your…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 03:17 AM
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This used to be the RedPill but recently, it’s turned into the BlackPill. It’s sad.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:56 PM
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Then fucking workout, get lean, hit the gym for fuck sakes and then come back and tell me if it didn’t work
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:57 PM
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Don’t bother, it’s all incels here. They don’t understand the power of self improvement
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:55 PM
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So many of them on here bro. Like what the fuck, what a stupid and sad take
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:53 PM
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This sub has gone to shit. It’s depressing, joined 4 years ago and it changed my life for the better in every way. Now it’s full of cynicism and resentment from Incels who want to make other people feel just as miserable as them
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:52 PM
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Don’t even bother bro, you’re wasting good advice on deaf ears. I joined this sub 4 years ago when that was conventional wisdom and it changed my life, slept with more beautiful women the past year than I ever have, 5 plates on the go and positive outlook on life. Now, it’s full of dudes convinced that it’s not worth trying to improve and that if you’re not a 6’7 220 pound 2.4 % body fat “ Chad” then you will die a virgin.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:49 PM
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We’ve all been there. You’ll get your groove back. There’s been great advice already in the comments so I don’t have anything to add. Just wishing you the best of luck bro 🙏🏻
/r/askTRP29/05/21 08:38 PM
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It’s not your “ round face” that is the problem. It is your perception, negative attitude, lack of confidence, lack of self esteem that are holding you back. I can tell just by reading this post and if I can pick up on it, so will women pick up on it. The good thing is, all those can be changed and you will be well on your way to getting what you want. How to change ? I’ll leave that up to you, there’s plenty of resources here and elsewhere. Good luck.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 04:49 PM
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You’re very dependent on the outcome of the interaction and they can sense it. We’ve all been there - the good thing is this can be easily fixed. Learn to embrace failure, enjoy the process and see everything as a learning opportunity. Good luck
/r/askTRP08/05/21 08:52 PM
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Did exactly this. Thank you
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:00 AM
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Thanks for the actual useful feedback. I really appreciate it
/r/askTRP23/04/21 01:59 AM
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Perfect, thank you.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:55 PM
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Makes sense, thanks for the feedback bro
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:34 PM
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Lmaooo
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:29 PM
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Got an example ?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:28 PM
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Thank you. Can you shoot me an example bro ?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:28 PM
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Thank you for the feedback. I appreciate it
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:15 PM
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Expected a better response from you. Your past advice is the reason I’m able to “ humble brag” if you want to call it that - in the first place.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:14 PM
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It’s natural. Don’t fight biology and six million years of evolution. Don’t play another mans saved game
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:07 PM
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I’m in the same situation with one of my plates. Seven months and she never initiates - other than dropping a hint - I take the lead and arrange. She’s always available, enthusiastic and willing. In bed she lets me do whatever I want. She just told me she’s in love with me.... It’s your ego, just enjoy the ride and proceed as usual
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:54 PM
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I already know this is not going to end well. The best time to have corrected this was 2 years ago when she refused to change her last name - a huge red flag. I wish you the best, I hope I am wrong, but the saviour schema and relationship equity got you into this hole: this is not going to be fun for you. Good luck
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:07 PM
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4 plates. 18,18,19,20 ( I’m 24) here’s my advice: They all the same bro. Treat them the same like your other plates
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:14 PM
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You’re too needy and afraid of losing her and she senses it. Exhibit A: This post
/r/askTRP05/04/21 06:54 PM
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Look at all the posts here lately and you’ll see the same pattern. Too much time spent on theory and mot enough on application, practice, mistakes and experience. They take the theory too literally and become afraid of making mistakes and so you get the same questions such as “ should I send this text?” . It’s sad.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 06:53 PM
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Daniel Rose: Sex God Method
/r/seduction04/04/21 12:18 AM
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OP has oneitis, too invested, jealous and needy. She’s internally repulsed ( like any woman would be) . He comes here to act like he is not the problem.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:50 PM
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Don’t try to fight six million years of evolution and the reason you are here. Learn to embrace it, manage it and work with it in your favour.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:33 PM
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ADHD also - internships at MS and GS as well. Adderral helped. Utilize the morning. Routine. Routine. Routine.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 02:54 PM
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Who cares. These mental masturbation questions serve no purpose. Put in the work, experiment, see what works and what doesn’t. That is all there is.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 04:54 PM
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Get your SMV high and find out for yourself. These theoretical mental masturbation questions don’t do any justice to improving you and improving you game. Put in the work, and find out.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 02:09 PM
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Smile and gesture “ Come here “ . Got this a couple times, she’s being playful so play with her and play WITH her.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 02:06 PM
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Good luck my man. Wishing you the best
/r/askTRP22/03/21 12:29 AM
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Frequency should decrease when you pass a shit test. However, I wouldn’t worry or overthink too much on it.. the problem with people here is they tend to over analyze every little fucking thing ... just have fun, pass the shit test and fuck her good.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 07:04 PM
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Literally just mind your business, have fun, don’t get involved in their drama, bang the cute ones ( exception to the rule) and watch/ observe and learn Background: 24, red pill since 18, worked as a server then bartender when I was your age at the hottest restaurant/bar in town w lots of cuties
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:56 PM
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Standard shit test, treat it like a joke with a smile on your face, delivery is key: “ last time? I’m a virgin, baby I swear you’re my first, I’ve been saving it for you “
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:53 PM
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We’ve all been there. I went 16 months and now I have 4 plates. In the past month and a half alone I have slept with 7 new girls. My advice is to introspect and see what you can improve. For example, for me: the 16 month dry spell was mainly self inflicted, I never approached any new girls, never put myself out there for fear of rejection, found comfort in porn and masturbation killing my drive, even though I am a good looking guy and had many many opportunities - I never acted oh them. That 16 …
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:29 PM
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Hero
/r/askTRP14/03/21 05:33 PM
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Wishing you the best bro, it’s tough for a lot of people right now.. keep your head up and get through it. Peace and love
/r/askTRP14/03/21 05:08 PM
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This comment needs to be pinned in the sidebar
/r/askTRP13/03/21 06:04 PM
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haha I know you have had your fair share of experience, I’m listening.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 04:18 AM
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the female, very strange species
/r/askTRP12/03/21 04:17 AM
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Don’t be a dick. We all fall under tough times. It’s not about where he is now but where he is headed. Is he ambitious ? Does he have a plan to get his finances in order? Is he in school and focused on improving his life ? Why are his bills falling behind ? Is he dealing with something personal, a tragedy, depression, that you do not know about? These are important considerations. Unless he is where he is because of a shit character and attitude towards life, give him a chance to prove himself. …
/r/askTRP10/03/21 09:14 PM
1

Hahahaha
/r/askTRP07/03/21 09:19 PM
20

lmao yeah “ let’s say if ..” bro if it’s you just say it They only care if you care. This has happened to me three times and every time the girl thought it was their fault ( “ am I not attractive enough” “ was there another girl here before me” ) and just worked harder to make me get it up and cum .. no big deal But figure out why you can’t get it up tho. That there is a big deal
/r/askTRP07/03/21 09:15 PM
10

“ unlike with most girls, I like her more than her pussy.. wouldn’t mind chasing “ . Yeah you already lost.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:19 PM
1

who cares go lift
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:18 PM
6

This entire sub nowadays
/r/askTRP07/02/21 10:27 PM
3

Relatively better to who ? Others ? That’s stupid. The person you were yesterday ? That’s smart.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:32 PM
1

Yikes, this is not going to end well for you. Good luck.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:29 PM
4

I don’t have any advice to give you because I have never been this way. Other people’s success, from my friends to complete strangers - motivates me and I genuinely wish the best for everyone, even my enemies. There is plenty and more than enough to go around, wether that is women ( a million girls turn 18 everyday ) to money ( The fed prints billions everyday ) the resource is not fixed. You might be nihilistic and insecure but I don’t know. What I do know is the longer you continue to be this …
/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:48 PM
2

A man of culture. Respect
/r/askTRP03/02/21 12:22 AM
4

Bro, don’t even bother .. this sub has gone to shit lmao.. the stuff I see on here nowadays lmao.. hating on other guys and if one guy succeeds it’s cause that girl was not a “ quality girl “ .. they can’t stand the idea that their virgin oneitis princess 👸🏻... was probably the Girl at the bar
/r/TheRedPill02/02/21 09:33 PM
1

I like this idea! Thank you
/r/askTRP10/01/21 03:39 PM
13

It helps but it’s not a solution, finding meaning and working towards accomplishing a goal makes me feel way better. Also, the chase when I was trying to get all of these girls was more fun than when I actually got them, then it was ok who I can get next , not sure what the wisdom is there, but it’s there.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 11:20 PM
2

haha I’m not sure what that is but I’ll take a look at it. I’m glad you were able to wake up, hopefully you can get your sleep schedule back on track and have less of such days. Wishing you the best bro
/r/askTRP09/01/21 11:17 PM
2

Like wise to you!
/r/askTRP09/01/21 10:50 PM
4

what do you do ? I’m sorry I tried to find a clue from your profile but I couldn’t scroll through the disturbing amount of hentai porn and self loathing posts. Either way, thank you for your service and I wish you a good year.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 10:49 PM
2

Thank you. This has really helped. I do mean it. From one stranger or another, I wish you the best this year.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 10:47 PM
6

You are right, we can’t completely eliminate them but we can learn how to deal with them and lessen the impact it has on our lives. Thank you for your feedback, wishing you the best this year
/r/askTRP09/01/21 10:45 PM
3

Bro - thank you so much for this feedback, I couldn’t agree more with everything you said especially the benefits of mindfulness meditation. Don’t sweat the dry spell, I spent a majority of my 2019-2020 in the same boat as you, and looking back I wouldn’t have had it any other way, the self improvement set the foundation for more plates ( as a by product, not a goal of course but you know that) I’m 24 and I discovered RP when I was 21. You have a bright future ahead of you, there will be rough t…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 10:43 PM
3

I have been meditating and it does really help, as one person suggested - you just have to feel it and not fight it, to be curious and you are right the bad days have become less frequent since I began my RP & mindfulness journey. Thank you for the feedback, I wish you well this year
/r/askTRP09/01/21 10:36 PM
9

I needed to hear this, thank you so much for your feedback. Keep grinding and much success to you as well
/r/askTRP09/01/21 10:30 PM
21

That is very true, thank you so much for your feedback. God speed brother
/r/askTRP09/01/21 10:30 PM
3

To be honest, I have no idea. I’m just speaking as someone who has used both as prescribed and that was my experience.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 09:01 PM
7

I have an adderral script ( actually need it) and i switched to a generic from a manufacturer called APO . It’s as effective without the sides. But everyone is differeng.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:16 PM
2

Nevermind read your posts. I see why your bitter.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 09:21 PM
1

Rollo is 6’1 ...
/r/askTRP17/12/20 09:21 PM
6

No. Read the side bar and go live your life. Stop the mental masturbation
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:11 PM
2

This. This is it.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 03:46 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP11/12/20 03:46 AM
2

Everyday I pray to god that I am not you when I’m 30. Embarrassing that you lost frame this bad over a 36 year old.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:28 PM
3

Became the type of guy that no longer needs to visit this sub. I took the tools and used them/ continue to use them.. it’s part of me now
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 07:54 PM
1

I just piss on them
/r/askTRP25/10/20 03:18 PM
10

please don’t listen to this guy, his post history will tell you why.. never mind the fact that he just gave terrible advice.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:08 PM
2

LMAOOOOOOO
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:06 PM
6

Stick to Pokémon & RuneScape little buddy. You’ll learn someday
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:47 PM
7

Came back to this sub after a very long break since it started going downhill .. this is the first post I see.. remember why I left lol
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 11:11 PM
3

I haven’t been in the main forum for years brother. It sort of went downhill recently, it’s a shame.. owe a lot to that place.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:36 PM
3

Product of 5 years of TRP. It wasn’t always like this. Thank God for this place.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:35 PM
5

Won’t be the first one, good insight
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:51 PM
5

Hahaha appreciate the wisdom brother
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:47 PM
2

Definitely not a virgin
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:26 PM
4

Spoiled
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:25 PM
1

hahah agreed agreed
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:25 PM
10

No. I used to have this same mentality when I was fat, it’s just a buffer, you are lying to yourself to prevent rejection and or putting in the work
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:55 PM
1

Personally, I have not abandoned any hope. If anything, it has given me even more hope. I now know that through self discipline and holding myself accountable I can achieve the results that I want. Before, all hope had been lost - it was like navigating a complicated maze with no map, but now I see the path and can directly attribute how “ action A leads to result B “ or how “ action C leads to consequence D” . In other words, I know what to do, I just need to do it. Those who have lost hope are…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 02:55 PM
2

Bro.. right
/r/askTRP15/10/20 01:16 PM
1

I get what your asking: I can’t speak for others but for me, when I first discovered the red pill I was exactly what you described, disappointed, angry etc and the reason why.. well you also touched upon it, reality did not meet my fantasies and everything came crushing down, it was painful and I was full of hate and resentment. That was 5 years ago when I was 19, now I’m turning 24 and we’ll I did exactly what you touched upon. I improved myself, I built myself and continue to do so, it was har…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:42 AM
4

You’ll get it second date, don’t stress too much.. Sounds like you did things right. Everytime I’ve been in a similar situation where the first linkup we get pretty physical but LMR kicks in .. I just take the foot off the gas and relax. 100% of the time so far it’s a home run the second linkup
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:45 AM
7

Lol this is so cringe and embarrassing to read: - Oneitis - You have zero frame ( That’s why your asking strangers if another stranger is attracted to you) - You have zero game ( She probably was not a “9” just probably the hottest looking girl YOU have gotten with ) - The sex was trash ( mhm ya sure you could have fucked her way better if the couch was just a little bigger!.. ya right) - You have zero options ( that’s why you slept with a girl from work, but you knew that was wrong and now your…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:41 AM
3

Yes.Move on.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 10:11 PM
12

LMAO . Charge it to the game. And don’t do Tren or if you do don’t blame Tren when you’re too much of a pussy to control your own pathetic emotional outbursts.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:22 PM
3

You know what you need to do. I know you know what you need to do.. maybe you don’t want to do it.. but who knows. Lift, focus, get your finances in order ( women should not be a focus for someone in your situation) Build a strong foundation and then the frame will come. But most importantly. Ask yourself this question: What mistakes/choices did you make, that led you to being a 27 year old self described “ loser” ? figure that out, and then correct course accordingly. Good luck
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:51 PM
10

Long before you wrote this post. You sound needy, unattractive, creepy and honestly option less. If I can pick that up from your posts.. then she most likely did too.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 11:05 PM
1

Lol 1) delete this post 2) then go hit a few times before she gets fired 3) go purposeful beta mode until she doesn’t want anything to do with you
/r/askTRP28/09/20 11:03 PM
9

No. It was just you.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 10:59 PM
9

You don’t. It’s gone. You lost. She does not want you. Next
/r/askTRP28/09/20 10:56 PM
2

Delete this bro. Please. Thanks
/r/askTRP28/09/20 10:55 PM
1

Only control what you can. Focus on you but don’t burn bridges. Everything else is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 07:13 PM
6

You have a lot to learn. Just have fun.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:50 PM
9

Spin more friends bro. Sounds like oneitis to me
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:48 PM
7

the fact that you made this post means you already lost. Let it go. Who cares. Move on.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 03:26 PM
1

Just leave.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 01:27 PM
1

This. The fact that this post has the amount of upvotes that it does really does tell you how bad this sub has gotten. Those who really understand know what I mean.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 05:28 PM
13

Give it to me first and then delete
/r/askTRP10/08/20 07:29 PM
34

At 27 I pray to god that I am not worrying about how many followers i have on social media. Jesus. Embarrassing
/r/askTRP10/08/20 05:55 PM
3

Working IB hours rn and I wanna be set like you when I’m 30.. it’s not time wasted, trust me. The best is yet to come
/r/askTRP09/08/20 06:11 PM
1

LMAO Autism meter very high here
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:56 PM
5

As a 23 year old who has been in your same position: Kill your ego and go back to school-I stopped running away from my problems, stopped procrastinating, stopped caring what people would think of me, stopped being afraid of failure and I began to embrace discomfort that came with literally starting over in a classroom with 18 year olds and re taking classes I failed 6 years earlier. This process started 2 years ago, I turn 24 this year, I’m still behind but I am exponentially farther than where…
/r/askTRP28/07/20 10:53 PM
3

You’re 28 bro... get your shit together, life will hit you hard.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 04:43 PM
3

Maybe she was selling some baked goods!! pretty good ones
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:24 PM
4

Lmao geez
/r/askTRP27/07/20 12:54 AM
1

Would you take this as a sign of disrespect over my time
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:23 PM
1

Painful but true. I was going to say “ no we can’t, Im busy on Wednesday, have fun at the lake” cut my losses and go home. I feel like this is the best option for me - I don’t want to be kept around for validation Or “ I’ll get back to you” and then “ Thursday works, I’ll pick you up at 7”
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:06 PM
1

Used a mix of this suggestion and the one above “ sounds good pick you up at 7” . Unfazed and assumed the sale. Worked out well. Thanks brother
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:59 PM
1

I assumed the sale “ Sounds good Pick you up at 8 “ and she agreed. However last night she hit me with Her: “ Can we do next Wednesday instead, I’m going to the lake “ ... ( while she has offered to reschedule, it was last minute ( night before) and no apology given) I have not replied yet. Is this a shit test ? Low interest ? Or just disrespect I had a contingency plan with girl B and will go out with her instead but I would like to know if I’m rationalizing or over thinking on this one so I do…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:47 PM
1

I assumed the sale “ Sounds good Pick you up at 8 “ and she agreed. However last night she hit me with Her: “ Can we do next Wednesday instead, I’m going to the lake “ ... ( while she has offered to reschedule, it was last minute ( night before) and no apology given) I have not replied yet. Is this a shit test ? Low interest ? Or just disrespect I had a contingency plan with girl B and will go out with her instead but I would like to know if I’m rationalizing or over thinking on this one so I do…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:45 PM
5

Bro you typed a novel about one chick.. lol
/r/askTRP20/07/20 07:54 PM
2

Was it the collection of different quotes ? It was an Evernote file right?
/r/askTRP19/07/20 01:42 PM
27

LMFAO
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:28 AM
8

He needs to discuss his personal appearance. How well do you take care of yourself ? Do you work out ? Lift weights ? Grooming ? ... no matter if you do 1000 approaches if you don’t work on yourself to become physically attractive you will fail
/r/seduction19/07/20 11:21 AM
1

Understood. Appreciate the input
/r/askTRP17/07/20 07:32 PM
1

Got it. Just a simple “ sounds good” and leave the ball in her court ? while making other plans
/r/askTRP17/07/20 07:23 PM
2

Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:52 PM
2

Yeah I’m thinking to just ignore it, if she reaches out then good, if she doesn’t, then there’s my answer.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:50 PM
1

Spot on, appreciate the input brother. God speed
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:00 PM
2

Very good point on the staying cool part, shows abundance. I don’t want to let her know I’m free on another occasion though
/r/askTRP17/07/20 11:38 AM
1

Another good opinion. Do you think that comes across as chasing ?
/r/askTRP17/07/20 11:35 AM
1

My thoughts exactly. “ Your choice, doesn’t matter to me “ or pull back the offer entirely?
/r/askTRP17/07/20 10:37 AM
0

a LOT actually
/r/seduction13/05/20 10:23 PM
6

Lol
/r/seduction11/05/20 11:13 PM
2

You need more help than any of us are qualified to give. But send me a message and I’ll see how I can help walk you through
/r/askTRP07/04/20 08:52 PM
5

You already lost and the game hasn’t even started
/r/askTRP03/04/20 08:50 PM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP03/04/20 08:49 PM
3

At 34 years old I hope I have more important things in my life to worry about.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 09:13 PM
1

Stay strong, praying for you
/r/askTRP20/02/20 07:07 PM
–

You’re a 44 year old female. Your opinion is irrelevant. Your time is long gone. Any 21 year old cuties in this sub ?
/r/seduction20/02/20 05:06 PM
282

Until a DNA test proves that it’s your child, it’s not. You don’t know her motives and women lie. Use this information how you want.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:02 PM
6

Dude, we don’t need this. You’re regurgitating shit that’s already out there. Just take the tool box and just go experience the world.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 03:30 PM
1

Lmfao yikes
/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:36 PM
2

This guy gets it
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:44 PM
1

Call me what you want, but the truth is the truth.
/r/seduction11/08/19 02:27 PM
3

There’s nothing happening, she sees him as just a friend, not attracted to him at all. He killed the attraction with all that texting and being too pussy to ask her out. FRIEND ZONED that’s what he is
/r/seduction11/08/19 12:03 PM
5

She’s gonna puke when he tells her this. She sees him as just a friend not attracted at all
/r/seduction11/08/19 12:02 PM
-10

Sorry bro, you’re friendzoned. I’ll bet $100 she has no interest in you. You acted like a girl, a pussy, and you killed the attraction. You were too fucking weak to be a man and ask her out the first time so you decided to take the friend route into her pants, well too bad so sad. Also texting all that and talking about all that shit is just pathetic, ask her out but I already know the answer.
/r/seduction11/08/19 12:01 PM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:49 PM
3

based on the quality of the posts/people on this sub and it’s downward decline.. I would not be surprised if this was a genuine question
/r/askTRP06/07/19 06:46 PM
1

irrelevant question
/r/askTRP06/07/19 06:44 PM
4

Yikes
/r/askTRP06/07/19 02:58 AM
1

Yikes
/r/askTRP06/07/19 02:55 AM
2

Yikes
/r/askTRP29/06/19 11:01 PM
2

oh okay
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:57 PM
1

What the fuck did I just read
/r/askTRP27/06/19 05:08 PM
1

You’re overthinking
/r/askTRP15/06/19 06:26 AM
7

Got this before.. she ended up sleeping over at my house until the next morning and bought me breakfast after a few rounds of the indoor olympics My response ? “ don’t worry, I’ll have you back before your bedtime”
/r/askTRP08/05/19 01:28 AM
10

You’re only 25..
/r/askTRP21/04/19 02:40 AM
1

Hey quick question .. how old are you and from what country ?
/r/askTRP08/03/19 08:12 PM
3

waste of time question, doesn’t matter and why do you care. Go lift
/r/askTRP07/03/19 10:55 PM
2

You answered your own question. Stop faking and truly unplug .. we’ve all been there, it works great at first but until you actually internalize this stuff and become “ alpha” the wall will always come crashing down. And stop with the anger/hate.. work on that. Good luck
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:12 AM
5

Congratulations you got friend zoned by a 16 year old girl.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 12:58 AM
1

LMAO
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:34 AM
6

LMAO
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:28 AM
1

Read the sidebar you lazy fuck
/r/askTRP01/03/19 10:42 PM
1

same research purposes
/r/askTRP01/03/19 04:55 AM
1

22 year old guy here... wow damn that’s rough . So happy I discovered this place at 21
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 05:47 AM
5

Lose weight. You’re too fat. Or get a hooker
/r/askTRP28/02/19 12:33 AM
4

what’s happening to this sub...
/r/askTRP26/02/19 05:13 PM
2

lmao what the fuck NO.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 10:29 PM
1

Find somewhere quiet and meditate + Leave the house and go to the gym. NOW
/r/askTRP23/02/19 09:24 PM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP23/02/19 05:02 AM
3

Why do you care
/r/askTRP23/02/19 04:19 AM
2

LMAO!
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:20 AM
1

Hey bro I was going to say “ stop whining and raise your SMV “ but after watching that video you posted.. I’m just going to say “ sorry bro”
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:24 PM
2

There’s a difference between being lonely and being alone
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:40 PM
3

She fucked him.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:18 PM
3

Use the app “ Headspace”
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:17 PM
2

Oneitis ... move on.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:16 PM
23

Epiphany phase as she’s hitting the wall. You’re her beta bucks and she’s cashing in her cheque before it’s too late. Go read “ saving the best for last” by Rollo Tomassi.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:21 AM
1

Don’t know the guy? Nothing, it’s none of your business.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:18 AM
13

Oneitis + Beta Orbiter
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:03 AM
1

“ I feel it in my guy she wants me too” Behold the male beta hamster. Go read “ the medium is the message” by Rollo Tomassi and you’ll find your answer.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 12:33 AM
3

unfortunately as sad as it is many are not troll posts.. ever since the incel subs got shut down many have moved here
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:28 AM
4

unfortunately most likely not a troll.. ever since those incel subs got shut down and they moved here it’s been pure comedy
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:26 AM
8

He’s full of bullshit, he’s going for a 57 year old cause he thought it would be easier.. turns out he can’t even get that right
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:25 AM
1

The fuck WHY
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:08 PM
3

Lmao look at his post history there’s one where he’s like “ I can get laid anytime I want” and then the rest is complaining about women and just straight weird shit
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:06 PM
1

Everyone just go look at his post history and you’ll see why some people just can’t be helped.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:04 PM
2

Look at his post history. It’s the saddest thing I have ever seen
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:03 PM
4

You’re familiar with the Red Pill but have repeatedly participated/posted on an Incel sub ? You need to get away from that toxic waste right away. You are not RedPill aware and this post shows it.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:44 PM
1

Geez wow
/r/askTRP06/02/19 05:14 AM
4

Exactly, looking back for me is an indicator for how far I have come and helps me appreciate and keep working hard everyday to improve myself.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 10:53 PM
1

agreed after a certain point it becomes funny and a good motivation to keep improving
/r/askTRP04/02/19 10:51 PM
6

Exactly, it’s tough while going through it but there’s light at the end of the tunnel
/r/askTRP04/02/19 10:50 PM
3

That’s what it’s all about, constant improvement. Thanks for sharing!
/r/askTRP04/02/19 10:47 PM
1

bro it’s gotten so fucking bad lately... idk what sub they migrated from
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:46 AM
8

You gave her all the validation she needs. Date won’t happen. Good luck
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:33 AM
22

Dude.. fuck off there’s a million other single girls. How desperate are you?
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:31 AM
1

I’m not going to tell you. Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP28/01/19 09:41 PM
2

No. Don’t go. You are taking the pussy way and will friend zone yourself. Make your intent clear and ask her out. How are you supposed to escalate if there is an another guy there ? You clearly have not read the RedPill . Also, it sounds like you have more important shit to take care of in your life.. I would take care of raising my SMV first.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 12:42 AM
1

THIS.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 11:49 PM
4

Read No More Mr Nice Guy .. you’re outward improvement is not congruent with your inner self. This a problem many people face.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 06:34 PM
1

Since you have not read the TRP Sidebar . Read “ No More Mr.Nice Guy” as soon as possible..read it in the next week. You can find it online Then, after completing please personally send me a message and give me feedback on what the book and activities has taught you. Then I will recommend next steps Good luck
/r/askTRP24/12/18 08:49 PM
2

You should have asked for her number instead .. giving her your number is a rejection buffer, be a man and be straight up with your intentions.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 12:15 AM
3

It’s all about routine and T levels, when I hit the gym daily, diet on point, no porn, no alcohol I feel on top of the world.. soon as I stop I feel like a hormonal female
/r/askTRP22/11/18 11:32 PM
1

What the fuck.!
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:08 AM
1

Lmao
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:06 AM
3

On defensive/closed body language; I have read a number of books and one thing I have found effective with breaking defensive body language is to actually physically " open her up" . I have had a couple of girls over and if they are sitting arms crossed, legs crossed I will find an opportunity and make a joke and start to tickle her - after she will actually open up physically and her state of emotion as well - always works!
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 11:53 PM
4

Uh
/r/askTRP13/10/18 12:24 AM
1

Thanks for the advice man, this is why I come here. I agree
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 05:31 PM
2

Thanks for the feedback, I agree with you
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 05:28 PM
2

Appreciate the honesty, you are right
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 05:28 PM
1

Thank you, this striked a note
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:26 AM
4

Check out the app “ headspace “
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 12:02 AM
3

How do you recommend achieving healing? How do you speed up that process
/r/askTRP12/06/18 03:14 AM
1

Yeah she told him. Why would she do that lol
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:48 AM
9

If she’s just a plate why do you care. You shouldn’t
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:13 AM
1

if she’s down she’s down. if she’s not she will decline. Good luck
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:14 PM
1

Have you setup a date and time yet ? Be like “ Great, pick you up at X on Y and we will head on over “
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:10 PM
2

Move on. She’s not interested.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:08 PM
3

You’re too invested and outcome dependent, red flags already. How did you ask her out ?
/r/askTRP10/06/18 10:35 PM
2

Yeah I have no idea what she told him. Thanks my man, first time in this situation, appreciate the input
/r/askTRP10/06/18 07:34 PM
6

What should that mean to me ?
/r/askTRP10/06/18 07:04 PM
4

I described it incorrect my bad. Her boyfriend found out that she was cheating on him and that we hooked up. Fixed the wording
/r/askTRP10/06/18 07:04 PM
2

Her boyfriend found out that she spent the night with me.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 06:39 PM
-4

I thought she would drop me because he found out, that was my question, wondering if I should drop first
/r/askTRP10/06/18 06:38 PM
2

Yeah that was my major issue, turning into an “ emotional tampon” ? But she still fucks me and very well
/r/askTRP10/06/18 06:12 PM
3

You don’t.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 10:06 PM
2

Go full Beta mode and let her break up with you
/r/askTRP09/06/18 07:24 PM
27

You fucked up. You sent her a text ( she got it and she knew who you were she just didn’t want to rely/was testing you but you failed) but couldn’t even have the patience to wait for a response so then you went ahead and called her and then had the audacity to ask her why she didn’t reply to you. Then the last text you sent her was just cringe my man. Man, you must have come of as desperate and needy, just next and read the sidebar more.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 07:19 PM
2

Yup 100% thanks man
/r/askTRP09/06/18 04:56 PM
1

that makes a lot of sense, so it could also just be a defence mechanism after discovering TRP ? thank you for the input
/r/askTRP09/06/18 04:56 PM
1

Interesting, thank you that really resonated with me.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 04:53 PM
2

Thank you
/r/askTRP09/06/18 06:34 AM
9

Man, to be honest that was actually terrible and cringeworthy for many reasons. you were validating yourself to her “ I make good money etc “ you backpedaled “ never seen a girl in lingerie “ to “ I have “ there’s other specifics but I’m too tired right now Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP07/06/18 07:56 AM
1

You’re overthinking
/r/askTRP07/06/18 07:49 AM
1

Always escalate, let her be the one to say no. I think you blew it, she might have just been waiting for you to take the lead, some girls are like that. Also, you never know you might have been reading the IOI’s incorrectly since it’s been a while for you. Always escalate. Let her say no
/r/askTRP07/06/18 07:48 AM
4

3 dates and only kissed.. that’s why
/r/askTRP07/06/18 03:08 AM
4

This
/r/askTRP07/06/18 03:07 AM
8

Emotional tampon and validation that you still missed her which you both gave for free.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:31 PM
3

How has she not given you a restraining order. Dude this is creepy as fuck. Stop.Now
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:43 PM
1

This, I learned the hard way a while back
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:00 AM
2

It can be any reason under the sun my man, don’t worry about it, she’s just a random and there’s many more.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 12:56 AM
5

Means nothing nowadays.. Girls give out their number because they don’t like confrontation. Much easier to give it to you and ignore you later than deal with how a beta would react if they said no. You also probably didn’t make a good enough impression on her
/r/askTRP05/06/18 09:37 PM
1

Yup, stay a challenge
/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:29 PM
5

Then why the fuck are you around her ? Beta orbiter
/r/askTRP05/06/18 06:47 PM
2

You probably made a number of mistakes and got too comfortable, that’s why you got oneitis for her. You no longer were a challenge to her and she moved on, she knew she had you.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 06:37 PM
1

You’re overthinking/rationalizing
/r/askTRP05/06/18 06:29 PM
2

Increase SMV
/r/askTRP05/06/18 06:28 PM
2

Get an another girl or go alone.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 06:27 PM
12

She just wants a beta orbiter for validation. Next
/r/askTRP05/06/18 06:27 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:03 PM
13

Attraction has an expiry date, if she feels you’re rejecting her then she will move on. You shouldn’t be ignoring her on purpose but rather because you have a busy life
/r/askTRP05/06/18 12:08 PM
2

When you get insecure , stop and do nothing, control yourself, you might get an urge to reach out to her and get reassurance but she will be able to tell and that will fuck it up. It’s nice to have a hot girl on your dick but remember your frame must remain strong
/r/askTRP05/06/18 12:06 PM
5

Try and leave more time but as long as she responds well and still fucks you without drama then there’s no big deal man. It’s the mans job to initiate and get the ball rolling in the beginning
/r/askTRP05/06/18 12:04 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP05/06/18 12:02 PM
6

How did it turn out ?
/r/askTRP05/06/18 09:46 AM
3

1) I can tell you probably didn’t escalate enough 2) dates are supposed to create an opportunity for sex to happen , riding motorbikes while fun doesn’t really create that 3) take her to 2 or 3 places, bar, pool so you can escalate or mini golf , then back to your place 4) the text the next day reeks of neediness man, you gotta give her time to think about you 5) you were a last priority for this girl judging how long it took her to get back to you, she probably was just bored and Chad wasn’t re…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 01:59 AM
17

Male role models.. my older brother was ( married now with a kid ) exactly like this, purely natural he had strong male figures present during his adolescent and late teen years so he had no issue in this department I on the hand did not, he was out the house when I was in my teen years and my father was never home so I had to struggle growing up being in a house full of females and learn through TRP what he learned through natural means
/r/askTRP05/06/18 01:49 AM
2

Invite her out to something that you are already going to. “ hey I’m going to X at Y on Z you should come with me “
/r/askTRP05/06/18 01:32 AM
1

Why would you want to keep a woman around who has rejected you four times. Social proof is best for women you know you CAN fuck if you wanted to but don’t want to at the moment or those you can’t because of some limitation ( work together, friends sister, any “ don’t shit where you eat” scenarios etc ) It’s not social proof, you’re just her beta orbiter but deluding yourself that it’s social proof
/r/askTRP05/06/18 01:18 AM
6

Yeah she’s not interested. Move on
/r/askTRP04/06/18 11:06 PM
2

That’s a way of her saying no... “ since you’re not too sure maybe an another time”!, soft next and try again in a week or two.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:49 PM
2

Plate her for 6-12 months then see her true colours, then decide.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:48 PM
24

“ no”
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:40 PM
2

This was me “ I don’t want to fuck you “ as I’m putting it in lol..
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:55 PM
2

Nah he has to at least escalate
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:45 PM
1

Why do people not approach and then come here and post paragraphs about a girl who doesn’t even know their name
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:31 PM
2

I agree, worked as a bartender/server at this popular restaurant lounge and everyone pretty much ducked each other, it was the order of the day.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:29 PM
1

This is too long to read so I didn’t bother but by scrolling through it I already know the answers and it is in the sidebar....
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:26 PM
2

Learn emotional self control, I used to have this problem too and it presents itself in needy behaviour which is a huge turn off. Watch “ emotional center “ by coach Corey Wayne on YouTube
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:24 PM
7

Start playing sports, basketball etc at your local gym.. it’s never good to burn bridges tbh but you’ll be fine . I still keep in touch with my buddies from high school and I’m in college, I’ve made a lot of acquaintances but my high school friends have somehow remained the close ones regardless how little we talk Good luck my man
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:22 PM
3

Dude, never open with that, I know a lot of PUA tell us to use that direct opener but it doesn’t matter 1) she could have a boyfriend and wants to branch swing 2) already told her she was cute, why give that validation right away, make her earn it 3) a simple “ hey how’s it going” always works for me 4) let her be the one to say “ no” you’re closing the doors partially with that question already
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:21 PM
3

Girls can sense this, nothing dries up pussy like the Sahara dessert as much as needy behaviour does. Do you have a passion ? Find something else more important than girls and they will come. It sounds counter intuitive but it works
/r/askTRP04/06/18 05:48 PM
1

You made a couple of mistakes 1) texting to confirm: once you make a date with a set time and date you do not need to confirm, Its a tough urge to resist but usually the girl will text me “ still on at X time ? “ If you really do need to confirm go with buddy above said, always assume the sale. I’ll text sometimes “ I’ll be X minutes late.. see you soon “ 2) Were you using any plausible deniability ? Or just asking her “ let’s go back to my place” you have to give her a reason no matter how dumb…
/r/askTRP04/06/18 05:46 PM
3

Yeah I did but expect to go through a numerous amount of shit tests on your frame.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:47 PM
2

One step forward two steps back
/r/askTRP03/06/18 07:31 PM
2

Uhh..
/r/askTRP03/06/18 07:28 PM
1

Go the subtle way, being too overt will get her mad and make her shit test you even more, won’t necessarily ruin the attraction but it will just bring unnecessary drama and work
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:07 AM
1

You’re overthinking it.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:39 PM
1

LDR won’t work out anyway but yeah she’s gonna want more commitment on your end before branch swinging
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:36 PM
2

Do what you want and don’t dwell on it. I would have just turned her into a plate to be honest, if she doesn’t cause any drama in your life and fucks you well then there’s no reason to next. But you made your choice
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:00 PM
11

Exactly, I feel no hate. I cannot hate a dog for barking, that’s it nature. It’s the opposite actually now, I love them even more now that I understand them.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 04:02 PM
4

Yeah, there are times it would feel so wrong because it’s against my nature and what I had been taught, but I overcome that wall and implement the TRP toolkit in question and...it works.. then I’m left there in amazement haha
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 06:08 AM
2

Lmao that lil baby reference
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:28 AM
2

Nothing, ignore it like it never happened, don’t even bring it up when you see her.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:26 AM
53

Yeah, my past oneitis brought me here. The angel who wanted to make me wait for sex, turns out had fucked an entire small town. I had so much hate for her until I realized that if it was not for her, I would not have been here or would have rejected these truths as reality. Now, I look back and think she’s the best thing that happened to me, I would thank her personally but my indifference wouldn’t let me, albeit she’s now blocked on everything, it’s liberating.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 05:19 AM
21

Exactly, I try hard to resist the urge to enlighten my friends on this matter but I know at the end of the day they must go through the tunnel to see the light. Thanks for the input
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 05:15 AM
66

Thanks my man. Believe me, when these truths first hit me many months ago I binged and studied on the sidebar as well as the rational male like I would be tested on it. The biggest difference I have noticed is the less I care about the women I am interested in, taking them off the pedestal and focusing on my own goals first, that is when they become more attracted and come in abundance to my life, makes no sense and I have no idea why it works but it works. Who would have thought..
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 05:12 AM
6

Indeed my man, self respect and emotional control, but it wasn’t cheap, it came at a price but it was well worth it. The only thing I struggle with now is believing in “ love” and “ happy marriage” I know it’s possible and many have achieved it, but it’s tough to see it.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 04:58 AM
1

Thanks my man, your experiences of the older enrich us, yeah it was a shock when I discovered this stuff but thankful I did at my young age ( 21 ) ..still wish I had discovered it younger though I won’t lie
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 04:55 AM
4

Used this , can confirm. Or “
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 10:26 PM
2

This
/r/askTRP30/05/18 04:29 AM
1

Sidebar
/r/askTRP30/05/18 04:27 AM
7

1) Don’t shit where you eat, if you didn’t make a move you’re nothing special, she puts on that show probably for other guys, beta bait. 2) 38 years old ? Lol 3) Hb2 ? Lol 4) why didn’t you go for the #close ? I think you may be overanalyzing some of these situations but good luck
/r/askTRP30/05/18 04:23 AM
1

Everything this man has said is true, as a 21 year old in college, I have confirmed it personally through experience or have lived and heard through the experiences of others including but not limited to this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 11:12 PM
3

AWALT doesn’t apply until it finally does ..AWALT
/r/askTRP29/05/18 09:31 PM
1

My man you’re on lucky son of a bitch. I wish I discovered this shit in high school ( 21 and in college right now ) my goodness my life would have been so different, but I don’t regret my mistakes, I’ve learned from them, they are the reason I discovered this sub. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 06:43 PM
2

I don’t think this should be your first priority to be honest
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:42 PM
6

Lol
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:10 AM
9

You’re hamster is on overdrive, she cheated and is cheating on you and you’re too pussy to see it or do anything about it.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 11:50 PM
25

Literally anything works, plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 05:12 PM
1

Your thought process is deeply flawed but good try, congrats on your success though.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 10:13 PM
17

This exact same situation happened to a guy in our social circle. The two had been best friends since fucking middle school until A went and fucked B’s girlfriend. A has been completely banned from our social circle and rightfully so.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 09:52 PM
2

This site is better than WebMD. Problem solved
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:25 AM
2

Are you autistic
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:16 AM
1

Been in this exact situation, expect a fuckton of shit tests, game other women at the same time and you’ll be fine. But yeah a lot of fucking shit tests
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:14 AM
1

You should have known before she was an LTR.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 09:35 AM
2

Lol
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:06 AM
1

She’s off limits for me. Friendship is more important
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 04:04 AM
1

No, Jimmy is a good looking guy , Chazz as well but with the bad boy look
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 03:38 AM
15

Her being interested in me has been brought up before and I do see it but unfortunately for her, due to my friendship, I am off limits.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 02:58 AM
2

It’s no exaggeration unfortunately, I thought it was too. Yeah I learn so much from her
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 02:56 AM
3

Sophomore in college, relatively intelligent in her subject field ( humanities, think social work, religion etc )
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 02:55 AM
9

Haha exactly, you see how the game really works, as satisfying as it is, it’s also depressing sometimes lol
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 10:09 PM
73

Interesting, never thought of that perspective. Definitely a good lesson
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 09:36 PM
46

I’m finding it hard to believe in “ love” and “ marriage” after discovering TRP. It’s tough
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 08:30 PM
3

Always assume attraction. Don’t ask.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:01 AM
1

The one? She doesn’t even know who you are., she unmatched you.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 04:59 AM
5

Co worker ? For the 1,000,000 time. Do not shit where you eat
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:25 PM
2

This man is very very right in every sentence. I can confirm I have been there before I swallowed the painful red pill and the risk is not fucking worth it.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:22 AM
13

I barely even hear “ I’m seeing someone “ or “ I have a boyfriend” it just passes by as if I go deaf for a second... and regardless everyone one of those chicks still hooked up with me. Shut test or not, that’s why I LTR’s are tough for me, because I was that other guy and now I know I’m no exception to the rules of hypergamy.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:19 AM
1

That reality hit me hard, it was painful but I thank contributors such as yourself for giving me the painful medicine. Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:12 AM
1

you remind me of myself like 6 months ago.. minus the fucked up suicidal shit. It hurts but you will get through it, the best part is when you look back and are like “ what the fuck was I thinking” so liberating, just know you’ll get through it.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:02 AM
3

21 years old in College and damn I feel lucky to have discovered it at this age but at the same time can’t help but feel jealous, I wish I discovered it in high school. But as they say it comes when the time is right. Good luck to you all
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 04:08 AM
1

I stopped at “ she is my cousins ex “.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 04:44 PM
4

Most redpill song : too rich for the bitch , 50 cent. This guys is redpill as fuck, I’d be surprised if he didn’t visit here lol
/r/askTRP13/05/18 04:37 PM
2

I think you’re focusing waaayyyy too much on picking up girls and thus losing your outcome indioendence. Girls can tell. Next time game an 1 1/2 train ride not to pick up girls but to do something fun you enjoy in the city and it will be easier to pick up women
/r/askTRP13/05/18 04:36 PM
7

Means exactly that, you’ve probably given off the relationship vibe too soon/clingy/needy and she just wants to hang out have fun and see where it goes. Women who like you help you and that’s what she’s doing, telling you change up before it’s too late.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 10:12 PM
1

Date doesn’t have to be some elaborate planned out event. It’s just any interaction where you create an opportunity for sex to happen. Look up Coach Corey Wayne’s work - good luck!
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:04 PM
5

You discovered TRP and are still in high school ? You lucky son of a bitch, I’m 21 and take it from me, you are lucky!! Damn good luck
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:03 PM
1

Lmao
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:45 PM
1

Agreed, thanks for input
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:14 PM
1

I am the same age as you and I agree with you 100%. The Snapchat technique really works, good to see someone else using that to their advantage. Thanks for your input, I really appreciate it
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:13 PM
1

You are right, I just have learned a lot from TRP. It really gave me a clear vision about the mistakes from my past and why they happened, and now the difference is I see where I’m headed and you are right, I should cut all contact. Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:55 AM
1

Yeah I understand I’m on the road to it so I want to take corrective action. Thanks for the advice, appreciate it
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:38 PM
1

I like to go mini golfing, never failed me once.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 02:35 PM
-3

Yeah he’s insecure
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:52 PM
2

lol you’ll be okay man, just put it in
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:22 AM
7

Yes
/r/askTRP21/04/18 05:08 AM
9

Man I would do the same at a Rihanna concert, id leave my girl in a second for her, lol can’t complain
/r/askTRP21/04/18 05:07 AM
1

Low interest, it’s dropping. Next
/r/askTRP20/04/18 05:30 PM
18

Just keep working at it man, put yourself out there, it gets better. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 05:20 PM
1

Online, 7 years, never met before and wants to get out of it... could be a catfish ... it’s a guy.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 05:26 AM
2

It’s his libido & erection problems . This guy is weird as fuck yeah look at his posts
/r/askTRP10/04/18 03:06 PM
3

You didn’t have a definite date and time set. You let her go for the “ call to confirm” showing you have low value. A man who has an exciting life with a lot of things going on will not let a girl confirm on the day of. There was no date set to begin with.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 05:56 PM
2

Now I know
/r/askTRP05/04/18 03:28 AM
1

And we’re in college unfortunately
/r/askTRP05/04/18 03:27 AM
20

Don’t settle for a maybe date, only a firm confirmation. “ sounds like you’re unsure of your schedule, let’s reschedule to when you are definite you will be free” She will respond with “ okay “ then she wasn’t really interested. If she is, she will give you a definite date and time.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 12:53 AM
1

another one of her orbiters came up to me and told me, the guy pretty much told him what and why he did it ( to win favour ) i had suspected something was up since the guy I gave the advice to was acting very weird around me.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 12:51 AM
1

I was referring more to the fact that’s she’s in my social circle and what effect it would have ( get her other beta orbiters against me etc )
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:01 PM
3

Learned the hard way
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:59 PM
3

Good point, however I did not expect him to turn against me in a hopeless effort just to get this girl to like him
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:58 PM
1

Yeah, he was a sad fucking case and it was getting annoying, she wanted nothing to do with him and I wanted him to get the point and find other girls
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:27 PM
1

We’re in the same social circle, that’s what I meant
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:26 PM
1

No, I was worried because she is in my social circle and the threat of what she would do with the information he sent her ( turn other people against me, tell her orbiters about it etc )
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:23 PM
2

Yeah I learned my lesson fuck
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:22 PM
3

You are right, thanks for the input
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:21 PM
6

How should I play it ? I’m still in a state of shock that he went ahead and did this backstabbing shit
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:19 PM
4

Thanks for the input, I learned my lesson man, I thought I was helping but “ don’t talk about TRP” has its merits
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:18 PM
1

Me and the girl since we are in the same social circle
/r/askTRP04/04/18 01:51 PM
5

Thanks my man, I learned my lesson however
/r/askTRP04/04/18 01:50 PM
13

In regards to the fact that we basically are in the same social circle in college
/r/askTRP04/04/18 01:50 PM
11

I learned, just wanted to help out someone I thought was a friend, he was suffering hard it was tough not to
/r/askTRP04/04/18 01:49 PM
1

Couldn’t have said it any better, thanks! Good lesson for the guys and myself
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 01:18 AM
2

haha I do not plan on it but sure
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 11:44 AM
9

I disagree, black guys are high up on the SMV just as white guys as opposed to the disadvantage brown and Asian guys have
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:16 PM
4

A lot of times “ just be yourself” is used as an excuse to stagnate. If I am perfectly fine the way I am then there is no need to improve and others should accept my current state as so.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:02 PM
12

Yeah doesn’t hurt to be nice
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:11 PM
4

To each their own, I had to take it all at once. Bluemonia was killing me and I needed medication fast.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:48 AM
14

Very good for you Mary, you’ve worked hard for your figure. Enjoy it!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 11:54 PM
1

Learned from that and the other contributors in the manosphere
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 11:53 PM
1

Good point but I’m not ready for those repercussions!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 08:59 PM
4

haha if only it worked that way
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 08:38 PM
36

haha there is this black club in my city and we always make the joke that it’s the one place fat girls will walk in with confidence and expect to score
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 08:37 PM
4

My goodness this exists. Is there one for women interested in fat men ?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 08:32 PM
1

It’s an analogy on The Matrix
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 04:42 PM
2

Failure and pain, I was tired of it. I knew what I was doing clearly was not working, thankfully I had enough reason within me to change and do something about it. When I was first introduced into the manosphere ( TRP, Rational Male, coach Corey ) i went through the depression/anger stage, it was terrible but I would never want it any other way.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 04:41 PM
3

Self improvement. Read the sidebar and hit the gym, focus on yourself. It’s going to fucking suck when you realize your past mistakes/regrets but it’s all part of the process, you’re going to come out a better version of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 05:23 AM
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It can be tough, it’s an easier journey for some but for others acceptance will come with more anger/rage. Thankfully I got all that out of my system. I hope you do too, thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 05:21 AM
5

It’s subjective. But thanks for your opinion
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:11 AM
4

Hey man, if that’s going to help you sleep at night, then yeah sure I am.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:11 AM
1

She is. I don’t escalate beyond that
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 11:16 PM
4

Thanks man, yeah I’m going to, it’s the least I can do since he introduced me to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 07:20 PM
4

His SMV hasn’t changed at all. It’s crazy because his SMV was way above mine when he introduced me to it, now I have surpassed him. Yeah I think I’m going to, I usually would not bother would other people but this would be the least I could do since he introduced me to it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 07:19 PM
3

Thanks man, it really does. The best was getting past the “anger phase” it was like I left winter and spring hath come. I no longer look back with regret, that how I know I’ve progressed. I didn’t know any better
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:35 PM
2

Good stuff man, the journey will be long and hard but so worth it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:33 PM
4

Good question, I expected it. In reality, I have no plan. She is my best friends sister and that is one path I will not cross. I work, go to school, have been lifting consistently for the last 6 months and have improved my physique greatly. She’s just a pre selection tool and I invite her to join me once in a while because we have fun together. I only text her to invite her out/logistics
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:32 PM
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Absolutely right, I can’t tell she is into me but as I stated before, no pussy is worth ruining a friendship and some boundaries can’t be crossed. Yeah it is difficult but that is what TRP is here for. Thanks for the advice
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:28 PM
1

Thank you, I’m sure there will be more lessons from her. It’s just reinforced how accurate and important what we learn from TRP is.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:25 PM
2

What do I tell him ? He’s the one that introduced me to this. I can’t thank him enough and I have told him numerous times but I just don’t know why he has not began on his self improvement journey himself.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:24 PM
7

I’m more comfortable, she has an amazing ass, I let her know it verbally and physically ( can’t keep my hands off )
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:18 PM
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Absolutely, just strengthens my belief in TRP
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:17 PM
11

Exactly, If it wasn’t for him, I can’t think of where I would be without the lessons from this community.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:15 PM
17

You are right, I just don’t know how to go about it. I can’t thank him enough for introducing me to it and I tell him all the time. It set me on my journey of self improvement which has paid great dividends but he has just stagnated, he hasn’t taken any of this information and began to use it, I would love to help him but I just don’t know how.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:14 PM
1

This is playing too much into her frame. I learnt from the seasoned mentors on here and in the manosphere to limit texting for logistics and it has been working perfectly fine. I don’t think I’ll change that
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 02:22 AM
1

As someone born in Africa before moving to North America when I was younger. I can tell you that there is a big difference between Western culture and its affect on women as compared to the more traditional and albeit conservative societies in Africa and other predominantly third world countries. You’re using the right rules, but unfortunately you’re playing in a different game. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 06:21 PM
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This girl told me she slept with 4.5 guys. Now I don’t really know what the 0.5 was about but her explanation was that “ it didn’t really count” . Maybe a midget ? Can’t make this shit up
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 04:09 AM
1

Exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 05:14 PM
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Damn, good lesson/warning for a young guy like me still in college. Hope everything works out man, best wishes
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 11:04 PM
2

Thank you! Time to go focus on my mission
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 03:52 PM
1

Damn exactly, after I learned this stuff after the fact I am able to look back and see what I did wrong. Damn, it’s so cringe and embarrassing sometimes but that a part of the process, makes you so uncomfortable so you never go back. Thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 05:41 AM
1

I was disillusioned man lol , I look back and can’t fucking believe how blind I was. The mind is powerful at playing tricks
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 04:19 AM
3

Scarcity mindset does that to you. And my abundance mentality was nonexistent, drier than the fucking Sahara desert in a drought.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 03:39 AM
2

Thanks my man. Oh absolutely, this was a lesson that I needed to learn and damn am I lucky I learned it. It’s changed my entire perspective. I can’t help but to look back and laugh haha. Let the journey continue, time to get even further out of the trenches. Thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 03:38 AM
3

Surprisingly, there was no pain. I was way over her at this point and had began my TRP journey. It was just disbelief at how ignorant I was and how accurate this sub is. That’s what resonated with me the most.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 01:57 AM
3

I always look at pictures of how I was, that’s the only motivation I need. #neveragain
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 12:28 AM
2

Godspeed homie , thanks and good luck
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 12:27 AM
4

painfully accurate, replace window with online porn. Those were sad times
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 07:48 PM
4

Natural alpha, he was given what some of us have to earn.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 07:45 PM
4

Soon, you’ll be that other guy.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 04:06 PM
5

wow absolutely well said, I could not agree with you more. I hated the pain when I was going through it but now that I look back and how much better I am after finding these inconvenient truths, I realized I NEEDED to go through it in order to change and I can never look back. Thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:31 PM
5

Exactly, I learned that lesson the hard way, the only way. And anytime!
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:25 PM
14

It’s a painful realization but one that is needed.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:24 PM
14

haha we have all been there man. It’s good to look back and be glad to be out of that shit. #nevergain
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:22 PM
3

Thank you, I should be happy I discovered it now! Best of luck to you and thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:21 PM
7

Exactly, that’s what I learned. Looking back I appreciate the pain that I learned from my previous oneitis’. The illusion was finally broken, whether I liked it or not.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:19 PM
5

Absolutely, that’s how I see things now. Thank you very much. The pain that I went through gave me a foundation, it’s the reason I ended up here and if it wasn’t for it, I wouldn’t have been forced to make a change.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:18 PM
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Sad eh , the tricks the mind plays when your in a scarcity mindset.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:16 PM
2

That’s what I do now, I was naive at that time
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:16 PM
4

Very true, good point. You find the light when you see it and I guess this was just my time. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:15 PM
1

Same! That’s the interesting part, you’re nowhere where you want to be but the work has been paying off which has been good motivation . Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 05:53 PM
1

Very true, once you’ve been there it’s #neveragain
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 04:34 PM
1

true man, clothes I bought 5 months ago don’t fit me anymore and clothes that were too small for me before now fit perfectly, it’s a great fucking feeling...other than having to spend more money to buy new clothes now lol but that’s a problem I’d rather have
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 04:34 PM
1

Tough lessons to learn but very worth it
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 01:31 AM
1

Haha sometimes we all need a reality check, no matter how painful. It’s meant to make is better. Thanks for sharing!
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 10:15 PM
2

Thank you for the advice, yeah I used food to deal with stress and struggles, now I found that the gym is a much better friend
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 09:38 PM
3

That’s true, now that I lost weight, a lot more people are being open about how I really was
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 09:37 PM
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because I am far from where I need to be personally, I need to get back on track with school and my finances , I let a lot of unnecessary social distractions get in my way and monk mode is my way of getting back on track. At 21 .. I have a lot of growing up to do.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 06:04 PM
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Yeah it’s ridiculous how much in denial I was, I looked at old photos and could not believe the transformation. sometimes you need a reality check and the timing could not have been better - thanks for sharing!
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:40 PM
1

This is true. I’ll be honest, for me, it started out as a way to get validation after my oneitis ended badly ( no surprise there right) I was filled with revenge and pain, luckily for me I had found the red pill and used the gym as a way to relieve the pain and stress, eventually, I didn’t a shit about her, I stared working out for me and because it felt amazing. I no longer needed to prove something, and when the results began to show, ironically that which had abandoned me before came running …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 06:15 AM
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Very true, the best you can do is hit the gym and work on yourself, for me, that’s my area of improvement after being a fatass in denial, surprisingly my irrational confidence was already high from having a good job and being financially secure, I just needed to work on my body and the change has been ridiculous. Thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 05:42 AM
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